This video is so refreshing. I’ve been trying to distract myself after my breakup it’s still so fresh. We were together for seven years, and he ended things out of nowhere. I can’t stop thinking about him. I still feel like he’s the only one for me.
@EmilyYaser2 күн бұрын
I know how devastating that can be. This was me when my husband left my husband left.
@CeciliaDeangelis-l8i2 күн бұрын
Really? How did you handle it? I feel like I’m losing my mind. I just want him back.
@EmilyYaser2 күн бұрын
I completely understand. I felt the same way. I ended up reaching out to Father Akabu who was recommended by a friend , a spiritual guide who specializes in restoring relationships. He made all the difference for me, he brought my partner back
@CeciliaDeangelis-l8i2 күн бұрын
That sounds incredible. Do you think he could help me? I just can’t imagine my life without him.
@EmilyYaser2 күн бұрын
I’m sure he can. He’s helped so many people in situations like ours.
@MrsMaserekaLA9 ай бұрын
1. Communication 2. Consideration 3. Romance 4. Service 5. Spiritual covering 6. Submission 7. Fun & Play 8. Appreciation 9. Unity 10. Self care
@nyakitimolly3848 ай бұрын
Thanks man
@MaryElizabeth-g1b7 ай бұрын
Thanks, sis.
@MrsMaserekaLA7 ай бұрын
@@MaryElizabeth-g1b my pleasure
@oXMrsWarriorXo Жыл бұрын
I bought the book. I have been married for 17 years but I always look for ways to learn more and how to make my marriage be very happy and last.
@chelsiepackham10 ай бұрын
What do you think?
@JML5425 ай бұрын
What do you think of it?
@mwalters56812 жыл бұрын
These 10 points have helped me realize a whole lot about myself! What I need to do and what I'm doing right. Let me tell you, I'm not quite there but I will be thanks to this new information I've retained from your video. Thank you girl! And on another note: you look gorgeous in those locks!
@JonelleElise Жыл бұрын
Man, I need this book! I’m a newlywed and I definitely have a ways to go. I’m doing some things alright but I’m guilty on some things lol. Love this video!!
@MaryElizabeth-g1b7 ай бұрын
I am so glad you're aware of the spiritual realm and you're educating your viewers. Thanks, sis.
@chinitareid86252 жыл бұрын
I must get your book Congratulations Mighty Woman of God very, very HAPPY👐🏾FOR YOU KAROYNE.
@mercyjohn97349 ай бұрын
1. Communicate 2. Consideration 3. Romance 4. Service 5. Spiritual covering 6. Submission 7. Fun and play 8. Appreciation 9. Unity 10. Self care
@TheLegend-uq1gz9 ай бұрын
Excellent points.
@mwalters56812 жыл бұрын
Point number four is very crucial ☺️ took me a while to learn but I did and it does show your husband you care at the same time as showing God that you care for your man. I learned the hard way 😩🤭
@Nina_Medina2 жыл бұрын
This is awesome, Glory to God🙌 I get so full pf joy to see woman that God is using profoundly in His kingdom and they are in order, loving/respecting their husbands, loving their children💕 Even though they may have wonderful gifts and talents and different ministries, they acknowledge that their marriage comes first and its a ministry within itself because its a reflection of Jesus and His bride💕 We need this more than now in our present generation. I am so grateful for the upcoming challenge and without a doubt will be investing on my marriage through your book☺️ Thank You Jesus for what You are doing and are about to do🙏
@gb7251 Жыл бұрын
Mail is a gift? Never had thought of it that way before…we both open our own, but if I open it all, he wouldn’t even mind. Knowing him, he’d be glad I weeded out the mess and organized the important stuff for him/ us. He is busy! LOL! 😂
@iamlauracharles2 жыл бұрын
I loved this video. I’m single, but this was great food for thought.
@MizzRann Жыл бұрын
These tips are so helpful! Thank you so much.
@QueenSamiyah Жыл бұрын
Great points. It's so interesting how when you have the right relationship many of these tips come naturally
@esthermutua12872 жыл бұрын
Thanks alot for this tips so informative and amaizing
@MariahBobbi3 Жыл бұрын
Thank you I’ve realized all this time that I haven’t been doing my duties as a female. I vow to be more submissive and to watch KZbin videos with my man 🫶🏽. I vow to only work on myself when my man is busy with other more important things in his life then whatever concerns my small teeny tiny female brain. Thank you queen. I hope we can all go back to the times when we let a MAN do what a MAN does! LEAD, PROVIDE, GIVE PERMISSION. Praise be to god amen 🙏🏽
@zakiyapauling3442 Жыл бұрын
God knew I needed this
@mattendo-retrogaminguk35845 ай бұрын
O. M. G. You. Nailed. It! As a guy you totally got it. For me one you brought up that is so important is being on time! I can’t stand being late!
@JLM2 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for talking about respect love and may God bless you.
@TabiaJEdwards Жыл бұрын
"I like being hairy because it makes me warm!" 😂😂😂 I hollered!
@23ieshia2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for their wisdom!!
@selenenarine5304 Жыл бұрын
Hi Cortney, i saw your message and wanted to give you advice. A great scripture that is super helpful is Matthew 7:1-6. And Matthew 7:12-14 You see, before you ask not to be yelled at or made fun of, you must first work on yourself. This is just an example. * As you work on yourself you can talk to your spouse and apologize and let him know your aware that you have been making fun of him and you became aware of how hurtful it can be. This can be an opportunity to tell him that when he does __ it makes you feel ex Sad, hurt... Then you can agree to be patient with each other as you try to change.And remind each other / hold each other accountable when crossing this new boundary you have placed. Ex. This is how you can hold him accountable.. Hey baby, your joke was hurtful. Remember that we said we were not going to be making fun of each other. * Make sure your not agree when saying this.
@greenbenjimin3372 жыл бұрын
Where is the link for the 10 things wives should not say to their husbands? This is a excellent video! Thank you! It confirmed many things I talk to my wife about.
@karolyneroberts2 жыл бұрын
Sharing the link tomorrow. I will come back here and add the link once it’s up
@greenbenjimin3372 жыл бұрын
@@karolyneroberts thank you! I'm looking forward to that link
@karolyneroberts2 жыл бұрын
@@greenbenjimin337 Here is the link: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jn-0ZGaMbdWFZ8k
@greenbenjimin3372 жыл бұрын
@@karolyneroberts thank you so much. I plan to buy your book as well.
@karolyneroberts2 жыл бұрын
@@greenbenjimin337 aww THANK YOU!
@Jenny-fl5cn2 жыл бұрын
I can't wait to listen to this.
@JacylnFord5 ай бұрын
🎉Thank You For Making This Video🎉
@chinitareid86252 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on your B❤❤K MIGHTY WOMAN OF GOD Agape love to you.
@karolyneroberts2 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU SO MUCH!
@destinytianna2 жыл бұрын
These tips are so good!! I’m not married yet but I can defo apply some of them now with my fam ❤
@QueenCandace87 Жыл бұрын
Honey when you apply these you will be his “good thing” for life!! I hope you find a great man to marry!!❤
@LIFEOFMARIAHEVERYTHINGNURSING Жыл бұрын
Yesss and make it into a habit wayyy before our husband comes. I'm with you as well sis
@keyahninaylor49744 ай бұрын
Same
@marygoodman95302 жыл бұрын
Thank you, awesome video 💛🙏🕊️
@Realaliatianna5 ай бұрын
I really like what you said, you made some really great points. God is preparing me for An amazing man and he deserves the best of me, truly. Thanks for this !😊
@JoeZasada2 ай бұрын
Good vid, thanks!
@mercykenh2096 Жыл бұрын
Wow, it is my first time here, and I love every moment here. I want one of the books, please watching you from Australia 🇦🇺 🙏
@BonnieKetterman-qw8vd10 ай бұрын
Thank u that was so helpful. I always learn so much it's such a blessing
@lyndamartinez2257 Жыл бұрын
so much wisdom!!!
@ruthhailu9886 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Sisters in Christ 🙏 This is gold 🪙🪙🪙🪙
@VEAWAY3 ай бұрын
Being true with your Femininity is overall the most important and powerful part about being a woman, wife, mother, nurturer.
@natayizyasopye693716 күн бұрын
I had a man that left the relationship because he thought I did not respect him enough. I want to be learn to be better for my next man. And definitely get myself ready for marriage
@shawnhollins3315 Жыл бұрын
Today, I came across this channel, and I'm so glad I did. Very inspiring!
@followinghisway7705 Жыл бұрын
Beautifully described. So many of those way seem like "duh" but you descibe the way so well.
@tierraholden9377 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, I was out of practice and let mommy mode take over then pay attention to my husband. I’m going to change. ❤
@Chillitz8 ай бұрын
My husband is like you, very excited about the mail haha. I don't get it but there he is right at 12pm checking the mail. He is even excited to see what mail i got too. If i don't open it right away he just stares at it like you gonna open it or what!? "Can i open it"?
@Happycactushomes Жыл бұрын
Just ordered your book. Looking forward to diving in
@WivesofBishopAzariyah Жыл бұрын
Very nice message ❤
@nonsouwaborg233 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing
@CDot300 Жыл бұрын
I needed this
@cryptoairdroplover7172 Жыл бұрын
If I may add with a point of correction? The spouse should and should be best of friends! I mean... How can two become one and they can't do, talk and share everything together? Talk about things you'd normally talk to your "SOCIAL" friend about your marriage challenges, etc.
@Xx.bygracethrufaith Жыл бұрын
When she said be ready to leave on time I FELT THAT... kinda scary lol
@samhawkeye092 жыл бұрын
Will you be doing a video on the topic of submission? I saw the interview that you did with Eliyah, but would love to see a more in-depth video.
@nizawei8474 Жыл бұрын
I love your video thanks
@theparttimehomemaker2 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Karolyne xx
@TheKingAndQueenionaire Жыл бұрын
Thank you, the Lord led me here today. Thank you for sharing this information. I am sure it will be valuable for me 🩷🧡❤️🩶🖤🤎💜🩵💙💚🤍.
@Lex.aubreyy5 ай бұрын
Needed this
@reesepieces922 жыл бұрын
I'm ready for it to drop so I can learn
@karolyneroberts2 жыл бұрын
Here is the link: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jn-0ZGaMbdWFZ8k
@jeska7309 Жыл бұрын
Omg the mail thing is so true. I use to open his mail until one day he told me to just leave it for him so he can be the one to open it 😅 have never opened his mail since 😂
@Cantthinkofwhatshouldgohere2 жыл бұрын
Well done!
@jewishbride5010 Жыл бұрын
In accordance with this word ephesians 5:33, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 I bind myself to know how to respect my god-ordained spouse while binding to hell every lack of foresaking to respect my god-ordained spouse, in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah ❤!
@sandrave6056 Жыл бұрын
thankyou sis ❤❤
@JacylnFord5 ай бұрын
I love mail too.
@prettymphilembatha414 Жыл бұрын
Wisdom as expected sis ❤❤❤❤ very practical... I want the book for myself and other ladies in my life ❤
@bebebe7666 Жыл бұрын
Boy mine is self centric in his small mind he is the center of the universe and everything revolves around him.
@priscillachinsembu466911 ай бұрын
Has he always been like that?
@bebebe766611 ай бұрын
@@priscillachinsembu4669 judging by his relationship with his siblings l can tell for sure he is that way, now am battling to ensure my son doesn't turn that way.
@kimanimzalendo36710 ай бұрын
Excellent!
@cizzellegarises Жыл бұрын
I loved these❤
@brittanynicole9318 Жыл бұрын
I never open mail that isn't mine. 😂
@JonelleElise Жыл бұрын
Ordered!!
@cmair77 Жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@g-4orceathletics876 ай бұрын
What is the name of the video that talks about spirits? That is what I’m struggling with right now
@kay22100 Жыл бұрын
Never thought about the mail thing !! LOL I always open his mail 🥴
@lindajohnson28169 ай бұрын
Congratulations ❤
@lizauger9828 Жыл бұрын
So good
@anonanon8974 Жыл бұрын
W-O-A-H. Coming underneath the mission of your husband. 🤯 SO GOOD! I’m having a really difficult time with the idea of people needing separate time in marriages (I have never been married or in a serious relationship.) If a guy wants to do something alone, and he doesn’t want me to join him and that makes me feel hurt and unwanted, all I’m REALLY doing is intercepting his mission. I’ll have to remember this phrase thanks!!
@nedumomeogu Жыл бұрын
You are amazing
@denzylwalwyn91248 ай бұрын
Week sullen day joy
@thegirlwiththesword2 ай бұрын
I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE WHO LOVED OPENING MAIL 😅😅😭
@Lisa-n5j4 ай бұрын
How do you get him to answer question #3
@chinitareid86252 жыл бұрын
Yes you are Abosolutelly right his mail is his he is to open his mail.
@stephaniealvarado956 Жыл бұрын
I feel like my boyfriend has really let me get my feminine side and we’ve been together for 4 year so I just want to care for him more he deserves jt
@danilaroche115611 ай бұрын
4 years? Hon, that's too long unless your teenagers. If not, he should propose.
@priscillachinsembu466911 ай бұрын
Mmmm 4 years????? Girl
@fittaetastic2 жыл бұрын
Yes! Amazing video on how to be Kingdom wives if you’re not already one 🙏🏾❤️ God is hiding me (preparing me ) for what’s to come !
@orarichman9948 Жыл бұрын
How To Respect Your Husband 1. Never loud talk him in front of his family or friends. 2. When he has male company over, go to another room in the house and wait until his company leaves. No man wants other men eyeing his wife. 3. Respect his space when he needs to relax and sleep. Especially if he is trying relax for work the next day or he just got off of work. 4. Never embarrass him in public. Nothing turns a man off more than a woman that wants to argue and discuss his private business in public. If you have to discuss matters, do it in the privacy of your home. Not while the man is in his damn car and driving. AT HOME ONLY!!!! 5. Don't make advances at his best friend to make him jealous. 6. Never compare him to another man! 7. Don't discuss your private conversations with your family members or friends. 8. I don't care how mad your ass is, DON'T SPILL HIS DAMN SECRETS!!!! 9. Don't disrespect his parents or loved ones. If he is co-parenting, don't try to play the mediator between him and his child's mother. Respect the fact that they will always have that bond as long as they share a child or children. 10. Don't dress like a damn whore!!! Dress with class and cover your damn body up!!! Them breasts, legs, and thighs, and kitty cat is for him to look at only! 11. Don't travel anywhere without asking his damn permission!!! Never travel alone without your damn husband!!!! 12. Obey your husband at all times, be submissive! 13. Honor him at all times 14. Have his food, clothes, and bath water ready on time!!! That means have his clothes laid out twice a day! In the morning before work and in the evening after work. Breakfast in the morning, lunch prepared for work, and dinner in the evening. And don't forget to massage his damn back and feet when he gets home from work. 15. Let him know at all times how much money your ass spent and on what! Men like to see where the hell their money is going!!!! 16. NEVER KEEP SECRETS!!!! Give him the password to all of your emails and your cell phone. Including banking information!!! The judge will be on his side in divorce court if he tells the judge you have been harboring secret bank accounts and withholding financial information from him. Let him know everything and I mean every DAMN THING!!!! Now this is really how you respect your husband young lady. Coming from a 48 year old experienced woman from Arkansas.💯 To Ann : To be submissive simply applies with you loving, obeying, and honoring your husband or fiance. Showing him the utmost respect and putting his needs first . Don't nobody come before your man, except God. He always comes first and should never play second fiddle to NO ONE!!! Family and friends don't come first when it comes down to your husband. He gets first bids on everything. It's okay to love and be there for your family, but you did promise God when you got married that you will FORSAKEN ALL OTHERS!!! You are supposed to become subject up under him and obey him. His no means no and his yes means yes. For example if you ask him can you go to a concert, and he said no, you have to come under subjection and respect him and don't go to that damn concert. He is not controlling you when he forbid you to do something. He is a leader of his household and you belong to him. When you married him, you have given him legal power and authority over you. No man needs a woman that is disobedient and unruly towards him. Men was given dominion over the earth including his very own wife. According to the book of Genesis in the bible, men were appointed to rule the entire earth. It is what it is okay. So here's your answer to being submissive.💯
@annmueni8052 Жыл бұрын
Hey dear kindly teach me how can be submissive love and respect always my man told me to be submissive and respect him and love him
@ogarcia5247 Жыл бұрын
@@annmueni8052 😂😁
@zippyblessed839 Жыл бұрын
Wow thank u. Im not married but this is something I will take in ❤
@dominicasesedi1087 Жыл бұрын
Thank you summarizing it all didnt have to listen since having network issues...❤
@WomanofGod_ Жыл бұрын
Wow😮… sounds like a lot of work but I’ll keep that in mind once I get a husband!
@Kiyannadaboss Жыл бұрын
Hey. Where did you get the shirt ?
@mistermacnill992216 күн бұрын
The number one way to keep your husband is to put him first and never let another man think he can get you.
@daughteroftheking43012 жыл бұрын
U have an e-book sis?
@karolyneroberts2 жыл бұрын
Yes!! The ebook is available on Amazon :)
@RaeleighMarkets2 жыл бұрын
Goodness right out the gate with #2 I'm super guilty 😔 😭
@karolyneroberts2 жыл бұрын
It’s ok sis atleast you are honest with yourself which means there is room for growth! I’m not perfect either. We’re on this together
@ez-g3090 Жыл бұрын
You should have stayed so gle. No good man should have to be burdened by your toxic feminism practices.
@tajirikingking2619 Жыл бұрын
My sister how can you miss it. The ONLY thing tht really matters to husband in a marriage from point number 1 to point endless is 1 word only: RESPECT! RESPECT! RESPECT! RESPECT! RESPECT! RESPECT! RESPECT! RESPECT!
@TanyaJackson-no2rs Жыл бұрын
Only if the man is worth respecting, otherwise he can do one and jog off.
@priscillachinsembu466911 ай бұрын
@@TanyaJackson-no2rswhy would you be with someone who isn't worth it????
@TanyaJackson-no2rs11 ай бұрын
@@priscillachinsembu4669 why would you?
@priscillachinsembu466911 ай бұрын
@@TanyaJackson-no2rs I wouldn't.... But you gave a very strange answer which got me thinking why you'd get with someone who isn't deserving???
@priscillachinsembu466911 ай бұрын
@@TanyaJackson-no2rs I wouldn't.... But you gave a very strange answer which got me thinking why you'd get with someone who isn't deserving???
@denzylwalwyn91249 ай бұрын
Week day hand joy
@silentviewer Жыл бұрын
Hi, I’m new to your channel. I don’t understand the “let your husband open his mail” part. What if your husband want you to handle the paperwork?
@karolyneroberts Жыл бұрын
If he wants you to then that’s fine! Just don’t open his mail without asking first
@juliamartin9047 Жыл бұрын
Geez I definitely fine it disrespectful if my husband opens or takes my mail 😅boy does he need to watch this video. It can surely go both ways with love and respect.
@jamesnash6101 Жыл бұрын
I like all of these suggestions. But the one that stands out is not being preoccupied with that phone. Yes.... Turn it completely off and put it away. I have seen this many times. He is not on his phone and therefore, he's in the moment. But she is so addicted to that phone, she's completely oblivious.
@denzylwalwyn91249 ай бұрын
God keep life hifeyn woulpe and ming siges
@JML5425 ай бұрын
4:46... it's illegal to without permission open mail not addressed to you! Why would it even be an option to open somebody else's mail?
@CopperColouredQueen3 ай бұрын
#5 Most resonated with me MOST, Lord forgive me.
@mitra3021 Жыл бұрын
I always let him open the mail... even my mail with exciting things in it. He leaves the bills for me to open :( I think he needs to hear this part of the advice instead lol
@cortneywright595 Жыл бұрын
How do you get the same respect from your husband!?! I hate always hearing about what I the woman needs to do better for the husband.
@yojanadebkota3768 Жыл бұрын
I think we can’t change other people 😢just ourselves, no body is perfect but for baby we want to save relations sometimes
@tamjamtv Жыл бұрын
Simple don't marry him if he isn't displaying respect to you, kindness or consideration before when you're dating.
@SymonnePat Жыл бұрын
I believe if it’s the right one they will in return do what you do for them.
@belawamonajulie3964 Жыл бұрын
Let’s work on ourselves … God will do the rest
@QueenCandace87 Жыл бұрын
See what you said?? “I hate always hearing about what a woman needs to do better for her husband”. Men had to always hear women bashing them on social media. Saying that ain’t nothing, how they cheat all of the time, etc. It is your responsibility to choose the right man to respect, and then he will respect you. That’s how that works. Is not fair for men always hearing how to respect women, but no one wants to hear about how to respect your man. That’s why women are talking about all of the thing they done for him, but he still left. Well, did you respect him?! The one thing he needed from you, you did not want to give him. Respect him and he will stay with you forever.
@denzylwalwyn91249 ай бұрын
Love yes
@JennaQuinterАй бұрын
I do all of these yet my husband sent me this video. Now I realize he does zero of these things for me so I’d like a video created by you for me to send to him……
@JennaB0benna4 ай бұрын
Girl I’ve got the worst attitude. I feel like I can’t change and I really feel like I try 😭😭😭
@albertononunu8686 Жыл бұрын
I don't think this is what respect means for most men. Maybe the video should have a different title.
@lydiavl19934 ай бұрын
What is respect for husband according to you?
@heatherlove5989 Жыл бұрын
That mail tip is super irrelevant to most couples I would think
@heatherlove5989 Жыл бұрын
Also, my husband doesn’t seem to care how he looks. It makes me sad. I try to help.
@patriciaellen2794Ай бұрын
How long have you been married? I have about 50 years behind my belt with two marriages. I’ve learned a lot through experience.
@NAJCCАй бұрын
So what do you do when you already do ALL of this and it just isn't enough?
@jk2642 Жыл бұрын
lol at 6 minutes, "kinda TMI" naw after 17 years of marriage and 6 kids (6 births/6 csections) I dont think anythings TMI anymore haha good tips, I want to add, have sex often. Men need it more than women, and its the main way they feel loved and wanted. It was hard for me to get in the mood when my kids were tiny, I was tired (I had 3 in diapers in the beginning of marriage) and our relationship suffered for awhile because of it. After awhile we just had to figure out a good time to make love when we were both energized and not dragging ourselves to bed.