How To Keep a Text Conversation Going with Your Crush

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The Josh Speaks

The Josh Speaks

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Want to stop sending boring text messages and know how to keep a conversation going with your crush or with a girl you like? Here are my tips for having a text conversation, how to text someone without being annoying or boring, and how to successfully text someone you like.
Most of us never move a text conversation to an in-person one which ends up killing the attraction in most conversations. There are a few things you can do to change that which I'll cover in this video. Here are my #Motivational #TextingTips to help you connect with that girl a lot better and #BeYourBestSelf!
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⏱️Timestamps:
0:00 - Introduction
0:28 - Plan your conversations ahead of time
1:19 - My 20 ice breaker conversation starters guide
1:32 - Share personal stories and ask deeper questions
2:30 - Don't ask permission to ask a question
3:13 - Try not to drop too many compliments
3:35 - Make the transition from texting to talking in person
4:27 - Question of the video
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@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 5 жыл бұрын
Want to know how to text your crush to get them to like you? Check out this playlist: 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/eIaXdp-jqcp5f8U QUESTION: What do you feel is holding you back from going from text to in person? Leave your comment below!
@pokygaming3877
@pokygaming3877 5 жыл бұрын
i know what are you taking about and if i was live in europe it was much ez but i live in israel and its hard to get israeli girl :(
@conorcollins2772
@conorcollins2772 5 жыл бұрын
I'm shy
@sethveal1526
@sethveal1526 5 жыл бұрын
I have that galactus too
@ultrafox2984
@ultrafox2984 5 жыл бұрын
I need to know if you like a girl and you wanna ask her out but your friends with her and u don’t wanna mess that up
@MadelinesVlog
@MadelinesVlog 5 жыл бұрын
UltraFox 29, then just wait and figure out if she likes u back. And if u want to ask your friend out, u should kind of hint at it
@bluelulette
@bluelulette 4 жыл бұрын
the fact that i need to watch this makes me so depressed
@mollyr1762
@mollyr1762 4 жыл бұрын
lmao same 😭
@isaiaharmand9901
@isaiaharmand9901 4 жыл бұрын
It shouldn't it's difficult to have a long interesting conversation
@HUGEsSam
@HUGEsSam 4 жыл бұрын
@@mollyr1762 same here
@tipppyy
@tipppyy 4 жыл бұрын
I was just thinking the same thing 😔
@casperjosephine3326
@casperjosephine3326 4 жыл бұрын
You’re not the only one
@looniemoonie88
@looniemoonie88 5 жыл бұрын
He protecc He atacc But most importantly He won't text bacc
@CrispySZN
@CrispySZN 5 жыл бұрын
I will 😂
@assmuncher1913
@assmuncher1913 5 жыл бұрын
Yess
@DAVID-uu2zt
@DAVID-uu2zt 5 жыл бұрын
Loonie Moonie lol
@stax3511
@stax3511 5 жыл бұрын
UG Beast 😂
@aotbruh4612
@aotbruh4612 4 жыл бұрын
she*
@oscardejunior354
@oscardejunior354 5 жыл бұрын
I followed his tips and she blocked me
@onyx9381
@onyx9381 5 жыл бұрын
oscar de junior lmao
@shikaarpanday6937
@shikaarpanday6937 5 жыл бұрын
😂😂 sorry bro
@goateye6596
@goateye6596 5 жыл бұрын
Lol
@vongolaprimo451
@vongolaprimo451 5 жыл бұрын
That's mean she just dont like you
@yawpeprah1841
@yawpeprah1841 5 жыл бұрын
oscar de junior hahahaha this killed me bro😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂🤣😂😂
@brennan9504
@brennan9504 4 жыл бұрын
Hey Hey So do you believe in ghosts? “You can’t reply to this conversation”.
@mogomighty102
@mogomighty102 4 жыл бұрын
ツReflex I know this is a joke but it all depends on context!
@itsaaryabitch
@itsaaryabitch 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@aslichannel4600
@aslichannel4600 3 жыл бұрын
😅😅😂
@dustinmeek4032
@dustinmeek4032 3 жыл бұрын
🤣😂
@zelly7643
@zelly7643 5 жыл бұрын
“Hey Playa”
@kimathitalton8709
@kimathitalton8709 5 жыл бұрын
Lmaooo yea I saw that
@eddiemurphie9848
@eddiemurphie9848 5 жыл бұрын
Wtf is ur profile pic?
@a.mklaklinski2231
@a.mklaklinski2231 5 жыл бұрын
Wtf is that profile pic lmao?
@eddiemurphie9848
@eddiemurphie9848 5 жыл бұрын
K den ._.
@AronDaKid
@AronDaKid 5 жыл бұрын
What do you mean “wtf is that profile pic” that’s his face stop being racist
@antivraxxer3451
@antivraxxer3451 4 жыл бұрын
When your in quarantine and can’t meet up
@surpriseddog
@surpriseddog 3 жыл бұрын
No one: Me: Do you believe in Ghost 2 years later My Crush: No Me 0.1 Seconds later: Cool
@souzysou1922
@souzysou1922 3 жыл бұрын
😂😅
@EmilyAlberici
@EmilyAlberici 3 жыл бұрын
Omg 💀💀💀🤣
@gimmecheesecake
@gimmecheesecake 3 жыл бұрын
Lmao😂
@lifeless123
@lifeless123 3 жыл бұрын
Atleast Yours replied :)
@dustinmeek4032
@dustinmeek4032 3 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing so I tried it on an ugly fat girl and got ghosted even there
@muthuvadivuarunachalam7864
@muthuvadivuarunachalam7864 4 жыл бұрын
Me: what's your favourite movie? She:I don't watch movies Yeah she's very interested in me😏
@jollylawyer9999
@jollylawyer9999 4 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣👏👏
@phixo_lyn_xol6606
@phixo_lyn_xol6606 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@YuGioh66
@YuGioh66 4 жыл бұрын
RocketBoy lol
@aslichannel4600
@aslichannel4600 3 жыл бұрын
😂😅
@souzysou1922
@souzysou1922 3 жыл бұрын
Lol😅
@marcosmendoza4820
@marcosmendoza4820 5 жыл бұрын
What if we're ghetto asf like we don't really ask eachother what movie we like
@Juzzzer
@Juzzzer 5 жыл бұрын
this is my situation
@kimathitalton8709
@kimathitalton8709 5 жыл бұрын
Then ask her what her favorite type of weed is. (In all seriousness tho this guy's advice it shit)
@Juzzzer
@Juzzzer 5 жыл бұрын
Kimathi Talton she don’t smoke and there’s different types of weed?
@kimathitalton8709
@kimathitalton8709 5 жыл бұрын
@@Juzzzeryea different strands
@garbo2416
@garbo2416 5 жыл бұрын
KungFi how are you ghetto and don’t know about weed
@youngaamez3550
@youngaamez3550 6 жыл бұрын
The only thing holding me back from moving a texting conversation to a person conversation is... we live in different states 😂😭
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 6 жыл бұрын
Long distance is hard but that shouldn't stop you guys from going on Skype or chatting on the phone, those are just other ways to have a deeper connection when your long distance
@youngaamez3550
@youngaamez3550 6 жыл бұрын
The Josh Speaks you right man. I've talked to her on the phone once but I'ma try to do it more. Also video chatting
@aryarajmane6393
@aryarajmane6393 5 жыл бұрын
Living in different States?!?! Bro, I have a crush on this girl and then I moved and now she lives on the other side of the Earth. =)
@ChadThunderDong
@ChadThunderDong 5 жыл бұрын
Fraser Nah, we all just mutually agree that California sucks.
@atharxv
@atharxv 5 жыл бұрын
Same shit going down here too 😥
@cadenmcknight5829
@cadenmcknight5829 4 жыл бұрын
Girl: Lets start talking face to face a little more Shy Guy: Facetimes her
@thephilosopher5799
@thephilosopher5799 4 жыл бұрын
Honestly it's better talking to them face to face. Get a friend and have your friend and you sit next to your crush and their friends. Sit at least a 5 feet away from your crush. Lol I used to tease my crush a little and then talk about casual stuff. Not that hard. What's hard is talking using technology.
@babatundeismail6732
@babatundeismail6732 4 жыл бұрын
@@thephilosopher5799 I agree i'm finding text conversations tougher to maintain than in person especially struggling during this quarantine to keep her interest through messaging
@papawuise6820
@papawuise6820 4 жыл бұрын
Now that's an order
@sportsguy5984
@sportsguy5984 3 жыл бұрын
😂
@sportsguy5984
@sportsguy5984 3 жыл бұрын
@@thephilosopher5799 i agree it easy to talk to them texting sucks i screw up all the time
@goprovlogboy_
@goprovlogboy_ 5 жыл бұрын
who else is here because she only sends back “ok” “sure” “lol” & THINGS THAT MAKE YOU WANNA CRY BECAUSE SHE IS NOT INTERESTED
@7rhtx968
@7rhtx968 5 жыл бұрын
Brooo this girl likes me and I do too but I’m dry asf 😂
@Wrestlinggod8484
@Wrestlinggod8484 Жыл бұрын
Hasn’t happened to me yet but I’m scared it will
@chloecooper4189
@chloecooper4189 4 жыл бұрын
Him: people will spend days weeks months just texting Me: 2 years
@erikoomen6462
@erikoomen6462 5 жыл бұрын
Arek boosted lol
@Milkisicky
@Milkisicky 5 жыл бұрын
"I was looking for movies to watch, do you have any recommendations?" "I think horror movies are SO cool. Which ones do you like?" "The Titanic is totally a movie you should watch, Rose reminds me of you." :)
@OminousBlast
@OminousBlast 5 жыл бұрын
yeet :P daddy. Please teach me. Be my teacher. NO.. BE MY SENSEI
@arielnagar6556
@arielnagar6556 5 жыл бұрын
@@saitama5291 Why?
@blacksenpai3835
@blacksenpai3835 5 жыл бұрын
@@Milkisicky yo help me
@Milkisicky
@Milkisicky 5 жыл бұрын
@@OminousBlast at your service, baby!
@thecoldcloud6650
@thecoldcloud6650 5 жыл бұрын
Bro i like this guys tips but i absolutely hate the way he talks
@soldado-wb1sk
@soldado-wb1sk 5 жыл бұрын
I don’t like how he moves his mouth
@cadencestull8464
@cadencestull8464 5 жыл бұрын
And the way he looks when he talks hahz
@tduuub443
@tduuub443 4 жыл бұрын
Hes trying so hard to be a normie youtuber
@styleitaliano5851
@styleitaliano5851 4 жыл бұрын
@@soldado-wb1sk lol
@creator4734
@creator4734 4 жыл бұрын
sometimes im suck . but mostly when i chat with my friends they always compliment me saying that im a really funny person but when it comes to my crush...darn it
@d.gersby5080
@d.gersby5080 4 жыл бұрын
I'm more of an in-person talker. I suck at texting! That is why quarantine's so hard nowadays because the girl I like won't even get a chance to actually talk to me in person I'm stuck at wooing her through texting. And I don't know how to keep her interested.
@jenjen_oreo
@jenjen_oreo 3 жыл бұрын
bro i rly cant tell if u suck at texting or not from this comment , u seem really friendly n cool tho like bruh
@scruffyRe
@scruffyRe 2 жыл бұрын
@@jenjen_oreo bro fuck it bro I’m just gonna meet up with her next weekend and go on from there so we can get the awkward shit lifted from me or her
@two-to-tango
@two-to-tango 2 жыл бұрын
same
@thesevenkingswelove9554
@thesevenkingswelove9554 2 жыл бұрын
Same..
@lackoflazy2956
@lackoflazy2956 5 жыл бұрын
Me: do you think ghosts are real? Her: are you dumb?
@jacobsutton1083
@jacobsutton1083 4 жыл бұрын
69: are you dumb. stupid or dumb? Huh?
@juliet8314
@juliet8314 5 жыл бұрын
I had to stop texting my crysh and watch this video☺
@tazbihahmed4908
@tazbihahmed4908 5 жыл бұрын
I did the same xD
@tristann4066
@tristann4066 4 жыл бұрын
Same 😭
@kiarasky7610
@kiarasky7610 4 жыл бұрын
Same though 🤣
@lex4992
@lex4992 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@thephilosopher5799
@thephilosopher5799 4 жыл бұрын
Lol
@ianc.felicianomendoza2769
@ianc.felicianomendoza2769 6 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I needed today!! Thanks Josh, you're the man!
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 6 жыл бұрын
Awesome, I'm happy it was helpful!
@Riley-jr8zs
@Riley-jr8zs 3 жыл бұрын
Never thaught id be taking advice from a fully grown man with a 50 cm galactus toy in his room
@user-zt5hi2ln2f
@user-zt5hi2ln2f 6 жыл бұрын
You are such a genuine person, Josh. Thanks for the advice.
@girlynathalie
@girlynathalie 4 жыл бұрын
The fact that I had to come to this video for help💀😂
@michellekahlez2105
@michellekahlez2105 3 жыл бұрын
I FELT U. IT HURTED. IM SOOO DRY😭
@renjiklein3623
@renjiklein3623 4 жыл бұрын
Me : Hey She : heyya Me : Soooo you like pizza crust or nah? *Blocked *
@mohamadkadri9924
@mohamadkadri9924 3 жыл бұрын
Bro wtf 😂😂😂
@Pradaa
@Pradaa 5 жыл бұрын
He’s the biggest virgin I’ve seen
@lightbluej9411
@lightbluej9411 5 жыл бұрын
Endless Power yet you searched a video how to text your crush and watched it
@testicleetus5298
@testicleetus5298 5 жыл бұрын
Says the Fortnite player
@qlvinc
@qlvinc 5 жыл бұрын
I actually got this in my recommended but reading the comments made me click off this video I came just to see what this guy had to say but never mind lol
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 5 жыл бұрын
Want to know if I'm still a virgin? Watch this video. It will explain everything... kzbin.info/www/bejne/o2GpdHepZpeZZpI
@blnkzz1778
@blnkzz1778 5 жыл бұрын
Endless Power hahaha same here
@elijah-epapi-trk-5317
@elijah-epapi-trk-5317 6 жыл бұрын
Extremely helpful and inspiring videos, love you josh keep on growing
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks, I'm glad you enjoyed it!
@muzamilmadow4103
@muzamilmadow4103 Жыл бұрын
Fuck you r not helping
@IOFIsickness
@IOFIsickness 5 жыл бұрын
Thats a problem i have with the girls, keeping a text conversation, i get bored quickly as girls never text anything interesting so i end up giving up and stop answering them.
@riotkiwii7180
@riotkiwii7180 5 жыл бұрын
A understand u my dude
@caleb_gonsalves
@caleb_gonsalves 4 жыл бұрын
Great point, most girls don't have anything interesting to say
@anastasiadicoski9591
@anastasiadicoski9591 4 жыл бұрын
Sexist
@mohamadkadri9924
@mohamadkadri9924 3 жыл бұрын
@@LoganLemaster most of time i am at home doing nothing so i can't send streaks... Any options?
@yaboy1689
@yaboy1689 3 жыл бұрын
@@anastasiadicoski9591 how?
@Ebonnyprince2k24
@Ebonnyprince2k24 5 жыл бұрын
Y’all taking game advice from this man 😂
@mea-kc2je
@mea-kc2je 5 жыл бұрын
anthony hunter a guy who likes his own comment's opinion is irrelevant.
@tristann4066
@tristann4066 4 жыл бұрын
Ha
@Tostemac
@Tostemac 5 жыл бұрын
It's kind of difficult for me to come up with openers that are different from how did your day go. What if I text something like "if it's alright with you there has been something on my mind for a while that I would like to ask you about". I like the comparison of too many compliments being like too many spices, I actually tried that with a girl once, sadly the conversation went nowhere, great video!
@DJcyberslash
@DJcyberslash 4 жыл бұрын
That opener sound weak and wimpy to me. It makes you come off as not very manly. Good try though!
@tomdavies9144
@tomdavies9144 3 жыл бұрын
Great, useful content. You've helped me a lot and I respect what you're trying to do
@jblovesjustice1621
@jblovesjustice1621 5 жыл бұрын
You are so underrated u deserve a lot more subs
@SheevPalps868
@SheevPalps868 4 жыл бұрын
Well, the fact that I'm here just shows my luck with girls 😬😂
@JOFFICER
@JOFFICER 6 жыл бұрын
Aren't text going to be bland because you can't really show them how your feeling is it better to talk to them in person
@ethanolol3895
@ethanolol3895 6 жыл бұрын
Yeah thats ideal but the question is are they interested enough to the point of wanting to talk to you in person or do something with you
@JOFFICER
@JOFFICER 6 жыл бұрын
Ethanolol oh ok thanks for replying
@ethanolol3895
@ethanolol3895 6 жыл бұрын
Jay np i’m always here if you need advice
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 6 жыл бұрын
I would say I agree with Ethan on this, when it comes to texting you have a higher chance of that person responding if they feel like they have a deeper connection with you. In some cases, it's better to talk to them in person because you can develop that deeper connection and then lead it back to texting.
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 6 жыл бұрын
Ethan has been around for a while, he's the go-to guy when it comes to sharing advice and tips
@zexxus8348
@zexxus8348 2 жыл бұрын
I think the issue here is if you try to conversate with a girl thru text before having spoken to her in person is most likely gonna lead to dry texts. From my personal experience, I've had way better texting conversations AFTER having conversated already in person. If you meet a girl thru a dating app and go straight to getting her number and texting, then it will be a lot more annoying to keep a text convo going. Either way these are still good tips.
@andrewharris5926
@andrewharris5926 3 жыл бұрын
this man said do you believe in ghost bruh WOW
@jpledesma834
@jpledesma834 5 жыл бұрын
Excellent vid thxs josh
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks JP
@mikeydaking9119
@mikeydaking9119 5 жыл бұрын
Getting advise from a guy who has action figures on his shelf, yea im out😂
@MyMy-cz7mx
@MyMy-cz7mx 3 жыл бұрын
LMFKAKAKW SH
@skiney
@skiney 3 жыл бұрын
Omfg lol
@yaboy1689
@yaboy1689 3 жыл бұрын
Lmfao
@scruffyRe
@scruffyRe 2 жыл бұрын
Lmfao
@user-sigmapog
@user-sigmapog 4 жыл бұрын
so I'm watching this to talk to my crush while in quarantine, hope these tips work except for the meeting in person part
@Josephlunar824
@Josephlunar824 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you josh I need this during this time 👍
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 6 жыл бұрын
Awesome Joseph, I hope this video helps you figure out how to text your crush and keep them interested
@soldado-wb1sk
@soldado-wb1sk 5 жыл бұрын
Imagine texting a girl for the first time and saying what’s your favorite movie she’ll be like wtf
@imred8264
@imred8264 3 жыл бұрын
It's better then saying how are you all the time tho
@lenalee5516
@lenalee5516 3 жыл бұрын
No she won't, im a girl and i find it interesting when i receive random questions, but i also question how i crossed their mind to dm me out of the blue. Still cool about it
@yaboy1689
@yaboy1689 3 жыл бұрын
@@lenalee5516 aha
@juliemanson4594
@juliemanson4594 4 жыл бұрын
This was kinda wholesome
@eliavelasquez2764
@eliavelasquez2764 4 жыл бұрын
When he said don’t always ask how’s your day I WAS SO CLOSE TO SENDING THAT😂💀
@beezrclean
@beezrclean 6 жыл бұрын
Idk if u saw my question but u sure answered thx man
@mosiacsoml
@mosiacsoml 5 жыл бұрын
Love how most of these comments are from guys lol... I can’t keep a conversation going to save my life.. sometimes I try to think of creative ways to start one or ask more uncommon questions but then I just get a ‘huh?’ In response lmao it’s sO awkward
@blocnytro402
@blocnytro402 4 жыл бұрын
Me: hey Her: hey Me: you believe in ghosts? Read Me: 😣😖😔😞
@papawuise6820
@papawuise6820 4 жыл бұрын
Please don't tell me this actually happened
@s0ul_shr1v3n
@s0ul_shr1v3n 3 жыл бұрын
shoulda probably been like “so i have a completely random question, but i’m genuinely curious... do you believe in ghosts?” something along those lines
@paolajones1475
@paolajones1475 4 жыл бұрын
brooo I loveee ur advicee
@carterpearson7845
@carterpearson7845 3 жыл бұрын
Came to you for help. Asked a girl in my class what school she went to
@jrhmusicandvlogs5895
@jrhmusicandvlogs5895 6 жыл бұрын
Great video Josh! Amazing message!
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks man, glad you enjoyed it!
@jrhmusicandvlogs5895
@jrhmusicandvlogs5895 6 жыл бұрын
@@TheJoshSpeaks Your so welcome! Anytime!
@reecelowery2478
@reecelowery2478 6 жыл бұрын
Hey josh u keep mentioning texting but what are ur thoughts on calling?
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 6 жыл бұрын
I think calling could be great if you feel like you have that level of connection with the person. I talked about calling if the person doesn't respond to text in an earlier video this week and I've done a video in the past about how to call your crush
@kiangonsalves
@kiangonsalves 5 жыл бұрын
KZbin's alogrithm made me forget about your channel for a year. Now I found you back!
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 5 жыл бұрын
Happy to see you here again!
@shiv8757
@shiv8757 4 жыл бұрын
moving from conversation is definitely most important thing....
@Chrxzz
@Chrxzz 4 жыл бұрын
0:02 - 0:11 Me: Yes
@youngaamez3550
@youngaamez3550 6 жыл бұрын
Good tips yo
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks man, always good to see you here in the comments!
@youngaamez3550
@youngaamez3550 6 жыл бұрын
The Josh Speaks thanks bro I appreciate that!
@dgomez828
@dgomez828 5 жыл бұрын
The ghost comment worked like a charm. We were talking for hours about ghost stories
@Mrcjxd1
@Mrcjxd1 6 жыл бұрын
thx josh now i know why she did not talk to me cause my text is boring 😂
@dodsdon
@dodsdon 6 жыл бұрын
I liked one girl through tinder and we talked for some days she blocked me and I feel so weird lol it is hard to trust these chicks
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 6 жыл бұрын
I would go back and look at the conversation. It's possible you didn't build up enough of a connection with her so it seemed in personal and that pushed her away. Always try to look at your own actions and see where you can make those small improvements
@dodsdon
@dodsdon 6 жыл бұрын
The Josh Speaks first 2 days convo was going well then after few days I was kinda busy with job and we hardly talked and convo was just kinda normal and then I asked her for no she ignored me and today now she removed me from friend list I feel so weird but I am shy talking to girls in person coz I am very tall 6.7 I wanna improve tho
@pokygaming3877
@pokygaming3877 5 жыл бұрын
when i trying to msg her she just telling me why r u sending me a msg its hard to come over to a girl and tell her some thing i dont rly know about what i can talk and i dont know how i can be more friend of her
@guyguy1811
@guyguy1811 5 жыл бұрын
I don't finding speaking to people in person awkward. But i find trying to talk to someone you like in school is a different ball game.
@meganslonesings
@meganslonesings 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this! It was super helpful. GOD Bless Y'all. :)
@CrazyManhog
@CrazyManhog 4 жыл бұрын
Dude I'm confused alot This girl I like responds to some of my texts. And then doesnt But then is completely talkative to me in person. Then is super sweet to me by helping me. Idk what's going on but. Sometimes I feel like she likes me and sometimes I feel she doesnt.
@RazorWolf046
@RazorWolf046 4 жыл бұрын
???????????? This is exactly with the guy I like
@oliverforsyth6263
@oliverforsyth6263 4 жыл бұрын
Could mean that they are more confident talking in person than over text. They might not know what to say when texting but when talking in person they might find it easier to engage in a conversation.
@skynar769
@skynar769 4 жыл бұрын
It’s like that sometimes
@CrazyManhog
@CrazyManhog 4 жыл бұрын
@@oliverforsyth6263 ohh.
@mulliscles2598
@mulliscles2598 3 жыл бұрын
Maybe she busy with other things over text bro
@Jeffrey_mathias
@Jeffrey_mathias 5 жыл бұрын
My crush likes me and I like them he goes to my church we talk in person sometimes it's just were both really shy around eachother
@kickthefire4816
@kickthefire4816 3 жыл бұрын
Treat her like a celebrity she’ll treat you like a fan
@gabrielgames2506
@gabrielgames2506 2 жыл бұрын
Ouch
@TheRodiscumbag
@TheRodiscumbag 5 жыл бұрын
Last time I watched your vids was 4 years ago because I was dumb and didnt know how to talk to girls. Well turns out that im still dumb and need to watch your vids but wow your action figure collection grew.
@843saucem
@843saucem 4 жыл бұрын
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@yumnatariq569
@yumnatariq569 5 жыл бұрын
I usually get bored in these types of videos but I didn't in this video he has a nice voice
@rosainysm4957
@rosainysm4957 5 жыл бұрын
You deserve more followers.
@MichaelPro07891
@MichaelPro07891 6 жыл бұрын
Josh can u help me how can you keep an conversation going with anyone?
@alucardbunche4197
@alucardbunche4197 6 жыл бұрын
All right man I'm being honest what's the best way to ask a girls dad if you can go out with them I like to be formal and show respect
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 6 жыл бұрын
That's a really good question, I would say the best thing to do is maybe two have the girl introduce you to her dad. That way you can show him that you are respectful guy and in meeting him show him that you're interested in his daughter. I would spread those interactions out across maybe two or even three interactions, you may even want to FaceTime with her and then have her bring her dad on so that you can just say hello just to continue building that relationship with him building up to you asking her out and asking him for his permission.
@alucardbunche4197
@alucardbunche4197 6 жыл бұрын
Build relationship make him like me date the daughter. Who ever said a gurl can fall for a nerd.
@obviouslymatt6452
@obviouslymatt6452 5 жыл бұрын
Alucard Bunche don’t. It’s her choice, you’ll seem much more mature by showing that you respect her rights and choice.
@thepsalms2806
@thepsalms2806 3 жыл бұрын
It's easy, just have a good job
@olivialewin3141
@olivialewin3141 5 жыл бұрын
Hey playa had me😂😂
@LarryBanks85
@LarryBanks85 4 жыл бұрын
I love this
@franzferdinand2240
@franzferdinand2240 5 жыл бұрын
Man you're the best! Btw i don't really feel like in person cuz i'm soo awkward at it and just too shy 😂 any help please?
@LoganLemaster
@LoganLemaster 5 жыл бұрын
PotatoIse I was the same way just be positive and keep your cool if she says no don’t worry about it you will get over it and there is probably another girl that likes you
@LoganLemaster
@LoganLemaster 5 жыл бұрын
PotatoIse I found this out the hard way lol now I’m going on a date Saturday
@franzferdinand2240
@franzferdinand2240 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much man!
@kingtoothless1357
@kingtoothless1357 4 жыл бұрын
Just be cool and calm and when your around her just talk and here and there say a cheesy joke or something slik one thing she liked is when we were in the hot tub I sayed well I can’t really remember but it was something like a hot tub is called a hot tub for a reason maybe cause your in it and your just as hot as it or something it was cooler when I sayed it and I just walked up to her after that and asked for her number or any type of communication it doesn’t matter but I’d just ask for her number and she gave it to me but it was more of an exchange
@amp3z13
@amp3z13 5 жыл бұрын
If u r following these tips you just got them of a 20 year old who collects action figures so........
@israledenteth5292
@israledenteth5292 5 жыл бұрын
Amp3z there’s nothing wrong with collecting action figures
@mariafausti3128
@mariafausti3128 4 жыл бұрын
so?
@ninjasisesh5392
@ninjasisesh5392 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much these convos leaded to ones about COD let’s go
@KingBaldwinTheFirstOfJerusalem
@KingBaldwinTheFirstOfJerusalem 2 жыл бұрын
Best opener be like this. Find a friend that has the same first letter of her name, message for hw, say you ment to text your friend and then go from there
@georgeosuna641
@georgeosuna641 4 жыл бұрын
What do you do when at first the conversation was going really well but over a bit of time the person is responding in dryer and dryer words?
@lydiatulley8445
@lydiatulley8445 3 жыл бұрын
What would you say is dry
@itssFlexx
@itssFlexx 4 жыл бұрын
She just told me I was dry 🤦🏾‍♂️
@taraxx2150
@taraxx2150 3 жыл бұрын
We need more such videos due to the pandemic and constant lockdowns. Most of my conversations are currently online ugh...and I've been talking to a guy who lives in a different country, we're both studying online at the same uni...but how would I even transition to face to face meetings with him? It just won't happen :( at least not anytime soon
@TopGTalisman745
@TopGTalisman745 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you !!
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 6 жыл бұрын
No problem Eric, I hope this video was helpful!
@whatthe8546
@whatthe8546 4 жыл бұрын
Honestly I said ”No cap you fine af🥵” and she said ”ahh all you😉😩” and now I don't know what to say.🤣🤣
@omardedrick2220
@omardedrick2220 4 жыл бұрын
Jk
@noahwolff454
@noahwolff454 4 жыл бұрын
I’m supposed to listen to a guy with dolls in his room?
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 жыл бұрын
Do the toys intimidate you?
@happinessaburu3900
@happinessaburu3900 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheJoshSpeaks Don't answer such questions Josh, it's not important.
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
@@happinessaburu3900 lol I was joking around there. I'm also so curious when people can't seem to grasp hearing the opinions of someone with differing personal interests.
@happinessaburu3900
@happinessaburu3900 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheJoshSpeaks Oh I understand. I'm curious too.
@jayeem2094
@jayeem2094 4 жыл бұрын
i feel happy i'm not the first one to watch it HAHAHA
@razarfestus513
@razarfestus513 4 жыл бұрын
I am sure today am going to get my crush into me!!
@samarracwells9768
@samarracwells9768 5 жыл бұрын
My crush really seems like he likes me when i see him in the hall, but when I text him he only sends me one word back, and it makes me think he doesn't want to talk to me
@onyx9381
@onyx9381 5 жыл бұрын
Samarra Cwells that’s how we guys are tho, too lazy to text long shit.. ur welcome
@GTAracingUK
@GTAracingUK 5 жыл бұрын
@@onyx9381 not entirely true. I think he isn't interested in your mezsages at all. Or he is busy and has other people talking to him.
@-.BiJin.-
@-.BiJin.- 5 жыл бұрын
@@GTAracingUK well thats heart breaking lmao
@1738gabe
@1738gabe 5 жыл бұрын
Samarra Cwells I saw a documentary girls brains want to talk it gives them a high and rush of dopamine guys are the opposite they think it’s boring
@johnsalazar9239
@johnsalazar9239 5 жыл бұрын
@@1738gabe lmao then im a girl and my crush is apparently a Guy
@sheeshbro3559
@sheeshbro3559 4 жыл бұрын
i followed his tips for questioning my crush then she reply " wtf why are you questioning me so many" not good in english
@angelinaburnsed6819
@angelinaburnsed6819 3 жыл бұрын
Uh wha😭 this was so stupid it was funny
@megacbuc245
@megacbuc245 5 жыл бұрын
I'm already in relationship with my crush thnx for the advise Josh 😇😇
@vraz7806
@vraz7806 4 жыл бұрын
Wait a sec this is for a crush? Bruuu i thought it was for friends LMAOOO
@austinip5273
@austinip5273 3 жыл бұрын
I actually think having a text conversation is a lot harder than a real conversation since you can’t read a persons face or body language. Let me know if anyone agrees or disagrees.
@tophatman3438
@tophatman3438 5 жыл бұрын
Hey Josh I am talking to this girl who really likes me and I like her we are not going out yet she wants to get to know me first we went to some camp together so that's how we know each other and we started texting each other after and one of my friends told her I liked her then she confirmed while we where texting she liked me too we texted for hours that day then she just kinda cut it off and after that it's really akward small talk like you busy today she said she cant hangout and that's it and whenever I try to make conversation she cuts it off with k or lol or yeah so like what does this mean is she sick of me is she just doing this as a joke and it sucks cause like I don't really enjoy any other part of the day besides texting her everything else I enjoyed before is just boring to me
@tyrawallberg9672
@tyrawallberg9672 5 жыл бұрын
Destroynkill34 THE E X A C T FUCKING SAME THING HAPPENED TO ME WTF HDJDHDJDBD
@tyrawallberg9672
@tyrawallberg9672 5 жыл бұрын
LIKE ALMOST EVERY DETAIL LMAO
@9u13t
@9u13t 3 жыл бұрын
i just came here to say i'm with her rn , hope y'all get ur crushes
@scruffyRe
@scruffyRe 2 жыл бұрын
This works you serious?
@lottajolkkonen4545
@lottajolkkonen4545 4 жыл бұрын
I'M PISSED, THESE VIDEOS HAVE NEVER WORKED BUT HERE I AM AGAIN
@theblizardblitz2396
@theblizardblitz2396 4 жыл бұрын
Bro I’ve been talking to this girl that one of my friends is really close friends with. I’ve know the girl I’m talking to for some time and I sit next to her in one of my classes. The thing is that idk what to say to her at all. I wanna get to know and I wanna ask her questions to do so but I feel like it would be just weird to flat out just ask her a bunch of questions. I don’t want to make her feel like she is talking a survey 😂. So because of that I keep say generic stuff like wyd? Gm, Gn, hows your day going ect. Then that just leaves me in a situation where I’m trying to get to know her and I just dunno what to say 😂. Help plz ;-;
@lydiatulley8445
@lydiatulley8445 3 жыл бұрын
If she answers as soon as you message then she was waiting for your message so you should just ask her one question about the class you sit next to her in then carry the conversation from then talking about if you like the teacher or if you have any home and if you do ask for help on it
@scruffyRe
@scruffyRe 2 жыл бұрын
@@lydiatulley8445 what about me I’m in a weird one message me back if you wanna hear
@parkermckee5706
@parkermckee5706 5 жыл бұрын
Hey josh so right now I have a crush on this girl and we’re bestfriends but she started talking to someone and then I told her how I felt then she had told me if I had asked her out she had felt the same and now they have broken up what do I do to keep this relationship interesting right now I am buying her a new pair of wrestling shoes considering we both wrestle and I were supposed to be going to the movies what do I do?
@officialmemestv7515
@officialmemestv7515 5 жыл бұрын
@@GTAracingUK chill bruh,🤗
@cashers1404
@cashers1404 5 жыл бұрын
dude sameeee
@1738gabe
@1738gabe 5 жыл бұрын
Adam Vevle comma and period* making sentence; Wouldn’t you*
@quincymarquis-brown5803
@quincymarquis-brown5803 5 жыл бұрын
YOUR DOING THE MOST KID 👌🏾 but don’t spend your whole bank on a crush
@lukejohnstone6266
@lukejohnstone6266 5 жыл бұрын
Fuck her in the cinema 👍
@howellstation5424
@howellstation5424 3 жыл бұрын
cant believe it has come to this...
@korda3770
@korda3770 5 жыл бұрын
You would be good at movie reviews your channel would probably grow but trying to help people is really nice too
@omarhernandez7450
@omarhernandez7450 5 жыл бұрын
What if my crush is scared and doesn’t even want to talk about scary stuff??
@zilong4133
@zilong4133 5 жыл бұрын
Change the topic then. Lol
@Unknown-wn6vc
@Unknown-wn6vc 6 жыл бұрын
So would you recommend talking to ur crush or texting them
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 6 жыл бұрын
If you're first getting to know them, talk in person. As you two warm up, get their number, Insta, Snapchat, etc. and them transition into texting. As you get comfortable texting, start making plans to hang out in person.
@Unknown-wn6vc
@Unknown-wn6vc 6 жыл бұрын
The Josh Speaks thank youuu
@lynntheweirdo8178
@lynntheweirdo8178 4 жыл бұрын
“YoU cAn’T jUst tExt thEm yOu hAve tO sEe thEm iN pErsOn” Me: WERE👋 IN👋 QUARANTINE👋 💔💔💔🥺😭😭😭
@obamas.leftnut6243
@obamas.leftnut6243 3 жыл бұрын
me:hey crush: wanna hear knock knnock joke? me:ya her:knock knock me: whos there her:u cant me:u cant who? *u cant reply to this conversation* L͟e͟a͟r͟n͟ M͟o͟r͟e͟
@PanCakeFace
@PanCakeFace 6 жыл бұрын
Did you HAVE to get rid of the intro?
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 6 жыл бұрын
haha I didn't get rid of it entirely, I'm just running an experiment to see how not having an intro affects watch time.
@PanCakeFace
@PanCakeFace 5 жыл бұрын
The Josh Speaks ohh okay thanks
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