How To Keep A Woman Interested (From A Woman’s Perspective)

[@CourtneyRyan]

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[@davidaston5773]

ANSWER: A man MUST stick a credit card to his forehead where the woman can always see it. He will NEVER lose her attention now.

[@Meinhardt_Kakuch]

this girl has 100 of videos about womens but why? a woman is only a human, they need only 3 thing: money money and money, this is my science courtney

[@christopherfernandez8153]

Keeping a woman interested when you're still dating is one thing. Keeping a woman interested once you live together or you're married is another. Keeping a woman interested once kids enter the picture is a whole different ballgame entirely. When kids consume the attention of both parents, especially the mother, keeping the spark alive is nearly impossible. Courtney, if you ever have kids, you can do a video on that dynamic. 😅

[@mikeabcable]

Actually this is a very good comment.

[@728huey]

Keeping the spark alive when you both have children isn't impossible, but it does take a lot work and true commitment to each other.

[@csx6910]

You shouldn't have to _keep_ someone interested. Who wants to be a slave like that? Stay or go because I can tell you this, most women aren't interesting on deep level to men. Expecting a man to work to keep her interest while she just shows up is NOT worth it.

[@johns.4351]

Very good point

[@tysimon]

Great point. It takes a lot of intelligence from the man, especially after a long marriage, and it helps if age of the man and woman is similar, in my opinion. Not impossible !

[@fabiopapalia]

If a woman is not interested in you she can WALK. Entitled, immature persons who needs to be entartained to not be bored are grown kids who don't deserve your own precious time. Love and affection are on ANOTHER level, and most of these people does not deserve your efforts because are totally immature.

[@pace1195]

Right on. 💯

[@taras3702]

If she's not interested, she WILL walk, after taking advantage of you if you allow it.

[@MotorheadForever7]

It's like women want to date performance clowns

[@bloggaloggs]

I don't need to "keep a woman interested" - I am already interesting. If she can't see that, hit the road Jill...

[@2tired4]

YES

[@Harikejn]

Important things: 0:23 First Thing ÷ Keep Things Interesting; 3:47 Second Thing ÷ Show Genuine Curiosity In Her; 6:53 Third Thing ÷ Have Your Own Life; 8:56 Fourth Thing ÷ Follow Through; 9:32 Fifth Thing ÷ Affection And Appreciation; and 11:16 to summarize all the told here. What you have told Courtney it's so correct. I might add few additional things. And those are these: Sixth Thing ÷ Knowing When To Be Serious And When To Be Relaxed; Seventh Thing ÷ Be A Supportive (but this can be also considered with women as well). When I mentioned sixth thing, I meant that you have to have balanced thing when it's okay to joke relaxed, and when you will talk serious thing. From all the told here it can be told that the deeds, and the gestures (the small gestures especially), can be shown how much does someone care about the loved one's (either they are interested in us, or either that they are not) (and that's from men's, and women's perspective).

[@bloggaloggs]

Naturally we don't see videos like this directed at women, suggesting they do likewise towards men, because that's simply too much to expect from them.

[@Harikejn]

@@bloggaloggs Probably. But there is a suggestion for a video, and that is to be made a video, but this time for women.

[@jasonfitzpatrick414]

Don't forget, respect. Care enough to tell them what you need. Care enough to constructively tell your spouse when they are screwing up. Let them know when you need their help. Intimacy, intimacy, intimacy. Not sex, intimacy.

[@Harikejn]

@@jasonfitzpatrick414 Yes, I agree with you. You're right.

[@DDD11239]

Use colons, not division symbols.

[@x-man5056]

When you do these things there should be reciprocation. If there is none, plan on moving on, soon.

[@taras3702]

@@x-man5056 More like moving on yesterday.....

[@johnanderson1245]

That’s true. Your partner should compliment your life - not complicate it. If it’s the latter it’s best for both to call it off.

[@Z-Interceptor]

there couldnt be a better mantra than this

[@DDD11239]

Which is why I discourage relationship drama. It usully doesn't matter (and is immature).

[@aguyinavan6087]

There seems to be a gap between what women say and what men experience.

[@anosh88]

I think it's because while Courtney comes from a good place, she is totally unaware of guys' experience in the dating market, or at least most guys' experience. She gives cookie cutter advice that is generally good for you but doesn't result in more dates.

[@Koettnylle]

No shit

[@Immemorian]

She ain't ever gonna know what its like from a Man's perspective. I do hope one day she'd read self-made man. If she still doesn't get it there's no hope. Men aren't the problem. Women are.

[@DrBeef216]

​​@@anosh88This isn't true at all. She brings up the height & monetary obsession of a lot of women all the time. She also gives advice that few men actually utilize. If you don't do ALL of her tips & sustain them for a period where a lot of women will eventually notice, there's zero room for complaining.

[@anosh88]

@@DrBeef216she’s not as aware as you think.

[@toddw14]

Why does it seem like keeping a woman interested is on the same level as keeping a child entertained with coloring books & puzzles?

[@EriPages]

Because they're Adult Children.

[@familyengineering5591]

Read "Schopenhauer on women"

[@carlosr6597]

Why It always has to be the man that must keep the women interested; otherwise she'll jump over to Chad for a pump & dump

[@rcsmith1983]

If it's that easy, it wouldn't be a big deal

[@solo1014]

Id argue keeping children interested is way easier

[@WasteDeep]

Honestly, we men shouldn't have to keep anyone interested. We aren't court jesters here for your amusement. You need to keep yourself interested in us, and that means stop comparing us to guys you see on social media and in movies. That's not real life. Real men work hard keeping society moving, and it's a struggle every day. You should be interested in us for who we are and stop playing your childish games.

[@erikbouma9408]

There is a reason men have to prove themself to women, they’re genetically “programmed” to be careful with having a sexual relationship because it used to be very risky. Getting pregnant was a death sentence if the man didn’t take care of her. That’s why they’ll subconsciously test you. I get what you’re saying tho. If you’re a hard working honest man you shouldn’t be a slave for your girl.

[@WasteDeep]

@erikbouma9408 Yeah, they seem really careful about selecting who they have sexual relations with... 🙄☕

[@erikbouma9408]

@ The good ones do, the others you can just “use” for that so what are you complaining about?

[@tomachibald]

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

[@michaelfischer-xp4cw]

its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back

[@tomachibald]

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

[@michaelfischer-xp4cw]

Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

[@tomachibald]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

[@snaakie]

This is a bot conversation people, ignore

[@EricMoore790]

Be active, do hobbies, make money!

[@pace1195]

The problem is most of the man's hobbies cost money just like women's hobbies. Better make more money.

[@taras3702]

Exactly, women should not be the end all, be all of men's lives.

[@EriPages]

This video is another "Happy Wife Happy Life" video. Trash.

[@necrosteel5013]

@@taras3702 but men are also punished if women aren't the end all and be all of their lives. to simply put, men have to constantly adjust themselves because women will refuse to hold onto any standard of discipline or coherent behavior. so even simple things become extremely taxing. it's like turn a task as simple as "pick up a bolt and secure it to the slot on the front end of the bed frame without one" into: 1.walk to bolt in 6 paces.... 2.bring your hand to do a lord's bow in front of the bolt 3.recite the word of the lord god feminism by heart without error 4.lower hand to your feet. 5.raise hand to reach for the bolt. 6.cry to god about the heresy of your existence as a man with a functioning genitalia 7. bring bolt to bedframe 8.circumvent the bedframe 4 times clockwise and 3 anti-clockwise 9.remove the bolts of the bed and pray to feminism again 10.now place the bolts exactly as is demanded by the woman. as ludicrous as this sounds, appealing to women to do any task they demand you to do will feel like this because the moment you simply do ANYTHING even remotely with delay, not in the order they like or in a manner she does not explicitly state is correct.... she will lecture you plenty for that mistake

[@Kridian01]

No. Just *NetFlix.*

[@asliceofcheese9989]

Is it a bad thing that as I go along watching this video, I feel a tad more repulsed upon entering a relationship? This all feels too tiring

[@EriPages]

It's more "Happy Wife Happy Life" nonsense

[@b-0220]

What, don’t feel like being a workhorse/jester/wage slave perpetually until someone better comes along?

[@Kridian01]

Yeah, at the end of the work day just know you still have to work to do.

[@damiengrant967]

​@@EriPages absolutely agree. I never let someone tell me I need to take on the "happy wife happy life" mantra. I always let them know perhaps they should try "happy spouse,happy house" after all there are two people who matter in a relationship

[@ModernDatingMastery]

*Keeping a woman interested goes beyond just the initial attraction - it's about emotional connection and consistency. Show genuine curiosity about her, make her laugh, and always keep some mystery. It’s the small things like remembering details and surprising her that truly make a difference.*

[@Machi74005]

Notice how a man has to keep a woman interested but it doesn't ever seem to be reciprocal. 🤔 Something seems a bit......lopsided?

[@rodger7029]

😂😂

[@miquearre1776]

You should see the video about "how to keep a man interested." It's mostly "don't put up with his crap," "tell him he's wrong when he's wrong," and "give him space." Nothing has to do with "keep him interested" or "show him affection and show him you care about him." It's all on the men to make sure the relationship stays interesting.

[@Ava-lt6es]

Emotional bonding key to keep women interested.

[@christianrodriguez5346]

It is easy to keep a woman interested. It is hard to find a woman who is actually worth your time, which is the actual problem cause most aren’t worth your time. Know your worth and value your time. Time isn’t something you can get back so value it and especially for who you spend it with. Focus on your goals whether career, physical, etc. So far at 22, I have a couple of exes and only one treated me good but certain values didn’t click so I split with her. My first good one was my most recent ex. She restored my faith in women. Now I just chill out and do me with family and friends. Prioritize yourself. Key tip: if you don’t feel peaceful around them or your mind is stressing out, she ain’t it chief. You need to feel at peace with the woman you are with. Remember a woman has the capability of making or breaking a man. So pick carefully.

[@fabian7463]

Every time I set the dates up either she would flake and want to reschedule or not want to do what was planned. We guys need to just stop chasing after them, if someone is interested in you then go with the flow. No need to play these silly immature games. Especially after age 30

[@dat868]

I'm not saying that a man should make no effort to keep a woman interested but this video is sort of proof that many women expect their male mate to provide them some level of entertainment which is a problem caused by our leisure society. Earlier generations of women were more mature and had responsibilities at a much earlier age since they often bore children right out of high school or in their early 20's. This left little time for the mindless entertainment that today's women expect from men.

[@nicomirinda]

Hey Courtney - Everything you said plays both ways 😊 there's not much difference in my view with what a woman is supposed to do as well to keep the chemistry flowing.

[@LeoVargas-rf2qk]

Met my gf on bumble in February this year. I do all of these things and don’t ever plan on stopping, so I’m glad on the right track. Thanks for the info. 👍

[@Mac_Kymera]

The issue I find is that women change their minds all the time. 🤷🏼‍♂️

[@danjenkins21]

Yep, they do! They can change their minds at the snap of a finger.

[@TroyDeFrates-jh8fc]

More more more....they always want more...the grass is always greener for them....don't play their game. Make them pay for all date nights and see what kind of woman you thought you had...

[@residentevilfreakk55]

“Women reserve the right to change their mind at any time” -Rich Cooper

[@highlanderknight]

Well, if dating apps are any indicator, and the few dates I've gotten out of them (I'm in my 50s) for most of them you need to eat out at a lot of restaurants, travel places, and visit NYC for events. Oh, and preferably they want me to be the one planning it and bankrolling it all.

[@stevenbaker5099]

More like from 18 to 90.

[@yurydmorales]

**Title: How To Keep A Woman Interested (From A Woman’s Perspective)** 00:00 - 🎥 Introduction about maintaining long-term interest and commitment in a relationship. 00:26 - 🌟 Keeping things interesting, such as trying new activities and experiences, helps maintain a strong connection and prevents boredom. 03:49 - 💬 Showing genuine curiosity in your partner's life and interests fosters emotional intimacy and keeps the relationship fulfilling. 06:54 - 🌱 Having your own life and personal interests prevents codependency and adds intrigue, making you more attractive and less clingy. 08:59 - ✅ Following through on promises and plans builds reliability and integrity, which are crucial for sustaining interest. 09:34 - 💕 Regular affection and appreciation, including small gestures and verbal affirmations, strengthen emotional security and connection.

[@jasongates-]

Thank you, cause this is one topic that people fail to talk about. And it's good that a woman says how to keep women interested. We need it from the horses mouth, not speculation of how.

[@TastyJester]

I stopped caring what women think or want about 3 years ago and I'm getting so much done in my life.

[@stevenbaker5099]

I agree. Put YOU FIRST. Find happiness on your own terms.

[@DDD11239]

Then, why are you here?

[@TastyJester]

@@DDD11239 to tell you to stop caring and build your life into something

[@dang75790]

I ask all my ladies this one question? Can you make a sandwich 😂

[@lawrence31415]

Happy Sunday Courtney and Fellow Viewers! Hope everyone has a fantastic start to their week!

[@CourtneyRyan]

You too my friend! ❤️

[@lawrence31415]

​@@CourtneyRyan thank you, I'm in an extra good mood today since one of my favorite interests (College Football) is back this week! Hoping that my team wins lots of games this season haha

[@jtrealfunny]

I've been watching this channel for awhile and highly recommended. I do skip the fashion advice but that's because I like how I dress and live in the tropics so it's a little different. I mostly do these things and they do work; part of my job is to make relationship time together fun and interesting, for instance, and that usually results in a positive experience and good interaction, you can tell when people feel good and are relaxed. Probably harder in a long term relationship where for most people just living life can be a draining endeavor with all the hustling that is necessary.

[@ted-nelek-ne8tf]

It's about intimacy, happiness, self improvement Happy Sunday episode viewers! satisfaction is key 👏

[@pace1195]

Until the man is too smothering, the woman is bored, and the man gets sick or injured. Then the satisfaction is GONE, and likely the woman is too.

[@samnair1152]

Just be your best self and do your best.At the end whether she is interested or not, you know you did your best. Keep thst in mind always.

[@florianschwab5119]

Title is misleading. There is no such thing as keep interested. It's a concept based on entitlement. Either both want to stick together and make their relationship the best possible or someone is just wasting their time.

[@EriPages]

You phucking get it. Well done fellow sir. Well flipping done. This video is trash "Happy Wife Happy Life" by her.

[@christopherkelly9153]

Lack of effort to keep the other person interested even in long term relationships still kills the relationship. Putting it on autopilot leads to divorce. I know from experience.

[@NerdlySquared]

No reciprocation and no effort will tank any relationship. While some permanent honeymoon stage is not really possible, regular maintenance is 100% required.

[@PhotonPhitness]

This comment was exactly what I was thinking about a few minutes into the video. But hey, entitlement is almost unavoidable when dealing with women nowadays

[@somehacker9031]

@@NerdlySquared "While some permanent honeymoon stage is not really possible" - I think that's definitely true, but I also think it's possible to prevent things from becoming predictably repetitious and boring. I haven't been married yet, but one thing I want to try is not sleeping in the same bed, maybe even location every night as my wife. I read an article with something similar and the woman did note a beneficial difference, that she could feel 'excited' to see her partner at the start of the day. Going further, I might experiment with a reverse vacation. Instead of a trip together, spend time apart. Trust would be required of course.

[@PappaBear_1234]

Courtney with more Big Sis advice is always great 😊

[@CourtneyRyan]

Thank you my friend 🥰 enjoy your Sunday!

[@chaserj9989]

Argggg . Not interested in working with women on this stuff anymore. I’m tired it’s too hard and not worth it for me.. I got my money , my house , my savings. I don’t want to deal with women any longer

[@Kridian01]

They would have to start paying cash... or with gold bullion.

[@residentevilfreakk55]

Smart move, just ignore them

[@NexWalkthrough]

Id like to see Courtney give specific examples of her own relationship.. that way it doesnt feel like shes just giving us a list of what we want to hear. Afterall, Courtney being a KZbin dating advisor, i hope that her relationship is well above average

[@marcusantonius-f6n]

Having concrete goals brings much more things than you thought.

[@chibbyylol]

Wonder how true it is that the worse thing you can be to a women is boring, hence why funny / ambition is attractive as well as the other end of the spectrum which is why women stick around even in those kinds of relationships

[@pace1195]

Therefore, you have two options: Be the dancing monkey with a new funny performance every time she starts to get bored. Or, be ambitious enough to earn the resources to take her somewhere new every time she gets bored.

[@highlanderknight]

​@@pace1195But don't be working too manying long hours where you aren't around, she'll get bored there too and stray on you.

[@pace1195]

@@highlanderknight I don't believe she will get bored. She'll have all your cash to search and pay for her interests. It will also allow her to find another _emotional_ fantasy without your watchful eye. The cash will allow her the ability to not be bored, but also not be satisfied with your time away. The neighbor, delivery man, fitness coach, or mysterious foreign guy on a girl's vacation will get her satisfaction at your expense.

[@DDD11239]

​@@pace1195 Gold diggers will fake bedroom pleasure. (Even if they have genuine excitement, they'll still fake affection). Be cautious. Be frugal.

[@Aubatron]

Personally, I think if someone ends a relationship because they're bored, it just means they're not a person who should be or even can be in a healthy long term relationship. A LOT of people are addicted to that new relationship feeling and move from person to person. These people are broken people.

[@EmpowermentPsychology]

This video touches on some really key points when it comes to maintaining a healthy and thriving relationship. As a therapist and combat veteran, I’ve seen how important it is for couples to continuously put in effort to keep things fresh and connected. Relationships aren’t just about that initial spark - they take work, communication, and genuine curiosity about each other to stay strong. I’ve been creating content on my channel, Empowerment Psychology, to help people understand the dynamics of relationships and how to work through challenges like trauma, PTSD, and other issues. If you’re interested in this kind of conversation, feel free to check it out! Thank you for sharing these valuable insights!

[@lawrence31415]

On the topic of having your own life, I started playing the guitar earlier this summer. I can proudly say that this new hobby has brought me lots of joy! Are there any fellow viewers who also play guitar, and if so, what's your go-to song?

[@Kridian01]

Stairway to Heaven. Just the flute though.

[@DDD11239]

I'm a 16-year saxophone player.

[@pharkle35]

what nonsense? There are only 24 hours in a day, If men have to spend so much time pampering and catering to women, when do we find time to earn our livelihood, engage in social interaction and personal growth, and take care of our mental and physical health. This kind of mindset is pushing men away from meaningful relationships and opting for transactional relationships. Removes the whining, complaining, and nagging thus resulting in our peace and tranquility.

[@DDD11239]

I don't know; ask the billions of married men, and the (estimated) 50 billion men to ever exist, who reproduced with a woman.

[@b-zoneonroku2020]

"Keep things interesting" Translation, women want drama.

[@highlanderknight]

Exactly, if you aren't keeping her constantly busy with traveling and restaurants, you are a bit boring and she'll try to keep it interesting by creating drama.

[@Ezilla82]

I mean you nailed it on the head on pretty much everything is to know how to keep her interested, Courtney. And even though there are times I want to disagree on other videos, you made some valid points.

[@ScottieGray-c3t]

Have ur own life, follow thru, & be affectionate. Thanks for the heads up Courtney.😘

[@FrankM]

Everything mentioned in this video I have done for a woman. Whether in a relationship or dating them. But women never reciprocate any of the things mentioned in this video.

[@Billy-the-Kid]

Once you start giving and entertaining the demand never stops because with women it's never enough. Don't start that cycle, she will emasculate you and lose respect because you behave like a servant.

[@hrobky]

00:25 Keep things interesting 02:20 [sponsor] 03:50 Show genuine curiosity 06:59 Have your own life 08:56 Be a man of your word 09:33 Affection and appreciation

[@WhoaDiie]

Solid advice as always, especially with regards to the affectionate gestures.

[@mariodelatorre3211]

Thank you for all you do Cortney 🙏🙏

[@Kridian01]

Yeah, thanks for washing your hair. It's amazing.

[@mariodelatorre3211]

@@Kridian01 since amazing you come and wash it for me..

[@Ohem1]

The thing is, I have shown curiosity in most women I ask out, but I rarely, if ever, get reciprocated.

[@te9591]

This was really well written.

[@briansykes2806]

How to sustain a relationship? Meet a compatible person and be yourself ! If you try to manufacture a relationship, you will meet with an unfortunate end. Of course you also need to do many of things mentioned in this video, but if you are with a compatible person you will have the motivation to do them. If not, more likely you will be looking at others, consciously or less consciously for affairs.

[@michaeltrevisan5743]

Court what a women says she wants and what a women actually responds to are 2 different things. 💯

[@ponokunishima1]

Another helpful video and one to watch over and over.

[@ramezsaloum3157]

Thank you so much, have a great day ❤

[@gerbenhoutman9348]

In my experience commitment can make it nearly impossible to keep the level of interest alive that you can be achieved as a boyfriend. A boyfriend can give flowers or take her on expensive dates, all the fun stuff. But once the commitment has been made, she begins to see resources as community property. Which she should. This is where maturity comes in. Both need to understand that loving is a decision, not an addiction to excitement and mystery. If not, either or both parties are likely to stray. We men need to find women and leave the girls for the bad boys. I recommend commitment lite. She properly sees resources as community property, then we both can see whether or not she can withstand the withdrawal from excitement.

[@Trippze]

another video on the laundry list of demands women need with no mention of what men get in return

[@rowen0fstrata]

We get something in return?

[@PrisonMike-_-]

If you actually watched and listened, you would’ve heard her say she made a video of how women try to keep men interested

[@residentevilfreakk55]

⁠@@PrisonMike-_-men don’t need to be “kept interested”, just don’t cheat, feed him, give him sex and kids and that’s it!

[@Spectacular-Spider-Dan]

Great advice! I'm bookmarking this video for when I start dating.

[@user-fv7sy7kl4p]

Interested is the wrong word. Respected is the word. Mutual respect.

[@dirostudios]

Guys first you have to you have to have the mindset that the man is the prize 🏆. Second you need a 1 page description of the ideal woman you desire. Third you need to identify and sort your draft picks of the possible ideal woman. The best way I have found that quickly works is to ask your candidate early on (before 1st date) is, “so what meal do you love to cook for your man?” If she gets angry or insulted, leave the conversation ASAP. She is narcissistic and is only looking for a man’s wallet to bleed out. A relationship with her would be painful. Now, if she gets excited and tells what she is going to cook and that sounds good to you, you might have a caring woman that could make for a loving, lasting relationship. You can now move on to a low priced 1st date. Set the bar low in the beginning to sort out narcissistic women. She should be cooking you her ideal meal by date 3 or 4. Very few women today understand this feminine trait that men so love.

[@LaserKnight93]

Courtney. There's something that's been on my mind for quite some time and I wanted to know your input on the situation as I haven't seen a video in your channel's four year history discussing this matter. Here it goes. What dating advice can you give to someone with mental/physical disabilities or someone who is dating someone with said disabilities? Also, how far into a relationship should I reveal to a potential significant other that I have disabilities? On one hand, if I reveal this information right away, it could be a potential deal-breaker before she even gets to know me. On the other hand, if I wait too long it could be seen as a sign of deception. Also, I'm trying to avoid having kids with disabilities amongst other things. What's your take? Much appreciated.

[@wheeltrouble]

So, in summary, feed her materialism, feed her ego.

[@nobodysperfect06]

Yeah I'll always be angry and bitter and resentful that I didn't have my first girlfriend until my early 30s, me and her are not together anymore though. I know I've spoken to another guy like this who has a similar story who says he never had a girlfriend until he was 30, he has the mindset that if he was born a woman he would not have been alone and single that long. I remember one guy said this to me and he really pissed me off when he said to me: "Why would you be bitter once you got what you wanted? Even if it took that long why does it matter? You can still enjoy the fruits of your labor now" Because I didn't get into my first relationship until later than normal that's why I feel angry bitter and resentful. And plus being a guy, how the dating game has always been different for men for women in which I know I'm not the only guy that has this mindset and that is men always have to be the ones to put in all the work and effort in order to land a girlfriend or in order for a heterosexual relationship to happen or start. It's like men are the only ones that have to know or learn so many skills and behaviors on how to attract a mate but not the other way around. I get more mad and angry that people in society say that men are not supposed to view that as work or a burden as in men always having to be the ones to take the lead and Court women and lead the interaction, I will never understand why men are supposed to enjoy and embrace that role. Should be obvious as to what I'm talking about, yeah and I get even more pissed off that people and Society say that women also have to learn dating skills on how to meet men or how to attract men when it never will make sense to me since women don't have to do jackshit to make a relationship happen. Speaking of my lifelong hatred of men always having to make the first move all the time. Didn't happen for me around the time people normally have their first relationship. I get very angry and pissed off whenever people and Society have the mindset that it's better to be a man. I remember another guy said and he only added fuel to fire which made me more angry and pissed off when he said: "Boo fucking hoo. We also don't have to go through child birth and we're strong as fuck. Testosterone gives us ambition + mental and physical strength that MANY (not all) women are lacking. Being a man has many benefits and with great power comes great responsibility. Stop crying about it and get your fucking shit together" Let's just say he pissed me off so much that it's not appropriate for me to say what was on my mind when I read that comment. Yeah I don't understand why a lot of people have the mindset as to why it's better to be a man at the end of the day. Yes it does truly feel unfair being a man at times. It only pisses me off even more when people say "thats the way it is, or so what?". it just fills me with a lot of anger and rage.

[@Kridian01]

So in summation: You're an angry lad.

[@nobodysperfect06]

@@Kridian01 yes I'm entitled to my feelings and mindset

[@Nathankinamorh]

Keeping a woman interested in easy, finding a woman worth keeping is hard.

[@saleemremane4722]

Happy Sunday 😊

[@Mickie97]

I love your perspective ❤

[@CourtneyRyan]

Thank you! ❤️❤️

[@dabiscuitsgod4033]

omg Courtney your nails!!!!!!!!! they are AWESOME i LOVE THEM!

[@Hunterslammer]

Best bet to keep her interested is to treat her as an accessory to your life vs a necessity. Work on yourself and your own life before anything. Courtney emphasize to be “interested” in your partner because she’s married and getting older so she has to settle down and wants nothing more but to keep a man locked down. So the more he’s “interested” and curious in her the better. All women love control. It’s when the power dynamic switches to the man having options that the woman truly becomes interested.

[@dang75790]

Are you single?

[@Ifalvarado]

Even if some would find you boring, a girl who likes you will be into you she would just state a few things or give hints. Those that play that kind of game isn't worth your time

[@marlonselesi]

I genuinely agree with all that's been said with a little caveat. Not exact numbers, but in the general ballpark, 80% of women are only attracted to 20% of men. I also believe a marketing study not long ago reflected that roughly 50% of women will be single by 2030. So, when all said & done, I think there's a much larger issue with the male-female dynamic in society than what most media outlets express.

[@glennhosick1514]

I think within thought!! This headline needs to be acknowledged as a two way reciprocation!! As much as a man should strive to keep his lady happy! This should be the same within thought.&. action from the woman! (Just my thoughts mind)😊

[@suryasingh9738]

Thanks for the tip!

[@paulgiarmo3628]

Do, do, do. Give, give, give. Sacrifice, sacrifice, sacrifice. Nothing but a one-sided bad deal for men having to babysit for these emotionally weak and fickle women who give nothing in return, but are experts in taking. This video is soo one-sided and unfair to men.

[@daktraveler56]

Im 57. I've reached the point where I'm more interested in what I want, instead of trying to figure out what she wants. Even when a woman and I have been on the same page and have had things in common, they will still choose the six pack alphas, because they are more fun and exciting. Sorry, but I'm not going to be any woman's " plan b " or a " fill in guy. " I'd rather just keep to myself. Keep my money in my pocket and enjoy my life. 😊

[@Pikawarps]

1. keep things interesting (women dont like consistency, they want excitement 24/7 365) 2. show genuine curiosity (pretend shes exciting, even if shes complaining about work) 3. have your own life (she wants you to be interesting, not a puppy dog following her around. but also dont have too much of your own life, because then she feels inferior/second fiddle) 4. Follow through. (shes the only one allowed to be flaky and cancel) 5. affection and appreciation (pump her ego and make sure she knows shes the best you can get)

[@Cathomis]

#6 is false. Exact opposite. Violates the laws of hypergamy. Referring to the part in ( )

[@zay.405]

​​​@@Cathomis These poor guys in here are simps. "Make sure she knows shes the best you can get," made me want to yak.

[@ColePhelps61]

Being resentful towards women will never land you a date bruv.

[@shellnexus1]

Lmao and what does the woman have to do? Absolutely nothing.

[@bach556]

Hi Courtney, i have a question and i hope you can answer. I’ve been texting a girl i met at a wedding and she showed some interests at first but when we started texting, she always replies hours later and when she does she always asks personal questions as if she’s curious to know more about me. I’m really confused if she’s still interested or not. What could be the reason for her late replies ?

[@rodger7029]

Seriously good advice

[@IMMORTAL508]

Very helpful Courtney

[@mariodelatorre3211]

Great video.like always!!!!... Useful information,

[@CourtneyRyan]

🥰🥰

[@mariodelatorre3211]

@@CourtneyRyan your videos had so much. Thank you 🥰🥰😍

[@MonkellD]

I feel like women don't realize that when a man is working hard to make his life something they need to be a part of that by interjecting into his life. I'll go on a few dates but when that's as far as it goes I'm just going to get back to working on my own life until they show more interest.

[@tommygunn6901]

I'm keeping this in mind when I'm moving to a new place soon. I already told this lady friend of mine that the new place I'm moving to has a big yard and fenced off area. My point? Ask if she wants to help make my new home more...homey! Lol

[@CourtneyRyan]

👏🏼🥰

[@tommygunn6901]

@@CourtneyRyan she was telling me about her home country and how things haven't been good, but was hopeful. I helped reinforce it and she was beyond grateful, acknowledging the level of care. She also has been happy that I'm relocating and have gotten a new job offer, on top of being certified

[@DDD11239]

​@@tommygunn6901 Brother, do you really want to pay for her? She's a liability. Don't be fooled. Be in a serious relationship for multiple years, before moving in together.

[@tommygunn6901]

@@DDD11239 read my comment again! Never said she was moving in. I said I might ask to help me set up my new home

[@tommygunn6901]

@@DDD11239 First of all, don't make assumptions about someone you don't know. Not all women are "liabilities" and not all men are either! Secondly, read my comment again! I never said she was moving in, just asking if she wanted to help me make my new place look good!

[@JasonS-eo7sh]

I have a very tried and true policy. I always pay for the first date (first three dates actually) but will NEVER pay for drinks. If a woman wants to order an appetizer, entre, and desert, I'm cool with it. But if the woman wants to drink alcohol, it's on them. In LA, 3 drinks is $60. I've been with women who have 4-5 drinks over the course of a 90 minute meal. I'm not paying $100 for a woman to get her drink on. This policy weeds out the entitled women so I don't waste a second date on them. BTW, my income is in the top 5% so I can afford to pay for the drinks, it's just a matter of principle.

[@dang75790]

Ok! Sure 😂

[@dang75790]

You make the trump kind of money 😂😂😂😂😂

[@benitokenobi7721]

Interest contains the Latin word inter, which means between. Interest is the conscious spark between two people that draws their attention to each other. With sufficient polarity and devotion, it will lead them to the point of intimacy. There, nothing stands between them because they have become one through love. In my opinion, keeping someone interested is only something for people who don't belong together or aren't ready for love or don't even know what love is. Instead, they constantly need the dopamine hit of the unknown, even though, if they're honest, they know full well that it leads nowhere. Yes or no? Dear Courtney, since you make a lot of videos like this, I assume you have a certain interest in the topic of our generation - attachment. What is your goal with videos like this? To bind your viewers through well-triggered dopamine hits in a stage between searching and realizing and to benefit from it, or do you really want to help your fellow human beings? Sure, you can earn a lot of money from it, but please don't sell yourself out 🙏

[@cymbergan]

I totally agree. Courtney, what about meeting women at their workplace and they start flirting with you and want to hookup?

[@RadiantandDire]

I only agree with the last one but in terms of general integrity

[@dorianrawls1927]

There are people who deserve a last minute cancellation... Some dates I regretted and being fair and a man of my word never served me right... I can't count the number of women who had cold feet. Why should we be any better than them?

[@jermainepatterson3213]

Epic video especially for the right woman

[@michaelbasgall8924]

If my future girlfriend doesn't like my model airplanes, we can't date. I have standards

[@Kridian01]

Or my StarWars collection. 😁

[@michaelbasgall8924]

@@Kridian01 exactly my point, if she judges our hobbies then she's clearly not worth our time

[@daktraveler56]

@@michaelbasgall8924 I feel the same way about books. I love a woman who reads.

[@DDD11239]

​@@daktraveler56 Read books older than the 20th Century. If they're too hard for a woman, teach her. A "well-read" person should be able to tackle any brick.

[@kennylynch8575]

simple don't let her know you'r interested if U let her know you'r interested they will just expect U 2 chase them 4ever

[@saadsalem7600]

Well said

[@mysteryman38649]

words to live by. great video

[@henrystreet6152]

I was looking for the comment “How to keep a woman interested…you can’t!”

[@moderngoblin]

It takes a lot of work. Not interested.

[@ted-nelek-ne8tf]

Time to remember your days with that chick, in that place... a.k.a your good memories applauds to your success 👏

[@Neso-be2lj]

I met a Girl few months ago...most beautiful girl in the city for sure...we go to same places and so on.She was reserved in the begining,scared just looking at Me from distance,staring a lot,but after that she started to act possesive and clingy,telling me what to do,where to sit,when to leave...so when she leaves I need to go home too...I can't stay because ther's other Girls around etc...but We not together...We not in a relationship.O and btw...I'm a level above Her in looks department.

[@Kridian01]

So did you go to your car, then sit for a bit and then go back in?

[@Yezebnesh_Maharat]

Hey, Courtney and everyone. It's Yosef.

[@CourtneyRyan]

Hey Yosef! 🥰

[@zaynevanday142]

@@CourtneyRyan😂

[@DDD11239]

Are we supposed to know a Yosef?

[@Yezebnesh_Maharat]

@@DDD11239 Yeah.

[@Yuvraj.]

@@Yezebnesh_Maharat😂😂

[@brysont5731]

I agree with everything Courtney has said. But there must be balance. I do fear that this creates an unrealistic expectation from women that men are to be the source of constant high levels of emotional and physically extacy. An infinite "honeymoon phase" so to speak. So that unfortunately, when the relationship goes on or they get married, the woman leaves the man chasing some other emotional experience with another man. This isnt for woman only, it goes both ways certainly.

[@davidj.espino2435]

The audio really is so low, it would really help if you can upgrade it so I can listen to your great points better.🇵🇭

[@Shibbymatt]

Sounds like a you problem

[@Kridian01]

It's her umm, soft, delicate voice. _mmmm_ I sleep now.

[@davidj.espino2435]

@@Shibbymatt Try listening to 'PictureFit' videos and use the same volume you use here, you'd know the difference.

[@judeobegi9767]

Nice video I have learnt a few things.but today the sound volume of your video is a bit low.

[@robertgraves3215]

Sure, I can be curious . But there's a fine line between that and me being all invasive/controlling. Constantly grilling someone can be draining. Women hate that too. Feelings? Some women completley freak out if you can't intuitively read their minds . Then they attack. Help us out sometimes. Sure, we care , but we've been busting our asses at work all day , worrying about our bosses' feelings . If y'all could just iterate once in a while WTF you are thinking, in grounded fashion, yes, that would be really great. Save the drama for the bedroom.

[@maximushung]

the best way to keep her interested is being her best option.

[@dang75790]

How to keep a lady interested? No idea ! Ask my wife. She's still around after 26 years 😂

[@neuro.weaver]

Courtney means we'll. However, this is all BS. Most modern women start to look around to trade up even the night of the wedding. Ninety out of hundred women WILL get bored no matter what the husband does. You could be an athlete, at the top of his profession, adored by millions - there will always be a Giselle that jumps in bed with a ...kids' judo instructor. You could a triple-A actor, making millions with every movie, famous the world over - there will always be a Jeda that cheats on you with your teenager son's drug-addict friend. The only women who don't do this are real Traditional values women. And they are rarer than birds' teeth.

[@TetrahedreX]

you're living in a (negative) fantasy world, man go out and touch grass, this is not how the majority of people live

[@TheUnkindness]

​@@TetrahedreXfrom experience he is right and you are wrong

[@TetrahedreX]

@@TheUnkindness lol ok buddy

[@TheUnkindness]

@@TetrahedreX I'm not your buddy, pal.