How to Know if Someone Is Hiding Their Feelings for You

Are you wondering if someone has romantic feelings for you, but you are unsure? Someone with romantic feelings for you, but is hiding it may pay more attention to you, being overly curious, compliments and gives you lots of affection, act unusual around you, or show off in front of you, etc. However, sometimes the signs can be so subtle that you don't know if they like you.
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References
7 Ways To Tell Someone Has Real Feelings For You, According To Experts. (n.d.). Bustle. Retrieved November 18, 2020, from www.bustle.com/p/7-ways-to-tell-someone-has-real-feelings-for-you-according-to-experts-18011486
Glassman, T. (n.d.). 5 sneaky signs that someone has a crush on you. Retrieved November 18, 2020, from Insider website: www.insider.com/signs-someone-has-a-crush-on-you-2018-2
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[@Psych2go]

How's everyone doing lately?

[@createwithminty4118]

Better than the last few months

[@lula259.]

Im fine, how about you guys? :D

[@infamoussoapconsumer3870]

Doing great, thanks for asking

[@createwithminty4118]

Is 7/9 good score btw 🌹

[@keiron.4612]

I'm bored anyone wanna have a party 🤓

[@yinnie-]

my heart: they like me my brain: they like me all the signs: they like me my anxiety: no, they definitely don't like me💀

[@thestrainplays510]

On point wtf

[@hestiasart1655]

(They like you) . . . 🙃

[@xfreja]

frrrr same

[@shakararolle836]

DITTO

[@oh-noes]

Same lol

[@sepsysmurf6982]

It's hard to tell when a shy person has a crush on you but it's a different sort of frustrating when they're so extroverted and nice you can't even tell if they're treating you specially

[@chickennug5104]

The hardest thing to do is see an extrovert flirt and show interest to me (an introvert) and they loose interest because they think that I don't like them because I don't show signs of interest like an extrovert even though in the introverted view I am flirting and showing interest honestly if people where just honest with there feelings life would be much clearer and save people from months of yes no yes no yes no I wish rejection would be kept quiet and not have any gossip spreading it and shaming the person., Why am I saying this I have no idea I am just ranting any who I already know don't comment it . Nobody cares, who asked what ever goodnight. I thought I'd update this its been about a year and a half oddly my life has changed drastically. I found my people they gave me confidence and stuff. So somehow I am now an extrovert I don't know how why or when one of my theories is that it was kinda a trauma response but I still have so much difficulty flirting with peopland showing interest. When I wrote this I has a massive crush on this one guy and now me and that guy ARE FRIENDS also I don't see him in that way anymore. But I was friends with one guy at the time I wrote this it went from platonic to yes we both obviously like each other but I have no idea what to do WE KEEP MUTUALLY FRIENDZONING EACH OTHER and he's also an extrovert like people who don't like each other don't say "hey ......" everytime we pass each other in the halls¡!!!‽ then like i talked to him before the sadie hawkings dance where the girls ask the guys out and it was weird bc i dont know how to explain it but i think he wanted to ask me out. Or maybe im over thinking this we're good as friends and that is probably good. I think I've got to let time take its course on this one because I don't want to not be friends with him but I also want more than friends well see tho he's a good friend. Okokokok it's Sept. 16 2023 I love randomly coming back to this comment every six months or so but yeahhhhhh me and that guy ARE in the awkward we both know we like each other but we can't actually put it in words we say to each other in a straight forward way stage but I think he's something and I think this might spiral into a relationship...if we communicate

[@goodbi6156]

What’s even harder is telling if your crush when you’re LGBTQ 🏳️‍🌈 likes you and are shy.

[@cutepups9116]

this happens to me, i need help :I

[@goodbi6156]

@@cutepups9116 I need help of my own. I am crazy, head over heels with intellectual attraction to somebody of the same sex as me. The problem is that they're in the same general area as my real crush who I feel romantic, physical, a smattering of emotional and a tiny bit of intellectual and maybe eventually sexual attraction too. This combination makes me utterly afraid (not nervous. I'm not that kind of person) to be with them in case somebody goes homophobe on me. And, thus, whenever it's a choice between walking with my crush and the other person, I always choose the other person. Any ideas you have??? I might possibly watch other Psych2go videos and become an "expert" on psychology, and then discuss intellectual attraction while my crush is in earshot, but I'm terrified it wouldn't feel natural. Aaaahhhhh...

[@cutepups9116]

@@goodbi6156 usually what I think is what positive things could come in the future with each. Maybe you could ask if they like you? This channel talks a lot a bout the interaction but to me it's kinda impossible, I'm like one of the most introvert introverts there is and my class does a lot of judging. Also it doesn't help that both my friends use to like the same guy... I wish i could be direct but sometimes it's too hard... not sure what your situation is but if you can actually talk to both of them about it it would be pretty good

[@egoishuge3190]

My crush: *Shows none of these signs* Me: Wow they must be really good at hiding it!

[@youarecheesefaceit]

FOR REAL

[@jomomma624]

FR!

[@virtualstorage2904]

hahaha

[@virtualstorage2904]

@Riverz Wyte seek God

[@Talashazuwu]

@Riverz Wyte That sounds fabricated, that, or you got scammed or something I dunno because voodoo is complete bs.

[@Nikki-fx7zk]

It's so hard to figure out someone likes you but friends definitely notice it

[@maxversthappening8166]

True, I’ve had friends tell me someone might like me even though I never noticed

[@Callmeunknowned]

its like no one else notices but friends always do like they can read minds or apart of your body something like that

[@astalavista5328]

Max definitely likes you I noticed it🤭

[@Psych2go]

Friends, or outsiders usually pick on the signs easier lol.

[@astalavista5328]

@@Psych2go you usually end up dating your friend in the end lol

[@bubbles6254]

Ah yes, now I can better hide my feelings for my crush

[@Psych2go]

High five!

[@jmagz03]

O. We're on the same page lad😂

[@niveditaraha3130]

😂😂😂 I thought about the same thing

[@thelonelydekuscrub4817]

I'm trying to do the opposite. I'm trying to learn the signs so I can do them (that is the ones I don't already do).

[@alesha394]

i suggest you let them out, it may lead in a relationship moreover everyone goes through people finding out your crush, your crush finding out ‘your crush’, if it goes awkward and embarrassing, it’s not as awkward as it seems since you’ll probably forget about it and if all really does go wrong, like your crush says they don’t like you due to idk your friends telling them that you like them, just say you don’t like them lol i mean what they gonna do, look into your brain? so yeah never cut out on hiding your feelings or those signs because you might miss opportunities over a little bit of possible and recoverable embarrassment

[@ives3572]

Food For Thought: Don't hide your feelings from the people you care about. If you wait too long to tell them, you might miss your chance.

[@Je11keng]

Sameee! Like as soon as you have a crush, do something!

[@the.war.historian6876]

@@Je11keng wish it was that easy. My anxiety won't let me

[@Je11keng]

@Riverz Wyte oh could you tell me please?

[@Je11keng]

@@the.war.historian6876 I can relate .

[@xdrockerzed9841]

@@Je11keng Shy maybe

[@mariamgorjian]

Y’all, I’m in my 40s now, and let me tell you that playing the guessing game is exhausting and your time is worth more. I had a friend ghost me because she got too close to the sun in our relationship. I literally grieved her absence but have come to the conclusion that she couldn’t handle being friends if she wanted something more. Life is short and if you really care about someone, please do them the favor of being honest. It is really hurtful to think you spent all that time with someone and they were on a totally different page.

[@jimmusthegrimmace]

This 100%. Hinting and forcing someone to guess your intentions is the mark of a coward and loser and could translate to other uncomfortable parts of the relationship. Men need to stop entertaining women who cannot be direct

[@inhuman_human6790]

Thanks for saying this. I’m only 19. I watch these videos for fun. For some reason, I don’t chase girls because it is draining. Plus I’ve been friend zoned so much. I’m just gonna leave that alone. You are right life is too short to worry if someone likes me. I hate when I politely reject someone, whom I’ve been friends with, and they just ghost me. Eh...I shouldn’t worry. Just gotta learn to focus on ourselves.

[@emmaa.9168]

Omg this ;-; I always thought that guessing game and vagueness was fine between us cause we were having fun. I was always always upfront with him about my feelings and he'd rejected me when I brought it up...but his actions were so different, I got confused. It felt like the feelings were mutual. He never wanted anything and I respected that. I just wanted to stay friends if that's all he could offer. But when I called him out on his actions and set boundaries, he got angry and blamed everything on me. I felt like I ended up pushing him away when I didn't mean to. I just didn't feel like whatever we had going on was worth the confusion. I set my boundaries so we'd be clear with each other. I tried reaching out cause again, still want to be friends but I'm getting ghosted...I'd usually reach out again and again, but I think I've done enough of that. I guess the best thing to do is move on from him.

[@inhuman_human6790]

@@jimmusthegrimmace Thank you I will. My mother is also a problem. She has taught me nothing. It’s as if she thought me turning 18 means that I automatically know how to be an adult and always replying with “You’ll learn”. Terrible parenting. She wonders why I’m “So immature.” Anyways, Yes I will definitely stay single. I’m too afraid for commitment anyways. I’ve actually recently been starting to focus on how to make more money, building my character/developing my personality, getting the style of clothing I want, and everything else about me. Feels really good honestly. Please pray for me(if you believe in Jesus). God bless you.

[@Tamara-ju3lh]

@@inhuman_human6790 Jesus doesn't want you to go to MGTOW. Trust me. It's a toxic pool of "men are so oppressed" (even though they hold the power in most every country in the world) and women actually suffer more abuse by the hands of men than the reverse. If you want women to actually like and respect you, work on your character for sure. Most mature and confident women don't want to play games like the MTGOW like to do. Or deal with the bitterness and resentment that group creates.

[@mirandas253]

My heart: Omg they like me! They do all these things when they’re with me ☺️ My brain: they do that with every girl

[@_Timewilltell_]

Oh gosh! Same thoughts girl 😂😕

[@tinocir9598]

Haha😊 same

[@thehehe1380]

Why why are you so relatable??

[@TheScienceDestination]

This is so relatable

[@TheScienceDestination]

@@thehehe1380 yes. Same here. When my crush behaves differently with me I am like, "Woah, she secretly likes me". Few days later my brain is like, "No no, she doesn't like you. She is just being nice. She does that with many people"

[@apersonthatexists7946]

0:58 1: They will pay you a lot of attention 1:27 2: Their body language will be different around you 2:07 3: Pay attention to their eye contact and non-verbal communication 2:56 4: They will do things to show that they care 3:27 5: They may be overly curious about you 4:08 6: They may offer you compliments and affection 5:01 7: They may act unusual around you 5:28 8: They may show off in front of you 6:01 9: They will find excuses to spend time alone with you

[@Iarchmybackula]

Thank u so much for summarising and noting down the time slots💜😊

[@Ell1e_th3_mushr00m]

Thank you. 😊🙌💕✨

[@apersonthatexists7946]

No problem, these usually help me so I decided to do one to help other people.

[@SillySamWho]

Oh No, That’s Me….

[@A____B]

that's fast

[@Starfalluponourworld]

i told her and turns out she is in love with me as well, i have a gf now :). thank you, your videos always give me confidence

[@derpidawg5219]

Way to go! I wish you both the best of luck.

[@supremedreams2132]

Man I wish. Wish the best

[@Je11keng]

Not me lol.

[@prokrastynacja2009]

OH MY GOD CONGRATULATIONS!!! I'm not sure if I have a crush on a boy, but im probably gonna tell him as well, we'll see what's gonna happen haha

[@OutofTime..]

Congrats

[@lipushaila5466]

10. if they are confused, they'll sometimes act "rudely" - hoping that a distance will be created.

[@dango4155]

Agreed, sometimes communicating is hard for some crushes and they want to keep a distance from you because they are either confused or they don’t want you to know they have feelings for you

[@kyliecastro2504]

I do this ALL the time and I really need to stop 🤣😭

[@joycechavez3966]

@@dango4155 you couldn’t describe me better

[@manueba]

I do this. A lot

[@Wind_Cursed]

I don't act "rudely" but as I'm trying to figure everything out I seem "distant"

[@tina-yj9jd]

I can always see if someone has feelings for my friends but never when someone has feelings for me

[@cottencandyskiez5548]

Same 💀✌️

[@Je11keng]

Same. I wish someone had a crush on me. :((((

[@Nola5427]

I think we see more clearly on the outside, when we are observing it.

[@nae_on]

I realized that I've always been the one showing interest in others (regardless of gender and type of interest) and now I feel super sad. Like, as a Christian, I know I should be caring for other and loving everyone without expecting anything in return, but sometimes even I feel sad that noone does that for me, except for my mother (dad too but not as much) Parents' affection is something else, you know...

[@jasonlazuli2836]

Just wait. Someone will come at the right time to appreciate and reciprocate your kindness and see how awesome you are. But for now just be yourself. God sees how you've behave and will reward you for your actions. But again just wait

[@mrzukunft]

I've recently been saved by Jesus Christ and I must admit that the same applies to me. It's mostly me making the first move in any of my friendships/relationships. Nevertheless, since I've been focusing more on God and less on others' approval, I have started to notice slight shifts regarding this. We must simply be patient. God bless!

[@limaikhiankelvin9800]

I advice going to matchmaking agency or dating. But matchmaking is better. The mentality to find a life partner is there. Much much better than to have one sided love to a close friend or good friend. Always garantee to confirm fail on getting the other one to love you. People's minds are complicated. Sometimes when you declare your love to that person you end up losing him or her as a friend when he or she suddenly avoid you or block you. If it happens. I advice. Move on. Don't talk to him or her anymore. And start going to your local trusted quality garanteed matchmaking agency.

[@curlyslks3121]

i'm living the same ! I know that I will always do a lot for the people I love even if I know that I will never really have the same, but it's stronger than me, I keep hope, It's very often disappointing, but it's beautiful

[@anyeong1246]

Same here! Although I'm not the type to make ppl melt with extremely flattering actions but I do know how to make someone feel special. I do this with ppl I really do care about but sometimes the anxiety that I'm the only one putting in effort could hold me back. Something in me tells me "hey you're doing more than you could should so take time to step back" it can really be challenging to balance making effort and soving some for yourself

[@mariasvard1701]

When you're poor and can't afford a psychologist but you have this channel ❤️👏👏👏

[@cottencandyskiez5548]

LOL YES. 👏💞

[@Emma-cc1yn]

Absolute facts

[@TheBigMacSauce]

Facts

[@mrcwillis6970]

I hide my feelings all the time. I also have a hard time telling how people feel in general. Good job on the vid 👍

[@Psych2go]

Thanks! Why do you feel you have a hard time telling people how you feel? What makes it hard for you, do you think?

[@mrcwillis6970]

@@Psych2go because I would feel bad if I did show my actual feelings, I don’t like to admit how sad and down I am inside cause it’s my feelings hurt problem, I would feel bad if anyone would have to deal with my stupid emotions. I also just generally can’t seem to really explain how I feel very well.

[@JOY-tt2cp]

@@mrcwillis6970 I was passing throught something like that too....but now, i think i'm getting to understand myself better, that's the main thing we have to do. If other people don't understand you, that's fine... say what you truly think, not to hurt people, but for you be more true to them. Every time I think about myself I think..."It's okay, I'm a real person, and I'm being happy being who I am"...that's what you need....trust more in yourself. Something I also recommend is finding people who will help you, I was having a hard time saying "I love you", but my older brother noticed and told me "I love you" every night before going sleep...and now I'm getting better at it...

[@AngelaDitshweu]

@@mrcwillis6970 same here I hide my feelings too all the time And also can you tell me what diet it mean when a boy looks oike his angry at you but your heart starts to beat 💓not just because you have a crush in them I need other reason why his like this and am scared to tell him that am always shy and and scared if he doesn't like me I will be heart broken l hope he says yes because I have tried a lot of times to get him to like me like to ask my mum if he xan come with us just anywhere Ndit didn't work it didn't go as planed but on April we are going to a restaurant maybe because my mum said she will see for herself and am hella scared to confess what should I say to him

[@staatle7707]

Me too but somehow someone found out who i liked and now my Class i'm bullied by them

[@wildfyah]

I finally talked to him. Turns out he was being nice, friendly and flirty 😒 but it's lust. Yeaaa I don't think I'm cut out for that life.

[@kripke9396]

lives of us hopeless romantics suck now.... everyone just wants to get laid...

[@tiannad1378]

felt that lol

[@TheEastNorthern]

Ouchh..

[@flormaldonado8418]

Same here 😢

[@ElfyRedSweater]

For people in a hurry ------------ 1. They will pay you a lot of attention 2. Their body language will be different around you 3. Pay attention to their eye contact & non verbal contact 4. They'll do something to show that they care 5. They might be overly curious about you 6. They'll give you compliments 7. They'll act unusual around you 8. They'll show off in front of you 9. They'll find excuses to be with you ------------ •Extra tips ; - They'll tell you goodnight / goodmorning - They want to get to know you more

[@The_fuselage]

Thanks buddy much appreciated

[@aeolian951]

"In a hurry" This video literally lasts for 7 minutes

[@FlickerFriend]

The art and animation for these videos is absolutely gorgeous! Whoever creates them is doing an amazing job!

[@Psych2go]

Thank you! Hope you like them!

[@Menacetosociety05]

STOP GIVING ME HOPE

[@JulianAlvarado2006]

Isn’t it nice when you notice all these signs in a person that you work or go to school with, and then you wake up.

[@chaoticsiv4167]

This video coincidentally came around the right time, I have a bit of a crush on someone but I am trying really hard to hide it. I'm just so scared that person won't like me back or that if they find out, they'll distance themselves from me or be nasty to me. I've been in a situation like this before and the previous person really hurt my feelings. Now I'm constantly filled with doubt and find myself wondering if I'm unlovable. It's really horrible 😭

[@thathorribleyoutuber]

I doubt you are unlovable

[@cules_hub7996]

Just go for it, ik it hurts but what's the point of living a life scared? If he doesn't feel the same then he doesn't like you for who u are which means u deserve better. Expressing your feelings are more often than not attractive for many people

[@cypher7648]

Sad thing is I have had people that have tried to show they are interested and showing they care, but even said that's what they were trying to do, only to realize they knew how to make me feel special and then use me.. after having convinced me they truly cared. Thank you for putting this out here, because I am an INFJ, I tried to trust in what they said, but my intuition told me something was amiss and yet I tried to believe in words still. Too many fast compliments can also be a way a sociopathic character may behave to win someone's trust. I've learned the hard way, people don't always mean what they say, so watch the walk, don't just listen to them talk. If things don't match up, I have learned it's not a soulful mate

[@LyreozMC]

OH MY GOD YES, LITERALLY SAME, YOU ARE SPOT ON.

[@LyreozMC]

Oooo and lemme guess you were suppressing your intuition for a while and then suddenly realized you were in an abusive relationship, and then afterwards your intuition that you had been suppressing seemingly reached superhuman levels outta nowhere. What happens next

[@LyreozMC]

Also did you go off on them with a series of extremely well written texts that absolutely destroyed their whole facade? I know I sure as hell did, I even wrote a disstrack

[@lebean1291]

I love these videos, they really help me. I'm a neuro divergent lesbian who often finds it difficult to perceive whether girls are making moves on me or not. It's hard enough being a queer woman, as it's so difficult to decipher whether other queer women are just being friendly, jokingly flirting or even lesbian or not. Then it's doubly hard when your brain doesn't quite catch social cues from others. It's a nightmare constantly interacting.

[@jocsgrotto]

Same boat here, I prefer things to be direct rather than having to analyze any interaction that felt like the person was flirty/playful/nice.

[@voiletwhitehorse]

I've had this confusion ,its heart breaking ,I got attached to a woman because she showered me with compliments that were ott ,like omg you smell delicious ,and god your so fit I wish I was fit like you ,even overheard her in convo ,that she should be a lesbian really ,she would look me up and down ,and at my legs ,turns our shes married ,

[@rubymchapman]

i have autism and i find these videos so helpful for learning to pick up social cues and other hints that i would have completely missed otherwise. thank you!

[@wheelchairgeek]

I have autism too. I understand everything and nothing at the same time.

[@linttastic]

Someone at work did all of this to me....I ended up reporting her to our harassment dept 😂 I communicated clear boundaries, but she was one of those "oh, you're just saying that" people. Be warned! This can turn creepy and uncomfortable really quickly! It's not always a flattering thing to think someone like likes you....

[@sheilameyers152]

I get mushy about lots of people…. Whether they crush on me is irrelevant I do it anyway!😊

[@Nola5427]

Agreed but there is a diffrence when you tell them you don' t feel the same and if they keep continuing to try and cross the boundaries you clearly set up.

[@Aesthetically_unpleasing]

I teach dance to children and the Mother of a child I was teaching sent me messages saying she couldn’t stop thinking about kissing and touching me and she had a crush on me. This woman has been married to a man for 16 years. I was horrified, she wanted me to join her and her husband sexually. I think she genuinely thought I’d be really flattered and happy, I was appalled and beyond distressed that she interpreted my basic human kindness as flirtation. Please don’t put people in these situations where you have decided exactly what you want them to do without consulting them, especially in their workplace. Also respect the word NO. I had a complete nervous breakdown and ended up blocking her on everything. It hasn’t ended well for anyone.

[@linttastic]

@@Aesthetically_unpleasing :( so sorry that happened!!! It's really frustrating and stressful when people perceive you to be a person you're not and thus act in a way they think you'd be receptive to :( Hope you're in a better place now!

[@iamgoddessoflove]

If someone truly wants you, they will show it through actions, how effective their communication is, their vibe, body language and how they treat you. If you have to constantly ask yourself if someone is into you or not, they act hot and cold towards you, then most likely, their not! 💙Relationship Expert KZbinr

[@jimmusthegrimmace]

you have astrology videos on your channel, youre only an expert on pseudo science.

[@YoonchiYa]

@@jimmusthegrimmace and yet is there anything wrong in her statement? Talking about something off-topic holds no weight

[@jimmusthegrimmace]

@@YoonchiYa yes there was, saying youre an expert on relationships while touting astrology makes everything you say seem less credible. had she not included that part on the end, everything would have been fine but dont claim things that aren't true. astrology is not a metric that has any bearing on actual relationships and does way more harm than good. thats like someone saying make sure you get plenty of sleep and drink lots of fluids when youre sick based on their experience as a crystal based healer.

[@YoonchiYa]

@@jimmusthegrimmace ha, I actually did not see that part at the end. That part does ruin it (sorry, Goddess of Love, not trying to be mean)

[@jimmusthegrimmace]

@@YoonchiYa lol its all good. shes just another content creator trying to sneaky plug her channel so i checked it out and saw that.

[@winshifter]

While the signs presented here can be interpreted as signs of attraction, they can also mean just being nice or friendly. As a man, over the years I got to the point where, unless the woman tells me directly that she likes me, I simply asume that she is being friendly or simply nice. Sure, there were those who got mad because "I didn't catch on their intentions" or that "I didn't take the hint" or simply just walked away. While this does works for me, it will not necessarily work for other people.

[@nessyness5447]

It is the best you can do, i get very close to friends i connect with well, specially if we have common hobbies, and since i am not very expresive with words, the way a saw my closest friend i care in through actions, always being there if they need to( like lending my house for a friend's birthday party cause it was going to be a picnic but it started to rain that day), not spending more than a few days without checking on them , always asking them to tell me that they git home safely when we went out, i am the kind of person that, if i see something( not very expensive obviously, just silly things) and i remember a close friend was looking for that or they would really like it, i get it for them as a small casual gift. ( For example, my best friend spend a lot looking for a chocolate with pistachio and couldn't find it, and then when i saw it while on vacation, i bought it for her) . But obviously , i don't mean anything else than express my very much platonic and familial love for my friends. Is never indicative of anything romantic and apparently some people find it confusing or think it is romantic, so what you do is the best option, each person is completely different after all.

[@AquilaArdens]

as a woman I misinterpreted signals so many times and got myself in awkward situations of being ghosted by my crushes because they did not feel the same, that I adopted same approach. Except I don't have issues with people walking away because "i didn't catch their intentions"... because nobody ever has those kind of intentions towards me

[@legerdemain444]

The open body language one isn't always true. When I first started hanging out with my now husband, his body language was very closed off with a lot of mixed signals. I thought he was trying to push me away so I'd respect that and give him space but then he'd go out of his way to hang out with me/talk to me. (eg he'd invite me to sit next to him, then look/lean away when I did) Turned out he was into me, but very nervous so he didn't realise he was self-sabotaging

[@Sona77.]

Was he shy?

[@kayleeray2974]

That was acutely very helpful thank you.

[@hp2546]

I mean so far, he even agreed to marry you. He is not divorcing you. You just have to believe that marriage is not always about sex. Even if he is being distant, he is still there for you. On the contrary, if he does not want you, why did he agree to marry you?

[@rondasmith4037]

WOW!! That's interesting!! I think my friend really likes me. He's not a crowd person and neither am I. I think that he's afraid to Love Me. He just Don't Trust people at all!!! He feels like he has too much to lose!! I'm just not sure wether he will ever give me 80% of his Love!! We are 50ish and not young anymore!! I don't want life to pass us by when we could be happy together!! We both are introverts but we always have Great Conversations!! We laugh, joke and also talk about serious issues in life and the world!! I look for a friend as well as a companion!!

[@SuicideBunny6]

I’ve got a huge crush on someone from work and there’s a lot of these behaviours I recognise doing myself. I pay her a lot of attention and my eyes always seem to fall upon her from a distance. When we talk I always find excuses to touch or tap her on the arm or shoulder and laugh with her. I always ask her about her what she’s been doing lately or her plans for the future, ‘cause I really want to get to know her better, yet she doesn’t seem to be as interested in me. I’ve asked her multiple times to hang out together, but she always seems busy and can never make it. Other times, I don’t want to give her or others the impression I really like her, so I just ignore her instead and talk to others around me. And when I do find myself alone with her, I’m too shy at times and don’t know what to say. Then I’m afraid she’d think I’m not interesting enough for her and it makes me even more insecure. I’d love to tell her all this, but at the same time, I’m also afraid of her reaction and then she might never want to talk with me again …

[@wheelchairgeek]

She's not interested. Sorry. Maybe likes the attention but that's it.

[@Kbrjp-kx8sl]

I think you have to give it a try and tell her. If she says no then you can move forward with your life. Maybe it can be a YES who knows 😊. As a girl in my opinion if you do that ‘ignoring her’ will make her think (in case she likes you) that you’re the one who’s not interested in here lol we girls think that way when the guy does not make any advances.

[@freshangel1]

Okay let’s put this into perspective : there are some people that will do these things but be hot and cold about them - these are not the people in question. If someone does some of these things or all of these things but less than half the time they just could be trying to woo you for their own benefit I.e to sleep with you & when they remember to put in the effort. Real attention is consistent and the behavior will ALWAYS be like this at least around you. Minimal effort is a cons game

[@ItachiAnime1]

I like going through these types of videos because it makes me feel like someone out there loves me.

[@FC-BS]

Same

[@cloudycat1400]

I came expecting I'd find someone that loved me and left knowing no one does lmao

[@LyreozMC]

LMAO SAME

[@roddymhaiki1889]

bahahaha literally

[@tiannad1378]

what matters is that you love yourself ❤

[@imtootired7623]

Me coming to class aftert a long time expecting everyone to ask me where I've been:

[@cloudycat1400]

@@imtootired7623 ME

[@daisyqwq8171]

Hii! I still hide, and hid my feelings for my partner before we got together, so I must say these sings are very correct! I ofc don't hide my feelings as much as I did back then, but I'm just a person who doesn't express my feelings as much! But thank you physk2go for making this video, and help people understand people like me better

[@Psych2go]

Glad this helps :)

[@fuhaoo_]

I absolutely hate how I can’t tell how people feel- I’m in love with a close friend of mine who I’ve met on january and I literally fell in love with him just a few days after I met him. but the thing is that I fell in love with him while being aware that apparently he likes my friend, it really does hurt being in love with him while knowing that he loves someone else but I seriously am so confused with my feelings right now- at first when I started liking him I denied my feelings saying that I don’t like him and it’s just platonic and I’m thinking it’s romantic because I’ve never met a good guy before so I probably think that I like him. of course denying my feelings just made me like him more, it’s been 3 months of denying them and it made no progress. yesterday his close friend told me that apparently he texted him saying doesn’t like my friend anymore and that he likes me now, of course I didn’t believe him because I’ve known his friend for 7 years and he tends to lie a bit, I told my other friends about it and they all agreed saying that it was obvious that he liked me (my friend who he was claimed to like even said so) even though they’re not sure, they suspect that he does like me- and now I’m just so confused because this whole time I thought my friend liked him and he likes my friend and now everything is just so complicated 😭 no one asked for my story but I really want someone to tell this to so yeah 🥲👍

[@LyreozMC]

Go ask him out, even in the off chance that he doesn't like you that way, if he's your real friend it won't ruin your existing relationship.

[@Je11keng]

So sorry to hear that:( Hope everything works works out for you! Wishing you the best! 🙏🙏❤

[@claragib8402]

Lol kinda of the same thing going on with me but less drama. i like my friend and half of me thinks that she likes me back and half of me doesn't.

[@dariaanaschenko7123]

how are things going?

[@AquilaArdens]

please update us on your story! I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you

[@strxwberri4435]

when you want to know if your crush likes you back ^^

[@aniela28]

Samee

[@thechubchubsarchives9355]

This channel has been my go to for comfort in these turbulent months, thank you for all the help.

[@fromashesreborn.]

This video really helped actually. I don't consider myself a likeable person but I've been proven wrong by two people assumably. I'll be sure to look for these signs more in the future! This is an increasingly amazing channel, by the way. The content gets more and more helpful every time. You've certainly helped me pick up on some things I wasn't even aware I'd been through/dealt with or have.

[@ruhaanmalhotra8369]

Everyone says no one likes me I don’t have hope for this

[@sam.fridayyy]

I can’t stop thinking about this one girl who I’m 99% sure has feelings for me, but it’s so hard to know for sure because she’s so shy…

[@julianaandrews8653]

I recommend go up to and talking to her bc shy girls are extremely shy around their crushes and are in a constant battle with themselves on how to approach you without dying of embarrassment when you make eye contact with them because they think you're gorgeous. Ease the tension with a joke. Good luck to you both!

[@sam.fridayyy]

@@julianaandrews8653 we got paired up in a group for a class project and I tried joking around a lot and I think it kinda worked because she was talking more than usual and laughing. Something I’ve noticed though is that she always follows me around and mimics me lol. Thanks for the advice!

[@sophiakim143]

@@sam.fridayyy this is so cute but also wow this is so cute 😭😭😭😭 gl you two, I'm rooting for you

[@sam.fridayyy]

@@sophiakim143 aww thank you, I really hope it works out!

[@julianaandrews8653]

@@sam.fridayyy you're so so welcome! I'm proud of you, and that girl has good taste lol

[@diegomarrod5151]

Well, actually I just noticed that I do almost all this stuff when I like someone, wich makes me think I'm too obvious. Even my friends tell me that I don't know how to hide my feelings. This video actually helps me think about some of my signals, and what I'm doing ok and when I'm making a mistake. Thanks!

[@kaiterice6846]

I’m seeing a lot of these signs in me❤

[@khalilahd.]

I can never tell when someone likes me and I’ve missed a few opportunities because of that 😅.

[@Je11keng]

Oh yeah? Well there are MANYYYYYY Signs someone likes you!

[@37b.vignatha7thtulip3]

Me realizing that I show all of these signs to my crush. 😅

[@TheBigMacSauce]

Same! Your not alone

[@didi85515]

Love this. I'd just like to add, when in doubt, ASK THEM!

[@Doggo4Life]

She did all of these before I asked her out. She intantly accepted and after that she asked me when we'll get out again. After 6 months, I finally saw she liked me in the way she talked and acted so I decided to see where this goes. We know we like each other now but neither of us will say it lol. I actually had a relationship with her best friend that lasted 3 months, and after that, she started to slowly move away from my ex. Now we tease each other, we started to do more phisical contact and more.

[@leylak.5249]

No one is going to see this comment but I need to say it somewhere: there is this boy who was in my class last year and we ended up in the same class this year too. I have a hard time being friends with boys so we didn't talk much but he was always very nice. I only knew one other girl and him in the class so I talked to him a bit at the beginning of the year, he also often texted me to ask me different questions about the classes. But a misunderstanding led to someone telling him that I was in love with him. The people who told him this quickly realised their mistake and told him it wasn't true, I also went to apologise to him when I found out about it a week later. I was embarrassed to talk to him again after that story but we had a presentation to do together so I had to do it anyway. But after that presentation I really couldn't talk to him anymore and I realised that I think he's really cute and I might actually have feelings for him now. I'm probably just imagining things but I feel like we have too much eye contact and when I'm around him I sometimes feel like he's paying attention to what I'm saying. For example today several of us from my class were sitting on the same table and a friend was sitting between us, I wanted to show something on my phone to my friend and it looked like he was trying to look at my phone too. I certainly must be imagining things, but there have been several stories like this. I don't dare to do anything because I have very, very low self-confidence, I'm really not pretty and I think that boys wouldn't like talking to a girl like me. So I wrote this very long comment to see if anyone had any advice on how I could talk to him again, step by step. I apologize for the length of this comment even though I don't think anyone is going to make it this far. And if by chance it is the case I wish you a wonderful day (:

[@wheelchairgeek]

I don't know what to say. People like to mess things up for other people by being embarrassing. Maybe just keep talking like and be kind and friendl

[@niharika3280]

5:00 AAAA THEE THEE MIRACULOUS REFFRENCEEEEEEEE YOU GOT TASTEEE😭😭😭 i am so happy you're credibility just went like to the top because of this

[@catlvrzz]

0:56 : they will pay you a LOT of attention 1:26 : their body language will be different around u 2:06 : pay attention to eye contact & non verbal communication! that’s it guys i got lazy

[@francescortez98]

Respectable

[@riniedarryllan1846]

This comment turns out funny lol

[@francescortez98]

Not really, but I can tell you that you're lazy.

[@sophiakim143]

HAHAHAHAH at least you're honest 😂😂😂 love this comment

[@catlvrzz]

@@francescortez98 and i can tell you must be fun at parties…

[@starchildren3381]

Love your videos they’ve helped me with a lot.

[@dango4155]

One thing I’ve always noticed is that sometimes I mimic my crushes- but idk why, is it just me? Also! Another thing I’ve noticed is that sometimes crushes can avoid you a bit because they are scared that you will find out that they like you.. I know from experience from my crush- sometimes communication is hard for crushes so they either ghost you which is bad just like psych2go said BUT sometimes you gotta understand that crushing on someone can be extremely confusing- and you don’t know what to do.. anyways good video psych2go! I love your videos they comfort me a lot!

[@Je11keng]

OMG SAMEEEEEE

[@aaergplay6022]

I love the animation style in this episode. ❤️ It's always adorable but this time even more.

[@bloolki]

Brooo this vid came out the same month I met my crush. I love the art and effort they put on these videos. Keep up the good work

[@alphastar9618]

I needed this Edit: he probably doesn’t anymore, but Ik for a fact he used to😭 I just missed my shot

[@baynana638]

same

[@TheQuokkaQueen]

You always help me so much!

[@jeffreypowell5353]

So many of these are worded "...differently when you're around." The problem with that is I am not a stalker, so I cannot know how their body language and eye contact is when I am not around. No basis for comparison. Still good info and helpful, at least for conjecture.

[@Echohah]

Knowing this stuff now probably explains why none of my previous relationships worked out

[@DefinitelyNotHidan]

Thank you, I got a friend like this and I'll asked her out with full confident! Until she said she already had a boyfriend

[@Reddy_Hakai]

I will totally subscribe! I love how educating and relaxing are these videos,and thanks to this i also understood that i might fell in love for someone,since i do almost the same things.. I really wish to date him but i just give up because i am afraid to ruin a beautiful and close friendship :( Anyway,awesom video! You can clearly see all the work behind these videos,good job!

[@xxsnow_angelxx3953]

They don't have to necessarily like you. I do this when I'm simply interested to get to know someone that I find intriguing

[@Je11keng]

Same! I stalk my crush! LOL.

[@xxsnow_angelxx3953]

@@Je11keng lmaoooo mood I speak of his cousin n he gets jealous but I like him. Not romantically tho

[@Je11keng]

@@xxsnow_angelxx3953 well I wasn't sure what you meant LOL.

[@xxsnow_angelxx3953]

@@Je11keng I stalk too but as a friend🤣 he's taken

[@nessyness5447]

Yeah, like sorry but if you like the same show as i , i am going to interrogate you about favorite characters, moments, etc , etc and i will find out if we can become besties.

[@illslegal]

Y'know, I don't really need these kinds of videos until recently where my guy friend has been dropping some hints while we're around/texting. Hence, this video is really helpful for me to analyze more of the signs so thank youuu

[@penicroom]

Not me clicking on this video to know if I’m too obvious

[@user-mh5yf3sz3o]

Ikkkkkrrrrrr

[@sgaf7001]

One obvious thing about me when I like someone: I avoid them.

[@flormaldonado8418]

Omg me too 😊

[@ronaldlee3537]

I enjoy watching your videos, they are really entertaining, while informing, you pack lots of interesting information.

[@ForestMan637]

My biggest flex is that i dont have a crush anymore. Stay focused guys!

[@ericahaddock4881]

Can you guys do a video on types of romantic relationships? Like including the vague ones that aren't boyfriend and girlfriend?

[@Psych2go]

Do you mind sharing a few examples that we can work with?

[@nadnad4413]

@@Psych2go maybe lgbtq type of relationship😊

[@sophiakim143]

You mean like situationships...?

[@eliasklein9311]

Maybe stuff like friends with benefits or more casual relationships... Like not a serious relationship but dating and seeing where it goes or just keeping it sexual but friendly Or open or poly relationships

[@Nigel_BC]

I notice more of this in myself more than anybody else I know. Kind of interesting since I don’t think I have a crush on anyone at the moment.

[@nessyness5447]

Maybe you don't , i do a lot of this thinhs with my closest friends, i am sure i don't have a crush on any of them 🤣 tbh, this things are not exact at all, each person is different in the end.

[@Je11keng]

@@nessyness5447 I understand ya lol

[@MsLilac88]

I enjoy watching your informative videos about relationships. 😊 Keep on uploading more informative videos. 👍

[@lin.._.0]

I do these things but with most of my friends just because I like to show to people that I care about them

[@jewelpatingo183]

Again thank u for posting this video it helped me with my own life i love y'all's video ♥️😁🐸

[@cottencandyskiez5548]

Hi hi! Great video! So, this is nothing related to the video but I was wondering if you could make a video on age regression or age dreaming? I recently discovered that I might be a little and I love learning about age regression. It's just so interesting. I use it as a coping mechanism, I'm totally sfw too ^^

[@allysonmccann6330]

I LOVE YOUR CHANNEL YALL ARE SO AMAZING LOVE THE PSYCHOLOGY IN THESE VIDEOS

[@Lug0sisD3ad]

This video helped a lot, can you make a video about how to stop being accidentally mean to a crush?

[@abbymendez1136]

When you watch this video to see if they like you but end up realizing you have all these signs

[@Je11keng]

Yepp!

[@elioteq1]

I started like this girl in a play that 20+ people are involved. Though, I've never had a conversation with her or say "hi" when there are times we do bump in. On a Friday I was going to ask er out but panicked, my best friend told me if something happened and I said no but I just don't have hope. He said she's a type you rlly have to get to know her for something to happen like this and well pretty much want to give up because I'm terrible in conversations 😅

[@Venomonomonom]

Ppl can struggle to show their feelings. Simply ask them even if it's awkward or uncomfortable. A girl I like has been hesitant before but seems to be open. Problem is she is bad at communication. I just gotta suck up and ask until she answers lol. Wish me luck

[@lorievill7271]

Watching this to make sure my friendliness will not lead to assumptions

[@kahlifontaine6950]

Watching this realising I’m accidentally so obvious with my crushes

[@rissa6060]

Good video! If only I can meet him directly 😂. During pandemic, it's so difficult to meet him, so we only chat/call. Hope there s this kind of video that's more discussing bout indirect communication, as I am sooooo confused to translate whether it's a hidden feeling or merely platonic 😂

[@kripke9396]

Same...... She is far away.... but i think i fell for her.... stupid me... what to do now??? does this lead somewhere or just us going diff ways till after one of us get hitched.. or should i admit...

[@kushary]

You're my favorite narrator btw!

[@JohnTK]

0:18 “the old age question” XD yes my grandparents used to ask themselves these things all the time.

[@hestiasart1655]

Hey could you make a video on how to avoid catching feelings for someone? It’s very inconvenient for me, so I’d really love some tips 🙃

[@someperson7622]

I have this strange deal with someone where they tell me about fictitious dates or encounters they had but every time they work in things I've done or sneaky compliments to me, it's adorable, but it's a very complicated situation, I absolutely love them, they make me like a million times better than I am usually and make me feel like I could rip the sky from the ground if they just asked me to, however, they are very shy and possible have bpd, that doesn't bother me, it's just frustrating at times because I don't want to upset them or hurt their feelings inadvertantly. I've tried being direct but it made them freak out and become even more shy and basically dissociate on the spot. I know they have feelings, this much is clear, just not sure how to tactfully say it's mutual without causing a panic.

[@TheAngrySlavTendy18]

Thanks for all these videos, some of these videos mAy only be for advice but their really helpful.

[@materialgiraffe5349]

I really enjoy wachting these videos I learn a lot about it and am really glad I subscribed🥰

[@0Muffiin00]

I really needed this video lol

[@charlieholborn6179]

Absolutely love these videos💜

[@Psych2go]

Thanks for your support!

[@thanoscube8573]

What a blessing it is to be serious and flirt with a girl/boy. Much thanks.

[@keijablake5755]

when they do nothing on the list but you do everything and it’s VERYY one sided 😍

[@ameliakirkwood6]

Love your videos :)

[@sirbuildjr]

I love ur videos they help me so much

[@Psych2go]

Glad to hear!

[@pinkowie7061]

this is me and my bff, we want for eachother to feel comfortable with eachother like family, we don’t have feelings with eachother at all, so i’d say that we are really good friends, like sisters

[@brittani.alyssa]

He refuses to admit it though 😭 I need to hear the words!

[@Mmt65780]

I really want you to talk about misophonia..🥺

[@Psych2go]

Sure! We can do a topic on that. Stay tune!

[@Mmt65780]

@@Psych2go omg thank you

[@julias127]

it’s quite funny because I watch these videos and then I realize the signs are all things that I have done 🥴

[@Je11keng]

Ikt

[@violet_rush]

Now I’m just realizing how obvious it must be when I have a crush on someone BECAUSE I DO ALL THESE THINGS!!! Especially acting unusual…

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[@gastonshepard6445]

I’m really sad since I was about to get a girlfriend, but she said she wasn’t ready to date anyone yet, so I waited for like 2 months and then she went back to her ex:(. I’m not mad about it, but I guess I do feel lied to:(. She will always be my friend though:). I don’t think I’ll find anyone better:(. Everything reminds me of her and I have too many memories. I saved her from suicide and played so much games:(

[@Je11keng]

Exactly me:((((((

[@madenita1693]

As an Indonesian, I'm touched seeing "Bagus" word in this video 😁

[@C_B_O_]

Is it just me or is her voice just so soothing it literally makes me want to sleep.