7 Cues to Know if Someone Likes You

Let's dive into the cues to decode romantic interest! I explore 7 cues - from mirroring to preening - to help you spot if someone likes you. Real-life examples included! Uncover the secrets and empower your relationships. Watch now for a deeper connection! 💖
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In this video:
0:00 - Introduction
0:12 - Cue 1: Mirroring
1:01 - Cue 2: Understanding Space
3:02 - Cue 3: Belly Direction
3:56 - Cue 4: Asking Questions
4:52 - Cue 5: Eye Contact
6:34 - Cue 6: Emotional Attentiveness
7:43 - Cue 7: Preening
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[@ScienceOfPeople]

Read more about how to tell if someone likes you: www.scienceofpeople.com/someone-likes-you/

[@duece-rv3fp]

As a man what should I be showing….should it be these?

[@melodyaumiller9364]

So good to know! Thanks for sharing tios with all of us RAP!❤

[@karenmurray8415]

So helpful, thank you! Wonderful as always!😊

[@mariapaschalidou9341]

Fantastic information ❤

[@SSunshine369]

Hey girl, you're awesome, thanks for the advice :)

[@jecka877]

Great as usual😊

[@BaraSchmidt]

Helpful. Timeless. Universal. And infinitely sharable content! Consider this "shared!"

[@tracy3812]

Belly direction: Janine Driver refers to this as naval intelligence. I’ve also found the direction of the feet reveal interest. Ty for this vid.

[@user-vy6kt1rv3r]

Thank you, Vanessa

[@meanderingSapien]

Great value as always Vanessa

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Glad it was helpful! 💕

[@mediatoryou]

Great, as always, Vanessa

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Oh! Thank you!

[@kman0120]

Another outstanding post Vanessa😄❤️🔥🌺

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thanks again! 💖💖💖

[@theresiams322]

Great information, even we need to observe and talk further more... Fyi, Many Psychoanalysis theories can proof these validity around 75% (the unconscious theory)... Somehow, someone who "compete" with us can also do mirroring ☺️😊.... Take Time to proof...😊 Gracias Vanessa...

[@MASshah22]

Amazing 👍🏻

[@DayOfVengeance0213]

Your thumbnail caught my eye. And listening I was like… “This is Vanessa!” Greatly enjoyed the challenge to be more warm and charismatic at EntreLeadership 2024 in Dallas.

[@ScienceOfPeople]

O wow!!! Thank you!! I'm glad you enjoyed EntreLeadership 2024!! 💖💖

[@vania698]

Thank you

[@ScienceOfPeople]

You're welcome!

[@BQ900]

The best way to know is ask and tell!!!

[@Iksiksinski.]

We need more Vanessa's KZbin videos and more often

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Oh thank you! 💕

[@averyparker9110]

Ms. Edwards you are a goldmine! I'll keep returning until i've gathered enough to be rich!

[@marcschafers6295]

This is a well done video, Vanessa! Thanks for sharing and I'll definitely practice more on creating oxytocin with my eyes! ;)

[@ScienceOfPeople]

That's wonderful! 💖💖💖

[@CPRforyourSocialLife]

She means LIKE likes! Fun topic, Vanessa!

[@shridharmahadevan2004]

Awesome

[@JacquelynnFaye]

The difference is the speed of touch. Slow self touch is attraction and twitchy fast anxious movement

[@christophermatthews3191]

Interesting.

[@javierfrancisflores7797]

Does this apply to mobile / internet communication? Like bloc party - modern love? Or is that not attraction? What zone is that? Because this is people being together. But electronic communication is like together but apart.

[@taurusjohnson1682]

People do all these things all the time but it definitely doesn’t mean that they like you.

[@emerydavis.]

I promise you don’t have to worry about these social cues . No one likes you .

[@justletmesigninokthx]

how do you know ?

[@emerydavis.]

I guess my response to you was too mean . Vanessa deleted it.

[@taurusjohnson1682]

@@emerydavis.say it again I missed it

[@aaronle9140]

Following

[@Thatbullhim]

Belly Direction 😂😂 I’ll look out for this

[@backyardrailroader]

There are a lot of ladies that like me..... as a friend, an aquaintance, or as a Tango dance partner, but that is it.

[@MrTrollbaby]

Prolly coz your friendly. Maybe you're putting yourself in the friend zone? A gentleman. Nothing wrong with that but what it does is it takes away any idea of possible romance. Add a bit of spice. Breach the gentleman boarder and say something a little risky without putting any emphasis behind it. As if it was nothing. Just a bit of harmless male tongue n cheek.

[@lynnmacleod1879]

❤

[@nathanielwright2885]

So my wife is obsessed with her devices and hardly ever looks up when I speak to her. Does this mean she's not attracted to me?.....frustrated...

[@mellamosteve331]

Ngl, feels like a silly question. Bro you are married. Do talk about with her tho

[@daniellecharming]

It means she's addicted to her devices. That's a separate issue that warrants addressing.

[@Thatbullhim]

Vanessa said another video that you should join in Consume the content together

[@bsdslacker]

Mixed cues are hard when assessing how she feels, she does quite a bit of eye contact and faces me, but behaves really weird when we talk for a bit...

[@leelasaraswat4662]

Give her time.

[@BLynn]

So based on what you are saying, when I go out with someone romantically, I should sit across from them not next to them.

[@Me-m1ne]

For me it's that they get close to me so today i can start the convo. N if i don't they find a little thing to then say something to me. It's always flattering tho

[@rezamalik9189]

... and my senior psychiatrist in Ireland says that men don't produce oxytocin 😅 no wonder why they are so aloof of our problems.

[@jellybean7009]

How can I get girls to ask questions about me.

[@lauraelizabethbrown]

Can you be more specific on what men do. You have two videos on this and you only talk about what women do, not the men.

[@beuvelain]

I know I'm not Vanessa, but from what I've read, men also do these things. They preen a lot when they're attracted: fix their hair, stroke their beard area (even if they're shaved), fix their clothes. Another thing I've read is that men show their teeth as they're smiling when they're attracted to someone. They usually smile with their mouth closed when they're just being friendly. But I guess there are people who always give toothy smiles and others who never show their teeth due to culture or embarrassment. But if a man, who usually never shows his teeth when smiling at other people, does it when he's talking to you, then it could be a sign of attraction. Also, I think the asking questions part is even more true about men than women. Women are taught to be charming and attentive to other people, so it doesn't necessarily mean anything. Men doesn't do polite as much. So when a man who usually mostly minds his own business is asking a lot of questions of someone (in a non-agressive, non-threatening way) then he's really keen on getting to know that person. Men unfortunately rarely do that just to be nice (although there are of course exceptions).

[@chaparralchic4028]

People with autism will not fit into these signals. Time and attention tell us more than little quirks.