How To Know What You Want | Kingsley Okonkwo & Toke Makinwa

[@obiageliazuka7096]

Until we As Christians understand the importance and d place of the HOLY SPIRIT in our lives as a HELPER and unseen PARTNER to help discern things ordinarily human eyes cannot see or perceive, then this journey will be so hard to imagine n handle!!!

[@leahdare23]

Marriage is not the destination!! It’s only a vehicle! I felt that ‼️

[@temitopeoluwasanmi6881]

I don't usually comment about things, but wow Toke, you asked all the right questions and hit the right notes and PK too brought a lot of wisdom. I expect many views. Great work Toke

[@justicerichard6332]

Toke was just asking pastor k questions for herself 😂it's cool sha

[@martinsdaudu1941]

😂😂😂😂

[@martinsdaudu1941]

It's not bad to want to have a successful marriage.

[@timilehindaniel3379]

See how God spoke to Toke Makinwa, what a loving father. He didn't just stopped there, he spoke to many others Hallelujah !

[@cynthiauwah7005]

Pastor K is so full of wisdom! So much to learn from him both in church and interviews.

[@IdoworshipBru10]

I pick "the moderator" aspect of the counselling. When you look at it that way...wow 👏👏 married people should do marriage counselling more.

[@kmirahconcepts8]

Toke needs to pay PK for the counsel she got. I guess he touched her life with those words around the end of the video. I love you sir

[@whitneyasaha5742]

Best conversation ever this is my first time I can really relate to a marriage/relation conversation. I related to Toke's question.

[@suliyatrasaq2936]

Thank you Madam Toke Makinwa , am watching your program for the first time even though I've heard about you but I must confess, you are not the regular interviewer and I love your realness . Thank you and God bless you .

[@suliyatrasaq2936]

Thank you too Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo , God bless you !

[@adasony2802]

PK is such a smart man (all due respect) with the gift of discernment

[@michaelmedubi8273]

That look on PK's face when Toke is describing her non-negotiables 😆 Priceless. You just know he's coming for her.

[@ruthechiejile]

🤣🤣 I saw it too

[@joytitilayooluwa5023]

Before,he has to

[@tegatheunicorn]

I love how sincere toke expressed herself .

[@ogochukwumadufor1353]

Wow!what an educative,inspiring and mind blowing section . I enjoyed every bit of it. Pastor K is sound both spiritually and otherwise I must say 👌📢📢. Toke ,you are not just beautiful ,you are one intelligent lady any wise man should have beside him and I pray that ideal man locate you soonest . Thank you for this talk show with pst k👍🙌 . .

[@Oliraokwash101]

Toke your questions are justified 🤔Pastor K you examples are food for thought wow! Marriage is a destination not a vehicle. ... It is a principle but it is not the only principle.. The way PK checked Toke's list of her 'ideal man' made me toast mine away🚮🚮. This conversation was eye opening shuuuuush. Thank you Toke we need more of this.♥️ Pastor K God bless you and you. 💓

[@peacewright8443]

One thing I love celestial for ....

[@preciousayawei4695]

So true, when she says "I think the lack of willingness comes from tiredness..."

[@onomeolukoladeolamoju]

It’s the Emi clear ooo for me🤣🤣🤣 This is so full of wisdom. Thank you, Pastor K and TM🙌🙌

[@chipooterholt5523]

Pastor Kingsley a Wise man eish

[@tolaniajao458]

Can we have the next post already 😩. Too much knowledge in here 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Everything 🔥 God bless PK. May God continue to increase him in wisdom, knowledge & understanding 🙏🏾 TM did an amazing job in stating real life issues 🙌🏾 God bless her 🙏🏾❤️❤️

[@LifeGivers-g2i]

I honestly feel this video is too short. P.K is blessed with so much wisdom. I really hope Toke would submit to this truth and run with it

[@michaelmba5387]

Really, I had to repeat that part again, why do you think God can't bless you. Even if you want a man who is rich. Pk nailed it.

[@iamsosasmama]

"Everybody is in a phase of growth, allow people to grow."-PK Church is a hospital o, all kinds of sick people are there, hence being mindful, & seek the direction of the Holy Spirit, when you pick a partner.

[@Jheriblake]

Very interesting conversation. Pastor k. Is an unusual Lecturer

[@superchris438]

Hmm pastor Kingsley is madly intelligent. The way he sees things and the ways he answers questions are phenomenal ✨️ 😍

[@victoriaogunsanya9074]

I like this girl's honesty lol

[@chrisowen-browne3996]

Kudos to pastor, we spend eight solid years to become a medical doctor, but we enter into marriage without any preparation. That is why we have all these problems. I have carried out a research about this and came out with seven pillars that we need to pass through before marriage. We are too casual before entering into the contract.

[@nature2171]

Compatibility is the key to successful marriage. Money is just a catalyst

[@bentsubscribe9816]

Tell Jeff Bezos and Bill Gate

[@a.ajessica4468]

Pastor Kingsley said "if we're stuck in our present, we're saying we don't trust God"............ Sir you're wise. This was enlightening.

[@DestinyBusyMoms]

Wow...mind blowing...articulate! 👍

[@jenneeferjoseph]

Oh Toke! May God grant you your Boaz. Amen!

[@Teenahbass]

I have always loved pastor Kingsley's teachings and Toke is just what being a real human looks like. Very insightful I had a great time watching this...weldone

[@jackychela4638]

I like this lady, she is really a dressing real issues that we face as believers, pastor Kingsley is full of wisdom, this was really helpful. 🙌

[@nicholasunique]

I think people should be very intentional about looking out for signals in their relationships. Nobody pretends forever. The problem is everybody wants to be married and that is the major reason why they fail to crosscheck signals. Weldone Pastor Kingsley

[@bonedalous]

I am number 419 that liked this video, but i am not a 419 ooooo lol. This interview was amazing and I love it. Thanks to Toks and Pastor KC

[@jessejuangwa854]

Just wow!!! PK is a fountain of knowledge, good refined knowledge

[@benitaokoroafor4745]

Wow wealth is not the main thing as a woman you can be bless too Don't limit God This is so educating thank you pastor k Thank you TM

[@ekopidongesit8247]

Pastor Kingsley is indeed a wise man.

[@zainaa4509]

He is open minded, not all pastors and GO’s will be this patient and expressive. I know a church, even colouring hair as a worker is frowned upon. We should all focus on God and not be distracted.

[@nicholasunique]

Women and men should understand that the world has changed and that Rome can be built in a day nowadays. You having a full cup that overflows doesn't change the fact that you avoid not to look out for those bad/ wrong signals.

[@daisylillian594]

Man of God your a blessing to this generation my marriage will bring many closer to God they will believe in Christ again because of your wisdom and my marriage is soon manifesting

[@charlinemassay1731]

God bless you Pastor

[@nwamaraonyemere3527]

I love love this especially the part about counseling. Couples should embrace regular counseling not only when they have issues.

[@nnamokotimothy1610]

Pst K, you are over sound on this subject "relationship" . Very interesting

[@Hisgracefoundme8]

I love Toke realness. Pastor K. You are a blessing sir.

[@Thehamandeheffect]

Pst K is Wise...😘 Love you sir

[@realtalkwithphil]

💯💯💯💯

[@victormbarachi4701]

Word!!!!! PK...you sabi....More grace!!

[@udoonter3879]

Effortlessly releasing life changing points. This is my sermon this morning.

[@AlexDaniel-lx1ft]

I really enjoy this conversation with Toke and PK, it was practical and examples given by PK was based on things we can relate with, PK didn't quote bible passages but spoke God's will. God bless Toke for being real with her questions and PK for the wisdom in answering those questions.

[@jenneeferjoseph]

I'm really blessed by this especially when he said if there is no marriage, would you still be happy. We really need to get to that point.

[@lebogangkekana191]

An organization is made out of different individuals with their own opinions and beliefs.

[@ChristelleGM]

somebody who is rich.... Yes pastor Kingsley...

[@CassandraTaiwotv]

I love the authenticity. So much wisdom

[@Ayiba-tonye]

Pastor Kingsley is so gifted 😇

[@christabelalani6266]

My pastor is just too good 👍

[@Fructose_foods]

My best of Toke’s show. This particular one has helped me made a decision I’ve been struggling to make for ages

[@aoayoola7]

This is deep on all levels. Toke, there has to be a sequel to this conversation abeg

[@ngozikafrancis9123]

Wisdom oh, Lord Jesus, thank you for Pastor Kingsley, I have learnt so much.

[@uchenwabuko203]

Too much wisdom

[@edinamtagbor1390]

Very thought provoking discussions 🙏🏾. God bless you past K and Tok

[@kanayoakunwa6813]

I love your response Pastor Kingsley, many ladies are after the immediate looking for a guy that is already there

[@foyinlolasworld6072]

Well of wisdom indeed🔥🔥🔥 We attribute wealth to being blessed ☺️ thank u for the insight sir Pretty things can come in ugly packages but until we unveil those packages,we never can tell how beautiful they are🤗 Indeed finding a woman is a good thing ❤️

[@ajueyitsieloho103]

I'm so enjoying this conversation and gaining so much. God bless you pastor K but why is it coming half half na🥺 I can't wait for the remaining part

[@omodasola_nanadee]

This piece right here is so mind blowing and for a fact life transforming, I’m a frequent fan of this vlog and m stucked here many atimes but I must confess, this right here is da bomb ✊.. thank you tokstar for this amazing conversation

[@blessingjames2743]

Wow.... I didn't see this conversation go this way. Thank You Holy Spirit ✅

[@HappyHealedRelationships]

Wow I have learnt some very important keysssss😇😇😇thank you Holy Spirit

[@kosydidingwu7125]

Tm is a vibe trust me I enjoyed the episode pk...fountain of knowledge

[@ebunoluwajohnson]

I am really happy to hear this, thank you for this insight. Toke really asked what most young ladies want to know. I like the way PK answered the questions.

[@adebukunolataiwo9715]

I'm waiting for the continuation......

[@oyindamolaogundotun8144]

It is the emi clear ohh for me 😂😂

[@faithmorah2334]

thank you pastor k and ma T.k was really blessed 🔥🔥🔥🔥please can we have this conversation more often 😩😩 me rn looking for part 2

[@izahyvonne4589]

I was looking for a way to relike this video. Toke, you rock! Pst K. God bless you!

[@preciousglory6735]

True talk with SecurityHouse

[@BudgetingStudent]

Wow please next episode This was mind blowing 🤯, too much wisdom 🙌🏼 thank you PK

[@thelifeinmeempire5383]

Wow.. the end is a woww..

[@WinningInLife-Podcasts]

Thanks Toke for this interview and thanks pastor K for the answers, "Hmmm 🤔, marriage is like WAEC", Hmm I think it's true because if one fails it once one won't say they won't do it again, one will go and study, and go and ask people to help teach them to learn the subjects they failed, because those people have done it years ago and passed it. And there's always a particular sets of answers the examiners are looking for. Same thing with marriage from ages past there has always been the same sets of things to learn and because there are two people involved one needs to know what questions to ask. But the problem is people don't want to learn these things. A lot people wants to reinvent the wheel, but instead of creating a new template which might lead to chaos.

[@olufunmilayooluwabukola6231]

God bless you

[@attahprosper3610]

Brilliant questions, outstanding answers 👏 👌

[@chinedufelixie7814]

Pastor is just full of wisdom

[@enahorookhamafe2710]

You were made for this, Pastor K. Thank you sir. Thank you, Toke too!

[@enumangene6914]

I'm I the only one that is seriously looking for a part 2 series.....?

[@chrisempire2480]

Toke where on earth would you find such man with such emerse wealth you are searching

[@fashionngme]

Pastor Kingsly..Am touched. I will reach out to you. You are blessed with a potent vacine for the family life.. I will work with you. I have an idea!

[@ayomideadeniyi6843]

Wisdom! Knowledge! Understanding!

[@nanaserwaaakoto3327]

I just love Pastor K

[@ogechukwubassey2613]

Dang! He is awesomely wise

[@MilivaMNjeg]

Wow. This was beautiful. I'm so blessed watching. Thank you both.

[@Elegan_te]

Deep

[@angelugo-nwachukwu5162]

God bless you Pastor K for always speaking in Love🙏

[@gladysonwubiko1159]

God bless you PST Kingsley, I've been blessed.

[@omowunmiosafehinti8021]

How can an average person have access to well trained marriage councellor like PST Kingsley n his wife.

[@rosemaryodey6886]

Thank you pastor k Thank you Toke I love all of your questions 😘Pastor k Is full of wisdom 🔥

[@queeneva1985]

She said she want someone who is kind regardless of religion…but she needs understand that Christianity is not a religion…so you can’t be a Christian and marry a Muslim simply because they « have the fear of God »..coz their « God » is definitely not the same as the God of the Bible..if you are a true Christian that has yielded your life to the Holy Spirit,you will never get it wrong because the Holy Spirit can NEVER mislead you!

[@ireneomo2957]

this real talk with PK JUST MADE ME PRESS D SUBSCRIBE BUTTON, I LOVE THIS

[@kaneesusanbariwere8859]

Wow great knowledge here, I underated Toke, God bless PK, and Toke

[@modernwomanTv]

POWERFUL & straight shooting!!! Thank you both. This conversation joys my heart. Discernment & self worth is so key in choosing a spouse. So grateful for his wisdom, humility (giving credits to Pst. M) & Toke's transparency is A1. We need more of our women and men to be this transparent, open and willing to receive counselling as well as correction. *Speaking in tongues*

[@lovechinmandubuisi3623]

More of it

[@clementinakuku5683]

Thank you pst K!!

[@olaleyebolanle2096]

This session is so educative and reallll....can't wait for the next episode

[@favourkech2151]

Pls give us part two abi na three sef...lol

[@dodo3794]

This was impactful, especially the last bit