How to land a man! || STEVE HARVEY

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@aknotz
@aknotz 7 жыл бұрын
I'm a guy and he's spot on. Absolutely right!
@aminah761
@aminah761 6 жыл бұрын
Dildozer wowww
@aknotz
@aknotz 6 жыл бұрын
Aminah A wow what?
@MedicaLabTech
@MedicaLabTech 5 жыл бұрын
So you try to shower them with gifts so that you "could get what you want"?
@toshadonehoo1143
@toshadonehoo1143 5 жыл бұрын
@@MedicaLabTech EVERYONE does that!
@anubisgod23
@anubisgod23 4 жыл бұрын
Are you actually a guy cause that was a whole bunch of BS! But then again 98% of what Steve claims about guys is bS
@molarbear8725
@molarbear8725 6 жыл бұрын
yup, that's how i ended up with a narcissist. he got to know me, my likes, dislikes, and did everything like a playbook. lesson learnt. listen, don't say anything about what you like or dont like at the beginning. listen and watch, let them show you who they really are.
@daphneepaul3737
@daphneepaul3737 5 жыл бұрын
Molar Bear when he ask me what I like can I lie and say the opposite. Can I say U like guys with Aids, who grew up without a father, who works at McDonald’s. The key is to not let him know what you like?
@daphneepaul3737
@daphneepaul3737 5 жыл бұрын
Or can I just say illl know when I meet him.
@godsgirl7201
@godsgirl7201 5 жыл бұрын
Sooooo true!!
@Triggereddback
@Triggereddback 5 жыл бұрын
MOST Narcissists show signs... YOU chose HIM/HER, its important to tell your standards, YOUR FAILURE OBSERVATION IS YOUR FAULT.
@penny846
@penny846 5 жыл бұрын
Exactly, tru story
@Jade-Phoenix
@Jade-Phoenix 5 жыл бұрын
Man...Steve just saved my whole dating life in 2 minutes 14 seconds
@crissyunpredictable3981
@crissyunpredictable3981 5 жыл бұрын
Darnesha Grays yessss he sure did
@anubisgod23
@anubisgod23 4 жыл бұрын
He just ruined it if you took him seriously
@zannieholmes8555
@zannieholmes8555 3 жыл бұрын
@@anubisgod23 Tell her again because Steve Harvey thinks that he is the spokesman for every man. Who knows every man in this world personally, nobody does.
@fernandomafaldafreire
@fernandomafaldafreire 3 жыл бұрын
He destroyed your life. What people want is to be happy. How can someone make other people happy? Impossible, only you can find what makes you happy.
@Jade-Phoenix
@Jade-Phoenix 3 жыл бұрын
@@anubisgod23 why you say that
@ElphabaThe2nd
@ElphabaThe2nd 6 жыл бұрын
Thank You Steve!! Especially from all of us women who grew up without good fatherly advice! Xoxo
@cribraga9215
@cribraga9215 2 жыл бұрын
@ocubex
@ocubex 6 жыл бұрын
Steve the man... completely agree with Steve, let a guy show you his version of love. After 18yrs of marriage I am still finding new ways to show my wife I love her, sure I get it wrong sometime but the more I pay attention to my wife the more I get it right.
@thebrendamia
@thebrendamia 5 жыл бұрын
ocubex blessings to you & your wife!!!❤️🌹
@hunny585
@hunny585 5 жыл бұрын
so u mean even aftr marriage we dont tell a man..wow!
@jc_80
@jc_80 4 жыл бұрын
Hina B. 18yrs of marriage too
@yeahso3143
@yeahso3143 4 жыл бұрын
You are the man!
@donvito4750
@donvito4750 4 жыл бұрын
tell me about her, do she pay the same attention to get to show you how much she loves you? think about it....
@ladyindaroom
@ladyindaroom 5 жыл бұрын
Stay away from that Friends With Benefits stuff. In my opinion, that's never to a woman's advantage.
@detrixhogan6078
@detrixhogan6078 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@kristajohnson9173
@kristajohnson9173 4 жыл бұрын
I think the bigger problem there is you shouldn't lie and say you want to be Friends With Benefits, when you don't actually want that. If you genuinely want to be Friends With Benefits with someone, you're probably not doing it with someone you think has long term potential. There's no downside, as long as you are both on the same page and not lying about it.
@RichelleRichieRockstarr
@RichelleRichieRockstarr 4 жыл бұрын
Yep
@gionagrace6279
@gionagrace6279 4 жыл бұрын
FWB will ALWAYS lead to a broken heart!!!
@ladyindaroom
@ladyindaroom 4 жыл бұрын
@@gionagrace6279 Yep! It usually leads to a broken family for the unborn child that can be conceived in such a meaningless situationship. I pray women in then types of situations, do not allow themselves to get pregnant at all.
@adolphineyayatshibaka7018
@adolphineyayatshibaka7018 6 жыл бұрын
His daughter must know how blessed they are to have such a wonderful father as Steve Harvey... I hope they listening cause I am....
@ineedhoez
@ineedhoez 5 жыл бұрын
Not is she dating p diddy.
@daphnesmith1812
@daphnesmith1812 4 жыл бұрын
He and her mom can talk all day but if she's not ready to listen and wants to do it her way she will have to suffer the consequences just like anybody else who is hard-headed. The unfortunate thing is that we get to see it.
@ericmills5163
@ericmills5163 3 жыл бұрын
Nah she likes to bang rappers
@mellery23
@mellery23 8 жыл бұрын
wow! i never looked at it like that before. its like a light bulb just went off in my head
@shaquejones4119
@shaquejones4119 6 жыл бұрын
ice angel, girl yes for sure. Raising my standards.
@theresasanford490
@theresasanford490 6 жыл бұрын
ice angel me too! That dang Steve Harvey!
@StandupGirl-ym3ey
@StandupGirl-ym3ey 6 жыл бұрын
ice angel same here! Lol
@aneane2803
@aneane2803 6 жыл бұрын
ice angel Steve With The Keysss
@lejlasas9103
@lejlasas9103 6 жыл бұрын
It is logical. If you reveal any stranger what you like, you are putting yourself at risk of being hurt because a dishonest person will fake and act to match your standards to get what they want. Dont do anything just observe , dont say much, just basic general stuff and see how they treat you on their own without your instructions and guidance.
@Mskiraven
@Mskiraven 2 жыл бұрын
This is why fathers are important.
@MatthewCoast
@MatthewCoast 4 жыл бұрын
There's nothing wrong with telling a man what you want. Just watch for consistency. Over time, he'll tell you who he is.
@masonbunch3888
@masonbunch3888 3 жыл бұрын
YESSSS!!!!! That’s all I could think during this. As a single person I was like “Steve, this is the 21ST CENTURY!!! I ain’t gonna be able to find nobody nowadays if you telling them that!!”😂😂
@triaode8013
@triaode8013 3 жыл бұрын
But it takes time... which mean I might waste my time either😅 just to figure out his true color
@ShineInspire-xp5mk
@ShineInspire-xp5mk 3 жыл бұрын
That's the problem lol Steve just saved us "time".
@tigerish7tiger12
@tigerish7tiger12 3 жыл бұрын
It's not that, it's not about material ,i.e flowers,stuff,etc, tell a man what she values in man she want, what type of character she would want in a man, flowers, chocolate,etc etc are just stuff, you are just buying a woman for some mating indirectly.
@southerngypsy1894
@southerngypsy1894 3 жыл бұрын
Problem is... Narcissists use everything you say to mirror you.
@jesusislord1059
@jesusislord1059 5 жыл бұрын
Without knowledge my people are destroyed... Hosea 4:6a ❤️😃
@catg8383
@catg8383 5 жыл бұрын
JESUS IS LORD Lets stick to the wisdom of Almighty God, and wait on the Lord for a spouse.... nevermind Steve!
@ashley-annasledge9869
@ashley-annasledge9869 5 жыл бұрын
Cat G but you’re watching the video too lol
@carolmk3114
@carolmk3114 4 жыл бұрын
Finally someone who gives the word from a place of love instead of weaponizing it to offend people. God bless you.
@rembeadgc
@rembeadgc 7 жыл бұрын
This all goes back to the notion that character and values, in a person, are paramount; something you have to wait for and observe over time. Many women won't like Steve's advice, even if it's in their best interest, because it won't get them what they want, which is attention now, affection now, pleasure now. So they will tell a guy exactly what they want because they want him to give it to them. They are not invested in the idea of wanting depth of character or having it themselves. It's endemic. Steve's advice will only work for those who value something deeper than shallow, immediate or quick gratification. Some might say or think they are but aren't. This is for the ones who do value more or have been waiting for someone to come along and tell them that there's something more. Great advice.
@Shewas-kathybates
@Shewas-kathybates 6 жыл бұрын
rembeadgc how do you know what many women think
@rembeadgc
@rembeadgc 6 жыл бұрын
Well, having never met you, but based simply on your question, I believe I'm getting some idea of what you think right now. If you say or do more I'll have an even better idea. If you know or have had experiences in your life with men, I would imagine that you too might know something about what "many" men think. Do you disagree?
@rembeadgc
@rembeadgc 6 жыл бұрын
I would like to add also that many women, perhaps the majority, based on my observation, just aren't aware of fundamental differences between men and women when it comes to things like sex, desire and commitment. No one is born knowing these things. I think Steve recognizes this and is trying to help many women avoid unnecessary hurt. When these things are known by women, it also helps men to be more conscientious and accountable. If it hasn't been taught through experiences with fathers and other male relatives and friends or other women who know, how is it then passed on to a young woman who thinks that a guy who is attracted to her is operating under the same motivation with the same intentions that she has? Often she may not fully know, appreciate or understand what is motivating him and to what degree, or how it should be approached without demonizing him. I think this is how many women get turned off through their interactions with certain men and then transfer that to men in general. Enough bad relationships while operating under bad information based on missed understandings are certainly enough to scar anyone's heart. God help those who know no better that to constantly submit themselves to it.
@Shewas-kathybates
@Shewas-kathybates 6 жыл бұрын
As a woman I like his advice and I haven’t seen one woman in the comment section yet say they disliked it, or didn’t want to hear it bc it “wouldn’t get them what they wanted” Where are these “most women” that’s all I mean to say. Have I formed some sort of opinion about most men? Yes and no. It’s my opinion and it’s relative
@rembeadgc
@rembeadgc 6 жыл бұрын
I understand what you are saying and appreciate your sharing it. I didn't say said "most women" though. I did say "many", which, to me, simply means a number that isn't insignificant. I do hope that "most" women take Steve's advice. I'm glad you like it. I love it! Spread the knowledge!
@1EddyG
@1EddyG 7 жыл бұрын
I'm a man. But this is too good. When information is so right it make you feel so good.
@sarahgaib9162
@sarahgaib9162 3 жыл бұрын
I like a man who really goes out of his way to treat a woman special, who is filled with chivalry,who is attentive and thoughtful
@rosettajones1161
@rosettajones1161 2 жыл бұрын
Totally!
@rhondagreene7938
@rhondagreene7938 2 жыл бұрын
Ok so I'm back from writing that down. What were you saying?
@carlamajano8225
@carlamajano8225 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@bettymuwanga5639
@bettymuwanga5639 2 жыл бұрын
@sarahgaib9162
@sarahgaib9162 2 жыл бұрын
@@rhondagreene7938 ahhahaha ive just written down the most important thing in the video
@SimpleAwesomeness
@SimpleAwesomeness 4 жыл бұрын
This is excellent advice. I remember when my (now) husband and I started dating 9 years ago he asked me what do I want in a man and I said "For my husband to love me as Christ loves the church". He said that bowled him over and challenged him to up his game. He stiil talks about it to this day lol
@tessynn2906
@tessynn2906 2 жыл бұрын
This is what I pray for in a husband "A man that loves me like Christ loves the church!"
@kimberlyjennings618
@kimberlyjennings618 2 жыл бұрын
Perfect way to sum it up 💖🙌🏻
@nethansmomma9795
@nethansmomma9795 2 жыл бұрын
Awweeee that's so sweet
@tammy2424
@tammy2424 8 жыл бұрын
damn I've been doing it wrong for years
@positivevibes5364
@positivevibes5364 8 жыл бұрын
Tamara Laing me too smh
@tham-time
@tham-time 6 жыл бұрын
Tamara Laing me too😭😭
@IamRoxie2024
@IamRoxie2024 6 жыл бұрын
That's alright boo, me too, but we on it now!!!! Steve H - thank you
@lovinmycurvescurls3842
@lovinmycurvescurls3842 4 жыл бұрын
Me too honey...lol that's why I've been on my man hiatus for some years now....building myself up and getting myself ready❤️❤️
@tammy2424
@tammy2424 4 жыл бұрын
LovinMyCurves&Curls 38 me too
@maseengmasitha6212
@maseengmasitha6212 4 жыл бұрын
Why is the message so clear when you’re alone? When someone shows interest, it’s not the same- your senses are being tested all the damn time.
@abrotheryourbrother3429
@abrotheryourbrother3429 3 жыл бұрын
Lol…Reality against Mentality.
@maseengmasitha6212
@maseengmasitha6212 2 жыл бұрын
Also came back to report that I passed the test, and continue to grow😊🙃.
@kimmiet.8962
@kimmiet.8962 2 жыл бұрын
@@maseengmasitha6212 God gives the same test over & over at times. Until you pass.
@RomyaRana
@RomyaRana 2 жыл бұрын
Why are you so right! Inside a relationship this stuff is just so difficult
@michaelkabaya1384
@michaelkabaya1384 6 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@TheLilly
@TheLilly 5 жыл бұрын
I'VE BEEN SAYING THAT!!! Stop telling men what you want. Many will lie to you tryna fit the profile.
@shaznewa752
@shaznewa752 5 жыл бұрын
True
@hennabyrani8180
@hennabyrani8180 4 жыл бұрын
I understand now
4 жыл бұрын
Fit in your pants. Your profile is largely irrelevant.
@itsjessicabae7024
@itsjessicabae7024 3 жыл бұрын
Steve isn't entirely correct. Either and way is going to get you hooked and quickly wanting up sex to a man. My sisters and I were always told got our time tested and sound advice from my father and uncles. My father and except for 3 out 10 of have all still married. Steve's been divorced a few times. There's only been 2 divorce
@Kzb2022
@Kzb2022 3 жыл бұрын
But how is the man to know what you want? By mind reading, prayer , the stars?
@MultiChristyk
@MultiChristyk 8 жыл бұрын
lool he's so proud of his own advice lool
@aminaa6054
@aminaa6054 8 жыл бұрын
LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL
@blackbutterfly233ify
@blackbutterfly233ify 8 жыл бұрын
well he is right
@deef4267
@deef4267 8 жыл бұрын
He should be..... That was good stuff!
@BlackWolfInc277
@BlackWolfInc277 8 жыл бұрын
MultiChristyk Well he should, it made him successful
@daphneepaul3737
@daphneepaul3737 5 жыл бұрын
MultiChristyk ur he does t take his own advice.
@candlecane
@candlecane 8 жыл бұрын
I have always hated that question. I don't do cheat sheets. I say just be yourself while I observe and decide lol!
@BlackWolfInc277
@BlackWolfInc277 8 жыл бұрын
J Q Thats the trap a man loves to set up on you. A man can only be himself to a person that trust him, not to someone he doesn't know will have a place in his life
@daphneepaul3737
@daphneepaul3737 5 жыл бұрын
J Q I actually tell him “...while I observe and decide”?
@shalanathomas7751
@shalanathomas7751 5 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY!!! THANK YOU!
@Cusp_of_magic
@Cusp_of_magic 5 жыл бұрын
Good one..💯
@natalieboult4726
@natalieboult4726 5 жыл бұрын
Paul Hogue just be honest ..
@outofafrica997
@outofafrica997 4 жыл бұрын
Years ago I did exactly this with my now fiancé. He listened very carefully. I told him that I wanted to be best friends with my partner & that is what he aimed to become. Today he is my best friend & I am his & he executed it perfectly. I wish I listened to Steve’s advice back when I was way younger & dating more frequently. Anyhoo, I am happy with my sweetheart.
@missnene9157
@missnene9157 5 жыл бұрын
Steve just wiped out the whole male population game and I love it!!!!
@echomike5097
@echomike5097 4 жыл бұрын
Only for t he men who play games. Real man don’t have the time.
@lorigant6458
@lorigant6458 4 жыл бұрын
@@echomike5097 I like that!
@rosettajones1161
@rosettajones1161 2 жыл бұрын
He is really just telling it like it is and I am so glad he does just that. So women can be helped and be aware of some men's tactics.
@gaby5546
@gaby5546 2 жыл бұрын
Hehehehe justice is sweet!😂✊
@SimonKnight1023
@SimonKnight1023 2 жыл бұрын
@@rosettajones1161 lol Most women are too unaccountable and lazy to change. They’ll just fall into the same trap but blame men.
@pursequeen6148
@pursequeen6148 2 жыл бұрын
I nearly died when he said: “We men and we stupid!” Steve must have known my Dad- because he always said that☺️
@Ricardo-ro3nj
@Ricardo-ro3nj 8 жыл бұрын
Uncle Steve dropping knowledge right here!
@kueentarot
@kueentarot 2 жыл бұрын
I like a man that really goes out of his way to treat a woman special, i like a man filled with shivery, i like a man that is attentive, i like a man that is very thoughtful 💖
@roulamohammed4805
@roulamohammed4805 8 жыл бұрын
pls we need the full segment..not part of it!!
@andrewvelonis5940
@andrewvelonis5940 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, why does it start at #3?
@nightlady2001
@nightlady2001 4 ай бұрын
Read his books for the whole deal
@ChamChamps-og7py
@ChamChamps-og7py 13 күн бұрын
@nightlady2001which book is it?
@candaceclarke1342
@candaceclarke1342 3 жыл бұрын
After hearing Uncle Steve's advice for the first time and been using it, I see where I don't have to try discern the bad guys from the good, it's like they know where the fall on the map with my expectations and they leave on their own after realizing they can't match up to this. 💯Only the good ones stick around
@rayecaters2u
@rayecaters2u 6 жыл бұрын
Teachings from an old Playa. I love it.
@blossomflowers719
@blossomflowers719 4 жыл бұрын
Lol
@potatochips1774
@potatochips1774 8 жыл бұрын
Man,if Steve is my teacher i will fail every year to come back to him xD
@michelejackson2184
@michelejackson2184 2 жыл бұрын
He expressed everything I felt was lacking on all men I dated but not only that what I truly felt I needed but could not express it in that way! Now I know what to say.
@cybilv94
@cybilv94 8 жыл бұрын
he's smart. I didn't even think of that.
@ChildfreeByChoice_SA
@ChildfreeByChoice_SA Жыл бұрын
Best advice I'm longer telling men what I want, will use this thank you for saving me heart break
@Alladathings
@Alladathings 4 жыл бұрын
Yesss 👏🏽👏🏽I love this. For those in early dating phase. But once in a relationship I believe we have to share how we like to be loved and given attention. Some women like flowers, some hate. Your man may have a different idea of what it means to have romance, we have to share in love once the relationship has been established. This is good advice for the daters Steve!
@ginagonzalez1530
@ginagonzalez1530 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Steve. I love your advise. I wish I had it 46 yrs ago and would've made a better selection. But it's never too late to have another chance when I'm ready.
@nompilolungisabrilliantmba2135
@nompilolungisabrilliantmba2135 5 жыл бұрын
This is the best advice. 💛set the standards and lay out expectations. Let him do it His way!! 😉
@TheFocusOfLovecom
@TheFocusOfLovecom 2 жыл бұрын
really goes out of his way to treat me special. chivalry, thoughtful, attentive
@orchidalicia7996
@orchidalicia7996 6 жыл бұрын
I love this....now im practising on the next man!👏👏👏👏👏💕 Im the woman who told my ex I like flowers, im not ungrateful, the guy did what Steve said, I got flowers every time he visited..e.g twice a week....so now I've learned🙏🙌🙏
@Sunnyskies1955
@Sunnyskies1955 6 жыл бұрын
Steve Harvey is a friggin genius, & he's so sweet. I LOVE this man!
@bells561
@bells561 5 жыл бұрын
SO TRUE!omg my friends would always question why I’m so mysterious but it keeps them coming back
@JesusisChrist24
@JesusisChrist24 4 жыл бұрын
Must be a Scorpio 😌
@Angel_Hearted50
@Angel_Hearted50 2 жыл бұрын
Just when you might believe you have nothing more to learn, Here's Uncle Steve. God bless you Angel.
@KatNaturalBeauty
@KatNaturalBeauty 5 жыл бұрын
It's 2019 and this popped up. Yup, It's meant for me. I literally just met someone and 💡
@crissyunpredictable3981
@crissyunpredictable3981 5 жыл бұрын
Kat Natural how it going for you did these answers work
@shereefullwood1845
@shereefullwood1845 2 жыл бұрын
I really needed a father/uncle like this in my life.
@hx6612
@hx6612 7 жыл бұрын
I don’t even have a road map to my heart 😂😂😂😂
@oluwaseunoshagbemi3628
@oluwaseunoshagbemi3628 4 жыл бұрын
M_ Hx 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@miekaash6831
@miekaash6831 4 жыл бұрын
Right lol. It’s a dead end road. You can’t get there.
@RichelleRichieRockstarr
@RichelleRichieRockstarr 4 жыл бұрын
Lolol
@snene2719
@snene2719 3 жыл бұрын
@@miekaash6831 hahahahah
@roseq536
@roseq536 2 жыл бұрын
Had a guy ask me this recently and I knew I heard the proper response somewhere; I had to search for it before I responded. I wanted to try a different approach this time and see where it goes. …. Thanks uncle Steve 😅
@emmarussell212
@emmarussell212 Жыл бұрын
Me too lol
@Andrea-xs4ny
@Andrea-xs4ny 6 жыл бұрын
I'd like to add 3 things to Uncle Steve's teachings. ;-) 1) Work on yourself. Look in the mirror, meditate, pray, see a counselor, ask a couple of friends who only want the best for you to be brutally (but lovingly) honest and have them be the mirror to tell you what you need to work on, 2) Know your self-worth and DO NOT settle. I don't care if you're lonely, need a/any man to provide for you, or he's so fine you have to have him, and 3) DO NOT rush it. Take your time and make sure. I am speaking from experience, thinking I'd found my soul mate, moved in together, split up, all within a matter of months. Don't make long-term plans or commitments until way down the line. Watch him (and yourself) to make you both reach the bar set for a healthy, long-term relationship. Save yourself the heartache that's mostly avoidable. Good luck! It's hard out there!
@lasenoritacometa1977
@lasenoritacometa1977 5 жыл бұрын
Andrea that’s why I’m still single . I’m not gonna bring just anyone to meet my family . Been divorced since 2011 . 2 children (ones already married and doing her own thing) and the others about to fly the nest . Comfortable in my own company ☺️
@niniistifanus1321
@niniistifanus1321 5 жыл бұрын
Every show needs dis man
@normamendez7483
@normamendez7483 5 жыл бұрын
Well hot digitty dog! It’s so simple but we usually make it so complicated. I seriously had to watch this a few times. Thanks Steve! ❤️
@cassidyddon74
@cassidyddon74 4 жыл бұрын
How are you doing norma
@cheerfullysweet4106
@cheerfullysweet4106 Жыл бұрын
The best information ever!!!
@lindsreese2054
@lindsreese2054 5 жыл бұрын
BEST ONE EVER Steve. I’m gonna change my answer to these questions starting now
@PucciNYC
@PucciNYC 5 жыл бұрын
Excellent advise! Straight forward and no vague language. Love it so much I had to watch 2 more times to make sure it sticks.
@commonsensecorner7275
@commonsensecorner7275 5 жыл бұрын
Well said 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 I want you to show me what kind of man you really are, then I’ll see if you’re worth my time & heart and potentially worthy of being apart of my future!!!
@aguirrn
@aguirrn 8 жыл бұрын
thank you!! I always hated this question because I would give specifics and thats not what I wanted
@TheMastermindzTV
@TheMastermindzTV 7 жыл бұрын
Nathalie Aguirre U would give specifics and that's not what u want????? That don't make any sense.
@colourmebeejay7667
@colourmebeejay7667 6 жыл бұрын
I’ve always said this! When a man asks me what’s my type or what I’m looking for, I simply tell them that I don’t answer that question and that i want them to be themselves; however, I never knew how to answer in a way by stating expectations
@cassandrang2188
@cassandrang2188 8 жыл бұрын
wow now that was some solid advice 👏
@LA-gh3mi
@LA-gh3mi 5 жыл бұрын
Steve is saving me a lot of heartache right now 😂💜
@rebeccaprefina3512
@rebeccaprefina3512 2 жыл бұрын
Steve...This is your best training for me. WOW!!!
@remyjay9700
@remyjay9700 8 жыл бұрын
He's slick as hell 😂🙌🏿
@EdzDayuha
@EdzDayuha 4 жыл бұрын
Such a precious wisdom right there!! All ladies need to hear this!
@angelabareque7914
@angelabareque7914 8 жыл бұрын
Steve Harvey should be a teacher for children
@MultiChristyk
@MultiChristyk 8 жыл бұрын
Angela Bareque adult children 😂
@vanaphill2454
@vanaphill2454 8 жыл бұрын
Steve is teaching boys how to be men at his mentoring camp. but some grown men could benefit from his advice as well.
@TechieBunny
@TechieBunny 8 жыл бұрын
Mr Hightower!
@MimiMhair
@MimiMhair 5 жыл бұрын
He use to be on Steve Hightower
@Skittles861
@Skittles861 5 жыл бұрын
Lol maybe college kids
@Nicole-bj6qv
@Nicole-bj6qv 5 жыл бұрын
Damn, a lightbulb went off in my head. I like that answer better Steve. He be giving us the answers, all we gotta do is take them and use them to our advantage, ladies.👌🏼💯
@ladyindaroom
@ladyindaroom 5 жыл бұрын
Beware of a man whose getting to know you, and one of the first questions he ask is "Do you Drink"? That's a warning sign right there. A man whose trying to get to know you for the right reasons would not ask that question. If you're not one who drinks alcohol, and he's paying attention he'll know you do not drink.
@hunadilentswana6962
@hunadilentswana6962 4 жыл бұрын
Woooooooow great advice and we get that alot❤️👏🏾👏🏾🇿🇦
@pCOCKPRO11
@pCOCKPRO11 3 жыл бұрын
"A man who's trying etc. would not ask"?? What if he wants to know if she's compatible for a relationship/marriage? bc HE doesn't drink. What if it's literally the beginning and he doesn't know? He has a right to ask, as opposed to this "paying attention" mind game. How does that even make sense to you? It could be a first date situation.
@ladyindaroom
@ladyindaroom 3 жыл бұрын
@@pCOCKPRO11 Thank you Billy, but this is my total opinion. Most men who ask that question, usually want to know so they can get a woman drunk, and ready for the bed. I said what I said. That's a great majority of men.
@kimmiet.8962
@kimmiet.8962 2 жыл бұрын
@Kendl 🙌🏾👏🏾🙌🏾 People miss this. Sad too. Integrity is so lost.
@priscillaonpurpose
@priscillaonpurpose 4 жыл бұрын
You are such a blessing to our generation 💫💫♥️
@crystalannmitchell3796
@crystalannmitchell3796 5 жыл бұрын
Dang I wished I would have known this years ago
@crissyunpredictable3981
@crissyunpredictable3981 5 жыл бұрын
Crystal Mitchell me too😫 better late then never
@cassidyddon74
@cassidyddon74 4 жыл бұрын
@@crissyunpredictable3981 how are you doing
@demasmoha
@demasmoha 5 жыл бұрын
This all goes back to the notion that character and values, in a person, are paramount; something you have to wait for and observe over time. Many women won't like Steve's advice, even if it's in their best interest, because it won't get them what they want, which is attention now, affection now, pleasure now. So they will tell a guy exactly what they want because they want him to give it to them. They are not invested in the idea of wanting depth of character or having it themselves. It's endemic. Steve's advice will only work for those who value something deeper than shallow, immediate or quick gratification. Some might say or think they are but aren't. This is for the ones who do value more or have been waiting for someone to come along and tell them that there's something more. Great advice
@SarahLizDoan
@SarahLizDoan 5 жыл бұрын
😮 whoa! Holy Toledo, that is mind boggling and mind blowing! I’m in a very happy relationship with the most wonderful man who has great character and he is so amazing to me yet this makes perfect sense and is what he does....as in he thinks of ways (on his own) to make me feel special and is very considerate and on and on. I also have young ladies and girls in my life and I’ll be telling them this! Wow!
@kittyp8938
@kittyp8938 4 жыл бұрын
Nah Steve.... you deserve an award for this one 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼💕
@aleksandraciric2928
@aleksandraciric2928 8 жыл бұрын
I really need more of this
@pCOCKPRO11
@pCOCKPRO11 3 жыл бұрын
How've you made out?
@dzulanijusticemulaudzi5812
@dzulanijusticemulaudzi5812 3 жыл бұрын
Gotta bring this show back uncle Steve!!!
@MzNoir_Rain444
@MzNoir_Rain444 2 жыл бұрын
Steve is right!!! I was engaged to a man that was like “you like pie? oh I like pie, you like to travel? I like to travel; do you like to hang glide? I love hang gliding ” 😂😂 Yep needless to say he didn’t like the things I did.
@Dani-uu9mn
@Dani-uu9mn 4 жыл бұрын
Dang! You could hear a pin drop in that room when Steve was talking. All these ladies taking notes& tryin to get a man! Solid advice Steve 👏🏽
@BLexTv
@BLexTv 5 жыл бұрын
Taking notes Steve 👏🏽👍🏾
@davisiesha5015
@davisiesha5015 5 жыл бұрын
See this is why some of us women, females, girls, ladies need/needed our fathers in our lives. Steve is teaching and I'm learning. Thank you Mr. Harvey a lot of us need this, some of us didn't have a father around to teach us about men.
@OlderWomenRock
@OlderWomenRock 5 жыл бұрын
Oh Goodness that question drives me crazy “ what are you looking for “ . I’ve told them how I like a man to be/treat me . whoosh right over their heads . Doesn’t matter what you tell them , they are who they are and they can’t change .
@F-J.
@F-J. 5 жыл бұрын
They listen and learn if you withhold/delay the rewards 😉
@BLESSED2BEABLESSING
@BLESSED2BEABLESSING 4 жыл бұрын
Maybe you have been having relationships with the wrong type of men?
@OlderWomenRock
@OlderWomenRock 4 жыл бұрын
Beautiful L one of them for sure !!
@BLESSED2BEABLESSING
@BLESSED2BEABLESSING 4 жыл бұрын
@@OlderWomenRock well I pray you finally are treated like a queen and you are cherished and respected as you deserve. God bless you.
@OlderWomenRock
@OlderWomenRock 4 жыл бұрын
Beautiful L what an absolutely lovely comment , thank you 🙏 so kind . I’m ok without a guy these days . Check my channel for fun 😊
@justmo6896
@justmo6896 4 жыл бұрын
Let him get to know you slowly by slowly...true talk right there
@gracetchabi
@gracetchabi 8 жыл бұрын
thank you Steve
@brownytracyrsa1928
@brownytracyrsa1928 4 жыл бұрын
Uncle Steve, thank you for saving us , all ladies have to listen to this.
@keddeashabrown2141
@keddeashabrown2141 5 жыл бұрын
This has got to be some of the best dating advice ever
@TealDwellings
@TealDwellings 5 жыл бұрын
YES UNCLE STEVEEEE!!!!!! I love this man so much, it hurts he's not my direct Uncle...Thank you Uncle Steve, thank you xx
@oliviarain9765
@oliviarain9765 8 жыл бұрын
love this makes sense!!!
@abrotheryourbrother3429
@abrotheryourbrother3429 3 жыл бұрын
Hmmm please do take care that these things don’t misguide you
@alaiyamahim9379
@alaiyamahim9379 5 жыл бұрын
Awesome Advice.. Thanks
@lisabush5451
@lisabush5451 5 жыл бұрын
Lesson learned , I did the exact .thing my ex played with my heart strings to get what he wanted. Ladies set standards and boundaries with these men don't play with them . Remember you are the prize. 🙂
@YourGirlSudanny
@YourGirlSudanny 5 жыл бұрын
Such a wise man!! Love this!!
@abrotheryourbrother3429
@abrotheryourbrother3429 3 жыл бұрын
You might be right but many would call that simple logic.
@n.sue-ann5527
@n.sue-ann5527 6 жыл бұрын
Not gonna lie, Steve Harvey speaks to my soul💯🙌🏾
@ritaoshun
@ritaoshun 5 жыл бұрын
Preach.....think like a good, honest forthright man
@KatErina-ii6ru
@KatErina-ii6ru 5 жыл бұрын
Yes!!! Great advice, simple yet profound. I didn’t get good advice from my parents growing up. The only advice I got was to make sure you marry someone who is Christian, and make sure he loves his mother. So guess the first person I choose is a Christian mamas boy who turned out to have the WORST character ever! I don’t want to blame my parents for my choices but now I feel like I’m just learning these valuable lessons in my 30s 🙄 I will take this advice, because it’s actually practical ❤️ Thank you!! Going to keep watching 🙏🏻💋
@vineshakaleyvani4834
@vineshakaleyvani4834 2 жыл бұрын
Wow.. This is the most thoughtful thing I watched today!
@themissmay
@themissmay 6 жыл бұрын
Scratch all that. The answer is love yourself fiercely and unconditionally.
@Blessedabove
@Blessedabove 5 жыл бұрын
Beautiful answer! 💥💣💥
@flclub54
@flclub54 3 жыл бұрын
That's right baby!
@chantelles3641
@chantelles3641 3 жыл бұрын
YES to self-love!! And YES to a partner that can make life a fun and supportive journey.
@cherylgibson4797
@cherylgibson4797 2 жыл бұрын
Truth Steve. We need to teach all women about this.
@DBox3591
@DBox3591 8 жыл бұрын
Steve can't even stand himself at the end. I don't want him to break his arm patting himself on the back, LOL!
@austinconnor8510
@austinconnor8510 4 жыл бұрын
Debbie B.. hahaha you are funny
@cookwithme7470
@cookwithme7470 2 жыл бұрын
Hey Steve I hope you find this comment. Guess What! I came across this just yesterday and today evening this guy asked me this question! And I gave this response. He was wow great answer! Thank you so much
@RoyalMasterpiece
@RoyalMasterpiece 8 жыл бұрын
Ohhhhhhhhhhhhh this is good!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I have to get his books!
@ziziphomangqalaza2007
@ziziphomangqalaza2007 5 жыл бұрын
Steve is the king of good advice
@missr7449
@missr7449 5 жыл бұрын
I agree with this 100%!!! They ask all those questions to act like they are the man you want when he’s the exact opposite. No thanks sir.
@CreativeThinking52
@CreativeThinking52 2 жыл бұрын
Excellent advice. Have a great day. 🤗
@yallgotcheesepuffs9767
@yallgotcheesepuffs9767 8 жыл бұрын
man Ellen DeGeneres and Steve Harvey are the best
@bettyeweems3350
@bettyeweems3350 8 жыл бұрын
Mr.Vizo
@YAS9112
@YAS9112 7 жыл бұрын
I don't like Elen that much she is ok though but Steve Harvey is funnier and smart ass
@isabelchacon9721
@isabelchacon9721 2 жыл бұрын
I just got this video...and this is so cool!!! Thank you so much! 💜 from Chile!
@moiseetienne886
@moiseetienne886 5 жыл бұрын
Steve Harvey, always here selling men out 😂
@sirnathanstorernbsn
@sirnathanstorernbsn 5 жыл бұрын
Moïse Étienne somebody needs to... some of you men are ridiculous!😁
@moiseetienne886
@moiseetienne886 5 жыл бұрын
@@sirnathanstorernbsn Oh snap, just realized you one of em 😁
@cherrylu2733
@cherrylu2733 2 жыл бұрын
Excellent thank you Steve💕💖💖💖
@NYCBJP
@NYCBJP 6 жыл бұрын
even thought steve's past is shady he really got me thinking right here. Women need to see what that man will do ON HIS OWN and if his natural way of doing things floats your boat then you're going places... and if not then move on to the next one until you find a match.
@darwin047
@darwin047 5 жыл бұрын
Who has a past that isn't shady? Take good advice if the advice is good. Every person that gives good advice has a shady past.
@julianacheriza1575
@julianacheriza1575 3 жыл бұрын
That’s why when they ask you what you’re looking for in a man you said you were looking for somebody real because that could mean anything depending on how they naturally are
@tamiibrock6176
@tamiibrock6176 3 жыл бұрын
I watched Steve for log time but this is the only show put me on fire 🔥. #3 is my best favor.
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