For any of us females watching this video, let me add this: please do not get upset if your guys ejaculates early. None of that exasperated sighing. Don't be rolling your eyes. Throwing off the covers and stomping out of bed in a huff. NO. Look, he already knows he came too soon, and we don't need to add to his embarrassment or making the situation worse... for both of us! Chances are, even if this particular session didn't go as planned, just remember this is still a guy you enjoy, you feel good when he's around, you're still having a great time with. Give it some time, try some of these techniques, and he'll be back in the saddle. Another great video, Style OG!
@TheStyleOG2 жыл бұрын
Appreciate the input!
@EstratosVarios2 жыл бұрын
Wow. A woman of culture.
@yuniqueglam2 жыл бұрын
I agree! No need to make the situation awkward. It happens….plus sometimes you don’t need a long drawn out session anyway. If it happens ladies give him and nice back rub and go to sleep. He’ll feel appreciated instead of embarrassed.
@reallifedialogue2 жыл бұрын
I agree. I always say this.💯💯
@Gangalamu2 жыл бұрын
Superb input lady. This helps alot out there
@elee83742 жыл бұрын
Count in 7’s starting from the number 7. 7, 14, 21, 28, 35, 42, 49 and so on It forces you to focus on the numbers and will help you last longer. It really works.
@everymonies2 жыл бұрын
I noticed if I look down on the woman (in my head alone, maybe even picturing of how I'll feel about her after the pnc), it makes me feel like not even coming at all. Try "degrading" her in your mind, it does wonders.
@tilk42482 жыл бұрын
@@everymonies might help but wi cause harm to the relationship man
@everymonies2 жыл бұрын
@@tilk4248 just keep it in control
@roflswamp62 жыл бұрын
It did literally nothing for me
@abdurahim5360 Жыл бұрын
that‘s actually not that good bc then you might no be present in the moment wich makes it harder to have an enjoyable time
@UNKNOWN-zv2hn2 жыл бұрын
I try and zone out and think of war or war footages, experiences. Helps a lot, also makes you cry
@spencer4hire2 жыл бұрын
Jeff, weight loss and getting in shape has worked magic for me in this area. I’ve lost 200 lbs, taken up running, and weight training. It’s been a complete 180° for me. Gentlemen, take care of your bodies, so they can take care of you.
@TheStyleOG2 жыл бұрын
Agreed!
@dtbabar9412 жыл бұрын
💯
@abdurahim5360 Жыл бұрын
when you were obese/overweight did u also have some ED problems? bc i actually gained weight alot and i noticed some ED and also climax faster. can weight gain empact that?
@RichCousin Жыл бұрын
@abdu rahim 100% had a baby and stopped working out cause rhe baby at night. Got fat. Nutted quick. Everything was uncomfortable. Baby turned 1. Got back in the gym. Game changed.
@rudygoofysrh10 ай бұрын
Great job 👏
@Salazar8242 жыл бұрын
As a man that has been through 2 or 3 of these situations. I approve this message 👍🏼
@TheStyleOG2 жыл бұрын
Salute!
@picassojulien8992 жыл бұрын
1. Is fitness. Being in shape helps you so much with this.
@MadPete2 жыл бұрын
Why tho? Like beeing in shape is obviously very good, but how exactly does it help with lasting longer? Wouldnt good blood circulation make it even more intense abd harder to not climax?
@Dogspine12 жыл бұрын
@@MadPete I'm not sure why but breathing in and out helps and fitness keeps your cardiovascular system more efficient making it easier to breathe even when doing something strenuous such as sex so I imagine that'd be why🤷
@julesdrame4647 Жыл бұрын
It’s more mental than physical
@severalflyingninjas8 ай бұрын
@@MadPeteI know this is far afterwards, but especially with cardiovascular health, it helps you from getting too excited. If your heart rate goes up extremely quickly (due to physical activity while not being in shape) it adds to the general blood flow to the area. If your heart is well conditioned and can take the physical activity, then you don't have the double whammy of sexual excitement and physical activity adding extra sensitivity due to blood flow.
@MadPete8 ай бұрын
@@severalflyingninjas shit makes sense when u say it like this lol. Why did i never hear anyone say this haha. Thx
@LeeEverett1 Жыл бұрын
An additional tip that I wouldn't ever tell any of my male peers and something most guys wouldn't do out of pride is buying a fleshlight and practicing the techniques he mentioned in the video. This saves you the trouble of going through any frustration with a real woman and the performance pressure that you may face as a guy and you can just do it at your own pace. It sounds dumb but I count thrusts as reps and I set myself a goal of like 50, 100, etc thrusts before stopping and giving myself another goal to get to. This puts your focus elsewhere and you won't be as overly excited. Obviously some guys will say "I'd never but a sex toy that's pathetic" but honestly if you have to jerk it yourself what's the difference? Besides it feels 10x better with the toy 🤷♂️
@Mastabacc Жыл бұрын
That's exactly what I did a couple years ago before I deployed. I knew I'd get some ass during deployment, so I grabbed a toy and practiced. Wasn't a fleshlight though, was one of those F my silly from amazon. Needed to simulate the real experience as much as possible. Just like you, started with 20 thrust and stopped for about 15 secs. Increased it by 10 every 3 days till I got to 100. Not only that, I was edging. I never finished at all that entire month. I also started to practice faster thrust because I knew that was a weakness. Got up to 100 again but by that time things just clicked and you can be in some sort trance. I don't know how to describe it, but ever since that month long practice session, I was able to bust whenever I wanted. Even when the woman wraps her legs around me which is another weakness. ONE LAST THING. GUYS, GET IN SHAPE! I believe that is also a crucial factor in lasting longer. At 6'2 270 3 years ago, I didn't have any stamina or endurance. But after getting down to 205, it made a huge difference. Getting in shape and practicing the above will do wonders and you will have so much confidence. I promise you!
@Ram-rm2gz9 ай бұрын
@@Mastabaccawesome tips brotha
@davidlscales8 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing great info
@davidlscales8 ай бұрын
@lee Everett great information thanks so much
@donavanstarghill2985 Жыл бұрын
Dude I watched like 5 videos before this one and you mentioned all the tips plus more! Really good and through advice! Thanks man
@TheStyleOG Жыл бұрын
Happy to help!
@estonbrowne63392 жыл бұрын
Use tip 8 to go with tips 5-7 if you get excited. When all else fails, repeat foreplay/oral/whatever she likes and get back to business. If the cookie is too good you can't think about anything else controlling your breathing . Deep inhaling and exhaling while stroking helps. Shallow breaths will make you ejaculate faster
@isaiahb.79562 жыл бұрын
Great tips! For the condom piece, I’d also like to add that in order for the condom to act as a delaying agent, it should be a thick condom not a sensual or sensitive one. I know a lot of contraceptive companies are coming out with thinner condoms. Do not get them unless you don’t care too much about lasting longer.
@MrWhiteprideWorldWide2 жыл бұрын
man all I think about is the fact im fucking a bag and I dont cum. as soon as I take it off damn bro like 4-5 min.
@norrisriddle3637 Жыл бұрын
Please give names of some thick condoms
@lennonmoore28472 жыл бұрын
Appreciate you Jeff! You are always relevant and timely! Have a wonderful holiday season! Happy 2022! The best is yet to come for you.
@TheStyleOG2 жыл бұрын
Happy holidays!
@jr1profesor2 жыл бұрын
A great way for not busting fast is letting her be on top and letting her do the work. Takes your mind off of concentrating too hard.
@TheStyleOG2 жыл бұрын
Yup!
@infadelakainf2 жыл бұрын
Oddly enough most of these were told to me by uncles and older cousins
@torrellallen31652 жыл бұрын
I’m glad I’m finding these videos while I’m still young so I can save myself from failure in the future💯💪🏾
@Shubham-dc1lr2 жыл бұрын
Same bro
@jacobjohnston5433 Жыл бұрын
@@Shubham-dc1lr have you done any of them?
@Shubham-dc1lr Жыл бұрын
@@jacobjohnston5433 yeah I've tried some of them and they def help to increase the blood flow and strengthens the pelvic floor muscles 💪
@premesupreme7132 жыл бұрын
*5:17* 😅😅😅 That Great feeling 🐈
@TheStyleOG2 жыл бұрын
Yes Sir!
@leroyw37992 жыл бұрын
Thanks a million Jeff, I’ve know some of those techniques, but watching your video even teach me more . Now you see why you are my go to God ? You are soooo! Good man . Continue to do what you you doing Jeff , we really love it . Awesome 👏🏾 👏🏾👏🏾
@anw5102 жыл бұрын
Great advice and thank you! In the back of my mind, I do have anxiety issues at times. Am going to do these things to improve for the better.
@macthesmac2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes if you do step 2 you might not want to go out 😂
@mikemacheese71742 жыл бұрын
If I don't set my alarm I can last until almost noon in bed. That is ample sleep!
@ronj99332 жыл бұрын
Took my comment!
@islandman98952 жыл бұрын
When doing “edging” how much times should you do this a day? An how long should you hold it for?
@Agent20902 жыл бұрын
You could essentially just keep doing it. It'll make when you finally do climax extremely intense. It's all personal preference. Good rule of thumb, on average woman like 20-30 minutes of actual penetrative sex (not including foreplay, and you should always include foreplay), so you'll want to be able to last at least 20 minutes.
@Mr33_illuminated32 ай бұрын
@@Agent2090 Must watch too much porn bro that’s weird get healthy should be standard 1-2 hour in bed as a man tbh
@ChosenOne66662 жыл бұрын
When I am "balls deep" I think about sports or anything to get my mind off things.
@TheStyleOG2 жыл бұрын
Old school!
@premesupreme7132 жыл бұрын
😂 y’all krazy lol
@ChosenOne66662 жыл бұрын
@@c.d.2338 What does dat got to do with anything
@ChosenOne66662 жыл бұрын
@@c.d.2338 If you finish quickly she can blow on it to get it to Salut again
@peytonaaron30262 жыл бұрын
I use to watch tv while doing my thing and if I don’t have the tv on I think about something gross (not going into details) lol
@MobileHomeGeek2 жыл бұрын
Definitely cardio as well.. lots of jump roping!!
@TheStyleOG2 жыл бұрын
That helps!
@premesupreme7132 жыл бұрын
Really? It helps
@MobileHomeGeek2 жыл бұрын
@Preme Supreme definitely.. eat plenty of dark green veggies and fruit..trust me!!
@claudiomonreal48222 жыл бұрын
@@MobileHomeGeek yeah agree stay away from junk food before sex
@wholeshebang1 Жыл бұрын
*@Ryan Goer* - Yes, exercise and a healthy diet are great. Smoking tobacco deprives the body of oxygen and is a cause of ED, so quitting will help with getting and maintaining erections.
@CinemaGuyTy Жыл бұрын
Edging is an amazing way to get to know your arousal response. The best way to last longer is being able to gauge how close you are to the finish line. It’s a technique that teaches you self-awareness. Also, do reverse kegels. Normal kegels create tension in the pelvic floor, and tension in the pelvic floor leads to contractions of the pelvic floor (orgasm and ejaculation).
@Sonofthefatherinheaven-wd3lu9 ай бұрын
How to learn edging?
@cuthbertwchance90452 жыл бұрын
YES Jeff stay strong, keep in shape, you get done.HOOYAH, protect yourself
@TheStyleOG2 жыл бұрын
Yes Sir!
@rashadjefferson82952 жыл бұрын
My guy keep it up you the best at what you do 💯
@TheStyleOG2 жыл бұрын
Appreciate it!
@adt7years2 жыл бұрын
Me and my home have something called the 22 rotation its when you take a women in a particular position hit it about 22 times and then change position that slows the ejaculation .
@TheStyleOG2 жыл бұрын
I like it!
@j.c.27872 жыл бұрын
22 strokes? Then switch positions?
@wholeshebang1 Жыл бұрын
That's not necessarily going to be enjoyable for the woman, switching positions every 30 seconds or less.
@morisventura674 Жыл бұрын
Also, foreplay is very important because you get her super wet and that will act as an additive and it won't fell so dry and the sensation will decrease the friction, and you will be able to last super longer, do not go at it without foreplay ever, and don't dorget a thick condon.
@davidlscales Жыл бұрын
Thanks 4 the insight on how to last longer in the bedroom
@TheStyleOG Жыл бұрын
no problem !
@mmm-ww8jp Жыл бұрын
I was so embarrassed but I hope this helps
@davidlscales Жыл бұрын
Keep up the great work it’s helping me
@peanutwars2 жыл бұрын
True story: I’ve done it many times right but one time I did the squeeze technique too late and LIKELY too rough because blood came out and I freaked out so hard but I was fine so just be careful to not do it super rough sorry :)
@davidtaylor87872 жыл бұрын
Great video Jeff! 👍 You always give the best advice! Happy Holidays Bro!! Salute!!
@TheStyleOG2 жыл бұрын
Happy holidays!
@eddieagui1554 Жыл бұрын
@@TheStyleOGedging is amazing bro
@jholliday32 жыл бұрын
Another good idea is to increase the foreplay. This way you can be more engaged in the process. Also you get the chance to get the babe hype and about time you get started it's like the main event.
@wholeshebang1 Жыл бұрын
@jholiday3 - Help *her* have a few orgasms before you go for penetration, because most women do not have _vaginal orgasms_ from penetration - and the _clitoris_ and _g-spot_ don't get the right kind of contact during penetration for orgasm. Couples often aim for _simultaneous orgasms,_ that rarely happen. As long as everyone's satisfied in the end, it's cool.
@ScottEnders-o8t Жыл бұрын
L-Citrulline & Maca capsules allowed me to last way longer as well as edging & using my pelvic floor muscles.
@spookylopez96824 ай бұрын
Ima try this gang
@user-tn9iw2tt8g4 ай бұрын
Thanks again for those tips Sir !!! Appreciate it !!
@TheStyleOG4 ай бұрын
No worries!
@cliftonsledge9622 жыл бұрын
Thanks O.G. great advice before Christmas, you’ll never guess what the wife is getting 😉
@TheStyleOG2 жыл бұрын
HA!!!
@skinfanjay2 жыл бұрын
Lolololololololol
@swanboone57812 жыл бұрын
Some Edging 😆
@glenngray68592 жыл бұрын
Good one my bro.
@sonsofvirginsempireofhydra13932 жыл бұрын
A necklace?
@Annunakibih Жыл бұрын
Yes but also don’t confuse excessive masturbation with ED if you masturbate too many times you won’t be able to get it up before hand
@tyronehall2597 Жыл бұрын
Great video and good tips you have provided!
@rudygoofysrh10 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing this. Salute OG!! 🫡
@TheStyleOG10 ай бұрын
No doubt!
@marvinspencer78582 жыл бұрын
Wow most of those tips are brand new to me, and wow I am not sure how well I could control myself but yeah, I would most likely talk about it and let things flow with accountability.
@ernestcarter70732 жыл бұрын
Salute bro 👊. Great advice on this topic! The squeeze technique is something new I learned.
@TheStyleOG2 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@bepehjohnpaul4458 Жыл бұрын
This video has been very helpful… All the tips are cutting edge… I’m so grateful I watched this… Thanks a lot
@ernstpierre96444 ай бұрын
Fantastic OG, me being in my mid fifties I was doing some of these anyway but I learned also from your techniques mentioned, thank you OG.
@TheStyleOG4 ай бұрын
No problem!
@arvstephenson11074 ай бұрын
EXCELLENT ADVICE!
@jholliday32 жыл бұрын
Another idea you need to get some practice. You can't shoot like Steph Curry if you only getting it occassionally or practicing getting it in. Find a lady you can get some weekly or multiple times a week action to improve skills and you can find out which one of the Style O.G.'s techniques work for you and while developing some of your own.
@maethewmih Жыл бұрын
This guy is a real O G !
@charliecoronado46572 жыл бұрын
So what do you call it when you pull out to change positions and then you start going soft?
@mle38574 ай бұрын
Defeat
@jimmyejohnson11872 жыл бұрын
Great, great video! Thanks!! Dirty talk. It gets my mind away from the actual act and it gets her more excited.
@TheStyleOG2 жыл бұрын
Appreciate it!
@heavenawuahmanu60212 жыл бұрын
Heaven OG from Ghana,Africa. Salute!!
@TheStyleOG2 жыл бұрын
Salute!
@HEISELVIS2 ай бұрын
Worked like magic>>>😊
@michaelbullock80112 жыл бұрын
Great info video and I enjoyed it and have a blessed night
@TheStyleOG2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Michael!
@michaelbullock80112 жыл бұрын
You welcome keep up the good work
@dorrainereid71799 ай бұрын
Thank yuo soooo much ❤ i will take it from here ☺ not even telling him am just gonna be the star of the show & make him think about it in my absence 👍👍
@josephinebardot8403 Жыл бұрын
Extremely like the video, man. Very helpful and informative. Thank you very much. It is presented so well too. Great, positive work.
@markdaniels50862 жыл бұрын
Out of the park, OG….. You are a great man! Thanks!
@brydongervais35552 жыл бұрын
Been a while! Some solid advice u give.
@TheStyleOG2 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@calebxd22412 жыл бұрын
Clicked on this thinking it was gonna help me sleep more :o
@subhadipsarkar4803 Жыл бұрын
Thanks
@furydj23112 жыл бұрын
Spot on 🎯
@TheStyleOG2 жыл бұрын
Appreciate it!
@darniusterix57742 жыл бұрын
Great technics that I've used with my partner. Thank you for sharing this info.
@Official-xk2kj Жыл бұрын
The best to ever do this
@Mr.MallyMall2 жыл бұрын
Good video Jeff.
@TheStyleOG2 жыл бұрын
Thanks 👍
@coachjb88122 жыл бұрын
OG out here giving us these free gifts…so we can stuff that stocking ✊🏽😤
@premesupreme7132 жыл бұрын
Lolll
@swanboone57812 жыл бұрын
Pun intended lol
@TheStyleOG2 жыл бұрын
Ha!
@Gangalamu2 жыл бұрын
U r so good mate and ur expression is so composed
@TheStyleOG2 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@Mindz9-102 жыл бұрын
Thanks big homie 🤝💯
@mikehayles4533 Жыл бұрын
Good tips
@weetabix22 жыл бұрын
Just getting into bed would be a blessing
@leonardwashingtongee27972 жыл бұрын
You said it all OG!!! Can't be in your favorite position and expect to even pull out the driveway!! Merry Christmas to you and yours! Salutations OG!
@TheStyleOG2 жыл бұрын
Happy holidays!
@silkk79932 жыл бұрын
Thanks dude
@TheStyleOG2 жыл бұрын
No problem!
@jmorgan08292 жыл бұрын
Good video bro ❤
@takeithomefil2 жыл бұрын
You really helped me man, last time I lasted 7 seconds now I'm lasting up to 5 hours thank you man ! :)
@Thatbul2 жыл бұрын
5 hours ? That’s means both of y’all suck
@agentjordan6052 жыл бұрын
Whoa 5 hours? Are you serious?
@j.c.27872 жыл бұрын
Back in high school I used to ditch with my girl and I would literally go all morning till we had to go home . Basically the whole school day. My D would be sore asf from it tho
@jamiebaxter91432 жыл бұрын
@@j.c.2787 How though? I can last 20-30 minutes using technique and stuff, but never that long. How?
@YoungRangerJu2 жыл бұрын
@Ceyco Royalty 😂😂
@dbrown29892 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the grown man advice brother!
@TheStyleOG2 жыл бұрын
Any time!
@3kidsandadad2 жыл бұрын
This made me laugh...but he hit the nail on the head with these tips! #TrueStory
@TheStyleOG2 жыл бұрын
Salute!
@wumbats68922 жыл бұрын
what about when you hav a hyper active pelvic floor muscle?
@itsDjjayyArt2 жыл бұрын
What about Jamaican Tonic drinks 🍻
@joshsutherly61567 ай бұрын
Definitely four play!
@bruxared3297Ай бұрын
But some people have it so easy, without even trying
@calamityvalley34912 жыл бұрын
They say to focus on other things but I feel like my bottom head is smarter than my top head, if I start counting or think of things that are turn offs, my bottom head is feeling best of the best and ain’t nothing stopping him from achieving his goal, dammit lol
@richardross59286 ай бұрын
this is really helpful, im usually a 1 pump chump
@jackdollars89242 жыл бұрын
Great tips OG.
@teenoso40692 жыл бұрын
Who else went straight to the end here? :)
@postyCH Жыл бұрын
i love tips
@mngkyouGoD Жыл бұрын
This i like. Salute Uncle Jeff 🫡🫡🫡💯💯💯💯😁😁😁
@TheStyleOG Жыл бұрын
Salute!
@mcculler12 жыл бұрын
Happy new year bro . Thank you for your information bro
@mr.blobberry31124 ай бұрын
Watching this in public hits different.
@Juice515252 жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤
@TheStyleOG2 жыл бұрын
No problem!
@dexterjweaver48122 жыл бұрын
Salute! Good video. 💪🏿👏🏿👍🏿
@raymondnelson25822 жыл бұрын
You on point with it my boi...I usually take my mind off it...
@recklessralphfromqueens83832 жыл бұрын
Where have you been, my good sir ? Whatever it might have been, hope all is well and glad you’re back.
@infadelakainf2 жыл бұрын
What about premature commenting? 😂
@TheStyleOG2 жыл бұрын
nothing wrong with that!
@glenngray68592 жыл бұрын
What's up my bro Og. I have learned as an older guy is to be focused on pleasing her . And that helps me become that superman in bed. Great educational videos my G. Very helpful tips. Salute my friend.
@georgetinker12922 жыл бұрын
Jeff. Do you have tips for dressing better on a blue collar job?
@elijahselbicky36392 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the info. Foreplay is essential. Like Bernie Mac said “ A …k ain’t nothing but fifty pumps. Count it if you ain’t got nothing to do.” 😂😂😂 Salute!
@Luh_Tonka-h5v6 ай бұрын
What is ED?
@joemartinez69982 жыл бұрын
If you are over 40 , testosterone cypionate 300 a week. Life changing, the real fountain of youth