Key Messages: 1. Research what you want to learn. 2. Find role models and select individuals who have done what you want to learn fast or successfully. 3. Distill the learning into a plan. 4. Create a process and incorporate learning into habits. 5. Stay true to the plan! Practice in real-world environment. 6. Bottom Line: Care for what you want to learn and make it non-negotiable.
@arielgranados5807 Жыл бұрын
thank you, It was better than watching the whole video
@chilledoutorange42698 жыл бұрын
I was trying to turn on captions after hearing that intro.
@Airgemcrypto1088 жыл бұрын
haha! same here
@hvrc08 жыл бұрын
omg same
@elmandooh8 жыл бұрын
Himanshu Thakur Lol, and was about to close the video when i saw that there are no subtitles
@ochampagne11578 жыл бұрын
HAHAHAH SAME
@JM230078 жыл бұрын
I didn't know that was Spanish, hell, I'm even a native Spanish speaker. I thought it was Japanese for a moment. Hahaha.
@Mrneonsean6 жыл бұрын
How to learn anything in 30 days? The short answer: Self discipline, passion, and dedication
@PianoHeal5 жыл бұрын
Voldemort that’s It ! 🤷🏻♂️☘️😊❤️🎹👍🏻
@joyomolore98354 жыл бұрын
Holy CHRIST!!! This is voldemort!!
@scottherf4 жыл бұрын
Integrity.
@karamba50894 жыл бұрын
And some magic lol
@fiona42134 жыл бұрын
Thank you Voldemort
@tomasramirezgomez55646 жыл бұрын
Yep, I learn anything in 30 days but I also forget everything in the next 30 days.
@andyyu20243 жыл бұрын
hhhhhh
@suraj-ug8mj3 жыл бұрын
That's the magic of 30 days
@suraj-ug8mj3 жыл бұрын
If you had learned it by spending more time , you could've remember for more
@SylwekGrega8 жыл бұрын
Fantastic message. Self discipline is doing something whether you feel like it or not.
@annamoan21078 жыл бұрын
I get the impression that what Mr. Grooms says goes beyond self-discipline. Self-discipline requires effort and, for some people, huge amounts of self control. What this young man suggests is to not leave yourself the choice of doing otherwise. That would mean you don't even need discipline, you just have to do what you have to do, like your life depends on it, like you would need that to survive. You wouldn't need self-discipline to survive.
@m.schwarz84288 жыл бұрын
You need self-discipline to tell you, that you have no choice though.
@spreadthepositivityvlogs59956 жыл бұрын
yes because you will either experience the pain of Discipline OR the pain of regret choice is Yours
@mohmadtayfur82854 жыл бұрын
ذذذءيببؤريثبللببلققاىىتتنةءءءؤءسسش♡♡♤□■
@mohmadtayfur82854 жыл бұрын
غبعاةنتىلععاءءذتغرال
@luismejia68028 жыл бұрын
"ACTUALLY CARING".... This guy is unnecessarily intense, but the "non-negociable" message is useful.
@Elkx21217 жыл бұрын
There is no such thing as unnecessarily intense, there is just intense.
@luismejia68026 жыл бұрын
Elif I believe there is such a thing, because you can use a controlled level of intensity to get a point across to you audience effectively, but there is a threshold where it can become a little obnoxious. I'm not trying to criticize though, the message is substantial, which is what really matters.
@AnSturbin6 жыл бұрын
@@Elkx2121 how about screaming profanity at your kid's little league game
@wiemcowybieram7 жыл бұрын
I really like your documentary movie about learning Spanish only by 1 month. I have been learning English 3 years, every day, and now I can say that I'm fluent. All my free time I spent for learning English and this is amazing like after some time you see your results :) I'm learning Spanish now, but frankly, is harder for me to learn this, because I love using English.
@TutionTime5 жыл бұрын
How did you learn that actually i dont know from where i should start
@TuanAnhNguyen-ct7zk5 жыл бұрын
@@TutionTime Try to learn some favorite things by yourself then use that ways with certain things you must learn :))
@ihatekillerclowns5 жыл бұрын
it's an obvious scam. Shame Ted X are using blokes like this now without researching their backgrounds
@TuanAnhNguyen-ct7zk5 жыл бұрын
@@ihatekillerclowns yes i understood. By title, the content is not necessary but with his ways we can succeed in a favorite thing. Spent 7 minutes so just draw something for yourself instead forgotten in our mind :v
@anastacia_english5 жыл бұрын
I've been learning English for all my life)
@Slowmo-sapiens6 жыл бұрын
Next month challenge : Humility
@doutorgori3276 жыл бұрын
His method to learn a language: Have a lot of money to pay a tutor and travel to the country. Have a lot of free time. And don't have a job (it will only get in the way).
@scottherf Жыл бұрын
It’s a grift.
@williambaldwin93462 жыл бұрын
One thing I learned way to late in life is commit and give all your attention to one thing and be excellent at it. Take school. I went back to College at 40 years old, and I take one course per semester. Two courses and two A's later I sky rocketed my GPA. Next semester, yep one course. Do one thing, and do it well even if it takes longer for the total goal. Do the work even if you don't feel like it.
@davisia817918 жыл бұрын
"I gained 26 pounds of muscle in a month." Bullshit. I could see 26 pounds of fat+muscle+water weight (still a tad extreme, but viable), but not straight muscle. The pictures he showed suggest the same.
@todornikolov14737 жыл бұрын
Yep. He gained 26 pounds of something alright but certainly not pure muscle.
@SoFreshBlaze7 жыл бұрын
The fitness industry hates this guy
@mycreativity20105 жыл бұрын
Your speech gave me exactly what I needed. I have been failing in many endeavors all my life inspire of all the right research, awesome resources. but i didn’t know why I was never able to accomplish my goals . Today, I have understood. I have never bothered to COMMIT. I never made it non negotiable. This is my light bulb moment. Like you said, that is the key ingredient for success. Thanks a ton. I am super excited. From today I am on the right track. Thank you 🙏 One thing I will stop doing is spending hours on KZbin researching for the best solution, because I have finally found it.
@daxinventor35426 жыл бұрын
Perfect truth young warrior. Your future is so bright that you have got to wear sunglasses. Simple and to the point. Commitment is the key. Thank you for sharing. Outstanding video.
@mattstone81118 жыл бұрын
This guy needs to be non-negotiable about chilling the fuck out.
@Cat_Sterling7 жыл бұрын
Matt Stone hilarious comment! :)
@GodsNode7 жыл бұрын
lmao
@CarlosCastilloproactivos7 жыл бұрын
Cheers BuckBooks!
@banagi65987 жыл бұрын
He is awesome. This is the way to do something. Instead of complaining and crying follow his message. Like we hate our jobs but we go there that is not negotiable, wow. Wonderful!
@ichirot33488 жыл бұрын
This is how I learnt English language, but what is surprising to me is he's found out this way of achieving something before he gets 20. I'm 21, and I got it this year.
@yigaltv7 жыл бұрын
oh youth
@SpiritPhoenixRose7 жыл бұрын
Excellent talk! Instead of trying to do everything at once and being overwhelmed by it all, commit to doing one thing at a time. Streamline energy instead of scattering it. Needed to hear that, thanks x
@takethecatout7 жыл бұрын
The secret to learning anything is to be amazing.
@andrewbirkett7159 жыл бұрын
You're awesome. I wish I could have made it in person.
@sudharsansuresh1707 жыл бұрын
Message was useful, I think he could have been more relaxed and calm during the presentation! But i dont care what his mindset was - He got a strong message!
@arlinegeorge69673 жыл бұрын
So true committed. Thank you bless you n All your dreams come true.
@artistryartistry72397 жыл бұрын
"Force yourself to do it every day" is a remarkably dense approach to long term change.
@MarmaladePeaches7 жыл бұрын
Artistry Artistry it's a start to a new beginning. I feel like you'll find a better way along the way
@salty85446 жыл бұрын
Don't waste your time, the message is passion
@0x288 жыл бұрын
Plan: watch entire KZbin videos first and only then watch the comment section, or not watch the comment section at all.
@angelameek91018 жыл бұрын
I liked what he was saying, especially the focusing on one thing. Personally, I have a lot of distractions when trying to do anything and have been known to get side-tracked, before you know it the day is over. So get more done by removing all the things I thought I should do and focus on my main objective sounds good to me.
@williambudd28503 жыл бұрын
This is pure krap! To learn anything you must use spaced repetition and the final spacing ust be appropriximately one year.
@_Bachi_7 жыл бұрын
Urban Escape and Evasion is on his bucket list. Good Man!!
@SenorJuan20232 жыл бұрын
"I love it when a plan comes together." Hannibal, The A Team
@soulmach6 жыл бұрын
Very good. If there's one thing we're lacking in today other than sleep it's Focus.
@SilPSceSi9TyWaff7 жыл бұрын
He's serious about getting things done fast, that leather jacket is all about SPEED and getting it done in 30 days or less
@evilmorty14408 жыл бұрын
This was very good!!!
@alaziadancing23607 жыл бұрын
that's not Spanish. It's gibberish.
@anastacia_english5 жыл бұрын
good play on words)
@mrpancake79655 жыл бұрын
thats not the point
@trolling11785 жыл бұрын
Nah I think that's just you...
@gbravy5 жыл бұрын
You're right. Took me a minute to figure out that the point he's trying to make, I think, is what it sounded like to him the first night. That's what Spanish sounded like to him.
@joeishino39525 жыл бұрын
incredible, thank you
@timothykemp9085 жыл бұрын
Great message...thank you!
@aravindamondal46476 жыл бұрын
The most powerful message I have heard today
@meiteiviking46666 жыл бұрын
really love it man. thanks!alot
@martinaguero33498 жыл бұрын
Awesome man. I'm going to do it.
@omnibrain86 жыл бұрын
Commitment is the key.Thank you.
@thecodingmentor77017 жыл бұрын
THE best talk to learning sth that Ive heard until now, i didnt want to listen because of previous disappointments of this kind but this was really great
@khalilmustafakhan83404 жыл бұрын
Commit to one thing make it non negotiable. Research it plan it and execute it the essence of this ted talk
@BangMaster966 жыл бұрын
Every multilingual person: "I know more than 7 languages, but fluent in none of them"
@Nicolesid15 жыл бұрын
Me too!! Hahaha
@Amanda-qe5lj4 жыл бұрын
most of polyglots reach C1 or C2 only in 2 or 3 languages that are the languages they use most, the rest is conversational level, like B1, not understand anything and not being able to say everything but still conversational.
@TristaSullivantraining8 жыл бұрын
Yes!!!! Non Negociable:) I want to be Baptiste Certified by Baron Baptiste!!! I don't care how many people tell me to LET IT GO:) I don't want to. As long as it takes that is what I'm working toward:)
@calistafalcontail2 жыл бұрын
Not only does he not speak real spanish in the beginning, he also did not explain how he made something non-negotiable. He first used the example of going to work. We do it cause we have to, meaning there will be negative consequences if we dont. When it comes to personal stuff we want to achieve, what exactly makes it non-negotiable? Most people can say "I will just start doing this or that..." and they really want it but he doesnt explain how to develope this sort of selfdiscipline, where you are not overwhelmed by the power of feeling tired, umotivated or distracted. The non-negotiable status of something has to come by putting a form of "punishment" on it or not?
@anurag.prasoon3 жыл бұрын
1:19 ⚡ 8:00 ⚡ 8:31 ⚡
@victor60105 жыл бұрын
that beginning I was like wtf is happening lol nice lecture
@donhendershot97057 жыл бұрын
Very good points!
@museluvr8 жыл бұрын
I needed this. Thank you Connor. Very informative, and as my mind has a million things it wants to do, that key point of 'pick one, do it.. move to the next' is such a simple step I've over looked it all these years. Good luck in your list of accomplishments.
@alejamisifu9 жыл бұрын
Very nice! Quite motivated after that!
@Santiago-51075 жыл бұрын
The messege is, " Just do it"
@TheManChise6 жыл бұрын
Great concepts..just make a plan and commit..
@mlasko747 жыл бұрын
I can't help but comment that most people after their morning coffee have to go to work to house, feed and support themselves. If u have the available time and come from a wealthy family, that certainly helps your situation. I need to say that, because he didnt
@Elena_PS913 жыл бұрын
Sounds like an excuse you have 24hrs in a day... Like everyone else
@Elena_PS913 жыл бұрын
Tony Robins too has 24hrs but gets a lot done in a day
@arthitn.19797 жыл бұрын
What this guy said is so right because I have done it... thank you for this powerful message, this is not new but thanks for reminded me!
@zakopiec7 жыл бұрын
Great sugestion thx. I trying used in my live starting from today.
@karmen26784 жыл бұрын
Excellent speech!! And the way he delivered is absolutely necessary I finally realized why most schooling systems don't work.....20 different subjects over months and years but people finish high-school and after 3-4 years of "learning/studying" a language, still can't get a word out......just too many things at once without much interest in the subject It's just like the goverments want us all to work at starbucks (no offense, just an example).....hmmm.....
@fisherpeace5607 жыл бұрын
Learning something quickly is amazing, but in the end, what is the point of learning something if you cannot create something new from the learning? The real difficult thing is to create, not to learn something that already exists
@highsom6 жыл бұрын
Fisher Peace correct 😯
@PsychokoreUndergroundRap5 жыл бұрын
that's actualy very true..
@C3KNG7 жыл бұрын
I want to achieve my goals but i doubt want to develop hyper tension like this guy
@privcraft_5 жыл бұрын
He looks like a discount Nick Jonas
@anastacia_english5 жыл бұрын
You should do it constantly!
@jeeva81367 жыл бұрын
Why don't you give subtitles?
@budhachandrayumkhaibam60797 жыл бұрын
This speaks to me
@user-iy4vf2ul5f7 жыл бұрын
His message feels authentic and compelling after noticing his message brought out the 'negotiable' type in the comment section. Sarcasam and humor only creates curiousity and debate. "I think, therefore I am". What are you going to do in 30 days?
@MrRobotman2 жыл бұрын
But how do you make it non-negotiable?
@calistafalcontail2 жыл бұрын
Exactly my question too. He did not explain how he made something non-negotiable. He first used the example of going to work. We do it cause we have to, meaning there will be negative consequences if we dont. When it comes to personal stuff we want to achieve, what exactly makes it non-negotiable? Most people can say "I will just start doing this or that..." and they really want it but he doesnt explain how to develope this sort of selfdiscipline, where you are not overwhelmed by the power of feeling tired, umotivated or distracted. The non-negotiable status of something has to come by putting a form of "punishment" on it or not?
@glowshine8647 жыл бұрын
Amazing Speech!
@justanother30days233 жыл бұрын
Non-negotiable! 👌💪
@MawiyahJ8 жыл бұрын
Non negotiable. Good point.
@oscalfred20098 жыл бұрын
Hello! ... I am Argentine and I am trying to achieve speaking in English. I am looking for a native English speaker who is learning Spanish and wants to get a native Spanish speaker to learn, improve and practice speaking Spanish. The idea is to teach one another among us. Greetings.
@Huevo888888 жыл бұрын
Hi, I speak English and am trying to learn Spanish!
@oscalfred20098 жыл бұрын
Hi Peter !, It's nice to meet you, if it seems right, let's agree on the time and day that is convenient for both of us and from there we start to communicate through Skype. I'm telling you that right now (01/14/17), I'm going on vacation for two weeks but I'll just come back, if that's okay, we'll start. Greetings.
@Huevo888888 жыл бұрын
oscalfred2009 sounds good! Are you on Facebook at all? maybe we could add each other there?
@oscalfred20098 жыл бұрын
Si Peter, estoy en facebook...no hay problemas, encontrémonos allí. Pasame un correo y te mando el link de facebook.
@Huevo888888 жыл бұрын
oscalfred2009 facebook.com/peter.stone.33
@ganeshvadke53003 жыл бұрын
Try to focus on few things..thise few things are very important health,skill,work and family..you are more happier
@hacene19926 жыл бұрын
i am waiting for someone to come up with an idea how to sleep 8 hours in 4 hours !!
@teampugayfarm46006 жыл бұрын
Hacene Meliani I've been reading the comment while listening to this man talk, and your's is more hilarious but honest to goodness comment because I myself am thinking the same way. I usually sleep 2-3 hours (4hrs. max).
@Hellomaricedd6 жыл бұрын
Lol
@reginaphilange64783 жыл бұрын
Polyphasic sleep. Some can reduce it to 2 hours but 4 hours is a good one to begin with. It's not as bad actually.
@twistedoracle11447 жыл бұрын
The message is to have to have self-discipline. Unfortunately, he did not deliver it in a good way.
@MegF1428577 жыл бұрын
He isn't a real nightowl, if he can just say "I'm getting up early to be more productive". A true nightowl won't be more productive, even if they get up. There are genetic circadian rhythms that are true nightowl in nature. It is counter productive to fight your natural sleep cycle, IMO. -- This attitude of "all in" for 30 days with obsession may be useful in limited fashion, but not a way that I would live going from one thing to the next with that long a list. -- I would have liked to hear him actually speak some Spanish (more than a half sentence) and do some pushups. Is he able to carry on the language and keep the muscle before moving on to some other topic?
@Davran27423 жыл бұрын
In my experience it's a myth that you can learn a language in thirty days; if immersed you can get some basics down in the present tense in a month. After three years of studying Spanish I could use a solid thirty days just to study the subjunctive. I think that telling people they can learn anything in thirty days sets them up for disappointment.
@quellbrack3 жыл бұрын
Really wanting to
@恩和桑6 жыл бұрын
Very Inspiring
@proskater1011007 жыл бұрын
what is he saying at the beginning, that is definitely NOT Spanish lol
@iwilljones6 жыл бұрын
joseph smith it’s not supposed to be Spanish
@Emsworth3774 жыл бұрын
Amazing speech. And he's absolutely right, dedication is key. However.....did he just say he moved to the country and then had a private tutor for 3 hours a day?! My day entails waking up doing 8 hours at work plus overtime, coming home dealing with screaming kids fitting in an hour of my own time sleeping. Then rince and repeat...I'm not sure if I can really follow his model.
@PaulJohn2047 жыл бұрын
I bet this guy is insatiable to be around, I can just imagine it now: Me: 'I think I'm going to go and watch the football, want to come?' Him: 'That isn't a product use of my time' Me: 'yeah but it'll be fun, come just for the first half? :)' Him: 'I didn't gain 28 pounds of muscle in ONE MONTH by watching football. And did I mention I learned Spanish in Medellin Colombia in 30 days too?' Me: 'Actually, I think I'll go alone.'
@lukagoshi6 жыл бұрын
Not sure insatiable is the word you're looking for...
@rayanzelms94536 жыл бұрын
so what word he should have used instead?
@change65896 жыл бұрын
Insufferable maybe?
@rayanzelms94536 жыл бұрын
exactly😂😂
@neestovekin82516 жыл бұрын
+Luke Hatch thinking the same thing +DangerDays58 yes, that's the one
@negativeoptimist78415 жыл бұрын
Amazing loved it "Non Negotiable is the keyword"
@blueskies7736 жыл бұрын
What language was that in the beginning? It did not sound like Spanish... he spoke it like French but I didn’t catch French.
@noghd25608 жыл бұрын
This guy epitomises youthful narcissism
@whoismattkohn8 жыл бұрын
I think if more young people adapted this guy's mindset we would have a society of much more productive, impactful and fulfilled younger people.
@OvenBakedCookie8 жыл бұрын
But nothing he said here is unrealistic. It's the "I have to do it" that's the hard part. But if you do it, you'll achieve quite a bit.
@whoismattkohn8 жыл бұрын
he didn't become fluent, he became conversational. Holla
@JM230078 жыл бұрын
I honestly didn't understand anything he said.
@OvenBakedCookie8 жыл бұрын
Fernando Mendoza Which parts did you have trouble understanding? I'll try to explain.
@jackfruittraveller89934 жыл бұрын
For me it was an effective message ...
@match46928 жыл бұрын
Solid advice, well presented when there's something you want to do you will find a way.
@ashamaughn3408 жыл бұрын
You know.....i ...i kinda like him .....he passionate... ain't nothing wrong with that .... must be doing something write if hes on a ted talk. :-]
@Samatare-l9u5 жыл бұрын
I am going to start to gain weight today I am 60 kg and 6 feet tall I want to gain 12 kg of muscle-bound so see you after one month.
@siddhesh02925 жыл бұрын
So it's summary of the book "The One Thing"
@kafkawood8 жыл бұрын
Seems like TED has some serious problems with relevant guests supply. This guy´s before/after photos are in a dictionary right next to the word "cringe".
@gerryjtierney7 жыл бұрын
26lbs of muscle in a month. No.
@hobbsenddestroyer5 жыл бұрын
Looks like he skipped leg day
@santkumarhooda32767 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@Cstank57 жыл бұрын
This is awesome Connor, but how do you make it non negotiable? Do you set a punishment ($500 to the tutor guy)? Or do you just change your mind set?
@chezzy628 жыл бұрын
YES.
@m.k.q97366 жыл бұрын
Speechless👍👍
@Bmozzi6 жыл бұрын
Brilliant!!!
@Tophu485487 жыл бұрын
This guy gives me a creepy vibe. I think it's his jacket.
@republicanrunner65776 жыл бұрын
Kids young but wise.
@jocen38 жыл бұрын
Holy fuck this guy is intense... Kind of ridiculous.
@RickLiebespach5 жыл бұрын
Awesome!
@Jimmywty997 жыл бұрын
I have to stop watching Internet memes to get my revision done
@artemisa54568 жыл бұрын
Not to be mean but for some reason I don't wanna hear him
@evilmorty14408 жыл бұрын
okay. keep dumb!
@artemisa54568 жыл бұрын
I just expressed that don't find his voice attractive to hear, never said I'm not interested on what he's saying... Gosh, seems like one can't make a comment without being judged.
@evilmorty14408 жыл бұрын
Sabrina Benítez Alright, Sabrina. But his video is very good!
@fhhfgj7 жыл бұрын
You just judged HIM based on his voice. So by your logic if someone said you were about to be hit by a bus but you didn't find that voice appealing you would just stand there and get hit,brilliant.
@artemisa54567 жыл бұрын
It's not voluntary, just did't find his voice appealing. I did watch the video since I'm interested in what he is saying... Just commented a thought lol
@heypappy7 жыл бұрын
very wise..
@danielj98658 жыл бұрын
lies! you are not gaining close to 30 pounds mostly in muscle in 30 days.
@charlesmorris38887 жыл бұрын
Yeah, you don't gain 30 pounds of muscle in 4 weeks. You gain 30 pounds of muscle in 4 years.
@himself996 жыл бұрын
I was surprised to see that no one mentioned he looked like Scarlett Johanson.