How To Look Better Than Other Guys (Women Notice This)

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[@CourtneyRyan]

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[@ripgnar4352]

I am going to give in when i get paid at the end of the month, and i will buy 3 new outfits. because i think im losing due to my old clothes

[@LoveGixx]

.. thank you @CourtneyRyan.. ive been recently buying different pants and dress shirts once a week one step at a time.. what do i do now to dress even better than the ones that have watched this video taking your advice!?.. can we do a one on one?..

[@justingary5322]

I really enjoyed your video on Men's clothing style selections. TikTok misinformation about relationships between Men and Women is crazy 😧🤣. Women need to understand Men first before trying to get Men to do what they want with their money and lives and vice versa for Men. Men can't read the minds of ladies and neither can anyone else. I understand that physical conditioning and fitness is crucial for healthy living and relationships but so is having reliable family, friends knowledge and awareness of reality. Congratulations on her 700k subscribers 👏🎉. I really respect Courtney Ryan for at least trying to help Men and Women out in promoting healthy relationships, positive mindsets and growth in individuals 🙏 ❤️. I'm a 24 year old single Christian virgin guy working as a teacher and counselor seeing unhealthy relationships in people occasionally despite being single myself because no sex before marriage. I've been watching Courtney's videos since 2021 so this lady's channel is really helpful especially on KZbin and social media. This has nothing to do with the video but please listen if you want to otherwise leave it alone and ignore it. Hello my name is Justin and I'm a Christian and Apologist but I'm also a college graduate. I'm not a closed minded Theist as I have nothing against Atheists or unbelievers as I speak to them often to understand their reasons for unbelief but we as Christians are convinced of God's Existence due to many real factors). I'm not trying to convert anyone or convince anyone to become Christians as that's The Holy Spirit's job to help people believe but only explain why I believe in Jesus Christ. There's actually evidence of God's Existence in Christianity. First of all there's proof that Jesus of Nazareth existed in history since the writings of Tacitus, Josephus Flavius, Pliny the younger and other historical documents prove that He was living two thousand years ago that even scholars both religious and Atheists agree with historically speaking but not that He's The Divine Son of God because obviously they don't. I'm going to give you historical and archeological evidence for God's Existence as The Scriptures have prophecies that predate the events recorded in them by several millennia including Matthew, Hosea and Zechariah which prophesy accurately of the people of Israel becoming a nation again after over 1900 years of being scattered around the nations since the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem in 70 A.D. spoken of by Christ in Matthew 23:29-24:3 and returning to their homeland after The Holocaust with Jerusalem as their capital in 1948 exactly as Jesus The Christ said. The prophets including Daniel spoke of the time where several world empires would arise and fall including the Babylonian kingdom, Medes and Persians, Roman Empire, and Saladin and the Muslims which went in consecutive order for the past few millennia. The people of Israel becoming a nation after The Holocaust in 1948 (ironically the melting point of gold as God compares Israel to gold that's tested in fire in Zechariah 13:8 and Jeremiah 16:15) exactly how Jesus The Christ said would happen since God us everything to come in The Scriptures and not just because people were working towards as Atheists claim which are impossible for any regular man to predict. Just before anyone says Christianity is a white man's religion made to oppress blacks during slavery you obviously aren't aware that the first Christians were Jews in The Middle East and that Christianity just like any religion can be used by evil and corrupt people to oppress others but you forget that the first Abolitionists/Civil Rights activists were Christians who sought to abolish slavery, racism, segregation, injustice and prejudice throughout American history. Jesus The Christ loves you enough not to give you what we all deserve which is God's Wrath by His Own Blood. Charles Darwin didn't originally come up with The Theory of Evolution over 200 years ago as it is mentioned in the writings of Ancient Greeks who believed in Demons that gave knowledge to philosophers. Evolution makes no sense when nothing has evolved after thousands of years of human history and supposedly the first creature came from primordial sludge several millions of years ago funny how they won't believe that God an Eternal Almighty Spirit Being created us from the Earth) which came from a supermassive expansion of matter at high temperature that inexplicably created everything in the known universe that supposedly came from nothing billions of years ago. How did the organs evolve before there were bones, skin, substance and how did any creatures see before eyes evolved? I've studied evolution and abiogenesis in the past and read Darwin's " Origin of The Species" and I'm not convinced of macro Evolutionary biology whereas I accept micro Evolution like speciation and adaptation but not macro Evolution because there's no evidence of it nor clear observable examples of it where living creatures evolve into other kinds of species plus the fact that fossils don't show evidence of evolution and genetic entropy rules out evolution. The question begs how did two genders evolve from a common ancestor with a perfectly hospitable and sustainable environment with breathable oxygen and resources to survive on inexplicably? Atheists have the burden of proof to explain how everything came to be and why our existence is possible without the Existence of God from an godless perspective just as Christians have to provide evidence of God's Existence and the validity of His Word. Evolution requires life to already exist in order to take any effect in living organisms so it doesn't account for the existence of Life and reality. Also evolution is impossible because it goes against The Law of entropy and the second Law of thermodynamics because evolution makes things better whereas nothing continues to get better but decays and turns to absolute destruction in the end. Mark Ridley an Evolutionist said "No evolutionist whether gradualist or punctuationist uses the fossil record as evidence in favor of The Theory of Darwinian Evolution as opposed to special Creation". God's Existence is made perfectly known and observable in the universe as demonstrated in His Handiwork in the intelligently designed manner that Creation was made, human consciences and consciousness historical and archaeological evidence of God's Word being valid history, fulfillment of Bible Prophecies God in His Holiness and Righteousness could give us what we deserve in Hell for our since but He's merciful to give us free will to choose to accept or reject His gift of salvation by grace through faith in His Son Jesus. I don't mean this is any condescending manner but if you'd like to discuss The Scriptures with me or have me listen to your view on anything my instagram account is Savage Christian Kombatant

[@dariostabletopminatures]

By making Timestamps!

[@natehenderson4129]

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[@SunnymunnyHunnybunny]

I knew a guy who did everything in this video. Women noticed him, but he wasn't interested in women.

[@dang75790]

If you dress like this. Women think you are a homosexual 😂

[@CCCCheese]

😂

[@cstuartdc]

Ha ha. I need some kind of eye for this straight guy.

[@robindouzefarce3368]

Omg perfct

[@toddcontino7271]

💯 😂

[@john50beach18]

"Stop wearing running shoes with every outfit"... you've wounded me

[@RTM950]

She's right, thoug. Use the intel, brother. You've grown.

[@puffinwrangler7557]

Unless you're staring in an '80s movie.

[@LordBruuh]

What if they are sleek and all black? I'm using the adidas lite racers.

[@nwa7769]

@@LordBruuhblack shoes only goes with black outfits/pants. White sneakers goes with everything, black doesn’t.

[@juniorsalinas7195]

I make this mistake too but it looks horrible

[@endobornfleeth]

Time stamps: 0:44 Adding Layers 2:10 upgrading your shoes 4:33 Following the rule of thirds 6:10 Roll your sleeves up 6:42 A watch 7:55 Dial in your fit 9:20 Find your Style 11:10 Take proper care of your clothes

[@DavidZ4-gg3dm]

Become a tall, handsome, famous, charismatic, athletic, multimillionaire.

[@CGMedia2023]

Every time I've done that, I've gotten the shit beaten out of me. And women turn and flock to those guys.

[@donvito7344]

Wtf does the first point mean? Wearing just a jacket?

[@cant_sleeeep]

@@donvito7344wimin logic

[@gaynzz6841]

@@DavidZ4-gg3dm based

[@eliweikart7800]

Getting in shape has also been an absolute difference maker in my life. Showing that you’re intentional about caring your your body and health absolutely sends amazing signals. It also makes just about any piece of clothing look and feel great on you.

[@SFFRN19]

This!

[@aklon1980]

This will make a bigger difference than anything she recommend in the video. It will change the way you carry yourself.

[@hump1953]

I’m 71 years old and recently traveled with a group of women to Spain… surprisingly I was complimented on my clothing being very clean and pressed…simple concept but not to be overlooked…

[@dreacul]

Even I respect and compliment another man for his clean and pressed clothes. I think wearing good and clean clothes does a terrific job for one's self esteem and psychology and people are more attracted not to the way we dress but to the personality and attitude we get by reflex when we feel good in our skin and clothes. Took me some years to realize that.

[@joshm3297]

"Straight to jail, you look like a spy kid." 😂😂 I'm stealing that as my new go to innocent insult.

[@CourtneyRyan]

😂🤍

[@stevethea5250]

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[@AlexTheLi0n]

I love ❤️ my apple watch and I do have 3 high end chronographs as well. But I never wear them. I was mortally wounded when she said to ditch the apple 🍎 watch.

[@kevinbradshaw6127]

In Ireland we have 4 seasons in 1 day, everyone is walking around confused, they don't know what to wear, sunblock and an umbrella

[@brianthesnail3815]

Its true. Been to Ireland pretty regular and I take clothing for all seasons. Going at the weekend and have to dress for a formal dinner, hiking, tennis, a boat trip and sunbathing. Could be a challenge. When the sun comes out though - it really is 'The Emerald Isle'. It's a green I have never seen anywhere else.

[@CourtneyRyan]

😂 good luck out there!

[@lalosalamanca8574]

​@@CourtneyRyan you give amature advice. Tell then to be the best version of themselves, not be better than people. Your just kid

[@fractal6929]

​@@lalosalamanca8574 calm your farm mate what's the matter

[@lalosalamanca8574]

@@CourtneyRyan we are humans biengs no one is better than the other. We should strive to be the best version of ourselves. To be better is implying that you think your better. It's very important how you word your words. I can give you good advice ms dating coach. It looks like you need coaching your self. Ms dating coach

[@TheHarrUTube]

I like the idea of you producing a video on "finding your style". Please include style suggestions for us older guys who are single and still dating. Love your videos. Keep em commin'.

[@garrettcochran9169]

I think it’s interesting that Courtney cites rolled up sleeves as attractive because it signals being hands on and getting stuff done whilst also citing crispy white spotless sneakers that cannot ever get dirty without being pretty much ruined

[@soldat2501]

When have women ever made sense in their logic? That doesn't mean her advice isn't valid. If fact, I'd say the less something makes sense, the more women will desire it. Like asking a woman out on a date and she says no. What she really means is, "I can't be that easy, I must be pursued and desired. Keep asking, but in a different way. Win me over like a prize and I may say yes. Eventually." Then feminists say, "No means no". And guys, who are mostly binary in their decision making, are supposed to figure out this never ending mystery.

[@louizatakk]

​@@soldat2501You sound like a real women lover!

[@rbfarrell1]

Women like Courtney are looking for money. She married a rich guy that has very soft hands.

[@master_59kg]

You clearly don't understand the meaning then. It "signals" being hands on merely means that it has the appearancd; Not that you actually will or are capable of doing things hands on. The point on the clean shoes is that you keep up with your wardrobe and don't let your shoes stay dirty and are responsible when it comes to upkeep. You can be hands on and also take care of your shoes. Not that hard

[@louizatakk]

@@master_59kg Exactly. And taking care of your shoes is even part of this “work” that a man can do, instead of being lazy and letting your shoes get stay dirty.

[@ericl7842]

Hahaha I laughed at “make you look like you gave up on your life”. So true 😂

[@John-jm7uj]

where did she said that

[@raizeldicadis8165]

And what is the problem when someone is givinig up dating and he does not care how he looks? I don't get it. How this sentences made you laugh this is actually sad.

[@ericl7842]

@@John-jm7uj 2:49

[@Criner05]

@@raizeldicadis8165 Lighten up.

[@oscar24x]

Lol I love and laugh when she said that

[@IronmanV5]

"Wear layers" Laughs from South Texas where we avoid layers for safety reasons (high heat 100°+, high humidity). Also, with clothing care add 1/4 cup of white vinegar to your laundry. It cleans off your oils and leaves your clothes, even stinky gym clothes, smelling FRESH.

[@CourtneyRyan]

😂 maybe ignore that one and watch my summer video! Lol

[@KleWdSide]

Wearing layers doesn't do men justice if they're in-shape as well.

[@endlesswaffles6504]

Yeah in 95+ degree NC Summer, I refuse to layer

[@MuhammadArshad-zz8te]

None of this matters. Best is to get in shape. Put on muscle. I wear a $15 multicolor shirt off Amazon and all the girls compliment me on it. It’s not the cheap shirt, it’s how it fits and looks on me.

[@GeoffWilde]

🤣🤣🤣

[@DavidZ4-gg3dm]

Do you get same-day lays?

[@MuhammadArshad-zz8te]

@@DavidZ4-gg3dm focus on increasing your self confidence/respect instead of seeking value from no. of lays smh

[@FallGuy-ll9cd]

Palm trees or flowers theme?

[@MuhammadArshad-zz8te]

@@FallGuy-ll9cd neither…tribal design

[@dillyweiz8323]

So happy that Thursday Boots sponsor you. I bought a pair of leather boots recently and I couldn't be more happy with the results.

[@CourtneyRyan]

Aww thank you 🥹 I’m so glad you like them!

[@TheRussianRob]

so jealous of people being able to buy shoes online... in a good way. just don't see that ever possible for myself, otherwise i would.

[@EricFullwood]

I'm 55, twice divorced, modest income so no one is interested in me but I still find these videos very helpful.

[@Just_Call_Me_Tim]

Just do you, my friend. Don’t worry about drawing others’ attention and just focus on doing the things that give you contentment. You may be surprised who that draws to you. Basically, don’t worry about attracting attention, but don’t close yourself off to it if it comes around. Just sort your own work and hobbies/interests out and have a good time with yourself.

[@nathanspiers9559]

“Straight to jail. Ya look like a spy kid.” 💀💀💀

[@CourtneyRyan]

🦸

[@MrTPF1]

My favorite line in this video too! 😂😂

[@ripgnar4352]

I instantaneously took my apple watch off when she said this lol

[@MclarenF1GTRfan]

Love it had me rollin. 😂

[@Cellimag]

i have an apple watch, so i wont get a real watch probably ever but apple watches are the Number 1 sold watch in the world

[@JohnnyinCLE]

I like the color coordination and the simplicity to the layers. Too often, we tend to overcomplicate our look. What you're suggesting here is natural, yet breathable. Thanks for sharing!

[@michaellaforge83]

A video dedicated to helping others find their sense of style. I’m down with that. Go for it 👍

[@Willlustrates]

A 'Finding your style' video would be excellent. Thank you for your dedication some great topics, Courtney! Congrats on your sponsor.

[@benchmarksignsandgifts]

Work out and be rich.

[@geoffwallick]

u win!!!🎉😂

[@alexroman8878]

This is for sure the best advice

[@jsedge2473]

Thats what this all comes down to as we all know lol

[@max12244]

When you work out every clothes suit you

[@matthewpittman1026]

You don’t have to be rich to have nice things. You just have to know where to look

[@michaelz8620]

It’s 95 degrees and humid where I’m at so one shirt only!!!

[@azmike3572]

Yep...no adding layers when our Arizona summer highs reach 115°F!

[@perrycoffey5410]

​@@azmike3572r.i.p hers

[@shanez1215]

Oh FL. I'd love to wear more layers but they'd be drenched in sweat

[@MemJhnscrk]

Linen always works!

[@benjaminnicholasking7222]

😂😂

[@hlppopotamus]

I like how you just do a non condescending info dump. It's just right to the point and seems like great advice

[@xLamont_]

A video about how to find your style would be perfect for a lot of us especially me as a black guy who’s culture style is centered around graphic streetwear and Nike/Jordans 😂 🤢

[@CourtneyRyan]

I can do it! 👏🏼

[@JACQUEZJOHNSON23]

Nikes and Jordans clean

[@KK95_Ph]

You emphasized on layers, but I am interested on how you would approach this for someone who lives in a tropical country or place or anywhere that is just plain hot.

[@CourtneyRyan]

@@KK95_Ph sometimes it’s just not feasible! You could try a tank with a breezy short sleeve shirt (worn open) but sometimes even that might feel toasty depending on the temp. Definitely pay attention to the fabric of your clothing and go for those lighter weight, breathable fabrics like I mentioned - I think that will make the biggest difference for you 👏🏼 linen is a lifesaver in the summer

[@trap7196]

My turn. Mountain country white boy.

[@CaptainAngelo]

My Chelsea boots have been one of the biggest upgrades I’ve made, find your own style, and don’t back off it! I’ve had women tell me they don’t quite understand my style, but they really like it. Its the combination of things that make you look unique and fashionable.

[@BipX39]

F*cking love how she throws shade on the Apple Watch...so true

[@jessemartinez6120]

Her Husband is a watch guy, of course she threw some shade. Many great points in this video however Most of this is “look” over comfort or practicality. My Altras are 1000 times more comfortable and better made than the tuesday sneaker( i have both) and my “spy kid” 🍎 watch is much more practical than my Rolex, Seiko, Hamilton…(yes i’m into watches) which have become more of an accessory compared to the spy kid watch. 🤷🏽‍♂️

[@BipX39]

@@jessemartinez6120 Perhaps more practical, but a Rolex is expensive because it isn't made with slave labor. Seiko is all around solid, made in Japan with out slave labor too. Probably costs Apple $20 to manufacture their spy bracelet, then they mark it up 50x...People pay out the nose because they are followers.

[@glenpudney]

Yep I loved that too lol. I went back to a traditional analog watch 3 months ago, got sick of charging the rubbish Apple Watch Ultra every day, and tired of having to update the software, among other reasons, so I sold it. And the watch I have now is solar powered, so apart from making sure it gets light on it, I don’t have to worry about replacing batteries. I’ll never go back to an Apple Watch ever again lol.

[@danielt91]

I'm never ever getting a classic watch again. Sorry, but this is so archaic nowadays. Basically a jewelry - just an unnecessary added weight. Men are practical creatures - we don't really like owning or carrying pointless items.

[@MattKrack]

@@jessemartinez6120 double standard = be fit, but don't have your digital tracker/accountabilibuddy (mine is) to hit goals every day, not just whenever.

[@dlkramer88]

I wasn't expecting the Thursday Boots link when I clicked on this, but... I bought a pair of Thursday cap-toe boots based on an earlier video, and suddenly I get comments at work and my son (much more stylish than I) is borrowing them. Thanks for helping this 57 year old look a little better!

[@CourtneyRyan]

Woohoo! Love to hear it 🥰

[@peterhallett2256]

Their stuff looks amazing. Going to get a pair of something from Thursday boots

[@Akilan.11]

Hey Courtney! I just wanted to take a moment to express my heartfelt gratitude for your amazing content. As someone from Paris, I’ve been following your channel since day one, and I can’t even begin to describe how much it has impacted me. Your insightful videos about men have been instrumental in my personal growth and have given me a deeper understanding of relationships. The way you approach important topics with such kindness and intelligence is truly inspiring. Your work has made a significant difference in my life, and I can’t thank you enough for that.💕

[@CourtneyRyan]

Oh my goodness, you are so kind. I’m so glad I am able to help. Thank you so much for the comment and for being here 🥹💕

[@DanTheMan27]

Been watching for like a year and had no idea that I wasn’t subscribed. Thank you, Courtney, for giving shy men like myself confidence. You have earned yourself a sub 👍🏼

[@CourtneyRyan]

It’s my pleasure ❤️ thanks for being here!

[@VIP854]

Hey Courtney random guy here. Stumbled across some of your videos and I decided it was time to just do better with myself. I saw your video on the shoes. I really like loafers and what I was wearing we're not hey dudes but you would have called them that. I took your advice and bought a pair of penny loafers that I really like in a dark brown. I also decided to go ahead and get a smartwatch since I was debating on getting one for work anyway. Makes my job a bit easier but I had also got a dark brown leather band for it. I also got a new brown leather belt. I was already wearing solid colored shirts with nothing on them. And slipped on some Lands Ends dark jeans. So I had all this on and went out to lunch with some family that was in town. Afterwards I stopped by the store to get some groceries and right away noticed I was getting some looks. One of the associates stopped in her tracks and asked if I needed any help. I told her with a smile I was good it's just the store got remodeled. It happened very quick but she checked me up and down then goes no worries didn't mean to startle you (she didn't) and then grabbed my arm and gave it a quick squeeze when she said that. Nice lady and she told me to let her know if I need any help. Walking away from that I was just like whoa that just happened for real! When I went to check out, one of the associates there also checked me up and down super fast. I've been watching these videos and spotted what to look for so seeing it happen for real was pretty cool. That being said I wasn't romantically interested but hey it's a start! 😅

[@Rogue_Phantom]

I wear an Apple Watch, but the only difference is it’s way more than just for looks. It’s something I actually use in my everyday life. I’m currently on a 60 day fitness streak and counting and it helps me keep track. Much rather not spend extra money for something that’s just going to be for looks, and won’t help me keep track of my fitness progress. It’s definitely going to take alot more than this to break my current streak, thanks

[@Te-legram-MissCourtneyRyan]

*Les’t have a conversation*🛐🤷‍♀️🤦‍♂️

[@joshweatherly8715]

She is literally married to the watch guy lol but i do agree a watch is prob the easiest upgrade. I think alot of women do appreciate smart watches tho

[@CourtneyRyan]

😂🤍

[@somerandominternetuser5730]

Not the watch guy, THE watch guy lmao

[@joshweatherly8715]

@@somerandominternetuser5730 i stand corrected lol

[@jfranco6852]

A button down with rolled up sleeves has a classy and masculine vibe at the same time. Also love the "spy kid" line 😂

[@CourtneyRyan]

😂👏🏼 glad you enjoyed!

[@Harikejn]

Everything what you have told Courtney is so true. The most import thing is that to find appropriate fashion that is also good for our health, that they are comfortable for us, and also to have good quality fashion. And that goes for clothes and footwear.

[@cacarver1982]

I’ve been doing it all wrong 🤦‍♂️. Great advice! No more running shoes with jeans.

[@StephanieG1]

Men don't have outfits, they have clothes, and important distinction. What many women fail to realise is that if men wanted to be stylish then they would be stylish without any input from women. Women are projecting when they see a guy who they think looks improperly dressed that it is simply a matter of him being ignorant of what is in fashion and what looks good on him. When the actual reason is that he doesn't care what people think of his clothing choices.

[@gaynzz6841]

correct

[@vecto8695]

appearance has social value, so if you value your social life, you should start caring what others think of your appearance

[@GentlemanEDC]

Amazon- next level tri blend t shirts $6 5.11- defender slim pants (not jeans) Flint and tinder- waxed trucker jacket Red wings- iron rangers 8111 A proper haircut and facial hair that accents your face and boom you will be styling fellas.

[@jakbandit1708]

The bar is so low it is pretty easy. You'll see a guy out with his girlfriend/wife and she has a nice summer dress on and he has cargo shorts, t-shirt and sandals.

[@CourtneyRyan]

Pretty much lol

[@BrianWaller-qe7gr]

Am I the only one who can’t stand cargo shorts?

[@andrewq159]

He's spending a fortune on her.

[@DavidZ4-gg3dm]

Most women's bar for men is ridiculously high. He'd have had to put in loads of effort & money to start the relationship.

[@BrianWaller-qe7gr]

@@DavidZ4-gg3dm and then get a ran through emotionally damaged woman from endless hookups and situationships. Reason why many men are just opting out of dating juice isn’t worth the squeeze

[@fashionfashion6534]

I’d love a video where you go over how to find your own style.

[@CrankyKidneys]

Courtney could you one day do a video going into detail about finding clothes that fit. Maybe where you go into detail on a lot of body types. I have trouble picturing which clothes will work for me I’m clueless on the actual practical things to look for. This was the best video in a while btw, very useful.

[@CourtneyRyan]

I can do that! So glad it was helpful! 🥰

[@shanez1215]

Something I heard was a tailored cheap shirt is better than an untailored expensive one.

[@lazaruskirifides1297]

A tailored plain white or black T as long as you’re in shape (no beer belly). Mix and match pants. Done

[@JohnKanuck]

I agree absolutely about the Apple watch. my daughter's boyfriend, now fiancee, has one and it drives me bat-shit crazy to see it glowing and blinking at me while we are at the dinner table. Almost as bad, I gave my daughter a lovely Mont Blanc watch for graduation which is doesn't wear, in favour of just using her iPhone for telling time. It's not all about practicality - a $10 quartz watch has been a better time-piece for the last 40 years. But a watch is a lovely accessory and style statement.

[@justinsims5]

I’ve done some of the things you suggest in these videos like dark denim, white shoes, buttoned down rolled up sleeve shirts and a skin care routine now. I’ve gotten compliments from women about my outfits a couple of times since…they’re married but they’re noticing at least!

[@MrCakers]

A Thursday sponsorship is awesome. Congratulations 👏

[@CourtneyRyan]

Thank you! I’m so excited about it 🥹 lol

[@joshuamiklandric7295]

Some of my biggest fashion influences have been some of the great musicians of all time such as Elvis Presley, Jimi Hendrix, and a lot of hip-hop artists! I also was inspired greatly by Elvis hairstyle and tried to find a hairstyle that is more up-to-date.

[@lawrence31415]

As a mathematician, I am going to look into the Rule of Thirds 🤔 I conjecture that there is a connection with the Golden Ratio. Great video, Courtney!

[@CourtneyRyan]

You would be correct! 👏🏼

[@lawrence31415]

​@@CourtneyRyan after doing some reading, the Rule of Thirds is a simplified version of the Golden Ratio; the proportions are not quite the same, but the Rule of Thirds does achieve a similar "pleasing to look at" effect associated with the Golden Ratio! I find it super cool that these mathematical ideas have a fun and useful application to fashion 😄

[@ronaldelliott4373]

The Golden Ratio is a staple of Restorative/Esthetic (dare I use the word “Cosmetic”) Dentistry at the highest levels of artistic and functional excellence within the profession. It’s a principle anyone can understand, unfortunately not many achieve. Never thought I’d find the subject mentioned here. Regards

[@frenchfan3368]

Thank you Ms. Ryan! Your tips are always valued and appreciated. I do like sneakers but I do feel that white as a color for sneakers is the worst choice. White dirtiest quickly and looks too much like a retro from the eightiess. I would recommend recommend any color but white for sneakers.

[@cams052298]

Your quip about men and Apple watches was hilarious! "You look like a spy kid", instant classic!

[@vishwavichu3861]

Okay now I'm all ears for the 'Finding your style' video.

[@jamiemiller1448]

Why don't you talk about what men don't like about women. Tats, nose piercings, colored hair, too much makeup, Instagrams and KZbin videos that's trying to sell you something. Yes, I'm talking about you Courtney!! lol

[@dang75790]

Lmao 😂

[@gaynzz6841]

If she has tats and/or piercings, run for your lives.

[@dreacul]

Rolling my sleeves is something I do since always, it's my style and I am the kind of guy would be ready to sacrifice his comfort when it's 40 degrees Celsius just to wear an open shirt and I agree that women tend to see some sort of attractiveness in it especially if the sleeves are not rolled all the way up above elbow but somewhere to the middle of forearm. What I noticed in my experience is that the arms and hands are parts they feel attracted to. (I actually wrote this with Davids Attenborough's voice in my head LOL)

[@jasontax]

My biggest objection to wearing "nice shoes" out in public as opposed to more versatile shoes like running shoes, is that if anything ever goes wrong and you have to run, fight, help someone in need, etc, you start out at a huge disadvantage as most of the "nice shoes" are not made for any type of hard/fast physical activity. And personally with how crazy things are nowadays I would much rather be ready for that "one time" where things go wrong than look nicer on the other 50-100 times where everything was fine. Probably just being too cautious but at the end of the day it only takes that one time out being caught off guard to have drastic consequences for you or someone around you and it's hard to just ignore that so I can look nicer.

[@highsol222]

I actually agree. I rather be a man than a pretty boy who looks put together. Comfort over fashion like a true American, haha. My rule of thumb; you could look messy, just don't look messed up.

[@thomasjaggers3576]

I believe it is possible that you are silly.

[@jamesw8951]

@@highsol222 Amen brother!

[@swaroop_pany]

that's true. when I go out I spend most of my time walking, once in a while I might need to run to catch a bus, sneakers and loafers are not really ideal for that. I mostly wear slip on walking shoes, I find them to be a good amalgamation of style, comfort and utility.

[@LongBeeyatchGTR]

Agreed 100%

[@MountainManFred]

“bada bing bada boom”!! Love the video...and especially the Apple watch piece of it... "Take That Crap Off"!!

[@matthewcormier8744]

I'm getting those Boots I love your recommendations absolute love for the content

[@CourtneyRyan]

They are wonderful! Happy I could help!

[@extrojan22]

I think personal style will always be a factor, as well as comfort and circumstances such as weather or the events you’re going to. These are great videos though, but If you’re at a sporting event, like a football game leave your loafers at home.

[@dmarti47]

Finding your style is such a big one. Example: I like shorts and I live in tropical climate, so I am moving away from overly sporty shorts to more casual and stylish shorts.

[@Frontline35]

I'm still wearing my apple watch 😝

[@Z-Interceptor]

straight to jail!

[@potownrob]

Me too. Titanium with titanium band ftw 🔥

[@AlexTheLi0n]

New Subscriber Here! I came across your channel last night and was like I’m not watching this. But I did and now I’m in like 30 videos in. As an African American man I have learned a lot. I have the shoes and watches and a lot of the clothes but had kind of let myself go. I began to wonder why I wasn’t getting the attention that I used to. So thanks to Courtney and Sadia. I’m back in the saddle and this at 55 years old. I’m actually glad that I started watching your channel. Oh and one last key thing she opened my mind too. I’m no slob but having a high paying job and a nice car. Is great but you gotta make a good impression with quality women. I had taken that concept for granted and Courtney is helping us along this journey. I can’t thank her enough.

[@CourtneyRyan]

Aww it’s my pleasure! Thanks for being here and for the kind comment 🥰

[@VideoGameRoom32]

I wear jeans and nice shirt most of the time.

Hence you probably don't look better than other guys

[@Squirrel-Bait-Media]

Dumbest comment you could make, dude. I'm confident you're less attractive. Grow up.

[@gaynzz6841]

you don't know his face

[@zabean16]

the number one way to improve your look is to fill out your clothing, a muscle/athletic frame will make way more of a difference then your shoes or a watch

[@brianburgess3231]

Sorry I'm 57 into this day I don't really care about outward appearrance since I was 20 .. if a woman is that superficial then I won't have her anyway so it doesn't matter to me

[@CourtneyRyan]

I don’t think it’s about being superficial! But thank you for sharing ❤️

[@brianburgess3231]

@@CourtneyRyan cheerio

[@CityBoy5705]

🎯

[@ryanhebert2374]

@@CourtneyRyan I concur with his opinion as a 30 year-old man myself I prefer to just be basic and standard when it comes to fashion some jeans, long sleeve compression shirt, and a T-shirt over that have some basic standard colors that’s about it and I don’t exactly have the financial luxury of buying expensive clothing due to my financial obligations granted I understand your perspective but most of this advice is a complete turn off for me. Keep in mind I’m not saying a man should not put an effort to impress a woman but I think there’s a fine line between making effort and going over the top especially when economics are factored in. Seemingly inexpensive, high-quality clothing, combined with multiple articles of clothing adds up and makes shopping for clothes much more expensive.

[@jtdribbles25]

So confused at why you are here? this is what @CourtneyRyan videos are about.

[@Bloombergizzle]

I'm fairly new... Recently I started wearing Suits when I leave my Home. Two situations back to back beautiful women actually talked to me in a flirtatious way and one actually came.up to me to start the conversation. Game changer. Make sure people feel the pressure when you walk into the room.

[@davidgloberman3098]

Yes, wear a suit when you go to the grocery store. Especially when it's 95 F and 100 percent humidity.

[@Pozywny]

@@davidgloberman3098 they have AC

[@ttbjammn]

Get jacked...💪

[@holdengamble]

I don’t do any of these things and have no issues. Clothes don’t make you more attractive or have confidence. Can’t fake it. You either have it or you don’t

[@CamiloU888]

Thanks Courtney, love your channel

[@CourtneyRyan]

It’s my pleasure! Thanks for being here! ❤️

[@arachosia]

I hate how watches feel and I always lose them, but maybe I can give them another shot.

[@SweepTheLeg2023]

👊 *What is 6 inches long, 2 inches wide and drives women absolutely crazy?* Money.

[@trap7196]

Yeah, that too.

[@Brians_World81]

Layers I can do. I have an apple watch, so the classic watch idea is out. Yes, leather shoe is much better looking than a sneaker, but they are also a lot more uncomfortable. Yes, i know its more comfortable than a woman's high heel, but its not as comfortable as a sneaker lol.

[@infinitedurr]

Disagree on the watches; it completely depends on what aesthetic you want to convey. Not everyone is trying to look classy. Sure it’s pretty common to want to look cleaned up and classy, but some folks find that boring or don’t resonate with it. Tbqh, people who go for looking classy often come off to me as “I don’t really know myself well or have the courage to be authentic, so I’ll just go along with what everyone else likes so I don’t look like a loser or outcast”. But that’s just me lol 😂

[@Z-Interceptor]

being an outcast and having your own vibe despite everyone else, rules 😎

[@AlexTheLi0n]

I’m totally with the layers. But the rule of thirds is a no for me. Unless I’m wearing a suit I rarely tuck in my shirts anymore. I do like rolling up my button down shirts.

[@davesheffield3620]

You are correct with the watch , to me having a watch is manly.

[@gaynzz6841]

I simply prefer wearing an old fashioned watch to carrying a digital phone all the time, if all I need is to check the time.

[@davesheffield3620]

@@gaynzz6841 Same here 👍

[@theittsco]

Can confirm Thursday makes good products. I have several boots and sneakers from Thursday and the quality is a noticeable step up from mainstream brands. For the sneaker though go with your normal size. Boots you'll need to size down.

[@CGMedia2023]

Courtney, real talk. From elementary school to my 40s, every single time I've attempted to look good, improve my grooming, dress nicer, etc, I have ALWAYS gotten beaten up. Every single time. It always starts the same, getting shit thrown at me until I throw something back. Followed by the bullies saying, "hey, wanna fight?" And even when I backed away, I'd get jumped by 2-3 of them. Never, ever was it 1 on 1. My clothes would be ruined, my face and body bloodied, and hair ruined or torn out. Yes, this has even happened at bars with men in my age range attacking me yet again. And then all of these bullies would get ALL the girls. Why the FUCK should I do a damn thing to try to attract women, when men just beat the shit out of me for it and YOU as women, sleep with them for it?

[@louizatakk]

Why is this comments section full of incels? Go watch something else if you don't want to dress good...

[@dapifog12]

I'm very sorry to hear that. But that's the environment you were/are in. Not that dressing better/more stylish gets you automatically beaten up in most cases. Also, the women who like "tough guys" (jerks) aren't the ones you allegedly will ever attract. Luckily, they aren't exactly prevalent. Being a self-confident man, you will attract women that like your personality. Being dressed better will speed the process up.

[@CGMedia2023]

​@@dapifog12 The environment isn't going to change. It's beyond that, its society. Women want rich fuckboys or thugs, and do NOT want a decent man. They see that as weak.

[@CGMedia2023]

@@dapifog12 It's not "environment", it's society. Women don't want decent men, they find that boring. They love rich guys who fly them out to Ibiza and Miami, and thugs, nothing more. I've long since given up because proper grooming is going to get me killed at this point.

[@CGMedia2023]

@@dapifog12 My comments keep getting eaten. No, it's not "environment", it's society. Unless you're a rich gigachad who flies girls out to Ibiza or Miami, or you're a thug who will smack them around, they don't want you. Decent men are "boring" in their eyes.

[@agfk1316]

As not a watch guy, but wears an Apple Watch. It’s 100% necessary due to not wanting to have TWO phones in my pockets (work and personal). Pockets are already bulky with one phone. The watch allows me to leave the personal one elsewhere.

[@matthewcormier8744]

You have a beautiful family and channel glad I subscribed

[@CourtneyRyan]

You’re so sweet, thank you 🥹

[@leegregory5617]

Great video. Please do videos on finding your style, and on proportions, those would both be super helpful. I'm quite tall (6’ 3”), but don't always think I dress the best for it.

[@ezrhino100]

Your husband does not look like he used the gym.

[@angeloselvaggio6030]

I dont think this video is adressed to husbands, dont you think so?

[@ezrhino100]

@@angeloselvaggio6030 you are right. Only men.

[@user-nv7nc7uv7c]

Someone needs to turn down the jealousy there lady😂. Pretty sure he's outdressing your (maybe) guy either way.

[@ezrhino100]

@@user-nv7nc7uv7c no one gives a shit. Does he dress up like that at the gym?

[@jasonthomas12]

I appreciate your video Courtney. I’m happily married 24 years, but I still like to look good to my bride. Thanks for the tips.

[@robertbarton7434]

I don't where button down shirts. At work I wear long shirts with a flat bottom. An Oxford tucked in wraps around my belly, showing my belly

[@Joel-brody]

Your hair looks amazing btw. For guys its tougher during the summer. It's too hot in the south to layer much. It makes more sense to maximize the few pieces you are wearing.

[@JohnnyPeraltaa]

Fantastic video! As a dude really into fashion and style I do think a few tips should be taken with a grain of salt. My favorite concept is learning the rules so you understand how to break them. The rule of thirds for example, while a great guideline, must not limit your experimentation with themes and styles. An oversized sweater, or tee can be paired with slim pants or sweats-shorts even. Dirty sneakers can be an intentional piece. I say this because men’s clothing is limiting. There’s only so many outfits with a button up that appear interesting (especially if we all wear it). It’s about, expression, not always interesting women. Form fitting, while an awesome tip, might not always be the best for a given mood. Counter that with, the exact opposite! A small guy, not hiding the fact he’s small, a big guy not trying to mask his belly. Anything, if styled and considered, can enhance you. Which, I think goes a long way for attracting the right women. The super baggy coat and baggy white shirt wasn’t a bad outfit at all, but maybe lacked a short necklace, or messy hair or hat to compliment the baggy casual aesthetic. I think men lack variety, which is why it’s hard to style ourselves. Women have infinite amount of artifacts with various different cuts. That being said, there’s a fun aspect to making the most of what we’ve got. Oh and the Apple Watch, having a nice watch to compliment a really fancy outfit is dope. But sorry, it’s way too useful to put down. And if paired with a good band and watch face, even finish (ie. Stainless steel vs aluminum watch) it can actually look really good. Again, understanding why something works or doesn’t, to go with or against trends to express yourself. Really great to have a woman give her opinion on how to style ourselves though! A lot of men’s styling content is bland and tries too hard to be “masculine” instead of authentic. Also, goes to show that, yes boys, styling yourself isn’t gay or too feminine.

[@JonasMondrup]

My style is: black tee and gray sweatpants! It's my uniform, and honestly I get loads of attention from the girls in those clothes.

[@kentsanchez5325]

A finding your style video would be great. I trust you because I'm anti croc, Apple watch, and sneakers with suits (or white midsole shoes).

[@jttasb]

Nobody could see the clothing laying on my lower body, so now I have my underwear outside my pants. I'm getting a lot of looks now, thanks Courtney!

[@BrianDefferding]

Just want to say Thursday boots are fantastic and you won't have to break the bank. And their customer service is great.

[@TheWinterfox10]

Here's a big one that I would also add on to the list, which I've found hugely helpful in my own life: UNDERSTAND WHICH GARMENTS ARE YOUR STATEMENT PIECES AND UNDERSTAND HOW TO SELECT STATEMENT PIECES. This is important for a few reasons, but the biggest is that your statement piece is the basis for the rest of your outfit. A statement piece is generally going to be an accessory like a hat, but it could also be a bigger piece of the outfit like your shirt or jacket. I recently went to a charity banquet and my statement piece was a jacket I bought on sale at Joseph A Bank. It wasn't anything particularly unique or flashy, but I was wearing it on a central focal point of my body; that was the important part. The outfit I put together looked so good that my sister and father didn't recognize me at first.

[@tjovadevalivat]

Rolled up sleeves feels working class. Nothing wrong with it if you like that look.

[@williamm.andrews7354]

Thank you for sharing this for me, I have a girlfriend I'm always respectful and taking her out where she wants to go

[@Egsise]

M46, it all checks out. For layers scarfs and hats like fedora and flat cap are great. I have short legs so if I don't tuck in my shirt I look really short. Second hand shops, retro slacks made of 100% wool, high waist and one pleat. Amazing comfort and look, yes even on summer the wool works. Honestly after I figured out all the stuff she mentions I've started to notice women looking at me. Even ten years younger. Don't dm me, I have a gf.

[@dimitris2d]

This woman is gold. Listen to her and you ll see the results immediately 💪

[@miguelpereira9859]

7:12 Seeing this amount of honesty and truth from a pretty woman on the internet is healing my soul. Like fresh beverage on a hot day

[@CourtneyRyan]

🥰

[@drip369]

I do remember you saying about rolling up the cuff of your t-shirt sleeves is another way to add a layer without actually putting on another layer and I haven't stopped doing that very thing

[@CourtneyRyan]

Yes! It looks great!

[@fatherburning358]

My uniform is Masculine. The reactions from women inform me of their worth to my attention. Its fun when they comment. Especially negatively because i love to lean into their reaction and reinforce it with an even more quietly dominant 'your opinion matters not' attitude. Oh i do wear a watch and roll my sleeves up but sneakers are for kids, boots are for men. 😊 my humble opinion.

[@chrishaugh1655]

Good luck with that adding layers theory in places that are really hot year-round like down here in FL...

[@markgamble568]

Totally agree on the watch. Wearing a watch well is not about knowing the time. It’s about pairing a classy accessory to your outfit and is an opportunity to express your personal style.

[@danielt91]

So... basically a jewelry. Yeah, hard pass - leave that to women. I hardly disagree on this topic - men in general tend to care more about practicality and an Apple Watch (or a Garmin, Samsung or whatever) is a lot more practical and functional. Wearing a classic watch is like riding a horse carriage in a world of EVs. It's just not functional anymore and is just an added weight. I also like girls that aren't overly obsessed with rings, bracelets, earrings and necklaces. A pretty girl would be pretty even without them. Jewels, make up, fancy hairstyles or clothes... artificial (fake) ways to (temporarily) elevate a mediocre look.

[@gaynzz6841]

@@danielt91 100% agree

[@microsnook3]

There's a whole science to dressings oneself. This was interesting and helpful. I do not dress nice. I am starting to consider dressing nicer...

[@timof11]

'Except an Apple Watch. Those don't count!' Yes and Amen... how I celebrated you saying that. Thank you!

[@durandus676]

3:32 I actually had to do sneakers because I didn’t bring my leather boots with me on my trip to Japan because I wouldn’t reliably be able to keep track of them. I actually lightly complained about this and air travel issues and she laughed and complained about her own minor annoyances lately.

[@dulifuli00]

Usually I agree with your suggestions. However, today it was 98 degrees in shade. There is absolutely zero chance I’d wear anything under a linen shirt or cook my feet in a closed leather sneaker or loafer. Leather is only breathable compared to fake leather. But canvas shoes work much better for the summer heat.

[@Dolph-Face]

A linen shirt, as long as the material is light. Is actually perfect for extreme heat. At least in my case. I have LOTS of black tees, so last summer when it was especially hot in Portland, my cream coloured linen Kung fu jacket was a life saver. It kept me from getting cooked alive in most of my black tees as it was bouncing a lot of those Sundays off that my black tees would otherwise be absorbed, and it was also hella convenient because if it got a little bit chillier as night fell, I could easily close up the frog buttons and roll down the sleeves, there’s also a lot of reasons why I like to wear it whenever going out to the coast or to the river on a sunny day with friends. If it got soaking wet, it still remained lightweight as it didn’t retain a lot of water and it would dry off relatively quick. On especially hot days I had a long clean white linen hand towel dipped in cold water draped over the back of my neck and that was a game changer as well, on record breaking heatwave days you can also freeze the neck towel before you go out, wish I had known these things when I was younger, I am extremely sensitive to heat and also have sensory issues when it comes to a lot of different types of clothes.

[@wesleypratt7735]

At 10 minutes and you talk about finding my individual style. I would greatly appreciate a video on that. I’m 6’ 5” 180 lbs. Muscular but skinny.

[@lolickypeepee23xdd6]

the rule of 1/3s makes sense from a design perspective of course but im literally built with shorter legs and a longer torso physically, so i cannot use it- im just under 5'10 and people think i look shorter because of it until i stand next to them and they realize, but that simple visual look of shorter legs makes me look like 5'7 or 8 instead

[@jroq101]

As much as I hate fashion and couldn’t care less about impressing women, I can’t hate on your videos. Your intent to help men is sincere and I will leave my hating at that.