How to Love Your Enemies in a World of Hate

The Bible tells us that we are to LOVE our enemies, even BLESS our enemies, but how do you do that in a world full of hate? In this video, Ronnie and Mel share their top advice on how to love others when it is hard.
So let's be a people counter to the culture, a people different than the masses, a people who shine like bright lights in the midst of darkness. And learn to love, forgive, pray for, and bless the people who are against us, just like Jesus did.
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[@RonnieandMel]

Thanks for watching guys & hopefully that helps you better love your enemies in a world of hate. So let us know, what are ways you’ve had to do this in your own life? Or what was God speaking to you to do? Let us know, down below! Bless you

[@annemc652]

I needed this alot. Thank you both for sharing a great message x

[@lindseymohlman5922]

This video was actually a godsend for me. I’ve been struggling with infertility and I have had to deal with really mean and unnecessary comments from neighbors and church members around me and it’s been hard to find forgiveness for them because they’ve hurt me deeply with they’re ignorant responses to my very personal and difficult trial. Listening to this video really is helping me to start to let go of the anger and hatred.

[@cescayap8558]

Your relationship & ministry have been a blessing to me. Thank you so much. Currently I've been struggling in this area and your message have woken me up. May Jesus continue to use & bless you both tremendously. Love from Indonesia! ❤️

[@eltubelj1991]

I wanna be close to God but I'm feeling I'm losing my faith. What is the best way keep a faith in God? P.S. i'm your fan from S.Korea

[@marinachoban2607]

You guys are getting so much better at this! It used to sound like you were reading your notes, but now it flows (; Your own parents can be your enemies if they curse you with negativity, like my friend's parents do...

[@lionoffireministries]

I was 5 years of chronic illness! I was Semi Housebound, lost my health, job, finances and my fiance left me. I couldn't even look at electronic screen for 5 minutes, or hold a 10-minute conversation. But God did an amazing work. And if he can do this, he can do it in you also. 👍🏼 I now have a Christian Channel where I encourage people and show them what God did in my life and that there is hope for you also. ✝️🔥☺️ *Keep believing even when it's hard* 🙏❤️🔥👆🏼 *All things are possible with God*

[@theWordinRed]

One of things God that has been showing me is that in loving my enemies, I can't avoid my enemies (even if sometimes that means just mentally keeping them in mind so that I pray for them). I don't necessarily feel hatred towards people, but I'll tend to be apprehensive or scared of being around people who I know are antagonistic towards Christianity. I've been thinking about Heb. 13:6 this week, and reminding myself that people are just people. I don't have to be afraid of "enemies", I have the Lord, so I can just love them

[@sarlut]

Yes!!!

[@theWordinRed]

Humility is such a big thing for this! It's so incredible to see Jesus's humility and to have his example to follow! My mind is constantly blown to think about Jesus when he was on trial- how he didn't defend himself. How, on the cross, he still said on "father forgive them..." Good stuff guys! Way to make it all about Jesus 😁

[@learning.growing.1017]

Yall's videos always bring tears... That Romans 5:8 really got me...

[@user-ov3sk4rc2n]

I see Jesus in both of you, you're words are guided by God. Thank you so much for this, I needed it.

[@lionoffireministries]

The Gospel of Jesus Christ is *the only message in the world* that has the power to transform hearts 💔-> ❤️ By God’s grace 🙏 And for God’s glory 👆🏼

[@nelll.sussman8915]

Thank you for this because I was struggling to forgive a friend who hurt me. But now I've taken the steps to love, forgive, and God just gave me an idea how to bless them..

[@camgee6047]

I just love what ronnie said about when ur enemies mock you and attack you. That is powerful. Humility is underrated in this world. But God rewards the humble who abide in Him. Such great teachings from you two. I always love heartfelt testimonies and teachings. You can just feel ppl who are genuinely in tune with the holy spirit and love the Lord or is trying to grow spiritually.

[@jgirl203]

I love how you guys are being shepherds to God’s people, praise the Lord for you! Keep making warriors for Christ. 🙏🏾

[@livingunashamed4869]

Great video like always guys, I always think about people's salvation and how I was once lost too. My goal is to lead people to Christ I could care less about being offended.

[@jasonleeroyalty5113]

FITHFULNESS vs UNFAITHFULNESS

[@user-ig8ld6un1m]

I truly don’t have anemies, my heart is clear and clean

[@joanneralphs217]

Perfect timing, great message having a few difficulties with someone who used to be close to me and I am seeking peace while feeling under attack. ❤🙏

[@VictoriaC777]

Thank you for obedience to the lord. I've been going through a tough season of a lot of betrayal. I haven't necessarily struggled with lashing out or lashing back but holding the grudge on the inside. God has told me to forgive over and over. I choose forgiveness because he says. I dont want to just stay st forgiveness though. I want to also bless them in return and keep an attitude of humility as well. I love how you guys break everything down.

[@jasonleeroyalty5113]

FAITHFULNESS VS LAZINESS

[@iseabalturner789]

I’ve been praying for answers about this topic recently and seeing this video in my newsfeed made my day! Another great and inspiring video. Thank you :)

[@billcollins2240]

I believe love is greater than hate in Christ Jesus. Peace!

[@vivilaurel7]

Amen Lord let me keep a humble spirit. Humility is beautiful. Let me always be mindful of the Lord’s mercy on me so I can be merciful with others. I’ll be more patient and humble with family and friends. Can’t wait to do better this 2021. There are mountains to climb!!!! Jesus is the way the truth and the life ❤️

[@rmnpvlyk]

Im sad for everyone not saved. Its like I found the cure to the biggest disease and want everyone else to discover it. That the way I see enemies

[@theWordinRed]

Dude I know right! That's the passion that fuels intercession and evangelism but it still still makes me sad at times 😬

[@timeisnow1673]

Rejoice and know that you have given them the greatest gift of Jesus Christ that they could ever receive. Leave the rest to God ❤️

[@theWordinRed]

@@timeisnow1673 that's a good way of looking at it!

[@jessefoster2308]

REPENT FOR THE KINGDOM OF GOD IS AT HAND !!!!!!!!

[@KiaYoung7]

THIS ❤❤!!! This blessed me because I really need a different perspective on how to love when I’ve been USED so much. People always want me to do for them but they care NOTHING about me and also very jealous. I just felt burnt out on people . Thank you for obeying and delivering this message ❤

[@sonjapikel4301]

It’s just so amazing how deep gods love is.. what a pleasure it is to strive after loving like that

[@emmamindcoach]

Yes! It is Hurt People Who Hurt People 💕 Blessings from Melbourne Australia 🇦🇺

[@erint933]

I listened to this today in the morning and it was so good, even though I was thinking I didn't have any enemies right now. But God so knows what we need ahead of time because tonight I found out my husband was lying about an addiction. I went from scared to sad to very angry (that's now). I'm thankful, so thankful to God for this message of loving my enemies. My husband isn't my enemy but I know I need to give this anger over to God. Thank you so much for talking about this. ❤😭❤

[@TA-hg8qm]

Struggling with anger towards an enemy and appreciate hearing your words of wisdom that draw me back to God's wisdom and love. Thank you!

[@ashleyvelez1086]

This one was so needed this week! Thank you guys!

[@normatobin962]

Thank you for bringing attention to enemies in Our own Family! The Bible says this and it is very difficult to deal with.

[@ABartush]

Very important topic, thank you both for talking about this. I also meet people who are enemies in a quiet mode, like it is ok if a person is screaming, at least you understand that they might hurted, but the most dangerous enemies can be in the christian community (u don't expect to meet them there) and a quiet ones, they can tell a comment, or a sarcasm, or asking too much about your personal life, or to be intolerant. it takes time to understand that they can't be trusted.....

[@unbothered37]

this is a topic that needs to get talked about in every circle, in every small group, in households; every where because Love is sooo important to GOD

[@armandosandoval1987]

You guys are doing a great job! Keep spreading the word.

[@brookewaples525]

Merry Christmas Ronnie and Mel!!!

[@elizabethherold2447]

Thank you I need this. Keep up the good work.

[@lj9592]

Spot on! Thank you so much for the encouragement and reminder! God bless you both:)!

[@lilkeph20]

Thank you so much for this video! I really needed to hear this. May God bless you both ❤️

[@Mary-mi4rg]

A much needed message. Thank you 🌻

[@Rae-gf6kg]

Love you guys! So encouraging as always. Happy Holidays!

[@brother.chirchir]

Awesome stuff!! Bless you

[@tracyalvino2167]

I love your channel!! I learn so much from your channel. Thank you so much!!❤️

[@sydney_ranae]

Very timely. Thanks y’all for sharing. I really needed this.

[@noelbarragan7440]

Thank You for this 😌

[@merhawiweldit166]

Thank you guys for your Very useful information. Anger, hatred.....are emotions and usually emerge from a brain part called amygdala so it's important to shrink that part and strengthen the prefrontal cortex.

[@Gracieeed]

I needed this today. Thank you! 🙏🏼

[@christopherachey8394]

Thanks Ronnie and Mel for a good video. Uplifting advice !

[@be_ingtyler7703]

I needed this so much today and I am so grateful for it.❤

[@iloveyou9665]

Beautiful video guys!!! Thank you!! I needed this video right now

[@user-zp4jf3se5g]

Y'all are amazing. All blessings to y'all may you grow in the fear of the Lord, perfect peace and have the eyes of your heart enlightened to more comprehend the Love of Christ which is beyond measure.

[@LivingLifeWithDeeDee]

Thank you for this video.May God bless you🙏🏾

[@wendywatkins7366]

Great video guys ....Thank you 🙏

[@abbigailbattle5983]

Great video! Needed those words and you too are great role models for young people at the beginning of their walk with Jesus!🙏🏽💛

[@ikatriney]

Thank you for this message 🙏🏼 i will try it to apply into my life.

[@marymorris9982]

This video has helped me so much since being home over the holidays. I’ve really been struggling with this one.

[@ABartush]

Great topic, Great channel, Great content, no water, everything is clear and understandable. thank you

[@britneylagrone2106]

Thank you Ronnie and Mel for your videos. They have been spot on with my path and growth in my faith! God bless you both and keep doing what you are doing because I know it’s helping me and I’m sure many others 🙏❤️

[@sharlenecooper7989]

Wonderful video and topic. Great work

[@ccsarah4438]

Perfect timing, thank you so much! God bless you both

[@kathleenmikkelsen2336]

Great advise 💜

[@lepshangroel9147]

So blessed . Love you. Thank you both

[@sharlenecooper7989]

So much clarity here

[@curtki6eda357]

I was reading the word one night and was on this very same subject on how to love my enemies. I was asking God, how do I do that?! And no joke, I turned to Matthew 14:16 by accident and the verse says " But Jesus said to them, They do not need to go away. You give them something to eat." And right then and there Jesus answered me and i though to myself, wow! Jesus is the bread of life! We need to give our enemies Jesus. Something to eat if you will. I will continue to pray, and forgive them and show them kindness because that's what Jesus would do. Awesome message you guys! Thank you.

[@TAD050486]

Great way to look at it from a different point of view.

[@lizayowa]

It's very true I was just talking to my husband about this and found the video this is a God sent. Blessings to you and family 😘

[@angiemaris3895]

Holy Spirit led. Thank you Ronnie and Mel. God bless and keep you both! oxo

[@olenenok7920]

God bless you, you don't even suspect what a powerful stream of light you bring into this world, thank you 💐

[@nickm2679]

Amen Ronnie and Mel! You guys continue to deliver the word in such a clear and relatable way that speaks to my heart, God Bless you both in your ministry🙏 I related to the part when Mel said she felt the Lord telling her to lay down her life and simply obey, without worrying about it all. Just simply obeying God. Powerful stuff.

[@bernarddenny1349]

You guys are so awesome God bless you both

[@Stella-cv4mc]

Great video ❤️ I just want to explain something crucial about this topic in general: it's extremely important to not confuse Christ-forgiveness (which is from God) with niceness-submission (which is co-dependent behavior). A lot of people (including myself) historically respond to attacks with niceness and submission because we're scared or even traumatized. Even people who are saved by God already might struggle with the aftermath of certain childhood trauma, there's no shame in it. ❤️ For example of you were bullied as a kid and learned to be extra-nice to people in order to subconsciously avoid another attack, that would be co-dependent behavior. In a case like that, this niceness-submission is a trauma response (the "flight", "freeze" or "fawn" response). It's a neurotic drive to not cause conflict and keep the harmony, out of fear of negative emotions, such as guilt or shame. Co-dependency is very harmful to yourself and to relationships psychologically, and I know this because I behaved like that for years - thinking I was just being "a good Christian" who never defended myself, never stood my ground etc. But I was not led by God in that moment, I was led by my fear. However, Christ-forgiveness does exist. The thing is that this kind of true forgiveness, true meekness can ONLY come through God ❤️ us human beings are too weak, too hurt, too complex to really forgive someone authentically. But if we live seriously from the Spirit, God can supernaturally enable us to be truly unharmed by attacks and to transcend the entire conflict. Forgiveness, then, is not even an effort, but simply the natural outcome. Hope this helps somebody! If someone has more questions about the difference between Co-dependency and Christ-love, feel free to ask me 😊💐

[@bygracethroughfaith589]

This is so important, there are so many Christians who don't know if they are acting through God or if they're merely re-enacting a trauma response :(

[@ravenraven966]

Wow , this is so true. How should we react to the narcissistic abuse from others.

[@chloeandnadia1673]

So well said. We can set boundaries in love & forgiveness also can take time. I want people to know it's a process that can take time if the hurt is deep, but God will always help us!

[@simplymetwo9370]

Amen!!!!!!👍👍👍👍.

[@simplymetwo9370]

@@chloeandnadia1673 and forgiveness does not mean unconditional tolerance of abuse. Jesus also stood his ground when going about the Father’s business. He wasn’t afraid to “tell it like it is” when appropriate

[@rmd1477]

I always struggled with my mother in law.I picked up the bible and I really feel I can step back and pray for her now. I found patience..

[@Karlacook89]

I really needed this

[@momentswithgod9032]

This video is so relevant. THANK YOU TO BOTH OF YOU.God bless you.

[@marygeniusz6929]

I currently have been in such a spiritual rut....Ive been binge watching your channel and its really helping me reconnect with God so THANK YOU!!!!

[@TommySheaofficial]

I thought this was going to be easy. But it is something I immediately recognized as something I need to %100 improve without a doubt. Very good lesson

[@kagisomokoena209]

Love you guys so much. You're both so sweet.

[@chantalou604]

So true, especially in light of what happened in our governement in January 2021.

[@alanalynn2023]

Thank you for your wise words. Im old and my peace has been violated along with my lack of love for everyone due to getting too caught up in the divisive news these days. I needed this reminder of Who is important and what to do now.

[@kristinaray583]

Thank you for this reminder. I've been hurt by non & christian friends and it took a long time to forgive and humble my heart to them. You're right about we ourselves can respond. Thank you again for your videos.

[@catchonfire888]

I wanna watch this everyday. This is powerful❤️

[@JustGods.Podgirl]

Very much needed I really needed this God bless you guys much Love 💕

[@DiyanaDaughteroftheKing]

God bless you both and may God continue to use you for His Kingdom and Glory in Jesus Mighty name🙏

[@jespublic01]

Wow! Such a great teaching...God's word is the answer and perfect. Thank you for elaborating this truth. So many nuggets!

[@soupisgood_2080]

Literally just had a conversation/debate with someone on tiktok about manifesting. Sometimes I just want to yell at the other person for not seeing clearly, like I can't imagine this person is so "stupid". Then I realize that I was once in their shoes. I believed the same lies they did, my eyes were not open. This helps me to stop for a second and breath. Not act with anger but to understand. It's hard to live in this world but as Jesus said, the world hated Him first. It's almost expected that people won't understand us. It just makes me sad that people say that I'm forcing my religion when I want to help by telling God's truth and my own experience with it :(

[@bettymofokeng3404]

Beautiful 👌 set up, professional 👍 thank you for great enlightenment🙏 I ❤️❤️❤️ Ur channel 👌

[@user-ig8ld6un1m]

Amen 🙏 , wish them the best

[@darlingtonteaches7444]

Great points on responding to "enemies".

[@meneekoh]

YOU TWO ARE AMAZING! KEEP FIGHTING FOR JESUS!!!!!! YOU INSPIRE ME TO BE BETTER AND DO BETTER! BLESSINGS TO YOU BOTH IN 2021!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@lisaangelos3184]

You two are awesome!!!

[@frandemianczyk]

LOVE YOU TWO!!!! THANKFUL FOR YOUR CHANNEL & YOUR EXCELLENT, TIMELY EXHORTATIONS!!! HAVE A BLESSED CHRISTMAS ❤️❌⭕️🙏🏻🎄❄️

[@rikdegoeij837]

Think that when someone is angry , he or she is hurting. Why do we hate ? Prayer takes the hurt and hate away.

[@PinkYellowGreen2023]

Thank you for sharing. I can't do this anymore. I have loved those who have hated me, abused me, and treated me inhumanely repeatedly only to see them continue to see me as someone to play with. What is the strength in this???

[@sj-yu8lx]

I like what Ron said about peacemakers.

[@vivilaurel7]

Amen!!! ❤️Let me be in God’s word day and Night

[@hurmaazeem621]

Loads of love n respect for both of you... you're contributing in our lives to make ourselves more like Christ... you're setting an example of true Christian couple... I pray that I'll get someone like you guys...

[@MrPatrickslima]

What a motivational video 🤩🙏

[@ericdavis5275]

YES!!!! Good Job Guys!! I love when Mel talked about her wanting to yell at the guy in traffic!! 😂 That is totally true when someone makes fun of us or talks bad about us we need to know what we are in God!! Love the video fam!!

[@mitchdowns4199]

missed you guys for awhile

[@lindseymohlman5922]

There’s a song the children of my church sing in their Sunday school class titled “Love One Another” and the lyrics go like this: 🎶Love one another as Jesus loves you Try to show kindness in all that you do Be gentle and loving in deed and in thought For these are the things that Jesus taught 🎵 Honestly this song was the first thing that popped into my head when I clicked on this video, the world could use the advice ❤️

[@joanneralphs217]

I know that song. 😍

[@BD90..]

Good message you two.

[@momentswithgod9032]

The enermy is the devil. HE WANTS US TO HATE EACH OTHER. No one can separate us from God's love.

[@vivilaurel7]

Amen thank you ❤️

[@alexisabreu5422]

Love the video

[@SoniaMarie]

Love this💕!