How To Love Yourself as an ENFP | Ep 532 | PersonalityHacker.com

[@sampars7825]

As an ENFP, I often feel like I’m the smartest person in the room. However, my exploratory nature makes me question this assumption, recognizing that people are complex, and quick judgments can overlook deeper motivations and unseen aspects of their behavior. This perspective prevents me from overly praising myself, even if it appears I’m excelling. Ultimately, I tend to be harder on myself than necessary, believing I shouldn’t truly appreciate my own achievements until I’ve reached my ultimate goal of saving the environment. This session is helping me a lot. I need to listen to this for the third time to let it sink in 😊.

[@AlysiaLaTourette]

The idea that ENFPs can channel and trust that the next word will be available really struck a chord with me. I recently took the plunge and changed profession to teaching, and it was the discovery that the universe supports my public speaking in a fascinating and faithful way that gave me the confidence to go for it. I’m relieved to hear that much of the work I have done on myself in the last year has been in a nurturing way appropriate for my type.

[@AlysiaLaTourette]

As I listen I keep being struck by how much this is a story of my life. I don’t think I’d ever wonder if I have my type preference off again 😅

[@PegR38]

I'm an ENFP and have been looking forward to this podcast! I've listened to all of them and they're really good. I usually listen while I'm cleaning or cooking. This time I need to listen again while sitting down and taking notes. I'll be back later wirh a better comment.

[@dominican4ever]

ENFP here! Using Te to make this comment, I think. I MADE IT TO THE END AND FOUND IT INTERESTING FROM THE BEGINNING. Great job! You have a fan in DR🇩🇴 For me, this podcast has been a game changer. I’m only joining the membership to say thank you directly to both of you. When the time is right I’ll be there. Hugs

[@Personalityhacker]

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[@nires1]

Thank you!

[@rhiannonkim4402]

This podcast was worth the wait! Loved every part of it. Some highlights that stuck out though are the section talking about personal sovereignty in relation to Fi was spot on and I would love to see more content on that. As an Enfp who has had a hard time wraping my head around Si I found that section extra helpful as well. I found Joel's personal example very relatable as well. I think its very easy for Enfp's to give themselves outs for bad behaviors since they often can hide behind some societal norm that is expected so the call outs that nailed the underlying motivations that are the actually area of growth that enfp need to be responsible for and call themselves on is essential for a successful growth journey. Ps. Just for the record along the lines of the stereotype. I did in deed listen at x2 😅 but I slowed it down from my usual 3.5 and will listen be listening agian 1 or 2 more time. I have listened to every podcast speeds varying depending on contenct and current usability potential. So yes this Enfp can and does listen to long content. I just like to get an big picture overview first before deciding how deep I want to dive in. 😂

[@delightdiana]

Loaded with practical value and inspiration. Thank you so!

[@lockedog3000]

I cant wait my TE is on overdrive. But my FI say slow down. Ne want to learn more. SI do we even have space to hold more info. I love it.

[@crystalemullen]

Same

[@crystalemullen]

Howdy from Houston 🙋🏾‍♀️🤠

[@lockedog3000]

Aloha! From Hawaii

[@Personalityhacker]

Thank you for watching and for the comment. ~ Joel

[@Personalityhacker]

@@crystalemullen Welcome. Glad you joined us. ~ Joel

[@Duck-fy6xn]

Thanks for this beautiful podcast, i love it.

[@ericajennings2085]

Thank you for sharing all your knowledge, wisdom, and insights! It’s amazing the knowledge you both have and the ability to articulate it so well!!

[@tictacpaddy]

I watched this video over 2 months within 7 different visits. Loved it, Thank you for the valuable information.

[@servewithstyle5063]

The processing very long

[@servewithstyle5063]

It's intuitions

[@KingdomPersonalties]

That should be a t-shirt “it’s not a bug, it’s a feature” 😂

[@AshleyChing-c3o]

Why? How? Of 3x aha patterns

[@AshleyChing-c3o]

Full expression of individuality

[@AshleyChing-c3o]

ENP as obviously weird

[@AshleyChing-c3o]

If ENFP doesn’t feel like their own highest authority, they reject all authority

[@AshleyChing-c3o]

Process past. Life rhythm.

[@AshleyChing-c3o]

Acceptance. Details.

[@wendellpeterson6755]

It's really hard to love yourself when you're an INFP. Seriously, you fight against yourself to make this happen.

[@servewithstyle5063]

Dr John Bebe

[@vemrith]

Soo sad it starts with something so stereotypical and inaccurate as a joke about a 60 sec reel 😒

[@sebastianmartinez5508]

the important thing is they clearly meant it as a joke and they are EPs that break the stereotype themselves. problem would be if they said the stereotype in a serious manner

[@vemrith]

If you know anything about ENFP/ENTP and familiar types, the most serious things are said as a joke) Unfortunately, it seems as a self-joke as if they were accepting this part of themselves, and for me it simply can’t be further from the truth. I wish I could be ok with short form and shallow content, would’ve given me some sort of social media presence :D So no, it’s not something all FP have to work on as they insinuated, even if the format they chose to do so was a joke: it’s out there and they mentioned it. So I disagree with you and have a right for my own opinion 😊

[@Personalityhacker]

We’re in part referencing the comments we received from this video: kzbin.info/www/bejne/aYnbnYlmjpqHm5Ysi=oCuu3-fe-AfGEJVT It’s pretty overwhelming, the amount of ENFPs complaining about the length. It created a strong impression. That said, we don’t think every person of every type is the same, so if a trait we mention doesn’t resonate with you, you can safely assume we’re referring to other people. -Antonia

[@jaredvaughan1665]

ENFPs your Socionics Dual is with the grounded mbti-ISTP. Your Socionics Conflictor is with the rigid mbti-ISTJ. Many people wrongly think it is the opposite. But the j and p switch is ONLY with introverted intuitives. So: INFP = INFj (EII) But: ISTP = ISTp (SLI) --------------------‐-------------------- Observation & Socionics proves ALL mbti-SJs actually lead with judging. ALL mbti-SPs actually lead with sensing. Including the introverts!!!!! So: Mbti- ISFJ = ISFj (ESI) leads with correctly defined FiSe = Relations enforced through external sensory actions like nursing. Mbti-ISTJ = ISTj (LSI) leads with correctly defined TiSe = laws enforced ✏️ 📝 . Example: Accounting. Mbti-ISTP = ISTp (SLI) leads with correctly defined SiTe = Sensory pragmatism 🔨 🛠 🪛 🔧 Mbti- ISFP = ISFp (SEI) leads with correctly defined SiFe = Sensory mood 💋 💄 Note: Thankfully Mbti only has the 4 introverted sensor's leading 2 functions wrong. Thankfully, it has the other 12 type's leading 2 functions right after doing a J and P switch ONLY for the introverted intuitives.

[@JaneThatcher89]

Where can I learn more? I’m having a hard time understanding all this, but want to learn and grow. ❤