How To Make A Good First Impression | Jamila Musayeva

[@JamilaMusayeva]

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[@miscuitsmarmelade]

We, women, need more role models like you in this day and age.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you 🤍

[@poonambagari]

1. Dress well and appropriately, groom well 2. Have a good posture 3. Pace yourself 4. Give a firm handshake 5. Know how to introduce yourself 6. Carry your business card with you 7. Give undivided attention 8. Master the small talk 9. Have good table manners 10. Maintain good impression throughout the event

[@rawyamohamed3046]

Thank You!

[@isabellajane8212]

Thank you for the summary!

[@DanisDiamonds]

this came out right before my job interview this morning! wish me luck!

[@Sophiee0x0]

Good luck!!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Good luck!!

[@Phd366]

You will do great! 🎉❤

[@MayAfo]

Good luck

[@mimansajena6508]

Good luck!

[@logicalbeing1897]

1) Dress well, Grooming 2) Hold yourself, postire 3) Pace Yourself 4) Give Undivided Attention

[@RezanYunis]

Drinking my morning tea while watching your videos, what could be better!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Sounds great!

[@LingaBirdie]

It's amazing how the small talk makes all the difference, no matter how good the hand-shake, eye contact and smile are. I am a shy, not very talkative person and I come out a little awkward in conversations, then I end up being the "sweet, naive girl". The small talk is a torture for me, unfortunately. I bought some books to improve my skills there. I have seen some improvement, it's clear that people feel better around me when I engage in the small talk and feel relaxed to open up more and have mature conversations with me. Your videos have helped me a lot with posture and etiquette and being more confident in social settings and the work environment so thank you very much!!

[@thasneemriviera1048]

Can you please tell me which are the book you brought ..

[@LingaBirdie]

@@thasneemriviera1048 (sorry, I don't have my notifications on) 1. How to move minds and influence people - Iain Carruthers 2. How to win friends and influence people - Dale Carnegie (a MUST have!!! A classic and the best book I have read on public speaking and understanding how to feel people, encourage and inspire them)

[@bhaveerathod2373]

@@LingaBirdiethank you for posting this, very helpful :D

[@harleyz2643]

You are just awesome sister ❤️

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you so much 😀

[@useraymoon926]

Pure elegance❤

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thanks ☺️

[@hehehehehehehehehehehehehe5955]

Jamila, you are the epitome of elegance!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you!

[@Imad_bake]

Sending love from pakistan 🇵🇰 , freedom for Palestine 🇵🇰 ❤️ 🇵🇸

[@marylou3995]

As a woman ( Christian) I hate shaking hands - a man think he’s been polite, if you don’t shake, he look like he done something wrong...difficulty .

[@Mariammia77]

Thank you so much, your video are super informative as always🌸

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you!

[@Lisa-sp5if]

Every person should watch this, Jamila! Extremely well done, and honest and true… I am somebody who, even at 60, has a lot of energy… Almost everybody loves it, but I do have to remember to slow down… I’m grateful that people can feel my energy, especially at my age!

[@_.booktrovert._]

Thank you so much for this video Jamila. 💖

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You are so welcome!

[@MyLearningofQuran]

I like your every video. Your outfit is minimal and easy to carry.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you!

[@mansoor3159]

First I Love your videos Lots of love from India 🇮🇳♥️

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you!

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[@luxpursuits]

My two biggest issues: 1) Posture 2) Blabbering

[@nur641]

Please do a video how to pack and organise a suitcase for travel.

[@secretscarlet8249]

But how do you define the line between pacing yourself and stretching the silence until it becomes awkwardness? I’m not great at thinking on my feet so when I go too slow I think I’m going too slow.

[@sitbone3]

Excelent video. Thank you once again.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

My pleasure ☺️

[@lisatiptoes]

A great video. And a good reminder for me to actively listen. Also, business cards are still used. They are something tangible to give someone. Other than putting it in your phone. It also shows that you are are professional and prepared to meet people.

[@antoinette4729]

Dear Jamila, having been a microbiologist over 40 years, I am a germaphobe. I believe handshakes should be banned as a social gesture. Retired to Thailand, the “ wai” is an accepted greeting and farewell. No touching of skin is involved. It is similar to a “ namaste” gesture. Again, a respectful greeting without skin touching skin. Many people have hand issues: arthritis, trigger finger, carpal tunnel etc. and a handshake can be somewhat painful. These reasons could explain a weak handshake. Thank you an excellent video.

[@beverleyroberts1025]

I read in the book, Vanity Fair recently that the world is a looking-glass, or a mirror 🪞 in today's world. What you give out is what you get back. I know personally people treat me well. The way you carry yourself and the way you dress definitely gets you noticed and people remember you because you've made a good impression. But what's worth more than that is the way you treat people, good manners and consideration for others, smiling more. Where I live in Spain I will smile at a perfect stranger. And those people that I pass regularly then start to speak to me as I pass and that leads to a conversation. It really is all the things that are free in life that matter. You don't need to be a millionaire to get noticed. 🌼🌷🌸

[@UnPeuDeTourisme]

Yes, that’s why when I smile to some men, they have the right to bother you. This is probably why when I was there some « friend », they wasn’t there for me. What a very good mirror.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Love this!

[@kaisankamal]

Hi jamila! Thanks for uploading valuable contents on KZbin, I like your video about table manners and since then I started to see other of your videos. The reason for me to comment today is because I would like to request for a video about table manners/Dining etiquette for certain other cuisines. I have a doubt on how to eat some middle eastern meals, I have an issue with kebab breads (Turkish grill bread/pide) and how to dine them (I mean you usually don’t eat bread with knife and fork and also not sure is it the same way as eating bread roll with butter on a dinner). If you find it’s not enough for a video, You can teach how to eat rice, just imagine a scenario in dubai and there is biryani/pilau served in a buffet. There are people who struggle to eat rice with knife and fork (eating spoon is simple) with an etiquette. Chopstick is not really necessary unless needed. Thanks a lot in advance. If you uploaded a video, please reply me with a confirmation. If you can’t do it please let me know, I’m cool if there is an issue and infact you can suggest me somewhere else other than here.thanks in advance.

[@Lisa-sp5if]

Oh, and the handshakes…I try to teach every woman and young woman I know how important a strong firm, just two pump handshake is… I think I do see more women getting better at this! It is almost the grossest thing when somebody gives you a ‘fish’ hand!

[@AlexandraAquamarine]

Your posture say who you are not only to others but also to yourself)) Or even dictate it))

[@mansoor3159]

Jamila Love Watching your Back to Back Videos so so much and your Back to Back Videos are really helpful to me✨✨

[@JamilaMusayeva]

So happy to hear it 🤍

[@geethanjali7733]

I'm gonna join in my first job in the next two days and this is the only video I ever needed. Thankyou so much Jamila.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You are welcome

[@equilibriumtorque577]

Hi jamila can you make a video on how to be organizable in this fast world we women often lost our feminine trait which is been organizable.

[@Anthophile03]

Mam your video are fabulous, thanks for helping ❤

[@JamilaMusayeva]

My pleasure 😊

[@lubnan3033]

I feel very comfortable when I watch your videos because your face is really peaceful and I loved it that you are learning Arabic 😍 good luck for you ❤

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you! 😃

[@sinchitaghosh]

Ma'am, I try to follow every step you explain but I face a big problem with sneezing since I have really bad dust allergy. I tend to sneeze pretty loudly. I've tried to lower the volume but in the process my nose just itches and leads to more sneezes and it becomes really messy. Is it a bad thing to snneze loudly in a social setting? There's nothing I'm able to do about it. I know it's more of a medical issue but I also think sneezing is considered a manner?

[@useraymoon926]

Bye blazer looks sooooooo good,you should wear these type of these more often💕

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you!

[@JezzTeo-de4wp]

Hi I am a college student and will be graduating with a business degree in 2 years. I belong to a professional business fraternity and will be interning with a company this summer. Will you suggest that I have a name card to give to potential companies in the social events? Also, as I am thinking of my internship this summer,what would be an appropriate tag in the new work place. Thank you

[@kellyroy7248]

How do you feel about women not wearing nail polish in casual situations? If the nails are still groomed and clean, but not polished with color?

[@rachfayee]

I love this coat and outfit

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you!

[@AichaMaraf]

Hello, I am Aisha, I followed you from Algeria. I really love you. Could you please make a video for us that talks about how I take care of my hygiene in the summer with simple things? Thank you

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thanks for the idea!

[@Lisa-sp5if]

PS, I have friends who have terrible posture, and I always have to hold myself back from pulling back their shoulders!😘🧐

[@denisbasirov]

Спасибо что вы делитесь знаниями. Не хочу вас обидеть, но для меня ваш голос слишком тихий и приторно слащавый. Между прочем смотрю и слушаю вас через онлайн переводчик яндекса, где голос больше подошел бы для вас. Жду каждый ролик с нетерпением.

[@toybaworku7339]

My role model ❤❤❤

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thanks ☺️

[@toybaworku7339]

I Love you 🥰🤴

[@user-tashiyana101]

❤❤❤

[@Uni-u1r]

Jamila veliki pozdrav od , Radomir Eric Beograd, Srbija.

[@selyemperzsa1]

Great summary video, thank you! For the outfit, the jacket looked great on the street photos, however in sitting pose it seem to have swallowed you, also maybe improve the lighting in the room to bring more light to your face, overall mood, liveliness into the video, just like ont street photos, which looked full of live, dynamism, sexiness! :-)

[@maroshka_]

Hello Jamila! Your tip about business cards got me wondering, what makes an effective and visually appealing business card?

[@elviradu]

Always an amazing quality and content I will refer to and apply to my routine. Thank you, Jamila. I know so much about etiquette and manners from your videos only. You are precious.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You're so welcome!

[@officialpurplejoy]

How to network with clients? What are the business etiquette?

[@jishajain7341]

Time stamps? 👀

[@evelin2019]

Very nice video. So much information that I didn't thougt about. Would love to meet you at a meet&greet event. Maybe there is some space to come to Vienna | Austria - otherwise Germany, Italy, Switzerland would also be an option!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Hopefully soon ☺️

[@blqkhle]

جميلة حقاً ❤

[@Dashya.]

Thankyou for this video.. Pls make one on smile.

[@mariellegrant6248]

Thank you Jamila for such interesting and useful advice!🌹🙏❤

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You are so welcome

[@noname.1890]

this came right before I am going to meet my boyfriend’s parents! Hope it goes well ❤

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Good luck 😉😉

[@asiakhan5314]

Good luck dear! ☺️

[@noname.1890]

@@asiakhan5314 thank you ☺️

[@noname.1890]

@@JamilaMusayeva thank you💕

[@jiahjeon1111]

hope it went well!

[@Marci82]

Excellent video as usual ❤

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thanks again!

[@EnricaMendunideRossi]

Very inspiring video. Thank you

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You are so welcome!

[@pinkgreenmelon2209]

Thank you for the advice. In my case, I have to do my first impressions in a language I’m not entirely fluent in so I sound really nervous and end up probably not giving off a good impression. 😂

[@JamilaMusayeva]

It is normal and nothing to be ashamed of. Always good to notify the person that it is not your first language in case what you say might be lost in translation.

[@sonaxanmcfrova8330]

You are angel my princess God bless you 🙏❤️🥰😇💋

[@JamilaMusayeva]

🤍❤️

[@NishantKumar-ep4hw]

❤❤❤❤MANNERS❤❤❤❤

[@laurawolf9613]

🥰

[@TheLTNO]

@10:45, are handshakes necessary in this post-covid world? I was a germaphobe before covid and have become all the more since. Thank-you for your work. Your channel has been a great resource to me for several years now 😀.

[@jasppt]

You are so elegant ❤️‍🔥

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you!

[@ksg7821]

Most of your tips are unisex that's what I suppose if I am not mistaken.

[@clairenesubs]

Thank you ❤❤

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You're welcome 😊

[@_BLUEZ_666]

Grate video❤

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thanks

[@ZilolaTursunova-dc3gz]

Thank you ❤ Your videos help me a lot 😊

[@JamilaMusayeva]

I'm so glad!

[@Heidipoptime]

Hi Jamila! Thanks for always providing such great content. Could you create a video on etiquette for when a friend hosts another friend in their apartment, in a spare bedroom, for let's say 7 days? Should the guest clean their own bedroom before leaving? Should they participate in cleaning shared areas like the bathroom and living room? Should they pay 50% of the groceries if they eat together during meals? Etc. Many thanks!

[@حياةافضل-ص2ذ]

Turn on the content translation feature

[@Believeinyourself-fz1ox]

I feel, that I becoming more elegant and better social person because of analysing your videos. I make notes in my diary to save the most important tips 👍👍👍👍

[@AnkitaSharma1111.]

❤❤

[@JamilaMusayeva]

🤍

[@Believeinyourself-fz1ox]

Thank you, Jamila! I love your content, Thanks for learning videos, very much appriciated❤

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You are so welcome!

[@xeilentynhiazekairva]

I love your OOTV 😍 Thank you again for this...❤

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Glad you like them!