How to make a man MISS YOU

[@femfiore]

Man, you’re really who we needed a long time ago… no one tells us about these things you teach us on KZbin… you are the friend everyone needs

[@camrynmcgough2612]

not a sliver of attention... because silence creates mystery and curiosity!

[@aslaradfx7068]

Yup i did exactly what you're told to do, and this video really some good tips, because at the end of the day if he's not missing me, i'm still standing on the ground with my amazing life even a new hobbies or a new place to hangout, thank you tom😇

[@frostqueen4904]

This is only working if the guy liked you , otherwise he will just be very very happy that you leave him alone

[@Tomisinatobtele]

You are 100% correct!! That would be like me giving you a strategy to make a stranger who doesn’t care or know of your existence to miss you 🤣🤣

[@frostqueen4904]

@@Tomisinatobtele stuff like this exists on the Internet and I think a lot of girls are delusional enough to believe it. I rejected a guy and he disappeared like you described, I did not once miss him. I thought instead that he is weak to disappear, it didn't made him mysterious or anything 🤣 So you really have to like that person,for that to actually work

[@dorcas_in_splendor]

That makes sense, why would you want to continue being with someone that doesn't like you

[@queen_oftheNIGHT]

Yup 😂😂😂

[@esthelaa5028]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@donnalanee3210]

This video length is perfect

[@brownsugarglamour]

I agree!!

[@tf8187]

Yesss, I’ve been commenting on all his longer videos to make shorter clips.

[@Nare1313]

Yesss

[@rosemary81812]

dam you called me out on the mute. It’s like an addiction refreshing his page to see what he posted. Even when it takes a mental toll on me I still do it. I will stop today.

[@PatODonnell-gk9sx]

Just found your videos, and they are great! You are so funny too😅

[@amostlyagreeableopinion4005]

Watching this even though I have absolutely zero love interests 🤣🤣

[@dorcas_in_splendor]

ALWAYS good to be prepared 😅

[@WhisperXperience]

Well the same thing they do by not reacting to our stories n keep us unread on purpose .... its a game nowadays!

[@biancabianca6800]

What should we do if the disappearing act happens in a marriage and he constantly try to force me to chasing after him by creating situations??? What should we do if he wants to be the woman ? Can we turn this back around

[@gabrielnadia1085]

I would say don't respond to his shenanigans, have your own private schedules, sleep away from him like on the couch now and then, be cold, be distant, don't help him ANYMORE, say NO on everything he wants and asks.

[@biancabianca6800]

Thank you ❤

[@zainabrose96]

THANK YOOUUUUU! I'm a fan from Pakistan.

[@michelleleo2505]

omg great advice about finding what you are passionate about. Thank you:)

[@piricarmen6726]

I have trained myself not to look at or even care about any social media posts. I have my own stuff going on and have a life.

[@weirdpisces]

I feel like this kind of advice works for gorgeous women only

[@ninarai7240]

What if he’s old and has no social media ?!😂😂

[@helenaxxxx5015]

Leave that gen x aloneee that man is looking for a nurse in his old age 😂 and his thingalang don't work

[@CyberSecurityFashionDesigner]

@@helenaxxxx5015🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@luckygirl-ue1jx]

​@@helenaxxxx5015 I'm a nurse lol that's hilarious And True! 😅

[@dorcas_in_splendor]

Does he have money?

[@shelmaphilo2613]

@@dorcas_in_splendorsprinkle sprinkle ✨

[@mellovestodraw]

So I tested him by posting on my story and the fact he replied to one of my stories by making a lame joke then he decided to delete the message because I left him on delivered for a day 🤣.

[@mellovestodraw]

He didn’t delete his message because I left him on delivered actually…I gave him time to think about his stupid joke that he sent until he agreed to the fact it was a bad idea to send it especially after not talking for months. Even if he told me he deleted his message because I took to long to open it and reply back to him 🤣!

[@mellovestodraw]

Moral of the story live life normally just like before you met him.

[@ninip4rk]

Thank you! This is what I needed

[@Life_healing_Tv]

I LOVE YOU SOOOO MUCHHH😢😢😢😢--THANK YOU SOOO MUCH TOM🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@user-cg1mw9xd2n]

Bravo !

[@mellovestodraw]

People who post quotes after a breakup is a childish behaviour ngl. I know for a fact that ex loves the attention too, if you show anger to your ex he knows for a fact you’re still stuck on him.

[@Lynn-r7x]

What if HE Is the one showing up at MY friends stuff and lurking. I absolutely avoid all of his friends and anything associated to him but he keeps showing up in places I hang out. Its not me. Its him. What does THAT mean.

[@mellovestodraw]

Report him to the police if you’re uncomfortable but first talk to him and tell him how you don’t like him stalking.

[@dinakindred]

Let him really miss you

[@monicabelle3090]

Shall I mute my stories?

[@Basedbeauty3]

Mute the guy's page

[@Life_healing_Tv]

@@Basedbeauty3so what happens once I mute him. Can he still message me and see my stories. Also can I unmute him after awhile???? It’s not blocking him right ????……. HOW DOES THE NUTE WORKS. HE CAN SEE MY PAGE. BUT CAN I SEE HIS ?

[@Basedbeauty3]

@@Life_healing_Tv muting him means there wont be any of *his* content popping up on your timeline. It hides his stories & any reels he posts. It isnt *blocking* him, just hidding his content from being seen by you. He can still see YOU though...your stories, posts, reels etc. You can unmute him in the future but the goal is to be the black cat & focus your energy on pampering *yourself* & staying busy in hobbies(writing, hiking, sewing, etc)

[@keilingeffect2663]

​@Basedbeauty3 girl you said it all 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@Basedbeauty3]

@@keilingeffect2663 im learning , im learning 😁

[@lifeasjomaris]

What I already accidentally unfollowed when I was mad 😭

[@CafecitoWithVee]

Noo fail lol

[@dexdzll6427]

what if we’re graduating soon and i’ll see him there🤣

[@juliethomas1811]

Well you have to graduate 🎓 just ignore

[@multidrip3674]

You can also watch someone's page from a ghost account thar the person doesn't know about.

[@dorcas_in_splendor]

Don't do that

[@multidrip3674]

@@dorcas_in_splendor lol 😆

[@justbelit]

Muting doesn't work for the age group who only use whatsapp😅 so it has to be blocked

[@sasorah6414]

He doesn't post on social media

[@Bubbletea_01]

h ha ha h😂 how do you know I am popping

[@MphoKuti]

Hey Tominsin, quick question do you think I should remove him from this app called locket it like Snapchat because there’s no way to mute him but to remove him and I can see wat he post and he can see him.

[@CafecitoWithVee]

No, just don't look & be unbothered

[@yas270206]

He sent me a reel. Should I view it or not opening it at all?

[@Itdoesntmatterr]

Wait to read it for a few hours. Then watch it and no respond

[@bellabriggs1393]

@@Itdoesntmatterrmy ex did it to me all the time ! People nowadays just play games , so sad .

[@Abc123dü]

What if we blocked each other and he stalks me with a fake profile but i dont?

[@mellovestodraw]

If you don’t like it that he stalks you with his other account then block him, turn your account private and only accept requests from friends and family. Go ahead change your phone number too but if you don’t mind his innocent attention then let him do his thing but be careful if he’s a toxic person you wouldn’t want him to stalk your every move irl.

[@TalkMusic2Me]

What about if we're at work! How do we go mute without seeming bothered!

[@zarax8165]

what if you work together 3 days out of the week!! loool

[@DevinsCorner]

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@anitragilmore3239]

He blocked me 😂

[@Kitathegang]

After you did this ?

[@anitragilmore3239]

@@Kitathegangbefore took me off after I did this and ghosted me

[@Kitathegang]

@@anitragilmore3239 omg so maybe he didn’t wanna play games or just didn’t like you ? How did he act b4 this

[@anitragilmore3239]

@@Kitathegang like a child . It was just sex I’m not bothered

[@Kitathegang]

@@anitragilmore3239 oh ok he will be back lol

[@FavDogBisquit]

Sometimes it’s as if these channels are propelling females/males against one another

[@msgs6850]

Im not changing gyms , he doesn't go anyway but i would never do all this work just for him to miss me this sounds ridiculous i feel at times your just talking making up shit for content , sm men in this world and im settling eff that ! Ive already tried the ignore and this and that blah blah a man is gonna want who he wants ! Period because she's "nicer" ge ahead then !

[@DiamondsRexpensive]

He misleads women in a lot of his advice. Like the "don't block a guy cuz that's desperate, but not blocking a guy is not desperate" 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@msgs6850]

@@DiamondsRexpensive that's because ppl are throwing money at him like crazy he's just going along the way saying anything at this point ! You know how many ppl are like I can say the sky is green and they'll say "I'm right" because it holds weight and he's getting away w/it ! And not only that this is what he was brain washed by men I guess that were in his life told him this because he showed us his heavy and now thin pics so you know he wasn't getting no play until he pull these tactics on these so called "bitches" also known as bitter once was "sweet girls" however I do believe this can work w/women and men who have very low self esteem and play games , because that's what they consider "love" because they can't handle the real thing because they sabotage or they really don't want her but she's willing put herself down for him to keep him and he also because secretly wants another It's crazy and sick ! And 2 hours repeating himself has to be so damn boring and annoying !

[@oflidiggy]

Do all this what he's telling so he can get what he wants from somewhere else 😂😂😂 good luck lol guys don't get attached like women they move on quickly they won't give a f**/

[@MelitaLabort]

We want grown boys like this to runnnn! 😂 I don't want him!!!. Let him goooo get it somewhere else. Think I'm gonna chase you?! Haha 🤣🤣🤣

[@basicinfo2022]

Then he never truly loved you and the connection was never real or strong either if he doesn't regret or fear losing you.

[@oflidiggy]

@@basicinfo2022 what I've learned so far is guys are devoid of love they're only into sex and if life proves me otherwise then maybe one day I'll find a real one who I won't have to play games with?? N he'll fear losing me without me playing all these mind games with him? Get my point. If you have to play mind games to him to miss you then the connection isn't real anyways. It's just playing with each other's hearts and nothing about true love. Period!

[@oflidiggy]

@@MelitaLabort honey if you think only grown boys are hunters you're in for a surprise. Most men are naturally polygamous because they're hard wired to spread their seed wherever they can. So if you're not in a serious commitment already don't expect the man to not be talking to other women while you're playing mind games to make him "miss" you. Freaking childish 😂

[@oflidiggy]

@@MelitaLabort honey if you think only grown boys are hunters you're in for a surprise. Most men are naturally polygamous because they're hard wired to spread their seed wherever they can. So if you're not in a serious commitment already don't expect the man to not be talking to other women while you're playing mind games to make him "miss" you. Freaking childish 😂 P. S( pu$$ies hid my comment so Im commenting again. If you don't have the capacity to take a comeback then don't reply in the first place 😂