How To Make Your Child Independent And Responsible | Parenting - 112

[@Shridharlifeschooling]

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[@preeteshkote5212]

From what age v should give kids their independence? I have a 2 year old child. How to make an independent 2 year old child to have bath on her own, to eat , to sleep on her own, to say rhymes or her wish don't say rhymes.

[@Godsdaughter530]

I made that mistake and now I have an adult child who is not independent how can I change it now is it possible?

[@ThomasSmith-z5q]

Just finished reading ‘Raising Warriors: Preparing Your Children For a Godly Life’ and it really opened my eyes to some new ways of guiding my kids in their faith. Highly recommend it if you’re looking to strenghten your family’s spiritual life

[@SpiritThorpe-gn6tb]

Wow Thanks so much for this recommendation! My five-year-old child asks a lot of spiritual questions, and is very much interested in God.

[@prathimamemoirs44]

Hi can you please tell me, where can we get this book?

[@RajeevSingh-b6y]

I am child listening to this . Now I don't fear taking my own decision as it will only make me stronger and wiser

[@vidya2271]

Sir..am feeling happy to say that i hve made my son independent,though my friends at times think am rude n they think I don't love my child jus coz I don't allow my son to depend on my for each n everything!!! but as u said sir, making a child independent is the first duty that nowadays parents must do for their own child's well-being...thank you for the video..stay blessed and happy.

[@ta5379]

Exactly. There vl definitely b a place or day wen v can't b with them. That time they should nt feel hopeless abt themselves.

[@preeteshkote5212]

From what age we should give them independence? Bcoz I have a 2 year child. How can I make an independent 2 year old child to have bath on his own, to eat on his own and many more

[@kamalkumar7978]

Have you let your children do the followings on his/her own ? Be honest. 1. Choose career own his/her own. 2. Choose schools, colleges on his/her own. 3. Choose life partner on his/her own. 4. Find any options related to anthing on his/her own. 5. Let him/her deal with his/her own mistakes of life on his/her own. I would appreciate your answer.

[@tinarentas-stewart4170]

Same!

[@hamsaraju8421]

Great work. U should do one talk for especially father's, who pamper the daughters so much it becomes very hard for the mother's to discipline them

[@rsuresh29]

I stumbled upon one of your videos about a pampered child a few months ago and I absolutely loved it. You dont beat around the bush....to the point...explaining how to address them and so beautifully explained in simple language . I really enjoy and learn from every single video of yours...you are doing a wonderful job by helping parents and individuals lead a better life...thank you

[@melodies-of-life654]

Felt happy and assured listening to you that i am in the right track of parenting. Because i have spent sleepless nights for being strict, rude, purposely neglectful at times to raise my 2 kids to be strong and independent. Thankyou so much sir.

[@paromitadasgupta1616]

Please give a talk on mothers who are bringing up special kids.... To keep them motivated. They are really tired parents mentally & physically

[@lijohnyoutube101]

Asperger experts has some fantastic resources in this arena a book, several classes etc

[@A83-A83]

This!! 💯💯💯 It's hard. It's trying. Especially trying to get them independent.

[@babygyrl182]

Ong, 4minute mark you described me. 😢😢😢😢. I didn’t realize I was doing this. I definitely don’t let my kid play with the neighbors kids. This was a hard pill to swallow, definitely making changes on my parenting. Thanks you

[@specygirl85]

Thanks Good for me as a daughter to be responsible and independent.. I facing issues because I was always overprotected by parents and in adult hood facing depression.. Really helpful 😊

[@yamoh6613]

The way u talking English tats really admire me lot very simple ,clear and most decent English.....

[@vedu8326]

Thanks alot.. I overparent my boy.. I have learned so many things from u❤❤

[@KumarGNagendra]

Such high quality life counselling given free of cost. He truly loves helping people. Kudos Shridhar :)

[@nebinthomas5011]

God work sir..God bless you

[@sharikamenon5498]

God bless

[@theindianpressurecooker7414]

My first comment ever on you tube for a topic like this........I really liked it ....well.said .....

[@SheetalGikwad]

Thank you for the counselling. It is very helpful 😊

[@nmenon09]

So well explained! 😊 Thank you so much.

[@athmajwala]

What an excellent video !!! Thank you so much Shridhar Maheswari Sir for this wonderful piece.

[@swethapv1186]

Hi, Your explanation on each topic is much worthy and easily understand by anyone who listens. Thank you Sridhar..! ❤

[@manishapatnaik5506]

excellent Sridhar...always crisp, to the point n clear....

[@tsedeyseyoum1001]

Thanks sooo much vital lessons customised to my gaps

[@humerashahez779]

Sensational speech for parents.

[@GoddestPitcher]

(FACTS OVA FEELINGS). . Wee have the tendency to minimize the power of the Child wee love to think that the child represents wat wee will grow out the process of personal progression but eye have a little sceret for eu the inner child is the disguise for the Higher-Self this is y awakened begins and have many childlike qualities in fact the moor awakened someone becomes the moor they become once again like a child albeit a very wise one

[@haritham4495]

Ur second idea is much useful to me... I fear and worried much for their security ..

[@Stephen_Strange]

Thank you so much sir for your advice - we appreciate you being you !

[@andreareedy2043]

Informative , simple , relateable. Really enjoyed this presentation, thankyou from a mum of 4 in nz 😊.

[@akankshakansra1326]

Very well said Sir👍

[@aditi7375]

Thank you very much for guiding us to the right path.

[@nainachawla2424]

Thanks Bhai👍

[@1dripy-e5s]

I needed this talk a few years back. Thank you

[@muktasachdev2427]

You are a wise person..Keep rising..🌟👍

[@shantinair1576]

Good morning . U r very right..

[@mahalakshmee2543]

Thank you sir god bless you always

[@vaishali1051]

Very informative and practical approach

[@AntoniettaDelizia]

God Bless you for help us

[@unsheladcyberninja5066]

Awesome speech i ever heard

[@nishaa.b4730]

Please start a session for teachers,Issues in class rooms creative teaching,developing critical creative thinking life skills...

[@avivic7177]

Thanks for the video it's really awesome thought.

[@preethikeloth3504]

Thanks u Shidhar, seeing this video I rectify my mistakes.

[@rahamathkhan9964]

Excellent ..I feel like to listen ur parenting class....more.

[@romabhatia4350]

I am glad I already do all this. 😇

[@nvHumanist]

Beautiful tips Sridhar. I loved the few videos I watched of yours

[@shrutisaxena01]

I am really great full to you..

[@vidyamasanapalli7597]

Thankyou sir. Very informative and explaining in simple terms. Iam very much thankful to you for helping us. To help myself to be with my children. Once again thank you.

[@UmaMaheswari-xx8ti]

It was very good. Thank you Sir

[@sreedeviharidas6625]

Perfect message..Thankyou ,love and gratitude,😇🙏

[@loveparenting]

Good information ❤❤❤❤

[@nicsilvestroni9221]

I admire your talk about parenting and 99% are right about it. But I can’t agree with one thing. If my child, especially in a young age like 9-10 or even grown up, bullied from someone either at school or from teachers or anyone , I will always stand up for him! It’s nothing to learn in there for kids by ignoring the kid to figure it out alone or suffering alone with bullies! After all my experiences in my life, I have realised one thing: 99% of kids or grown ups are always survive any circumstances with or without Parents in their lives. So, I think that being supportive as a Parent by standing up against the bullies , is the best support I can give to my child while I am alive, especially in Kerala, India. Because unfortunately there are so many uncivilised people including teachers regardless of their job or positions, are communicating wrongly with children in Kerala . They are communicating with children in daily basis, without taking any consideration of their psychological status and most of their comments are seriously abusive towards children. For that reason, it’s very important that a child feels protected from Parents by standing against their bullies. When they see that their parents are standing with them against bullies, it will increase their confidence and will help to grow up them without any defensive mechanism. Because 99% of kids will grow up with a defensive character if no one stand up with them against bullies or nasty people in their childhood period . At the end of the day, each Parent should act for the best interest of their kids. It’s easy to say all these good parenting advices , but it’s very hard to follow it all the time. Then, I would say that let it as a flow of life and do your best until your last breath! Because their life will go on with or without our (Parent’s ) presence. So, I can’t be so perfect like you saying , but I will parenting from my good instinct really , and the rest leave it to God.

[@magdaelenalozoya3093]

Thanks!😘

[@taylorthomas3372]

I’m ever so grateful to have found this

[@eazypeazyhacks]

Very informative...very beautiful...you deserve millions of subscribers 👏 thank God I found your channel.

[@jettyguliani7076]

Very good and informative.

[@DeepikaSharma-ti4dw]

Great🎉

[@muktavaramvinodkumar3995]

It's really good sir very helpful

[@Modest_U]

Very insightful and helpful👌🏽

[@madhu25apple]

You take simple examples to convey correct message. Really appreciate your work! Good luck.

[@ruth-bl5wv]

Nice talk...words of wisdom...

[@loveparenting]

excellent😍😍😍

[@nasemachethil9956]

Great help sir thank you

[@Ben-jq5oo]

Thankyou for this excellent presentation. I still struggle with my lack of emotional resilience, and subsequent lack of responsibility, even in late middle age. I was raised by a dominant mother and a lovely but emotionally absent father. I didn’t ever truly connect with him. Our mother constantly told us “don’t do this, don’t do that”. She was obsessed by me coming into to contact with a paedophile. I’m not sure where, as I wasn’t allowed out anywhere on my own until I was in my mid teens! I was never allowed to spend time with my father doing things I was interested in, like attended a vintage car rally or motor museum. Instead, my mother always dictated the direction of family activities. Well intentioned, but misdirected parenting can leave lifetime scars which need constant self management. Very sad. More worryingly this female domination has left me with “an issue with women”. Whenever I have had a female manager it has inevitably resulted in very unpleasant conflict down the line.

[@Coolaid_vr1]

I totally understand you.i had the same upbringing....

[@nishakhan2721]

Thank you! I learn a lot from your videos thank you!

[@pinto1821]

.. Funny enough(edit: I don't mean funny haha, I mean "peculiar enough") .. My mom did her best as a single parent.. She gave me basic needs and I didn't have to do much.. So I ran away from home to learn independence. It was painful for both of us but we learned a lot.. And my parents got back together before she passed away because of my absence.

[@sajanasyed5179]

This is the main problem of my 13 year old matured girl child. For each thiing she keep on asking my help. If l don't do she started shouting and even curse me

[@dipikachokshi7212]

Thank U 🎉

[@kiranfatepuria2604]

Thank you for the video

[@karmanjyotsingh4940]

Nice. Thanks

[@kavithabillimoria151]

Your views and ideas are really good and helpful. Thank you!!

[@arymamta]

Hiii shridhar I liked ur videos very much... Very helpful for parenting.... Thnx Please post video on how to stop child being a copy cat. I have 7 old son he copies almost everything he see. M worried cause he copies all the bad behaviour and bad mouthing from other kids.

[@fairahere]

super helpful

[@romabhatia4350]

Do come to lucknow for seminar on parenting and relationships. Especially how to deal and look forward in life after divorce.

[@sowmyar124]

You are just awesome.

[@sanbrunofriend5968]

great advices!!!

[@aminahussein1303]

Yes you are right

[@umakittu1982]

Great job

[@HasminTH]

Thank you for your useful video

[@Lifecoach_Kawaljeet]

Very True 🎉

[@dinufathima5856]

Nice

[@hsemumtaz7866]

Highly appreciated Sir

[@ta5379]

Absolutely right.

[@lalalanding234]

Decision making practice

[@vidhimaniar19]

Who are those people who dislike these kind of videos !!!??

[@riteper6714]

thanks Kohli sir

[@ayemyatmon6022]

love this!

[@swetarai6674]

Very much appreciated

[@bababluelotus]

2nd point they may feel that there is nobody to protect them. I faced this many times in life. And I didn't get help from anywhere. I am a recluse today If there decision turns out to be a flop. Parents should stand with them.

[@nicsilvestroni9221]

bababluelotus : I feel same. I can’t agree with him to ignore our kid I if somebody bullied at school in order to learn his mistakes!! When the kid bullied from child or when the teacher un necessarily hurt the child, I think, as a Parent, I should to stand up for him .

[@mrinalnimangore45]

@@nicsilvestroni9221 he didn't said ignore the child , you support the child listen to the whole story , lovingly advise them if there was some mistake from their side , explain that people can be rude and mean sometimes , give them their boundries clearly and show complete support if someone tries to hurt them physically.

[@nicsilvestroni9221]

Mrinalni Mangore : wow! If my child is been attacked physically, that person will be in jail, I can assure you!!! If is a child attacked my son, his parents should take the responsibility by expressing a genuine apology, but it’s all depends on the severity of the attack!!

[@mrinalnimangore45]

@@nicsilvestroni9221 good for you if you wanna involve police with kids..thats real mature I need to toughen up my kid , and let him handle his/her things with clear instructions when he or she needs to escalate matters to Me(parents ) as well as other authorities (teachers etc or if a teacher is involved then approach principal)

[@nicsilvestroni9221]

Mrinalni Mangore : ok perfect Parent ! I am not so perfect like you . You go on with your good work and I do mine.

[@CMwithCMchinchumathew]

Great wok, thank U so much

[@suvarnapatil2979]

Thank you Sir

[@tsanwangompo]

Thanks very much ❤same here

[@Samutech-x1w]

Supr👍

[@anuprabha5733]

Thank you

[@sairaalshubaily6067]

Nice video

[@tabassumstatus]

Jazakallahu khaira (tq) bro

[@sandhyaachary8419]

Sir ur class was really good my niece dosent write any notes &just wants to play she also gives blank answers papers plz giv some suggestions about this matter she is a 3rd std student of kv

[@kakarlapushpalatha5943]

Could you please explain how the parents can handle a situation where a 5 year old boy never wants to loose and wants to win in everything . How parents can help the child to come out of this kind of thinking ?

[@harithah4331]

Apparently he talked about how parents control their kids and take ALL DECISIONS FOR THEM. But I am having a hard time convincing my in-laws that they need not take every decision for me and my husband. It is so annoying.

[@blvckAveli]

But you shoudnt always feel like its effecting you...ifits about your child, Remember hes his own person so even if your in laws.. Or you... Or a stranger says anything.. It shouldn't matter..

[@naziayousuf3183]

Plz do video on parenting with boarding child

[@10akanksha]

Please make videos on overcoming negligent childhood in later years of life

[@Jesdance4378]

Thank you for making this video....when r u coming to Bangalore .karnataka

[@niranjana_lohithvlog8906]

You are so handsome I really like u, lovely video ❤️

[@diptigohil3414]

Hello sir ... do u hav any seminar in Mumbai??

[@artisticnft4879]

My teenage son is sheltered, he’s 16, and will be starting college next year. How do I grow him up fast so he’s wise and vigilant by then?