How To Make Your Husband Fall Back In Love With You Again | Paul Friedman

Learn how to make your husband fall back in love with you again permanently and deeply. In this video, Paul Friedman explains how your husband fell out of love, and how to get your marriage back on track. Once you understand why you'll be better equipped to avoid the pitfalls in the future.
No spells, no magic, no magic wands. This is really how we do it and the truth of this is that this is what we do, this is one of our sweet spots at The Marriage Foundation and so there's no trick here, there's no manipulation. It's a very sincere clean methodology and I'm going to share it with you. Now I should let you know that for those who don't have a strong will. If you can't really control yourself, can't control your mind, can't control the words that come out of your mouth because of habits and instinctive reactions then we have a course to help you but that's not what this is about. This is about telling you how to do it so let's take a look at what's really happening.
Why did your husband fall out of love with you?
You may in your mind come up with like one or two things but I'm going to share with you what is sort of universal. People get married and they have every intention of being nice to one another of treating each other the way you did when you first got together very respectfully, expressing a lot of appreciation, expressing a lot of compliments, really letting your husband know how much you thought of him, how positive your attitude towards him was. Then what happened was you became familiar with him, you started to see ways that you can actually enhance what you were saying to him to make him feel even better and then you became over-familiar with him.
This is a universal problem. We see this in every marriage that has gone so far as to split up. I call it over-familiarity, it is the number one killer of marriages and this is where it begins. So, your husband came to you and wanted to marry you for a very simple reason. He wanted your unconditional love and you were going to give that to him but because of over-familiarity and other things you started to pull back. Your heart wasn't as open as it was and men are very simple creatures. Black and white, he started to feel rejected by you and so he withdrew from you.
So, what is the answer? How do you do it?
It's very simple, reverse the process but all at once, reverse the process. Start showing him the kind of love and appreciation and recognition that you did when you first got together. Light his fire again, don't hold back, don't say things like "but that was years ago, things are different when you're married blah blah blah." Look, marriage is a very spiritual thing. It's based on unconditional love that's its foundation, the friendship of marriage because there has to be -- friendship is based on a choice that you made when you chose him to love him unconditionally. That has to be brought back.
If you do that you don't have to manipulate him, you don't have to convince him of anything. Your actions, your speech, your vibration towards him all of that will be enough. He will want to be with you again. He will fall in love with you again so that's it in the simplest form. Now what you are up against is not his behavior but your own mind. You see the human mind is connected to an animal body. Your animal body is reactive, it's all about survival and you have allowed these survival indications. These instinctive reactions to interfere with your heart's love and this is a common battle for everyone on every single spiritual path and marriage is an ultimate spiritual path.
It's a battle between the body's drives taking place in the mind and the soul's love and you have to win that battle. When you do, I didn't say if, when you do he will be attracted to you again. He'll test you it's natural but then if you stay consistent with this his heart will open to you, he will be in love with you once again. Now if you need help with this, you can read one of my books, there's only two of them at this point, "Breaking The Cycle" and "Lessons For a Happy Marriage" that gives you sort of a framework so you have a context but if you're not able to take control over your mind you may need the course. The course will take you to step by step and bring you to that place where you become who you were that loving beautiful woman who he wanted to spend the rest of his life with, and that's where you have to go.
You have to do this the real way every other way fails. You have to do it the real way, you have to go back to being not who you were but who you truly are your love. A woman represents that to a man in a way where he cannot get this anywhere else. The last time he had unconditional love was from his mother. You are supposed to replace that unconditional love as a wife of course and he will come back to you, guaranteed.
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[@LoveBerrry]

Hello Paul, I really loved what you thought, so I went to buy the book, buy it's quite expensive. 19$ is 8550 in my country and this is a whole sum... I was wondering if i could get a discount? I really do love ur videos and I really do need this book.

[@kristenpope7293]

Wow.. simple and truthful. I’ve got some work to do!

[@LindaHernandez-dd7eu]

It's so hard to put my ego aside. When he doesn't even kiss me or hug me anymore 😔. I got to make this work.

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

Using the course for women will make it much easier because within it I am able to guide you with a definite process

[@amandarodriguez9218]

I feel you on this..my husband says he can’t switch his emotions like a light switch and start showing me affection again

[@cherrylynfike8610]

same

[@joannearroyo1152]

Same. I feel so rejected

[@LizBeLike_]

Same. Been together 10 years 😔 he still will give me a kiss like a peck but not intimate no spark just feel like roommates in a way

[@lucyenebr]

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THESE AMAZING POINTS!!!! GOD BLESS YOU!!!

[@BeautifulYou33]

Boy, your videos are so refreshingly simple and honest! Can’t thank you enough for what you do. After listening to specialists talk things into knots, or play on a women’s sense of victimization- the straightforward truths you share are a breathe of fresh air!!❤

[@marthaaguayo5992]

Makes so much sense!

[@candicemiller9498]

Thank you. This is the best advice. It's all true. Your help saved my marriage.

[@DanielleAlt]

Did it really work?

[@marizelamarin5984]

Beautiful words. So much hope.

[@sadhaviaggarwal]

Really Nice words...compelled me to comment...thank you so much sir!!

[@salwaabdiasis1630]

I felt like you was talking about me! 😓 I’m doing exactly the same points you highlighted and I want to break this cycle of mind and heart battle badly! Thank you for the advice.... 🙏

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

Correct actions produce desired results, just like mathematics. Good choice to want to be happy.🙏

[@pharmclare]

Amazing message

[@utaka78]

Such a loving advice❤i call it the feminin energy and we need to step in it,without fear.its healing to us and our loved ones💗

[@Abril-1234]

It’s hard to be feminine when you’re stressed out

[@dionysiaandrews3108]

Thank you! This is great advice.

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

Thank you.🙏

[@noeleehall-ellis3899]

Omg this is on point...I appreciate this...but scared that I can't go bk to that original me

[@motaledoreen7615]

Thanks so much,this is wonderful

[@phumzilemsweli1544]

Thanks my father TRUE all you said is reality and true

[@lucianatailoshi8804]

Thank you so much I'm going to do this

[@musicartandplay5549]

Wow!!! What a treasure this is!!! Thank you for the gems of wisdom! God bless you, Sir!🙏♥️

[@amybostic1439]

This was one of the best informative videos I’ve watched yet-thank you-god Bless

[@hannaastivedc2361]

Bless you sir. Thank you.

[@tammyhull2199]

Thank you. This is the first video I seen that wasn't saying to manipulate and play games with my husband. Thank you for giving me a peace of mind.

[@isabellaglory8900]

Thanks for this I will do my best

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

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[@bec_beastgaming1996]

Amazing !

[@peacelopear]

Thank you so much I felt much better and I gonna work it out. Hope it works.

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[@jannanysewander7173]

I’m getting back to who I truly am, really for the first time! I’m nearly halfway through the course, and putting it into practice is not easy. My husband is no longer in love with me, and the process of getting that back is what I’m in the midst of. Practicing love and mastering my mind is not second nature yet but I’m getting there. He’s definitely testing me, and as much as I want to tell him all the things I’m learning and apologize for how I haven’t been loving toward him for most of our marriage, I’m keeping my mouth shut and letting actions and attitude speak instead. And it’s subtle for now. Anything more is taken as manipulation. Thank you, Paul, for your wisdom and for creating the course! I’m learning so much about myself-which is a beautiful thing but also a little heartbreaking knowing how much of where our marriage is at this point is because of my behavior.

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

I am glad you found us and are taking the course, isn't it incredibe? I, too, am daily growing in love by following the universal principles and I thank God all the time for His gifts. ..I promise you that your husband will come back to loving you, he won't be able to help but feel the love that has you glowing like a beacon in the night.

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[@jannanysewander7173]

Today was a hard day but I held strong in not reacting or trying to control things. My husband told me he thinks of me as just a friend, that we’ve grown apart, that we need to move on…all the things. Yet he’s still here. I’m proud of myself for how I listened and didn’t react negatively. All the things were hard to hear, of course, but I’m actively working to be loving. I didn’t take offense, I didn’t go to my corner and pout. He was desperately trying to start something and I didn’t give the opportunity. Yes, it looks hopeless because of his words and actions, but I will keep with it. As Paul says, “This works!” I’m counting on it!

[@FloridaBae]

Have you seen any positive changes on his part in the last few months?

[@posch21]

@@jannanysewander7173 I wondering how you are doing??? Thanks for sharing

[@ingridaccount]

I love your videos!!! Such practical advice!

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

Thanks so much!!🙏

[@jmarietv]

love this video...just found you...I would love a follow up as to why the other ways fail...that would be interesting...like ignoring, etc...just found you....

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Thank you ❤😊

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Thank you

[@terrybreda]

great reminders. thnx for this vid.

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

Glad to be of service

[@daretotalktruth5572]

I have 2kids and we have just started to notice good things in each other again I became really rough as time passed and being stricked and I know it was my fault to get my kids to be obedient but started getting cutting off with my husband but we are making that little love spark day by day I have made a lot of changes in past one year still on I love him very much he is my best friend my life as well my parent I have seen all those beautiful colour in him he is just the best 12yrs of marriage and I still love him in the way I did while I felt in love with him for the first time.❤️

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Thank you!

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Mastering my mind is my next goal! Falling in love again to me, I’m in!

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Mastering the mind will give you peace and love in ways you never dreamed.

[@AlmaChavez-sf4pk]

Beautiful words gives me hope! My husband said his expectation of marriage were not what he expected with me and that he loved my unconditional for 6 years but the last year it faded. He wants to stay together because of our kids he says he certainly loves me but not unconditional nor he sees himself with me forever. Idk if to keep fighting for it or give up

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Your marriage will easily be transformed when you use the course for women. themarriagefoundation.org/reviews/ Thank You, I am so very thankful for all the help I receive from all the TMF Counselor’s and even though you don’t provide names I just want to personally thank “YOU” for this response, it really talked to my heart in a big way and I just keep reading it over and over. I have spent so much time prior to finding the TMF course looking for answers. I literally spent months reading articles online, buying other courses that never really helped me like the TMF course. I blamed myself for my hubby’s pornography use, you know, “your not good enough” “you don’t look like any of the porn stars he always looks at” etc….but for the first time these words you wrote He is not you, nor are his bad habits your problem. The mind wants you to think it is your problem but why give your power, power that can used to master your mind to feel joy, to worry of any kind? Wow, for the first time my mind really believes this no matter how many times in the past I heard it. Of course, I also agree that I was not loving with “Unconditional Love” and I am really seeing a big difference when I do. The small kindnesses that I show that I thought did not mean much, like a big hug, a smile, being positive, letting him know how proud I am of him, (all with sincerity) these things are SO powerful and when I act loving toward him he response back in a big way. I am literally taking all this information in the course and sucking it up like a sponge. When I am done, I will be giving one of the best reviews.

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[@TheMarriageFoundation]

Loving your husband doesn't include labeling him, judging him, or categorizing his tendencies. Learn to love him, unconditionally and your marriage will become a nest of love.

[@BUTTERFLYXOXOable]

Thank you so much 😢

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

You're welcome! 🙏

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Thank you very much for these!

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Love this

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Tq❤️

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Sir Please give subtitles below

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

We used to and may start again but it takes time, which is expensive. Then I, too, have to go over the video... we will see.

[@rgoralwalla]

What is unconditional love?

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

The natural; love of the soul expressed without the mind's interference.

[@SonyaJ83]

My husband said he gives up. Then says he wants me to prove him wrong about being consistent with the house. He hasn't been loving. I'm worried and scared I can't fix this.

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My husband walked out 12 days ago he said he is going to pay rent til Jan he wants me to find an apt I text him and tell him that I want him to come home and try again I ordered the class plz tell me how to communicate w my husband d since he is gone

[@ptschaffer7756]

This is great advise and so true. I know I must do this or my marriage of 29 years will end soon. In many ways it’s been over for years. Just this year we learned from his psychologist that he is on the Autisum spectrum. So much of his behaviro makes sense now. He flatly denies the diagnosis. I desperatly want to do what must be done to heal our marriag but my self is shot, I’m heartbroken, lonely and feel hopeless. I’ve given up on prayer but not on God. I know this is a contradiction, but I’ve lost all hope. How do I gather the strength to do what you’ve said? I know it’s correct and I’ll be doing it without change in him what-so-ever. He’s 72 & I’m 68. He takes everything I give him without a single sign of respect or kindness in return. Plz help.

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

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[@nunyabb]

5:52 😭💕😭💕

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

You CAN do this! But is sounds like you need the course for women which is so powerful themarriagefoundation.org/

[@missramireztr]

What might this look like in actions?

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

The primary basic action is 'changing the way you think' which is a process that is best done with guidance from our course for women or other self-help programs that uses a definite system. If you want to look at ours themarriagefoundation.org/system/

[@myaamrath550]

How can i do this when he wants out of the marriage

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

Now is the time to do the course, for women we offer and not look for lesser ways or give up

[@kaitlynnrhodes500]

What do you do if your just super boring and don’t know how to be interesting to him

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

You are in control of your mind and so can change yourself. Unconditional love is not boring.

[@goreyghoulss]

My husband and I have been together for 20 years and married for 18 years. We have been through a lot together and have 3 kids. He recently told me that he is not in love with me anymore and doesnt want to be with me anymore. He said that our marriage is over. Is there any way to fix this? The thing is that we still live together. Its been about 3 weeks since he told me all of this. But he still shows me affection. Still tells me he loves me and yes we still have sex. How do I know if hes telling the truth about our marriage being over?

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

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[@RachelBartley]

Is my husband really supposed to love me unconditionally? He has said several times (even dating) that he doesn't think he does. Because it sounds like this is a basis for repairing a relationship but mine said even recently he doesn't feel he has unconditional love for me so now I'm confused. :(

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

You have the free choice to either make yourself into the soulmate you promised him or you can lament. Free choice rules us, not outer conditions or ideas.

[@RachelBartley]

@@TheMarriageFoundation I definitely don’t mean to lament I’m really just hoping we can make a lasting marriage without unconditional love and I’m concerned about it.

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

One must cultivate and learn to love unconditionally. It is natural to the soul but not the mind. themarriagefoundation.org/free-marriage-help/

[@kakwanzijennifer1527]

​@@TheMarriageFoundation and what can u do if he is always rude to u.for example i have a friend her husband cheated on her with another lady and got kids ,so the wife has no feelings for him ànd her husband has never apologised instead always very rude to her and he is nolonger taking care of her,that the marriage seem not wotking anymore

[@strawberryme08]

@@kakwanzijennifer1527u can’t make anyone change but she puts up with it sooo….boundaries and you have what you feel you deserve in someone el.

[@mountaintravels1390]

How do you do it if you feel he doesn't deserve it

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

None of us actually deserve but we love anyway

[@SandraFlores-xf8ur]

My husband cheated on me right around the time his mom ied less than a year ago. He was a huge Mama's boy. After she passed he started to shut me out and push me away until he said he didn't love me anymore and has very little to do with me. After he cheated he didn't stop. He's living w her in her mom's house . She's 28 . I think he's almost 70. He now says he never stopped loving me and he does want 5o come home but he's not ready and doesn't know when he will be. In the meantime they are getting closer and us even farther apart and my chances are getting smaller. How do I get him to want to leave her and come back home to me?

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

From experience and without judgment or editorial it is our experience that when a man lives with the new woman then the marriage is "over" for all intents and purposes. I only saw this change one time and so I know its possible, but far from usual. I am sorry to share that with you. Some women, knowing this, still take the course for women and find happiness from the self-help aspect of the course.

[@xoxoxoxo9530]

My husband is my best friend

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

Then your marriage is awesome, just as it should be 🙏

[@babitakamblekamble7655]

Good morning sir, my husband had a crush with a girl after my delivery he is to not even talk, or touch me ,also not even look at my face... But sir now she has got married and settled in her life but still my husband says to one of his friend that he can't forget her and for this purpose he is always angry with me he doesn't even speak properly to me..... I can't understand what is the exact problem ....... I am totally confused..... Please help me.. Thank you

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

Get the course for women and forget the escuses. Your marriage is way off track and that is the problem.

[@MarissaZeringue]

Sir I love my spouse I need help with forgiveness so I can not say something out of line

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

That is, to put your soul of love ahead of your mind's fears...when feeling unforgiving remind yourself of that

[@sorayaosmani1]

I feel my husband dating someone else, what to do

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Is it to late to change for your husband or no..

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Hello. I want to take the course, who do I contact? and what is the price?

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@@adrianareyes9286 Is it a course you do alone online?

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@@BrooklynBaby-1 I did it alone

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Pls I need help,my marriage is falling apart

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Go to the website and get the course for women.

[@lc7145]

Is this still possible if there is another woman? We’ve been together 15y married for almost 8y and I found out over the summer there has been another woman for almost 3y... is there still hope? Do I just move on at this point?

[@patriciamatey7034]

Yes there is still hope if he hasn’t say let’s divorce, he has a reason for what he is doing right now but, please focus on Mr. Paul Friedman’s advice with prayers and see, he will turn around

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

There are too many other things to consider. If y9u have children together, for instance.

[@carissa9850]

We divorced. Such a mistake and I am miserable.

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

Now, do self work and pick yourself up and start your life from here.

[@phumzilemsweli1544]

Jesus thanks somuch i use to shout at him like a child and i don't trust him because i found condoms in his pocket and we don't use condoms from day 1 that kills my spirit . When he go out i think he is going to sleep with another woman i get upset for nothing

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

You would benefit from the course for women

[@JD-ui8to]

Your talking to me 😢

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

Liten with your heart and practice what you learn 🙏

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Thank you!

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

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