How To Marry The Rich - People Like Us episode #3

[@xeuik]

im just doing this for a sociology class

[@renemitchell8037]

Xeuik me too

[@josephsvennson5694]

Yeah, thats what I said when I was snadwiched in an mmmf orgy

[@sammanthaneys2675]

Same here.

[@alangregory5580]

anthro here

[@atomicrussian01]

same and her hair made her look like an od woman

[@googleuser7454]

There are a ton of social cues and mannerisms among old money that you'd have to be raised in to recognize. But courtesy, poise and being outgoing can still take you far

[@goldengalsclazy]

In all honesty, you'd be amazed at how far you'll go socially; regardless, of where you're at the lengths you'll go with just the right attitude, manners, and appropriate clothing.

[@okayyyyycomputer]

reading the comments i dont think people realize this was a social experiment with a provocative title to get your attention... the point is that wealthy people adopt a sort of "habitus" that allows them to navigate upper class worlds and body language/style of dress is more important than people realize. there are a lot of people who are rich but lack this knowledge- like reality tv stars- but they would never be accepted into a setting like this because they don't behave like upper class people. also the distance between you and another person can define your status, it's been proven- Edward T. Hall's "personal reaction bubbles"

[@sardarpervezkhankhan1916]

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[@optigana]

You did your homework and read Bourdieu

[@julijakeit]

I don't get the hatred. It's a learning experience from anyone. I would love to see people more honest with themselves and others. wanting rich mate isn't bad as long as you are honest and work on yourself to deserve that.

[@CarrieGerenScogginsOfficial]

-(copy and past of my original comment)--, part of my comment where I added my original comment after this, was scratched through with a line. I did not do this, my keypad on a Chromebook doesn't even have said option.

[@rainsara2795]

in my home country Sweden we have great social distance, are you saying that if I live in the US im believed to have low social status?

[@brownlove541]

Listen, most of the men talking about gold digging whores are the ones that are broke, poor or/and lonely and cant get a girl for themselves. Actually many rich men don't mind spending money on their women. If she has something that attract him then, its what he wants not what everyone else think or say.... let them be and do you..... Stop judging because you sound jealous...

[@Lorrnae]

It can be done. Sayles did it in less than one generation, by marrying up. There are other women that I know that moved up from lower middle class to upper middle class/upper class by attending university and marrying someone from an upper class or with upper middle class/upper class. A good example is Ms Obama.

[@TheGoodLifeStarterPack]

Precisely! I do believe that - with the right training and resources (becoming self-made/increasing your status/ through one’s career) - a la Michelle Obama, Melody Hobson, Princess Grace Kelly was born in Philly, Meghan Markle, or attend an Ivy League school (e.g., attend HBS and meet your husband like my college classmate did) and on - you can ‘transcend’ the class you were born into.

[@Jess1234]

Ginie is a badass

[@jjtruth3507]

Don't flatter yourself thinking its just for money. A man whose a high income earner possesses qualities that such a woman admires, intelligence, skills, being a go getter and social status etc. So a rich guy might be a turn on in a lot of ways to women who pursue them for mates. Just a thought. Once money is out of the way folks are free to focus on other important things like actualization.

[@jakepaulpound-for-pound9418]

LOL!

[@natashadickson4819]

And financial stability is far better for marital harmony and having children than financial distress.

[@SelahMartinez]

Appearances is the key, I think that is why we wear something nice when we go for a job interview. If we appear to be dressed well but don't seem to confident than we lose the battle with ourselves.

[@yesiownfrodo]

Mr. Fussell, at the end says that he doesn't believe that changing classes is possible, but it was true in my mother's family. When my grandfather was 12 years old, his parents gave him $5 for his birthday and told him he was on his own and kicked him out. He became a hobo and worked on many of the countries biggest skyscrapers and landmarks, including the Golden Gate Bridge and the Royal Gorge Bridge. He settled in Cincinnati and went to work for GE on jet engines. He built the nosepiece for the Concorde. His son, my uncle, got a job at GE while in high school and worked his way up to Vice President of Jet Engine Sales. He has lived all over the world.

[@rainsara2795]

such ruthless monsters the parents sound like

[@goldengalsclazy]

I agree with you. My family is self-made. They didn't inherit anything except my one cousin did. That's another story, though. LOL Instead of the midas touch, that particular cousin has the exact opposite. Owned more than 20 restaurants and still managed to run them into the ground due to being cheap. Another one got rich the right way, but then got greedy, and broke laws. Finally, there's my late grandparents who were honest and worked hard and succeeded financially.

[@beelz5932]

For most people it isn’t possible. If we are to live in a world where there is always going to be a small owning class, there will have to exist a majority of people who own nothing.

[@Violinstef]

I know who that is! He is Paul Fussell, a retired professor of sociology at UPenn. He's very elitist. I've read some of his works, and he is extremely critical of people "beneath" him. Oddly, he dislikes the middle class because he thinks that middle-class people are pretentious! He is great at analyzing class indicators, though, such as houses and clothing.

[@bluerose2682]

It is interesting to hear some well known professors talk about what they believe. Just like this one, sometimes it is very disappointing, and you ask yourself what they've learned during all those year in school (and teaching).

[@julijakeit]

and evolution will be the first to negate all his hard work. what a sad end to a professor.

[@Nightbird.]

The only difference between the rich and the poor is money & education. If you have the education (and I'm not talking about Ivy League but just a good normal education)..but not the money..you ALWAYS have a chance at gaining the money in the future. The key is to be an interesting person in your own right..and not be all about the money. If you only want to be with someone due to their money..they will know it and will usually avoid you..unless they don't mind and just want to use you like you want to use them..which is not a formula for developing something healthy and long lasting.

[@cameronsitton501]

You don't necessarily ALWAYS have a chance, because the system is massively flawed. Education, sadly, does not correlate with success- although perceived education is a powerful influence over people's opinion of your competency. If you think that the only difference between the rich and the poor is money and education, you're missing the entire point of this clip. There are a lot of other factors, including the cliquish behavior of the elite.

[@ASMRASCENDING]

Before you start judging someone of their actions walk a mile in their shoes. God Bless xo

[@quinintheclouds]

I'm not the only one who thinks that haircut added 50 years... right?

[@kellywelsch7235]

You have to remember this is not present day and it was the style at that time

[@doberman1ism]

That Messy hair is not, nor has it ever been, the hairstyle of a woman born into old money.

[@essies4294]

It also added millions of dollars😂

[@sequanamoore1895]

So the upper class feel that whatever class we were born in that is the class we will stay in. That sends a very strong message, it kind of gives you the kind of feeling, like do not even think you are on my level. I am in fact and indeed above you.The way they dress, the cost of their clothes, they way they carry themselves when perpetrating in the upper class world. That will define the type of people that one attracts.

[@jesseleeward2359]

Old money v new money in Europe

[@aleusgaming9482]

We know you aren't here because you got recommended this. You're here because sociology class

[@BiffWebster100]

This reminds me of The Simpsons episode when Marge bought that Chanel suit

[@onelittleplum]

Ahhh it’s there! It’s literally the suit at 2:31!

[@AdmiralBison]

fair enough. A lot of women wouldn't mind marrying a rich man. A lot of men wouldn't mind marrying a supermodel/model. It's a natural imperative for most of us.

[@NZfabrock]

Mans expectations of women are realistic. A womens expectations of men arent. Expecting a man too have good looks, plenty of money, a nice house and all the rest seem to be some of the requirements and if a man doesnt have those things he is no good. If I was to expect a women to be amazing looking and a nymphomaniac to name a few those could be considered to be unrealistic expectations but I know women arent like that so I wouldnt expect them to be. When will women start living in the real world instead of being brainwashed by gossip mags and all those shitty television programmes that promote an unrealistic veiw of life and how men are.

[@isaacargesmith8217]

+Alex Gillmor Because you speak for all men.

[@mintyfresh4855]

+Alex Gillmor Many women are and aren't like that. I've met many who are and who aren't. Saying all women have unrealistic expectations is really ignorant. We could all say that men believe all women know how to cook and clean which is bullshit. Never say all but instead say many.

[@julijakeit]

@@NZfabrock dear, money can be earned whereas looks cannot be 'earned', women use cosmetics and clothing but look at Genie and that blonde women - their facial bone structure is different and their beauty is not equal. Also, charisma and energy are very hard to change. Most women want just a good man with good finances.

[@NZfabrock]

@@mintyfresh4855 nothing you can use against me this time.

[@elspoko]

The sad thing is, education and money mean nothing when you reach a certain income bracket. It's all about pedigree. You either are old money, or you're the nouvea riche. Sadly, the nouvea are always looked down upon. I'm not saying that it's right. It's just the way it is. No amount of education and wealth will put you in their social class. Economic maybe, but not social.

[@Telstar62a]

I realized my class when I pronounced crudité as if it were a mineral. Crud-ite.

[@BlazingBlackBolshevik]

you have me crying

[@mandysimmons2769]

As for not being able to change social class...I disagree with that older guy at the end. You have to be born into the 1%. If you're really beautiful you might can marry into the 1% but they usually marry inside their own circles. My husband was Poor and I Was Po and we are now the low end of Upper Middle class. So, we did it. College helped! LOL I retired at 53. I need to say this for the young ladies to know. BARROOM GOLD HAIR is not the best in the Rich World. I know, Ivanna Trump pulled it off...but Ash, Frosted, neutral buttery dark tones, platinum blondes with roots NOT showing ( which means upkeep ) are just better when looking for a rich guy. I got my Husband to go all whacky for me when I showed up at age 20 with professionally frosted highlights. I looked older ( I wanted to ) but classy! And, now at age 60 My natural strawberry blonde ( natural hair ) is kept a classy neutral shade slowly letting the new natural "silver" mix in. LOL.

[@jjtruth3507]

Not all rich people are stylish where have you been? Not even money can buy style & good taste. You seem jealous? At least she's out there going after her goals trying to reach her dreams while all you can do is offer hate. If you can't appreciate what you've got---- go out there & get what you can appreciate. If you can't do either than just be quiet.

[@jaelove3121]

I noticed this with upper class! But good luck trying this whole social distancing. Times changes things. You have to change with it

[@chloewinfrey]

I need someone like this in my life!

[@susannahleigh26]

I like this lady - these days when men just want to live with out marriage,father children, maybe get engaged and thats as far as they will commit. The income gap between men and women in Australia is getting wider so - whats is wrong with looking for a man who will marry, provide a home for you and the children you share. Don't marry just for money but but be smart enough to look out for your future. Many young women today will live in poverty in their old age. Time to wake up girls.

[@bryonwatkins1432]

Bryon Watkins I will only date a rich woman for now on. Here are the reasons. One, when a woman tells a man he doesn’t make enough, then the man gets an extra job ONLY for her to say he’s not spending enough time, ughhh. Two, I will never have to worry hearing a woman saying or hinting that she wants a house. Three, my ex-wife made $500,000 a year when I made $35,000. Four, she CAN NOT be jealous or insecure like my ex-wife was due to bad experiences. Five, she will never have to worry about not having enough to travel. NOW, some will say that a man is supposed to do all of that. Show me the law that says that. Since women want to be equal to men, and BELIEVE ME, I agree, let’s judt say they can’t have their cake and eat it too. Doesn’t work that way. A gentleman still opens doors, stands up for his women and protects her to the death. Women I’ve met, and there have been plenty, they said I didn’t make enough, so I got another job only to hear I wasn’t spending enough time etc, etc, etc, etc.

[@elspoko]

Unfortunately people do not realize that. Most people believe that if you work hard enough, get good grades, and are honest, you will become wealthy which isn't true. It is a sad fact that even the wealthy haven't realized. Old money doesn't accept the nouveau riche. You are either born into it, or you are not. People in America haven't realized that we do indeed have royalty in this country. The 1% owns almost 50% of the wealth.

[@jaybaybee94]

How old is this video? Looks dated.

[@76firedragon]

The documentary is somewhere between 1990-92.

[@mahmoudabdelhay4355]

Hello dear

[@mahaman]

you can definitely work your way up, seriously, you don't have to be in that class to be able to meet those people and bid on those artworks, first of all you would need money, and then you would need interest in whatever they are doing, if you're bored of what they are doing then yes you will not be in their group, it needs serious interest, fondness, taste and money, but it's not impossible, nothing is to be fair

[@messyhair13]

I think that the "richer" people have to have higher standards so they feel like they're more special. They scoff at anyone else trying to enter their world, and yet it's so funny when they try to enter into the middle or lower classes.

[@Violinstef]

I really like Ginie and the woman she made over.

[@Lorrnae]

If he does not want to marry, he does not want to marry. A woman should not have to beg and cajole for a man. If he says he's not interested, drop him and find one who wants to. Also, are you making the first move with these men? Are you asking them out? I do not think a dude would ask you out and then say "I am not attracted to BW". You need to smile, flirt, and show interest then let the man come up to the plate.

[@patriciajohnsonson8639]

$2-3000.00 outfit...”And you’re worth it!!”. Ugh! Such a waste of money to pay that kind of money on fabric. I have seen women who look exquisite in clothing of all price ranges. “I don’t think it’s possible to change classes”, the man said. Wow! I think one can and does constantly in America. I notice that people seem to want to shift back to the class they grew up in as they get older and often have to fight that urge. Some people move up classes and never look back. In America, we remind people of the class they grew up in when they get too big for heir britches. We say “Don’t forget where you came from”.

[@venaerichardson6633]

Ginnie is the greatest of all time!

[@Violinstef]

Most people would consider professors to be upper-middle class because of their extensive educations, cultural knowledge, and relatively high incomes. Fussell considers himself to be a member of the upper-middle class.

[@Lindayxx]

I totally agree with you hun, Im a black female who is being approached by wealthy asian men.. alot now days then before and this is not because of some fever but genuine interest to get to know me and one even asked to marry me once lol but you are right- we have to expose ourselves to different cultures and people and intergrate as well as learn about them and show interests and they tend to notice that you are different and that intrigues them, in wanting to get to know you as a person.

[@MdAbbas-nt3jy]

Linday Michiko .Hy good morning

[@jaif7327]

and then everyone clapped

[@Lorrnae]

The thing is everyone has their own experiences. but I don't want to discount your experiences,I know black/brown women that have married men in finance (Scandinavian, German, And Italian), and their marriages are still going strong. They dated other men from Europe until they fount the 'one'. All WM aren't evil. What country do you live in?

[@LadyCharity]

wow I completely concur with you, thank you for your comments

[@Lorrnae]

I can name tons if BW with or who have had supportive WM husbands: Lena horne, Josephene Baker, Diana Ross (2x), grace hightower, Susan Rice, Tina Turner, Jamillah Ali, Lydia Carlston, etc.

[@GettnBooted]

thank you cnam...I've been looking for this everywhere!!! thanks so much GB!

[@PrettyPrincess9609]

I related to the woman who stated that her date asked her for gas money to get home. I had a similar experience back in college except he also had the nerve to ask for sex just because he took me on a date which by the way he didn’t pay for. I paid for myself. I realized that I wanted better for myself especially after what I went through with my ex. I was tired of dealing with men who didn’t have the bare minimum and was constantly asking me for money and to help them. On top of that, I was still cheated on despite being down for him and helping him. I decided I would not date down anymore. I will either date on my level or date up. I just was proposed to three days ago by my fiancée. I’m so glad I made the conscious decision to no longer date down and start setting boundaries.

[@glorfindelchocolateflowery6392]

That one man is just jealous. There are lots of people these days that rise to high salaries without degrees.

[@Candaceday10]

She looks so good.

[@GettnBooted]

Oh and by the Way Paul Fussell I agree to a degree for the uppity ups but I married a nerd and have gone up five class steps at least. So that's not true for everyone. Bah!

[@BillyT531]

I can really identify with these struggles. It was a good try for the makeover, but the things that reveal her as "not one of us" are the hair, too much cleavage and body posture.

[@kellywelsch7235]

Well yeah she's new to it, obviously she's not going to look like everyone else

[@KeenyaTheStylist]

I love Ginie! 💅🏽

[@sequanamoore1895]

I would define this as, structured inequalities.

[@Lorrnae]

Besides there's plenty of stories in the US of dark Black/brown women getting used by Black/brown men. Then the women get dumped for a lighter/brighter/whiter woman that they treat with respect, due to the rampant colorism/complexion discrimination against darker tones in the African-American community.

[@majormediaproductions]

They forgot to the lesson on the rich frat boy laugh and placing one hand on your chest HAHAA 😂😂😂😂 I'm joking Tfs❤️

[@Tastypeache]

i have to use this vid for an assignment lol

[@Lorrnae]

@HappyCaramel Stop spreading the lies. What about Princess Angela of Liechtenstein (who married a rich Euro prince), European royalty-writer Andrea Lee (who is a Countess), Mary Countess von Habsburg of Austria, Baroness Monica von Neumann who married a baron, and Cecile de Massey (who is a Baroness). These women are not biracial & were accomplished successful women that captured the eyes of their rich Euro husbands. Let's be real, how many asian woman have married into royalty?

[@kayla220220]

if it is not possible what about those people who study hard become doctors and earn millions arent they going up ?? im lost

[@bigmac7302]

Does anyone know the piano piece or music at around 4:30???

[@cnam2000]

Errol Garner's signature tune, "Misty"

[@bigmac7302]

Oh my goodness. Thank you so much

[@elspoko]

Well, the top 3%. But the upper uppers own the lions share while the lower-uppers own around 10-15%.

[@jab7168]

How many women period have married into royalty?

[@lou4tea]

wow a millionaire thats amazing wish i was rich

[@isobel64]

@IMPALEXANDERAVG used to be> she's older than the "student" and looks so much better

[@JulieDeuxFois]

In the comments we truly see who the gold diggers are, and who the shit shovers are! As if struggling was a noble thing to do!

[@padregrande523]

Struggling is noble.

[@queen_ofall2360]

God at 6:22 are you kidding me?? Yes it is possible, anything is possibie, only insecure people that dont want to share their status with other people would say something like that!!

[@nurtured-channel2953]

I totally disagree with the man who made the last comment!!

[@fefe917]

What's the song playing in the background?

[@DaDoc540]

fefe917 Starting at 4:16 is "Misty", a jazz standard by Erroll Garner. I only recognize it because I sang it in a choir.

[@n8mills]

There are monarchies in Asia, you know. So, many. Many have.

[@CarlWinslow270]

Damn they really did make someone look like their own grandma...

[@ShanerraBrooks]

Kalu LMAOOOOOO 😂

[@Nofretari]

No they made her look a lady not a pick me

[@Roberta_Diva]

My Sociology Assignment brought me here!!😂😂

[@HarvardBoxer]

I am born poor...and it suck! I want to be rich! Or maybe the american dream is just a dream?

[@sazisompofu5534]

How’s it going

[@allygirls1]

I agree with you adams. I got the looks and having class with style is very important.

[@GettnBooted]

I'd love to know if she landed a man with at least a job!! Other than Ivana Trump "the quality" usually do not have barroom gold hair either, when they did the makeover on her they should have made her more neutral blonde or ashy frosted...more classy! lol

[@ambejbo]

The woman whose date asked for gas money "otherwise I won't be able to drive you home" suchhh a red flag so genuinely scary lol I'd ditch him and use my money for a cab or rideshare cause that is SO serial killer-y

[@Anthem26]

@BabyGirlGoddess It's implied that fried shrimp is for the lower caste.

[@theeartofseduction]

Put on some makeup Vessa

[@trevanismith]

the narrator sounds to me like jamie johnson

[@HeidiStephenson1]

This video is awesome, I like upper class people, none the less MARCH 30TH is my BIRTHDAY! :)

[@Nofretari]

@imhotep1 I agree. Her Book has some wonderful ideas.

[@josephsvennson5694]

The blondie definitely has the right mindset to become a WASP.

[@HeidiStephenson1]

This video does make sense it's a form of Etiquette's that a lot of lower class don't have.

[@knicksfule]

Haha 3:05 she's got the Marge Simpson suit

[@HarvardBoxer]

No. You need to have other people to work FOR YOU.

[@scooterlovya]

Shood. I feel like a star everytime I drink Starbucks :p

[@bluerose2682]

You shouldn't. Starbucks is a fast food chain disguised as a high end coffee shop. If you really want to level up and hang out with people from upper class and the rich, It is best if you search for a high end coffee shop and lounge at your city. They have it every where, NY, Boston, LA, Miami. You just have to look for it. They serve coffee and cocktails and are usually located in the city's financial district. You can take your laptop with you and work or study there, or just relax while you're surrounded by upper class people. Also keep in mind that the real rich doesn't want to be associated with stars/celebrities, they like exclusivity, that is why you don't see 'old money people' wearing that Luis Vuitton bag (that everybody owns it) or anything flashy with logos. I also saw a documentary once about 'old money women', they don't even like to wear design clothes that celebrities are photographed wearing it.

[@scooterlovya]

@@bluerose2682 I live outside of the US, but good advice tho

[@shoujoupdates]

This is probably the third time I am attempting to watch this video to the very end. I'm not sure what it is about this woman but there's something aversive about her.

[@Lorrnae]

Also, what age range are you? Where is your geographic ares? NY? NJ? I think this is a vetting issue. You are not picking out the right guys. You need QUALITY, not color.

[@ShutUpAndLetMeGo94]

Her makeover was terrible! I liked how she looked before a lot better. It made her look 20 years older.

[@raymondcordero4876]

Social distance now is 6 feet and and were a Mack and be safe and watch not can get the corona virus and died . 2020 the world change .

[@Lorrnae]

You need to change the places that you mingle at and expose yourself to other cultures & people. There are BW that have married well, and this is because the went to places that they liked and that had high quality men were more likely to be in. For ex: art galleries, conventions, etc. You need to approach dating with the same risk taking and zeal you put toward your edu. If you are a BW, stop looking at race. Remember Character over color.

[@Easttr090]

@LaGioiella Ya know. I think you're right. Hell. She just might be 70...all these old men she's tryin' to get up on.

[@uglyavocado]

i have a hard time seeing marrying a rich man in order to live out a life of luxury as anything more than that. it is a contract in which a woman renders her goods and services (the expectations of a wife) in exchange for an incentive

[@yuniantari4901]

hard to get rich man and marry him...

[@NZfabrock]

You need to ask yourself how they made their money, do they come from a wealthy family, did they steal it by fucking over people for their retirement funds, are they a drug dealer or are they ordinary honest men that still believe in an honest days work.

[@wonhoptoo]

u need to gfy

[@SuperBigdude77]

Would only marry a man just because he has money? Do the comments about some women only marrying for money offend you because in some ways there actually talking about you.

[@regulardude31]

NOOO WHAT DID U DO

[@asmatullah9939]

Hi

[@darknight651]

Yeah i agree with you.

[@Pain-te6fz]

Women just wait for a man who has it all to pick them up and take care of them. it's a cold world if u don't have ur head on.

[@LaGioiella]

Does anyone else find this remotely shallow?

[@walkthemoon6533]

Just you

[@biancalauren350]

are we all here from sociology class?

[@amritpaudel2183]

instead me

[@ellashealthnhappiness5040]

Hard to listen, when you are talking at the same time she is. Not well maid the audio, am afraid.

[@Bbqalexsavage]

Is this satirical?

[@doberman1ism]

I have never seen such messy hair amongst the ladies who summer in Newport, Rhode Island and that hideous red!

[@brownlove541]

well that is why you are not rich....

[@Bahia82]

I love the way everyone calls this shallow, but lets replace the 2 females with 2 males and have 1 making the other over so that he looks classy and looks like money so that he can attract a beautiful women and I bet no one would have a problem with that, or call is shallow! total double standard

[@MrAspy74]

hahaha is this real? It is so funny!

[@lovebritcoms]

whatsinthatbox . :you have to be white. It mostly won't work for women of color: This is not correct. I live in Europe and I am half black and half white and I have met a number of very rich men. It is true though, you must be good looking and the other important thing is to exude confidence. You have to go where they are. For example, Mallorca, Monaco, Cannes, Rome to name a few.