how to master self-acceptance | matcha talks with tam ep.1

[@sparklesparshi108]

Can we talk about the background,props and the quality of the video,she is literally putting sooo much efforts ❤❤

[@tamkaur]

Thank you so much!!

[@Ameerah-y1c]

Yess❤

[@MuskaanJaisinghani]

Her book feels like a hug. I can literally hear her speak in the book😭❤️

[@priyaljain7737]

Gurllll sameeeee🥹💗

[@MuskaanJaisinghani]

@@priyaljain7737 ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@angelsharma2676]

@@MuskaanJaisinghaniHow can I get that book ? I am getting only Kindle edition on amazon

[@MuskaanJaisinghani]

@@angelsharma2676 there might be some delivery issue try ordering at some other address if possible :)

[@PetronellalungoweMbao-dt9qu]

Is there a soft copy version of the book?

[@elyssakatrina492]

the quality?! the production?! the aesthetic?! the theme?! most of all, the content?! loveee this fresh way of bringing your content to life tam 💚

[@hinanasreen1493]

Our girl is giving us the most cinematic experience in a youtube video.

[@itzztyy]

Hi Tam! thank you soo much for your motivation and amazing videos. im 16 and i was at my lowest. i lost friends, went through rejection, heartbreak and so much but i still passed my exams well.. im striving to be the best version of myself this year, and you rly helped me get the right motivation. I wanna be independent, rich and successful like you one day when im older!

[@taniakhera9650]

Same

[@ErisNova-nv9uj]

Same 🤝❤

[@Rinkalx5]

I am 16 too and I also felt that way most of the time in my life but these things make us even more stronger 🤍🤌🏻

[@brooke8533]

literally was in the exact same boat as you! we'll get through this

[@malcommmabihya7132]

Same here best of luck,hope to see you on the other side

[@anuu__roy]

Last night I asked God to give me love, for someone to come here and congratulate me, pat my back, hug me cause I know how much effort I'm putting but no one around me is doing that. So I took a break and didn't care about to-do list , was lying on my bed, cried whole morning like a baby while rewatching your "a video to watch when you are sad". I gave myself love but needed little bit human connection and today this video from you. Wowww universe is always working for me even when I don't know. Thank you Tam Thank you God for always making my life easy, for always working for me, for always checking on me and helping me out. Ahhh I love being a human !

[@Sparkling_jelly]

even i feel the same lately!

[@hannaheli]

same

[@arohisingh9216]

Amazing content in this video! I rarely suggest anything in comments, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is a game-changer. It provides deep knowledge on wealth and self-care that can really make a difference. Take care, everyone

[@byjul5488]

"no one is going to give you the reassurance and company and love that you desire like you will, because nobody knows you like you do" - I will have to keep this on repeat in my head. Today I almost fell into my old patterns of seeking someone else (in a dating app), to keep me company and love me, but it really is true that I should be seeking that within myself. Thank you Tam

[@anonymous-d3u]

i’m glad she talked a bit about reparenting ourselves, it would be great topic for her next video, also i personally need it, thanks tam

[@OllyZ_282]

Same🥲❤️

[@scarletchase9913]

yeah

[@Arty-ei4ws]

Wake up the QUEEN posted!

[@bobaluvr_]

YAAAA

[@ExcelEnefola-f1r]

She is my role model

[@dindajulia9638]

I was struggling about self acceptance. Been crying a lot today. But here’s you are, thank you so much girl. You help me grow to be better. Can’t wait to get that book. Looking forward for this type of video next time. Love you xoxo🤍

[@cinamoroll130]

i love the fact that I wasn't alone doing this today. cause i found myself crying a lott today too, about the smallest things. this video feels like a warm hug

[@urdumovierecap]

Love the background 😭😭😭😭 it looks so aesthetic

[@_itsavacado_]

Someone very important to me once told me, “don’t trip over what is behind you.” I hope this might help someone else as it helped me.

[@UnJadedJade]

THE AESTHETIC !!!! come on queen

[@rosalie624]

Tam can really reach to people's heart because her talks are deep and true, just like her personality and this relflection helps everyone of us to connect with her in the best and healthiest way possible. Her videos are really a hug for our soul. ❤︎

[@SiaAnastasiou03]

Girl you are so creative😍 The background , the colours , the theme of the video , this more chill vibe…so relaxing!

[@tamkaur]

Thank you so much!!

[@ItsBoutheina]

Girrrl, I was just thinking about you right now and I was saying she's probably still busy with the book publishing, that's why she didn't post yet. I just went on KZbin to see this! Perfect timing as usual.

[@Taffiles_]

Tam is the only personal development content creator I watch/listen to from start to finish. I always feel so empowered after!

[@glueyossi]

I have a health condition that is threatening my ability to go off to college and pursue my dreams. I may end up stuck at home and accepting that is teaching me to be grateful for literally EVERY moment no matter what. I can walk right now? Beautiful. It's really in the small things. Life isn't perfect, and your one shot may not be what you wanted, but there is love to be found. Just get as much enjoyment out of the experience as possible, even if it can't be like the others. It's a huge emotional struggle, but it can still BE. ❤

[@scarletchase9913]

hey, how're you doing right now? I hope you haven't given up on your dreams?

[@its_afeefa]

Tam's new video after college feels like a dream...😭💗

[@kayseaa20]

the vibe of the video was so calming, it felt like having a conversation virtually with a friend!

[@xoxoadeola]

I have been in a serious slump for the past week because I'm not satisfied with where I am in life. I thought “what's the point of getting out of bed? It's not like things are getting better." But this video felt like such a warm hug. I feel so motivated to get my life together and take it easy on myself. Thank you so much Tam.❤

[@sumanxmandal]

Tam after reading the book i really want to hug younger tam she has grow so much in life all she needed to do is trust herself and make her the focus of her life. This book feels so close to my heart thankyou tammana thankyou for existing!

[@lleanetteee]

this was so important to me! so many self-improvement creators preach a “you versus you” concept and that’s very damaging because you are making yourself your own enemy when you should be learning to love every single part of yourself.

[@Garima-su1vw]

I genuinely just love this woman, she is so pretty and so mentally supportive. Every video of hers feels like a warm hugg and she is my therapist now gosh love u

[@SalehaZinnot]

This is so cosy, I can’t wait for autumn and winter talks

[@Star-ul9yd]

This video felt so calming and so much like a warm hug. Everything you said was so relatable and so full of love and care. Also the setting and the background, also the way you were dressed up all cozy set that vibe where it just felt like a safe space to talk about feelings. I am a hugeeeee fan of you and you are literally my role model. Keep slaying big sis . Lots of love 🩷

[@Palakmanoor]

she is leveling up her life like crazy ily tam the video is like a therapy

[@jianna4479]

I stumbled across this channel & have been watching all of these videos. Im usually a very confident person but through alot of life changes ive lost myself a bit which is so unlike me. This channel is like a breath of fresh air. You can really feel the message and you can literally see that she practices what she preaches & it shows. Such radiance and glow in this video ✨️ Thank you, Tam 🫂

[@munazamudasir9733]

I always wanted an elder sister for advice, and i found that sister in you. Tam! You are my elder sister. Ly💕

[@abigailhills19565]

OMG QUEEN, THESE VIDEOS JUST KEEP GETTING BETTER AND BETTER I MEAN THE LIGHTING?? THE CONTENT?? THE THUMBNAILS?? yayyyy thank you Tamm, wlysmm

[@k.6160]

I love the plant setting.🌱🌿

[@misia6670]

girl no way!! I just made myself matcha and sat down to watch one of your videos and you posted this video 10 mins ago!!!on point!!

[@Sofia-t2p]

Wish this was meeee

[@UnapologeticallyAria]

SAME!

[@TheMissSuhaniTripathi_]

This girl is literally my online therapist

[@farhanakhanam5852]

Congratulations on the success of your new book

[@kpopcharlits]

Hi I bought your book and literally tears came into my eyes while readings. You are so positive and I am so happy that you are helping all of us to self love ourselves. ❤ love your purity and most probably love you! ❤

[@graceblake5007]

I love that, where you are now is the moments you are going to cherrish! Also love your set! All about plants, green and soft things. You dont have to earn your own love! Wow

[@labs9618]

Giving fall vibes, love it. can’t wait for fall

[@luckygirl03]

Hey Tam - your videos have helped me grow so much and they're so comforting ❤

[@OpheliasAdvices-mp9km]

Love this new series! The theme really gives different vibes and this was such a nice talk - one I’d have loved to hear from someone else (typically I’m the one who takes on this role)! Thank you very much for a good start to the day

[@majakusowska6565]

omg! I’m obsessed with this spot. Btw I love this cozy vibe and laid-back approach while talking about big topics

[@shreyamahi1498]

i am falling in love with your book . its a masterpiece

[@RimshaNaqvi-gq3ui]

can we appreciate how far tam has come?? congrats gorgeous keep shining!!🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

[@sparklesparshi108]

Just received your book and when I tell you I couldn't believe i was holding it in my hand, I have started reading it and i am already loving it 😭❤️❤️

[@AffirmationAlchemist18]

you give me some much comfort, thank you. xxx

[@baharsorosh3083]

I'm crying it was so beautiful

[@tin_go0]

I love your videos, I love the positive energy. I love the way that you aren't shouting at us, perfect for morning background while preparing for the day.

[@sanjitapatnaik324]

I just loved this relaxed form of self development video, it kinda gives the vibes of “GRWM while I overshare” series vibes from your vlog channel. Please Please Please make more of these videos. Sending love ❤ .

[@itshazzybee]

This is perfect! I'd just gotten your book delivered 10mins ago and when i was about to confirm the delivery i saw this notification! In my Tam era and absolutely loving it!💞

[@NurJahan-x5e]

The aesthetic >>>>>>> The feeling>>>> The vibe>>>> ummmmm😭😭

[@sarvaepc]

2024 Tam focusing on reaching our mindsets instead of just actions >>>>>

[@SnugglySepticEye]

Tam! You are a big sis and I’m so grateful for you! I have been on the self help journey for years and now all I want is peace and acceptance of myself, ALL of me. 💗

[@outsider.03]

OMGGG yes. Every time I take a day off -even if it's because I'm sick, I have a fever or any other health-related problem at that moment- my mother yells at me that I'm lazy, irresponsible, weak, and many other variants of that. I have depression episodes some times, and I am a HSP, and still I'm working through that, working on taking risks, learning to lead my groups, to face hard situations, to manage them in the best possible way, and even if that goes wrong, I'm so damn proud of myself because I did the most difficult part. I put myself there. Right in front of my biggest fear, and faced it. I faced it. I would then learn from that situation if it didn't go as planned. I'm proud of myself. I can't say I'm unbothered when people criticize me, calling me things I'm sure I'm not -lazy, egotistic, dumb-, but I know I'll eventually be, because I know who I am and who I'm about to be, because I'm working towards that version of me. And I have to thank you, Tam Kaur, because you have helped me a lot through my journey ❤.

[@kathleenmollie]

a new series AND a new book, girl you're treating us rn

[@Uniquelymer97]

Girl I am OBSESSED with this video style. It's perfect it feels like friend therapy

[@shruti5909]

Im so proud of u tam!!

[@oliwka8379]

your eyes as you speak are full of joy, peace and passion for life i love it you taught me a lot today!!! ❤❤❤

[@DaffadilSunshines]

I LOVE LOVEE ''Self-obsessed'' the podcast which i absolutely wait for every week. alot of which the podcast has to say really resonates with me and anchored me into trying to self improve. and tbh i have changed so much. my beliefs, values, personality etc and even the way i see myself. u really were an importnt part of my self help journey. i would like to hear about maybe how u embrace ur roots? that would be a suggestion. just know i appreciate ur content so much. tysm. and i have always regularly watched all your youtube videos. im going to buy the book very soon.

[@nuhameneyuale9366]

I love the theme of this whole video like she looks very nice and cozy and also the background as well

[@hanaa.h15]

Your voice is literally so comforting, I can listen to it all day omgggg. Your vids have helped me sm and I can that the efforts you put into making them are 100% worth it!!!!!!

[@Ritubhati06]

Tam's videos feels like a warm hug in this wicked world!! My best discovery ever on the internet is Tam!!!💚💚

[@stankpop1633]

Tam, you're literally like a big sister for me, thank you so much for your support and helping me to understand that everything's will be okay and I deserve a lot❤❤❤

[@jackyphoria]

I love the vibes! It's so relaxing and calming, love it sm

[@aesthetic-d4e]

Thank you so much Tam! You're that big sister every girl needs 😭🎀

[@nobodyknows9323]

I love this video soo much. Its a very comfy sister to sister talk and I just feel so warm inside after hearing this. Thanks Tam ❤❤

[@nesrinaldroubi]

Love the vibe of this soooo much how ever I do really wonder how can we shin a light on our good and beautiful when we actually forget that they exist

[@ip3931]

Once again, brilliant, in act even better quality than before!

[@Drishtigarg1]

I am very excited to read your book! i order it yesterday! ❤

[@callherperry]

She is the sistmate that we needed for a long time:)) I really needed this conversation , thanks Tam♡

[@PranaviDwivedi]

bought your book Tam! Its one of the very few non fiction books i can't put down!

[@ExcelEnefola-f1r]

Tam am so glad to see you ,you have really inspired me a lot as a teenager i remember i eas like a people pleaser and had low self esteem but now i am xonfident so thank you so much❤

[@amishakarmakar08]

i love the variety of backdrops nd formats and props and setup and everythingg

[@MarinaPazLeça]

LOOOved this video please make more of theeseee, I am crying cause everytime I need somenthing I come to your chanel and find exacly what I needed to hear.

[@egypt-z1e]

I loved this video, definitely made me feel good and relaxed after a long first week of college.

[@mycowhasanaemia]

I love this setup so much. ❤

[@sitimasarkar]

I am loving this new series also i really appreciate how tam puts so much effort into each video and try so many new things. I am so grateful to have found tam ❤

[@julyberardo1428]

This felt so personal and intimate, it was like a warm hug. Thank you so much Tam❤

[@zulaihatabdullahi182]

These videos feel more relaxing but im still learning something. Im so here for matcha talks!!

[@sweetsanchi9824]

I love you so much Tam. You are the perfect big sis everyone needs❤. You were there when I was at my lowest 😊

[@NiSu-n4d]

Yesssss I have been WAITING on your video to come out

[@NiSu-n4d]

Also LOVE the bg

[@yoursguardiananggel]

Tam, I need a hug from you.. 😭i seriously love you so much and you gave me so much confidence. 😭🩷. You're like my big sister.. Thank you sooo much 😘🥹

[@clod5354]

Hi Tam, thank you for this video 🤍 Since my birthday is tomorrow, i’ve been reflecting a bit. And i couldn’t help but critize myself and some parts of my life, similarly to how you explained in this video. Everything that you said was exactly what I needed to hear. I dearly appreciate this gentle reminder to practice self-acceptance and be grateful for my current state of life 🫶

[@Smashable_sissy7987]

Everything is changeable, you are in control!!

[@swiyadutta4655]

This video feels like elder sister giving life advice on a rainy evening ❤ this video felt like home 🥰 loved this sm. XOXO

[@beingasmi-f5j]

I love you tam didi!

[@joicooper5497]

I love this chill cozy feel and its was a great topic

[@vedikaghatge]

By the end of this episode i had tears in my eyes cuz I was so moved. Thank you so so much posting this❤

[@XXXX-lj5ge]

i ordered your book!! im so excited 😊 love from the netherlands❤

[@tamkaur]

Hope you like it!

[@FashionWhispers]

loveee the production and the green aesthetics. And the content is on point, amazing as alwayss 💖❤

[@t.shahid]

This video was so interesting and had such a cozy 'let's catch-up' feel to it and very much reminded me of many conversations I've had with my closest friends.

[@lauramr6094]

Hi, Tam. I’ve been following you for years and you helped me a lot. You have no idea HOOOOW much and for that I’m super thankful. For that reason I want to say (in an attempt for it to be constructive criticism) that the old videos in your grandparents house were THE BEST. They were shorter and they got all the juice, the wisdom, the perfect examples, perfect Athena-Lola ideas, everything. But it’s been a while, that the videos are a little bit too much talk and not saying a lot (respectfully) or maybe repeating things already said. Also, I feel like the vlog channel and this one are becoming one, when in the beginning they were suuuuper different. And just my opinion but, I don’t care about the background or your clothes or anything, I just care about the insane amazing things you use to say (like in being a high value woman or lucky girl syndrome and so) I genuinely appreciate you as a friend and I think it’s better for me to say this than to say that everything is perfect on your videos when I’m thinking about not watching the new ones from now on (I’ll keep subscribed for the old ones :) ) I see you life has been crazy lately so maybe you didn’t had the chance to read that many books? Or maybe is something else. Maybe that era of no-boyfriend you were more in a growing moment? I don’t know and I don’t try to know either (your boyfriend seems an aaaamazing guy too). Seriously congrats for the book, and I really really really hope to see a change (in case you feel like me) if not thank you so so so much for ALL that you taught me. Goodbye, Tam ❤

[@superevleen3147]

Thank u so much for your advice tam you’ve helped me so much and for making me feel seen as fellow brown girl x

[@amithanayanananda1701]

I listen to your audio book in my free time, and your words and the voice make my inner child happy and feel like you are giving me a pink blanket hug ❤ You are the dream big sister that I deserve ❤ Love Tam sm 💖 Love from Sri lanka 🇱🇰

[@hariharpatra9231]

Such a valuable video! I don’t often promote books, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is an exception. It’s packed with insights on wealth and self-care that are not widely known. All the best to everyone

[@pruthadeshpande3257]

This literally felt like a conversation with a friend.....thanks a lot tam, felt great !

[@soumyabhoi9525]

Girl I love your voice and aesthetic it's so therapeutic.... 🎀

[@lifewithloulou]

I love the mirror work. I use it everyday!

[@FarahKrifa]

I really needed that video, it felt so comforting and safe

[@venus_ely]

The vibes in here are immaculate

[@Alicesdoco]

I actually love these types of videos 😊🍵💖. It’s almost like a chill sit down therapy session with a friend. Some of the topics are actually really hard to bring up with some of my friends. Sometimes they just need someone to rant to which is okay but then I don’t feel like I can bring up my own concerns. So I’m actually really grateful you’re bringing up these hard conversation topics here. Thanks Tam helping me love myself. Have a great day to anyone reading this. Also once a week matcha therapy sessions sounds amazing 😊🍵💖.