How to move on from someone you love

[@LoveGodsWord11]

When I was broken hearted someone told me. Quote: If you can love the wrong person this much, imagine how much you can love the right one ❤️ I hope this helps 😊

[@edjutoemmanuel6797]

Thanks

[@christianabaidoo1493]

Thanks

[@gabbyszn_]

Thank u❤️

[@nombuleloradebe3120]

It's help a lot thank you

[@nataliecorbin567]

wow.....that is beautiful

[@godsonmensah3755]

Don’t be where you are tolerated, be where you’re celebrated 🔥

[@Sflowwzz]

This point REALLY HIT... I wanted to even type this reply..

[@qwamelogic4461]

God bless u for being positive all the time

[@dredalisixtus9538]

So what if you’re the one causing the trouble.. you should be tolerated too?

[@arseneboss383]

@@dredalisixtus9538 😆😆😆😆

[@ivankulola5847]

@@dredalisixtus9538 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@aniexcels]

"Do not go where you are tolerated, go where you are celebrated." I love this lines 👍👍👍

[@Bhrother_Ahmed]

Until you meet someone who matches your energy a lot of people will make you feel you ask for too much....

[@erasto8221]

Pay attention to what we call love these days: Sometimes people don't really love you, they just love how you love them and use that to make you feel loved. They enjoy your presence and feel comfortable around you, but there will come a time when they will get bored of you and you will realise that it wasn't love but they were in it with you for fun, and you NEED to do the hard part of Moving on.....

[@christianabaidoo1493]

This is it

[@adelaideokoyeboaa9988]

Very very true

[@michaelakaisamba2467]

🙌🙌

[@sunflower7874]

I wonder if this is how he l felt. It hurts so much

[@bhavyanshsharmaaneducator]

True ✌️

[@fredrickkoech8396]

Distract yourself. Don't remain in your quiet space. Find new hobbies, make new friends.

[@NathalieLazo]

Working on ourselves and doing things that we love doing - having a life outside of the past relationship - will help us to move on from the wrong person. And maintaining those actions whether in a relationship or not, is always great for oneself and will attract the right partner for the long term - when we also have a life and interested outside our our relationship - single or not. Whoever is watching this, I pray you have a prosperous and fulfilling life overall! 😘❤️

[@juniortheruralfarmerjunior6962]

Hloo Lazo grt comment! Kip it up

[@NathalieLazo]

@@juniortheruralfarmerjunior6962 Thank you! Hope you’re doing well! :)

[@carlosverde-datingtips7001]

Thanks - Nathalie! I appreciate it. Personal Development is one of the best things you can do for yourself - because, we as human beings, we’re supposed to embrace growth! So make sure you find your Purpose in life - whatever it might be, and work on it daily, and continue to make progress, because progress is - really the key to happiness. But don’t do it for any girl or guy, make sure you’re doing it for yourself - and just be happy! Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips

[@ekpeseniore759]

time heals all

[@Ser_TeaJay]

Hey Nathalie, thanks for reminding me this.

[@angamamusa5401]

She said she need a break about a month ago now she came back looking for validation. I'm long gone

[@godwindunamis9266]

I can't thank you enough for sharing these tips. They are so helpful. Surely, there is a man for every woman and a woman for every man. No one deserves a one-sided relationship.

[@fredrickkoech8396]

No one at all

[@ifedayokenny8796]

Got heartbroken some hours ago. This video came in when I needed it the most..

[@anyameledamian1874]

Jessica, I'm telling you this with heavy eyes, you've given me hope today and for that I'm thankful. God bless you.

[@anthonyhill4729]

These are hard truths. Heartbreak creates a void in your life and the universe hates a void. Make sure you feel the emptiness with positive affirmation. Much love to all who go through heartbreak.

[@thapelotumagole4630]

It's been 2 weeks since we broke up. As much as she's made it clear that she wants to move on from me, there's always been a part of me that thinks that we'll try and find a way to get back together. But I realized that it's taking a toll on me mentally because she was all that I was thinking about and I still felt strongly about her, that I forget that I had a life of my own. 😂 Some nights I cried myself to sleep and waking up sad, wondering what I would've done differently.. I was literally a mess! But after watching this video yesterday, I did exactly what Jessica had said (completely cutting her off) and focusing on myself more, I seem to enjoy being in my own space. 🙂💌 I learned that self love is more important than giving out love. Yes, I know that it's just been 2 weeks and I haven't completely gotten her out of my system, but forsee myself living life a lot better with peace of mind. Thank you Jessica 🙏

[@linnetatieno78]

I really wish i can move on as well

[@sagbansal]

How’s it going now man?

[@GG-cl9ww]

It's ok to cry.. don't stay there to long. Move on go on your life.if she can leave easy like that means she's not the one in the first place. We give to much for the person we love and forget to love ourselves. This is what I have learned. Learned to love yourself before you can love somebody. God remove that person out of your life. Because he has a plan for you. Me as well needs to move on. I need to stop and breathe.

[@LuizFreelances]

@@GG-cl9ww sighs..

[@bendoyle5023]

How you doing now?? 😊

[@mwanzafitalpha9827]

10 things to quit for all Strong Men: 1. Caring about what others think 2. Not believing in yourself 3. Not experimenting different ideas / solutions for problems (life&business) 4. Not prioritizing your health 5. Wasting your precious time 6. Wanting something (instead write a plan and work towards it) 7. Chasing meaningless relationships 8. Wasting or draining your energy from beating your meat 🥩 9. Wasting time by scrolling social media 10. Nailbiting/nailpicking habit for good (if you do it - consider stopping it as it makes you mentally weak + affects your confidence and all other areas of your life!) Take it easy and I hope you found one thing helpful in this list.

[@letnothingslide1969]

This is good insight !!

[@mistygeezofficial]

im going through a heartbreak at the moment. its been almost 2 months now, sometimes i forget about her but as soon as i see any of her close friends calling my phone, i begin to go into that state of trauma. i can feel my heart beats faster and faster. i hate to listen to love songs now. i cant normally go outside from my house cos we stay in the same area. sometimes i need someone to talk to but it seems no one really understands what im going through. i just watch motivational videos on tiktok to calm my nerves done and keep me going. its not easy for me. i pray time comes quick to heal me completely. im a music producer and sometimes i cant even work. a lady whom i cared and loved for all these years could betrayed me these way..wow..i never saw this coming. thanks Jessica. i think God knows best.

[@DanielMensah-p9k]

Bro God will surely see us through ok, my now ex broke up with me yesternight, this is a fresh heartbreak i'm experiencing now. But I believe we'll pull through with God being on our side bro

[@patiencelucilia]

@@mistygeezofficial I'm also in the same position with u. My life is totally a mess right now. Is been 4years of my life have no peace. I finally developed an anxiety. I'm always watching motivational speech. I have only my sisterto talk to but I feel like sometimes she gets tired to listen to me. If anybody can be there for me just to talk please inbox

[@ernestmalonkane8668]

You've just talked about me here, point by point you outlined exactly what I have been through.The biggest lesson I learned is; Time heals everything. With time, we get over people and situations. My mantra is: No matter how painful it is, it too shall pass.

[@kolawoleisaac4966]

It's absolutely true. Peace be with you!

[@emmanueledemdacosta3992]

Great video 📸

[@alistarmuhamed1574]

Ur right

[@deniseeugene1852]

Get up from the table when love is more longer being served.

[@simonkimathi1484]

Never offer your friendship as a consolation prize

[@chinelolarence8448]

You must have a PHD in Interpersonal Relationship Counseling.This was powerful reinforcement to finally let the remnants of my prev relationship go.Been 7 yrs,and I have been still calling her every 4- 6 mo's. You really brought enlightenment in clarifying the next thing i need to do to let my Ex go once and for all.Thank you,this was so what I needed to hear.❤️🙏

[@iraneza5316]

Wish you well on your journey. Take care

[@kidronreddy1671]

Jessica is God sent..I have watched most of her videos religiously...😢😢😢its so difficult to break free and move on...may God grant me the strength to move on.God Bless all of yourll and Jessica as well.🙏🏽

[@mugabezion5763]

Sometimes there are no physical abuse or any of the abuses you mentioned. Sometimes it's just the person you love so much place their family members above you in that situation you have to let them go, because love is not enough, complete loyalty is everything.

[@ForexClubhouse]

Don't get too attached in the first place. Just have fun

[@mellabeautynyc8587]

I loved this video and needed to hear this! I’m in the process of moving on from someone I considered the love of my life. I had to let go for myself because I didn’t feel valued, so I chose myself.

[@JessicaOS]

You got this!

[@theojames5712]

​@@JessicaOS hey Jéssica i would like to ask you something, i was talking to a girl then from one day to another she said she thought she was ready for a relationship and then she's not

[@tmassillon27]

Whenever Jessica brings up a subject she's always nailed it right in. I have yet to read a comment where someone said Jessica is wrong. Seriously I have yet to see that. Everything the girl said is something most of the time a woman did or do to a man. The man always give himself away to a woman whom he loves so much and what the woman did; ruin that freedom.

[@peteraudu4554]

You are so easy to listen to. Soothing voice and very articulate in your expressions. This was pleasantly educational. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us.

[@yawampofo8529]

Until u value yourself and love yourself first, broken heart will hit u hard. Hi Jess and keep soaring. ❤️❤️❤️

[@andynguyen6498]

Your guidance has changed my life. I'm becoming the best version of myself. I value myself now.

[@tm_3057]

Move on even if it hurts to your core - don’t let anyone get to your self-love and step over your dignity.

[@SalomeKageha]

How?

[@angelloaguello]

Welldone Jess. I’ve been there before but I cut all means of communications with her and it worked like magic. I’m a happy man now ... many thanks for sharing xxx

[@kitakittykat]

This hurts so bad. I really love him so much and I hate the idea of him being with another woman. It makes my stomach ache. This hurts so bad. I know I’ll make it to the other side of this pain 😣🙏🏾

[@jennykerekes5105]

How are things? You spoke my exact thoughts :(

[@antoneo3161]

kita..

[@steveigiebor1020]

So sorry 👏

[@kitakittykat]

@@jennykerekes5105 girl I’m still wrapped up in to be honest! But his narcissism is making it easier to walk away! I know I deserve better 🙏🏾 now I’m starting to feel bad for the next woman if he doesn’t heal first.

[@tonnewhite62]

Don't worry baby gal The only way to move on is to get time and travel I promise you that u will come back home when you are healed and forgot everything Sometimes on your journey of travelling u may get a chance of finding a new love I mean someone who can understand u and your value

[@Doyen_]

i didn't know I'm this clever i did almost everything she said when i was broken hearted, and trust me i moved on so quick.

[@Slimphizzy]

I absolutely agree! Never settle! Thank you Jessica 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@Kay1103]

This is what was needed for me!!! These feelings I have are making me crazy. I just want to move on without thinking about this person who I allowed in my life and destroy it. I feel like relationships aren't for me anymore and I feel like I caused all of this although I didn't!!! I hate this awful feeling

[@tmassillon27]

Omg! after God the creator we have Jessica. Thanks God for this beautiful soul called Jessica, Jessica is a physical and a mental healer. The concepts why we're living today or the purpose of us being alive is defined by Jessica every second, minute, hour, day, week, month, year, decade and I hope and believe she will live to see a century. God's love on Jessica os, God bless you.

[@scottpowell466]

You can love someone and care about them but always love yourself no matter what even if they walk away.

[@sparktech96]

Jessica I so love your channel. You have really helped my life. You're a blessing to our generation.

[@billcollins7009]

Thank you Jessica! This was the message that I needed to hear. You are appreciated more than you probably know.

[@akonluis6457]

Very true "go away with your friendship if you can't love me" 🙏🙏🙏

[@potatolove2596]

You just made my day, especially when I was down. Thanks for spreading positivity

[@bayareaprepper]

I can't even drink alcohol because I don't want to go dark. I am glad I am watching your videos. I need to move on. I have so many ladies that want to date me but I am still screwed up from her.

[@chuksalbert2829]

Crying over the hurt me and move on is what I do... Thanks Jessica,this is great

[@dannychilobe7254]

Thank you for the kind words and the advice Jessica. Your videos are really helping a lot of people around the world than you can imagine, I'm truly glad that I've run into this particular video. I hope you continue sharing such videos which really help us heal emotionally and mentally. I wish you success and more love❤️

[@charlesminja6298]

Thank you Jes

[@eileenmasaga1028]

I really love the way you talk It just makes me listen all through the videos without skipping The accent, the voice tone just everything is superb

[@carlosverde-datingtips7001]

Great tips! If you’ve been cheated on, don’t close off your heart to love - learn from it, and move on! (I know it’s easier said than done) You’re not the first person whose trust have been betrayed, nor will you be the last. It’s ok, it’s part of life. Just work on yourself before you get into another relationship, and you’ll be much smarter, and more alert this time - and you’ll be able to recognize the red flags a lot quicker when things are not going the way they’re supposed to. And remember, what doesn’t kill you - can only make you stronger! Cheers! Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips

[@84UGocharles]

JESSICA, You've got wisdom in your words....Keep up the Job you are doing!

[@rorngsorn5272]

This is so helpful. Just ended my relationship of six years. It was a roller coaster relationship.

[@MsAjanlekoko]

Thank you Jessica! Very helpful! May I add that you’re probably the best relationship counsellor I found online…….very succinct and always on point! …….and no faffing about on videos, very highly professional!

[@sakshisharma-pl7ng]

I was so nervous, mute, depressed, weak, but today I suddenly watch your Vedio and it really make me happy 😊 I loved someone for 5 years but that' person leave me witbout any reason.. I was shattered completely 😪 💔 but then I saw 👀 your Vedio helpd me a lot to think makes my ❤️ heart little normal thanks 😊 love from India 🇮🇳

[@joshnkole8699]

i heard someone say you usually spoke for men , like you care a lot more about men than women in your videos. but the fact is now a day men suffer a lot and need someone to understand them, the point is when a man truly loves you he gives everything he has but sometimes we give our trust , life , love to the wrong people. this is what I experienced the last 3 months. guys we deserve better , a man is not difficult especially when you find someone great , your videos help me a lot to recover my self-confidence and move on .

[@iniruosunday1035]

Jessica you are gradually becoming my mentor, please keep it up.

[@ashietyvivibesty247]

It's painful to think someone loves you but end up realizing they were toiling with you.

[@topshelf223]

Yes I deserve better! To anyone reading this trust me you are worth more then you know. Someone will treat you as such. Don’t give up!

[@sizwemashinini7630]

Wow Jessica, u r such a breeze wow. I've been listening to u all year n still get those Ahaa moments, thank u soooo much for not holding back because shuuùuu u really r showing us(me personally) blind spots from a female's perspective. May God increase yo well of knowledge n wisdom, big love to thee Jess.💚💚💚...Oh Yeah!!!

[@JessicaOS]

Kindly note that I will never give you a phone number to contact me on. Please beware of fake Jessica OS accounts looking to scam you. The only way to have any direct conversation with me is via my Patreon account. Www.patreon.com/jessicaos . Stay safe guys!

[@believetiiyang2130]

thank you Jessica for your advice, you just made me realize the importance of ending this 1 year old relationship of mine. She would always tell me that she is busy. When I video call her, she would shout at me and tell me to not call her while she is busy. She no longer has time for me, she no longer calls me, for checking up on me, but she always has time for her friends and for her male besties. You just made me realize the importance of freeing myself from this mental slavery. I have just deleted her numbers and I have blocked her on facebook. I now feel much more better, I feel free. Thank you, its me Believe Motloung from South Africa, in Pretoria.

[@beyourself9162]

After 2,5 years I can say that we sometimes think it’s love, but it’s a very similar abusive story we know from childhood. We think it’s love but we never experienced love in the first place, at home. I am super happy that I resolve my traumatic childhood in therapy. I learn how true love feels. There are no worries that she leaves, or goes away. She is not questioning our relationship every day. We are interdependent and not depending on each other. From my experience the majority of people believe that the partner is responsible for their happiness. And exactly this is the beginning of the end of the relationship. Interdependence is the opposite of the Hollywood narrative. Forget Hollywood. Learn to be happy on your own…

[@johncphiri7968]

Thank you madam I really needed 😢 now I will focus on my military life and save my country and train more in judo ..... Thank you once again 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 thank you for wishing us we'll.... Hopefully everyone gets better... I'm trying my best to get better 😊

[@elvissambamo897]

God bless you Jessica you are there to save many souls

[@eriaslukwago6334]

Thank you very much Jessica, I'm glad I found this video. I'm currently going through a heartbreak. In this very month, her parent (father) rejected me. I'm not so sure how true this is because I'm only hearing this from her. To make the matter worse, she's my secretary and we work closely together in my own company. Cutting communication with her means she has to quit the job and this could potentially impact negatively to my business as all my clients directly communicate with her. It's a dilemma that I'm going through. I would be bold enough to take your advice, but there are strings attached. Remember I'm a foreigner in her country where I established my company.

[@arabaotoo128]

3 years and I know I'll heal gradually, I can't completely put an end to our communication because of our son but it's well.

[@clintonofori-atta8183]

hi Jesse, i’m so glad you posted this video today, it was just on the right time….thanks so much, i think i’m being relieved 😊❤️😊

[@DaveOlu]

Be you're CELEBRATED... Be a better Version of YOU!!!

[@dn1535]

Thanks again Jessica...your always on point and your such an inspiration and motivator...this is really useful and something to consider...and also on my part where the kids are Involved ....will take much from this

[@happinesstshepiso9258]

Thank U so much Jessica 🥺😭💔your videos have been nothing but really helpful to me in this healing process that I'm currently going through now. I broke up with my boyfriend last week on the 3rd of February, whom I've been dating with for the past 2 years, after I found out he's been cheating on me and the poor treatment he's been giving me. it's not easy even now, however with u on my side it's been really helpful. I videos are appreciated ❤️

[@intergalactic11]

You're so reassuring, and comforting! Your words are balsam in our hearts! God bless you!

[@Plumduff3303]

Don't bother...I got a motorbike and a dog ❤❤❤now life is good

[@EmilyGloeggler7984]

I’m glad that when I was dating, I moved on from someone who requited and mutually loved and respected me and instead, eleven years later, I found better in my only lifelong husband Frank.

[@mwilamakasa9747]

Thanks for this, wanting someone more than they want you hurts so badly . My heart has been in pain for years, hoping this man will want me again like the way they used to but little did i know that they have moved on and i was actually forcing myself on them. What a life

[@lindambewana3941]

What I like about this it has not helped only about the relationship staffs, it helps also about life in general

[@MISTAPIP13]

Thank you! I needed this right now. I'm really going through a bad situation right now. I have a story to tell. It's too long and I'm heartbroken. I promise in a few days to make the post. I have to get my head together. I've given this woman everything. And she is exactly the reason I don't like forming attachments.

[@Underhills]

It's been 22 years and it still hurts. Some things just don't go away.

[@fredrickkoech8396]

Don't force relationships or friends.. Don't accept it as a consolation prize. If you aren't good enough for him. Why does he want to be friends with you? Repurpose , rebuild

[@hillrealms]

This is my state of position. After all the plea for many days now, today she just told me, " she's not interested anymore". I've wept inside of me. I'll be fine

[@VAIO294]

-- Never love a woman who doesn't love and respect you back.

[@simonkibiru4624]

This is so so touching and powerful. Just what i needed.

[@sandralennarts6827]

It’s been nearly 3 months. Can’t stop crying. He started seeing someone straight after. I constantly look at what they are doing on socials. Feels like I’m dying !!!😢

[@m3j565]

Heads up Sandra. Please try as much to unfriend and delete all his socials. It’s helps a lil. So sorry we’ll be alright someday

[@mosesmwesigye4958]

stop seeing his socials

[@earcandystudioug7100]

A lot of these types of situations are the result of unmet needs from your caregivers as a child. We subconsciously want to right the wrongs in our youth and many times we find a partner that has the characteristics of that parent figure (typically Mom or Dad) in the person we are dating so we can get that love/affection/attention/praise etc we didn't get from that parent figure. So we try to do it with the person we date. This is a form on co-dependance and it's not healthy at all. Go get some therapy, figure out your wounded inner child and do the work required to make you a healthy individual who's ready for a relationship. Until you do the work, you'll never be ready for a healthy relationship.

[@sashagumbs09]

First off you’re absolutely beautiful and I love your accent! Everything you said was very spot on, wishing everyone happiness and strength this year❤️

[@CYMRUKID69]

La Bella you are beautiful 😍

[@buddytmathebula7678]

I like every little word or advice she always shares,she thought and shaped me so much untill i subscribed to her channel now I'm better knowing a differences between love and nonsensical e.t.c

[@larryennis1635]

You said some real real things you were right on point!!!💯

[@sserunjogiahmed7974]

Best words of wisdom. We really appreciate alot ur awesome words of wisdom. Ahmed Qatar.

[@israelosemwegie2390]

Awwww 😢 😢 😢 😢 awwwww Jessy God bless u 😢. This just popped up at the right time. Oh may God bless u. I am currently in a severe pain beyond what I can explain

[@martohzack2075]

I am going it through now but u've opened my mind thank you🙏

[@dvforextrades]

It was very hard for me to let go but I reorientated myself like you said in this video. This video has encouraged me more that I have done the right thing.

[@sam_kelo4364]

Am so glad you've passed sir I've been struggling for weeks now and still feel like contacting her will make me feel better 💔

[@donalddave1105]

Youre simply the best jessica,keep it up

[@Artxbyo]

The elephant part hit me real hard...i really appreciate this video

[@fredaansu-bemah5391]

Thank You Jessica ❤️this came at the right time Thank You 🫂

[@BAMA-Bred-DAWG]

Thanks, I really needed this. My unexpected breakup is like a week fresh!

[@Roddie_]

Thank you very much for the advice given. I must say you are very good at this and you are right on target. Keep up the good work. 😊

[@bismarcknkansah9518]

This video is one of the best I have watched. Wow Jessica you’re indeed special 👊

[@maarkrills5391]

Repurpose and rebuild your life is what I love a lot kudos to you 💞🙌💪✌️💯

[@tommybangura3461]

You are really a blessing to my life ma. Your lectures have aided me a lot more to know myself worth.

[@LeonardNGWA-TAMU]

I totally agree with all you say Jess. I have been watching your videos and i must say you really wonderful.

[@trashawnjackson5956]

Jessica you are the Best...Always gives the Best Advice. Thank You

[@kevinwilliams2226]

Thanks so much Jessica...Feeling better already listening to you...I will move on.

[@wavesofkatrina]

I Love Jessica❤! I'm sure she has a heart of gold

[@makiajabea31]

Thank you so much Jessi, I needed someone to tell me this. I appreciate your every efforts. More grace. 🤝🥂⚘

[@oybekumarov9731]

Honestly, I love your accent more than your content. But your relationship advice is spot on each time, and help a lot too.

[@alberthull7579]

Ma'am.. I truly thank God for you. Wow.. I needed this.. So grateful!!

[@sundaymuchika763]

Very true all you said in this video Jessica, happy to be a follower of your videos. Thanks for the video 🙏

[@howardherman8987]

Totally agree I must say it's easier said than done little by little

[@brianm5753]

Watched a video of when to say I love you. Then watched one about how to get out of friendzone. Now watching how to move on 💔

[@nanaadwoaanokyewaanajat1231]

Thank you Jessica...I so needed this