How to Negotiate a Divorce Settlement With Your Spouse | Ask a Negotiator with Bob Bordone

How to Negotiate a Divorce Settlement With Your Spouse | Ask a Negotiator with Bob Bordone //
Are you in the midst of getting a divorce and just feeling like you're never gonna reach an agreement? Or maybe you have friends or family who are getting divorced and you're just thinking, "This is going so poorly." Watch this video to learn some best practices on how you can negotiate a divorce settlement that meets your interests and that also allows you and your spouse to move on with your life.
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Welcome! I'm Bob Bordone, a Senior Fellow at Harvard Law School and the Founder and former Director of Harvard Law Schools Negotiation Mediation Clinical Program. I'm also the Founder and Principal of the Cambridge Negotiation Institute and have written and taught on negotiation, mediation, and conflict resolution for more than 20 years.
00:00 How to negotiate a divorce settlement with your spouse
00:35 Divorce is difficult
01:19 Conduct an interest audit
03:20 Identify shared interests with your partner
04:27 Signal a willingness to arrive at a fair outcome
06:18 Find ways to manage and acknowledge your own strong emotions
07:40 Develop strategies for handling their emotions
09:40 Strive to do no harm
#negotiationskills #negotiationtips #BobBordone
• How to Negotiate a Div...

[@cynthiadownes3331]

Thank this was I needed.

[@EBMB21]

Could you talk about separate property?

[@elvideohombre]

My issue will be the house, I don’t want to kick my kids or mom out, but I want to be compensated and off the loan

[@FedipeAnthony]

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[@titop6152]

Is that a red onion or white? baby😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

[@norbertbajgyik1607]

Great advice, unfortunately the other party doesn't care about it.

[@ladyvirgo9514]

Exactly

[@angelsandocean2853]

Exactly! Thank you. I am in the middle of divorce have special needs child age 13. I drag the divorce .. this is in my favour. In my situation. I recieved his offer two years ago, very low offer. I said no. And it worked! I am receiving interim spousal for now, I can focus on my daughter.. divorce is no in a rush 😂😂

[@angelsandocean2853]

My advice is not to accept low offer. No need to finish it now. Remember the song Time is on my side? 😂❤

[@omeganeoz]

huh wdym

[@omeganeoz]

what is low offer?

[@omeganeoz]

im not married and not getting married anytime soon cus im 18 but man if this happens aint no one getting shit from me. i dont need shit from her so she aint getting nothing from me done deal argue with the wall

[@De-tw7by]

85% divorce are initiated by women. Never get married.

[@omeganeoz]

@@jerryjessup9192 you dont need to marry to have kids? the better reason would be because its romantic and you get them rings and a wedding which might be a really nice memory to have together yk

[@FlappyBelly]

Yeah dude don't get married and don't live together

[@gregwalker8894]

Agree , with above comment ,this guy is clueless with the way females are today !This is not a man’s game to win ! No matter if she cheats or just plain files ,She wins ,Men Do Not get married ever again ,at least until the playing Field evens up !

[@janetblanck5807]

And men don’t cheat…. I am in the middle of a divorce married 38 years, had no idea he was cheating, he left in the middle of the night. Emailed me we were done. He has not spoken to his children, his grandchild, or me in 7 months and has cashed out the 401 K… hidden money in accounts just spending money like a madman so that I will not get anything yet he wants half the house so please it’s not a woman’s game. I didn’t want this divorce. I love my husband, he wanted to mistress and he left his family for her so men are not all that great either, I just pray that he doesn’t marry her because any woman that will get involved with a married man is not someone you want to be with. I love you I will always love him… but he can never come home. Anyway sorry didn’t mean to yell at you I’m just saying women don’t always win..

[@FlappyBelly]

​@@janetblanck5807 You 100% will win in court

[@macmcdonald897]

advise assumes some level of mental stability or the ability to have a dialog.

[@DVul]

Value creating in divorce? Pft...It's nothing but destruction... clearly uou haven't been through it personally

[@gregwalker8894]

He is clueless,Bad advice !