how to not care what people think

[@sierrahg2204]

koze t-shirts that say “at the end of the day” 💗

[@KalynsCoffeeTalk]

FOR REAL lmao

[@rcusick2465]

Pajama shirts!

[@Fridasjoy]

I’d buy that 100000%

[@digitaldorothy]

Renee Cusick omg perfect!!

[@bloominglotuz]

Your wisdom is overflowing in all your videos, Kalyn. What makes me happiest is that you set such a positive example of how to be a good human these days. Thanks for always striving to be as authentic as possible ✨

[@anitatharmarajah7905]

I love this series so much. I eat my lunch while I watch!

[@KalynsCoffeeTalk]

happy to be your daily lunch date ❤️

[@Anu__Rajah]

Me too

[@kileyw8520]

I had a supervisor say something nasty (untrue) things about me that got back to me, and to be truthful it hurt and I felt very insecure after that. I reacted in the wrong way and it reflected very poorly on me. If I had just said "Well okay it's not my business what they said" I wouldn't have felt so bad about myself. I have learned someone's insecurity will cause them to be harsh and cruel to other people. The supervisor had only said those things because HE was insecure. I love that you mentioned in your own words, that if someone is being unkind to you, it's not really ever about you.

[@natashakroll872]

The thumbnails for this seasons series are all so awesome! Loving the daily brews, very fitting for september

[@christinamariemoney]

Always so wise Kalyn! ❤️❤️ thank you for always giving us such amazing content! I never leave your channel not feeling inspired and calm!

[@KalynsCoffeeTalk]

thank you that means more to me than you know ❤️❤️

[@ashleyshevalier9434]

I don’t understand how someone can come on here and be negative. This is a safe place. Love u girl xo

[@Likesandcrazy]

Your lip color and eye shadow is giving me lifeeeee.... the perfect duo. Also I so needed this life pep talk!!

[@Nico940710]

I wish I could have your podcasts on spotify. I've been hearing your voice all day for the last few weeks, while I work, mostly. You're an inspiration. Thank you K.

[@StephanieHarlowe]

It’s hard to see or hear negative things about yourself, especially from those who don’t know you. I liked your story of when you were a kid, we should reclaim that childlike innocence where we just don’t care. As long as we are good people and we don’t hurt anyone, the rest shouldn’t matter to us as long as we are happy ❤️❤️❤️

[@pulla7350]

Paul Anka has a song that I listened to well over 30 yrs. ago. , where the lyrics say “People will always talk. I don’t care, do you? Smaller minds you’ll always find have nothing else to do”. I live by this quote. When I heard you talk about us all wanting to be in a pack, and what do we do when we feel rejected-this 62 yr. old starts a new pack! Keep bringing these issues to life-I love your talks!

[@OK-uy7wn]

loving the coffee brews this month! can you talk about your yoga journey? starting out myself and you were a big inspiration :D love you, keep it up Kalyn

[@Littleteakitten]

The way you said the word sad at 2:17 was so precious oh my gosh. You are a lighthouse in this often dark and cloudy world. Thank you for being you 💕

[@digitaldorothy]

Dude, you’re literally a spirit animal for 99.9% of us that watch you regularly. Eff the rest, you’re doing great. We love you! Thanks for everything.

[@melissarandazzo245]

Thank you so much for this! A couple of weeks ago, I decided to post my first KZbin video. The number one reason that I didn’t start making videos several years ago was that I was so afraid of the negative comments. I finally just got over it and thought that I should focus on myself and not worry about what other people have to say.

[@lenastark1895]

I don’t think you will ever know how much i relate with the topics in your videos and a lot of times already you posted a video that fit my situation at the moment perfectly and I love reaching for your videos for advice and I really feel like I’m having the only sister I never had since you and your channel came into my life years ago already. Thank you for being a big sister and giving advice that always re-inspires me and makes me keep going. 🙏🏼♥️🥰

[@CherryBerryFashion]

My Caring comes from thinking that I need all people to like me or else I am not okay, I don’t feel safe. I feel a sense of threat and anxiety when people judge, criticize or reject me. That just came to me.

[@stephanieangelidis6930]

Please never stop creating (for as long as it makes you happy) you make a world of difference to so many and I love you for it ❤

[@angiepepiot3966]

I love that you keep throwing astrology into it! This is my first KOZE video...I'm excited to see more. Thanks for being you. You are

Most of the advice I've found on the subject (yes, I've searched!) say "People don't think about you`' or "You don't know them, so it doesn't matter" which are true some times, but not always. Others say "go on and block them", or "delete the comment" but for me, this doesn't work. You basically start a war and you'll have to defend yourself a-lot! The point is we can only control how we react to any negativity. When people are unnecessarily mean, sure, shows their problems, but how much it affects us shows the work we need to do with ourselves. Exactly like you said. No need for an attitude, but "at the end of the day" when you're ok with your decisions, goals, and yourself, people's ideas don't mean that much... 💕

[@tanyapalaci9696]

Mate you need to do a lipstick collection video cause these colours are just TOO GOOD!! Are they the kylie Jenner ones? ❤️❤️

[@digitaldorothy]

I literally was thinking the same thing. My fave rn is Tarteist in Bestie but I MUST have what she is wearing!!

[@sakshibidkar2429]

Thank u so much...it helps me to be ME when I watch ur vedios n that means alot.

[@Anu__Rajah]

AT THE END OF THE DAY, YOU INSPIRE ME EVERY SINGLE DAY! Because of YOU, I took my KZbin Channel another upgrade. Thank you Kalyn.

[@Vimarobabooks]

Hi I know I leave comments all the time in an untimely manner but I just wanted to say that the recent videos you’ve put out inspired me to finally record, edit and post my first video. It’s been something I’ve been wanting to do for over two years and putting off for just as long. Thank you for motivating me and others to pursue their passions ❤️🖤

[@allyjoyce]

You inspire me so much! I have really bad depression and anxiety disorders and Kalyn, seriously, every single time I see one of your videos I feel happier and more positive. Plus I want to go to Canada. It looks so cool! I’m from New Zealand so far away! Anyway, thank you again!! Xox

[@eugenia7849]

You and i should be friends. I REALLY trust your words and i always come to your videos 'cause you spred joy, hapiness and positivity. I just want to tell you that you inspire so many people when you talk. Thank u ❤️

[@rawanhamod3875]

wow! I actually neede to hear that, Thank you so much this series helped me a lot! I'm Syrian and I've been living in France for 4 years now, and I actually remember the first time I watched a video of you, it was before I even came here, and since then you and your videos have changed my life completely. sending you so much love from Dijon, France

[@sibeleksoz3177]

I’ve been watching your channels for a full year and may I say love them your so inspirational both spiritually and physically ✨💛

[@cynthialin9918]

What other people say "about" me is not my business. What other people say "to" me is. What a good quote!

[@admirbarucija2018]

It's so hard to constantly be able to shrug off other people's opinions, I needed this

[@anniem4000]

I so needed this words! Wrote down some key phrases to use as my mantras in the coming weeks. Even though it is stuff I know deep down, it helps to be reminded! Really like these Koze videos. Watch your regular channel but just found these today!

[@92KittyCat]

After some personal observations, I've noticed one important thing: negative comments are not about you. Those people who are trying to be mean are relly unhappy, and they need to spread this unhappiness. Of course, it's easier to do it online when you can hide behind a comment section and not look into the person's eyes. I always feel sorry for such people.

[@meghendy]

i’m a Pisces with a Libra moon too! I only found your channel yesterday and immediately connected to your coffee chat videos!!

[@patriciapires852]

Love your content so much, I look forward to this series everyday! ♥️ You're so real and so close to us, you're like that good friend we look for great advice! Always give me some strenght! Thank you so much! Sending positivity and love from Brazil 😘😘😘

[@jmsl910]

you are a high-caliber person, kalyn. i hope my daughter grows up to be JUST LIKE YOU. i don’t know how to give feedback to your podcasts but they are full of TOP-NOTCH content and personal reflections stay you be strong be YOU

[@Sarahla91]

My grandma always said, “If everyone were the same, life would be pretty dull.” I always try to remember this when I start to be judgemental of myself or others. Everyone is different and that’s okay.

[@CreativityCoffee]

So much on point again!! I don‘t know how you always now what’s the thing I need to hear that day. Such Magic!! ✨Thank you so much for being such an inspiration, keep up the amazing work!!! ♥️

[@insyirah7675]

Hey Kalyn, hope you're doing well :) with this month of daily koze brews and next month's youtuber, I hope you're taking it easy and not stressing yourself too much about the content you have to push out. We will still be here and won't mind a video every other day! Love you x

[@preetikaur8458]

Totally relatable! Love your videos Kayln and how grounded you are. Keep being yourself xx

[@melss94ish]

HEY, I don't know if you're going to read this but I resonate so much with what you say. LIBRA SUN here and I respect your ideas and the way you want to present yourself and transform. Keep being you:) Sending you love!

[@timandfin]

Kayla! Love all of your stuff and have been watching for years (and the podcast too!) would just to share just some supportive feedback- I’d love to hear better audio on your channel(s) even just a easy cheap lav mic would make all the difference, reduce echo, and plug right in to the camera (wouldn’t even have to try to manually match audio file to video). Not negative comment by any means as all your content is so valuable to my life I just want to hear it better! 😘 😘

[@morethanalark]

Thank you for the kind words!

[@thehairpriestess7589]

Searched for this and so glad I found it!

[@cheyennehaag1529]

I so needed this video today thank you so much

[@thesilversummer]

Thanks for this video! I feel like I really needed it.

[@TrishBlackwell]

*_Thank you so much, Kalyn._*

[@amandapui]

Thank you so much, Kalyn, this is what I really needed ❤️

[@mschrisfrank2420]

I have a weird time with what people think...I was homeschooled and so avoided a lot of the peer pressure. I’m almost never self-conscious about my body or appearance. But I’m always worried about coming off as awkward or dumb in conversation.

[@jmsl910]

Chris Frank homeschoolers ROCK!!! such a gift someone gave you! you do you

[@chanelallana]

Clicked sooo fast!! Thank you for this post ❤️

[@sarahpaterson6535]

love the Koze channel videos 😍

[@iyagamboa]

Liked it before I even watched it just because it’s Kalyn ❤️

[@miss88keys7]

Same lol

[@johnmendoza5907]

Good talk girlfriend. I gotta hear it again.

[@Shannonsstories_]

Watching you at work needed to hear this♥️

[@MEGSTUCH]

Thank you so much for sharing this hun, you have inspired me to write a full new blog post for my FaceBook group about this topic so motivating. XXX

Kalyn, ilysm

[@KalynsCoffeeTalk]

yes I actually just bought one I'm hoping it helps with the echo in this room

[@mariamtoloraia6300]

you're so so smart!! 🧡

[@cherylmia]

Thanks for this. BTW, It's true about Pisces, my mom is one and as a Gemini I do have to watch how I speak to her...

[@rebeccariddle9537]

Yess your obsessed with your videos💖

[@bellatellsyou]

I LOVE KOZE DAILY

[@Vicky-pc8kq]

Thank you for this Video! So good, helps me so much!!❤️

[@tanialivanou1239]

I really needed this video, THANK YOU ❤️

[@stephanier4511]

You're so in peace. It's inspiring✌💖

[@worldatmyfingertips7771]

This is a very touchy subject for me, so funny.....I still remember the days back in the old school KZbin years, when KZbin was not such a well developed business platform but more like a free chat room where you could just chat away with anybody and most people would simply reply with whatever they wanted to say to you, it was pure anarchy and chaos back then ha ha ha ha, I remember...... People used to actually get super angry at times! I even saw people threaten each other's lives and they used really really abusive language on each other, I got into funny arguments from time to time, even I, lol. Now it's different and I realized why, KZbin is a business platform. You don't come here to spew your hatred anymore, at least not in the way most people also wouldn't walk into a Starbucks and start yelling nonsense, racial slurs and all kinds of silly things at anybody XD XD........I say all this because I used to visit a website very frequently, years ago, a site where all those trolls and racist people go to nowadays, yikes! What a dump of a site! lol. Websites like that helped me soo much though, I grew a thicker skin which I might need at times, when facing trolls for my new KZbin channel. That website was my anti cyber bullying school. I can take abuse from anybody, doesn't hurt me anymore :).......But then again, I don't really need to worry about actual trolls, my actual concern is how to make my channel work and make a little extra money, that is the actual worry, nothing more, make a little money first yes, then learn to expand and grow, there is no other way....

[@samanthabissell22]

thank you so much for this video it’s so inspiring ❤️this video

[@lucag1921]

Thank you for your videos Kalyn, I love them, they are so helpful :-)

[@user-ep8bk5ku6g]

I think Kalyn talks about the Gossip Guru

[@kate5581]

I was just there two days ago and now this comes out haha

[@madeleinepousar]

I use to listen a lot to what people had to say about me. Now I just listen to the opinions of people that matter to me.

[@ΜατούλαΡεντίνα]

I needed it so much,thank you😍

[@larafiolic3544]

Amazing like always!!! And OMG your nails are perf 😍😍😍😍

[@madisonmitchell7603]

Can you please do a video about being okay with yourself? Love you so much x

[@elizabethbooth7084]

Great points! But I think you missed one, which is that yes, everyone will not always agree about everything, but disagreeing about something is not negativity. Usually the negativity and problems lie in HOW people choose to express disagreement or opinions. As you mentioned, there are alot of losers in the world, especially online, who just bash people, and they really aren't worth giving the time of day. THAT behavior is negativity. But there are respectful, positive ways to disagree about something or to give criticism. It seems like alot of people associate a disagreement as being negative, and I'm not sure if you do, so I wanted to point out the difference. :)

[@tabithasuzuma]

Elizabeth Booth That’s a very good point. People can disagree with each other without being negative or rude.

[@MaryAnnMarichal]

loving your channel

[@Marie-xm5dy]

I really love this series and I love you too! Please pay attention to you audio cuz its too echoey in that room

[@mandisometimes]

Dont drink every time she says "at the end of the day," you might die. Lol. But for real at the end of the day is an important time for reflection and it's worth the honor. It's not as annoying as you think it is when you mention it. I'd wear a koze shirt that says "at the end of the day." Use that!

[@EvaAntonia1]

I guess I know when I started to care more about what people think it was in 6th grade, I think.... So, thank you for this advice because I tend to care a lot about what other people think. Even when I know that most people are busy with themselves and dońt really think about myself:D And I don't know why people need to spread negativity about other people on the internet... smh...

[@alwaysjessicajames]

This was just what I needed :)

[@blue_boulevard4429]

So damn inspiring

[@kvartenok]

I never paid attention to the "at the of the day" till Kalyn mentioned it, and now I cannot not pay attention lmao

[@melraven96]

This was so good. Though I have a question, how do you not listen to judgemental things?

[@laurarae5683]

"AT THE END OF THE DAY....KALYN IS THE COOLEST"

[@Thefitty]

*unsolicited advice and comments can be hard to shake off. Thanks for this!*

[@Gals6794]

You’re an awesome human

[@595bernadette]

I’m now going through this I had a troll on my KZbin channel and it was really had trouble dealing with it however I Tackled it and got it sorted which I wouldn’t have done a couple or years ago

[@HarryThomasPictures]

Terrific daily brew☕️🧡✨. Your Koze shirts are the best🖤✨!

[@robingreen9227]

Love your nails!

[@shivzmcgoo]

YOUR VIDS ARE AMAZING!!! Sorry i just had to shout that out!

[@sierrahg2204]

i clicked so fast, you don’t even know 😂💗

[@anneborw]

Love the New Intro!😍

[@domtamtidam]

Those nails though!! 😍

[@cz5831]

I has to stop the video (Go girl!! You're saying such big truth!) Cause....gosh!! Your lipstick looks so great on you!! Wonder what lipstick it is 🤔 🤣🤣

[@kathleenomalley5413]

it’s crazy that this was in my recommendations because today my good friend talked horribly about me to my classmates

[@brendah8508]

You’re like the last missing element I always need to get my shit together. 🖤

[@AlliAsAlways]

Yaaas queen. 👏🏻👏🏻💜

[@NickaPaulo]

Sorry, most of my comments are positive but I know I wrote 2 or 3 here on your channel that were not as "in your lines" of comments or I just disagreed with what you were saying but I hope you didn't take it the wrong way because YOU INSPIRE ME and then I have to comment =D I'm just saying my opinion and it's fine to have different ideas that are the best part of being me/you is we are our own person =D Hope you never see a more "negative" comment as negative but just as a different opinion (and that is ok =D) Love your videos

[@epicherbalism]

Oh no no on reading comments for me! OObviously you do you if you want to read em but noooo thank you for me. I'd ask and even pay someone to sift through them so I can interact with the people who actually want to meet me in the middle (communication + basic human decency). I don't think it's healthy to "hear" all the negative, hyper-judgy, often self-reflective troll comments about ourselves, especially when we go out in vulnerability and realness. I also think it's gives an impression that there may be more of those bitter hateful unthoughtful trolls than good people out there and I don't think there is, they just are usually more loud.

[@epicherbalism]

Lol I had to pause the vid to finish this (sorry will probably be said in it) buuuut I think of most negative comments like a toxic coworker or toxic cousin or somn; there's not a toxic friend bc you can't dump em but they linger on the periphery. But, you know it's best not to get wrapped up in their drama or ask their advice bc even if they give you a "wellmeaning" "Non offense but.... *is very rude for no good reason*" Especially someone so self-reflective like you, there's not going to be some mean word of wisdom that one of us who appreciates you AND can communicate with kindness, won't already nicely be like like "pss girl you have lipstick on your teeth, lol happened to me yesterday

[@googleuser4034]

Can you make a video about how to have a good day at work?

[@DianaCret]

Google User how will she be able to do that and be relevant to you since she hasn’t been to a regular job 1 day in her life?

[@googleuser4034]

Diana Creț You don’t have to have a “regular job” to work. She still works from home. She still has to get in the working mindset each time she records/edits videos.

[@DianaCret]

Google User this is the most superficial “I need to take her side” reply I was expecting to recieve. My question is still the same. How can her video be relevant since 80% or more of the people who follows her, have a job that actually requires leaving home. How is she able to exemplify this in her videos and describe traffic jams, getting ready in the morning at the same time and it’s somewhere way earlier than 8-9 o clock, waking up super early even if maybe you had a shitty night or a really bad night sleep. She had a work related video and she started work somwhere around 11 o clock. Not to talk about work deadlines. Of course she also has them, but nobody would really care if she delays smth. I am one of her followers, remember. So I’m not here to bash her or anything you imagine but remember a youtuber can not advise you in everything but only in the experiences they have

[@googleuser4034]

Diana Creț Well Either way, it looks like she took my comment and made a video out of it and took out the “work” part out, so win win :) I’m satisfied.

[@crimsonthemumchrysallia6433]

how can someone talk bad about you , you're so sweet ..

[@Lyra_moon]

💓

[@brittanyraye7988]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@isabellecarr2816]

At the end of the day, you're a dope human being.