HOW TO NOT GET ATTACHED TO A WOMAN WHEN DATING (URGENT Message From CASEY ZANDER)

[@CaseyZander]

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[@bigceazer]

Casey you are THE TRUTH! everything you said hit home to me I made so many of those mistakes when I was younger. I really appreciate the value you are giving to young men. I look forward to the next one. Keep up the good work brother

[@Awesam3rd]

🎩🫡✊🏽🇺🇸

[@aiLoveE]

man is not to buipd anything with her but also to lead the relation?

[@Doidao-xx5vf]

Do you do one on one chats? I got something to ask you about this chick

[@shaheedsiddiqui5053]

Plz make point vdo for ...why girl friend changes when she becomes wifey..😂need to verify my knowledge

[@robertmiller5789]

My parents have been married for over 40 years. They are both attached. It still works well because he has instilled a sense of dread in my mom..My dad made it known that if my mom ever violated his trust, he is gone instantly, and will nrver look back. My mom is old fashioned, and would never do anything, but my dad still made it known. He also keeps himself in shape by working out and eating well, and he also dresses well. This gets attention from other women. This keeps the woman in line too without even saying anything. They know they can be replaced.

[@yassingurhan6204]

@@jeansollot6419it’s abuse to have respect for yourself as a man? You’re going to have a difficult love life with that mentality

[@Christian-rb8wk]

what a nice thing to do for a husband to "instill a sense of dread" in his wife. Stop watching red pill nonsense omg

[@thalmoragent9344]

​@@Christian-rb8wk If his father didn't do that, his mom would've left a while ago

[@ryantaylor330]

I love this.

[@formalhault5820]

​@Christian-rb8wk sorry but this is facts. This is what women respond to.

[@j.f.almeida9081]

"Attachment is the root of all suffering" Buddha

[@hollismallory2757]

Hell yes

[@boldgold3885]

Just be glad you’re smashing her now. - Chris Rock.

[@Pajune]

What's your view on the dilemma of attachment and relationships from the Buddhist perspective?

[@mrfretwell1988]

Christ is lord

[@batuhanbicer5069]

That sure is

[@avve9001]

Every time I have dated a girl that I wasn't very much into, she has started to chase me, because my lack of attachment made me care less about the outcome, which made me behave in a more masculine and attractive way (that includes avoiding those mistakes Casey is talking about in the video). It's key to act the same way when we are dating our dream girls. Our job as men is to live great lives, invite girls into our lives and then let the GIRLS do the chasing and ask for commitment.

[@mura0]

My last two gfs I did not want to date them. I just wanted to have fun. I asked my friends and they said the same. When you have that state of mind of not wanting to have anything serioes with them your body language says it all. You behave differently and that attracts them. Today I want something serious with this chick am seeing and guess what, I'm having a tough time with her. Shes knows it.

[@HelloImadamn]

One thing: what if the woman is going out on other dates with other guy, sleeping with them? Like, is that just a red flag or nothing to worry about 🤔

[@avve9001]

@@HelloImadamn If the girl wants to sleep with other guys you can't stop her. Don't worry about it. Your job is to be such a good choice for her that she doesn't want to sleep with other men.

[@avve9001]

@@HelloImadamn The only worry you should have when your date is sleeping with others is STD:s. So put a balloon on.

[@Blueboi1108]

My takeaway from this - focus more on yourself, displaying affection is okay as long as it’s in moderation, build a wholesome life and self, be kind but firm, practice some degree of emotional unavailability, and most importantly, be at peace with being alone.

[@heathRocco]

Dont chase a woman. Chase the money & your goals & then sometime inbetween now & then the woman will chase you. Act accordingly 👍

[@TheFriendlyPsychopath]

You forgot to say “She’s not yours it’s just your turn”.

[@vektorman1938]

​@@TheFriendlyPsychopath😂😂😂😂

[@Iwantkeiko]

I am considered “ emotionally Unavailable “ but this is part due to childhood trauma & negative experiences. Women always flocked to me. And I hardly give them the time of day. They love this. It keeps them in a constant state of uncertainty. Their emotions are constantly gauged becuz they cant figure you out. It’s a “ blessing “ that came from a “ curse “ currently I have a 4 girl rotation and they all pursue and initiate contact with me. It’s the better route to go as far as dealing with women are concerned. NEVER get attached. She will leave you dry the moment she sees that you are.

[@heathRocco]

I too have my own Roster & i do the same thing without being attached & the magic thing is that they chase you more! Reverse psychology works wonders 😉

[@user-uc7qb1su4e]

@@heathRoccoI also have a roster and they’re all in love with me. Casey the goat🤣 but it’s crazy to think that it’s impossible for 90% of men to have

[@daviedood2503]

​@@heathRocco i JUST mentioned the word reverse psychology in a previous comment right before yours and u just confirmed what i was thinking haha. It legit seems that way. Reverse psychology with an 11 yr old eho doesn't know anything

[@everythingexplicit5788]

What do those other women think about that that want you for themselves 😂

[@jadanblue3927]

...the moment she sees that you care?

[@trrealestatenycrealestate200]

listen up young guns , 63 yo here been there done it , listen up hard , no pain no gain . myman Casey will keep you straight.

[@TheJacklance1]

Attachment is the root of all suffering

if you don`t attach you won`t invest, if you don`t have a need to invest (time/resources) why do you even bother meeting girls?

[@zolanddd0007]

Shhhhhhh quiet down

[@Reginavici1234]

🤔 is it ? But it's wrong. It's actually something different. Not being attached in a healthy way is the root of all problems. Healthy starts from you.

[@tmango1906]

It sucks to know that I made all these mistakes with someone but damn am I glad that I found Casey so I don't make the same mistake twice!!

[@SD-mi2vc]

Same

[@radiocontrolsoul]

Yup

[@mischifischi]

Same here! We make it bro!

[@Edward-xd1td]

Yep me too older guy got infatuated with a younger girl but there's still time I've backed off no more chasing making myself much more unavailable let them come to you if it's meant to be

[@oscargonza2748]

Being Emotionally unavailable is the the sure fire way to avoid getting too attached, plain and simple

[@dylanshorrorchannel1378]

But how? How does a man learn how to be emotionally unavailable?? Especially if he’s in love with a girl and sees a future with her. How do you completely change your mindset?

[@nobody-jv8yf]

Exactly ​@@dylanshorrorchannel1378

[@HunkyMan777]

Never fall in love with her

[@Scorned405]

@@dylanshorrorchannel1378 Your simping. Understand that she does not feel the same. You look pathetic in her eyes. Being a man is what it’s about. Keep in mind she has irons in the fire and is probably getting her back blown out by Chad in the break room at work. You’re a cog in the wheel as she sleeps her way up the hypergamous mountain. Go red pill.

[@Iwantkeiko]

@@dylanshorrorchannel1378great question … I am considered “ emotionally Unavailable “ but this is part due to childhood trauma & negative experiences. Women always flocked to me. And I hardly give them the time of day. They love this. It keeps them in a constant state of uncertainty. Their emotions are constantly gauged becuz they cant figure you out. It’s a “ blessing “ that came from a “ curse “ currently I have a 4 girl rotation and they all pursue and initiate contact with me. It’s the better route to go as far as dealing with women are concerned. NEVER get attached. She will leave you dry the moment she sees that you are.

[@mrbabyhugh]

16:18 FACTS. Listen guys. I have always had women attracted to me and approach me, but it never lasted long because... I start to get too invested in them. So to them, they were like oh, what I thought he was he isn't, he is not really stoic, focused on himself and his purpose, here he is getting weak for me already. The very second I realized this was the issue my entire dating life with women changed. Now when they pursue me, now I am the one picking and choosing which one to date, and oh, I am also the one who decide if I am going to let her leave because I know exactly what to do.

[@michaeldunn3476]

I used to have a problem where I would trama dump or love bomb on girls to get them to dump me because I didn’t want to hurt their feelings and break up with them. Smh 🤦‍♂️

[@zaaminhussain3445]

That's some solid advice G

[@firebald2915]

Fortunately, the mindset I've practiced for years pretty much lines up with most of your teaching. I'm thankful for the confirmation. I knew what works but never knew exactly why it worked to the depth I've seen thru you. Great work, Sir. Thank you. May this message go far and wide soon. The times they are a changin'.

[@anthonypaules7893]

Been ignoring her for so long, she wouldn't know if I was even dead at this point. Just killin it!

[@zizouurb6332]

Lol

[@tenzeltre]

I’m tired of playing games/drama everyday.I better just be alone.Its peaceful.

[@sweetsmakemeshredded3672]

Also a good way to be

[@_arnavmathur]

one way or other you pay the price

[@spruce5123]

Instinctively she will always have more respect, admiration, honor, and desire for the man that she likes who can have sex with her and remain indifferent and unattached than she ever will for the man that shows her that he truly loves her.

[@user-uc7qb1su4e]

And there’s no two ways about it

[@QuantumTrader-be8wd]

153❤Mark Ndonga Maina

[@Time4change111]

It depends upon her attachment style, life truama, unhealed wounds just like it does with men as well. If a person has trust issues, abandonment wounds, learned "love them and leave them" styles while watching the people around them growing up then they will have a unhealthy patterns until they heal, this is why unhealed males & females are starting to learn more about healing, God, attachment styles and getting therapy moreso than before and it's incredible. God bless mate

[@irishdon6731]

Casey I'm 58 and looking back on my failures I see you are wise beyond you're years. Wish I had someone like you giving me advice when I was 25!

[@AllglorytoGod000]

For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16

[@mrbabyhugh]

6:27 and stop worry about her not doing it if she says you dont call her enough. i am going through that right now with a girl, she has said it many times, i dont change and she still CALLS, 90% of our conversations is a phone call.

[@6feetunderpants]

What exactly do you respond when she brings up the topic? Try to be specific, please.

[@A-uc7lq]

Thanks bro i needed that

[@artofevan4699]

Unconscious self sabotage makes us guys our own worst enemies as we project our enmity on to others. But when the enmity returns to the guy in the mirror, the cycle repeats.

[@AllglorytoGod000]

For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16

[@DREWTHEEMPATH]

Master your emotions, master your life.

[@AllglorytoGod000]

For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16

[@SobrietyUniversity]

Finally, this has always been where I’ve lost them in relationships

[@Imthatguy031]

Thinking back about my own experiences, Uncle C is completely right brah.

[@OnderHassan]

I was like this 10 years ago and got more ass than a toilet seat. But the tradeoff was I was depressed and unfulfilled because I wasn’t feeling anything for the girls I was seeing. As a man approaching 40 this year. Take it from an older man with wisdom and experience… Dating and relationships for a man in today’s world is a game that is rigged for you to lose. You’re damned if you do and you’re damned if you don’t.

[@JohnQPublic345]

Work on yourself brother

[@johnbonham617]

Agreed.. I've given up

[@ramyz911]

Totally true. I am in the same boat brother. Damned if you do and damned if you don't. Still trying to find a midway solution.

[@OnderHassan]

@@ramyz911 There isn’t one. You have to put up with loving a girl without being in love with her. Female nature has seen to it that a man gets punished if he does. Falling in love is a privilege that only girls get to experience. For men, we can only fall in love with our purpose and nothing more.

[@americantimemachine7128]

​@@OnderHassansure this isn't just hypergamy that comes after the peak of an empire?

[@mrbabyhugh]

13:03 listen, EVERY TIME I HAVE SAID that I want to BUILD SOMETHING with a woman, it either doesn't even start or it ends. Listen, WOMEN ARE NOT BUILDERS, THEY ARE SUPPORTERS & NURTURERS. Therefore, YOU THE MAN MUST BUILD then she will come in and support it, nurture it and make it better. Don't try to build a business, a friendship, nor relationship... don't EVER say that, make her ask and don't give the full impression that is what you want, YOU SHOULD BE FOCUSED ON BUILDING. That is what is important to a woman's SURVIVAL INSTINCTS.

[@editnosmirc4489]

It's crazy I already understood the psychology you're explaining and i can speak from experience that it absolutely works. Ive been in several relationships in the last decade but haven't been broken up with once in that time span. I've broken up with them. Now I'm engaged to my dream girl but she doesn't know shes my dream girl because i dont make her feel like I'm super attached. I got her wrapped around my finger. She knows i love her but i dont give the impression that my life completely revolves around being with her.

[@Cinnamon535]

You might think you got her but she's actually got you

[@AllglorytoGod000]

For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16

[@ddiitv]

"its not my job to build anything with her", great advice.

[@Solace19k]

Operate from abundance. Takes time to build your "network" but it will happen. Then you won't have to worry about coming off needy or thirsty. You literally won't give a fk because there's someone else to take out, talk to, take home etc. Spend less time on the girls and more time on yourself.... This guy is giving sound advice. Subbed.

[@luker1hutcher315]

Subbed isn't a proper word.

[@AllglorytoGod000]

For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16

[@randomink3]

This is a much needed video Casey, I’m currently dating four women right now.

[@Ivanzter]

How explain?

[@rhuiden4086]

B.s. 😂

[@AuthoritativeChadWarrior]

Don't fall in love

[@Basiliokarani]

You do know that ain't Wise

[@lashedbutnotleashed1984]

You're dating ten women right now. Five on each hand.

[@Gescobar009]

to me all of this can be mitigated with self awareness. when im around chicks, im always in tune with my attachment levels. its in my gut. i can feel it at all times. as soon as i get a little attatched , i know somethings wrong and i gotta course correct..

[@MMKnight_1]

I know what you say is completely correct. I was incredibly attracted to a girl a while back and started showing some of these signs, but did not realize them until a few weeks after she pulled away. At least I now know what to do with the next one, but as you say, it's easy to fall apart and become way too invested and attached when you really like her, as I found out the hard way...

[@johnbonham617]

I have watched a shit ton of Casey's vid's, for me this is the best one. It really sum's up many things.

[@PassionateSpirit88]

Women have too many options nowadays so there is no point in being attached to them

[@SD-mi2vc]

Exactly

[@WonZZY2003]

Because of The Internet & Social Media Women Have too Many "Options". This is why they keep Moving the "Goal Post" : 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

[@PassionateSpirit88]

@WonZZY2003 thats why they keep moving the goal post?....interesting

[@WonZZY2003]

@@PassionateSpirit88 I mean, her dream guy constantly keeps changing as she continues to encounter different or better-looking types of guys' profiles showing up on her Instagram feed page, FYP page of her TikTok, and other social media platforms she may be using. This is why they keep Moving the "Goal Post" : 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 By "Goal Post" i used as a citation of dating standard which she keep elevating it higher and higher and making it harder for you, to make herself submit to you..

[@WonZZY2003]

@@PassionateSpirit88 Because of inconsistent emotional pattern, you can't fully trust em

[@CourierSix9]

I love and respect your teachings and lectures. They work and I have no doubt they will continue too work… but to be honest, for me at least. My quality of life is low when I do all these methods. Yes I have the girl but I still want too be myself and give my love and dive into the “feminine” because I am naturally a loving and caring person. I still use your teachings but I still act like a nice guy but only 20% of the time. It seems to work out for me. I say once a week, for me, I’ll be a caring and loving stereotypical boyfriend and if I sense the dynamic shifting, I’ll pull back and be nice guy every other week to correct it. Your knowledge is valuable but at the end of the day… what’s the point of being in a relationship if you can’t afford to feel love and give it. Anyways that’s my view.

[@ramyz911]

Totally agreed brother. It's like you either get tons of girls and feel unfulfilled or you try to work for a real loving relationship and they start to pull away 😂 damn if you do and damn if you don't.

[@americantimemachine7128]

This is so important. This type of behavior where no one is attached is actually evolutionarily terrible. Being a good parent requires attachment, and that begins between two people

[@Magic_10001]

My interpretation is these techniques are for how to get dates in online world, rather than trying to find life partner or start a family....

[@jasongoodman9289]

This just happened to me I caught it midway through and I realized going 1on1 monogamous takes all the man’s leverage away

[@kevinkurgansky4479]

Yep. Same. I refuse to do that and it allows me to retain my power

[@ninjanickysveganwellness]

I really admire and appreciate your commitment to teach men that thing they are missing in life. You must know that it’s your purpose And mission

[@ModernDatingMastery]

*Learning how to maintain emotional independence while dating can save you from unnecessary heartbreak.*

[@Techie334]

Casey lots of respect brother,your'e the only dating preceptor on KZbin whose content feels genuine to me,would you make a video on,how to know if a woman really loves you

[@HashTagMediaGuy]

If you dont know, she doesnt. Saved Casey the time. Lol

[@flaviog.7192]

​@@HashTagMediaGuy😂😂😂

[@TheBonsaiManiac]

Women can't love, at least the way we do... It's even in the Bible, God commands men to love their women, and women to respect and submiss to their men...

[@WakeupwithYacob]

Really needed this, I am every red flag on this board to some extent.

[@finnhorchler7940]

something that helped me a lot excepting reality and really starting to even like the way it is, is by thinking about why the female male dynamic is this way: everything casey talks about makes you as a man long term extremely capable and powerful not only with women. God or biology (however you want to put it) structured that this way to only let men and women reproduce that were actually capable and competent! So start to think of it as the new type of self development journey and you wont recognize yourself again within a years time.

[@zeno3385]

Damn bro, this perfectly discribes why my first and also last relationship ended. Thankful i‘m never going to do these mistakes again, and can‘t wait to teach my son‘s this important lessons on day❤ Btw your chest looks bigger these days Casey! God bless you and much love from germany❤❤

[@AllglorytoGod000]

For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16

[@fraan7572]

i'm 15 years old and, dude, you fcking save me and you are helping me so much in this process of discover women's mind. I'm so much grateful with u

[@DanPearce-k8y]

Respect little dude 🤛 I wish I had this nolage at your age

[@fraan7572]

@@DanPearce-k8y thanks bro. Really i'm from Argentina and it's so crazy that all tips of this man can work with international girls. Before know flirt videos i suffered for love but this type of videos helped so much in make me a better person

[@b.c.34]

Glad you made mention of your age and it has saved you; with due respect I advice you ignore women and face your life inorder to be financially stable. women will always be in the world ( more beautiful ones infact, and you will be glad you didn't waste your 15 and early 20s chasing/thinking of girls). My advice.

[@ashinthewind2759]

​@@b.c.34it's easy to do both, get the experience while you are young so you aren't learning the game in your mid to late twenties.

[@fraan7572]

@@b.c.34 the part of chase i already learn it. I was with pretty girls but i was so clingy, jealous, emotional, weak, romantic and other things. Now i learned that shit and i'm doing my life, knowing that the " good womasn that loves you like you are " doesn't exist. Thanks for the tips dude

[@ryredman1122able]

DUDE THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR PUTTING THIS ALL TOGETHER!!!! YOU ARE AMAZING AT WHAT YOU DO. YOU REALLY HAVE A GIFT AND ARE DOING SOME GOOD IN THIS WORLD!

[@AllglorytoGod000]

For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16

[@bhurley1743]

This is a very important topic of discussion. It is the very downfall of every man to woman relationship.

[@KalaAltheaBalik]

I wish I had seen this decades ago. Nothing surprising really, just the way you put it made finally things click. Your rhetoric made grammar to reach logic beautifully.

[@Mgb-uo8mq]

They lie, cheat, slice and dice you if you fall in love. All of them. No exceptions. It's not games, it's their nature.

[@777lucifero]

the most honest ones literally told me straight out, they get turned off when you like them too much.

[@godswittness69]

Trash nature.

[@777lucifero]

@@godswittness69 you don't understand. It's exactly their unconscious shit tests, that you must pass, that make you the greatest man possible. It's the drive TO become that person. And the reward is that any woman will treat you well if you are that man. It's a perfect system, if it wasn't so we could have never evolved. How can you call it trash. The guy here is bringing real content, be real. They're cursed if anything. Us? Blessed honestly, a constant reminder to keep focusing on your duties and building your dream.

[@AllglorytoGod000]

For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16

[@NicholasTejeda-r9b]

💯

[@xelvonid5874]

Bro just wanna say thanks for all the great advice i dont wanna be something im not, I call pull baddies but a lot of the stuff you talked about pushed em away

[@Dadaadad268]

So it's bad advice?!

[@xelvonid5874]

@@Dadaadad268no it’s great advice! I wanted to be good bf material but you really gotta let them take care of all the emotional touchy stuff.

[@choco031945]

Wow.Casey You are spot on.Presently with a very young single mom Filipina.Lot of insights you tell me how to be not attached emotionaly.Since I am already helping financially and supportive of her.But keep otherwise a healthy distance.I am the boss but not in an arrogant,nasty way.Keep up the best you already doing that.

[@ashinthewind2759]

You are getting played. This is the most simp comment on this video. You are paying for another man's child. Run

[@mrbabyhugh]

18:55 you say wednesday for saturday. i have set up a date for 2 months before, but majority are 2 weeks and I DO NOT CONTACT THEM... but yeah they contact me.

[@alf3071]

I'll never doubt you man, what you're saying is the absolute truth, you have made it into a science

[@yuribezmenov9516]

The essence of balance is detachment. To embrace a cause, to grow fond or spiteful, is to lose one's balance, after which, no action can be trusted.

[@SP_Amit_Kumar]

Thanks Casey...... You have removed tons of garbage from my mind regarding this most toxic thing "Women who are our friend, whonignores us without our any mistake"..... With lots of love from India....

[@mrbabyhugh]

17:15 this how i do it. 2:1 then 3:1 then 1:1 then repeat. And honestly, I dont get to even do that because they just constantly contact me.

[@growthzack9542]

I missed the mark so hard on this. Fortunately I made these mistakes with a woman who wasn’t right for me. She pushed so hard. Tattooing my name on her, pushing me to move in right away, etc. Now she definitely had some attachment issues for moving so fast, but I accepted and fed into it too. I came from a place of scarcity and desperation. I did okay at first… letting her text me first etc. but then I became too comfortable and weak. I made my whole life about her. Very unattractive and she lost feelings for me. The outcome hurts, but I’m grateful for this pain and growth. It’s a battle every day. These practices he’s talking about take serious discipline and will power. It’s the only way though. There’s no other choice

[@tuckerbearden01]

Im joining your community! I am a six-figure earner that is in shape, have alot going for me in life, im happy by my self and dont "need" a woman to be happy. But I have never been able to figure this out. I have bought cars for women only to be dumped for a loser 😂... I was the loser 😂😂😂 Ive been single for years with no prospects even floating about and the only time I get laid is when I show up to one of my customers house and she needs more only fans content 😂

[@remyogun8270]

Casey...I'm really interested in your opening game. You've been really stressing the mid game tactics and concepts, but what we need from you is how you manage to display interest and not give away your power in the beginning stages. how are you developing the connection? Thanks bro

[@SP_Amit_Kumar]

I have seen lots of my friends getting obsessed & Jailed by their girlfriend or a girl whom they get attracted. You have bailed me out from this Jail. Thanks Casey...... A person like a god for me.....

[@swaguwuflexcringe]

as a man im telling you this, i love you, youre helping me like noone else could, your vids should be paid to watch :)

[@wisemanmashego8872]

Thanks a lot bro with this video. Went on a great first date with a girl who's values and lifestyle r de same as mine and I am okay with the idea that we might not see each other again coz that's life. She is de type of girl that likes to take things slow and i will give her good space in between dates if we see each other in the coming weeks. Thanks to this video, know i know how i need to lay my cards. Thanks a lot man you de best in the game and have fulfilled your true God given purpose.

[@mikokuns]

The issue is when men start to have success with their wealth they start to think about passing it on to a family. This puts them into “Desperate” mode. It’s not the Woman that matters it’s “Will she Protect The Family At All Costs”.

[@Rick_Iz]

🎯 Right on the money. Made this mistake for the first and last time a few years ago.

[@CademanLillywhite]

Glad to say ive stopped all the needy behaviour

[@human_08]

Man this is the most important video any man has to watch

[@Tyler-wl8kq]

Casey spitting the best game on the net

[@josesantana770]

DEFINITELY

[@theautodidacted]

Wonderful video Casey. Well done. You just broke down what it is to be a man; to be centered, strong and yet emotionally measured.

[@nagual2335]

Absolutely life saving and eye opening… that’s exactly where I fall every time

[@777lucifero]

This is gold, until 2 years ago i've had only 2 girls in my life. I changed my life around, got ripped, and now it's effortless to approach women (and I'm not used to it being so easy). I've since had quite a few casual encounters, and 2 longer terms ones. Naturally, I've fallen into nearly ALL of the mistakes covered. But I'm glad I'm learning, and the nicest overall thing is to learn to not care.. they are all the same. Give up that illusion of story-tale love that doesn't exist at all (and really, was just a selfish position, what's in it for her if that's how you act. was just focused on myself instead of understanding the other side).

[@AllglorytoGod000]

For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16

[@kianarosablau]

I forgot to write 2 very important things Im attracted to = no one will never know;) Now I finished the article about red pill (I put in front of your video that you are not exactly red pill, I hope). I gave there many videos I agree with sorted by theme (tried to present variety of opinions so I dont agree with everything and there is not only your channel, but I think yours is there most - I agree with more your videos but cant put more of them because it would be too long loading article).

[@scarymanl3184]

Let’s go man this is clutch. Early stage of relationship and it’s going well

[@marcuslong9761]

Sex. Sex is the thing that creates attachment. Why do u think girls put it off so long....? They know once you have sex, they are gonna become attached. If you want to draw things out, space out the sex.

[@tenzeltre]

Space out the sex and enjoy it when ED kicks in at 80 and enjoy it when u are preparing to exit.😂

[@guy8360]

No bro lol these women are getting ran through and not getting attached, it's just sex for them

[@panos7256]

No have sex with multiple women and let them get attached to you.

[@cupule_acorn]

Thanks!

[@djeanpierre]

This is what I hate about dating in America. Everything has to be breezy and no one wants to show their hand for fear of being perceived as too eager. At some point you have to let your sexual intent be known. I’d rather have a woman reject me for being too aggressive than not aggressive enough. Women have a lot of options so being too nonchalant won’t work.

[@SD-mi2vc]

Thats dating life in the west. Deal with it

[@oscargonza2748]

You'll have a better chance of winning her over by being assertive as appose to being aggressive, aggressive will only make you come off desperate and too thirsty and you might repell her, whereas being assertive displays confidence and will impress and attract her more to you, bruh

[@Paivren]

You are missing the points. This video is not about the first dating phase, it's about when you are already sleeping with her.

[@trrealestatenycrealestate200]

it wont work dog , listen up to Cuz Casey

[@user-uc7qb1su4e]

You still don’t get it

[@damirderek8827]

I was needy to girl on work when she showed me some interest. After that she almost ghosted me and after few texts that she ignored I just texted her that it looks like we will not get along and I will not contact her again and ofc she didnt said anythin. I am on no contact for almost a month with her ignore on work and holding distance. After some time I noticed she is looking at me more like staring (once she stood in front of my desk and stared at me for 5-10 seconds and I was just looking at my monitor with no even an eye contact) and I still act that I dont notice her and talking to other people only not her. I will do it until/if she contacts me first and after that time I will tell her I need more time to think about us and continue to ignore after she starts to chase me.

[@Cardo1z1]

Forget about her buddy some unemployed guy is knocking her walls loose keep your head up king

[@editnosmirc4489]

​@@Cardo1z1exactly. I'd just move on after she decided to ghost me when I showed any true interest

[@Cinnamon535]

So did she contact you or not yet?

[@damirderek8827]

@@Cinnamon535 She tricked me to break no contact in a way that we played laser tag on team building and she was in opposite team so when I shoot her she said move away from me. Next day I sent her message that she was rude and that I dont want her to behave like that with me. Next day from that she sent me long long angry paragraph. I didnt respond on that but I initiated no contact again now I havent seen or heard her for two months. But I talk with 5-10 girls in the same time now with good vibe and thats only solution.

[@Nobodaddy99]

The way you don’t get attached is ABCD. Always be catching dates (With more than one until u find the one)

[@danielgrohl6971]

one problem i have had that is very noticeable is what we call, " Over thinking. " The best way i have dealt with it is being a little more quiet, and not always saying what is on my mind. When you make the other one guess and have time to answer on their own time then they do not feel as though the spotlight is on them in their response, and response time.

[@phoenixyoung7926]

And when he not text/call too much it gives her time to miss him. To actually experience that experience of truly missing another human being.

[@leejee88]

stick by this code all the time never fall for her first and never love her more than she loves you works every time

[@Harry-q2d]

Well thought out and sustinct. Lots of tips showing potential potholes that are sometimes overlooked or just missed. Little things, to be ignored at your own peril.

[@Research-0011]

needed this actually just started dating and was looking for this.

[@fred8463]

Your words has to be carved on Gold 🪙, this is the Bible of dating. May God Bless you and your family forever Casey 🙏🙏🙏

[@Excu28]

If you just found this channel stay focused on what he teaches

[@vincentsauer99]

Amazing vid. I did everything basically perfect with women but could never keep them cause i loved too deeply and did these exact mistakes.

[@meme-zv7kw]

I'm watching all of your videos and using your advice 70-80% of the time and its working thanks you are the best

[@vedishplays]

Tips for the bros. Especially those who wants kids or be married. Have a kid with her first, secondly test for paternity then get married. The least you could expect/need from a woman is your own kid. Paternity test are cheaper than ever and you only need two swab with the sample of your baby's cheek cells. You will win in every way possible. 1. Its cheaper to do a paternity test than raise and support a family that is not yours. 2. If the baby is yours and she cheats later you will have a high probability of getting custody of the kid. 3. You will have completed the woman quest and can devote your time to your own goals and raising your kids( from benefit 2) into a good individual. You will have peace and harmony and will have the option to date other woman to your heart content. (One more bonus you are more desirable to other woman with your experience and [from 2.] have social prof of being sexually compatible to the opposite sex. Possible drawbacks you might lose assets with the divorce if you dont have knowledge on how to secure your assets.

[@jimjames9779]

Hey Casey, as Tina once famously said....'You're simply the Best!!!!!' I do hope young men implement these, and somehow, keep the feminists in awe!!

[@sonsidious]

thanks again casey. this one is super important to me because this was how i was with the last 2 relationships i had and i fucked them up royally. i just had to learn from experience. that, and videos like this, will be the pinnacle to my new masculine frame im building right now, and i gotta say i already feel my balls getting bigger. i have one girl on the line right now that im super stoked to try and work these videos on. keep yall posted.

[@jacobxa]

Decent points except for the double texting. It doesn’t show low self esteem… if anything it shows you believe in the product you’re selling… moreover, it’s the only way to keep some girls as options. Don’t wait weeks for her to respond, just check in again (i.e. obligatory double text) in like 2 days, and give up after a few tries but often they’ll bite and you’ll get her out (or in) on a date.

[@toddcohen9769]

No

[@jacobxa]

@@toddcohen9769Thanks for indicating your ignorance. Help won’t help if you don’t even see it as such, but perhaps a few will realize it. Good luck festering with the lack of this advice, truly, but it would be less painful if you just got it through your thick skull.

[@TruthTriumphs777]

I have started putting your videos on before sleeping. It helps in good sleep as well as give information

[@rufutorahman147]

I understand the concept of not getting too attached to someone and creating a healthy space between the two. But I've had few experiences where I've been told this kind of detachment or "space" gives them anxiety. I was told I wasn't being proactive enough and I seemed disinterested in the person. Quite ironical, but probably I wasn't assuring enough to the person or sometimes it is the matter of compatibility. Some people want that "space" between them, and some people want constant assurance to overcome their anxious attachment behavior.

[@MrShourie]

I'd like to know how this would apply to a long distance relationship..

[@fg5392]

thanks for the videos man. I've been watching a few and now I understand why my relationships in the past failed. I hope I had this information in the past but takes a man to learn from mistakes.

[@aitproductions2856]

What can you do when you have failed, overpursued, got attached, and now she says she lost feelings? Is it just completely ruined? Or does walking away from her reset the attraction?

[@jasongoodman9289]

I think you answered it, walk away

[@ozn684]

the only thing you can do is forget her, completely break the contact and never contact her again. even if she wants it again after some time. dont give her a chance. she lost respect for you. maintain your stand. the only way to maintain her respect is when you keep it at the distance.

[@willi898]

If you still want her, you need to change the dynamic with her. Time to be a man

[@LuvJah1]

Just pulled back bro and don’t show that much interest again f that lol

[@eltrango]

Try getting a new girl and then turning your former girl away when she tries to get back with you. Wait some days or weeks before taking her back. When you take her back keep contact with the new girl so you your girl can feel you have options. Do not over pursue ever again!! I did this with my fiance we've been together 3 years.

[@PassionateSpirit88]

How does both sexes being so cold towards each other ever form a relationship or anything healthy?

[@zizouurb6332]

Is the women that are so cold, this is the only remedy to counter attack that shit

[@AllglorytoGod000]

For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16

[@GeniusVisualss]

Casey your demeanor in this video was awesome

[@johnhernandez1235]

My good man, very on point. Through trial and error your breakdown will work.

[@SwivTech-autos]

We ve all been waiting for this video😊. Awesome piece Casey. Thanks for giving me the edge.

[@PassionateSpirit88]

It's difficult to be like this when online dating because they have so many options.

[@heathRocco]

That's when you should have other options too.

[@sebaleal3081]

Talk with at least 3 girls at a time when online dating. That keeps you from getting too attached to just one.

[@michaelalfano7503]

this is very true, I am over 50 and divorced. The guys I know have 5-10 matches in a few weeks or a month and woman have 100 to 200 matches. I know this from the girls I have dated telling me this. So acting like you do not give a damn will result in you getting unmatched a lot. So in the beginning you need to be a little agressive and then can use these principles after she is really into you

[@MarcRebilletClips]

Disagree. If you follow this advice you’ll outshine the competition.

[@Paivren]

This comes to the right time... Just messed everything up with an extremely hot chick I have been seeing for months. I started to have feelings, started to see her as the best part of my week, started to crave more dates, started to get jealous of her guy friends. Terrible fight, I apologized a week later (was stressed out from work yada yada), she took it well but no contact since then. It's probably over. Fucking emotional attachment, turns men into weaklings. Do you have a video on how to get her back after one screwed up?

[@kingdee5388]

You’re better off forgetting her. Detach yourself. She will come back but you must remain detached

[@zizouurb6332]

You’re not supposed to try to get her back. If she leaves so be it, focus on yourself, work, hobbies and workouts

[@oscargonza2748]

It's her role to get jealous not yours, your role was to not care that she has those male friends, but anyway, like the famous saying, she wasn't yours it was only your turn, bruh

[@ChrisBraik]

There r no male friends except they r really really unattractive. In this case jealousy is the right way to free her from her male fan group.

[@BurbonsAndLacs]

I needed to hear this, doing so many of these to a girl I like a lot. Hopefully I haven’t blown it.

[@Sirko573]

It’s a Stoic approach, which is time proofed. Thx for the truth reminder! 😅

[@nobody123-b5r]

The best teacher ever!