I'm shy and I hate it. I don't know how to stop it.
@user-wv9mc6my7b7 жыл бұрын
Makayla Ison my friend I don't think that you are shy person because you accept it & you are already started take steps towards bold & confidant you even post your picture that positive sign my suggestion is to make good & positive friends in your life🙂
@user-wv9mc6my7b7 жыл бұрын
& friend you know what about me I'm so confusing many times...sometime I don't know what to do🤔
@Kay-sp1db7 жыл бұрын
* Sarang* i am very shy when I go to soccer trials and I feel very shy and embarrassed sometimes I need to speak more and get my self out there
@youare25397 жыл бұрын
Makayla Ison same here..sometimes I keep hiding or my face look down..
@jahanzaibshahid077 жыл бұрын
im also
@AlexandraStarr19747 жыл бұрын
When i first started making youtube videos i was incredibly shy, and my early videos were terrible, i hid behind a microphone all the while and i did not feel confident at all, but then i accepted who i was (i am transgender), once i did this, my confidence went through the roof, my shyness almost vanished over night, and i went from making very random videos to actually filming myself doing the thing i love the most, photography! My posture also changed, i went from an awkward looking stance to one of supreme confidence, head held high and speaking as clearly as i can (i have a cleft pallet which has given me a speech impediment). I only have like 300 subscribers but to me, that does not matter, i am not making videos for other people really, i do it for my own pleasure, and i will continue to do so even if my subscriber count goes down to just one sub! For me, making videos really helped my journey, but accepting who i am was really the one aspect that propelled my confidence to new found levels. I am not perfect, but i am me, and i am the only me there is, we are all unique and special no matter who or what we are.
@ShammasTk7 жыл бұрын
Alexandra Starr photography e
@aailakhan71736 жыл бұрын
I've been researching reducing shyness quickly and discovered a great website at Sartar shy method (google it if you are interested)
@jasmingurung69087 жыл бұрын
I'm very shy and I don't like it when I'm in front of crowd I use to forget all and suddenly laugh 😁 comes
@jaymahakal50824 жыл бұрын
so can we become freinds
@ashwathm4373 жыл бұрын
My problem is in fight I can't speak at all
@abideenmaryamfolashade81073 жыл бұрын
Same thing as me ooo
@shubham_M77772 жыл бұрын
Same here, I have insecurity of looks
@lingeshvasudevan97602 жыл бұрын
Myself I sweat
@nikmalvazery75257 жыл бұрын
I am very shyness person unfortunatly I lost many chances in my life now review my past life all these efficts come from my past lief.
@heavydutyloader7 жыл бұрын
One little detail about comfort soze. Many will tell you to get out of your comfort soze, but that might be a bad idea. Better is to explore the borders of comfort zone and while feeling confident try to expand your comfort zone a bit. Take it step by step. Be happy for every small progression you make and don't expect miracles. Avoid fear, because the meaning of fear is to teach you what to avoid. This fear mechanism runs very deep in every living creature and cannot be changed. BUT you may be able to change what causes your fear, be slowly, and step by step convincing yourself that it is safe. Imagine a cat being afraid of some toy, but after exploring it for awhile the cat decides it's not dangours. The cat needs to take the time it needs to explore, it cannot happend any faster.
@scorpionseal8609 Жыл бұрын
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@stacielivinthedream85104 жыл бұрын
Shyness is an issue if believing others are better than you! I suffer from this at times and it's unnecessary as nobody is better than others! You are worthy! You are special! You are love! Believe in yourself! Do NOT compare yourself with others! Compare yourself with who you were yesterday! You are loved! Look to the people who are kind and compassionate! Love yourself because you are perfect as you are!
@sadaafatima7 жыл бұрын
Nobody's perfect. We are just striving to be better so let's value ourselves as we are and improve what we can and wish to do in our personality because it'll make us happier.
@mamtanegi96967 жыл бұрын
When I am watching you I cannot change my eyes because you makes people attentive with your way to speaking.
@jilliancamaro43207 жыл бұрын
Thank you, I'm very shy and really will to overcome with it.
@najibcasa27456 жыл бұрын
I've been researching top natural cure for shyness and found a fantastic website at Sartar Shy Method (google it if you're interested)
@daisynthy3107 жыл бұрын
I am also a very shy guy struggling with the same problem,sometimes i can't even imagine why this happened to me and there are times i even shed tears when i couldn't do certain things.i was just doing the opposite of what you mentioned in your videos like putting myself down,compared myself with others etc..i find some of my friends doing well with their shyness without much effort but to me that never happened i just thought to myself that this is what i was born with and to make a difference this seems hard. Thanks for your video
@jagdishization7 жыл бұрын
no one talk about this problems?even I am also facing this problems but I don't know how to overcome from this.its totally related to me,and I like the way you present this video its helpful to understand deeply. thank u so much!!!
@higherboom6317 жыл бұрын
App ne meri man ki bat sheen li app sabse bdhiya chez bta rhe ho jo kamyabi ka phla kadam hai.....
@gauravghosh51027 жыл бұрын
I just love to start my day with these vids of Skillopedia... It brings some sort of positive energy and feel-good factor within me that sustain throughout the ups and downs of the day. Thnxx for being so helpful and supportive.
@splendidspokenenglish24303 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot ma'am I am also shy person but I committed to myself that I will definitely overcome from my shyness to shine over the world 🤠😎
@Satyasp7 жыл бұрын
this video is for introverts too..😉
@mirasacallixte92124 жыл бұрын
ahhh u're telling the truth bro
@catherinejohn46743 жыл бұрын
Yes
@Navneet078603 жыл бұрын
To a certain point but shyness and introversiin are completely different sides of a coin.
@HBSugar11066 жыл бұрын
Love these videos I swear you don't realize you need something sometimes until you have gone through some big experiences in your career and job. I have been through some things in the past and hearing the advice you all mentioned for the workplace is very helpful. Oftentimes were so happy to be employed and working we forget to raise our voice or be assertive in situations too. These video should be played everywhere. These should be played in college classes undergraduate and graduate for all students these are essential no one prepares you for real life in the job once you get out there and experience it. It's nice to have these tools when things may be going off track at work or in the workplace with large groups.
@limitbreak17176 жыл бұрын
Dont be shy chin up and dont overthink just think in a positive way and always be brave and always be happy and be kind😊😉👌
@sampatpratap30832 жыл бұрын
Hey Reema madam🙏... I am glad to watch your video for the very first time. I love the way you speak. I found some new usages in your content like snap out, ways and means, etc. I am looking forward to your upcoming videos. Loads of respect...👏👌💖
@TB-lq7sm7 жыл бұрын
I cannot believe how many people are struggling with this, I always feel so alone...
@khansaib13737 жыл бұрын
U know Ma'am ...my biggest problem is ' I cant accept my self' and i am sure soon it will destroy me...
@trishadutta55467 жыл бұрын
Ayan khan u r already there. U know that one day u will die because of this. So why not save yourself? ☺☺ Treat yourself as a human being. Respect yourself. Most importantly respect others eventually u will get respect in return. Stay happy 😃😃
@omkarbuddhe17837 жыл бұрын
Ayan khan i too m in kind of similar condition
@feronia2496 жыл бұрын
Exactly. This....
@idontknow69544 жыл бұрын
Now how is it going?? Felt glad to see this reply after 3 years 🧐
@khansaib13734 жыл бұрын
@@idontknow6954 honestly i am totally changed now ...when i think about my past 3 years before i laugh soo much ...and think that how silly and foolish i was at that time ,,
@narisalih36917 жыл бұрын
I find this video on recommended it's really like a booster thank you for your video ..I have to host my school assembly on coming week I am so nervous and started to thinking how to take leave on that day....but really your video motivated me a lot I'll gonna do that as my first task .....thank you so much for your video ....hope I'll host that programming successfully😑😑
@rajandeepkaur56347 жыл бұрын
i have seen a lots of videos like this . but This is the best , best of all !!!
@aneeshvora42876 жыл бұрын
Rajandeep Kaur 👍
@MK-mr4jq7 жыл бұрын
how effective was this vedio session to me i jst cant express it in words after watching it i already started feeling how special i am n my strengths are now m gonna remember your points whenever i feel uncomformatable n to deal with some hesitation kind of situations this is somehow added to my fav vedio love it
@marysarhoch84567 жыл бұрын
Heye Reema, How sweet you speak 👌💖 I love your speaking way ❤❤❤❤
@BB-nl9gw6 жыл бұрын
MAM plz read it seriously after listen u i really want to apply all the skills .....mam m so shy person and every body lectured me to come over my shyness also my family members mam ...whenever i met with any stranger or go to outside i feel uncomfrtbl soo after watching u i tried ...also u soo sweet
@Adamughal8676 жыл бұрын
Talking in a way that shines out the simplicity and spontaneousness in a unique lovely way. I really like this KZbin channel!
@09nehakhanam217 жыл бұрын
ur voice is sweet as sugar. really loved the way u speaked. nd it was a good speech..
@elizabethpatterson39826 жыл бұрын
So much on this channel has really helped me. Thinking. Thank you! You are so awesome!
@diannerussell48492 жыл бұрын
Great videos, the advice on each one is good and simple to put into practice. The presentation. Is good and the presenter has a great persona. I highly recommend these videos.💎
@busiswasidindi84206 жыл бұрын
i know i am a shy girl but many people who know me wish i was,loool that's what they said and my family know me as a shy girl.I don't like talking at home because i feel uncomfortable around my own family but when i with friends and strangers i feel so special and blessed its just that my mom and my siblings makes me feel like i am an idiot,they don't understand who i am it's only the people i meet outside makes me feel like a human being if you know what i mean..........
@emmanuelnyarko88156 жыл бұрын
Yeah just like me 😐
@nelanginamauneuma10766 жыл бұрын
Busiswa Sidindi same with me 😣😣
@shrutipatekar40625 жыл бұрын
Same with me😭My family thinks I'm an idiot and I'm ruining my future by my shyness😔
@poonamkalra99427 жыл бұрын
hii rima ma'am..I really like your way of speaking 😍😘 ..plz do make a video on speaking way specially like yours..
@skillopedia7 жыл бұрын
poonam K Sure will incorporate in the future sessions
@VikramVikram-zf3kv7 жыл бұрын
definitely I will take use of this mam..
@shashankminda11717 жыл бұрын
Skillopedia - Skills for the real world the only reason to watch this video full the gorgeous girl in the video in love with her
@jeebankumardash81197 жыл бұрын
good....teacher
@abubakarqureshi68217 жыл бұрын
spoken
@chitr7 жыл бұрын
I am working on my posture....when I am met with something unexpected...I get super nervous and have more hand movements, my voice sounds shaken.....but have improved a lot over 2-3 months...
@monisham15437 жыл бұрын
even I have the same issue... my voice is the major thing which shows everyone that am very nervous.how did u overcome?
@youare25397 жыл бұрын
Monisha M same here especially when the first meeting..my voice like shaken and sounds very weird but I keep talking myself infront of the mirror 😂
@user-lz7mw8ce8e6 жыл бұрын
Just paused after 2:30 min and went uncontrolled from commenting here ..Reema ,sorry to calling you by your name w/o ji,mam,etc.. but you are simply awesome and extremely pleasant personality..I love the way you speak confidently..you are speaking as if you are preaching a spiritual talk..you seem to be noon for a while because the listening you gives you bliss..you are great..now wordless..love you *infinity..
@vijayalaxmibirajdar16117 жыл бұрын
Just what I needed to hear! thank you ma'am. I always find your videos helpful.
@dikshakumari49486 жыл бұрын
I’m shy but now I start loving myself Few months ago I always think to end my life Now I cherish my life I m having a major set back now but I’m fighting and shockingly it’s MAking me stronger ......
@NaseerKhuhro6 жыл бұрын
Accept yourself, nice idea
@NareshJain180337 жыл бұрын
Hi my name is Pooja and I am also shyfull nature girl but reema u give me solution of my problem so, thank you so much. Keep it up.
@stephanyo51967 жыл бұрын
Hi Rima, I appreciate you sharing skills for the real world, very practical. Thank you and keep up the great work...
@UncleofGeorge6 жыл бұрын
I really love the way you present yourself in helping others get motivated.Keep up the good work.God bless you dear Sister.
@MEGITTLINEFELCIBAMARSALINE5 ай бұрын
1. Accept yourself 2. Find your front row 3. Stop the comparison game 4. Get out of your shell 5. Perfect your posture 6. Don't give up 7. Make a list of things that make you shy and work on them
@chandrabhushan70104 жыл бұрын
I’m very shy person but now I’m working on it and this video helpful to overcome my shyness
@TigerMeow-zg3nf9 ай бұрын
I am very sure that you have also gone through shyness, I said it because only shy person knows very well the way he/she feels uncomfortable. The ways you have explained me are perfectly right, those are the symptoms of shyness and treatment of shyness. Believe me mam, i became a big fan of you. I am very shy, I am not just shy, I have been suffering from social anxiety disorder. But I am not afraid of it, because I know that being shy is not something crime. Yes it is uncomfortable, but believe me, most of the great people are shy
@modernmom34066 жыл бұрын
Luv u sister... This points will make me a good confident person.... Thank u so much for ur video.... First time i m watching ur video.... I subscrbd it... And i will be watching from now...
@mr.blemish94907 жыл бұрын
for the first time I just felt shy when I am watching u more than u r video....!!!
@debasisnayak6755 жыл бұрын
Sounds really good let's see if I can implement these things in my life thank you so much for the tips
@priymnu53957 жыл бұрын
I am also shy guy.and I hate this.It often makes me depressed.😢😢
@satnamkaur41157 жыл бұрын
manu priya me tooo yrr literally sometimes wants to die ,want to do lot of things but this fucking shyness...
@satnamkaur41157 жыл бұрын
manu priya me tooo yrr literally sometimes wants to die ,want to do lot of things but this fucking shyness... mini
@lindaaprilia70957 жыл бұрын
manu priya same with me,..Iam depressed and hate it, but know nothing to overcome
@axmedkhalid4716 жыл бұрын
manu priya can you contact me I want to be your friend because I'm shy just like u reply me thanks
@Fari15176 жыл бұрын
I too have shyness I hate so much 😢
@endeavourinme87836 жыл бұрын
How beautiful & meaningful....😍😍
@HiAnjaniii7 жыл бұрын
Loved the last line unleash your true self where lies a great personality!!! :)
@monicaroberts95367 жыл бұрын
I love this channel !
@nasirdu50226 жыл бұрын
monica roberts I 'm also dear.....!
@andrewnunez41766 жыл бұрын
hey ,if anyone else wants to uncover best books for getting over shyness try Skyarza Stop Shyness Star ( search on google ) ? Ive heard some interesting things about it and my co-worker got amazing results with it.
@omarrangel76256 жыл бұрын
interesting points ,if anyone else wants to learn about best ways to overcome shyness try Wiltapar Simple Shyness Secrets (do a google search ) ? Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my brother in law got amazing results with it.
@soumyakmohanty7016 жыл бұрын
here's a few ideas worth trying Find the reasons why you suffer from shyness - the first step to solving an issue is to understand why it is there. Be comfortable with yourself - this makes it less difficult when you are with others. Challenge youself - you will become more confident by doing things - especially by doing activities that stretch your boundaries. (I discovered these and more ideas on Sebs Shy Remedy website )
@nidhishrestha2716 жыл бұрын
+monica roberts I've been investigating treating shyness naturally and found an awesome resource at Seans Shy Program (check it out on google)
@shiva926317 жыл бұрын
reema u have done a excellent job by making this video for my kind of boys. i highly appreciate u and keep doing such wonderful things for us. i always desperately wait for lets talk and skillopedia videos and i have learnt a lot. keep doing such enthusiastic and curious and motivating videos. all of u r doing a splendid job. keep teaching us. and please do something that we always want to be curious about whats new will come next. thank u.... so much..... u and your team of course...👍👍👌👌💐
@itsakuholic7 жыл бұрын
I too m a shy girl.. 😒 n m doing business adm. course which includes giving a no of presentations 😂 n which needs leaving ur shyness behind n communicating WD diff ppl... d only 1 thing which makes me confident is that I assume that d audience sitting in front of me knws nothing.. even if I go wrong smwhere they wont even notice.. n uh know what.. it works 😃 well dere r tyms when some ppl notice my mistakes n correct me in btwn d presentation . n den I tell to myself.. I don't know dis prsn .. after few days dis prsn too will forget me.. I behave casually.. I say - "wait what . oops m so sry 😃 ... ya as my frnd said..." n den I correct my mistake ... n move ahead lyk a boss 😁 efficiently bold 😉✌ .. bt yes from now onwards I too m gonna try out dese steps 😊 ... coz my ways gvs me temporary solution... may b these tips will hlp me to ovcm my shyness completely.. ☺ thankiiiieeeeeeee 😘👍
@skillopedia7 жыл бұрын
That's a good thought, but if someone corrects you and you are gonna ignore them, I am afraid that might kill your repeat value and show you in bad light. I would suggest you should avoid that.
@sabultapulta31447 жыл бұрын
Akanksha Ranjan hello, how r u? if u want a partner for sopken english. Please feel free to connect with me. As I am also looking for the same. my communication is fine but I need more improvement. connect on my whatsaap if u don't mind. 9045914862
@itsakuholic7 жыл бұрын
I agree WD uh #skillopedia ... m trying to take down ur steps in my presentation to ovrcm shyness 😀
@itsakuholic7 жыл бұрын
m sry Faisal I actually don't need :) thanx fr asking ☺
@sabultapulta31447 жыл бұрын
Akanksha Ranjan anyway dear. best of luck🖒 hope you may overcome on shyness and be a fluent and eloquent speaker😊
@shruti81397 жыл бұрын
Doesn't seem like you were a shy person. Thankyou for such a wonderful video. Really helpful! :)
@gurrpreetmiglani4157 жыл бұрын
nice vedio n helpful too....I always feel shy from inside but my family tell me that I am a bold woman...at my work place i feel shy there is one thing in my mind that I did my studies from home n I did not go to any college and university n while talking to people I feel they are more intelligent and they have seen the world....this thing stops me to express myself
@Navneet078603 жыл бұрын
Good gestures described ma'am. Thank you
@sweettoothmarie73043 жыл бұрын
You are who you are!
@dataisfun49647 жыл бұрын
It's hard admitting this but I just discovered how timid I can be most especially with people I rearly know
@sankariraj24812 жыл бұрын
Thanks for giving positive words
@ranganathprahlad6 жыл бұрын
Every information your channel provides us is really helpful for me, it's because you explain it very well so that we can understand ourself what we are and where we are making mistakes and how to overcome them. Thank a lot ma'm.
@anurangacse6 жыл бұрын
Really important facts. big thank !
@amansaxena84256 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much ma'am ,have a great day and all the best ❤👌😊
@Vishal-is8jq6 жыл бұрын
1 year after i have changed so much hoooo thanks
@Imagoodplayer5 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much for this wonderful video. I am very shy person and my personality is worst that's why people hated me. now i know what to do now. You really helped me a lot thank you very much :)
@anumpathak7 жыл бұрын
very good points. I will definitely work on make a list step. Thanks a lot. :)
@shahidkhanpathanshahidkhan13647 жыл бұрын
I am from Pakistan Peshawar, I watch your video regularly. it's really a source of learning english and I also suggest it to my friends. please do more and more but don't stop it's release in Pakistan please please. till now non of my comments is published in the public comments. please publishe my comments.
@anoushkabundhoo91606 жыл бұрын
Hello ma'am.. am so happy to have found a teacher like youu.. thanks a lot for ur precious tips
@sheejaabraham55946 жыл бұрын
Wonder flow and really attractive way of talking...and ur voice too....really blessed
@sheilakijawani25263 жыл бұрын
just be confident. its that simple
@kavyakamal35427 жыл бұрын
I'm such an introvert and this shyness is something which I wanna get rid off from
@aabbc93933 ай бұрын
Actually I was'nt shy I was the most u can say attention seeker ,did at all care about others opinion ,high self esteem , I loved being myself ,even entertained my friends ..but slowly after being in competitive exams and all these academic things i have developed loneliness and started overthinking, self doubt , not talking shy . So this is very boring life for me I don't want to remain the same ,sometimes becoming anxious , depressed and face a big problem to be confident .pls help me out
@kushalsb4605 жыл бұрын
To overcome shyness, become savage and destroy anyone who challanges you, you will become king and every one will fear amd respect you.
@AyeshaKhan-by1qm7 жыл бұрын
things which makes me shy and nervous : 1. talking to teacher. 2. talking to strangers. 3. to give a speech.
@arshadsyed66286 жыл бұрын
Ayesha Khan but not talking to me so make a start...lol
@udoy66635 жыл бұрын
maam you're so beautiful. whenever i see you my heart blows on. AND every weakness flys away.
@dipanwitaroy86905 жыл бұрын
U r so far the best mentor in Skillopedia 💞
@gowthamtechy947 жыл бұрын
i love that the way you are talking I promise you I slowly practise thaaaaank yooooou sooo much love you mate...
@satyachaodhary7 жыл бұрын
You are doing million dollar work.
@abdurraheemibraheem24397 жыл бұрын
Reema! I think boldness and confidence comes from good character and good thinking about benefits of people.
@mohammedanowar6237 жыл бұрын
Really Love this one. keep up Good Job well Done...
@TamilSelvi-qc3px3 жыл бұрын
🌺 You're probbaly a Goddess of words and communications 🌺
@muharshigahganeshalingam52887 жыл бұрын
First I say you thank you. I try from this minute .
@skbiswasjoy7 жыл бұрын
i am so grateful to this channel.bcoz it helps me to learn english and speak english well.. thanx to rima mam and niharika mam
@DeeLegend273 жыл бұрын
What does accept yourself mean? What does the have to do with not being shy and stuff
@michellereed4795 жыл бұрын
I love your presentations. I have learned some very valuable information from you. Thank you so much 🤗
@anuradhamd2636 жыл бұрын
She has a sweet and pleasant voice.....
@sreevedhansh_sign_boards7 жыл бұрын
Your channel is very good, always you are boosting with educational videos thankq...!
@sathyapriyarengasamy49777 жыл бұрын
Hello ma'am! Really loved the way u speak ..there's a thing that makes me listen to u and also gives a sense of assurance from u! Keep inspiring ppl!!
@deepikamaheshwari71794 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for such a wonderful video I think that now I can overcome my shyness from all of the points you mention in this video... 🤗
@GetFitWithManny5 жыл бұрын
Feels Positive vibes around her !!
@rashminegi79486 жыл бұрын
It was really helpful.. thank you ma'm.. loved ur way of speaking 😍
@moonsajjadmoon7 жыл бұрын
Im introvert, I'll try it.
@genieusin7 жыл бұрын
thanks for support skillopedia.. u just got new subscriber
@ejanegutierrez59807 жыл бұрын
you really hit it ✅✅✅💢💢💢...I love how u explain it. ,,It really inspire me to overcome my shyness and to become the new me 👍👍👍💗💗💗👌👌great video😊😊
@shivlanishukla60604 жыл бұрын
Your way of speaking is so good!!!!
@devansri99023 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this motivating and beautiful video:)
@sakshibhalothia627 жыл бұрын
this video of yours is actually amazing. I have tried following this and gained some positivity that i can overcome my shyness. So, thanks a lot for such kind of videos.
@vemulasaikrishna38385 жыл бұрын
I'm inspired a lot with your videos and learned a lot and by watching your videos and certainly I changed lot in my self. and thank you so much.
@ZestofMusic7 жыл бұрын
Thanks...you so much life changing video.
@kgs18786 жыл бұрын
Thank you skillopedia
@gauravdesk6 жыл бұрын
No one is for a reason on the earth, Sadhguru 🙏.
@stevenchunng7 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this helpful video, especially for a person who is easily getting nervous and shy when talking with strangers like me.
@NeerajKumar-fe6xh7 жыл бұрын
Reema mam, you are a great I can't express that what I feel and I really sure about that your effort will finish the shyness disease.