How to overcome shyness and increase confidence - Skillopedia - Personality Development

[@MakaylaIson]

I'm shy and I hate it. I don't know how to stop it.

[@user-wv9mc6my7b]

Makayla Ison my friend I don't think that you are shy person because you accept it & you are already started take steps towards bold & confidant you even post your picture that positive sign my suggestion is to make good & positive friends in your life🙂

[@user-wv9mc6my7b]

& friend you know what about me I'm so confusing many times...sometime I don't know what to do🤔

[@Kay-sp1db]

* Sarang* i am very shy when I go to soccer trials and I feel very shy and embarrassed sometimes I need to speak more and get my self out there

[@youare2539]

Makayla Ison same here..sometimes I keep hiding or my face look down..

[@jahanzaibshahid07]

im also

[@AlexandraStarr1974]

When i first started making youtube videos i was incredibly shy, and my early videos were terrible, i hid behind a microphone all the while and i did not feel confident at all, but then i accepted who i was (i am transgender), once i did this, my confidence went through the roof, my shyness almost vanished over night, and i went from making very random videos to actually filming myself doing the thing i love the most, photography! My posture also changed, i went from an awkward looking stance to one of supreme confidence, head held high and speaking as clearly as i can (i have a cleft pallet which has given me a speech impediment). I only have like 300 subscribers but to me, that does not matter, i am not making videos for other people really, i do it for my own pleasure, and i will continue to do so even if my subscriber count goes down to just one sub! For me, making videos really helped my journey, but accepting who i am was really the one aspect that propelled my confidence to new found levels. I am not perfect, but i am me, and i am the only me there is, we are all unique and special no matter who or what we are.

[@ShammasTk]

Alexandra Starr photography e

[@aailakhan7173]

I've been researching reducing shyness quickly and discovered a great website at Sartar shy method (google it if you are interested)

[@jasmingurung6908]

I'm very shy and I don't like it when I'm in front of crowd I use to forget all and suddenly laugh 😁 comes

[@jaymahakal5082]

so can we become freinds

[@ashwathm437]

My problem is in fight I can't speak at all

[@abideenmaryamfolashade8107]

Same thing as me ooo

[@shubham_M7777]

Same here, I have insecurity of looks

[@lingeshvasudevan9760]

Myself I sweat

[@nikmalvazery7525]

I am very shyness person unfortunatly I lost many chances in my life now review my past life all these efficts come from my past lief.

[@heavydutyloader]

One little detail about comfort soze. Many will tell you to get out of your comfort soze, but that might be a bad idea. Better is to explore the borders of comfort zone and while feeling confident try to expand your comfort zone a bit. Take it step by step. Be happy for every small progression you make and don't expect miracles. Avoid fear, because the meaning of fear is to teach you what to avoid. This fear mechanism runs very deep in every living creature and cannot be changed. BUT you may be able to change what causes your fear, be slowly, and step by step convincing yourself that it is safe. Imagine a cat being afraid of some toy, but after exploring it for awhile the cat decides it's not dangours. The cat needs to take the time it needs to explore, it cannot happend any faster.

[@scorpionseal8609]

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[@stacielivinthedream8510]

Shyness is an issue if believing others are better than you! I suffer from this at times and it's unnecessary as nobody is better than others! You are worthy! You are special! You are love! Believe in yourself! Do NOT compare yourself with others! Compare yourself with who you were yesterday! You are loved! Look to the people who are kind and compassionate! Love yourself because you are perfect as you are!

[@sadaafatima]

Nobody's perfect. We are just striving to be better so let's value ourselves as we are and improve what we can and wish to do in our personality because it'll make us happier.

[@mamtanegi9696]

When I am watching you I cannot change my eyes because you makes people attentive with your way to speaking.

[@jilliancamaro4320]

Thank you, I'm very shy and really will to overcome with it.

[@najibcasa2745]

I've been researching top natural cure for shyness and found a fantastic website at Sartar Shy Method (google it if you're interested)

[@daisynthy310]

I am also a very shy guy struggling with the same problem,sometimes i can't even imagine why this happened to me and there are times i even shed tears when i couldn't do certain things.i was just doing the opposite of what you mentioned in your videos like putting myself down,compared myself with others etc..i find some of my friends doing well with their shyness without much effort but to me that never happened i just thought to myself that this is what i was born with and to make a difference this seems hard. Thanks for your video

[@jagdishization]

no one talk about this problems?even I am also facing this problems but I don't know how to overcome from this.its totally related to me,and I like the way you present this video its helpful to understand deeply. thank u so much!!!

[@higherboom631]

App ne meri man ki bat sheen li app sabse bdhiya chez bta rhe ho jo kamyabi ka phla kadam hai.....

[@gauravghosh5102]

I just love to start my day with these vids of Skillopedia... It brings some sort of positive energy and feel-good factor within me that sustain throughout the ups and downs of the day. Thnxx for being so helpful and supportive.

[@splendidspokenenglish2430]

Thanks a lot ma'am I am also shy person but I committed to myself that I will definitely overcome from my shyness to shine over the world 🤠😎

[@Satyasp]

this video is for introverts too..😉

[@mirasacallixte9212]

ahhh u're telling the truth bro

[@catherinejohn4674]

Yes

[@Navneet07860]

To a certain point but shyness and introversiin are completely different sides of a coin.

[@HBSugar1106]

Love these videos I swear you don't realize you need something sometimes until you have gone through some big experiences in your career and job. I have been through some things in the past and hearing the advice you all mentioned for the workplace is very helpful. Oftentimes were so happy to be employed and working we forget to raise our voice or be assertive in situations too. These video should be played everywhere. These should be played in college classes undergraduate and graduate for all students these are essential no one prepares you for real life in the job once you get out there and experience it. It's nice to have these tools when things may be going off track at work or in the workplace with large groups.

[@limitbreak1717]

Dont be shy chin up and dont overthink just think in a positive way and always be brave and always be happy and be kind😊😉👌

[@sampatpratap3083]

Hey Reema madam🙏... I am glad to watch your video for the very first time. I love the way you speak. I found some new usages in your content like snap out, ways and means, etc. I am looking forward to your upcoming videos. Loads of respect...👏👌💖

[@TB-lq7sm]

I cannot believe how many people are struggling with this, I always feel so alone...

[@khansaib1373]

U know Ma'am ...my biggest problem is ' I cant accept my self' and i am sure soon it will destroy me...

[@trishadutta5546]

Ayan khan u r already there. U know that one day u will die because of this. So why not save yourself? ☺☺ Treat yourself as a human being. Respect yourself. Most importantly respect others eventually u will get respect in return. Stay happy 😃😃

[@omkarbuddhe1783]

Ayan khan i too m in kind of similar condition

[@feronia249]

Exactly. This....

[@idontknow6954]

Now how is it going?? Felt glad to see this reply after 3 years 🧐

[@khansaib1373]

@@idontknow6954 honestly i am totally changed now ...when i think about my past 3 years before i laugh soo much ...and think that how silly and foolish i was at that time ,,

[@narisalih3691]

I find this video on recommended it's really like a booster thank you for your video ..I have to host my school assembly on coming week I am so nervous and started to thinking how to take leave on that day....but really your video motivated me a lot I'll gonna do that as my first task .....thank you so much for your video ....hope I'll host that programming successfully😑😑

[@rajandeepkaur5634]

i have seen a lots of videos like this . but This is the best , best of all !!!

[@aneeshvora4287]

Rajandeep Kaur 👍

[@MK-mr4jq]

how effective was this vedio session to me i jst cant express it in words after watching it i already started feeling how special i am n my strengths are now m gonna remember your points whenever i feel uncomformatable n to deal with some hesitation kind of situations this is somehow added to my fav vedio love it

[@marysarhoch8456]

Heye Reema, How sweet you speak 👌💖 I love your speaking way ❤❤❤❤

[@BB-nl9gw]

MAM plz read it seriously after listen u i really want to apply all the skills .....mam m so shy person and every body lectured me to come over my shyness also my family members mam ...whenever i met with any stranger or go to outside i feel uncomfrtbl soo after watching u i tried ...also u soo sweet

[@Adamughal867]

Talking in a way that shines out the simplicity and spontaneousness in a unique lovely way. I really like this KZbin channel!

[@09nehakhanam21]

ur voice is sweet as sugar. really loved the way u speaked. nd it was a good speech..

[@elizabethpatterson3982]

So much on this channel has really helped me. Thinking. Thank you! You are so awesome!

[@diannerussell4849]

Great videos, the advice on each one is good and simple to put into practice. The presentation. Is good and the presenter has a great persona. I highly recommend these videos.💎

[@busiswasidindi8420]

i know i am a shy girl but many people who know me wish i was,loool that's what they said and my family know me as a shy girl.I don't like talking at home because i feel uncomfortable around my own family but when i with friends and strangers i feel so special and blessed its just that my mom and my siblings makes me feel like i am an idiot,they don't understand who i am it's only the people i meet outside makes me feel like a human being if you know what i mean..........

[@emmanuelnyarko8815]

Yeah just like me 😐

[@nelanginamauneuma1076]

Busiswa Sidindi same with me 😣😣

[@shrutipatekar4062]

Same with me😭My family thinks I'm an idiot and I'm ruining my future by my shyness😔

[@poonamkalra9942]

hii rima ma'am..I really like your way of speaking 😍😘 ..plz do make a video on speaking way specially like yours..

[@skillopedia]

poonam K Sure will incorporate in the future sessions

[@VikramVikram-zf3kv]

definitely I will take use of this mam..

[@shashankminda1171]

Skillopedia - Skills for the real world the only reason to watch this video full the gorgeous girl in the video in love with her

[@jeebankumardash8119]

good....teacher

[@abubakarqureshi6821]

spoken

[@chitr]

I am working on my posture....when I am met with something unexpected...I get super nervous and have more hand movements, my voice sounds shaken.....but have improved a lot over 2-3 months...

[@monisham1543]

even I have the same issue... my voice is the major thing which shows everyone that am very nervous.how did u overcome?

[@youare2539]

Monisha M same here especially when the first meeting..my voice like shaken and sounds very weird but I keep talking myself infront of the mirror 😂

[@user-lz7mw8ce8e]

Just paused after 2:30 min and went uncontrolled from commenting here ..Reema ,sorry to calling you by your name w/o ji,mam,etc.. but you are simply awesome and extremely pleasant personality..I love the way you speak confidently..you are speaking as if you are preaching a spiritual talk..you seem to be noon for a while because the listening you gives you bliss..you are great..now wordless..love you *infinity..

[@vijayalaxmibirajdar1611]

Just what I needed to hear! thank you ma'am. I always find your videos helpful.

[@dikshakumari4948]

I’m shy but now I start loving myself Few months ago I always think to end my life Now I cherish my life I m having a major set back now but I’m fighting and shockingly it’s MAking me stronger ......

[@NaseerKhuhro]

Accept yourself, nice idea

[@NareshJain18033]

Hi my name is Pooja and I am also shyfull nature girl but reema u give me solution of my problem so, thank you so much. Keep it up.

[@stephanyo5196]

Hi Rima, I appreciate you sharing skills for the real world, very practical. Thank you and keep up the great work...

[@UncleofGeorge]

I really love the way you present yourself in helping others get motivated.Keep up the good work.God bless you dear Sister.

[@MEGITTLINEFELCIBAMARSALINE]

1. Accept yourself 2. Find your front row 3. Stop the comparison game 4. Get out of your shell 5. Perfect your posture 6. Don't give up 7. Make a list of things that make you shy and work on them

[@chandrabhushan7010]

I’m very shy person but now I’m working on it and this video helpful to overcome my shyness

[@TigerMeow-zg3nf]

I am very sure that you have also gone through shyness, I said it because only shy person knows very well the way he/she feels uncomfortable. The ways you have explained me are perfectly right, those are the symptoms of shyness and treatment of shyness. Believe me mam, i became a big fan of you. I am very shy, I am not just shy, I have been suffering from social anxiety disorder. But I am not afraid of it, because I know that being shy is not something crime. Yes it is uncomfortable, but believe me, most of the great people are shy

[@modernmom3406]

Luv u sister... This points will make me a good confident person.... Thank u so much for ur video.... First time i m watching ur video.... I subscrbd it... And i will be watching from now...

[@mr.blemish9490]

for the first time I just felt shy when I am watching u more than u r video....!!!

[@debasisnayak675]

Sounds really good let's see if I can implement these things in my life thank you so much for the tips

[@priymnu5395]

I am also shy guy.and I hate this.It often makes me depressed.😢😢

[@satnamkaur4115]

manu priya me tooo yrr literally sometimes wants to die ,want to do lot of things but this fucking shyness...

[@satnamkaur4115]

manu priya me tooo yrr literally sometimes wants to die ,want to do lot of things but this fucking shyness... mini

[@lindaaprilia7095]

manu priya same with me,..Iam depressed and hate it, but know nothing to overcome

[@axmedkhalid471]

manu priya can you contact me I want to be your friend because I'm shy just like u reply me thanks

[@Fari1517]

I too have shyness I hate so much 😢

[@endeavourinme8783]

How beautiful & meaningful....😍😍

[@HiAnjaniii]

Loved the last line unleash your true self where lies a great personality!!! :)

[@monicaroberts9536]

I love this channel !

[@nasirdu5022]

monica roberts I 'm also dear.....!

[@andrewnunez4176]

hey ,if anyone else wants to uncover best books for getting over shyness try Skyarza Stop Shyness Star ( search on google ) ? Ive heard some interesting things about it and my co-worker got amazing results with it.

[@omarrangel7625]

interesting points ,if anyone else wants to learn about best ways to overcome shyness try Wiltapar Simple Shyness Secrets (do a google search ) ? Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my brother in law got amazing results with it.

[@soumyakmohanty701]

here's a few ideas worth trying Find the reasons why you suffer from shyness - the first step to solving an issue is to understand why it is there. Be comfortable with yourself - this makes it less difficult when you are with others. Challenge youself - you will become more confident by doing things - especially by doing activities that stretch your boundaries. (I discovered these and more ideas on Sebs Shy Remedy website )

[@nidhishrestha271]

+monica roberts I've been investigating treating shyness naturally and found an awesome resource at Seans Shy Program (check it out on google)

[@shiva92631]

reema u have done a excellent job by making this video for my kind of boys. i highly appreciate u and keep doing such wonderful things for us. i always desperately wait for lets talk and skillopedia videos and i have learnt a lot. keep doing such enthusiastic and curious and motivating videos. all of u r doing a splendid job. keep teaching us. and please do something that we always want to be curious about whats new will come next. thank u.... so much..... u and your team of course...👍👍👌👌💐

[@itsakuholic]

I too m a shy girl.. 😒 n m doing business adm. course which includes giving a no of presentations 😂 n which needs leaving ur shyness behind n communicating WD diff ppl... d only 1 thing which makes me confident is that I assume that d audience sitting in front of me knws nothing.. even if I go wrong smwhere they wont even notice.. n uh know what.. it works 😃 well dere r tyms when some ppl notice my mistakes n correct me in btwn d presentation . n den I tell to myself.. I don't know dis prsn .. after few days dis prsn too will forget me.. I behave casually.. I say - "wait what . oops m so sry 😃 ... ya as my frnd said..." n den I correct my mistake ... n move ahead lyk a boss 😁 efficiently bold 😉✌ .. bt yes from now onwards I too m gonna try out dese steps 😊 ... coz my ways gvs me temporary solution... may b these tips will hlp me to ovcm my shyness completely.. ☺ thankiiiieeeeeeee 😘👍

[@skillopedia]

That's a good thought, but if someone corrects you and you are gonna ignore them, I am afraid that might kill your repeat value and show you in bad light. I would suggest you should avoid that.

[@sabultapulta3144]

Akanksha Ranjan hello, how r u? if u want a partner for sopken english. Please feel free to connect with me. As I am also looking for the same. my communication is fine but I need more improvement. connect on my whatsaap if u don't mind. 9045914862

[@itsakuholic]

I agree WD uh #skillopedia ... m trying to take down ur steps in my presentation to ovrcm shyness 😀

[@itsakuholic]

m sry Faisal I actually don't need :) thanx fr asking ☺

[@sabultapulta3144]

Akanksha Ranjan anyway dear. best of luck🖒 hope you may overcome on shyness and be a fluent and eloquent speaker😊

[@shruti8139]

Doesn't seem like you were a shy person. Thankyou for such a wonderful video. Really helpful! :)

[@gurrpreetmiglani415]

nice vedio n helpful too....I always feel shy from inside but my family tell me that I am a bold woman...at my work place i feel shy there is one thing in my mind that I did my studies from home n I did not go to any college and university n while talking to people I feel they are more intelligent and they have seen the world....this thing stops me to express myself

[@Navneet07860]

Good gestures described ma'am. Thank you

[@sweettoothmarie7304]

You are who you are!

[@dataisfun4964]

It's hard admitting this but I just discovered how timid I can be most especially with people I rearly know

[@sankariraj2481]

Thanks for giving positive words

[@ranganathprahlad]

Every information your channel provides us is really helpful for me, it's because you explain it very well so that we can understand ourself what we are and where we are making mistakes and how to overcome them. Thank a lot ma'm.

[@anurangacse]

Really important facts. big thank !

[@amansaxena8425]

Thank you so much ma'am ,have a great day and all the best ❤👌😊

[@Vishal-is8jq]

1 year after i have changed so much hoooo thanks

[@Imagoodplayer]

Thank you very much for this wonderful video. I am very shy person and my personality is worst that's why people hated me. now i know what to do now. You really helped me a lot thank you very much :)

[@anumpathak]

very good points. I will definitely work on make a list step. Thanks a lot. :)

[@shahidkhanpathanshahidkhan1364]

I am from Pakistan Peshawar, I watch your video regularly. it's really a source of learning english and I also suggest it to my friends. please do more and more but don't stop it's release in Pakistan please please. till now non of my comments is published in the public comments. please publishe my comments.

[@anoushkabundhoo9160]

Hello ma'am.. am so happy to have found a teacher like youu.. thanks a lot for ur precious tips

[@sheejaabraham5594]

Wonder flow and really attractive way of talking...and ur voice too....really blessed

[@sheilakijawani2526]

just be confident. its that simple

[@kavyakamal3542]

I'm such an introvert and this shyness is something which I wanna get rid off from

[@aabbc9393]

Actually I was'nt shy I was the most u can say attention seeker ,did at all care about others opinion ,high self esteem , I loved being myself ,even entertained my friends ..but slowly after being in competitive exams and all these academic things i have developed loneliness and started overthinking, self doubt , not talking shy . So this is very boring life for me I don't want to remain the same ,sometimes becoming anxious , depressed and face a big problem to be confident .pls help me out

[@kushalsb460]

To overcome shyness, become savage and destroy anyone who challanges you, you will become king and every one will fear amd respect you.

[@AyeshaKhan-by1qm]

things which makes me shy and nervous : 1. talking to teacher. 2. talking to strangers. 3. to give a speech.

[@arshadsyed6628]

Ayesha Khan but not talking to me so make a start...lol

[@udoy6663]

maam you're so beautiful. whenever i see you my heart blows on. AND every weakness flys away.

[@dipanwitaroy8690]

U r so far the best mentor in Skillopedia 💞

[@gowthamtechy94]

i love that the way you are talking I promise you I slowly practise thaaaaank yooooou sooo much love you mate...

[@satyachaodhary]

You are doing million dollar work.

[@abdurraheemibraheem2439]

Reema! I think boldness and confidence comes from good character and good thinking about benefits of people.

[@mohammedanowar623]

Really Love this one. keep up Good Job well Done...

[@TamilSelvi-qc3px]

🌺 You're probbaly a Goddess of words and communications 🌺

[@muharshigahganeshalingam5288]

First I say you thank you. I try from this minute .

[@skbiswasjoy]

i am so grateful to this channel.bcoz it helps me to learn english and speak english well.. thanx to rima mam and niharika mam

[@DeeLegend27]

What does accept yourself mean? What does the have to do with not being shy and stuff

[@michellereed479]

I love your presentations. I have learned some very valuable information from you. Thank you so much 🤗

[@anuradhamd263]

She has a sweet and pleasant voice.....

[@sreevedhansh_sign_boards]

Your channel is very good, always you are boosting with educational videos thankq...!

[@sathyapriyarengasamy4977]

Hello ma'am! Really loved the way u speak ..there's a thing that makes me listen to u and also gives a sense of assurance from u! Keep inspiring ppl!!

[@deepikamaheshwari7179]

Thank you so much for such a wonderful video I think that now I can overcome my shyness from all of the points you mention in this video... 🤗

[@GetFitWithManny]

Feels Positive vibes around her !!

[@rashminegi7948]

It was really helpful.. thank you ma'm.. loved ur way of speaking 😍

[@moonsajjadmoon]

Im introvert, I'll try it.

[@genieusin]

thanks for support skillopedia.. u just got new subscriber

[@ejanegutierrez5980]

you really hit it ✅✅✅💢💢💢...I love how u explain it. ,,It really inspire me to overcome my shyness and to become the new me 👍👍👍💗💗💗👌👌great video😊😊

[@shivlanishukla6060]

Your way of speaking is so good!!!!

[@devansri9902]

Thank you for this motivating and beautiful video:)

[@sakshibhalothia62]

this video of yours is actually amazing. I have tried following this and gained some positivity that i can overcome my shyness. So, thanks a lot for such kind of videos.

[@vemulasaikrishna3838]

I'm inspired a lot with your videos and learned a lot and by watching your videos and certainly I changed lot in my self. and thank you so much.

[@ZestofMusic]

Thanks...you so much life changing video.

[@kgs1878]

Thank you skillopedia

[@gauravdesk]

No one is for a reason on the earth, Sadhguru 🙏.

[@stevenchunng]

Thank you so much for this helpful video, especially for a person who is easily getting nervous and shy when talking with strangers like me.

[@NeerajKumar-fe6xh]

Reema mam, you are a great I can't express that what I feel and I really sure about that your effort will finish the shyness disease.