How To Properly Ignore A Guy So He Chases YOU And Wants Your Babies!

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Elliot Scott

Elliot Scott

Күн бұрын

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@lilis.9355
@lilis.9355 5 жыл бұрын
Men ignore women to keep them hooked. But when a woman reaches the point where she ignores a man, she's already done with him.
@davinaajuwa6475
@davinaajuwa6475 5 жыл бұрын
True
@lashellanderson7773
@lashellanderson7773 5 жыл бұрын
I'm at this point now even when I apologized for what I did for 3 days straight . I just gave up period no more helping anyone .
@bblock4266
@bblock4266 4 жыл бұрын
very true 👏👏👏👏
@sfab5039
@sfab5039 4 жыл бұрын
Facts
@4.4444or
@4.4444or 4 жыл бұрын
Soo true
@NevenShtaya
@NevenShtaya 5 жыл бұрын
I think ignoring work all the time . especially when a women show a man she don't care that drive him crazy . happy valentine to you
@shedagirl1726
@shedagirl1726 5 жыл бұрын
I agree!!
@goingaboutmyfathersbusines4359
@goingaboutmyfathersbusines4359 5 жыл бұрын
Agree 100 %
@logicrealty9086
@logicrealty9086 5 жыл бұрын
lol yup
@ariesariesfearless4810
@ariesariesfearless4810 5 жыл бұрын
It will works if he dont have rebound lol
@SandraLopez-vk6pw
@SandraLopez-vk6pw 5 жыл бұрын
Girl it works! Just happened to me today, I ignored him for 5 days not texting and he shows up at my job today. We have to show them we mean business and they are not the center of our plans.
@beaustisings101b5
@beaustisings101b5 4 жыл бұрын
When he becomes too familiar..I always say. GET MISSING!! Get Busy!! Even if youre doing your nails!!
@beaustisings101b5
@beaustisings101b5 4 жыл бұрын
@TR3WAY RED PILL GANG Naw baby! Telling a woman not to be needy and have her own life and interests isn’t gonna keep her single. It keeps her busy worrying about herself instead of him. Self love over everything. Im sorry you cant appreciate that because you probably live in your emotions and trauma, instead of choosing to be healed and whole. Thank you so much for trolling my comment. Im flattered. 😘😘😘
@vixenxiiiv
@vixenxiiiv 4 жыл бұрын
@@beaustisings101b5 haha great response
@yummyness7578
@yummyness7578 3 жыл бұрын
When a guy get to be to familiar, this scares me. Because mean I am gonna switch my crazy me on ( checking how long it takes him to write back, and be a freak). And what I normally do when this is close to happen I become a cold bitch earlier on Hahahah which is wrong
@vixenxiiiv
@vixenxiiiv 3 жыл бұрын
@@yummyness7578 hahhaha I’m the exact same way
@trizgarcia5821
@trizgarcia5821 3 жыл бұрын
This is so true!
@judithtovaasmr9681
@judithtovaasmr9681 5 жыл бұрын
“If you’re watching this you’re probably not having a good day” I’m actually having a great day, I just like watching your videos hehehe
@starblossom1370
@starblossom1370 5 жыл бұрын
I was about to comment, I don't have man problems... I just store info in my mind for when I need it!! Prevention is the best cure!!!
@judithtovaasmr9681
@judithtovaasmr9681 5 жыл бұрын
Mz. Trish lol that’s literally what I do too hahaha
@judithtovaasmr9681
@judithtovaasmr9681 5 жыл бұрын
kylie Williams you’re right I paraphrased a little bit 😂😂
@faisamohamud9239
@faisamohamud9239 5 жыл бұрын
Lol
@Mmmmkaaay
@Mmmmkaaay 5 жыл бұрын
"Make him work for it." Bingo! Be sweet. Be unavailable sometimes. If you lean in too much out of enthusiasm, pull yourself back pronto so he needs to lean in to stay engaged. I never EVER text first until it is a committed relationship.
@kugelblitz65
@kugelblitz65 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the tip 😊
@stefanieleavitt5224
@stefanieleavitt5224 3 жыл бұрын
Same for me. Felt like a relationship but got ghosted with no word except for he wasn't ghosting and that was a month ago. Ha I tried to check in cause I thought something happened, found out he was indeed ignoring, so I called him out then he blocked.
@iiiiknow5270
@iiiiknow5270 2 ай бұрын
I have to learn a lot
@matrescence_motherhood
@matrescence_motherhood 3 жыл бұрын
I am warm with a man in his presence, but detached unless he is moving toward me. I am at the gym, I’m painting my nails, I’m brushing my hair, I’m laying on the floor starting at the ceiling daydreaming. I’m busy, lol. And even now when he’s moving toward me I just sort of laugh and ignore it until I feel like it. The effort most men put in is quite sub par, im done rewarding it, when a man puts in quality I reward it with warmth, gratitude, and time with him, but only equal or less than what he gives. The man should give, the woman should receive and give of feminine energy to him, in her praise of worthy behavior toward her. I learned that love and trust is earned by a man, not given, except in equal measure to what he first gives. Men give willingly if they want to. And many men are predators and manipulators. Feeling good in the beginning means nothing, love is built over time, slowly - it’s good to look at his actions and character logically, rather than sweep you off your feel and into the dust bin.
@aaleyah5380
@aaleyah5380 4 ай бұрын
Indeed❤
@maia594
@maia594 4 жыл бұрын
His response time was shitty. So I just decided to leave him on read. I’m not an option 🤷🏻‍♀️
@vondamone9402
@vondamone9402 3 жыл бұрын
I do that too. It works....
@dr.jenniferma3914
@dr.jenniferma3914 Жыл бұрын
If it's more than a certain amount of time, I consider it a ghost and move on. If they're careless about the fact that I'm moving on, then they don't deserve to stay in my sphere of influence.
@m.h.1593
@m.h.1593 5 жыл бұрын
I think I really need to move on from this guy. He’s driving me crazy. I become this needy and clingy person (although I don’t show it) as soon as I get a reply from him. The minute he pulls away a million different thoughts run through my mind, and I think the worst of everything, and I hate him and yet I “love” him. I tired of this. I think, yea, I’ll just stop chasing no matter what and give up on him altogether. It hurts too much. But happy Valentine’s day everyone lol I’m still happily single. Just keep that guy away from me😂
@jenniferwilliams8996
@jenniferwilliams8996 5 жыл бұрын
M. H. U are not alone 😩😁
@shedagirl1726
@shedagirl1726 5 жыл бұрын
Just be done....u making it harder on yourself...show him you are the PRIZE!
@sharontompao214
@sharontompao214 5 жыл бұрын
I chuckled cause you're seriously not alone on that thought. All the replies here are GOLD. I totally feel ya on not coming across as clingy or needy but for some reason cause we compromise with them they think we want them more. I do it all the time with this person that I was seeing but he takes it for granted.
@shedagirl1726
@shedagirl1726 5 жыл бұрын
@@sharontompao214 yes ive done it too! So then we gotta show em dont take my love 4 granted because i LOVE ME MORE!! And will be DONE with yo azz
@caroh2809
@caroh2809 5 жыл бұрын
M. H. So not alone. So sick of the cat and mouse shit. I hate games. Why can’t we just be grown ups and enjoy each other??
@Boyce6-t
@Boyce6-t 5 жыл бұрын
Guys go so fast in the beginning 🙄 well not all of them but a lot of them do. Ladies just be chill and have no expectations! Go with the flow
@martiluvx
@martiluvx 5 жыл бұрын
Joyce Hookimaw Yes they move fast and then lost interest just as quickly.
@patriciaearley4177
@patriciaearley4177 5 жыл бұрын
They're just looking for sex more often then not
@margaritam.9118
@margaritam.9118 5 жыл бұрын
I cannot have no expectations for a person that goes inside me, sorry.
@missmargmillionaire6421
@missmargmillionaire6421 4 жыл бұрын
@@margaritam.9118 So stop lettin him in the beginning
@queenofallusa5391
@queenofallusa5391 3 жыл бұрын
@@martiluvx ❤️
@nathaliaporras3553
@nathaliaporras3553 5 жыл бұрын
This is too much work 😂 when I met my boyfriend I told him I loved him after 2 weeks and I scared him half to death. I acted like a complete stage 5 clinger. Lol he still stuck around though. If he likes you he likes you 🤷🏻‍♀️ just be yourself. Most importantly learn to choose men that are emotionally stable when it comes to relationships. set your boundaries from the beginning.
@8888-y8h
@8888-y8h 4 жыл бұрын
I bet your drop dead gorgeous though, as for us basic looking ones, the guy will run lol
@BlackNella
@BlackNella 4 жыл бұрын
CRS 777 888 😂😂😂
@iwonderwhatmydognamedme4000
@iwonderwhatmydognamedme4000 Жыл бұрын
@@8888-y8h nope I’m a very pretty girl (Ik this and been told my entire life all the time) and looks don’t matter! At the end of the day men love to chase and once they got you it’s no fun if you make it easy. It’s rare to find men like what she’s describing ^ but most men are like what I described even if your a 10/10 with the perfect body
@margaritam.9118
@margaritam.9118 5 жыл бұрын
Having someone easily is like buying a cool thing at the big-ass discount. You always end up using it uncarefully, breaking it quickly and throwing it away.
@ElliotScottDating
@ElliotScottDating 5 жыл бұрын
yesss exactly
@ib8774
@ib8774 5 жыл бұрын
“And wants your babies” 👶 🍼🤣
@funnygirlever
@funnygirlever 5 жыл бұрын
I didn't read the last of it. Reading the comments like what did I miss?! lol
@monicaaustin2711
@monicaaustin2711 5 жыл бұрын
“If you’re watching this you’re probably single” 😂😂😂 You are so smart!
@pinkypie445
@pinkypie445 5 жыл бұрын
I'm So done chasing men....
@nabilananou5764
@nabilananou5764 5 жыл бұрын
The problem is that when u ignore him he chases you , but once u show him that u care he walks again it’s like a cat mouse game I hate it I did it several times but nothing changed for good or for a while at least
@ES-aussie68
@ES-aussie68 4 жыл бұрын
I do stage 5 clingy to get rid of the losers fast, works everytime.
@carolinenorman6141
@carolinenorman6141 3 жыл бұрын
Lol
@seattleraisedme
@seattleraisedme 3 жыл бұрын
😂
@belladamma2345
@belladamma2345 Жыл бұрын
😂😂
@thequeenofwitches7943
@thequeenofwitches7943 13 күн бұрын
😂 I love it
@marygoodman9530
@marygoodman9530 5 жыл бұрын
playing love games is not my style, egos involved is not very good, all about being real upfront and true
@ebonyeyed08ti
@ebonyeyed08ti 5 жыл бұрын
Mary Goodman that's totally me, I can't get with that behavior especially with my love life , I don't have time for games, the thing with him is that he doesn't like being ignored, but finds it OK to do me that way, I'm done, time to move on the roll coaster ride has come to an end
@lisasunshine7654
@lisasunshine7654 5 жыл бұрын
So I’ve been out of the dating circles a long ass time. This whole rushing-in-love-bombing-crap is horrible. Texting or messaging is the tool they use to hook and abuse you. The constant attention and resulting dopamine hits create false intimacy. I like how Elliot used the two tools to combat this: create gaps in the conversation (be reasonably unavailable essentially) and/or create rain checks (delay scheduling). This is what we need to hear in relationship coaching. Real tools to practice with the advice. Thanks!
@RubyCoughDrop
@RubyCoughDrop 5 жыл бұрын
The guy usually goes 0 to 100 in the beginning--thank you!
@stefincanada
@stefincanada 2 жыл бұрын
I get tired just thinking about how to figure this out.
@cookiethomas8069
@cookiethomas8069 Жыл бұрын
You can't make anyone chase you, like you nor love you.. Be yourself and move accordingly
@starblossom1370
@starblossom1370 5 жыл бұрын
I don't have any man problems now, Thank goodness! I just enjoy watching your videos... & store the information for when I need it! When I do get a guy I'll be ready! Prevention is the best cure!!
@jennmerkabah2757
@jennmerkabah2757 5 жыл бұрын
'See, I know your techniques ladies'! 👌
@gersimone1962
@gersimone1962 4 жыл бұрын
Nothing to do with ego Elliot, the guy I was dating flaked on me for the last time. I explained to him (politely) I realised he was too busy and told him we should leave it at that. Since then, he has text me every day, one good morning text every morning, I do not see the point in engaging in acknowledging his text as he brought us to where we are now, he invested very little in our connection I have to say. I had no choice but to ignore as I am not a priority in his world, as it stands right now. He had plenty chances! Such a shame as we had a brilliant connection from day one. Thanks for the advice, love your channel ✌🏼peace 💙
@kassandraduncan9652
@kassandraduncan9652 5 жыл бұрын
Elliott your topics are getting better and better...and so is your hair. I can't stop watching when you play with your hair. For some odd reason I'm hooked!
@pamietries1183
@pamietries1183 4 жыл бұрын
And They Say Women Are Complicated
@daniellekenyon4045
@daniellekenyon4045 3 жыл бұрын
Listening to Elliott's upfront personality and outspoken attitude is so comfortable....love this guy
@LinaP
@LinaP 5 жыл бұрын
So if you leave the ball in his court and he ignores you, I guess that means he’s not interested anymore?
@ElliotScottDating
@ElliotScottDating 5 жыл бұрын
yea lol
@LinaP
@LinaP 5 жыл бұрын
kylie Williams wow... Kylie. I love the way you explained that. You’re absolutely right. Elliot...you taking notes? Hahaha
@leahrrhodes
@leahrrhodes 5 жыл бұрын
kylie Williams wow! This makes so much sense! ❤️
@codapapa7955
@codapapa7955 5 жыл бұрын
@@LinaP lol why would elliot have to take notes when he literally says the exact same shit in his videos. He's not going to give you some long ass reply back when you can A. Watch his videos and get your answer from there or B. Pay him for a consultation. This is his career and he has better things to do than focusing on some random persons comment.
@lindaslyns3493
@lindaslyns3493 5 жыл бұрын
@kylie Williams That means he not interested 🙄
@SusieSue242
@SusieSue242 5 жыл бұрын
I’m single but I’m very happy . I am watching this video because I was curious to know what you’re going to actually say about how to ignore someone, lol I thought the process would be pretty simple.
@mifasola1
@mifasola1 5 жыл бұрын
I won't ignore but I'm not kidding myself that my relationship with this man is going nowhere due to his benching, orbiting and ghosting me for weeks at a time. Life is too damn short to hang on to crumbs. Time to move on to someone who is worthy of my time.
@sourgummiez
@sourgummiez 5 жыл бұрын
These videos are so helpful. i come back to them anytime im getting to know someone new. mens brains work soo differently than a womans so these help me a lot to better interact with a man to help both of us to mesh the way i know we both want to
@dianagamez76
@dianagamez76 5 жыл бұрын
I like his information, whether men are in their 20s or in their 50s, guys are guys no matter their age. I find his advice to be useful. Thanks for sharing!
@goingaboutmyfathersbusines4359
@goingaboutmyfathersbusines4359 5 жыл бұрын
I was dumped outta the blue..went NC 3 weeks later i had to contact him do to a finatual issue out of my control. The text was short. He text me immediately and asked to met me ( i felt i had to because of this finatual issue) so i went. 4 hours of him crying and begging i give him a 2nd chance. I told him that i would think about it. That was last sunday. He text me a few times during the week but i kept it very short and did not text him 1st....( did not text about getting back together ) 3 days later ( the day before Valentine's day) he sent me yet another " i think we should go out separate ways text"...what the heck? Beg me back on Sunday..promise all kinds of changing....then 3 days later send another dumping me text? Smh...to be honest i dont want him, dont love him and could care less...this finatual issue will come to end the 1st week of April. That leaves another month and 1/2 to deal with him. Thank God he does not text me often...and i dodged a bullet with him..smh
@goingaboutmyfathersbusines4359
@goingaboutmyfathersbusines4359 5 жыл бұрын
@Daisies and Lillies ....thank u...im 45 and i have never seen a man act like this...its mind blowing...i know its not my issue...but his...im just glad im out and over it
@cathybaldry7822
@cathybaldry7822 5 жыл бұрын
Don't need the BS
@Eljay1222
@Eljay1222 5 жыл бұрын
@@goingaboutmyfathersbusines4359 Sounds like the push pull emotional abuse of a Covert Narcissist! KZbin search that bullshit..omg they have a ton of traits that once you hear and learn about em all, EVERYTHING starts to make sense. I just got my soul sucked out by one, wasting almost 3 years believing I found my person, but it was total mind fuckery instead... I'm happy you're doing well, girl🙌 I'll get there soon!
@caroh2809
@caroh2809 5 жыл бұрын
What a shit! Stay strong girl - that is just mean. He needs to experience what that feels like sometime.
@vanaphill2454
@vanaphill2454 5 жыл бұрын
You sure did. What an idiot.
@ariesariesfearless4810
@ariesariesfearless4810 5 жыл бұрын
These kind of immature men Will definitely wont have a happy love life 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@priya3031992
@priya3031992 4 жыл бұрын
True
@stephanieg3554
@stephanieg3554 5 жыл бұрын
Uurrhh fuck it I only live once 🤣🤣🤣 ... that part cracked me up... I have the opposite effec... Issue for me is once you have me I don't wanna engage in a certain level of games anymore... It's not about not working for it... They work for it but once they get it...then they take you for granted... As well as I wanna be loved and accepted fully for me... When I'm done with games/deciding that I decided on you... Then I let my guard down.. etc I can become clingy and anxious but that is usually when I can sense beforehand that something dodge is about to happen... So no one wanna invest a much time into someone who only gonna take you for a ride - literally and figuratively Thanks Elliot... Sighs... Yeah..wish people were raised to be more upfront and not play games
@RH-ul2bc
@RH-ul2bc 5 жыл бұрын
Omg what a great video Excellent timing 0 to 100. This is where I am with a guy. Six dates in 2 weeks. Learning a lot here. Thank you!
@nailed_sa
@nailed_sa 5 жыл бұрын
Damn this whole example u described was a situation I had! I think things moved way to fast and he knew he had me to easy! We recently parted ways mutually bc we weren't on the same page rn but we had great connection! Would love if u could go off this video as to how how to get a man to come back or stay 🙌
@m.h.1593
@m.h.1593 5 жыл бұрын
zhanabanana28 same boat as you except for the parting ways part. There’s no closure. We’re in limbo, at least from my perspective.
@nailed_sa
@nailed_sa 5 жыл бұрын
@@m.h.1593 I agree but that's the part that sucks ugh
@beyondalmightyliz
@beyondalmightyliz 5 жыл бұрын
Same, elliot new video!
@maureenkam9212
@maureenkam9212 5 жыл бұрын
You can still remain as friends, can't you? Don't think of getting him back first. You need a cool off period. If he has no desire to get back, no matter what you do will be futile. You should show him you stilll live a fantastic life without him. Go out with your friends and other guys. Take photos and post them on social media. Pretend to cross paths once in a while as if you bump.into him accidentally. Act nonchalantly. Most importantly, keep yourself busy. If he is still into you, he will try to find out your status through various means. 😊
@nailed_sa
@nailed_sa 5 жыл бұрын
@@maureenkam9212 yes we could of stayed friends I believe in a sense we still are however we ended on good terms n had a great friendship for 3yrs I decided to take the space with him bc clearly for whatever reason it was in limbo n he either wasn't ready for a commitment or it wasent right timming I couldn't really pin point the reason but thought it was best to end it to give him time to miss me n figure himself out while I do the same focus on my own life but you are right thank you so much for your postive n encouraging message will do!💕
@rhondasilver3582
@rhondasilver3582 5 жыл бұрын
" You only live once!!" LOL - so true. Great female voice impression!!
@MsChikki1111
@MsChikki1111 4 жыл бұрын
I wish I knew this a few months ago.
@heyo8228
@heyo8228 4 жыл бұрын
Same....
@irmagonzalez6051
@irmagonzalez6051 5 жыл бұрын
Happy Valentines Day. That just happened to me...he got really intense and I actually finally let loose 100% yesterday and I scared him off. Thank you so much this is exactly what happened to me so i feel less guilty now. Now I will pull away but not enough for him to let me go...
@se.i.4393
@se.i.4393 3 жыл бұрын
I played all the games in the beginning and sucked anyway. Never had the trouble with the right guy tho :) our energies match so good.
@ImWORTHITINC
@ImWORTHITINC 5 жыл бұрын
THINGS ARE GREAT! I'm on here working on my career--my youtube channel, emailing for requested info to schedule casting calls, etc. I JUST LOVE listening to men and what they to say about life....I appreciate you Ellie! Happy Valentine's Day!
@stellarstar9340
@stellarstar9340 3 жыл бұрын
This title made me legit LOL!! I love your videos Elliot!!! THE BEST!! 🌟🏆🥇😄😂🙌🏻👌🏻💯
@tramtran1778
@tramtran1778 5 жыл бұрын
Elliot- you didn’t go into anything about the “want your babies”... haha
@amandagarcia6320
@amandagarcia6320 5 жыл бұрын
Elliot Scott??? THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR MAKING THIS VIDEO AT A TIME WHEN I THOUGHT I HAD TRULY HIT "rock bottom" and I did not believe I would ever find a message like this that HELPED ME SO MUCH!......this message that you wrote is soooooooooo inspirational and helpful to so many people, so THANK YOU so much for making and posting this:-) Your channel is wonderful and you are fantastic! Keep up the good work:-)
@julyhoneybee6231
@julyhoneybee6231 5 жыл бұрын
I Was Replaced. And It’s a Horrible Mess of Feelings.
@tereitumohe7380
@tereitumohe7380 5 жыл бұрын
Your dating material is just as useful to guys, I’ve got a mate that really could take some notes 😃
@kimt8162
@kimt8162 5 жыл бұрын
Yep, I ran into a guy who wanted me to go on a trip with him early in the relationship. I said, NO. I thought it was weird. You go on a trip together maybe after a 6 month anniversary or a 1 year anniversary.. Then I realized I think I have a "partier". He would always hang out at a bar on Fridays, and then I thought well....I was never one of these. So I just figured it wasn't a good fit. You know what he did after I turned him down, he asked if I could loan him suntan lotion for the trip. Again weird. I did loan him the suntan lotion and broke up with him about a month or two later.
@jmanley1486
@jmanley1486 4 жыл бұрын
Regardless of what we want to believe... we all lie to ourselves. Relationships are a game...u can deny it all u want but WE ALL play it in one way or another... down to just seeing a text wanting to text back at that moment but waiting 10 mins... that's a game. Married couples still play games relative to the issues. The faster you accept it...the better you get at getting what you want. Relationships are a game of Love... Life is a game of survival.
@wuestion9473
@wuestion9473 2 жыл бұрын
Bullshit. If this were true, I’d rather die alone. People who believe it’s true aren’t people I’ll date. Fuck that childish shit. “Life is a game of survival…” Then fuck life; I’ll die. Life is supposed to be beautiful and amazing.
@sexyladyakb
@sexyladyakb 5 жыл бұрын
I feel like my partner REQUIRES me to ignore him and it sucks ! Bc I want to message him like all the time. We live together ... he doesn’t ask me not to text him I just know that when I don’t pay him much attention he’s all over me when I get home AND he’s just overall a better man / happier .
@AnnaGee347
@AnnaGee347 5 жыл бұрын
Ahhhh back to the car videos!!!! Xoxo love you Elliot!
@bettypsycapprentice6544
@bettypsycapprentice6544 5 жыл бұрын
what do you do to get some coaching? I tried this and it didn't work. We haven't spoken in 3 weeks, meanwhile here I am.
@justinaberej2975
@justinaberej2975 2 жыл бұрын
How many days of no contact would be considered cold? 2-4?
@vmartinez8793
@vmartinez8793 4 жыл бұрын
OMG! I love you!! Your hilarious. Your making something negative seem a little amusing and light rather than heavy so thank you for your videos!!
@willfade7994
@willfade7994 5 жыл бұрын
I subscribed because you give good advice, but you keep it real. Some of the videos on relationships are full of a lot of psycho babble bullshit and "stepping into our feminine energy." I've found too that it's always best to get advice on men from men! Keep up the good work and thank you. I'll admit, I wasn't sure about you at first, but I watched several of your videos and gained a bit of wisdom from each one. Thanks again. 🌹
@ElliotScottDating
@ElliotScottDating 5 жыл бұрын
welcome :)
@a.j.1819
@a.j.1819 2 жыл бұрын
If you’re a woman that thinks “stepping into your feminine energy” is bullshit then you don’t understand what it means at all. Feel sorry for you. Ignoring a man is literally super feminine - it’s the opposite of approaching and action, which would be masculine energy. Make sure you actually understand what you’re bashing.
@MsRipley76
@MsRipley76 5 жыл бұрын
Darn! I should have watch this a couple of hours ago :)
@snezanavasilevska2541
@snezanavasilevska2541 5 жыл бұрын
Happy valentines day! All...and elliot😁 i am divorsed 2 years ago and since happy single..so hard to get back in datting games theese days..sooo not same lol..so i love waching your videos..for this time i just stay distante couse i have trust issues...but on happy note- in my country on valentines if you are single there is other holiday of our saint trifun wich was saint of wine soo hahaha lol single people celebrate with wine..greetings elliot
@MaynightMemory
@MaynightMemory 5 жыл бұрын
I just find it really funny how people always claim that women say one thing but mean another while in reality guys try to get you to sleep with them on the first date, then dump you if you do and not doing what he wants is actually what makes him like you...
@jelizabethpetrie6656
@jelizabethpetrie6656 5 жыл бұрын
I’ve done last couple contacts for legit reasons. Got things to get done too. No skin off my back. Ball, his court.
@ashrpblond
@ashrpblond 5 жыл бұрын
aaahhh HAPPY VALENTINES DAY elliott and what better way to spend valentines day than with you on a video...its always a warm feeling with you
@reneeshoregirl8526
@reneeshoregirl8526 4 жыл бұрын
Omg I love watching your videos! You're so real... 😁
@simplyoliviajune1757
@simplyoliviajune1757 5 жыл бұрын
This title! You never cease to make me laugh Elliot. Happy Valentine’s Day. 🤗
@KatbeautyG
@KatbeautyG 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for advice. I guess its just hard for me to believe. I think ur an amazing young man with an old soul. I'm 48. U are very wise for ur age. Thank U! Love listening to U.
@maureenkam9212
@maureenkam9212 5 жыл бұрын
I am 50, but young at heart. Nobody can guess my age and I have forgotten about it. 😉
@andreeaciobanuc404
@andreeaciobanuc404 Жыл бұрын
It's so hard Eliot for me to ignore the guy but I can see that it's the only thing that works. When I was clingy, desperate, showing interest, he literally pulled away from me, dumped me brutally! Now that I am totally ignore him, he looks angry and keeps staring at me. The problem though is, I am more mature, old-fashioned, traditional lady, while he is an immature, playing, childish egotistic guy who is swarmed by beauty queens. He is so used to being chased that it pisses him off me not doing it. Now the problem is, how can I keep his attention, I am afraid that after he chases me back, I will give in again and show my feelings, which will make him again discard me. I feel like I have to learn to be a different person to keep his attention: playing hard to get. And it is so unnatural to me, as I am straightforward, open, honest and mature.
@cookiethomas8069
@cookiethomas8069 Жыл бұрын
You let him back in he's going to go back being the same.. Move forward, he already showed you his hand.. I've been there. Someone better will come along who's going to genuinely reciprocate. Blessings
@dragonfly8184
@dragonfly8184 5 жыл бұрын
Im ignoring him right now because he ignores me for like 2 to 3 days. So he facetimed me today and i didnt pick up. Didnt respond to him at all today. He didnt call or message me back. Its just day 1. He needs to chase me now. So.....i may just keep it going as long as he does me.
@ImCheesedOut
@ImCheesedOut 5 жыл бұрын
“Now she didn’t go on the trip because the guy freaked out before that” I don’t know why that made me crack up!! Hahahaha
@dinihollywood7515
@dinihollywood7515 5 жыл бұрын
How do I become your client? I really love your videos. The man I've been dating for 2 months lives about a 3 hour drive away, we meet up when he is in my area for business but the communication in between is not so great. I don't know how to tell if we will ever thread our lives in the future
@nabilananou5764
@nabilananou5764 5 жыл бұрын
I needed this one it came in the right time 😉❤️ thank you
@001ash
@001ash 5 жыл бұрын
You are really cute! And your videos seem very authentic. Good job.
@Moonchilddiva
@Moonchilddiva 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much omg this is very helpful
@MelissaCassie
@MelissaCassie 4 жыл бұрын
You are amazing! Maybe will work with my husband who is long distance and prefers smoking weed and drinking to paying attention to his wife LOL
@77aggiem
@77aggiem 4 жыл бұрын
Elliot! Your videos are fricking amazing!
@sourgummiez
@sourgummiez 5 жыл бұрын
lmao the title wtf
@justindiaa5305
@justindiaa5305 4 жыл бұрын
Courtney Pie lmaoooo
@victoriat8481
@victoriat8481 5 жыл бұрын
But then he might move on thinking I'm not interested!!!!
@maureenkam9212
@maureenkam9212 5 жыл бұрын
If he is really into you, he will at least try to find out and put things back into tracks. If he is that egoistic type, then you can forget about him and move on. Don't let man string you alomg. You will be the one hurting in the end.
@Xenomorph788
@Xenomorph788 5 жыл бұрын
I needed this today 🤪
@jacklinemirembe8921
@jacklinemirembe8921 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks Coach, you're the Best 👌
@cuteandfluffypikachu3405
@cuteandfluffypikachu3405 5 жыл бұрын
I’m having a really bad day just got home from the dentist 🥺😭🥺😭🥺😭
@InnerPower4me
@InnerPower4me 5 жыл бұрын
lol 5:36 , " you live once " 😩😂 omg that's me!!!
@CarolinaOats
@CarolinaOats 5 жыл бұрын
You are awesoms!!
@sylviab.791
@sylviab.791 5 жыл бұрын
My favorite dating coach!!!!!
@hollywood_Jayyy
@hollywood_Jayyy 5 жыл бұрын
I’m so in love with your Chanel and the advice you give to us
@jenniemetcalf5900
@jenniemetcalf5900 4 жыл бұрын
Does this work with the person you’re married to?
@rareroseglosses1554
@rareroseglosses1554 2 жыл бұрын
I loved the last part and want my babies cuz I'm getting my tubes untied
@GGLD888
@GGLD888 5 жыл бұрын
Christ I hate all these fucking games. Why can't men just evolve so we can get on with a good life.
@drjohnsonhungwell5115
@drjohnsonhungwell5115 4 жыл бұрын
When a woman ignores me I give them their walking papers soon thereafter I don't play games or tolerate them .
@NatashaDawn82
@NatashaDawn82 5 жыл бұрын
Happy Valentines Day Elliot!
@sofiababe
@sofiababe 4 жыл бұрын
Well I’m married and he does this sometimes he won’t initiate convo unless I do. :( but I can’t just leave him for that..
@clairefoxall2313
@clairefoxall2313 5 жыл бұрын
Great info Elliott thanks 😁
@oliveb6318
@oliveb6318 5 жыл бұрын
5:31 hilarious "I only live once". LOL
@zilfariza2010
@zilfariza2010 4 жыл бұрын
So what’s the answer? How do you pull away politely? Coz sometimes he keeps texting but not as warm as before. And we haven’t established anything yet so you can’t “break-up” with a “friend”. So how do you show you’re losing interest too in a polite way?
@nicolel.9633
@nicolel.9633 5 жыл бұрын
Can you make a video about friends with benefits? 😂
@hurryupnow1
@hurryupnow1 5 жыл бұрын
What’s there to make a video? Keep your mouth shut and enjoy getting pounded
@nicolel.9633
@nicolel.9633 5 жыл бұрын
@@hurryupnow1 Why the hell you care! You keep your ass mouth shut the F up! I'm not asking you! Go on with your boring life bich!
@-renee-1993
@-renee-1993 3 жыл бұрын
These videos are so entertaining 🤣🤣
@deanarodriguez4258
@deanarodriguez4258 5 жыл бұрын
❤happy hearts day, Elliot!
@cindycinn2724
@cindycinn2724 5 жыл бұрын
Happy Valentine's day...i needed this today
@cozettem8226
@cozettem8226 4 жыл бұрын
You are hysterical.
@amanda7444
@amanda7444 4 жыл бұрын
Loving the titles of your videos! The title of this video is like bloody hell... he wants my babies! Hahaha! I meaaan, yes please! Hehe!!
@SkinAndHairTV
@SkinAndHairTV 5 жыл бұрын
I would like a video about questions to ask in the first date to real get to the core of a man’s standards and values. Such as would he lie to cover for a cheating homeboy ? Or meeting a male in your family within the first 2 months.
@eleo6966
@eleo6966 5 жыл бұрын
So good to hear
@kaijumecha5766
@kaijumecha5766 5 жыл бұрын
I think I’m “the client” except I’m not going with it! Coz I found out he is checking out other cheap options online..
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