I dont want a guy that I habe to tell him to communicate with me more often. If he doesn't want to text ot call me I certainly don't want to push him to. He should WANT to contact me frequently and if he is coming and going then obviously there are other women he is pursuing or he is just not that into me. Which is likely the case. I've experienced this for 2-3 years. Theres the guy who messages me daily and theres the guy who messages every 1-4 weeks, especially when he is in my area or just too busy or chasing countless women. A man who wants us won't do any of this BS in the first place.
@stefanieleavitt52244 жыл бұрын
Cozette M what if his excuse is he works a lot and has a 2 year old? But only saw him when he had his son and once every couple weeks (only when he has his son cause if not he is working? 🤔
@MissSarahGM4 жыл бұрын
Exactly, we should not even deal with that. I've experienced it as well, (like most women these days). When the guy courted me daily, each time after a little time he turned out to withdraw or cut if off suddenly. Guys who have emotional unresolved issues, who were never available for something real but just wanted a taste of it.
@HopeW95234 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry I don't give a shit who you are if you want to be with someone then you want to see them and talk to them. Especially if they go from doing it all the time to not at all. That's BS and will never be okay with me!!
@Thistooshallpass24 жыл бұрын
I agree if he’s not texting me fuck him saving my energy .. I really like a guy we dated for a month then bam ... he’s too busy.. went from dating to phone calls to texting every day to texting once a day to none ... ok dude I got the signal .. just fucking tell me with words that your mom interested, no biggie but the no communication is childish
@nikkicampos13914 жыл бұрын
Amennn! 🙌🏼🙌🏼
@missminti4 жыл бұрын
The only men that ever played games with me were ones that were beneath me. If you lower your standards, get ready to be played. Making them work for it weeds out the duds that keep up or stay consistent. It's win-win to hold out and play cool.
@berzerkfury14594 жыл бұрын
Making them work for it is a game?
@btstakescareofmewhenimsick48924 жыл бұрын
Funny you mentioned giving 2 chances. I gave him 2 chances one year apart. He blew it. I dumped him 2 weeks ago. I love him, but i dont want a relationship like this.
@flyandshy004 жыл бұрын
If you always see him online and he's not calling you (no relationship could be built through the text) delete his number, he's talking to someone more important.
@itsmesia24694 жыл бұрын
Yes true ...!!
@thechristianpsychologer38654 жыл бұрын
Some men are more introverted though. That's not entirely accurate. But even then... Yes for the most part.
@breefordark4 жыл бұрын
Even if it's not another woman he's choosing something else as a higher priority than you.
@redfather53423 жыл бұрын
So what who cares
@dragonfly81844 жыл бұрын
Ive cut him off since 1/31. I don't put any efforts anymore. No calls, no messages, nothing. I had 2 pull away to save my own heart. Last time he messaged me was 2/15, that was the last time I responded. Now, im full blown ignoring him. Im in completely NC from now on. Still no apology for how he treated me. Im so tired of these games with men. Grow up....shit
@taniawilliams144 жыл бұрын
blackwidow 81 I hear you. Keep it up girl.. he will reach out again however just work on u
@dragonfly81844 жыл бұрын
@@taniawilliams14 o i plan on it.
@jahlive12434 жыл бұрын
I overstand you!
@beijaflor22224 жыл бұрын
blackwidow 81 Would you ever take him back
@pandorapink12274 жыл бұрын
Your young. And there is so much fish in the sea. Keep dating and enjoy yourself. 🌺🌸🌹💕🌸💕💐🙏
@tonitaquetaparks33044 жыл бұрын
You might as well forget about them if they are not doing what you want them to do. Just wait for the right guy to come along and give you what you without having to say anything. If two people are on two different stages into the communication then it won't work anyway.
@alee48662 жыл бұрын
thats why there are so many 40-60 year old single women
@skyfall14813 жыл бұрын
Think of it like this...you might like him, but you aren’t waiting around. You don’t need the games, find someone easy to interact with.
@andreasherrell92773 жыл бұрын
I can recommend you to someone that helped me get my ex back
@andreasherrell92773 жыл бұрын
Text him on what sap
@andreasherrell92773 жыл бұрын
+ 2 3 4 8 1 5 9 1 5 8 9 1 5 💕💕💕💕💕💕
@amandamacarthur93784 жыл бұрын
I just went out on a date with a guy, we both had a great time, but now he barely texts me. I have only initiated twice, but when he does reach out its like a summary of his day no questions about mine. I respond kindly, but cooly. Now I haven't heard from him in 5 days... I guess, it's time to ignore he's not for me.
@lucya89164 жыл бұрын
You deserve so much more than this behaviour. Hope you find someone wonderful.
@Poison_Ivy224 жыл бұрын
Omg girl! Same crap happened to me 7 years ago with a guy I use to really like. Led me on, hung out a few times, always texted me first to just BAM he stopped messaging me, he ignored me for days before giving me an answer as to why he was ignoring me. He finally answered almost a week later confessing *I can see us together for a while but not forever and from what I know about you YOU need someone better than me* But he would still randomly reach out to me talking about his day, leading me on again. Nice long paragraph like he still cared but once I responded he'd just leave it at *read* and I wouldn't hear from him again for months. He even stood me up 3 times. 5 months of it and I finally said to myself *FUCK IT.. he doesn't want me? Well somebody else will* I never bothered with him again and moved on and fell in love with another guy 2 months later and been together 6 years now. He tried coming back 4 different times but I told him everytime calmly that I wasn't into him anymore. Narcissist assholes never want the girl until she becomes a chase again. You're not alone. And please forgive me for the long summary. Your story just hit close to home with me. Dont make the mistake I did by letting that continue bc it will as long as you allow it. I made the mistake by letting it go on for 5 months. You can do better. You didn't lose him. He lost you. Don't forget that.
@auradiana4 жыл бұрын
Sentence two should flip to top. Girl on top always 😍
@stefanieleavitt52244 жыл бұрын
BritBrat-Sweetheart 923 been a year of breadcrumbing for me
@spookycat26794 жыл бұрын
There's always someone better. Yeah, you kinda liked a guy.. So what. Imagine being treated like a princess by someone who cares. That's my new mentality with dating
@sandyinkwiggyyassqueen21814 жыл бұрын
These "relationship advice" videos are about BOYS. A real MAN doesn't need to act like a stupid teenager or play games to have a relationship with a high value good woman. Period.
@kymgarcia094 жыл бұрын
Yasss
@paulaneary78773 жыл бұрын
Sandy- I agree totally.
@ENFPerspectives3 жыл бұрын
Ya, and 99.9% are still boys.
@ENFPerspectives3 жыл бұрын
Yup!!! D-U-M-B
@thinkingoutloud6753 жыл бұрын
Isn't a real man with value going to walk away if he is ignored?
@alyshalennie14314 жыл бұрын
If he respected and valued you he wouldn't risk loosing you if you have to tell a man how to treat you he doesn't deserve you
@rileysmiley95854 жыл бұрын
Being MYSTERIOUSLY unavailable is quite ATTRACTIVE! Don't be thirsty... don't text them first...EVER...you don't want to be like the other women who lower their standards and bug people on social media... don't let them come over to date you after 9:00 pm...don't be a "booty call". Guy's love women who are busy but very "nice and hot!"
@katarzynarajska76082 жыл бұрын
Why the hell women should not text guys if they want? It's stupid. Stupid game
@jeanzyc.51033 жыл бұрын
If a guy ignored me in the past for a week I figured he didn't care enough. If he really liked me, he'd be thinking about me and if he's thinking about me he'd take even a few minutes to call. It's as simple as that in my opinion. Hey it worked. I waited for that guy who was truly interested and I'm engaged now after being divorced for 10 years.
@skyfall14813 жыл бұрын
I’ve recently spilt from someone myself and on an app. Damn these online dudes are a pain in the ass and makes me miss my ex. He was never flaky like this shit. Sigh!!!
@jeanzyc.51033 жыл бұрын
@@skyfall1481 😃 yeah that's probably not the best way to meet someone. What about church? People lie like crazy on dating sites.
@skyfall14813 жыл бұрын
@@jeanzyc.5103 Yeah, looking into local clubs to meet better quality people. Even if it’s friendship. But, I understand if someone doesn’t have interest to want to meet..but sometimes the ones who don’t want to meet, I wonder what they’re hiding. God knows who you’re really talking to.
@jessicahitchens69266 ай бұрын
People lie everywhere. The church isn't any different.
@amy-zk3fo4 жыл бұрын
I told guy after I took him out for dinner for his birthday and he was constantly on his phone. I told him to to lose my number. It’s been a month. That was disrespectful no matter who it is. So I will not reach back out. I’m okay not having someone like that in my life.
@welshlady2120004 жыл бұрын
amy 92 your first mistake was taking him to dinner, if he was really into you, he would have took you to dinner. Lean back, relax, be the prize.
@steffis6994 жыл бұрын
amy 92 but it was his birthday? So it’s normal to answer the phone
@eva-nr2bs4 жыл бұрын
@@welshlady212000 Yes, I agree. For his birthday "from a girl", I guess a card would be nice and then "he would" take "both of you" for dinner. Sorry girl :-)
@Poison_Ivy224 жыл бұрын
I agree with the other comments. Sorry hun but never give a guy who isnt your man a silver platter when you first meet him. I did that for a guy once. Me and him went on a blind double date with a friend and her boyfriend at Dave & Busters. First time I met him. I payed for his food. I spoiled him. I know I was good to him. And when it finally came down to him actually buying me something, like a cute stuffed animal from the arcade he instead used his winning tickets to buy himself something instead. Such a douche bag. My friend and her man pointed that out to me. I was so embarrassed since it was my first time meeting him too. Guys just for some reason dont respect women that they dont have to work for. I learned that the hard way at one time too. Next time make the man pay for you. It will rise your respect status love. Good luck!
@eva-nr2bs4 жыл бұрын
@@steffis699 Wow,that's is good point too. I did not even think about that.......
@cheryl61093 жыл бұрын
The nice thing is when you heal you heart and focus on improving yourself your more able to accept the hard truths. thank you for your videos!
@zaraabbas62534 жыл бұрын
The fact that we are watching this is an indication of something..... time to break up sis
@rebeccachurchman73234 жыл бұрын
When a man and a woman genuinely share love none of this necessarily applies. This applies to people playing the field. True lovers make up the rules between them as they go along
@princia21494 жыл бұрын
Rebecca Churchman so true
@lucya89164 жыл бұрын
👍💖
@xiomaraortega41994 жыл бұрын
That’s fact !
@rileysmiley95854 жыл бұрын
I concur 💙
@ENFPerspectives3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely Right.
@npkrn6764 Жыл бұрын
Yes one thing to remember is like he said... sometimes its not that anyone is wrong or trying to be offensive - as in the texting vs calling example. Sometimes its just incompatibility.
@mariebae68404 жыл бұрын
Taking more notes than in all of my college classes combined.
@avgwhitegurl66464 жыл бұрын
I pulled away for seven months. We are meeting next week. It's been rough. He says I'm his queen and he's my king. He chased for seven months. Listen to this it works!
@nofybn77944 жыл бұрын
7 months? No fucking way! BY THEN I AM DONE! BYE BYE! SEE YOU!! That is a ---- NO for me!! What happens after? Another 7 months space? That ain't a relationship!!
@shutit40244 жыл бұрын
nofy bn facts I was done after a month with a dude that used me then he tried to come back a month later I said fuck no even at the age of 19 I knew not to let him back
@Poison_Ivy224 жыл бұрын
@@shutit4024 right? A guy that I use to talk to 7 years ago led me on and then rejected me but still kept me around as his ego booster bc he sure as shit didnt want me but loved me wanting him while he was out banging other girls he's keeping me in the dark convincing me he'd one day be with me he had no problem hanging out with anyone else but made every excuse as to why he couldnt see me yet he swore he had such *strong feelings for me* but was going through shit wow was I an idiot then. Once I was over it and got into a new relationship and still with my man today the asshole tried coming back 4 different times over the last 5 years saying that *I'm the one who got away* and wants to give us another chance bc he messed up bla bla bla. I was flattered and kind but still done.
@Magnoliasdiary4 жыл бұрын
If a guy doesn't reach out to me in a month he's OUT for good.
@atarbuck34524 жыл бұрын
It probably didn’t workout with the other chick.
@torilynn59354 жыл бұрын
I like the way this video is set up! I am not an audio learner, and I take in so much more information when I can visually see it like you did here. Thanks Elliot!
@lifeventures66514 жыл бұрын
Yes! People do not respond to talk, they respond to consequences! I will say though that I’m not answering if it’s obvious what he did wrong. Those are my standards. I don’t want an idiot. Most men know after a certain age.
@d.n97054 жыл бұрын
It's never going to work no matter what you do if he's just not in love with you. Even if he does at one point, eventually love fades anyway.. you're never going to win if you're expecting love from someone else other than yourself
@Smokillo3 жыл бұрын
So can you win if you don’t expect love ?
@iwonderwhatmydognamedme40002 жыл бұрын
“Even if he does at one point love fades away” your basically saying don’t give love a try or dating a try because you’ll have that fear of them fading out of love with you. Lmao??????? You have to try and if they fall out of love there’s always reasons. Figure it out.
@belle22634 жыл бұрын
I love the formatting and all the work you put in. The topic is really good as it's a very common problem for women. I've followed your advice and gotten rid of lots of men from these reasons. But I just love watching you and it helps to keep hearing it. Each video has a bit of information added which I didn't hear previously. Thanks and keep up the good work.
@omgcarsonnn Жыл бұрын
I really like how you address some potential men thinking this is stupid. It means a lot to have another man stand up and be like “no, it’s a standard she has just as you have”. I can’t STAND when some dudes have all these qualifications on your breast and ass size but literally nothing *actually* important like communication skills, common interests, common desires. This is such a great video!
@shelly87753 жыл бұрын
So basically ignoring 100% is moving on and not looking back.
@JT-ss6si4 жыл бұрын
Why am i liking this video before even watching it? I guess because i saw that it was more than 10 minutes long with a pretty cool title.
@paulinabarron11334 жыл бұрын
Elliot! I've been watching your videos and I applied scarcity at the right times. It totally works like a charm. Among other tips, Ive gained control enough to feel like I know what I'm doing! Thanks for the knowledge!
@kyleighcooley8667 Жыл бұрын
Soooooo glad I found you my goodness. This structure will be very helpful in the future. Over here treating 6's like 10's.. no mo!!
@eveline_yoga4 жыл бұрын
I like this format and you had me cracking up as usual. Love your work.
@dr.m61522 жыл бұрын
Elliot is the only one who truly said that you have to ignore 100%,as if you'll never hear from him again and that's absolutely true. I actually figured that out by myself when I finally decided to move amd not care whether he comes back and I just happened to come across his videos amd I'm so glad he says the same thing, I just wish I'd found his channel before so I wouldn't have made the same DAMN mistakes for years! I'm happy to have reached a place where I value myself and have better self esteem though. Work on yourself ladies the glow up is WORTH it irrespective of whether you get te guy (p. S. He did initiate contact with me but I left him on seen. Give him a taste of his own medicine lol)
@jesuslovesus8054 Жыл бұрын
After this video, in my heart you are oficially my brother I always wanted! With lots of gratefulnes, I love you! Thank you!
@Layla-hg4ux2 жыл бұрын
I love this video!! This is the best and straight forward answer no BS talk, I like this approach, Elliot!
@saphirus1able4 жыл бұрын
This is brilliant. Thank you so much. I love these formats and I love how you share home truths about men with us women. I love your no bs manner and that you don't mince words and you don't soften the blow - you tell it like it really is. You have helped so much already in a short period of time and I thank you!
@jezebellab17793 жыл бұрын
Definitely gonna be a good 3-6 mos before I possibly hear from him. But...... since I moved, there are endless opportunities. No loss!!! Amazing how when there are plenty of options, much easier to ignore 🙏🏼
@haddi95553 жыл бұрын
I get tired of saying something and calling him out, so I let my actions do the talking, dont care if he stays or go... am done.
@memorablywonderful11 ай бұрын
Very clear and no questions left🎉
@sameichang39284 жыл бұрын
it absolutely works, he reached out once every two month, then I ignored him, then he reached out in two month, then I ignored him, then he‧‧‧‧‧best method ever
@ThatGirlLynda4 жыл бұрын
The universe has brought me here after being in a 13 year long relationship... only to find out he was on dating apps the last 4 years during Quarantine 😩😩😩😷 letting go and moving on.. hopefully 👀 🤷🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
@Xiandoe4 жыл бұрын
I love this guys channel! So real no BS method 💥
@yeeeeeyy4 жыл бұрын
You are so funny and at the same time so intelligent in this field
@eeland69724 жыл бұрын
It’s funny..it hit me...you’re kind of the father so many woman (I) didn’t have...what you’re teaching us (me) is telling me how guys are and telling with love, care and tender protection ....how to be a strong, communicating woman standing in our (my )own feminine power. Thanx (daddy cool) ❤️ The handicapped learning to undo
@MyCent14 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Your videos are valuable. Appreciating you here from South Africa.
@kirazinn4 жыл бұрын
I like the format. It helps me understand your points better
@tangleduup4 жыл бұрын
This is awesome Elliot! I like this format as well! ❤
@ElliotScottDating4 жыл бұрын
Yay, thank you!
@sarahs6574 жыл бұрын
Lol! The beware of dog sign!!!! Hahaha great analogy
@kymgarcia094 жыл бұрын
Can't believe that love has to be this complicated.. I think I rather die alone than play this stupid games with men smh
@datingandlifeadvicechannel75342 жыл бұрын
Me too
@bullgirlmamamuse7452 Жыл бұрын
you'll die alone anything lol. People in relationships will die alone. Noone coming with you on the journey of death. We were botn alone and we'll die alone. I think once people really reflect on the meaning of this they wouldnt stress out so much about relationships
@jesuslovesus8054 Жыл бұрын
@@bullgirlmamamuse7452so wise…
@jessicahitchens69266 ай бұрын
Actually incorrect. It can take years for people to die. And your at the mercy of strangers or completely isolated at your most vulnerable.
@dw63174 жыл бұрын
Excellent content Elliot! Thank you.
@elizabethseiden18674 жыл бұрын
I have a ton of options, and I don’t have time for predatory creeps! Also, they say at least five guys at a time, not for sex, just as a one date term. They don’t get a second date unless they are very romantic by taking me out where I want!🤓🐶
@sssparkle4 жыл бұрын
thanks for the reminder about standards! That’s right it’s a numbers game
@melany.muraour3 жыл бұрын
Elliott... I didn't give him any warning but I told him to lose my number because twice he just stopped communicating... I wanted him to see I have standards... Not sure if I handled this right? Im sorry... This is why... This is what I want ... 💯 Percent awesome advice 😂☺️😂 Let go of the outcome... Be clear about what you want when he comes back...
@lucyluz16514 жыл бұрын
Yes why yes I LOVE your videos Elliot! You da best !! ♥️
@daniellejones63393 жыл бұрын
Great information!🙂
@julieb47654 жыл бұрын
Ladies.... Don't date a skater. They'll just waste your time
@user-ed4fp8iq1r4 жыл бұрын
That is tru
@RoseGold12244 жыл бұрын
Roller skates or skate board
@laetitia9652Ай бұрын
Don’t date a skater? Ridiculous. What does a skateboard have to do with anything. It’s the type of guy he is.
@yeeeeeyy4 жыл бұрын
I understand all your concepts. You explain with many examples and make it so much fun and you're funny
@lindazeisky38454 жыл бұрын
One of your best videos... Keep doing them. Yes, much better. Thank you! 💚
@szdkninja26584 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Happy Easter!
@carolyn87694 жыл бұрын
Another great video Elliot, thank you!! 😁
@SugarHue Жыл бұрын
Yeah, he said he didnt feel a spark, said he wanted to be friends, I didnt want that, left for a month and a half, no contact at all, he came back and now he wants to meet again(LDR). We'll see how it goes.
@sarokitas897 ай бұрын
How did it go??
@SugarHue7 ай бұрын
@sarokitas89 met up late march , had an amazing time together. Asked him what we were bevause at that point it'd been about a year and we were acting like a couple. He said he wanted to see where it goes and that was it for me, it was becoming a mind fuck. He promised we'd talk about it the following day , instead he ghosted me for almost 48 hours. I messaged him about ghosting me, he wrote me a message saying pretty much now the reason was that we move at different paces and that he wasn't the guy for me. Tearful phone call, I removed and blocked him on everything. Haven't spoken since but I think he's seeing someone new, possibly was talking to her when we were talking but I dint know
@bonbonau4 жыл бұрын
This is your best video yet. Thank you
@eva-nr2bs4 жыл бұрын
8:00 Let's say even though of we won't understand what you're trying to say, these metaphors are very helpful.
@isabellairaca16692 жыл бұрын
I didn t make my standards clear but he has fallen more than twice about calling me in the evening and he even didn t answer my calls moreover he initiated to help me to fix something at my house on the following day ( Sunday) and he didn't nor he apologized
@katiehice75974 жыл бұрын
Love this format! Thanks!
@katiehice75974 жыл бұрын
I love that you took time to acknowledge my comment! Super cool! Happy Easter!!
@kamsandhu87924 жыл бұрын
Happy Easter elliot
@frenchkiss87894 жыл бұрын
Thanks! Great video
@ElliotScottDating4 жыл бұрын
Glad you liked it!
@HopeW95234 жыл бұрын
This is funny because a lot of men feel the same about women, they want you to go after them. Screw that!! I think it's why I've given up on finding someone. I'm not desperate and I know what I want, but chasing to me is playing games. I just won't invest in anyone now until they invest first. To many people play games these days and I don't care who you are. Every person has made mistakes in some way shape or form but you learn. I know I have!
@kamsandhu87924 жыл бұрын
Hey Elliott good topic to talk about
@Allidsareused4 жыл бұрын
This feels like maths , I am not good at maths!
@Magnoliasdiary4 жыл бұрын
Trust this crazy cat man, it works, I'm a crazy gemini and this shit works.
@Queengemi54 жыл бұрын
YogaChocolateLove I’m a Gemini
@elizabethseiden18674 жыл бұрын
I always tell guys that my celebrity crush is Leonardo Di Caprio, which is true! Then I go to other average Joe’s and find the one who gives me the most resources, respect and time!
@pennir88344 жыл бұрын
Great video Elliot one of my favourites ❤️ stay safe 🙏🏻
@kieramazmi81414 жыл бұрын
I'm into day 2 ...the guy already said he is not interested in a. relationship and I keep being accesible to him..so about 1 year..I think its time to just stop
@SR777364 жыл бұрын
Great content as usual.
@astil79304 жыл бұрын
Great work Elliott! To the point no BS. Also enjoyed reading the tips, and the length of the video. Felt like I was back at uni! 👍🙏😃
@Kat-lq8sp4 жыл бұрын
This was a good format.
@dixiechampagne28924 жыл бұрын
I saw the sign, and it opened up my eyes, I saw the sign...Thanks, Elliot, for sticking Ace Of Base in my head, lol
@CindyCastro254 жыл бұрын
Great info!!!
@lizzyafonso96554 жыл бұрын
Great video Elliot ❤️ stay home and stay safe.
@bethp34684 жыл бұрын
should you let a guy know you are dating multiple people in the talking stage? ive heard several men get so mad when girls do that, they say they are old fashion and want women to date just him and vice versa. what do you think of this concept?
@sssparkle4 жыл бұрын
I wouldn’t share that. It’s actually none of their business. Once you are exclusive then you can pull back from the other men without him having to know. It’s just hurtful and makes people insecure. Not worth it
@raisaid79604 жыл бұрын
Love this. It makes alot of sense.
@joyajackson59824 жыл бұрын
The sad part about this is why do I have to ignore him for him to act right! Grow up! If a man wants to call or text me he should want to do it just because he wants to. This ignoring shit really blows my mind. After a while I’ll become uninterested. 🤷🏾♀️
@Poison_Ivy224 жыл бұрын
I know. It sucks and its stupid but Elliot isnt the only man explaining this my step uncle told me the same things about making a man work for you bc thats how they developed respect for you. That's just how it is unfortunately. I started taking my step uncle's advice and Elliot and my dating life became much easier. Guys actually started wanting me then they did before when I was too available. Guys like the chase and to feel like they earned you. They dont want a girl that they think any guy could easily have. They like to believe its their idea.
@joyajackson59824 жыл бұрын
BritBrat-Sweetheart 923 I get it but it just stupid. Women always have to change themselves for a man to act right! This double standard of a society. I can ignore I don’t like while I’m dating others sure because I don’t like them. Yet they think that gives them the green light to chase me when it really means leave me alone. Men like to think everything is their idea. But ok..... 🙄
@Poison_Ivy224 жыл бұрын
@@joyajackson5982 I agree. Men can sure suck. Been in a relationship for 6 years now. I have no desire to go back to the single world and put my heart out there to get broken again. I found love. Don't need to look anywhere else. Good luck
@marlinhowell8963 жыл бұрын
Good advice
@danamumphrey21864 жыл бұрын
great vid❤️
@pramatkat4 жыл бұрын
Real good points 👍
@CH-vu7ik4 жыл бұрын
So I did ignore him, block him on social media and my cell because he said he doesn't want a relationship and I do. I'm fine with parting ways even though I love him, but he contacted me through my work phone not understanding why I cut him off. I told him again and he said I'm so amazing and he wants me in his life forever I'm one of his best friends. I told him I'm not interested in anything physical unless we are dating. He asked if we could still stay in touch. So far he's being cordial but not out of line. Should I still talk to him? I'm absolutely holding my ground this time.
@kellykap35784 жыл бұрын
C H no
@taniawilliams144 жыл бұрын
C H no let him go.. unless you want him to continue to be disrespectful to u
@Poison_Ivy224 жыл бұрын
Either accept he doesnt want a relationship and continue to stay only friends or let him go if it's too much for you to handle without temptation of letting him use you. Either way he made up his mind he doesn't want anything more. Believe him. A guy did the same thing to me and I convinced myself I could change his mind and it never happened all he wanted out of me was FWB but I wanted more and he knew that. But once he understood how much I really liked him he told me we had to stop, and told me he didnt want more than friends. I was hurt and told him I was done with him completely bc he did lead me on alot. We never spoken to each other since and that was nearly a decade ago. He was honest I just wasn't listening. It backfired for trying to force something that wasn't there.
@CH-vu7ik4 жыл бұрын
@@Poison_Ivy22 I blocked him because we want different things. I was totally fine with never hearing from him again. He was the one who contacted me through my work number which I have no control over. I'm not doing FWB and he doesn't want a relationship, so I walked away. I'm not sure why he can't accept it because I already did. We don't see each other in person at all. He has texted me a couple times and I'm just trying to decide if I should completely block him or stay friends. I'm not tempted to fall for the bullshit anymore. I figure he will drift away once he realizes I'm not changing my mind. I want to find my person and he's not it and that's ok.
@leefray9734 жыл бұрын
C H he sounds like a Narcissist and only wants you to remain in his life to try and keep you around to toy with you. Stay no contact.
@jaydaarmstrong30114 жыл бұрын
Yes- I loved this!
@milaabaoag28454 жыл бұрын
I have my ldr 1yr and 6 month's.... He's always ignoring me .and I pull him away twice he came back and say sorry and promise to communicate with me often.he said he don't want to lose me.but he still not doing he's promise .should to move on
@Rahel88114 жыл бұрын
love this format
@sharinecheah51834 жыл бұрын
I met a guy who never bother to say "I am sorry". Everything cannot be his faults... Duh...Horrible if fall in love with this type of personality.
@sarittaal77114 жыл бұрын
Now that was a funny video😂 and helpful too, thanks! ❤
@mollykam82944 жыл бұрын
Great tips 👍🏻 👍🏻 👍🏻
@jovizoe13384 жыл бұрын
Can I know how should we react when we are working in one place? Which need us to communicate and see each other.🤔
@melissasanchez89972 жыл бұрын
I was going on my first date from being single. The stud me Up I waited 1 hour for him. He Call me are text. So next day. Still no answer from here. So Said some not good words to Him and delete all info about Him.
@chelseyt709111 ай бұрын
What if he says "it takes time to change and i should be patient" as an excuse to not change (in my opinion) but its also reasonable so how do i resoond?
@angelstar5924 жыл бұрын
This guy just text me Good Morning and Good Night every day. He use to text more, call me, video chat etc but then he just only text me Good Morning and Good Night very rarely anything else. It's very boring , I can't understand his game and Idk if I should just ignore him or not. Sidenote: We are long distance and can't explore us being more right now due to the pandemic.
@joda14324 жыл бұрын
Great coach
@TheEmster20114 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!!
@chidkhwanchannel82064 жыл бұрын
You are my favorite dating coach💓
@noik_114 жыл бұрын
This was really good
@Adam-cc9ny4 жыл бұрын
This seems like good advice for high schoolers, not for grown adults tough.
@ev65174 жыл бұрын
This is great but does this apply to younger men too? I'm 23 and stupidly dealing with boys of 20-21 years old I know that's not much younger than me haha but it's still a difference!
@meadowc60584 жыл бұрын
e v RUN guys that age are the worst! Trust me they don’t know shit and the sex is bad too. Don’t sleep with them until they’ve committed to you and be super careful.