The Ultimate Guide On Ignoring Men And Why It Works And Why It Doesn't

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Elliot Scott

Elliot Scott

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@NofyahShemTov
@NofyahShemTov 4 жыл бұрын
Fuck yes it works.
@ScarlettTantrika
@ScarlettTantrika 4 жыл бұрын
Nofyah Shem Tov lmaooo
@I.am.H.E.R
@I.am.H.E.R 4 жыл бұрын
Really 😳😳😳
@cozettem8226
@cozettem8226 4 жыл бұрын
I dont want a guy that I habe to tell him to communicate with me more often. If he doesn't want to text ot call me I certainly don't want to push him to. He should WANT to contact me frequently and if he is coming and going then obviously there are other women he is pursuing or he is just not that into me. Which is likely the case. I've experienced this for 2-3 years. Theres the guy who messages me daily and theres the guy who messages every 1-4 weeks, especially when he is in my area or just too busy or chasing countless women. A man who wants us won't do any of this BS in the first place.
@stefanieleavitt5224
@stefanieleavitt5224 4 жыл бұрын
Cozette M what if his excuse is he works a lot and has a 2 year old? But only saw him when he had his son and once every couple weeks (only when he has his son cause if not he is working? 🤔
@MissSarahGM
@MissSarahGM 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly, we should not even deal with that. I've experienced it as well, (like most women these days). When the guy courted me daily, each time after a little time he turned out to withdraw or cut if off suddenly. Guys who have emotional unresolved issues, who were never available for something real but just wanted a taste of it.
@HopeW9523
@HopeW9523 4 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry I don't give a shit who you are if you want to be with someone then you want to see them and talk to them. Especially if they go from doing it all the time to not at all. That's BS and will never be okay with me!!
@Thistooshallpass2
@Thistooshallpass2 4 жыл бұрын
I agree if he’s not texting me fuck him saving my energy .. I really like a guy we dated for a month then bam ... he’s too busy.. went from dating to phone calls to texting every day to texting once a day to none ... ok dude I got the signal .. just fucking tell me with words that your mom interested, no biggie but the no communication is childish
@nikkicampos1391
@nikkicampos1391 4 жыл бұрын
Amennn! 🙌🏼🙌🏼
@missminti
@missminti 4 жыл бұрын
The only men that ever played games with me were ones that were beneath me. If you lower your standards, get ready to be played. Making them work for it weeds out the duds that keep up or stay consistent. It's win-win to hold out and play cool.
@berzerkfury1459
@berzerkfury1459 4 жыл бұрын
Making them work for it is a game?
@btstakescareofmewhenimsick4892
@btstakescareofmewhenimsick4892 4 жыл бұрын
Funny you mentioned giving 2 chances. I gave him 2 chances one year apart. He blew it. I dumped him 2 weeks ago. I love him, but i dont want a relationship like this.
@flyandshy00
@flyandshy00 4 жыл бұрын
If you always see him online and he's not calling you (no relationship could be built through the text) delete his number, he's talking to someone more important.
@itsmesia2469
@itsmesia2469 4 жыл бұрын
Yes true ...!!
@thechristianpsychologer3865
@thechristianpsychologer3865 4 жыл бұрын
Some men are more introverted though. That's not entirely accurate. But even then... Yes for the most part.
@breefordark
@breefordark 4 жыл бұрын
Even if it's not another woman he's choosing something else as a higher priority than you.
@redfather5342
@redfather5342 3 жыл бұрын
So what who cares
@dragonfly8184
@dragonfly8184 4 жыл бұрын
Ive cut him off since 1/31. I don't put any efforts anymore. No calls, no messages, nothing. I had 2 pull away to save my own heart. Last time he messaged me was 2/15, that was the last time I responded. Now, im full blown ignoring him. Im in completely NC from now on. Still no apology for how he treated me. Im so tired of these games with men. Grow up....shit
@taniawilliams14
@taniawilliams14 4 жыл бұрын
blackwidow 81 I hear you. Keep it up girl.. he will reach out again however just work on u
@dragonfly8184
@dragonfly8184 4 жыл бұрын
@@taniawilliams14 o i plan on it.
@jahlive1243
@jahlive1243 4 жыл бұрын
I overstand you!
@beijaflor2222
@beijaflor2222 4 жыл бұрын
blackwidow 81 Would you ever take him back
@pandorapink1227
@pandorapink1227 4 жыл бұрын
Your young. And there is so much fish in the sea. Keep dating and enjoy yourself. 🌺🌸🌹💕🌸💕💐🙏
@tonitaquetaparks3304
@tonitaquetaparks3304 4 жыл бұрын
You might as well forget about them if they are not doing what you want them to do. Just wait for the right guy to come along and give you what you without having to say anything. If two people are on two different stages into the communication then it won't work anyway.
@alee4866
@alee4866 2 жыл бұрын
thats why there are so many 40-60 year old single women
@skyfall1481
@skyfall1481 3 жыл бұрын
Think of it like this...you might like him, but you aren’t waiting around. You don’t need the games, find someone easy to interact with.
@andreasherrell9277
@andreasherrell9277 3 жыл бұрын
I can recommend you to someone that helped me get my ex back
@andreasherrell9277
@andreasherrell9277 3 жыл бұрын
Text him on what sap
@andreasherrell9277
@andreasherrell9277 3 жыл бұрын
+ 2 3 4 8 1 5 9 1 5 8 9 1 5 💕💕💕💕💕💕
@amandamacarthur9378
@amandamacarthur9378 4 жыл бұрын
I just went out on a date with a guy, we both had a great time, but now he barely texts me. I have only initiated twice, but when he does reach out its like a summary of his day no questions about mine. I respond kindly, but cooly. Now I haven't heard from him in 5 days... I guess, it's time to ignore he's not for me.
@lucya8916
@lucya8916 4 жыл бұрын
You deserve so much more than this behaviour. Hope you find someone wonderful.
@Poison_Ivy22
@Poison_Ivy22 4 жыл бұрын
Omg girl! Same crap happened to me 7 years ago with a guy I use to really like. Led me on, hung out a few times, always texted me first to just BAM he stopped messaging me, he ignored me for days before giving me an answer as to why he was ignoring me. He finally answered almost a week later confessing *I can see us together for a while but not forever and from what I know about you YOU need someone better than me* But he would still randomly reach out to me talking about his day, leading me on again. Nice long paragraph like he still cared but once I responded he'd just leave it at *read* and I wouldn't hear from him again for months. He even stood me up 3 times. 5 months of it and I finally said to myself *FUCK IT.. he doesn't want me? Well somebody else will* I never bothered with him again and moved on and fell in love with another guy 2 months later and been together 6 years now. He tried coming back 4 different times but I told him everytime calmly that I wasn't into him anymore. Narcissist assholes never want the girl until she becomes a chase again. You're not alone. And please forgive me for the long summary. Your story just hit close to home with me. Dont make the mistake I did by letting that continue bc it will as long as you allow it. I made the mistake by letting it go on for 5 months. You can do better. You didn't lose him. He lost you. Don't forget that.
@auradiana
@auradiana 4 жыл бұрын
Sentence two should flip to top. Girl on top always 😍
@stefanieleavitt5224
@stefanieleavitt5224 4 жыл бұрын
BritBrat-Sweetheart 923 been a year of breadcrumbing for me
@spookycat2679
@spookycat2679 4 жыл бұрын
There's always someone better. Yeah, you kinda liked a guy.. So what. Imagine being treated like a princess by someone who cares. That's my new mentality with dating
@sandyinkwiggyyassqueen2181
@sandyinkwiggyyassqueen2181 4 жыл бұрын
These "relationship advice" videos are about BOYS. A real MAN doesn't need to act like a stupid teenager or play games to have a relationship with a high value good woman. Period.
@kymgarcia09
@kymgarcia09 4 жыл бұрын
Yasss
@paulaneary7877
@paulaneary7877 3 жыл бұрын
Sandy- I agree totally.
@ENFPerspectives
@ENFPerspectives 3 жыл бұрын
Ya, and 99.9% are still boys.
@ENFPerspectives
@ENFPerspectives 3 жыл бұрын
Yup!!! D-U-M-B
@thinkingoutloud675
@thinkingoutloud675 3 жыл бұрын
Isn't a real man with value going to walk away if he is ignored?
@alyshalennie1431
@alyshalennie1431 4 жыл бұрын
If he respected and valued you he wouldn't risk loosing you if you have to tell a man how to treat you he doesn't deserve you
@rileysmiley9585
@rileysmiley9585 4 жыл бұрын
Being MYSTERIOUSLY unavailable is quite ATTRACTIVE! Don't be thirsty... don't text them first...EVER...you don't want to be like the other women who lower their standards and bug people on social media... don't let them come over to date you after 9:00 pm...don't be a "booty call". Guy's love women who are busy but very "nice and hot!"
@katarzynarajska7608
@katarzynarajska7608 2 жыл бұрын
Why the hell women should not text guys if they want? It's stupid. Stupid game
@jeanzyc.5103
@jeanzyc.5103 3 жыл бұрын
If a guy ignored me in the past for a week I figured he didn't care enough. If he really liked me, he'd be thinking about me and if he's thinking about me he'd take even a few minutes to call. It's as simple as that in my opinion. Hey it worked. I waited for that guy who was truly interested and I'm engaged now after being divorced for 10 years.
@skyfall1481
@skyfall1481 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve recently spilt from someone myself and on an app. Damn these online dudes are a pain in the ass and makes me miss my ex. He was never flaky like this shit. Sigh!!!
@jeanzyc.5103
@jeanzyc.5103 3 жыл бұрын
@@skyfall1481 😃 yeah that's probably not the best way to meet someone. What about church? People lie like crazy on dating sites.
@skyfall1481
@skyfall1481 3 жыл бұрын
@@jeanzyc.5103 Yeah, looking into local clubs to meet better quality people. Even if it’s friendship. But, I understand if someone doesn’t have interest to want to meet..but sometimes the ones who don’t want to meet, I wonder what they’re hiding. God knows who you’re really talking to.
@jessicahitchens6926
@jessicahitchens6926 6 ай бұрын
People lie everywhere. The church isn't any different.
@amy-zk3fo
@amy-zk3fo 4 жыл бұрын
I told guy after I took him out for dinner for his birthday and he was constantly on his phone. I told him to to lose my number. It’s been a month. That was disrespectful no matter who it is. So I will not reach back out. I’m okay not having someone like that in my life.
@welshlady212000
@welshlady212000 4 жыл бұрын
amy 92 your first mistake was taking him to dinner, if he was really into you, he would have took you to dinner. Lean back, relax, be the prize.
@steffis699
@steffis699 4 жыл бұрын
amy 92 but it was his birthday? So it’s normal to answer the phone
@eva-nr2bs
@eva-nr2bs 4 жыл бұрын
@@welshlady212000 Yes, I agree. For his birthday "from a girl", I guess a card would be nice and then "he would" take "both of you" for dinner. Sorry girl :-)
@Poison_Ivy22
@Poison_Ivy22 4 жыл бұрын
I agree with the other comments. Sorry hun but never give a guy who isnt your man a silver platter when you first meet him. I did that for a guy once. Me and him went on a blind double date with a friend and her boyfriend at Dave & Busters. First time I met him. I payed for his food. I spoiled him. I know I was good to him. And when it finally came down to him actually buying me something, like a cute stuffed animal from the arcade he instead used his winning tickets to buy himself something instead. Such a douche bag. My friend and her man pointed that out to me. I was so embarrassed since it was my first time meeting him too. Guys just for some reason dont respect women that they dont have to work for. I learned that the hard way at one time too. Next time make the man pay for you. It will rise your respect status love. Good luck!
@eva-nr2bs
@eva-nr2bs 4 жыл бұрын
@@steffis699 Wow,that's is good point too. I did not even think about that.......
@cheryl6109
@cheryl6109 3 жыл бұрын
The nice thing is when you heal you heart and focus on improving yourself your more able to accept the hard truths. thank you for your videos!
@zaraabbas6253
@zaraabbas6253 4 жыл бұрын
The fact that we are watching this is an indication of something..... time to break up sis
@rebeccachurchman7323
@rebeccachurchman7323 4 жыл бұрын
When a man and a woman genuinely share love none of this necessarily applies. This applies to people playing the field. True lovers make up the rules between them as they go along
@princia2149
@princia2149 4 жыл бұрын
Rebecca Churchman so true
@lucya8916
@lucya8916 4 жыл бұрын
👍💖
@xiomaraortega4199
@xiomaraortega4199 4 жыл бұрын
That’s fact !
@rileysmiley9585
@rileysmiley9585 4 жыл бұрын
I concur 💙
@ENFPerspectives
@ENFPerspectives 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely Right.
@npkrn6764
@npkrn6764 Жыл бұрын
Yes one thing to remember is like he said... sometimes its not that anyone is wrong or trying to be offensive - as in the texting vs calling example. Sometimes its just incompatibility.
@mariebae6840
@mariebae6840 4 жыл бұрын
Taking more notes than in all of my college classes combined.
@avgwhitegurl6646
@avgwhitegurl6646 4 жыл бұрын
I pulled away for seven months. We are meeting next week. It's been rough. He says I'm his queen and he's my king. He chased for seven months. Listen to this it works!
@nofybn7794
@nofybn7794 4 жыл бұрын
7 months? No fucking way! BY THEN I AM DONE! BYE BYE! SEE YOU!! That is a ---- NO for me!! What happens after? Another 7 months space? That ain't a relationship!!
@shutit4024
@shutit4024 4 жыл бұрын
nofy bn facts I was done after a month with a dude that used me then he tried to come back a month later I said fuck no even at the age of 19 I knew not to let him back
@Poison_Ivy22
@Poison_Ivy22 4 жыл бұрын
@@shutit4024 right? A guy that I use to talk to 7 years ago led me on and then rejected me but still kept me around as his ego booster bc he sure as shit didnt want me but loved me wanting him while he was out banging other girls he's keeping me in the dark convincing me he'd one day be with me he had no problem hanging out with anyone else but made every excuse as to why he couldnt see me yet he swore he had such *strong feelings for me* but was going through shit wow was I an idiot then. Once I was over it and got into a new relationship and still with my man today the asshole tried coming back 4 different times over the last 5 years saying that *I'm the one who got away* and wants to give us another chance bc he messed up bla bla bla. I was flattered and kind but still done.
@Magnoliasdiary
@Magnoliasdiary 4 жыл бұрын
If a guy doesn't reach out to me in a month he's OUT for good.
@atarbuck3452
@atarbuck3452 4 жыл бұрын
It probably didn’t workout with the other chick.
@torilynn5935
@torilynn5935 4 жыл бұрын
I like the way this video is set up! I am not an audio learner, and I take in so much more information when I can visually see it like you did here. Thanks Elliot!
@lifeventures6651
@lifeventures6651 4 жыл бұрын
Yes! People do not respond to talk, they respond to consequences! I will say though that I’m not answering if it’s obvious what he did wrong. Those are my standards. I don’t want an idiot. Most men know after a certain age.
@d.n9705
@d.n9705 4 жыл бұрын
It's never going to work no matter what you do if he's just not in love with you. Even if he does at one point, eventually love fades anyway.. you're never going to win if you're expecting love from someone else other than yourself
@Smokillo
@Smokillo 3 жыл бұрын
So can you win if you don’t expect love ?
@iwonderwhatmydognamedme4000
@iwonderwhatmydognamedme4000 2 жыл бұрын
“Even if he does at one point love fades away” your basically saying don’t give love a try or dating a try because you’ll have that fear of them fading out of love with you. Lmao??????? You have to try and if they fall out of love there’s always reasons. Figure it out.
@belle2263
@belle2263 4 жыл бұрын
I love the formatting and all the work you put in. The topic is really good as it's a very common problem for women. I've followed your advice and gotten rid of lots of men from these reasons. But I just love watching you and it helps to keep hearing it. Each video has a bit of information added which I didn't hear previously. Thanks and keep up the good work.
@omgcarsonnn
@omgcarsonnn Жыл бұрын
I really like how you address some potential men thinking this is stupid. It means a lot to have another man stand up and be like “no, it’s a standard she has just as you have”. I can’t STAND when some dudes have all these qualifications on your breast and ass size but literally nothing *actually* important like communication skills, common interests, common desires. This is such a great video!
@shelly8775
@shelly8775 3 жыл бұрын
So basically ignoring 100% is moving on and not looking back.
@JT-ss6si
@JT-ss6si 4 жыл бұрын
Why am i liking this video before even watching it? I guess because i saw that it was more than 10 minutes long with a pretty cool title.
@paulinabarron1133
@paulinabarron1133 4 жыл бұрын
Elliot! I've been watching your videos and I applied scarcity at the right times. It totally works like a charm. Among other tips, Ive gained control enough to feel like I know what I'm doing! Thanks for the knowledge!
@kyleighcooley8667
@kyleighcooley8667 Жыл бұрын
Soooooo glad I found you my goodness. This structure will be very helpful in the future. Over here treating 6's like 10's.. no mo!!
@eveline_yoga
@eveline_yoga 4 жыл бұрын
I like this format and you had me cracking up as usual. Love your work.
@dr.m6152
@dr.m6152 2 жыл бұрын
Elliot is the only one who truly said that you have to ignore 100%,as if you'll never hear from him again and that's absolutely true. I actually figured that out by myself when I finally decided to move amd not care whether he comes back and I just happened to come across his videos amd I'm so glad he says the same thing, I just wish I'd found his channel before so I wouldn't have made the same DAMN mistakes for years! I'm happy to have reached a place where I value myself and have better self esteem though. Work on yourself ladies the glow up is WORTH it irrespective of whether you get te guy (p. S. He did initiate contact with me but I left him on seen. Give him a taste of his own medicine lol)
@jesuslovesus8054
@jesuslovesus8054 Жыл бұрын
After this video, in my heart you are oficially my brother I always wanted! With lots of gratefulnes, I love you! Thank you!
@Layla-hg4ux
@Layla-hg4ux 2 жыл бұрын
I love this video!! This is the best and straight forward answer no BS talk, I like this approach, Elliot!
@saphirus1able
@saphirus1able 4 жыл бұрын
This is brilliant. Thank you so much. I love these formats and I love how you share home truths about men with us women. I love your no bs manner and that you don't mince words and you don't soften the blow - you tell it like it really is. You have helped so much already in a short period of time and I thank you!
@jezebellab1779
@jezebellab1779 3 жыл бұрын
Definitely gonna be a good 3-6 mos before I possibly hear from him. But...... since I moved, there are endless opportunities. No loss!!! Amazing how when there are plenty of options, much easier to ignore 🙏🏼
@haddi9555
@haddi9555 3 жыл бұрын
I get tired of saying something and calling him out, so I let my actions do the talking, dont care if he stays or go... am done.
@memorablywonderful
@memorablywonderful 11 ай бұрын
Very clear and no questions left🎉
@sameichang3928
@sameichang3928 4 жыл бұрын
it absolutely works, he reached out once every two month, then I ignored him, then he reached out in two month, then I ignored him, then he‧‧‧‧‧best method ever
@ThatGirlLynda
@ThatGirlLynda 4 жыл бұрын
The universe has brought me here after being in a 13 year long relationship... only to find out he was on dating apps the last 4 years during Quarantine 😩😩😩😷 letting go and moving on.. hopefully 👀 🤷🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️
@Xiandoe
@Xiandoe 4 жыл бұрын
I love this guys channel! So real no BS method 💥
@yeeeeeyy
@yeeeeeyy 4 жыл бұрын
You are so funny and at the same time so intelligent in this field
@eeland6972
@eeland6972 4 жыл бұрын
It’s funny..it hit me...you’re kind of the father so many woman (I) didn’t have...what you’re teaching us (me) is telling me how guys are and telling with love, care and tender protection ....how to be a strong, communicating woman standing in our (my )own feminine power. Thanx (daddy cool) ❤️ The handicapped learning to undo
@MyCent1
@MyCent1 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Your videos are valuable. Appreciating you here from South Africa.
@kirazinn
@kirazinn 4 жыл бұрын
I like the format. It helps me understand your points better
@tangleduup
@tangleduup 4 жыл бұрын
This is awesome Elliot! I like this format as well! ❤
@ElliotScottDating
@ElliotScottDating 4 жыл бұрын
Yay, thank you!
@sarahs657
@sarahs657 4 жыл бұрын
Lol! The beware of dog sign!!!! Hahaha great analogy
@kymgarcia09
@kymgarcia09 4 жыл бұрын
Can't believe that love has to be this complicated.. I think I rather die alone than play this stupid games with men smh
@datingandlifeadvicechannel7534
@datingandlifeadvicechannel7534 2 жыл бұрын
Me too
@bullgirlmamamuse7452
@bullgirlmamamuse7452 Жыл бұрын
you'll die alone anything lol. People in relationships will die alone. Noone coming with you on the journey of death. We were botn alone and we'll die alone. I think once people really reflect on the meaning of this they wouldnt stress out so much about relationships
@jesuslovesus8054
@jesuslovesus8054 Жыл бұрын
@@bullgirlmamamuse7452so wise…
@jessicahitchens6926
@jessicahitchens6926 6 ай бұрын
Actually incorrect. It can take years for people to die. And your at the mercy of strangers or completely isolated at your most vulnerable.
@dw6317
@dw6317 4 жыл бұрын
Excellent content Elliot! Thank you.
@elizabethseiden1867
@elizabethseiden1867 4 жыл бұрын
I have a ton of options, and I don’t have time for predatory creeps! Also, they say at least five guys at a time, not for sex, just as a one date term. They don’t get a second date unless they are very romantic by taking me out where I want!🤓🐶
@sssparkle
@sssparkle 4 жыл бұрын
thanks for the reminder about standards! That’s right it’s a numbers game
@melany.muraour
@melany.muraour 3 жыл бұрын
Elliott... I didn't give him any warning but I told him to lose my number because twice he just stopped communicating... I wanted him to see I have standards... Not sure if I handled this right? Im sorry... This is why... This is what I want ... 💯 Percent awesome advice 😂☺️😂 Let go of the outcome... Be clear about what you want when he comes back...
@lucyluz1651
@lucyluz1651 4 жыл бұрын
Yes why yes I LOVE your videos Elliot! You da best !! ♥️
@daniellejones6339
@daniellejones6339 3 жыл бұрын
Great information!🙂
@julieb4765
@julieb4765 4 жыл бұрын
Ladies.... Don't date a skater. They'll just waste your time
@user-ed4fp8iq1r
@user-ed4fp8iq1r 4 жыл бұрын
That is tru
@RoseGold1224
@RoseGold1224 4 жыл бұрын
Roller skates or skate board
@laetitia9652
@laetitia9652 Ай бұрын
Don’t date a skater? Ridiculous. What does a skateboard have to do with anything. It’s the type of guy he is.
@yeeeeeyy
@yeeeeeyy 4 жыл бұрын
I understand all your concepts. You explain with many examples and make it so much fun and you're funny
@lindazeisky3845
@lindazeisky3845 4 жыл бұрын
One of your best videos... Keep doing them. Yes, much better. Thank you! 💚
@szdkninja2658
@szdkninja2658 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Happy Easter!
@carolyn8769
@carolyn8769 4 жыл бұрын
Another great video Elliot, thank you!! 😁
@SugarHue
@SugarHue Жыл бұрын
Yeah, he said he didnt feel a spark, said he wanted to be friends, I didnt want that, left for a month and a half, no contact at all, he came back and now he wants to meet again(LDR). We'll see how it goes.
@sarokitas89
@sarokitas89 7 ай бұрын
How did it go??
@SugarHue
@SugarHue 7 ай бұрын
​@sarokitas89 met up late march , had an amazing time together. Asked him what we were bevause at that point it'd been about a year and we were acting like a couple. He said he wanted to see where it goes and that was it for me, it was becoming a mind fuck. He promised we'd talk about it the following day , instead he ghosted me for almost 48 hours. I messaged him about ghosting me, he wrote me a message saying pretty much now the reason was that we move at different paces and that he wasn't the guy for me. Tearful phone call, I removed and blocked him on everything. Haven't spoken since but I think he's seeing someone new, possibly was talking to her when we were talking but I dint know
@bonbonau
@bonbonau 4 жыл бұрын
This is your best video yet. Thank you
@eva-nr2bs
@eva-nr2bs 4 жыл бұрын
8:00 Let's say even though of we won't understand what you're trying to say, these metaphors are very helpful.
@isabellairaca1669
@isabellairaca1669 2 жыл бұрын
I didn t make my standards clear but he has fallen more than twice about calling me in the evening and he even didn t answer my calls moreover he initiated to help me to fix something at my house on the following day ( Sunday) and he didn't nor he apologized
@katiehice7597
@katiehice7597 4 жыл бұрын
Love this format! Thanks!
@katiehice7597
@katiehice7597 4 жыл бұрын
I love that you took time to acknowledge my comment! Super cool! Happy Easter!!
@kamsandhu8792
@kamsandhu8792 4 жыл бұрын
Happy Easter elliot
@frenchkiss8789
@frenchkiss8789 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks! Great video
@ElliotScottDating
@ElliotScottDating 4 жыл бұрын
Glad you liked it!
@HopeW9523
@HopeW9523 4 жыл бұрын
This is funny because a lot of men feel the same about women, they want you to go after them. Screw that!! I think it's why I've given up on finding someone. I'm not desperate and I know what I want, but chasing to me is playing games. I just won't invest in anyone now until they invest first. To many people play games these days and I don't care who you are. Every person has made mistakes in some way shape or form but you learn. I know I have!
@kamsandhu8792
@kamsandhu8792 4 жыл бұрын
Hey Elliott good topic to talk about
@Allidsareused
@Allidsareused 4 жыл бұрын
This feels like maths , I am not good at maths!
@Magnoliasdiary
@Magnoliasdiary 4 жыл бұрын
Trust this crazy cat man, it works, I'm a crazy gemini and this shit works.
@Queengemi5
@Queengemi5 4 жыл бұрын
YogaChocolateLove I’m a Gemini
@elizabethseiden1867
@elizabethseiden1867 4 жыл бұрын
I always tell guys that my celebrity crush is Leonardo Di Caprio, which is true! Then I go to other average Joe’s and find the one who gives me the most resources, respect and time!
@pennir8834
@pennir8834 4 жыл бұрын
Great video Elliot one of my favourites ❤️ stay safe 🙏🏻
@kieramazmi8141
@kieramazmi8141 4 жыл бұрын
I'm into day 2 ...the guy already said he is not interested in a. relationship and I keep being accesible to him..so about 1 year..I think its time to just stop
@SR77736
@SR77736 4 жыл бұрын
Great content as usual.
@astil7930
@astil7930 4 жыл бұрын
Great work Elliott! To the point no BS. Also enjoyed reading the tips, and the length of the video. Felt like I was back at uni! 👍🙏😃
@Kat-lq8sp
@Kat-lq8sp 4 жыл бұрын
This was a good format.
@dixiechampagne2892
@dixiechampagne2892 4 жыл бұрын
I saw the sign, and it opened up my eyes, I saw the sign...Thanks, Elliot, for sticking Ace Of Base in my head, lol
@CindyCastro25
@CindyCastro25 4 жыл бұрын
Great info!!!
@lizzyafonso9655
@lizzyafonso9655 4 жыл бұрын
Great video Elliot ❤️ stay home and stay safe.
@bethp3468
@bethp3468 4 жыл бұрын
should you let a guy know you are dating multiple people in the talking stage? ive heard several men get so mad when girls do that, they say they are old fashion and want women to date just him and vice versa. what do you think of this concept?
@sssparkle
@sssparkle 4 жыл бұрын
I wouldn’t share that. It’s actually none of their business. Once you are exclusive then you can pull back from the other men without him having to know. It’s just hurtful and makes people insecure. Not worth it
@raisaid7960
@raisaid7960 4 жыл бұрын
Love this. It makes alot of sense.
@joyajackson5982
@joyajackson5982 4 жыл бұрын
The sad part about this is why do I have to ignore him for him to act right! Grow up! If a man wants to call or text me he should want to do it just because he wants to. This ignoring shit really blows my mind. After a while I’ll become uninterested. 🤷🏾‍♀️
@Poison_Ivy22
@Poison_Ivy22 4 жыл бұрын
I know. It sucks and its stupid but Elliot isnt the only man explaining this my step uncle told me the same things about making a man work for you bc thats how they developed respect for you. That's just how it is unfortunately. I started taking my step uncle's advice and Elliot and my dating life became much easier. Guys actually started wanting me then they did before when I was too available. Guys like the chase and to feel like they earned you. They dont want a girl that they think any guy could easily have. They like to believe its their idea.
@joyajackson5982
@joyajackson5982 4 жыл бұрын
BritBrat-Sweetheart 923 I get it but it just stupid. Women always have to change themselves for a man to act right! This double standard of a society. I can ignore I don’t like while I’m dating others sure because I don’t like them. Yet they think that gives them the green light to chase me when it really means leave me alone. Men like to think everything is their idea. But ok..... 🙄
@Poison_Ivy22
@Poison_Ivy22 4 жыл бұрын
@@joyajackson5982 I agree. Men can sure suck. Been in a relationship for 6 years now. I have no desire to go back to the single world and put my heart out there to get broken again. I found love. Don't need to look anywhere else. Good luck
@marlinhowell896
@marlinhowell896 3 жыл бұрын
Good advice
@danamumphrey2186
@danamumphrey2186 4 жыл бұрын
great vid❤️
@pramatkat
@pramatkat 4 жыл бұрын
Real good points 👍
@CH-vu7ik
@CH-vu7ik 4 жыл бұрын
So I did ignore him, block him on social media and my cell because he said he doesn't want a relationship and I do. I'm fine with parting ways even though I love him, but he contacted me through my work phone not understanding why I cut him off. I told him again and he said I'm so amazing and he wants me in his life forever I'm one of his best friends. I told him I'm not interested in anything physical unless we are dating. He asked if we could still stay in touch. So far he's being cordial but not out of line. Should I still talk to him? I'm absolutely holding my ground this time.
@kellykap3578
@kellykap3578 4 жыл бұрын
C H no
@taniawilliams14
@taniawilliams14 4 жыл бұрын
C H no let him go.. unless you want him to continue to be disrespectful to u
@Poison_Ivy22
@Poison_Ivy22 4 жыл бұрын
Either accept he doesnt want a relationship and continue to stay only friends or let him go if it's too much for you to handle without temptation of letting him use you. Either way he made up his mind he doesn't want anything more. Believe him. A guy did the same thing to me and I convinced myself I could change his mind and it never happened all he wanted out of me was FWB but I wanted more and he knew that. But once he understood how much I really liked him he told me we had to stop, and told me he didnt want more than friends. I was hurt and told him I was done with him completely bc he did lead me on alot. We never spoken to each other since and that was nearly a decade ago. He was honest I just wasn't listening. It backfired for trying to force something that wasn't there.
@CH-vu7ik
@CH-vu7ik 4 жыл бұрын
@@Poison_Ivy22 I blocked him because we want different things. I was totally fine with never hearing from him again. He was the one who contacted me through my work number which I have no control over. I'm not doing FWB and he doesn't want a relationship, so I walked away. I'm not sure why he can't accept it because I already did. We don't see each other in person at all. He has texted me a couple times and I'm just trying to decide if I should completely block him or stay friends. I'm not tempted to fall for the bullshit anymore. I figure he will drift away once he realizes I'm not changing my mind. I want to find my person and he's not it and that's ok.
@leefray973
@leefray973 4 жыл бұрын
C H he sounds like a Narcissist and only wants you to remain in his life to try and keep you around to toy with you. Stay no contact.
@jaydaarmstrong3011
@jaydaarmstrong3011 4 жыл бұрын
Yes- I loved this!
@milaabaoag2845
@milaabaoag2845 4 жыл бұрын
I have my ldr 1yr and 6 month's.... He's always ignoring me .and I pull him away twice he came back and say sorry and promise to communicate with me often.he said he don't want to lose me.but he still not doing he's promise .should to move on
@Rahel8811
@Rahel8811 4 жыл бұрын
love this format
@sharinecheah5183
@sharinecheah5183 4 жыл бұрын
I met a guy who never bother to say "I am sorry". Everything cannot be his faults... Duh...Horrible if fall in love with this type of personality.
@sarittaal7711
@sarittaal7711 4 жыл бұрын
Now that was a funny video😂 and helpful too, thanks! ❤
@mollykam8294
@mollykam8294 4 жыл бұрын
Great tips 👍🏻 👍🏻 👍🏻
@jovizoe1338
@jovizoe1338 4 жыл бұрын
Can I know how should we react when we are working in one place? Which need us to communicate and see each other.🤔
@melissasanchez8997
@melissasanchez8997 2 жыл бұрын
I was going on my first date from being single. The stud me Up I waited 1 hour for him. He Call me are text. So next day. Still no answer from here. So Said some not good words to Him and delete all info about Him.
@chelseyt7091
@chelseyt7091 11 ай бұрын
What if he says "it takes time to change and i should be patient" as an excuse to not change (in my opinion) but its also reasonable so how do i resoond?
@angelstar592
@angelstar592 4 жыл бұрын
This guy just text me Good Morning and Good Night every day. He use to text more, call me, video chat etc but then he just only text me Good Morning and Good Night very rarely anything else. It's very boring , I can't understand his game and Idk if I should just ignore him or not. Sidenote: We are long distance and can't explore us being more right now due to the pandemic.
@joda1432
@joda1432 4 жыл бұрын
Great coach
@TheEmster2011
@TheEmster2011 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!!
@chidkhwanchannel8206
@chidkhwanchannel8206 4 жыл бұрын
You are my favorite dating coach💓
@noik_11
@noik_11 4 жыл бұрын
This was really good
@Adam-cc9ny
@Adam-cc9ny 4 жыл бұрын
This seems like good advice for high schoolers, not for grown adults tough.
@ev6517
@ev6517 4 жыл бұрын
This is great but does this apply to younger men too? I'm 23 and stupidly dealing with boys of 20-21 years old I know that's not much younger than me haha but it's still a difference!
@meadowc6058
@meadowc6058 4 жыл бұрын
e v RUN guys that age are the worst! Trust me they don’t know shit and the sex is bad too. Don’t sleep with them until they’ve committed to you and be super careful.
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