How to Protect Our Children from Predators

[@lovenature7823]

Excellent and Important video. A two-hour video on this and how to speak to one's children would be more than useful. Thank you for this video. A Veteran.

[@kathleenmaclachlan1541]

I don't understand why people would tell you to "get to the point", because your videos do just that. Thank You for the upload. It's not an easy subject to talk about, but it's definitely one that needs to be discussed.

[@411Outdoors]

Thanks so much🙂

[@jackblack3886]

You are right on point! My dad's advice was to trust no one plus verify. Raised my children same way 30 years ago. Please, another video on elderly parents. They too are at risk! Thank you.

[@ipeefreely9865]

In my opinion, too many children have unsupervised access to social media and the internet. A lot of parents overshare information about their children's school, names, addresses, etc. My mama didn't allow me to sleep over friends" houses and I'm grateful for that, mow. I think I was "safer" growing up without all the access to the internet and social media.

[@jpdownunder4636]

Exactly 💯

[@SB-vt5xf]

I think that children's friends should not spend the night either. Each child stay in their own house.

[@AshesOfRoses]

Well said. Thank you!🌷

[@karenkrejci1367]

I totally agree with you! My kids are all grown & have kids, so I have shared your KZbin channel with them! My kids were little when “Stranger Danger” was the thing… I just know they need to scream & fight not to go with someone they don’t know. Yell, “I don’t know you! Somebody help me!” It’s just so scary! Thanks for having this channel!

[@ursulasmith6402]

Yes, he has a super great channel.

[@c.k.203]

Child predators do not work alone. They attempt to target parents they feel will not make waves, I am small but the Lord makes me mighty. Those that harm children are demons posing as people.

[@lyngruen8607]

AMEN! 💖☝️😊 Stay well and be safe 🙏 Texas Nana Psalm 91 I continue to pray for ALL LOST SOULS AND THE CHILDREN 🙏 💖

[@MSSHARIII]

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[@MrRAGE-md5rj]

...And ought to be treated as such.

[@ThatThrawnThaThaThaThrawn]

In other words, the curse senders are the demons, not the curse recievers...🤔💭 but there is a sin that leads to life...1 John 5:17.....Do you really have kids? I assume you do. What is life, and what is death really...? Could it be Bruce Lee was right about the art of dying and Chuck Norris was helping build his grave....? Or maybe Chuck Norris is dead and bruce lee is alive behind all this..? 😂. I think real predator behavior starts where people target people ( on the phone, internet, or in person, of the opposite sex or same sex who are far too young to know better or have serious disadvantages not generally from their racial heritage or background repeatedly giving them unrealistic expectations about what to expect from a typical relationship between a man and a woman of their own race. Bullies aren't born bullies, harsh environments, and constantly being taken advantage of creates mean people and hardened hearts...What does it profit a man to not warn another man or person of his shortcomings or where he has failed... or not grant peace and life to his laborers. These are the questions that really need to be asked and addressed properly for the future.

[@alison5009]

Glad I came across your channel. Thank you, Sir! My parents (now in their 70s) have been preaching to be aware and stay away from strangers. When you feel uncomfortable, that can be a good thing-instinct to get away from that person. I do the same for my kids. Can be anywhere, anyone, even in family.

[@aubreyleonae4108]

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[@fgallogallo7]

Bless you for bringing this up. It is a hard subject for some people, but it has to be done and those people still devoting their life taking down them dirtbags. I’m gonna leave it right there again. God bless you and all the men and women devoting their lives to a more than worthy cause.

[@breakablehandlewithcare]

due diligence ,

[@aubreyleonae4108]

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[@breakablehandlewithcare]

@@aubreyleonae4108 🙏

[@carloshenriquez4115]

Always love your videos brother

[@c.k.203]

My step dad wanted me as a child, he never had me though. He dud everything possible to paint me as a wild child and disrespectful, because i double locked my door at night and would sneak out whenever he and i were alone. Take tales of bad kids with a grain of salt.

[@alison5009]

I agree. If I think of a troubled child or teen, I think what else is going on in their lives? As humans, we are complex and it’s not always one reason. 😊

[@aubreyleonae4108]

@@alison5009 ❤

[@MSSHARIII]

Exactly! People love to highlight the effect and rarely take the time to understand the cause.

[@attilasanver5409]

God bless your good work.

[@georgebradshaw474]

It’s a sad world…

[@aubreyleonae4108]

It always has been ,,, used to be much worse ... oy vey . . . . . . .

[@MoonstoneMythoium]

You're absolutely right. I've been called a helicopter mom, but I can't help but think of these sorts of situations I want to protect my child from. I think it's important too to tell our children that it's okay to be rude if someone is wanting them to do something they feel uncomfortable with, because sometimes they can feel pressured into not wanting to hurt the other person's feelings, and then end up getting hurt themselves.

[@bkp7769]

Amen. Godspeed. Prayers for the recovery of victims and punishment for perpetrators. Former "Head-in-Sand" victim and unwitting resident of "La-La Land."

[@aubreyleonae4108]

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[@fortesfortunajuvat6782]

I can't watch the videos about those predators. My blood boils when I even notice them and if I were to ever encounter someone of that ilk I wouldn't have the control needed.

[@aubreyleonae4108]

That's my concern. Those things can go sideways quick. A civilized society cannot have vigilante justice and still be a society with any true freedom.

[@dylanvisitacion8618]

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[@aubreyleonae4108]

Churches .... Don't think your child will tell you. Happened to me from preschool through kindergarten. I still haven't told anyone but my brother, 60 years later.

[@Pomchiluv2019]

Yes. They are quite prevalent.

[@aubreyleonae4108]

There is nothing new under the sun. Evil is as evil does. Beware, for yourself and all those for whom you care. Due diligence is required from us every single day.

[@411Outdoors]

💯

[@jpdownunder4636]

Thanks again, LLC, for another timely video. I recently found out my 8 year old Granddaughter was chatting with someone she didn't know in some chat room somewhere. Her mum got the phone off her, and the other party got quite abusive. Cops were called. Nothing they could do, of course. My point being, electronic devices were used in that house as a child minding device. They had kiddies, locks, and all on the kids devices. The device used was the mother's phone. The 8 yo had cracked her password. Kids these days are more tech savvy than their parents. Gone are the days my ex and I would put on Wiggles or Thomas the Tank Engine tapes to keep the kids entertained. Cheers 🍻

[@theLamb-m3s]

No adult should be alone with a child of either sex, it just isnt safe.

[@aubreyleonae4108]

I would add to never allow two children to be unsupervised, ... duh,, I know ... But a child previously abused can be very capable and willing to abuse another child in a very short amount of time when given an opportunity. Then the victimized child has been primed to be victimized by everyone that can spot the flashing red "signs" of victimhood from then on. I know this to be true. Incidentally that abuser child grew up and married my friend whom he abused and beat on the regular. All this time an outstanding member of the church where he abused me when I was 4. I don't know what became of her and their children.

[@theLamb-m3s]

@aubreyleonae4108 GOOD INFO! AND TRUE!💔❤️

[@MSSHARIII]

​@@aubreyleonae4108This!! Needs to be talked about so much more. I'm so sorry, and thank you for sharing!

[@JennWest-Liberty]

Most people dont even know whats going on within their own marriage.

[@aubreyleonae4108]

I'll go you one further. I'll claim that most people haven't the first clue what's happening in their own mind.

[@aubreyleonae4108]

That's why, for some, it is merely child's play to get others to behave any way they wish them to.

[@MSSHARIII]

​@@aubreyleonae4108💯💯

[@VTPSTTU]

Thanks for the video. My problem with those vigilante channels is that some of them have gone over the line and attacked innocent people. I forget all of the details, but I saw a video recently where they went after the wrong guy. In the long run, they had to admit that they attacked a man who wasn't pursuing a child. However, they expressed no remorse for trying to ruin the life of an innocent man. To them, destroying an innocent person occasionally is justified collateral damage. That level of ignorance and self-righteousness makes them just as evil as the people that they are pursuing. When we talk about people wrongly approaching children, one of the biggest threats is in our schools. The education establishment now wants to give various perverts access to children under the excuse of diversity. Parents who have complained at school board meetings have been persecuted by federal law enforcement. In some ways, I could see where this attitude on the part of the government emboldens some of these predators. I don't have any children in my life. I go months at a time without talking to anyone under about twenty-one years of age. I don't have any sense of whether the average kid feels vulnerable. I could see where maybe kids don't feel vulnerable themselves but are aware of others who become vulnerable because they are seeking something in their lives. Those vulnerable kids end up talking to the wrong people online or even in real life and end up in bad situations because they are already in a place that makes them open to any kind of bad influence. Arming those vulnerable kids against that kind of influence might depend more on fixing the relationships in their lives so that they aren't looking for interaction beyond a circle of decent people in their lives. If we could strengthen those vulnerable kids, the predators would have a harder time finding victims. I don't understand why people become predators. I don't agree with all of the philosophical underpinnings of the Incel/MGTOW movement, but I understand the attitude of saying, "To Hell with it. I'm walking away from everything." How someone decides to seek victims instead of just walking away from society makes no sense. That the problem seems to be more common today than in the past is another important question. Maybe the problem really isn't more common today. I know that many church people believe that our society is being overwhelmed with demonic influence that can drive people towards these attitudes and behaviors. I'm slower to ascribe things to demons although I accept the idea in principle. My problem is with people just calling everything a demon instead of looking at other causes and issues. If we put aside the spiritual warfare or demonic explanation but still believe that the problem is worse, then we have to look for psychological causes for why more people today become predators. Everyone likes to take a problem like this and ascribe the whole problem to whatever a particular person doesn't like. If someone doesn't like fluoride in the water, then the whole problem is ascribed to fluoride in the water. If someone doesn't like tattoos, then the whole problem is ascribed to tattoos. If someone doesn't like social media, then the whole problem is ascribed to social media. If someone doesn't like marigolds, that person might ascribe the whole problem to the neighbor planting marigolds. These people are just trying to use a horrible situation to push their pet peeves on society. I have no respect for these people.

[@aubreyleonae4108]

You make some very good points. I tried to express some of those, albeit less eloquently. Having spent my entire life, and currently working with young people, I'll say they are much better informed than I was so long ago but the more things change the more they stay the same. There truly is nothing new, under the sun.

[@aubreyleonae4108]

Apparently much more eloquently as you tube deleted mine, lol.

[@VTPSTTU]

@@aubreyleonae4108 I wish I could see what you said. That you have real experience with young people is valuable.

[@411Outdoors]

Thank you for sharing a very deep perspective!!

[@mortykatz8818]

I did that with my daughter and granddaughter’s

[@aubreyleonae4108]

Kids are taught to believe and trust the authority figures in places, especially, like the church ( Sunday school etc.) this can be very confusing to a child if weaponized against them. Spend time talking with your kids about what "authority" persons are and are not. DO NOT leave them to figure it out, they haven't the capacity to do so.

[@raxks3663]

Very interesting video could you consider ground and pound defense in a street fight

[@411Outdoors]

Absolutely!

[@raxks3663]

@ thanks god bless

[@aubreyleonae4108]

Never assume anything at all about every single human in your child's life regardless of age, position, relation, relationship, or past familiarity. Sounds harsh but don't do it. When it comes to parenting one must never, never, never, "think," YOU MUST KNOW ! ! !

[@galedavis3198]

If YOU don’t talk to your kids,someone else will. These people need to, I’m not allowed to say what I think.

[@aubreyleonae4108]

I remember when my son asked that I "not" chaperone on a class trip, in his freshman year in high school, and for the very first time I allowed it. 😉

[@aubreyleonae4108]

My best friend was a chaperone on that trip, lol

[@theLamb-m3s]

@@aubreyleonae4108 thats when you do it 😁😉

[@LarryeWhite61]

I hope and Pray I never get that phone call from my sons saying, Dad I need your help because this happened to ......

[@Buddy-holly1]

I named the brand of a firearm and the algorithm removed my comment

[@aubreyleonae4108]

AlGore removes 1 out of 10 that I post anywhere 😁

[@plasticoflamingo2952]

Too much immaturity, incompetence, ignorance, and complicity surrounds this topic. I am a parent. I think there is nothing more terrifying, to a parent, than something bad happening to a child. But, that fear leads to an unwillingness to discuss this issue. It, also, leads to an overzealousness, and desire to use extreme violence, rather than cold intelligence, when it comes to dealing with predators. Innocent people have been wrongly accused, jailed, beaten, and killed, because of overly-emotional reactions. Without logic, and mature intelligence, no solution will be found.

[@411Outdoors]

Very interesting point and probably why I feel apprehension from time to time when I see certain individuals and how they’re dealt with

[@plasticoflamingo2952]

@411Outdoors It's not an easy topic, for sure. As much as people love talking about woodchippers, and such Medieval actions, I can't help but think of the instances of 18 year old boys, with 16 or 17 year old girlfriends, who have to be on The Registration, for life. That makes no sense. And, false accusations, from spiteful girls. Or girls who get pregnant, but don't want to get their boyfriends in trouble, so they name some other guy. Man, it's a hard topic to deal with, sensibly. Very emotional.

[@helendecruz1947]

Thank you for great content. You may have heard of the Neil Gaiman situation w so many women stepping forward alleging he abused them. A video on what to do if you are in their situation would be I think very helpful. Some of these women were dependent on him for housing and income, eg his nanny. How do you deal with a predator who has financial power over you?

[@specialtwice4975]

If people want to learn more I recommend the KZbin channel “anxiety war”. He has a presentation that talks about this subject, and he says they cannot be changed.

[@shaynehawkins713]

Like nothing online with kids. Nothing.

[@Kobknob]

I was a victim of molestation and it started my korn addiction what do you have to say about the porn sites that allow teens who are 18 but its legal but some of these teens look almost like middle schoolers why is korn being pushed on soceity and overlooked?????? I was a child crying out for help but nobody took me serious and instead made it worse so wassup with that!!!!!

[@lyngruen8607]

I hear you. Same here. It's easier to ignore and call you a liar than have to DEAL WITH IT OR ADMIT TRUTH. Sorry for your situation .. I pray for ALL LOST SOULS AND THE CHILDREN 🙏 💖 I do pray you are able to heal 🙏 and move forward. Texas Nana Psalm 91

[@theLamb-m3s]

@@Kobknob sumbunny let you down, more than one.💔❤️

[@aubreyleonae4108]

Truly nothing new under the sun ...people are no more evil now than they've ever been, technology only ever facilitates its implementation. Self centeredness lies at the core of it all. Lust and greed.... I just kept it all inside and continued being victimized far too long ... my heart goes out to you ❤

[@10.11.9]

Be sure to turn off location data on all of your child's social media applications. The only ones who should know where they're going are you.

[@JohnWhite-z9i]

I do not agree with your analysis. The majority of these crimes against minors are all occurring within the common institutions of schools and hospitals.

[@411Outdoors]

They occur everywhere

[@JohnWhite-z9i]

@@411Outdoors No, I think that's not correct. There are places where children grow up without getting assaulted. Schools and hospitals are places where children can be trapped. I do not want to argue. I am glad to see a video in my feed talking about this difficult subject.

[@411Outdoors]

I don’t disagree that it happens where you say, but a lot of these predators are being caught just simply pursuing kids on the Internet. That being said, I’m glad we both deem this issue Important.

[@shaynehawkins713]

No children online. With video games, Facebook, Maybe even no cellphones. Just no cellphones. Nothing online. No parents posting their kids online. Like fully nothing.

[@ursulasmith6402]

Let's introduce CEOP. Child exploitation prevention. All children need to do is to use the Click ceop icon. The police will be there real,quick. This is in the UK. If i would be governor or the president, i would introduce this.

[@christinaoflight241]

OUTSTANDING VIDEO!!! I APPLAUD U! & YES, FOR EVERYONE OUT THERE, MY MOTHER WAS ONE, SO PLEASE DO NOT THINK WOMEN AREN'T CAPABLE OF THIS EITHER!!!🙏🕯🪽✌️

[@aubreyleonae4108]

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[@theLamb-m3s]

@@christinaoflight241 😇💔❤️