How to receive PRINCESS TREATMENT (do less)

  Рет қаралды 341,678

Vickita Trivedi

Vickita Trivedi

7 ай бұрын

How to receive PRINCESS TREATMENT | masculine & feminine dynamics explained & high-value dating standards. This video is all about understanding masculine and feminine energy dynamics in dating and relationships so you can experience soft girl dating and get princess treatment from a man without...asking for it. High-value men, who are dominantly in their masculine energy will give you the world, but you also need to be a high-value woman who he wants to do that for. I go over 5 key things in this video. First, I give an in-depth masterclass on masculine and feminine energy dynamics, second, I discuss high-value woman standards (this is the key), third I go over high-value man pre-reqs, fourth I talk about high-value woman pre-reqs, and I finish it off by telling you what you need to stop doing in order to attract high-value men and receive princess treatment for him. The main theme of this video is learning how to fully embody your feminine energy in a relationship and also while dating. The more polarity between masculine and feminine, the more princess treatment you will get BUT the key is for YOU to be in your feminine energy.
The Feminine Dating Academy 🎓: vickitatrivedi.mykajabi.com/t...
The Feminine Protocol Membership ⚡️: vickitatrivedi.mykajabi.com/t...
Get Him Hooked 🧞‍♀️: vickitatrivedi.mykajabi.com/g...
Chapter cards:
1. masculine & feminine energy explained 4:25
2. high-value woman dating standards 11:17
3. pre-reqs for him
4. pre-reqs for you
5. what you need to stop doing
---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
[FREE] done-for-you Physical GLOW UP guide 🎀
vickitatrivedi.mykajabi.com/g...
[FREE] High-Value Woman Dating Plan Workbook 🥂
vickitatrivedi.mykajabi.com/o...
[FREE] 'That Girl' Digital Planner 📖🏅
vickitatrivedi.mykajabi.com/o...
---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
➕ Subscribe for weekly level-up videos !!!
🔥 JOIN OUR COMMUNITY TO STAY MOTIVATED & INSPIRED 🔥
/ 3075883615997194
📚 The books that fast-tracked my level-up journey
www.amazon.ca/shop/influencer...
IG - up close & personal daily life content: / vickitatrivedi
💼 For Business Inquiries: vickita@theempowermentera.com
---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
FAQ:
💄 My Lipstick Combo: www.amazon.ca/shop/influencer...
👀 Eyelashes: www.amazon.ca/shop/influencer...
Keywords: feminine energy, strong boundaries, financial security, dating, detachment, magnetic energy, well-being, peace, empowerment, personal growth, how to be magnetic, self-interest, dream self, emotional regulation, self-worth, that girl,seeking validation,how to validate yourself,external validation,male validation,stop people pleasing,chasing others,chasing validation,grow your self worth,how to improve self worth,validate yourself sis,insecure,self doubt,people pleaser,chasing men,emotional validation,how to be more secure in yourself,be more independent,level up,self development,stop waiting for people,self love,how to be a confident woman,confident women, What can I do to become that girl? What makes a girl become a woman? What does that girl do in a day? What is that girl routine? How to achieve that girl aesthetic?How to transform into high value woman?
What are 5 attributes of a high value woman?
What makes a woman high value to men?
What makes a woman stand out?
How long does it take to reinvent yourself?
How do I reinvent myself at 50?
How do I reinvent myself at 60?
How do I reinvent myself after divorce?
How can I recreate myself at 40?
Can you reinvent yourself after 50?
How long does it take to completely reinvent yourself?
How do I reinvent myself in midlife?
How do you reinvent yourself and start over?
How long does it take to reinvent yourself?
How do I reinvent myself at 50?
How do I reinvent myself at 60?
How do I give my girlfriend a princess treatment?
What does Princess treatment require?
What does it mean to be treated like a princess?
What is the Princess Treatment massage?

Пікірлер: 871
@buggeyed139
@buggeyed139 7 ай бұрын
‘You’ll either be too high mantainence for someone who can’t provide for you or just right for someone who’s been waiting for a girl like you’
@Sunshineandrainbows234
@Sunshineandrainbows234 7 ай бұрын
50/50 men though….. kill sexual polarity too
@danicaharley6273
@danicaharley6273 6 ай бұрын
Why would anyone want any man who can't provide for them
@JankSentient
@JankSentient 6 ай бұрын
Why would any man want a women like this. Thats why no one likes anyone these days😮‍💨
@yvonnemukupa1670
@yvonnemukupa1670 5 ай бұрын
My experience, very heart breaking.
@44schreiber44
@44schreiber44 2 ай бұрын
@buggeyed139
@buggeyed139 7 ай бұрын
‘Doing more for them does not make them like you. How you make them feel does. It’s how you make him feel. You have to make him feel good in relation to you’
@MissBluebirddays
@MissBluebirddays 7 ай бұрын
Gold. I'm finally starting to understand it!
@buggeyed139
@buggeyed139 7 ай бұрын
@@MissBluebirddays me too☺️
@Sunshineandrainbows234
@Sunshineandrainbows234 7 ай бұрын
50/50 men though….. kill sexual polarity too
@nicoleazarath20
@nicoleazarath20 7 ай бұрын
Are men doing things based on feelings? 😮 OMG it’s like they’re human or something 😂 I agree with your statement BTW 😊
@UltimateRadeScene
@UltimateRadeScene 7 ай бұрын
My brain can not comprehend, but this is 100% true and I need to work on this.
@jessecaw.3714
@jessecaw.3714 7 ай бұрын
Thank you. Yesterday I had a man call me a "princess" because I told him I didn't want to go on a date after he ghosted me for over a day. He did it before too (left me on read for four days) and I gave him this last chance. When I said I needed someone communicative he said I was expecting way too much. Hahaha. Like boy, if you think texting a woman back within a reasonable amount of time is princess treatment then I know I'd never even get flowers from you on birthdays. NO THANKS.
@VickitaTrivedi
@VickitaTrivedi 7 ай бұрын
thank u, next
@Sunflower-uh3em
@Sunflower-uh3em 7 ай бұрын
Happens to me too, I block them.No thks, bye 🙋🏻‍♀️.
@johnsonjo8454
@johnsonjo8454 7 ай бұрын
@@VickitaTrivedi hai darling💋💋💋🤎
@unicorn73212
@unicorn73212 7 ай бұрын
​@@Ark-ys2upyeah she's also forgetting that feminine energy will move away from masculine energy that is not strong or balanced she will feel either unprotected or smothered if they move to closely towards you because we don't want his toxically masculine energy to rub off on us I don't agree with treating men like toddlers either but I also don't agree with letting them treat you like a toddler because it's gross if that's why he's attracted to you. And once again if that man doesn't know how to balance his emotions in a healthy way he's not going to go very far in life with any woman because the kind of woman he's asking for doesn't find him attractive and she may never will because he's looking to deeply into it that it doesn't feel natural or healthy anymore for her to continue pursuing him for any reason. If he doesn't have his emotions in check or his shit together she will always be turned off by this because it's just dumb for a man to play dumb like that because it doesn't work for them. There trying to be someone there not and that's what's pushing women away from them is the aggression and overly loud obnoxious stories about all there ex lovers cheating on them. I find it funny when they sit there and have the nerve to wonder why she cheated on them too some women have very good reasons for it even if it's not socially acceptable some women just don't care about men to that level because they found out it wasn't worth it. They convinced themselves that they were the prize here and that's how they would up with a less attractive woman.
@danicaharley6273
@danicaharley6273 6 ай бұрын
A disrespecting loser who couldn't even meet the bare minimum 🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️
@anyaf.6946
@anyaf.6946 6 ай бұрын
The older I get, the more this realization keeps hitting me. No matter what, no matter if you do more, if you do less, if someone does not want you, or is unhappy with themselves. Nothing will change that. Nothing. Stop putting so much pressure on yourselves ladies. If you don’t like how they are treating you, as you are, just quietly leave and move on.
@alhassanfirrdous7292
@alhassanfirrdous7292 4 ай бұрын
That's is why you have to do less, so that incase he is a player, and does not want any commitment, you saved yourself from mental trauma and emotional headache!
@Tiffanyii
@Tiffanyii 2 ай бұрын
In fact the very first thing we ought to do is to check if he is the type for us we should have some standards and one of them is ( a gentleman and a provider mentality)
@ayllietube6405
@ayllietube6405 7 ай бұрын
A good reminder for the girlies: It is never too late to do any of this. Whether you are in a new relationship or an old one. It's never too late.
@79488djrolw
@79488djrolw 7 ай бұрын
The thing is, you have to be willing to walk away, or ur stuck and they won't change
@PandaZelda
@PandaZelda 6 ай бұрын
Unless we’re married 😢
@79488djrolw
@79488djrolw 6 ай бұрын
@@PandaZelda this is America, get a divorce
@sayusayme7729
@sayusayme7729 6 ай бұрын
Exactly, never say never. Polishing up my shine ✨ at 63 🤍🐉🦢🤍
@ayllietube6405
@ayllietube6405 6 ай бұрын
@@sayusayme7729 Absolutely stunning, you are glowing! Anyone who gets you is extremely lucky!
@Dahmer_Jeff
@Dahmer_Jeff 7 ай бұрын
Work on yourself. SELF LOVE. Once you discover that, the wrong people will dismiss themselves and the good ones will rise to your level. Thats really it!
@VickitaTrivedi
@VickitaTrivedi 7 ай бұрын
amen!
@lifeofamodernwoman
@lifeofamodernwoman 6 ай бұрын
Even when you do this, for years, it doesn’t happen as easily as you think.
@lavenderangel2655
@lavenderangel2655 6 ай бұрын
​@@lifeofamodernwomanits because you're still not focusing on yourself so you're not getting the self love you need to carry with you. Focus on loving yourself, being kind to yourself, healing your past and taking care of your body for the sake of loving yourself, knowing yourself and setting the standard for how you are to be loved, not for "it to work." That shows that you are focused on them, outward and not inward, drawing them close etc. and probably have that energy targeted toward someone specific. There will be people who will not level up with you, some might, but you have to be willing to let go. You're inner work also helps you to do that and lean on your faith.
@Lovelove77788
@Lovelove77788 6 ай бұрын
Exactly 💯 💛💙💕
@MA-2020
@MA-2020 5 ай бұрын
No one say it's easy, but you are on your way🤍. Don't worry too much about the outcome, enjoy the process✨ @@lifeofamodernwoman
@amandah1875
@amandah1875 7 ай бұрын
Dating should be with the intent to marry only. Don't give your body up until then. It cuts out so much wasted time and hurt feelings.
@VickitaTrivedi
@VickitaTrivedi 7 ай бұрын
1000% second this comment
@libralibra417
@libralibra417 6 ай бұрын
It’s the best ❤️
@ysl23addidasq
@ysl23addidasq 6 ай бұрын
They’re really are people out here dating to just sleep around . Hence why tinder and all the other dating apps are still in business. Designed to keep the people on there single
@srikrishnavasanth3895
@srikrishnavasanth3895 6 ай бұрын
💯
@Dope_Zero
@Dope_Zero 6 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@honeyisnatural5
@honeyisnatural5 6 ай бұрын
“Is my feminine energy INSPIRING his masculine energy” someone else gave me this advice and it turned my boyfriend into my husband. 💍
@FightOrDie08
@FightOrDie08 6 ай бұрын
Dang as a dude this is a super good video. I’m doing the best to stop worrying about what a woman can give me and instead how can I be a good man for her. It’s refreshing hearing a woman talk about woman learning how to appreciate a man. That’s what we are starving for. I just ordered the book “Love & Respect.” Can’t wait to dig into it.
@Relle.
@Relle. 5 ай бұрын
I am your first subscriber! appreciate your comment. ✨✨much abundance and prosperity and peace to you 🦋
@TheRealVivia
@TheRealVivia 3 ай бұрын
Love this! This is the shift we need so we can have the polarity from both sides! ❤
@HippieHides
@HippieHides 2 ай бұрын
I'm reading that book right now too. It's enlightening on so many levels ❤
@dashboard-11
@dashboard-11 7 ай бұрын
A whole word and then some! I'm an older woman and I am so proud of the younger generation of women speaking up about these dynamics between men and women that have become skewed over time for various reasons. This was an incredible breakdown.
@maditheplantlover
@maditheplantlover 7 ай бұрын
I needed to hear this. My current boyfriend and I are on a break right now and hearing this made me realize he is just immature and will never give me what I truly want and need. Throughout the relationship I drove him everywhere, always paid, always planned the dates, all while i was just begging for the bare minimum that I rarely recieved. He told me he isn’t ready for a relationship right now and I just sat their and cried and begged for him to reconsider basically saying I'd do anything to make it work. I told him I would throw away all of my standards and desires just to be with him because I love him. But honestly staying in a relationship because I love him and am scared of him finding someone else while I allow him to do whatever he wants probably isnt very good. I was starting to think that what I am asking for is too much but it wont be too much from the right person, and I hope he realises what an amazing girl he is losing.
@sparklybubbles2680
@sparklybubbles2680 7 ай бұрын
Break up already and move on! Do not wait to see him "Realize" cuz we both know if it were to happen it already would've but it wont! He had you easy and does not intend to put any efforts for you! Starting fresh with a new man with new standards is your answer! Leave this man like he never happened.. ❤️
@mks-one
@mks-one 7 ай бұрын
Girl, I wish you the best! Give yourself time to get over him and to heal yourself after the breakup, and I promise, you will have so much better! He won't realize you're worth, but someone else definitely will
@krispark888
@krispark888 7 ай бұрын
Yes get out of it early! I did that for 15 years it is not fun being that girl
@ChaChaWitYa
@ChaChaWitYa 7 ай бұрын
Please pour that love into yourself
@user-eo7bo7ct5d
@user-eo7bo7ct5d 7 ай бұрын
Hey, Can some1 pls guide me here.... Recently I met this guy who gave all the Healthy Masculine vibes... but later I saw him withdrawing n I matched his energy and distanced myself with an open heart.... later as thanks giving I sent him a gratitude note too as we weren't dating or something but still as a guy frnd he stood up for me when occasion demanded..... My quest here is when he has withdrawn n me sending this gratitude note will it be considered as me playing games to get him back or am simply dng it out of my nature (sending to all gratitude notes) I know my intentions but how it comes across to the other person matters too:) Thanks❤
@stinathesaturnian
@stinathesaturnian 7 ай бұрын
Dating Pre-Reqs For Him - he take away the mental load?(stress free life in a relationship) - he listens to you - his action and words aline For You - learn how to appreciate a man - what do you need to stop doing?
@user-eo7bo7ct5d
@user-eo7bo7ct5d 7 ай бұрын
Hey, Can some1 pls guide me here.... Recently I met this guy who gave all the Healthy Masculine vibes... but later I saw him withdrawing n I matched his energy and distanced myself with an open heart.... later as thanks giving I sent him a gratitude note too as we weren't dating or something but still as a guy frnd he stood up for me when occasion demanded..... My quest here is when he has withdrawn n me sending this gratitude note will it be considered as me playing games to get him back or am simply dng it out of my nature (sending to all gratitude notes) I know my intentions but how it comes across to the other person matters too:) Thanks❤
@srikrishnavasanth3895
@srikrishnavasanth3895 6 ай бұрын
​@@user-eo7bo7ct5dHe doesn't take it serious you are just over thinking.
@cubone44
@cubone44 6 ай бұрын
@@user-eo7bo7ct5d I would say get out now before you need him to step up and he withdraws. You withdrew, and he did not chase.
@sofya6553
@sofya6553 5 ай бұрын
If he is healthy-minded then he would have just taken the note at face value. Lots of reasons why he may have stopped persuing you and unlikely to be anything personal about you but it sounds like that's what has happened and you have no control over that outcome. You need to get back out there meeting other guys
@sofya6553
@sofya6553 5 ай бұрын
If he is healthy-minded then he would have just taken the note at face value. Lots of reasons why he may have stopped persuing you and unlikely to be anything personal about you but it sounds like that's what has happened and you have no control over that outcome. You need to get back out there meeting other guys
@AHEden
@AHEden 7 ай бұрын
Not exaggerating, this is the best video I’ve seen on describing these polarities when it comes to dating.
@VickitaTrivedi
@VickitaTrivedi 7 ай бұрын
made my day
@Lovelove77788
@Lovelove77788 6 ай бұрын
I agree! I am so impressed with her 💙💯
@roze3703
@roze3703 5 ай бұрын
True
@KeiyaHood
@KeiyaHood 3 ай бұрын
Yes in a very kind poignant and classy way. ❤
@ak-47intelligence75
@ak-47intelligence75 7 ай бұрын
I just finished blocking 5 guys off of my rotational dating roster. Felt like THEY positioned themselves as the passive ones expecting ME to chase them. When they would talk to me, they'd offer me words of encouragement almost as if they wanted to INSPIRE me to take action to commit an act that leads to pursuing them 😂 NO. WAY.
@n1313_
@n1313_ 7 ай бұрын
That’s great! However, you’re attracted A LOT of feminine men, and feminine men get attracted to masculine women. So maybe you need to do some inner work on any wounded masculinity too ❤
@sunnysunflower5513
@sunnysunflower5513 7 ай бұрын
Can you give me an example of how they this this so I can spot this kinda of subtle stuff? ❤
@krispark888
@krispark888 7 ай бұрын
Yes this is dating now so many guys want to be chased it’s unattractive cause it’s unnatural
@Hello2u3582mypincode
@Hello2u3582mypincode 7 ай бұрын
Being a man I know a lot of men tend to follow the biggest Alpha males. There's a lot of dumb egoistic behavior in this. Out of frustration of not getting towards the top a lot of men tend to get sarcastic towards each other and eventually even lose their manliness towards women and/or become gay. All this behavior develops allready in most mens teenage years... Of course alpha females from the good and bad side exist as well, creating (focussing on the bad for now here..) sarcastic women (also through series like sex and the city, desperate housewives, etc.) and eventually very manly women. One very good solution for this is to choose the right friend groups!! Don't go into egoisticly, sarcastic friendgroups (no matter if you're a men or woman..). It will drain your energy and will drain your healthy energy which should be reserved towards the other sexe😊 This can be a lonely process at times, but more rewarding😎 and less lonely and draining then being around people who think it's okee to be fake and sarcastic🤢
@rainacherienne1010
@rainacherienne1010 7 ай бұрын
Most males now act very feminine and wants to be pursued. Doesn’t mean you’re masculine, like someone here stated. I wear dresses, have long hair, very feminine overall and still getting those passive guys too.
@sarahwales6276
@sarahwales6276 5 ай бұрын
There are so many women who take on the majority of the mental load in a relationship. As soon as they get married or are in a long term relationship so many men love to hand that responsibility over to their partner I see it so often and experienced this. I broke up with my fiance because I had to organise house applications, bills, repayments, handing any conflicts, No, I looked ahead 10 years and thought, I do not want to be wearing the pants in this relationship in another 10 years.
@lizb941
@lizb941 3 ай бұрын
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@honeyisnatural5
@honeyisnatural5 6 ай бұрын
I like how she’s not just giving women generic cliche top tips to keep a man. She’s actually breaking down the polar energy that is taking place. Then us as the audience can figure out what to do on our own. Simple yet deep well understood points to think about.
@ka9202
@ka9202 7 ай бұрын
Like a psychologist said "Most people want what they want, not what wants them." To me it help us all (Men and Women) to take stock of what we are attracting and make adjustments from there or at least take it into consideration in picking a partner.
@jskyler7
@jskyler7 6 ай бұрын
I flip that quote into “What I want, wants me!” Self confidence and attitude is everything!
@aimanhulmani4105
@aimanhulmani4105 6 ай бұрын
I used to be a softgirl but my toxic family forced me to be masculine and I hate that
@IndigoCosmic
@IndigoCosmic 6 ай бұрын
Same.
@yashna88
@yashna88 6 ай бұрын
Omg me too, and a few heartbreaks
@hunnysakura
@hunnysakura 5 ай бұрын
Feel you!! But never too late for us to change and be a lovergirl, we deserve love and a great man!
@aimanhulmani4105
@aimanhulmani4105 4 ай бұрын
@@hunnysakura yesss I just hope it gets easier for me
@eljofrva
@eljofrva 3 ай бұрын
The same for me - my dad was the first man to hurt me and mislead me BUT I was able to confront my childhood trauma and heal! Once I got through the thick of it I started dating differently and it’s glorious! It’s never too late to learn to be in the divine feminine.
@gabi8096
@gabi8096 7 ай бұрын
I promise you I've been watching these types of self help, motivational, whatever videos since I was 14 maybe less, I'm 21 now and it gets tiring listening to the same speeches, but istg you put things into an entire new perspective for me on each video! thank you!
@VickitaTrivedi
@VickitaTrivedi 7 ай бұрын
this made my dayyyyy
@brendanburress2696
@brendanburress2696 7 ай бұрын
Girl I watched this once….then rewinded it and watched it again! Great information as always ❤️
@VickitaTrivedi
@VickitaTrivedi 7 ай бұрын
Yay! Thank you! ❤️
@jenniferluna1211
@jenniferluna1211 7 ай бұрын
Please please please make a part two! I’m constantly talking to my high school aged daughter about these things and you’re so helpful! She’ll watch the video and we’ll talk. It also helps to see her dad treat me like you talk about so it will help her not settle as well. Thank you!!!!!!
@Dahmer_Jeff
@Dahmer_Jeff 7 ай бұрын
The dad plays a big role in how women view themselves and how they view men. Dad needs to teach confidence and show his daughter how she should be treated. Unfortunately, a lot of us are fatherless, and a lot of present fathers are feminine in their own right. It's up to the individual to seek out this info as well.
@jenniferluna1211
@jenniferluna1211 7 ай бұрын
@@Dahmer_Jeff He treats me like a queen and she sees it. These videos help her see it from an outsider’s perspective and Vickita is much more eloquent than I.
@user-eo7bo7ct5d
@user-eo7bo7ct5d 7 ай бұрын
Ohh yes I'm 22 n I certainly observe my dad and mom.... also my dad surprises me and treats me like a queen so Ik exactly wht to expect from men I see women in comment section gng thru heartbreaks it pains my heart god bless them ❤ Love Vickita pls make such videos it gives us a model in current times
@aviana3841
@aviana3841 5 ай бұрын
You’re the best mom❤ she will grow up being really successful!
@TravelMamaAnnaVon
@TravelMamaAnnaVon 6 ай бұрын
I worked on myself for years, am very much a feminine, full time mom. I have standards. Haven't been asked out in two years. Just want to put it out there that there is a time limit on this. Please please learn this in your 20s when there are lots of options for husbands. I'm in my mid 40s and high value men are taken now. I refuse to change my standards and I am surrounded by gentlemen energy, but single men? None. So learn this sooner rather than later ladies
@Erica-cf1xb
@Erica-cf1xb 6 ай бұрын
That's an illusion. They are not. They want an independent person. Not a dependent. The real high value ones are sitting their milk in the freezer. The ones feeling around are in straight simp mode with multiple prostitutes. Both are getting sicker. He just doesn't know it yet.
@juliac2687
@juliac2687 6 ай бұрын
Please don't take it the wrong way, I don't know your situation, but I know women in their 40s or 50s who get pursued a lot. It has a lot to do with your self esteem/love for yourself and also how you visually present yourself. These women all take such good care of themselves, healthy eating, spa treatments, high quality clothing and etc. I'm just saying this, because it is definitely not too late for you to meet someone who is up to your standards!
@Sidera17
@Sidera17 6 ай бұрын
BINGO you nailed it OP. I was out of the dating pool fir 10 years (late 20s to mid 30s) due to becoming disabled, and when I reentered, I was more mature to know what I wanted but all the high value people have partnered up. Also, let's not lie that men are more looks and youthfulness driven in partner selection, and we literally can't compete with 20somethings (though men our age should not be dating them anymore!)
@TravelMamaAnnaVon
@TravelMamaAnnaVon 6 ай бұрын
I get pursued a lot as well, but not by the quality partner u would want to spend my life with. I look and feel the best I have ever felt but the real choice men are not playing any fields.
@2126Eliza
@2126Eliza 6 ай бұрын
High value men break up and get divorced every day. The things you tell yourself matter.
@AshleyW954
@AshleyW954 5 ай бұрын
I started crying when you said a man should take your mental load. I’ve been in a marriage where I’ve been carrying massive burdens and it’s been so stressful. You are definitely living your purpose! I felt so guided to start watching your videos. Learning to be in my feminine energy has definitely been a theme for me lately.
@buggeyed139
@buggeyed139 7 ай бұрын
The analogy about having invisible boundaries around you and an alarm goes off when they are stepped over is great. Also about knowing how you react to little things versus big things, an issue I have is not knowing how will react to certain types of boundaries being overstepped. When something small happens that I dislike I can disappear for days at a time so I suppose it doesn’t make any distinction between us something big happens
@TLW369
@TLW369 7 ай бұрын
Real Talk: In my experience, dudes who are “toddlers” are that way because they’ve been coddled by their overbearing parents - blame the parents, they’re the real culprits! I know what I’m talking about. 👑
@dr.mahima
@dr.mahima 7 ай бұрын
Yes I agree, they have been spoiled by their parents. But after some point, it's an individual's responsibility to grow up n heal. In this day n age of immense knowledge on internet n various books, there is no excuse. More often dn not most ppl have childhood traumas but it's our responsibility to try to heal from it. So one shouldn't entertain such toddlers coz we ll become their enablers just like their parents were.
@karyng4448
@karyng4448 6 ай бұрын
And the world in general
@peaceandquiet1983
@peaceandquiet1983 5 ай бұрын
Mexican men
@TLW369
@TLW369 5 ай бұрын
@@peaceandquiet1983 Actually, my comment applies to men of all races and nationalities. 🤔
@eljofrva
@eljofrva 3 ай бұрын
Yep! Their mama’s boys in an extreme and unhealthy way! They’re looking for a woman to fill that role but they probably won’t marry the woman who does OR they do and expect her to do all of the labor - physical and mental (emotional) 🤮
@aviana3841
@aviana3841 5 ай бұрын
I love how honest you are. There is no bs, or only talking shit about men, but you also call women out how to behave and be responsible of our choises. It’s much more helpful and empowering to know WE HAVE THE POWER.
@christinajackson3461
@christinajackson3461 7 ай бұрын
So when you feel the fear, instead of leaning forward and pressuring them even a little, lean back. Lean back into paying attention and healing yourself thus allowing him the space to come forward if he chooses. Mostly likely, he will sense some pain and distance and take a small step forward. This makes sense. And if you're going inward but not blocking him, just letting things be, and he still doesn't take a step forward to meet you a bit, then obviously he is not into it so you're best focusing on your own energy anyway. I hope I understand correctly.
@christinajackson3461
@christinajackson3461 7 ай бұрын
Allow for a bit of space and gap.
@user-eo7bo7ct5d
@user-eo7bo7ct5d 7 ай бұрын
Thanks for putting it together for us.... I feel bad when I lean bqck n the man still doesn,t step up to the occasion it almost feels like I can't have my desires met I can't do anything as a woman either a man is into me or not even though I may start having feelings for him! Damnnn
@Erica-cf1xb
@Erica-cf1xb 6 ай бұрын
​@@user-eo7bo7ct5dStop leading with feelings. The walking dead do this.
@LKauf279
@LKauf279 6 ай бұрын
When a piece of shit walks away from you, take it as a badge of honor that you dodged a bullet!! Bad people walking away is a GOOD thing!!! We get so scared of rejection that we beg from attention from bad people smh@@user-eo7bo7ct5d
@LKauf279
@LKauf279 6 ай бұрын
Only fall for men AFTER he falls for you. Limerence is a mental health issue. Only like people who like you back.@@user-eo7bo7ct5d
@333lavender
@333lavender 6 ай бұрын
I've never heard or seen the energy play between the masculine and feminine so beautifully articulated. You had my complete attention the entire time, and I was able to take in this information so easily. Thank you so much❤
@Lovelove77788
@Lovelove77788 6 ай бұрын
She is absolutely right on this. Divine femininity is extremely powerful 💙
@MissBluebirddays
@MissBluebirddays 7 ай бұрын
You're so wise beyond your years. So much to take in. I had to slow the video speed down so my brain could really take in all your pearls of wisdom in the video girl! ❤🎉
@Christinesobsevations
@Christinesobsevations 6 ай бұрын
I love your channel ❤ I am 46 years old & have been on my self healing journey since 2019 & have stayed single & celibate since 2020 . It was the best decision I have ever made for myself . I realized through three years of solitude that it was ME all along . I was simply attracting exactly what I was at the time . Now , I continue to work on myself & the rest will follow ❤
@msmanager2775
@msmanager2775 5 ай бұрын
I am 44, on the same boat with you o. Healing and working on myself. I’m stlll on that journey and along the way the men who don’t respect me have dismissed themselves.
@ignaa92
@ignaa92 7 ай бұрын
Definitely want a part two! Love your content and energy
@marciavox8105
@marciavox8105 6 ай бұрын
Chapter cards: Masc/Fem explained: 3:07 High-value standards: 9:59 Pre-reqs for him: 14:45 Pre-reqs for you: 18:05 What you need to stop doing: 18:47
@nataliaonaire
@nataliaonaire 2 ай бұрын
@aliceandappetizers
@aliceandappetizers 7 ай бұрын
you’re changing lives sis
@VickitaTrivedi
@VickitaTrivedi 7 ай бұрын
BLACK FRIDAY SALE --> THE FEMININE DATING ACADEMY: 🎓 vickitatrivedi.mykajabi.com/tfda-sales-page VIDEO NOTES: docs.google.com/document/d/1vHD8KqCfeUl7RRyIHsfmHN3HMvVJQBs-XiwK_wlVssI/edit?usp=sharing
@ShahrazadAli
@ShahrazadAli 7 ай бұрын
This doc is fabulous. If you'd ever like to format it into an ebook, let me know. (I'm a romance author, I have software and it takes like 20 mins.)
@marianabello8524
@marianabello8524 6 ай бұрын
When the Student is ready, the Teacher will appear. Thank you for being right on time in my feed... exactly ready to learn this contact during this time in my journey. Feel Blessed for having found your channel. Thank you! 💖
@s.a.m6214
@s.a.m6214 7 ай бұрын
Part 2 baby!!!! Love your content, it validates everything I know to be true in life.
@applesnicolle5144
@applesnicolle5144 6 ай бұрын
The trick is to spot a man’s Weak points immediately! And don’t expect him to change
@zahramissy4837
@zahramissy4837 Ай бұрын
Please how can this be done ?. Can you elaborate for me?
@reenur8767
@reenur8767 7 ай бұрын
your makeup looks so good here vickita!!
@s22centuaryfox
@s22centuaryfox 7 ай бұрын
Wow OMG, this is so powerful, please make more of these, I feel your energy flowing into me x
@mariamdawoodkhan
@mariamdawoodkhan 3 ай бұрын
You have literally the best content on explaining things so clearly.
@ThaKingGoatNathaniel
@ThaKingGoatNathaniel 6 ай бұрын
I’m a king & I don’t want women that are acting on the wounded feminine energy, I want a woman that makes me feel comfortable, confident, seen, heard, and loved. I would be so glad to give to a woman that takes stress away from my life rather than adding more I just want a woman that I can have good conversations with, vibe well with, & be physically intimate with. I want to be tranquil & at peace But also happy & exited every day. Great video keep up the good work 👍
@VickitaTrivedi
@VickitaTrivedi 6 ай бұрын
totally agree! thanks for your perspective
@JZ-jy7uv
@JZ-jy7uv 29 күн бұрын
but do YOU give her peace? safety and security? ur post sounds like she would be completely on her own! her feelings ARE who she is!
@Beccaskasye
@Beccaskasye 7 ай бұрын
I’m 22, I never dated anyone because I had to work on myself and know exactly who I wanted to become and what I’m looking for in a partner. I grew up being in my masculin energy. And I’m so grateful I learned all those topics of feminine energy , HVW, 7 archétypes etc before dating anyone✨ impossible to have a heartbreak
@Soulflowz
@Soulflowz 6 ай бұрын
SMART , YOU WILL GO FAR LOVE
@Dope_Zero
@Dope_Zero 6 ай бұрын
Sure bud😂
@kizumekojilee2255
@kizumekojilee2255 6 ай бұрын
Also 22 here! And I'm learning things about dating as well.
@aloko2544
@aloko2544 6 ай бұрын
You're a great speaker! Perfect pace, clear repetitive examples. I don't get bored listening! Loved the 'come up for air', i hadn't heard that before in the pull push dance. Regards from West Australia
@PJ19596
@PJ19596 5 ай бұрын
This is the best video I've seen on the dynamics between people in masculine-feminine/dominant-submissive relationships. Thank you for this 🔥🙌
@misskc946
@misskc946 7 ай бұрын
This is very smart ❤ this literally happens and thank you for telling everyone about it. Desperation and fear definitely creates problems
@fantasmagoria00
@fantasmagoria00 6 ай бұрын
Love the explanation at the beginning, finally someone explained it simple words and the visualisation with hands really worked for me, thanks!
@adashofgreens
@adashofgreens 6 ай бұрын
I kept screaming PERIOD!! Listening to you. Very apt on every point you made. Thank you for sharing.
@cayennepepah
@cayennepepah 6 ай бұрын
Woooooooooow❤ you’re really on time! I am relearning so much about femininity and you helped to shed some light on it!
@k.cooper2569
@k.cooper2569 6 ай бұрын
OMG!! This video is simply superb. Girl! You spoke so much hard truth and I swear this was 6 months of therapy wrapped up into 1 video. Thank you so so much for unlocking the EXACT - literally the EXACT things I needed to hear/wake up from/be reminded of. Thank you!
@outoftheblackintothelight
@outoftheblackintothelight 5 ай бұрын
I’m really enjoying the fresh perspectives and ideas in your videos. Thank you. I wish you all the best
@ironhand4606
@ironhand4606 7 ай бұрын
You have just opened my eyes! Thanks a lot and dont stop!
@mariahashmi1234
@mariahashmi1234 7 ай бұрын
Your content is brilliant. You go girl! 🎉🎉🎉🎉
@andreacharais8070
@andreacharais8070 7 ай бұрын
Honestly, I'm hooked. This is the solid advice I need without the pastel wording- it boils down to being a better healthier woman, to attract better healthier people around them. But on a side note, PLEASE, where did you get that amazing top because I love it!!
@valeryf.sanchez5448
@valeryf.sanchez5448 6 ай бұрын
Hi, just wanted to let you know this video was absolutely amazing!! You’re helping so many women and raising the conciseness here on earth. Blessings on to you love 🙏🏽🙏🏽💗💗
@arlenek794
@arlenek794 7 ай бұрын
I love the way you talk and explain things, you’re so pretty!
@daniellespears4428
@daniellespears4428 5 ай бұрын
This was an amazing breakdown and perspective ❤
@twittwit1227
@twittwit1227 Ай бұрын
you ATE with this one!!
@BeRealWithYade
@BeRealWithYade 7 ай бұрын
This video is so valuable and accurate. I watched it twice and I will probably watch it a third time to let it all sink in and process fully. You touch upon very real issues and the points you made are so eloquently voiced that rewatching the video is just a must! Thank you for sharing this, it's definitely an uplifting video.💜
@a.d.b535
@a.d.b535 5 ай бұрын
Excellent video. Presented better than anyone else has.
@theclassyconsultant.
@theclassyconsultant. 5 ай бұрын
These tips are so valuable! They're helping me avoid all kinds of people who don't fit the bill, thank you!
@balala5430
@balala5430 6 ай бұрын
You're a great teacher! Your hands really made it easier to understand
@meowmauda
@meowmauda 6 ай бұрын
First of all, you are STUNNING! 💕 second...thank you so much for putting this out. Your content helped me improve so much, I am very grateful! Thank you
@mybestlifefortherestofmyli7137
@mybestlifefortherestofmyli7137 5 ай бұрын
Wow. You are dropping gems. Awesome video
@paigealicious90
@paigealicious90 2 ай бұрын
those hands that represent the energy! great metaphor thank you for the visual!
@mariheartdavid
@mariheartdavid 5 ай бұрын
So far this is the best explanation I’ve ever seen!!!!! ❤
@3l3phantz
@3l3phantz 6 ай бұрын
This is so useful! Thank you. I’m married and it’s great confirmation and check-in for me ❤
@yoki1777
@yoki1777 7 ай бұрын
Part 2 ❤please!!! So much knowledge given!!!
@AsToldByBrittanyy
@AsToldByBrittanyy 7 ай бұрын
The IMMEDIATE drag in the beginning was some very much needed tough love
@lexiportillo9830
@lexiportillo9830 5 ай бұрын
Was 100% here for all of this until the passport thing. Girl… if you think keeping track of your own damn passport while traveling is too stressful that you need to rely on a man to do it, you’re a literal child. That is a very important personal document. If you’re traveling, especially out of the country, NOBODY ELSE, I repeat, NOBODY ELSE should be carrying that document for you. You need it on you at all times. And if that’s too much for you, you’re not adult enough to be in an adult relationship. My god.
@MelodySaleh
@MelodySaleh 6 ай бұрын
I could listen to you for hours. You're great!
@Delilah_Nguyen
@Delilah_Nguyen 5 ай бұрын
Girl, you are good. Your channel is going to blow up! So wise!! I love it❤ Im married and successfully got my husband to changed and get into my feminine energy. But at time he still acts up, this is a powerful reminder ❤
@veryrealvlog
@veryrealvlog 2 ай бұрын
Best polarity explanation I've ever heard.
@SpiritualityWithEloisa
@SpiritualityWithEloisa 5 ай бұрын
LOVE THIS VIDEO! Thank you for this content! ❤❤
@Brosha101
@Brosha101 6 ай бұрын
This video literally came right on time …. I been accepting the bare minimum way too long. 😢❤. I need to stick to my boundaries.
@Nandi-Mkhize
@Nandi-Mkhize 27 күн бұрын
This is the best video I’ve seen of dating as a feminine woman. You broke it down so clearly, you have a gift and wisdom boy! Thank you for sharing it with us ❤❤
@cenlilith8308
@cenlilith8308 7 ай бұрын
The green that you’re wearing is most definitely you color! You look radiant ✨🙌🏻
@LuhRen
@LuhRen Ай бұрын
Ive been coming across content like is recently after deciding to try dating again. These videos are really just reassurance for me that im not asking for too much and to stand up for myself. Im a recovering people pleaser and that spilled into my dating life. Im no longer doing things for people im learning to do them for me. Thank you for this video keep up the amazing work.
@LB-ku6ry
@LB-ku6ry 7 ай бұрын
This was the most informative video I think I’ve listened to! I’m 60 years old. Wow. Incredible beautiful thank you!
@armitadh3822
@armitadh3822 5 ай бұрын
Wow great!your explanations are so clear and catchy ❤🙏🏻
@ebeley94
@ebeley94 6 ай бұрын
Your videos are absolute class. You have helped me build standards for myself and in men as well as move on from men who didn't provide and where I was expecting a lot because I was in the wrong energy and I needed to work on myself too. Thanks, Vickita (:
@VickitaTrivedi
@VickitaTrivedi 6 ай бұрын
Fantastic! thank you!
@virginiaellis1227
@virginiaellis1227 2 ай бұрын
Vickita, Such great content!! Please, do put out a part II to this video!! You’re dong a great deal good to many people out there!!!
@michaela8591
@michaela8591 Ай бұрын
Girl!!! Thank you for painting this picture for me!
@vaambond2570
@vaambond2570 6 ай бұрын
The first 2 points are perfect! Most of the time of my life I attracted more feminine men. But I like it. That time. Because I was more in my masculine side. But now I want slow down and been treated. So I try to connect with my feminine energy to attract perfect masculine man.
@Dyscalculla
@Dyscalculla 6 ай бұрын
UGH you earned my subscribe! So much gold shared here. Thank you!
@katybrooke0724
@katybrooke0724 7 ай бұрын
I love him so much that I know he is capable... ❤ this is awesome!
@SeliMayte
@SeliMayte 6 ай бұрын
I needed to hear this. I had to hold back tears girl, but thank you.
@smallvillemarina
@smallvillemarina 7 ай бұрын
Yessss I need to hear more about this!🙏🏼♥️
@Barb444
@Barb444 6 ай бұрын
This was so needed for me today ❤ great video! Thank you! ❤🤗
@mictecacihuatldenver
@mictecacihuatldenver 7 ай бұрын
Such a good video ! Thank you !
@user-ig2hb2xh7b
@user-ig2hb2xh7b 7 ай бұрын
Hi! Thank you so much! Your digital planner is amazing!!!! Thank you Thank you Thank you ❤❤❤
@LittleBoSleepASMR
@LittleBoSleepASMR 7 ай бұрын
Wake up babe Vikita dropped a new video!!!!
@blahxxxx3
@blahxxxx3 Ай бұрын
Girl yes!! Amazing advice 👏🏽
@missfabidia
@missfabidia 7 ай бұрын
Can you do a video on how to let your guard down once you are in a commited relationship with a healthy masculine man ?
@nicolen739
@nicolen739 7 ай бұрын
Loved the idea
@missfabidia
@missfabidia 7 ай бұрын
@@hdshjs I mean being vulnerable, opening up to him in order to buid emotional intimacy
@joopyjazz1
@joopyjazz1 7 ай бұрын
I 2nd this. This is my current chapter in life
@stargiirls
@stargiirls 7 ай бұрын
@@missfabidiaif you want to be vulnerable and open you have to FEEL safe, so either he’s not making you feel safe/secure enough or you might have trauma from past relationships that still needs to be healed. hope that helped a little💚
@missfabidia
@missfabidia 7 ай бұрын
@@stargiirls Yes it is coming from past trauma, thank you that's very kind of you💓
@2822em
@2822em 7 ай бұрын
Omg this is such a good video I love when she says chefs kiss 💋 and her big eyes are so pretty 😍😍
@mnb2143
@mnb2143 5 ай бұрын
Eye opening!! Thank you so much 🤍🙏🏻
@keanutucker6599
@keanutucker6599 7 ай бұрын
LOVEEEE your content!!! ❤️❤️❤️
@s.m.7446
@s.m.7446 7 ай бұрын
Yes, part 2 very welcome, please x
@mandyt9594
@mandyt9594 2 ай бұрын
You are amazing in how you explain the masculine/feminine energy dynamic. I tried to explain this to my, now ex-BF and it never changed things. The more he leaned into his feminine energy, the more it pushed me into my masculine and the resentment built up. It took 3 break ups for me to realize that his words didn't match up with his actions. I've done a lot of work on myself after a toxic marriage and I thought this guy would be the last relationship I'd have. I was wrong. When someone doesn't do the work on themselves or doesn't see the relationship as a thing that can evolve and change, and lets his insecurities get in the way of stepping into his masculine energy, then it's time to move on. It took me 8 years to realize this. I'm much happier now being single and still working on myself to prepare for the right man who is in the same place. Thank you for all of the effort you put into this video. I hope it can help so many women out there who have lost that polarity you talk about, that spark. You've encouraged me to keep learning how to be a high value woman who can communicate her needs. ❤❤❤
@Kakarott2023
@Kakarott2023 7 ай бұрын
lovedddd this!!!
@selenophile5256
@selenophile5256 6 ай бұрын
Man your eyeshadow is so much better here you loook so pretty
It's not manipulation, it's strategic | feminine energy communication
22:19
How to be the TOTAL PACKAGE | become a high-value feminine woman
16:09
Vickita Trivedi
Рет қаралды 224 М.
Василиса наняла личного массажиста 😂 #shorts
00:22
Денис Кукояка
Рет қаралды 9 МЛН
MEU IRMÃO FICOU FAMOSO
00:52
Matheus Kriwat
Рет қаралды 31 МЛН
Alat Seru Penolong untuk Mimpi Indah Bayi!
00:31
Let's GLOW! Indonesian
Рет қаралды 7 МЛН
How To *actually* Receive PRINCESS TREATMENT 👸
22:24
Jasmyne Theodora
Рет қаралды 219 М.
How to STOP attracting low-value men
16:59
Vickita Trivedi
Рет қаралды 62 М.
10 Things I Wish I Knew About Men In My 20s
27:14
Margarita Nazarenko
Рет қаралды 358 М.
The 12 laws of DEEP transformation
25:08
Vickita Trivedi
Рет қаралды 71 М.
How To STAY In Your Feminine Energy (24/7)
21:13
Vickita Trivedi
Рет қаралды 54 М.
HOW TO INSPIRE HIS MASCULINE ENERGY & CHANGE YOUR RELATIONSHIP
21:12
Margarita Nazarenko
Рет қаралды 238 М.
деревня.лето.юность.эх
1:01
Шунька
Рет қаралды 6 МЛН
The KINDER JOY Cookie 🍪😱
0:30
LosWagners ENG
Рет қаралды 6 МЛН
СБОР УРОЖАЯ (@bori_csaladi_gazdasag - TikTok)
0:16
В ТРЕНДЕ
Рет қаралды 2,6 МЛН