WOMEN'S Entire GOAL in a RELATIONSHIP is to EMASCULATE and CONTROL YOU (she will never love you)

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Casey Zander

Casey Zander

Күн бұрын

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@CaseyZander
@CaseyZander 2 күн бұрын
Learn, Understand and Master the LANGUAGE of WOMEN 😘 below ⬇ app.caseyzander.com/I-learn-language-of-women
@JiveTurkey1618
@JiveTurkey1618 2 күн бұрын
😂
@JiveTurkey1618
@JiveTurkey1618 2 күн бұрын
🙏✌️
@RyanRants000
@RyanRants000 2 күн бұрын
Hey I just had this thought about your content and I've come to the conclusion that in your periodic growth I think you need to start explaining to men more about how you are the way you are in terms of health and mentality I know you're not treating your body like s*** your mentality has two certain extent been created by your health habits and your supplementation
@KenroyDextor
@KenroyDextor 2 күн бұрын
You're f......king right .
@BootCHick21
@BootCHick21 Күн бұрын
Your shit needs to be taught in schools across America. Liberals lied to us on what love is. Current relationships are unnatural!
@human_08
@human_08 2 күн бұрын
After 5 years of relationship, what this man is talking about is the ultimate truth. I’m saying this from immense pain.
@hawley13
@hawley13 2 күн бұрын
Bro this is not all women these are just toxic ass egotistical narcissistic women that develop these horrible behaviors. This dude is full of shit and half the shit he says literally doesn't make any sense at all. It's obvious a bunch of super hot girls have thrown this dude to the side many of times because they never wanted to settle down. Especially when they have the ego the size of a planet. they think they can always do better. I promise you most women are not like this just the type of girls he's going after
@supernotnatural
@supernotnatural 2 күн бұрын
No it'snot. Women's main essence is feminine, which is chaos and you need to be calm. What he is talking about is about little percentage whore of women. That's all. And he sells app to i1ncels like you
@WildMidwest1
@WildMidwest1 2 күн бұрын
Immense pain fertilizes immense growth. If you want a bumper crop of apples, take a baseball bat to the tree trunk early in the season. One swipe works wonders.
@bill74ish
@bill74ish Күн бұрын
been there man and you speak truth
@hawley13
@hawley13 Күн бұрын
Trust me my dude she was never the one and if you use these tactics it might spare you a few more years but this doesn't work long-term. Literally asked any 15 to 20 year relationship and they will tell you this guy is foolish shit and has no clue what he's talking about. As they say never take it financial advice from a poor man so why would you take long-term committed relationship vice from a dude who only is used to dating women short-term. He can teach you how to get super hot girls but none of this will ever work long-term. You're creating a toxic leveraging game that doesn't stand the test of time 30 40 50 years.
@justinlevy274
@justinlevy274 2 күн бұрын
Every relationship I've been in has had this dynamic. If the man gives in and is emotionally controlled she will leave and cheat. If you resist being emotionally controlled she will stay attracted to you but will get anxious that she doesnt have that power and will redouble her efforts with arguments and tantrums. Being in an exclusive relationship at all is enough of a concession for her to start acting up. The need for emotional control stems from the fact that women cannot control the world in the way a man can. So they have evolved the ability to control men to control the world on their behalf.
@fjockey1
@fjockey1 2 күн бұрын
Well, fortunately there are women who have risen above such futility. But I trace this behavior back to Eden. Adam failed to say, "No. This is a scam. We are not eating the fruit," even though he knew better. So women have not trusted us since, and the more evil, deluded ones play these games. Although they are incapable of handling it, they try to wrestle the control they believe men are incompetently exercising.
@abellargo7668
@abellargo7668 2 күн бұрын
Wow. Great comment. So true. Thank you
@BLACKMASKSOUL491
@BLACKMASKSOUL491 2 күн бұрын
Just curious guys how does this sound if a woman told you this ..." Me and your cousin was just flirting I don't want him like that because he don't want me like that besides he already has a woman and I want to make up for it!...question (1) does that mean they messed around or (2) it was bout to lead to intimacy?
@Sultan313-dkr
@Sultan313-dkr 2 күн бұрын
​@@BLACKMASKSOUL491both probably but don't take her too serious,she's toxic,she wanna give you a doubt to put you down in your masculine frame. Remain stoic and takes control the power of Dynamic.
@alejoanaya3468
@alejoanaya3468 2 күн бұрын
I believe she's testing you how you'll react to it , if you get emotional by getting jealous thats shows your insecure. I would just act like its a joke and ignore what she said and she'll obsess over you​@@BLACKMASKSOUL491
@PhillipMasters-bd7ci
@PhillipMasters-bd7ci 2 күн бұрын
women are children - I have had 5 relationships last longer then 2 years a piece - and every single one of them ended with her trying to break me, leaving me thinking she can do better and making a bet against my future. When you commit to a women, the mind games do begin, because they get bored.
@adlermann96
@adlermann96 2 күн бұрын
Makes sense why islam treats them as children
@halukkilic3171
@halukkilic3171 2 күн бұрын
I get bored too - that's why I ended before they did. Eight times. I'm the Lord.
@brentonl
@brentonl 2 күн бұрын
When you commit, they have to keep you small, so you don't have the power to leave them, keeping you around as a value leach. Even our moms did it
@Turbo_Tastic
@Turbo_Tastic 2 күн бұрын
yeah but it is all subconscious, they aren't even aware of it, and you can't call them on it, because they won't know what you're talking about
@markkujantunen8298
@markkujantunen8298 Күн бұрын
That seems to be the basic dynamic. That dynamic can be much more lowkey in some relationships than in others. Have all those five relationships been equally toxic? If not, what made the difference?
@DamianBrownie
@DamianBrownie 2 күн бұрын
How in the world does a sane and healthy man want even a relationship and put up with that crap? Pump and dump
@Adrian-zu6tm
@Adrian-zu6tm 2 күн бұрын
that's the key word. "sane" that's why men aren't dating or seeking ltr
@rodneystevens8325
@rodneystevens8325 2 күн бұрын
Find them feel them fuck them and forget them. Advice from a teenager told to me when I was in my 20's. He was out in front!
@jb4021
@jb4021 2 күн бұрын
Don't pump and dump. Wrong mentality. Keep yourself as your top priority, but never ever feel like they are beneith you.
@bobsnittle3793
@bobsnittle3793 2 күн бұрын
@@jb4021 cant believe im saying this, but i agree. pumping and dumping isnt even worth it anymore because of the mental drain it has on you when youre done. you will feel this strange, yet ominous sense of loss... like youre missing something... a desire to go back, and put effort into something you know isnt meant to work isnt as enjoyable as it may seem. not worth it imo. people are meant to have regular sex with one partner, if they choose to have sex at all.. atleast thats how i see it. im just holding out until i self improve enough to where im self satisfied, and i meet a woman i want to be in a long term relationship with. pumping and dumping is just as toxic as the shit that they do. 2 wrongs dont make a right.
@zaq1337
@zaq1337 2 күн бұрын
They love and chase Chads 🤡🌎
@barberbroski
@barberbroski 2 күн бұрын
no joke. two girls were fighting tooth and nail to be my girlfriend. the moment I gave in and gave them what they wanted. they lost all attraction. I mostly did it as a test. I wasn't really that interested in them anyways. now I know. Casey knows what he is talking about. listen up boys.
@automatedimagination
@automatedimagination 2 күн бұрын
Sure, they were....
@xxczerxx
@xxczerxx 2 күн бұрын
You had two hoes dude. Think about it, hypothetically how would you have done if you didn't give them what they wanted for a year +. You would be mentally EXHAUSTED. That's why this stuff doesn't work.
@milandajic7168
@milandajic7168 2 күн бұрын
Happened to me, too. I then realized that all they need is to NOT GIVE THEM ANY ATTENTION OR VALIDATION, WE GOTTA TREAT THEM AS TOYS. That‘s when they will never ever ghost and reject you.
@4literv6
@4literv6 2 күн бұрын
Treat em mean to keep em keen! Never chase buses nor bitch*s son! Women mostly only value us men as meat. M oney E nergy A ttention T estosterone
@barberbroski
@barberbroski 2 күн бұрын
*shrug* just because you have girl problems doesnt mean everyone else does bub
@TheBlackGlovesOfficial
@TheBlackGlovesOfficial 2 күн бұрын
And if she can't break you, she will STILL leave for a dude that she can. You cannot win.
@HANZELVANDERLAAY
@HANZELVANDERLAAY 2 күн бұрын
Truth
@bubblegumwrap7813
@bubblegumwrap7813 2 күн бұрын
Bro this is so true when they see you don't fall weak emotionally they rather leave...women are v smart they have so much emotional intelligence
@human_08
@human_08 2 күн бұрын
@TheBlackGlovesOfficial well how to win then brother? What’s your view
@hawley13
@hawley13 2 күн бұрын
Based off that literally no one should be married ever and no 20 to 30 relationship exist at all. Period. But that is not the case meaning this dude is foolish shit and is only used to dating a certain type of woman that carries these incredibly toxic horrible behaviors that have developed from extreme egotistical and narcissistic attitudes
@Vrilster
@Vrilster 2 күн бұрын
When she leaves for the simps, that is you winning bro
@money.making.mitchell
@money.making.mitchell 2 күн бұрын
When they disrespect you they say I was only playing with you. But if you play with them it's not funny
@GPS2CHANNEL
@GPS2CHANNEL 17 сағат бұрын
So true wtf
@Powerhaus88
@Powerhaus88 15 сағат бұрын
101 gaslighting
@obi-wankenobi8462
@obi-wankenobi8462 2 күн бұрын
The fact that anybody/everybody can only get this info online and not from birth in their family, means we are all screwed completely
@peacekeepermoe
@peacekeepermoe 2 күн бұрын
The sad fact is that the f&^kery didn't start with you, it didn't start with your grand parents, it started with whoever the first man and woman were... Perhaps Adam and Eve.
@nowhereman7413
@nowhereman7413 2 күн бұрын
we all are here because men in the past have always been oblivious to this info. If men knew about that in the past most of us would not be here.
@obi-wankenobi8462
@obi-wankenobi8462 2 күн бұрын
@ good point
@human_08
@human_08 2 күн бұрын
@@nowhereman7413 Ultimate truth has been told. So it means moving forward, Men like us who’ve understood this brutal truth won’t be in traditional marriages any more n the world would be in a much screwed up place with all daughters having daddy issues, n they stop breeding n humanity ends n AI takes over. What’d you think?
@BLACKMASKSOUL491
@BLACKMASKSOUL491 2 күн бұрын
Just curious guys how does this sound if a woman told you this ..." Me and your cousin was just flirting I don't want him like that because he don't want me like that besides he already has a woman and I want to make up for it!.... question (1) does that mean they messed around or (2) it was bout to lead to intimacy....???
@dweez4703
@dweez4703 2 күн бұрын
This is why Leo always leases & never buys
@riskydabs3710
@riskydabs3710 2 күн бұрын
And Scorpios F*ck & Say Bye ✌️
@theresakunda4407
@theresakunda4407 Күн бұрын
@@dweez4703 Be a strong emotionally balanced man and choose a partner wisely..one partner. Other wise you will be an old drunk 70 yr old alone at a bar
@donniebuchanan1903
@donniebuchanan1903 Күн бұрын
😂
@DD-xw6uw
@DD-xw6uw Күн бұрын
Has his fun for a year or two, then dumps and goes for a new one. It’s like upgrading to the new iPhone every 2 years
@jusme8060
@jusme8060 Күн бұрын
Well...he was raised by a bunch of gremlin pedophile people too....dark stuff
@blue-phoenix115
@blue-phoenix115 2 күн бұрын
Women has always been like this but not at the level we are currently seeing, experiencing. Social Media and the illusion of abundance is turning women into something different. Men are forced to adjust and adapt.
@jefesalsero
@jefesalsero 2 күн бұрын
Yes, the depopulation agenda is going as planned. What you are astutely observing is an integral part of THEIR agenda. The downfall of Westernized societies is THEIR goal.
@joelr1112
@joelr1112 2 күн бұрын
I have noticed the same thing, social and dating apps have magnify this natural instincts
@Retrocaus
@Retrocaus 2 күн бұрын
The more times they have gotten fuckzoned the more agressively you need to employ these strategies, some women are ruined
@100logic8
@100logic8 2 күн бұрын
I agree
@svnsetexe7326
@svnsetexe7326 2 күн бұрын
More food means they get pickeir with what suits their never ending taste
@rodneystevens8325
@rodneystevens8325 2 күн бұрын
This might be your best video ever. I have experienced everything you talked about over a number of years and as far as I am aware all of your checkpoints are in order and they can be tested. Well done my son. I am 66 single and been wary of women since day ONE!
@datascience4lyfe
@datascience4lyfe 2 күн бұрын
I've also personally experienced most of the stuff in this video. Including getting rejected after failing a SMV shit test (many times) and the only woman who ever truly loved me was a woman I did not love back.
@youtube_user_1111
@youtube_user_1111 Күн бұрын
Women you don't love totally humiliate themselves when you decide to break up! Always like that! Always! So consistent, it's impossible to be only coincidence. It's a female pattern!
@gnarlytothemax
@gnarlytothemax Күн бұрын
66 and single - how do you get over the fear of dying alone? I don't want to be 90 and all by myself...
@Xenlacasa45
@Xenlacasa45 Күн бұрын
​@@gnarlytothemaxget children they will be there for you
@S1000xrhp
@S1000xrhp Күн бұрын
@@gnarlytothemax am interested in the responses to your question. For what it's worth, ultimately we all die alone whether it's on a bike slamming into a truck in a ball of flame or surrounded by our loved ones holding our hands in hospital, we travel that final path on our own. Often you'll be medicated out of it, so don't worry so much, just enjoy what you have while you're here and make friends, maybe someone will be there for you.
@autonestegg4195
@autonestegg4195 2 күн бұрын
I have huge respect for your content, I think that you are partially right in this video... but my parents just celebrated their 50th anniversary; they've been monogamous...and were both very attractive when they met... they are both very committed to their relationship, but my dad always had his own hobbies, wasn't needy and kept his autonomy, not groveling at his wife's feet.... something a lot of guys miss today, giving too much of themselves
@ut07
@ut07 2 күн бұрын
The exception to the rule doesn't dictate the overall masses. That's why it's called the exception. You goofy.
@hugevagiine
@hugevagiine 2 күн бұрын
The brain washing was very different back then, it is possible for a woman to be loyal but it takes a hell of a lot of social pressure which no longer exists
@LastOne-t3o
@LastOne-t3o 2 күн бұрын
This​@@hugevagiine
@Kit-kk9cb
@Kit-kk9cb 2 күн бұрын
I am 99% sure that what he is talking about in this video is a product of the modern age we live in. Now don't get me wrong, of course it's part of human nature to want to have the best possible mate. But the commodification of humans is new, as well as the cold individualism that tells you that you can do whatever you want so long as it's legally possible. In other words, modern society has not only enabled, but even strengthened hypergamy to the point where it is destructive for all individuals and society as a whole.
@NewJerseyPhiladelphiaDelaware
@NewJerseyPhiladelphiaDelaware 2 күн бұрын
​@@hugevagiine exactly. 50 years ago was 1974.... Being promiscuous was absolutely shunned and she would be an outcast. This is not the case at all today .
@rpersen
@rpersen Күн бұрын
It’s like with a bank or insurance company: they don’t reward loyality. Only after you change do they call you with a better offer. Many women truly are their own worst enemies.
@07wrxtr1
@07wrxtr1 Күн бұрын
Bingo - they need that reminder that you have other options
@yavor05
@yavor05 Күн бұрын
Yep - one take from this video for me is that basically women sabotage themselves. First, they enter a relationship with you because they feel attracted and excited. Second they undermine the very thing that made them enter the relationship - which is you, your value as a man and your strengths. Third, they are unhappy with the relationship they ruined so they move on to the next "host".
@ehlohimwhil5762
@ehlohimwhil5762 2 күн бұрын
Who TF wants to deal with this ?
@MarkusSsZ
@MarkusSsZ 2 күн бұрын
women
@adlermann96
@adlermann96 2 күн бұрын
All that hassle sounds like hell
@halukkilic3171
@halukkilic3171 2 күн бұрын
Majority of men.
@zaq1337
@zaq1337 2 күн бұрын
🤡🌎
@hawley13
@hawley13 2 күн бұрын
No real man wants to deal with that and no real man has to deal with that. There are thousands upon thousands upon thousands of men out there in amazingly beautiful relationships that are not toxic that don't have to act like this because they chose the right person not these fucking toxic ass women that he chooses to date.
@RecreationalUseOnly
@RecreationalUseOnly 2 күн бұрын
Always have multiple women on deck. Be loyal to your bag and purpose, nothing more.
@theresakunda4407
@theresakunda4407 Күн бұрын
That is the mindset of an insecure man with no morals.
@theresakunda4407
@theresakunda4407 Күн бұрын
@@RecreationalUseOnly Just stop making decisions on lust. Test her integrity. Increasing your chances of a fatal STD with multiple partners is not the answer
@rubytech
@rubytech 2 сағат бұрын
One of the reasons I stay tapped in as best as I can to Casey is the fact he illustrates both hemispheres of attraction and maintaining relationships or atleast understanding them. Which is physical first but the internal & cerebral which is truly the battlefield where the mating game is fought. Most other relationship gurus barely skim the surface of this concept . We can look have movie star good looks and attract the opposite sex by the truckloads but keeping a woman or cultivating a relationship in today’s social landscape is where most of us falter. Understanding real social dating dynamics is more than half the game 🙏🏾✅👑
@williamwright4678
@williamwright4678 Күн бұрын
Keep preaching brother.. these simps will never learn
@averageslaphead6603
@averageslaphead6603 2 күн бұрын
Unfortunately everything this guy says is absolutely true
@quasimode9038
@quasimode9038 2 күн бұрын
He´s got it
@Mountainofcharm
@Mountainofcharm Күн бұрын
Nonsense, only partially true.I really break down the truth on my page
@fjockey1
@fjockey1 2 күн бұрын
This kind of childish relationship dynamic makes cultures with arranged marriages seem the wisest of all. All this crap is bypassed. In such a culture, you have no say. Either make it work or bring shame to the two families involved.
@πατριχορ
@πατριχορ 2 күн бұрын
Just arrange marriage within a traditional Church community ☦️
@ManJ-dc9iu
@ManJ-dc9iu 14 сағат бұрын
As an Indian I can vouch for it. I was victim of games played by them while in university. I left all of them to work on my career. And then got a job. And could marry the most beautiful. It still works after 20 years.
@iModMyWorld4U
@iModMyWorld4U 9 сағат бұрын
Most ppl don’t recognize how important continuity is with family and how quickly a generation can disappear so to prevent that and misallocation of inheritances, arranged marriages in its purest form was made. Mainly to not let a family name disappear into obscurity. Do you see what we are going thru today mass whore-mongering, single mothers/parents men fathering children from other men knowingly or unknowingly, this is all satan’s plan to disrupt and destroy what God made which is the family unit. It’s that simple but because of modernism we can’t detect it and call it for what it is. I guarantee they won’t change their ways until ww3 hits and they will live in fear that law enforcement won’t save them from this grapist or murderer or robber once their perception of societal security and provisions is questionable that’s when they will cleave to men like their fathers and men of the family looking for them to find a good man for them instead of the shit show of them choosing and fucking up constantly.
@venkyratnam
@venkyratnam 6 сағат бұрын
​@@ManJ-dc9iu not working like that since a few years. Now girls are working and they demand you have your entire life sorted before 32. Buy a car, a house in a metro city, move to a 1st world country, have the future of your kids secured and also take her out for vacations
@Brent-z2s
@Brent-z2s 2 күн бұрын
They will also try to figure out what about you is attracting other women and cancel it out.
@DaRealDBG7
@DaRealDBG7 2 күн бұрын
Facts
@JohnnyArtPavlou
@JohnnyArtPavlou 2 күн бұрын
Wow!
@ngugi7279
@ngugi7279 2 күн бұрын
Mind-blowing
@jordanbaltes6719
@jordanbaltes6719 2 күн бұрын
This is so true. Happened to me freshman year but fortunately I picked up on it. Now it’s happening to my 35 y/o friend who doesn’t have much experience and it’s just sad. You really need to know yourself before you get into a relationship.
@Xenlacasa45
@Xenlacasa45 Күн бұрын
Can't cancel out my good looks everywhere I go a chick is looking in my direction some even hold doors for me while I'm throwing out trash. Girls I don't even know. She can't cancel out shyt
@GTHO1970
@GTHO1970 2 күн бұрын
Her goals are to get your money!
@human_08
@human_08 2 күн бұрын
Mann I wish I had this video by April of this year. Coz that’s when all of the pulling away, picking up fights, shift in vocal tone n starts delusional fake scenarios n getting angry about it, n be resentful when I resolved them all commenced. The dumbest thing I did was propose to her for marriage on March on her birthday in front of all her close friends. By the next month everything started going downhill. And honestly I couldn’t stop it no matter how much mature, honest n indifferent I played. It happened exactly how Casey described it, she started distancing, then slowly picking up topics that she knows would agitate me and still did it. Later got a sick sense of satisfaction from it when I tried to resolve them. As casey mentioned above “look at how much he tries to save this relationship”. She even Saying that sex was great when you thought you’re gona lose me and laughing about it. I knew what was happening at that time and said she could leave n cannot treat me like this. That I was not fearful of losing her n so on. She imagined I got fearful of losing her where in a million miles I never even behaved or said anything that conveys that to her. Fast forward no matter whatever I did n stood my ground, she found ways n reasons to destroy this relationship one way or another and ended our 5 years relationship in August blaming everything on me. Saying she could not be herself and she’s gona find the best one for her. Women are fckin ruthless n ungrateful creatures when it comes to their emotions n feelings. No matter how much of a meaningful life you’ve built with them. Which is why never trusting or take any woman seriously fckin helps. It’s Dec 31 today and I’m still in pain of how worse and verbally abusively she ended things. That too over a phone call n refused to do it in person. Couldn’t digest is this the person I lived with for 4n half years. I’m Suffering mainly because of my guilt of what else could I have done if I had this video back then. How strong I would have held my frame n ground during that chaotic hurricane. 5 fckin years for nothing. Hoping next year I’m going to be the best version of myself by taking all these brutally hard learnt lessons in pain and live accordingly. Wish me strength n positivity if you will, N I wish you the same for this 2025. Cheers
@KJ-pu8dw
@KJ-pu8dw 2 күн бұрын
@human_08 - it wasnt for nothing. You have probably learnt more than you realise through this past relationship.
@human_08
@human_08 2 күн бұрын
@@KJ-pu8dwTrue. Ukw mann The moment you realize you have a lot of experience with women, not make any weak mistakes n finally think you got this, the universe be like “Hahaha You know nothing child, now suffer in pain for even getting that thought. How dare you”. Only to realize there’s no end to this.
@Sultan313-dkr
@Sultan313-dkr 2 күн бұрын
​​​​@@human_08It's a brutal awakening then you can learn that in the hard way, Women come n Go, Money come n Go, Bro keeps your dignity ,your confidence and your self respect intact and move forward with your purpose and goals. The Time is the best teacher.
@richardkioko-w5h
@richardkioko-w5h 2 күн бұрын
@human_08. I can relate cause I went through the same thing last year same time. They just can't be serious and I learnt to give no fucks.
@samuelsackey3976
@samuelsackey3976 2 күн бұрын
i experienced the same thing between 2020 and 2022. The minute i told her i liked her and wanted us to be in a relationship, that was when the chaos started. She constantly tried to emasculate me, control me and tried to cut me off from my loved ones. Fortunately for me, i had a little bit of red pill knowledge at the time so i told her i was leaving because she was abusing the love i had for her. This was around 2021. She pleaded that i give her another chance. When i gave her a second chance and she realized that i was on to all her manipulative games, she purposely self sabotaged and destroyed the relationship. The funny part is, after we went our separate ways and she realized i was indeed never coming back, she started chasing me. But i never let her back cos she was coming back to finish what she started. My advice to you in your future relationships is never let her feel that you need her more than she needs you. And always be willing to walk away any time she gets disrespectful.
@nicknoto31
@nicknoto31 2 күн бұрын
THANK YOU!!! FINALLY, SOMEBODY SAYS WHAT IT IS!! I talk about this topic often, but it makes most people super unconfortable. Only facts, Preach Bro 🙏🏽😌
@SkillfulHuntsman
@SkillfulHuntsman Күн бұрын
The part where he talks about the woman will watch you “try” really hit. It’s so true. Choose wisely kings. And always be willing to walk away. Excellent Video Casey.
@engrsrule
@engrsrule Сағат бұрын
Bro., if you go through this again you will realise it doesn't matter as much who you choose. This is true for all women. Only some more than others but this is the definitive breakdown of what's happening. The reason this is true is actually very simple. Throughout history a man's survival depended more on him than anyone else. But a woman's survival depended more on her man than herself. Hence women are always scanning for the best man to improve their chance at survival just like men. They just do so in a different way. They look for higher value men. Imagine this happening for thousands of generations. The women who survive more are these very women. Hence the instinct is passed on and represent more and more of the female population. This behaviour is in their dna.
@bg8753
@bg8753 Күн бұрын
For men who have kids and an ex-wife who are dating or getting close to getting remarried this video is extremely important. My dad remarried a woman and violated all of Casey’s rules, and the result was that they pulled me out of the private school that I was in from kindergarten, made me lose all my friends, then sent me away to military school because she didn’t like children. My dad was willing to do this because he was so head over heels for his new wife. Fast-forward a year and she’s cheated on him and left him after having destroyed his relationship with his son. I haven’t spoken to my dad since and I often wonder if it was worth it to him. Never let a woman control you.
@MaurizioAgui
@MaurizioAgui 22 сағат бұрын
We men make mistakes learned from your dad's ones But don't let dad's ex wife to win and succeed in her commitment to destroy your relationship Go and talk to you dad and make your relationship even stronger don't waist time with stupid tantrums, show your dad your are a real man.
@bg8753
@bg8753 22 сағат бұрын
@ too late. He died.
@ardshielcomplex8917
@ardshielcomplex8917 16 сағат бұрын
Much the same happened in my family too, my fathers 2nd wife did all she could to divide and destroy our family; over years he poisoned himself with chain smoking and it killed him. At least he cut her out of his will, then she tried to contest it because she wanted all. That gentleman is the true nature of women, they all have their own agenda.
@johngek4187
@johngek4187 2 күн бұрын
FACTS FACTS FACTS everything you explain is completely correct, I experienced it and the same patterns are recognizable during my dating processes, the point is and remains as an attractive man never shows too much interest!!!!
@Alex-gt5ho
@Alex-gt5ho 2 күн бұрын
This is why I'm single because I can't let them do this to me, they have no power over me
@zaq1337
@zaq1337 2 күн бұрын
Get married to end up divorced 🤣😂
@human_08
@human_08 2 күн бұрын
@@Alex-gt5ho And blue balls in a consistent basis
@JohnDoe-iq9bz
@JohnDoe-iq9bz 2 күн бұрын
Smart choice👍👍
@wandereroftheabyss-w2h
@wandereroftheabyss-w2h 2 күн бұрын
Isn't that just cowardice? Why not play the game?
@costumeninja1914
@costumeninja1914 2 күн бұрын
@@wandereroftheabyss-w2hchange the game
@richard.c.guitars
@richard.c.guitars 2 күн бұрын
Narcissistic women are like this, I don’t think all are. Not to an extreme extent. You must not let a woman control however. Or allow yourself to be devalued
@apostatejim2080
@apostatejim2080 2 күн бұрын
Yeah, it takes time for some of them to show their true selves, but spotting a low-value woman as early as possible is key to preventing catastrophe. I look for the SIGNs: Shaming, Insulting, Gas lighting, Never wrong, or Needs to be handled.
@richard.c.guitars
@richard.c.guitars 2 күн бұрын
@ agree 100%. I’m feeling pretty cynical about women atm. I’ve definitely notice many try and manipulate themselves into a position of power in a relationship. It’s tiring. It’s annoying when women show lots of interest then try to put me in a position of rejection just for a stupid ego boost. Even if I aren’t interested. It’s ridiculous and childish.
@πατριχορ
@πατριχορ 2 күн бұрын
True.
@wendigos_eat_people7177
@wendigos_eat_people7177 18 сағат бұрын
@@richard.c.guitars Even the bible says women would try to dominate their husbands. Eve got a 2 part curse. The 2nd. part is the most important part. "and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee". Desiring your husband is a good thing it brings closeness and creates babies, but here it's something bad. What is her desire that is so bad as he would have to rule over her? By context desire must mean to dominate, to control, to rule over. The Hebrew word used here for desire is used only one other time. Just before jealous Cain killed his brother. God tried to speak some sense into him. " Sin crouches at the door it desires you, but you must master it." Sin wanting to dominate him, but he must push back against it. Two different verses but same context, so you can rewrite Eve's and her daughters curse as this " and thy desire(is to rule over, dominate, for control) shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee( push back). The only difference between individual women are how well they can control those cursed impulses. In today's world women are encouraged to dominate men making them servants . and women viewed as the perfect sex thanks to feminism, and men needing fixing. Fast forward several thousand years and Jerusalem is about to be taken into captivity by Babylon. The women have taken control over the society of the city.( not necessarily heads of government or power like that) They have fully objectified themselves, putting on whatever fineries they had to gain the male gaze. Walking around in a sexual manner.God had issues with that and told the women he would strip them of all they had and pluck their hair out leaving scabs, and their fighting men will die in battle. When women take over a society men become weak, and weak men can be conquered and everyone is left vulnerable. We see the same thing happening here today. Instead of women putting on excess clothing our version is taking off as much clothing as possible.
@samuelsackey3976
@samuelsackey3976 2 күн бұрын
i experienced the same thing between 2020 and 2022. The minute i told her i liked her and wanted us to be in a relationship, that was when the chaos started. She constantly tried to emasculate me, control me and tried to cut me off from my loved ones. Fortunately for me, i had a little bit of red pill knowledge at the time so i told her i was leaving because she was abusing the love i had for her. This was around 2021. She pleaded that i give her another chance. When i gave her a second chance and she realized that i was on to all her manipulative games, she purposely self sabotaged and destroyed the relationship. The funny part is, after we went our separate ways and she realized i was indeed never coming back, she started chasing me. But i never let her back cos she was coming back to finish what she started.
@Watchmaker_Gereon-Schloesser
@Watchmaker_Gereon-Schloesser Күн бұрын
thanks for your report. Sad. We should have gotten Lilith instead of Eve...
@crazysrb3050
@crazysrb3050 Күн бұрын
Was in a relationship with a chick but I told her I’m never getting married to her or any other girl. Made that clear probably 3 months in. She was the first one to say I love you, my response was “ Thats good to know, if you really feel like that”? Never said anything back but instead checked her, so basically shit testing her. I dominated the first 6 months of the relationship being natural in all interactions from displaying of protection, being handy, having attention from other women, looking good and dressing well. Only thing was spending too much time with with her as e relatable relationship progressed. The tests later started. I would catch some right of the bat others I would catch early on preventing total emasculation, putting her back in place and not making mistakes after discussions. It was these little of mistakes I made that played out very well for me, as she had overreacted, getting very angry, then kind of observant as she was watching her own theater show, then having crocodile tears and being distant afterwards, classic. Next opportunity I had I told her “Hey I can’t do this anymore”. She cried and said what was I doing? Then left and called my sister telling her, in hopes of fixing it, kind of like she new it was the end. It was the end. Not long after that she got married. But before she got married she left me a letter under my car windshield wipers. Basically she was willing to stay with me unmarried. So we were both early thirties at this time so for her it was critical to settle. The guy she married was probably clueless of anything. To me it was suspicious she got married so quickly. She probably kept him as backup while she was with me.
@Reptifitness
@Reptifitness Күн бұрын
Personally I wouldn’t have given a second chance. However what you mean by “she was coming to finish what she started?”
@samuelsackey3976
@samuelsackey3976 Күн бұрын
@@Reptifitness basically she wasn’t happy that I moved on with someone else. So she would message me out of the blue to start fights and arguments, trying to blame me for us not working out. It was something she used to do a lot and back then I would admit I was at fault just for peace to reign. So she thought she could continue guilt tripping me with that
@timolson6168
@timolson6168 Күн бұрын
That she needed to get the last word , to humiliate and scar him further, the need to make her self image amongst peers , a victim.
@Rourke-007
@Rourke-007 2 күн бұрын
You know you watch too much Casey when you can read his handwriting.
@L6FT
@L6FT Күн бұрын
Haha :-D
@TherealMotopsycho
@TherealMotopsycho Күн бұрын
1st time watching and I can read his doctors chicken scratch.
@jimfischione2743
@jimfischione2743 2 күн бұрын
So, there is ZERO reason to be in a relationship.
@kenkenichi7461
@kenkenichi7461 2 күн бұрын
What he left out is even his strategies are temporary she will find a way around your bad boy act will become immune to anything you do. My strategy is better it's romance her share love and enjoy yourself until it ends that could be 3 months or a year. Then find a new one.
@QCTred
@QCTred 2 күн бұрын
In the modern world……basically. Women (generally speaking) are almost genetically coded to be cold hearted callous snakes. There are exceptions but what he’s saying is true. It’s funny in a way that without technically saying it……it’s like he’s saying your comment. Or go find you a 2. 🤣 But……..he is right regardless. They’re never happy. You’re a catch and don’t want me (she wants you) but by that reasoning it wouldn’t work obviously because you don’t give a fk. If you’re “truly” a good catch, high value good dude…..it’s like a myth to them & impossible so it becomes like a goal of theirs to destroy it (you) to prove you’re not. Even if……yeah you we’re you’re just a crzy btch who ruins shtt just to please their inner schizo. I read a study where over 70% of women “already HAVE” their backup & some have their backup’s backup. That math is TRUE. Is hella alarming. And should make everyone NEVER trust. That’s why it “seems” all these girls coming up now personify toxic. Because now they’re becoming more obvious about who they ARE. And why their dreams are to make it. Which is defined by high $$ success doing as little as possible which means having an OF site. It’s honestly pretty sad. And it all ultimately boils down to societal rot. In the 50’s it was Leave it to Beaver happy homes. 60’s largely the same but a step in wrong direction then 70’s the same & so on. So now in the modern world these women give absolutely 0 fks. I’ve seen them over & over do the most viscous shtt while smiling about. They’re like empty souls who are coded to destroy. What’s different from now & 50’s though? Divorce rates now make it almost inevitable. Cheating is normalized, overly sexualized society where it’s normal. I mean don’t even go looking for it & I feel I’ve almost seen every set of tits on the planet. Nuclear family largely destroyed so homes are split. Religion has been branded as toxic (I’m not even religious) so kids aren’t being raised in principled happy homes where morals values & ethics are engrained. And all of this, are the ingredients of why, as sad as it is…..really is almost pointless to “seek” anything worth any type of value as far as a relationship goes. Better off playing the lotto. That’s also why you see these videos of random women in the streets being asked how much a guy has to make for a “chance” with them. Like they’re fkn queens. And they’ll all say some ridiculous shtt like 500k Drag them. Then it’s the men are dogs conundrum. But…..you have no choice. Because this is the absolute truth.
@SkillfulHuntsman
@SkillfulHuntsman 2 күн бұрын
I think define what you want out of the relationship and find the right ones for the job whether it’s fun, companionship, children,etc. Also keep in mind, all employees eventually leave. The company keeps going. Choose wisely King
@James-hd7fp
@James-hd7fp 2 күн бұрын
Bro, coming from a sexist, not all women are like this
@NakiaIrvin
@NakiaIrvin 2 күн бұрын
​@@James-hd7fpget outta here beta-male simp !!😅😅
@rpersen
@rpersen Күн бұрын
I feel like I am a nice guy that provides stability and peace around me, but it is never enough. She is always unhappy about something: her job, where we live, that she lives to far away from her family (they are 30 minutes drive away, my family is on the other side of the country), the color of the tiles on the bathroom, that the view is not good enough… and so on. As soon as one «problem» is solved she finds something else to be unhappy about. I am starting to think women cannot be happy with what they have got.
@pf4773
@pf4773 Күн бұрын
wrong! and ZANDAR's presentation in this video is truly unhelpful. 1. start with deep authentic communication---allow her to share her frustrations and LISTEN to her, reflect back what she is saying-and keep a journal about what you and her agreed to do to make the situation better; 2. seduce her daily; 3. when she rants, cries, etc. stand up to that wall of emotional, drink it in, be strong, and let her see that you can handle her feelings. reflect those feelings back to her without taking ownership for them, without allowing her to blame you for her unhappiness. I could go on and on. Good luck in learning how to communicate, something Zandar never covered here since in his conception the unfeeling, deeply disconnected bad boy is what women apparently want (no they don't!). They want a man who is emotionally mature and a leader--they want the best version of you, not some motorcycle thug.
@jason2012ification
@jason2012ification Күн бұрын
No, they can’t be happy, therefore trying to make them happy is insanity. Best you realise if she’s unhappy you are happy
@grahambuckingham7295
@grahambuckingham7295 Күн бұрын
Keep working on your grind and ignore her. Dancing to her rules will get you nowhere. Tell her this, if she leaves she leaves.
@rpersen
@rpersen Күн бұрын
@@pf4773I have tried all this, believe me. Why is it that they cannont be happy with what they have got? Hm? It is not my responsibility do make others happy. I’m not beeing a jerk about it, but I can’t take that responsibility. Happiness needs to come from within.
@SIGSEGV1337
@SIGSEGV1337 Күн бұрын
she doesn't want the problems solved, she just wants you to listen to them
@Imthatguy031
@Imthatguy031 2 күн бұрын
Finally someone that understands my pain. Thanks, Unc. I needed this. You just got a new subscriber.
@RanqeOwnez
@RanqeOwnez 2 күн бұрын
I have experienced all of this hands on this year with my past relationship. Still recovering months after breakup. Be carefull guys.
@marquisnishawn6598
@marquisnishawn6598 2 күн бұрын
Treat her like your life will be better without her basically . 🤷🏿
@BARKYH
@BARKYH 18 сағат бұрын
No brother, more like your life will still go on with or without her
@hurricanewave212
@hurricanewave212 2 күн бұрын
Very brutal very hard pills to swallow thank you sir for these hard facts and truth
@hugevagiine
@hugevagiine 2 күн бұрын
Sharon Stone in the movie Casino portrays this perfectly
@xxczerxx
@xxczerxx 2 күн бұрын
I was thinking this, she is a really good archetype of modern, Western women. And Sam Rosthein is a good example of what a lot of redpill dating coaches say EXACTLY what NOT to do.
@hugevagiine
@hugevagiine 2 күн бұрын
⁠@@xxczerxxSpot on bud, Lester Diamond keeps her chasing by showing her he doesn’t give a f*ck about her. Rothstein goves her everything apart from what she really wants….
@BleuBelair
@BleuBelair Күн бұрын
@@xxczerxxCorrect!
@JasonStone-m5i
@JasonStone-m5i Күн бұрын
Then I divorced her but she loved me so much that kept my last name. 😂
@stmartinhk
@stmartinhk Күн бұрын
They keep your name as a trophy, to humiliate you, like a scalp. My ex kept my name but then I changed it! lol.
@airbear69
@airbear69 13 сағат бұрын
You just described exactly my 6 year relationship that just ended. Described better than any of the dozens of relationship videos I have watched. I have been so sad and just wanted answers. Thank you for rationalizing this so clearly.
@Billydevito
@Billydevito Күн бұрын
As soon as the directives start, you tell them it’s not negotiable and show them where the door is. Stay strong, stay single. 👍
@rrrobeltnest7295
@rrrobeltnest7295 22 сағат бұрын
That’s the alpha
@brokenbywhispers
@brokenbywhispers 2 күн бұрын
I can attest to this shit with several experiences. It is an utter and complete nightmare. so I checked out many years ago and now I couldn't be happier
@starzgalaxy17
@starzgalaxy17 2 күн бұрын
This is strain not only mentally but no healthy man who respects himself will tolerate such
@zaq1337
@zaq1337 2 күн бұрын
Sigmas gonna sigma 🤗🤗🤗
@Alex-gt5ho
@Alex-gt5ho Күн бұрын
@@starzgalaxy17 you know what the best solution is to not even have this in mind, like whatever she does shouldn't affect you, they are harmless really, unless they're psycho or smth
@TavistockLiesBrainwashing
@TavistockLiesBrainwashing 16 сағат бұрын
Why they start crying out on the TV
@RaneBane
@RaneBane 2 күн бұрын
Love is war . Constant battle . When you let your guard down , you lose.
@rubicb3859
@rubicb3859 2 күн бұрын
Thats hard to hear
@oceanoflaughandjoy4440
@oceanoflaughandjoy4440 Күн бұрын
thats FACT with capital letters
@TheJacklwilliams
@TheJacklwilliams 2 күн бұрын
Dude, you and this whiteboard absolutely slay me 😂. Your content has HUGE VALUE. The thing to add is even women who appear CLUELESS to this vs the ones that are outright obvious, are one and the same. It is in THEIR NATURE. It’s absolutely hilarious when you take the red pill. You can’t go back. You can however go forward and forward my friend is a much better place to be.
@DanKurzRealEstate
@DanKurzRealEstate Күн бұрын
“Once you get into a relationship with her, arguments come out of nowhere, her whole attitude and tone starts to show she’s disinterested”….doesn’t matter bro- if she does this to me, I’m dumping her ass. She better act right the whole damn time or she’s gone..her loss.
@wendigos_eat_people7177
@wendigos_eat_people7177 19 сағат бұрын
They are pretty good at hiding their true selves for quite some time, and once they feel secure and you won't be going anywhere , off goes her human disguise. Funny thing is 1950's women were trained to be good girlfriends and wives.
@johnilardi
@johnilardi 14 сағат бұрын
She' was upset because I would not argue, not worth my time
@zundap100
@zundap100 Күн бұрын
This is 100% true. Everyone should watch this video, especially young men.
@MalakABboy
@MalakABboy Күн бұрын
exactly what i allways thought all my life, i have been with a lot of girls and is the same song for all, same manipulation tactics etc, omg they are so boring. thx for this masterpiece video, it made me feel so much better for real, u a master black belt
@Smuggler169
@Smuggler169 2 күн бұрын
Casey you have a gift my friend. Thanks for sharing with us. This needs to taught to all males growing up. Seriously. The heck with Geometry. This needs to be taught in H.S. Through university level or even a trade school.
@JohnGriffith-w2w
@JohnGriffith-w2w 2 күн бұрын
Listen up to 1:55. The solution to this issue is to date multiple women and when one woman starts to be difficult drop her from the rotation and add yet another. 😂 ❤
@inyourhead9714
@inyourhead9714 2 күн бұрын
The reason women can be hypergamous and unfaithful is because of the 20% of men who think like that. That minority is destroying women and the dating market.
@freedomouramerica6776
@freedomouramerica6776 Күн бұрын
Bingo!
@tadeolho3634
@tadeolho3634 Күн бұрын
"Unfortunately" It needs to be like this so she doesn't control you.
@thealternativecontrarian9936
@thealternativecontrarian9936 Күн бұрын
sure if you're a Chad
@mrnygren2
@mrnygren2 20 сағат бұрын
But what is the solution to gaining a loyal woman like grandmother who stayed loyal from the age 24 until grandfathers death at 89.
@makeitflip4469
@makeitflip4469 2 күн бұрын
I think the worst part is the fact they deny and act like were crazy when we say this... Even when you explain this to people you have platonic relationships with parents aunts etc. They will say youre buggin lol
@S1000xrhp
@S1000xrhp Күн бұрын
Someone was puzzling why his oldest friend had started opting out of having a couple of beers together recently. His friend had recently moved in with his girl, who had become pregnant. I shouldn't have said anything because if he couldn't see two giant red flags then he probably wouldn't like friendly advice. All I said was this guy had new responsibilities and most likely trying to navigate competing priorities. As expected, he blew up. I really should have just smiled and said 'I hope it works out' because some people can't see the wood for the trees.
@JoseChung21
@JoseChung21 2 күн бұрын
I can assure you my Gs that Casey is just as horrified writing this shit on the whiteboard as we are reading it
@CaseyZander
@CaseyZander 2 күн бұрын
I’m actually not. I could care less tbh
@JoseChung21
@JoseChung21 2 күн бұрын
@ Strategies to adopt a detached and stoic mindset…the importance of self-love and masculine honor…would appreciate your thoughts in a future video - God bless my G.
@HANZELVANDERLAAY
@HANZELVANDERLAAY 2 күн бұрын
​@@CaseyZanderget a dog.... .and Lysol..for when ur chick leaves..spray the furniture down....snail trails 😂
@Retrocaus
@Retrocaus 2 күн бұрын
@@CaseyZander lol
@w_ulf
@w_ulf 2 күн бұрын
​​​@@CaseyZander this is supposedlah the way that the jewish god made it? LOL this is why our ancestors went a-viking every summer before all the pussificemasculation bulllshit forced upon our people. Thank Gods it's only been a thousand years
@the_complete_truth
@the_complete_truth 2 күн бұрын
I might name my son after you bruh....You drop so much game for men & I've put some of these things into practice to see the reaction of women or I might think about why a woman acted a certain way in the past & everything you teach all adds up!!! You are a Legend bro...💯💯💪🏾💪🏾....I appreciate this game you drop because it's gonna keep men on top of their game 24/7 dealing with these women....& most of all not being played like a sucka....
@jameslunsford4168
@jameslunsford4168 Күн бұрын
This is the best channel for learning about female nature, true masculinity, etc… I literally got a lil down in the dumps and started second guessing myself a few years back and Literally getting in the gym and putting in the work that alone is all it took to change my entire paradigm! I’ve learned so much from Uncle Z and trust me my situation is not a traditional one but I’m living my best life with my marriage and our kids. Trooof
@kwint11
@kwint11 2 күн бұрын
The only way to combat this is to have options, so you don't care when they start acting up. Once they do anything slightly disrespectful, you completely pull back first, then they start chasing. If they start arguing just switch your attention to another girl, and so on
@freedomouramerica6776
@freedomouramerica6776 Күн бұрын
Bingo!
@LFrantz-b4j
@LFrantz-b4j 22 сағат бұрын
The only way to combat this is to abolish all women‘ s rights, now
@giovannipantorno884
@giovannipantorno884 2 күн бұрын
My recent girl knew I was a cheater and adored me and wanted be with me everyday. But eventually they will still disrespect you. Which she did. With her foul mouth she still wanted control.
@kenkenichi7461
@kenkenichi7461 2 күн бұрын
Exactly! Casey's strategy only prolongs her interest yet she will eventually become immune to the bad boy act. Why? Because the bad boy act is just another advanced form of simpery! She will discover your act is all to retain her attention then the inevitable will happen still.
@lorenzoc9880
@lorenzoc9880 2 күн бұрын
@@kenkenichi7461that’s why you can’t have it be an “act”…. If you really are the “man” you will control the frame always. She will always be head over heels for you. Yes sure there are gross hos that aren’t worth it anyways but there are plenty of decent women and most guys can’t accept that they most likely lost her because of their own faults. It’s not a black and white world of course you have to pick the right woman too but all women regardless of who they are will leave you if you end up showing her you’re a lil b-ch
@HANZELVANDERLAAY
@HANZELVANDERLAAY 2 күн бұрын
​@@kenkenichi7461have a harem of woman ..that's the only way
@human_08
@human_08 2 күн бұрын
@@kenkenichi7461 man you’re wise!
@πατριχορ
@πατριχορ 2 күн бұрын
​@@kenkenichi7461😂
@alexgeld7173
@alexgeld7173 2 күн бұрын
Yeah, the moment you start complying it's over.
@brentonl
@brentonl 2 күн бұрын
Yes, never give her certainty
@alexgeld7173
@alexgeld7173 2 күн бұрын
@@brentonl Didn't even watched the video. I already knew this one mate.
@dend1
@dend1 2 күн бұрын
I think you're hitting some targets, but slightly off. A woman is a follower who occasionally checks to make sure she is still following. If a man cannot control himself emotionally, including love, then he loses respect and she feels less inclinded to continue to follow him. Women take more than they give and are generally less loyal than men. Treat them as temporary, overpriced luxuries, until and unless they prove themselves otherwise. Always place yourself first, always.
@justdoityourself7134
@justdoityourself7134 2 күн бұрын
Cope much? Following is an emergent behavior and strategy, not a fundamental one. You should listen and learn.
@bestbots1
@bestbots1 2 күн бұрын
​@@justdoityourself7134..nah..comeon man it's true Tho in this deprived world..that's is a good strategy
@dend1
@dend1 2 күн бұрын
@justdoityourself7134 It's fundamental for women, emergent for men. Fortunately, the mind is neuroplastic, and so men who have been traumatized can work themselves back into form
@dend1
@dend1 2 күн бұрын
@@justdoityourself7134 It's fundamental for women, emergent for men. Fortunately, the mind is neuroplastic, and so traumatized men can recover and heal themselves back into form.
@pf4773
@pf4773 Күн бұрын
I agree with the first part (you nailed it) but not the second part---women do not take more than they give and are not less loyal than men. If you allow bad behavior they will show it. If you spend money on a woman at the start of the relationship you've taught her that this game is in play. If she demands that you spend money on her or she will not even consider a first date, then she is not healthy, a bad woman, and no more attention should be given to her.
@Kit-kk9cb
@Kit-kk9cb 2 күн бұрын
The fact that he said that they will go through this process in their 20s, 30s and even 40s multiple times shows that it's unlikely to be a natural, sensible thing, and more likely to be a result of being spoiled rotten by modern society. Sad.
@RicksCafeAmericana
@RicksCafeAmericana Күн бұрын
Yup
@TavistockLiesBrainwashing
@TavistockLiesBrainwashing 16 сағат бұрын
They're still "Figuring it out aged 50"
@sarahmika6649
@sarahmika6649 2 күн бұрын
Top Video casey. One of the best this year. 🎉Women punish any weakness.
@user-tz1fd1hl8t
@user-tz1fd1hl8t 2 күн бұрын
In the Book of Genesis, God stated "your DESIRE shall be for your husband and he shall RULE over you" desire in the Hebrew language means she will want to control him
@torturetuesday5191
@torturetuesday5191 Күн бұрын
I was thinking the same thing after I read that in Genesis. It was part of the punishment God Gave to us for disobeying him.
@claudiafrers8923
@claudiafrers8923 5 сағат бұрын
As a 70 year old woman who loves men, I am here to tell you that power struggle is a common and natural occurence in any relationship. Everything said here about women is just as true for men. Men do not emasculate women but they do take away your power. Toxic relationships stay in this powerstruggle stage. This guy has been hurt and he is just using you guys as a cash cow. Not all people are toxic but many nice ppl need to learn to set boundaries.
@LFrantz-b4j
@LFrantz-b4j 3 сағат бұрын
We live in a time where people’s heart are closed, and things like honesty and truthfulness are not valued anymore and even ridiculed. I can attest what Casey Zander describes is the overwhelming majority of modern relationships with young women. People are sad angry depressed and full of negative emotions.
@djcucumpa
@djcucumpa 2 күн бұрын
This talks are getting better and better as this dude matures
@CricketFantasy-f5j
@CricketFantasy-f5j 2 сағат бұрын
Not every relationship is about control. There is not a bad or good relationship. A successful relationship is built on pure love, trust and communication. A woman will never control you or exert power on you if you actually know how to handle her according to her wants and needs and working smart to bring balance emotionally snd physically.
@blackerdays
@blackerdays 2 күн бұрын
Man, this was a really great vid although you always produce great content. If I had this knowledge when I was your age I would have been unstoppable instead of taking the financial losses I did. Keep up the great work! Listen up, young men. This guy knows exactly what he’s talking about and way ahead of the game especially at his age… amazing…
@kidcryptic8193
@kidcryptic8193 2 күн бұрын
If all of these traits about women are true and after listening to you for about a year and seeing in the real world they are I don't want to be with a woman if that's truly there nature I'll just be single my whole life and will ultimately be happier thanks brother save me a lot of headaches and grief and pain
@ProjectNic911
@ProjectNic911 2 күн бұрын
Amen
@hugevagiine
@hugevagiine 2 күн бұрын
Monogamy was a Christian construct, we are meant to be playing the field
@estatuadechozo
@estatuadechozo 2 күн бұрын
​@@hugevagiine christianity looks like a social construct in the eyes of barbarians.
@Kit-kk9cb
@Kit-kk9cb 2 күн бұрын
@@hugevagiine Monogamy is as much a Christian construct as the flourishing of a society. We are not meant to play the field, we are meant to have monogamous relationships and 2-3 children per household. Otherwise, society will quickly deteriorate into stone age like conditions (as we are currently observing). The decay of monogamy is what got us into this mess in the first place - just a few decades ago we were doing pretty well. Religion is the only thing that can rein in hypergamy to the point where a stable society is possible.
@EmpoweredTravels
@EmpoweredTravels 2 күн бұрын
My father came to the same conclusion. Throughout my life, he would explain why he wasn't with my mother. He said some of the things Casey said. She was manipulative, controlling, argumentative while he was good to her. I never really understood the why behind it until Casey laid it out. Pop decided to be single his whole life after that. He messed with women here and there but wouldn't commit to any of them. I'm guessing you can have a relationship if you want to but after learning women's true nature, sometimes I ask myself why?
@Drumbeat52
@Drumbeat52 2 күн бұрын
Basically, a good guy cannot be his authentic self in a relationship with a woman. I've experienced everything he talks about just being me. The song "Girls just wanta have fun" is true! A long-term relationship always has different phases and the end result for women is boredom! Regardless of what others tell you, as long as women have options, they will apply them until they no longer have them. Once they reach that point, you don't want them! I will not play their games, and I will not be someone I am not! That's why after one marriage I remained single. If you set boundaries, you can bet your ass that one day the woman will cross them.
@pf4773
@pf4773 Күн бұрын
Glad to hear that you and so many guys are out of the game of finding a committed relationship because you see women in such a toxic manner---just opens the field for me and other guys who recognize that Zander's points are incomplete at best. If a woman is behaving as Zandar describes there are only two conclusions: 1. the woman herself is emotionally immature and unhealthy, and you shouldn't be with her; or/and 2. the problem was YOU-that you were a weak, non-alpha, not a GOOD bad boy (strong, emotionally mature, a good communicator able to pull her true feelings out), etc. f YOU are a weak, girl-dependent guy who does not put energy into seducing your woman, who cannot stand up to her emotional tests and emotionality, than you have failed her, and deserve what you get. For every guy that said, "What?! Why did she leave me? It must be because she was this or that, you are completely missing the point, that frequently it was YOU who didn't know how to keep her attraction alive. 70% of divorces and separations (Pew Research Council) are initiated by women, not men. Since women are DISPOSED to nest and want a strong partner to nest with them, do NOT give me this BS that the women just want to flake cuz they are purposely out to look for a jerk who will cheat on them, who is irresponsible, can't communicate emotionally. Missing in Zandar's points entirely is the importance of regular and deep communication, authentic sharing of feelings, frustrations, with a plan to address them. And how to seduce your woman daily!
@Drumbeat52
@Drumbeat52 Күн бұрын
@@pf4773 It's a math problem, you can be all the things positive like you pointed out and keep a long-term relationship in place, but very, very few of relationships can hold a woman's feet to the fire indefinitely. Have you found your unicorn? I never said I was out of the game, but they have to chase me because I don't care. I'll bet I have been through more rodeo's than you, my friend. Don't lecture me. When are you getting married Professor?
@TavistockLiesBrainwashing
@TavistockLiesBrainwashing 16 сағат бұрын
Contemporary women no longer fulfill any traditional female roles and they have no hobbies either. Their whole worldview is that of prostit,utes.
@totoriri6973
@totoriri6973 2 сағат бұрын
spot on
@hamishlilley951
@hamishlilley951 7 сағат бұрын
That's the best explaination I have ever heard. It explains a lot!
@Brent-z2s
@Brent-z2s 2 күн бұрын
I had a girlfriend who told me she would make me fat and happy which she did to make me unattractive to other women but then later told me i wish you were still in shape like when i first met you. She had also made me unattractive to her.
@costumeninja1914
@costumeninja1914 2 күн бұрын
You did it to yourself.
@RJ12347
@RJ12347 Күн бұрын
That's your fault not hers, you compromise your health for a fling, you don't value yourself as you should
@Brent-z2s
@Brent-z2s Күн бұрын
RJ you are correct about the health thing. But ended up lasting 18 years because I knew what really attracted the women to me because I have excellent hearing 👂 and can hear what women say behind my back. she didn't leave me.
@oliverrahn7274
@oliverrahn7274 15 сағат бұрын
All your content has been proven time and time again from my own experience lol great stuff man.
@jamesl.8878
@jamesl.8878 2 күн бұрын
They’re going to drift from you at some point but the point of society was to be like calm the f down or you lose your family and you ain’t getting shit. With them running relationships it’s like a blind person flying a plane.
@AndrijBalan-t3o
@AndrijBalan-t3o Күн бұрын
This is the best video yet - right to the point dude, nice 👌
@silkee
@silkee 2 күн бұрын
Disagree. This describes 90% of women, your task is to settle with the 10%. Never stay with the 90%, your life will be hard regardless of your actions.
@Airdrop101-b2e
@Airdrop101-b2e 2 күн бұрын
You are wrong is 100%
@halukkilic3171
@halukkilic3171 2 күн бұрын
So basically the 10% rule apply to both men and women if we take into consideration women's hypergamy. So guys behave just the same - your words not mine.
@RipRiot-k5o
@RipRiot-k5o 2 күн бұрын
You are correct it’s 90% of women in the west between 18-44
@funkymunky
@funkymunky 2 күн бұрын
Inclined to agree, but the 10% are taken.
@πατριχορ
@πατριχορ 2 күн бұрын
He is describing a 10% of conventionally attractive women who get carried through life by those looks and are toxic.
@Baasicstuff
@Baasicstuff Сағат бұрын
As a married man women, whether married or not, will always look for my approval. And most women will give you the look, which if my wife did to another man would bother me.
@Project-h3u
@Project-h3u 2 күн бұрын
I suspected this for a long time, just by seeing how my cusins an uncles, brothers with there women,. You just confirmd It , ALL MEN NEED TO KNOW THIS
@Iankameel
@Iankameel Күн бұрын
This is one of my fav you ever done. Very good explanation of female hypergamy.
@بندهخدا-ي2ي
@بندهخدا-ي2ي 2 күн бұрын
Hypergamy is real and I’ve learned it trough Casey’s videos. I was in this spot where I gave her full Validation calling her My GF and found myself emotionally invested+her Hypergamy kicked in so i immediately broken up with her and initiated the no contact. It was a terrible experience due to my own mistakes..
@GdeVseSvobodnyeNiki
@GdeVseSvobodnyeNiki 2 күн бұрын
Now I'm not sure if i lasted with my girl 8 years because i didn't care that much and had that cheater bad boy aura or because she was genuinely a good person. Funny thing is that i in my youth was dumped brutally by multiple partners who I loved and cared and was very passionate and enthusiastic about. And she did the same (dumped) to other guys who were way more attached than me. It kinda starts to make sense now.
@Kit-kk9cb
@Kit-kk9cb 2 күн бұрын
If she dumped guys who liked her she's probably not a great person. But maybe it's a combination of both. I don't know you so I can't judge.
@GdeVseSvobodnyeNiki
@GdeVseSvobodnyeNiki 2 күн бұрын
@@Kit-kk9cb she claims she changed since then. Don't know if it's true or wishfull thinking though.
@Kit-kk9cb
@Kit-kk9cb 2 күн бұрын
@@GdeVseSvobodnyeNiki Well they always say that. You're the only one who can judge whether it's the truth or a lie. I wouldn't know.
@Sultan313-dkr
@Sultan313-dkr 2 күн бұрын
​@@GdeVseSvobodnyeNiki No she's not changing she doesn't have the right moment,she stays Woman, always keeps your guard up N be prepare to walk away at any signs of Disrespect . Love is Respect no more no less.
@Brent-z2s
@Brent-z2s 2 күн бұрын
If you get sick or lose some income your smv drops and they leave. My dads second wife did this.
@Veldoril
@Veldoril 2 күн бұрын
What a junt.
@costumeninja1914
@costumeninja1914 2 күн бұрын
@@Veldoril100
@TavistockLiesBrainwashing
@TavistockLiesBrainwashing 16 сағат бұрын
Contemporary women no longer fulfill any traditional female roles and they have no hobbies either. Their whole worldview is that of prostit,utes.
@NathanJ7132
@NathanJ7132 22 сағат бұрын
Pastor Zander with another FANTASTIC SERMON!!!
@DimitriDemont
@DimitriDemont 2 күн бұрын
Hypergamy has its purpose and is a good thing. But today's hypergamy feels like it's on steroids thanks to all the social media. You can‘t keep a modern woman.. She‘s never your‘s, just your turn. Had to experience it this year too. almost 9 year relationship. hard pill but life must go on.
@frankiecal3186
@frankiecal3186 Күн бұрын
This is the harsh truth. Very wise video no matter how hard the red pill is to swallow.
@joskaha3407
@joskaha3407 2 күн бұрын
I think this dynamic is only true for emotionaly immature women. But i also think it is important to keep those dynamics in mind when dating, just to dodge the bullet when dating an emotionaly immature women
@πατριχορ
@πατριχορ 2 күн бұрын
Yup
@nigelharvey640
@nigelharvey640 2 күн бұрын
Are there emotionally mature ones? Who don’t unravel that maturity in the relationship? And what obligations do you have as a man to make sure her emotional maturity is sustained?
@TavistockLiesBrainwashing
@TavistockLiesBrainwashing 16 сағат бұрын
Contemporary women no longer fulfill any traditional female roles and they have no hobbies either. Their whole worldview is that of prostit,utes.
@theflowerangel5724
@theflowerangel5724 2 күн бұрын
I like watching your videos to become a better dating woman. Appreciate you ‼️💖
@greggood4772
@greggood4772 2 күн бұрын
Nice
@dennisraney9043
@dennisraney9043 2 күн бұрын
That's wisdom there..!!
@Porkypies6m
@Porkypies6m 2 күн бұрын
Femhas lied to all of you
@nigelharvey640
@nigelharvey640 2 күн бұрын
Doubt
@jwave07
@jwave07 2 күн бұрын
Omg this content is Gold
@emersonjohnson8491
@emersonjohnson8491 Күн бұрын
Facts, and pure facts. Thanks for confirming what I theorized.
@dingalingmatt
@dingalingmatt 2 күн бұрын
Spot on. Just went through this.
@licensedprofessional4742
@licensedprofessional4742 4 сағат бұрын
This is the blueprint of every relationship! 😮😢
@leelunk8235
@leelunk8235 3 сағат бұрын
ASIA IS DIFFERENT. VIETNAM DA NANG FOR EXAMPLE
@rayuk3939
@rayuk3939 2 күн бұрын
My parents have been married for over 50 years. Men and women can build a life together. It’s not all adversarial
@mydogmorgan
@mydogmorgan 2 күн бұрын
Different time back then.
@amphibious4463
@amphibious4463 2 күн бұрын
You don't know the shit that's happened behind closed doors.
@rayuk3939
@rayuk3939 2 күн бұрын
@@amphibious4463 Pretty clear on my own family history mate. Neither of them were saints all the time. They worked out their issues together and now they have a lot grandchildren. They’re happy
@tadeolho3634
@tadeolho3634 Күн бұрын
​@@rayuk3939 The 21st century generation of women sees it as boring, staying with 1 partner for so long.
@MrMakemusicmike
@MrMakemusicmike Күн бұрын
Is your mom hot or not?
@krees895
@krees895 2 күн бұрын
Great video as always , Casey is the truth when it comes to this shit fellas
@khalidalkhatib1178
@khalidalkhatib1178 2 күн бұрын
FACT! My ex wife did the same shit for the past 7 months during our marriage. I never broke down and never gave up control to her. Lol
@BigWangChang69
@BigWangChang69 11 сағат бұрын
Before adopting this world-view…remember, this mainly applies to low-quality women. Also, he’s not married so the guidance on managing relationships should be taken with a metric ton of salt.
@Igod708-G
@Igod708-G 7 сағат бұрын
I completely agree I’ve met women that are very different from what he explained and I’ve seen how a lot of what he said is bullshit, it’s only bs because he says all woman.
@cincomiranda478
@cincomiranda478 Күн бұрын
It sucks how true this 😂 but it’s true. I’ve literally heard those words “why did you pick me?” And the rest was down hill from there.
@LTsCardEmporium
@LTsCardEmporium Күн бұрын
Yeah this one girl was like why are you treating me so kind and doing these things for you. Slowly but surely I got the text when she was away for a few days.
@simjam1980
@simjam1980 Күн бұрын
These women secretly hate themselves and don't believe anyone could love them.. so they think there must be something wrong with you. They are totally projecting their own worthlessness onto you.
@angelrivera6915
@angelrivera6915 11 сағат бұрын
Great content great video brother thank you
@adamfrisch5826
@adamfrisch5826 2 күн бұрын
Have lived this exact scenario. Spot on. Never again.
@0admiral0
@0admiral0 2 күн бұрын
I get Casey is definitely on to something with everything he is saying, but how is one supposed to have a family? Isn't the nuclear family a Christian value and what keeps society together? How is it even possible to have one? I'm only left with more questions and more concern for us as a species
@apostatejim2080
@apostatejim2080 2 күн бұрын
Yeah, it seems like we are headed toward extinction, without family there is no society and maybe our future society will be test tube babies and robotic daycares and nurseries. Dating women whose childhood wasn't damaged from divorce is a good start.
@πατριχορ
@πατριχορ 2 күн бұрын
Marriage works within an Orthodox Church community where both parties are held accountable.
@rpersen
@rpersen Күн бұрын
The powers that be has destroyed christian values and the nuclear family.
@Xenlacasa45
@Xenlacasa45 Күн бұрын
Get a poor chick from a humble god fearing family maybe even a third world country. Have her depend on you that will keep her in line.
@itlp5525
@itlp5525 2 күн бұрын
I have experienced everything you talk about from women all over the world 🌍
@samuellane4437
@samuellane4437 Күн бұрын
Close, but inaccurate. A woman can love a man who loves her as long as she knows he doesn't need her and will leave her without second thought if she crosses his boundaries.
@LFrantz-b4j
@LFrantz-b4j 22 сағат бұрын
Indeed love can be rooted in both strength or weakness.
@chamakamukwamba1266
@chamakamukwamba1266 7 сағат бұрын
Facts. That’s the sad truth about being a man in a stable relationship. They need to know you will drop them without a second thought if you need to.
@markkimball1569
@markkimball1569 Күн бұрын
After 28 years 24 years married boom spot on I don’t want my stepson falling into this. He’s a very good man. He’s an accomplished United States Marine officer and pilot and I don’t want anybody taken from him. His mom took from me. She didn’t take it from her first husband because he didn’t give it up, but I was stupid. I was stupid.😂
@8MunchenBayern8
@8MunchenBayern8 2 күн бұрын
Obligatory the more I know about them the less I want to associate with them comment lol...
@Kit-kk9cb
@Kit-kk9cb 2 күн бұрын
More and more I start to realize what they mean by "you can either love them or understand them, but not both".
@truth4903
@truth4903 20 сағат бұрын
Wow! So different from my experience. I must have been so lucky. My approach is simple: (1) before I get involved too much I watch them closely to determine their character. If I see something I don’t like. I end it quickly. and (2) I never chase anyone, no matter how hot they are. I don’t even in anyway acknowledge that I find them attractive. So, when I get involved I have a feel for who they are as a person and I know they want to be with me because we both have to put some effort to be together. I’ve never had a problem finding women that are intelligent, attractive and faithful. Women know I try to be nice to everyone, but they know I can be dangerous based on my childhood experiences. I’m sure career success and being fit probably helps. My wife passed away earlier this year. I purposely wanted to be alone. When I’m thinking about allowing a woman back into my life I find myself looking outside the US because I don’t like what’s going on culturally. I’ve never used social media for dating. Everyone I’ve met has been organically in my life. I wish you all well and find someone worthy of your time.
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