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If you are on your level-up journey, that girl, high-value woman era & feminine energy-ish, you NEED to know how to communicate through your feminine energy. Feminine energy embodiment is taking an oath to softness and we need to learn as women how to merge this softness into our communication. In this video, I discuss 4 critical steps to master feminine energy communication so you can enhance the quality of your relationships and interactions. I first talk about turning your demands into expressing feelings. I share a secret 5 part formula that is literally the ultimate feminine energy way to express ANYTHING and have people actually hear you. Then, I discuss how to communicate in the early stages of dating vs in the long-term and what you should be doing in each stage. Third is non-verbal communication basics to enhance your seduction and magnetic energy, and lastly, I discuss verbal communication basics. Sub for more self-development content!
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[@VickitaTrivedi]

🏆TIMESTAMPS Step 1: 3:26 ACTION STEP & KEY INSIGHTS: 11:58 Step 2: 12:02 ACTION STEP & KEY INSIGHTS: 14:49 Step 3: 14:37 ACTION STEP & KEY INSIGHTS: 19:23 Step 4: 19:08 ACTION STEP & KEY INSIGHTS: 20:50 TO-DO-LIST: 21:57 VIDEO NOTES: docs.google.com/document/d/1vHD8KqCfeUl7RRyIHsfmHN3HMvVJQBs-XiwK_wlVssI/edit?usp=sharing

[@Mariashahid17]

Great content Vickita! I am a communications expert and love how you have brought in the angle of feminine communication and explained everything!

[@lilonebates840]

My. . Man. Is. A. Women. Like he. Is. Supper. Gay Super. Sup9er. Gay

[@janellewolfe5260]

Please understand that if you’re communicating appropriately to them and their reaction is still defensive and inappropriate. It doesn’t mean you need to “try harder”. It means he simply doesn’t care and/or he’s possibly emotionally abusive and you need to accept that and LEAVE him or continue to accept the unacceptable behaviour.

[@moonwildmagica]

Was wondering this throughout watching this video too... Thank you.

[@rosenikon]

@aegrotus Yes it works both ways good job.

[@daniellamoreno3616]

Yep 👍… Hard lesson learned but now I’m no longer blind!!!

[@Nottygdrasil]

i was goingto say, this doesnt work with a narcissist.

[@SuperSamiSunshine]

She mentions that early in the video

[@AfuaYmani]

Expressing feelings helps you see who a man really is. If you tell a man how you feel and he doesn't respond with concern, he don't care about you sis. Leave him

[@Alexistxsj]

💯🫶🏽

[@silindokuhlemahlangu997]

I struggle to communicate because I just leave when I feel unappreciated. In my experience, speaking about my feeling just opened me up to being gaslight or manipulated.

[@silindokuhlemahlangu997]

Okay, I got to the end of the video and it all makes sense now. Thank you so much for the real, practical advice and tips.

[@jenniferklopman2557]

I know how that is. It sucks how mean some people can be when you take a chance and be vulnerable. I'm so sorry that anyone made you feel that way. I wish I didn't struggle with the same thing

[@juliettegrondin3640]

These are the principles of non violent communication and they apply to relationships in general, not just men/women !

[@Sokal.D]

Yep, she said that in the beginning

[@Mya.atPlay]

I’ve been married 7 years and been working on tuning into my fem energy again, and everything you shared here was gold. I felt a tiny bit defensive in the beginning because thinking “why do i have to change” but i realised its the same level of effort (maybe less) but just using different words. And i think i realised that what you are teaching is probably how’d i’d prefer people speak to me, so its a better approach in general, from 1 human to another. THX 🙏

[@MODISHYE]

I liked how you said, “Appreciation and acknowledgment is a key part of the formula of putting the defenses down before you even come in with what you are about to say.” I can see how beneficial this approach could be, and it reframed my perspective. Great tip!

[@november1966]

Be kind , be patient and listen attentively to your spouse😂 even if he so angry, mad and furious just stay calm smile and talk slowly, he will calm down 😂😅 😂😂 that's my strategy .When he sees me calm , his anger subsides, no more arguing😂😂

[@SaryMag]

35 yo women here learning this in couples therapy..not easy but sooo worth it! Thank you for sharing this with us🤓💕🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@squidward9191]

gotta love how we need to have the knowledge of a psychologist just to make a relationship with a man tolerable

[@amandarose4399]

It's about learning how to communicate with someone who is wired completely different. But...she also literally said this can be used for any person lol

[@mosdefiant]

lol, this is the comment I was looking for 😂

[@paintedrose846]

😂 the struggle is real

[@Dharmik-sl4hj]

😂😂

[@jenniferklopman2557]

Lol

[@mangx0]

she is literally my life coach now

[@queen.of.disaster_]

These makes me glad I'm single after a toxic relationship with someone who refused to change for over 10 years

[@Kristain473]

If you tell a narcissist or maybe even a regular man that I feel a certain way they’ll respond with I’m sorry you feel that way

[@lianxie5582]

And then “stop it.”

[@angiesibaei1351]

I have so much to say I love how detailed and how you broke it down perfectly Half way through the video I paused , went and grabbed a pen and paper and started taking notes immediately Great job and thank you ❤

[@GloriaZi]

Metoo I had to take notes

[@VickitaTrivedi]

yay!!! im so glad you enjoyed it :)

[@S-mi5yi]

I can't recall any KZbinr in this arena of content being as dedicated as you are. The advice, the structure, the notes and your demeanor. We really appreciate it. Your channel deserves all the success in the world.

[@VickitaTrivedi]

this comment is everything, thank you so much!

[@Miss.EJ.Mac.]

@@VickitaTrivediI love your channel and your videos! Very informative and in depth and I’ve learned so much! Please keep making them! Thank you!! 😊

[@AlexisDimes]

@@VickitaTrivediagreed I’m not even in a relationship but this will be helpful one day 😂

[@africanprincessmaya]

Try shera seven...this babe is good too no doubt

[@S-mi5yi]

@@africanprincessmaya her earlier videos were great.

[@Sportsgirly]

This is literally what I have been wanting to learn for the past 3 years. Now I finally know how to communicate when I never learned that growing up

[@VickitaTrivedi]

glad it helped!

[@shanellem6310]

That goes ditto for me.

[@jamiearonson923]

Yay I'm so happy other people noticed and appreciate your attention to detail and organization. You are so thorough! Thank you so much for teaching this!! So helpful!

[@rorijackson9015]

I have watched soooooo many of these feminine communication type videos and this has to be one of the best I've ever watched! I will def be coming back to this one over and over. It's like a master class. Looking forward to watching some of your other videos now.

[@natart13]

What I love the most about your videos is how organize you are. The structure, the notes etc. Great job

[@Soulflowz]

You are Spot on ( I do all this and try to maintain this by watching videos like this), you’re the type of BFF I would appreciate in my life fr 🩵✨ keep shining Queen

[@stylewithvani943]

Completely agree , i think we should know how to control our emotions and don't show that you are weak , I can't live without you etc . We think the next person will understand but girl that's a big NO . Instead of reacting focus on your actions That's all I am learning now these days . Balance is important, extreme in everything is always bad .

[@toumeigirl9293]

how though?

[@Christmas-gv4hv]

Best video yet. Not cos the others weren’t great but just because the outcome and steps to achieve it were so concise. Thanks very much, will be using the tips x

[@user-wo4jb7gr7r]

The only issue I have with this is that Im tired of watching endless videos and reading books when 99% of men dont give a shit 😂 Im exhausted of trying to cater to them just because they are to lazy to work on their emotional intelligence. If a man comes home and doesnt wanna talk to me all day but just use my ressources and services then thats what he wants to do, I let him do that and silently detach and move on. I dont have time anymore to be on my "Sherlock Holmes Game" and Master Communicator Translater.

[@VickitaTrivedi]

girl you're picking the wrong man then?

[@user-wo4jb7gr7r]

@@VickitaTrivedi ok

[@user-xn8zk4wn1q]

Why does he live in your house? Why is he using you? Why do you let him do all that?

[@endofyraaaaryfodne3389]

I'm saving your video to study before having a hard conversation with someone dear to me. Shouting, passive aggressiveness and silence were my usual ways of reacting. And it never worked. It only made things worse. I hope to be better at the way I communicate after this!

[@MarissaLaipsker]

Vickita.. you’ve changed my life. Thank you, girl

[@gl8zes]

this is one of the most informative and well structured videos ive seen on such a topic! it's a no nonsense, straight to the point and nuanced argument set forth on such digestible terms! thank you, and you've just gained a new subscriber :)

[@evilive99]

Id like to say that I almost NEVER take the time to comment on videos, its been years. But your video is AMAZING. the way you explain things simply and can relate to the thought processes behind what leads to certain situations or responses. PERFECTION. ive heard what you said before but differently and didnt make quite as much sense. THANK YOU SO MUCH.

[@angelaz6475]

i loveeeee how organized your vids are and how you always give us notes. tysm girl appreciate this sm

[@turquoiselizzie6874]

​@hybridthesheriffwho is that might check her out

[@VickitaTrivedi]

@hybridthesheriff lol wtf

[@joycefiore2721]

Haha. Wtf? Debbie Downer

[@vitaminka012]

Finally actual tips and directions. Thank you!✨

[@carolallison9685]

Here's the thing, a lot of us who were raised by boomers have childhood trauma. Lets face it, they were spoiled rotten during the post war boom, and formed bad formations when it came to how to parent us millennials and older gen z. So you need to get your trauma in check, and you also have to understand that the person you are having a conflict with probably has their own trauma. Even something so normal like parents being divorced is a question on the ace score, so little things actually arent so little. So think before you speak. Why did he ignore your bid for affection? Did his parents ignore his bids for affection so now he has attachment issues? Also, why are you so upset about it? Was your parents love conditional causing you to seek out the feeling that you are loved by forcing others to do x,y, and z until it satisfies those needs? Does he have to tell you how beautiful you are before you start feeling beautiful, or do you already know you are beautiful and his compliment is really just a nice gesture, not a moral booster? For an example, i was raised in a very healthy household, so if my husband tells me im beautiful, i think "oh hes such a nice caring person". I dont feel anymore beautiful just because he said something nice to me. I already knew. By contrast, my husband was raised in a very abusive home, like they didnt feed him abusive. If my husband didnt feel like i was constantly validating him, he would get very depressed, and this led to some bad stuff in our marriage a few years back. Now, because i understand psychology and i have knowledge of his upbringing and the effects on his mind, i actually didn't take these things personally. In fact i was able to identify this toxic behavior for what it really was and i was able to get him the help he needed. He got the help and is a completely different person. All of the great things about him that made me fall in love are still there, and actually stronger now, but all of the bad stuff is gone. He communicates his needs, his wants, his desires, and he is now a great listener. If i have a problem and want to talk about it, he is now a receptive listener who wants to find a solution. Before he got the help he needed, he would shut down and feel shame, even over silly things like me simply asking him to pick up his socks. So, while this seems crazy, it really shows how trauma affects us. So be compassionate to your partner, because he has probably been hurt in the past. Remember, its not about you, its just him coping and trying to protect himself because he feels unsafe.

[@GabrielleSWalker]

You got me at the first guy that your mom put you on. I commend your mom on being fearless in sharing what was on her spirit and your boldness in listening!! Bc that’s crazyyy, that had to be soooo scary and hard giving that man your whole identity! But the crazier the story, the bigger the blessing 🙌🏾🤗 Amen!

[@sandrapavasovic3198]

I've been starting to learn part of this more lately. This brought up so many useful and practical tips . Thank ❤

[@rachelkuller6858]

The only suggestion I would make is to get rid of the word "but" and replacing it with "and." It makes a huge difference in how much the other person can stay open to listening and not feel criticized and shut down. Just think how your body feels when someone says "you're great but".. . The "but" can really tank it. Great video!

[@cup_o_TMarie]

👏👏👏😹I just commented the same!

[@kaylaemmerling2025]

im speechless, you are amazing !! I have so much more clarity on how to live out the way I have been desiring to communicate

[@HERR2317]

This is probably your best video yet. Great content, precise, cohesive, and functional. I’m so glad I found you.

[@ladyluck39]

agree

[@GabrielleSWalker]

I would like this video 100,000 x if I could. I love everything about this and I’m going to use your advice in communication with my children. I decided a couple days ago I was going to speak from my feminine when I talk to and with them, but it’s so hard. I never experienced that growing up so idk how to do it. 😭 Especially when it’s just me with them bc then I feel like I NEED to parent from my masculine at times to let them know I’m not playing around. But this video showed me that it doesn’t have to be that way. Thanks so much girl 🥰🌹

[@Chick4Biden2024]

The non verbal cues are great. I didn't know why I struggled flirting as a woman so much until I found out I am autistic. So your advice on eye contact and smiling is extremely helpful to me. Thank you 😊

[@missn111]

I limit the amount of channels I follow to 30 because I don't want to consume too much content, but this video convinced me, I'm subscribing! You deliver valuable and helpful content. 💗

[@evilive99]

I thought the same thing

[@fabbydabby7194]

I love the music she uses when she puts the tips up. Feels like I took up a course while on vacation 😂 not seen a video like this that makes me feel pampered while learning lol

[@missfabidia]

Thank you ! I love that your natural, completely yourself and relatable...Please dont change. For some reason, most women who create content around feminine energy try to overdo it in a very weird way with their voice, posture and sometimes clothes. I understand the intention it to embody feminine energy, but nobody bahaves like this in real life.

[@DominantBtch]

A lot of people do, you just don't

[@aFeverishFiend]

I feel like I've naturally done all these things but with my last relationship, i really let my masculine side go wild which was so fkn draining... i should've just walked away sooner than I did. I didn't realize how his energy affected me until I started losing myself. It's so much more peaceful and relaxed when you really get into your feminine energy and meet a man who only adds to that tranquility instead of trying to destroy it. Thank you for sharing❤

[@amandakiszonak913]

Phenomenal video, Vicki. Really digging the format too.

[@JasiFlores]

I literally look forward to your videos and eagerly await you to post new ones for new precious knowledge! Love all your content queen!

[@amazingshania4254]

It's really important to know how to express contructive statements without being critical. Many people are very unaware of this, thank you for creating such an informative vid! 💗

[@DeezyRYG]

Watching this as a male, and I love it. This is such amazing advice and I will share the video with some friends of both genders. Thanks for taking the time to break this all down.

[@renatacampos8652]

This is a masterclass omg. Thank you so much!

[@imhere.7482]

i’ve did this and it turned into an argument abt “how do i make you feel like that? nothing i do makes you happy, you’re not upset abt me, you just don’t love me” i just went quiet, he came to me a few minutes later and apologized and said he hears me and he’ll fix it😭😭😭 good that he realized his actions and did fix it but i just don’t feel comfortable addressing him anymore

[@thurlkilldeseret1682]

This is top-tier mature womanhood. I'm 24 and here for it!

[@HelloKristen]

Your videos are 🤌 I love the straight-forwardness, the topics, the examples, the summary slides - thank you!!! I am extremely ADHD and have a short memory span so I always take notes on my phone from educational videos so I don’t forget but I was able to take screenshots of your summaries and just put them in my notes app so thank you! Also please make so many more feminine energy videos I love this topic!! New subscriber! 😊

[@petramckean5041]

Your communication style in this video is slower and softer than in other videos. I love it!

[@MisteeksBusiness]

Thank you so much!! I really need to hear this video. I'm gonna work on my communication to become a better version of myself.❤

[@wattakesselly6463]

I LOVE your strategies!!! I struggle with effective communication as well. Been told I “challenge” people so I will definitely try this to see if it works. Thanks love ❤

[@SC-trix]

Yesssss ❤🎉 love the slides! Thank you.

[@insa2242]

I used to do all of this for my ex and it never worked. He would take my kindness and softness for granted and walk all over me. So other women told me to change my approach, match energy and so I did and it got .. worse. He was just not good to me. I changed and started to hate who I was becoming and how I react. Now I have to undo all that and find myself

[@manicmoonpie]

these videos are so helpful especially when I have never had a truly feminine figure in my life. Even with mostly women in my family, they can be crass or domineering. My mother especially has always been harsh and aggressive with absolutely no successful, healthy relationships. I want to be gentle, classy, direct, confident and sensual. Its nice to have some advice on how to lean into our feminine energy as women rather than thinking power can only be achieved through masculinity.

[@diamondfacesbyjc3694]

I’m an ABA therapist and I applaud this kind of communication! Wow what a great video breakdown and super simple to understand👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@bekichic770]

haven’t finished watching and this is sooo helpful already thank you

[@kaylagarcia7073]

Girl I love you so much you are so amazing helping women the way you do, really appreciate you honestly can't express how much you have helped me ❤️

[@Yemma1990]

I dont understand why there are so many channels on KZbin talking basically about non-violent communication and then frame it as "feminine communication" or "being in your feminine energy". It doesn't have to do anything with you being a woman, just with good communication skills. As a woman I dont want a man to talk to me in a confronting way either, it would also make me react in a defensive way. I can only encourage everyone to look up non-violent communication and leave the sex and gender roles aside.

[@melaniefiorella10]

100 - this is non violent communication.

[@DominantBtch]

wow, your so bitter, work on that.

[@kaitlin8669]

Great content. I love that you are such a warm person. Thank you! Subscribed!

[@arcoverland1481]

You are on point! This is very helpful and excellent strategy in improving communication in relationships. God Bless your channel❤

[@cayennepepah]

I love steps ❤❤❤ thank you for breaking this down!!

[@hanavaughan6956]

man, this is such good stuff. So glad I found this woman..

[@VickitaTrivedi]

glad to have you!!!

[@ArriahLaCole-dl3hl]

Thank you so much ! You're out here doing God's work ❣️❣️❣️❣️😩😩😩😩🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽✊🏽🤞🏽🤞🏽🤞🏽

[@Sportsgirly]

Please do more of these communiction videos!! You're saving my relationship so thanks queen

[@NiaKing-ro7do]

Vickita thank you so much for the Google doc! You're definitely a loving sister online ❤

[@aleksandrasotirovic277]

Wise words, great video. Hm in my last relationship I was very true, I took accountability for my behavior in communication (sentence with I). But also unfortunately I know to be reactive and impulsive, which I thought it is well deserved when someone wants to play games. But the strategy is good wait 3 months before you start being completely vulnerable. Until now I just knew to be either honest or silent.

[@morganlowe3353]

Treating your body and mind as if they are children is brilliant. You are brilliant.

[@lillaperendy]

OMG I just wanted to say how AMAZING the key insights and mini action plan insert was!!!! This really sets your video apart from other coaches talking about the topic plus it is like a free coaching session with a home work!! Thank you so much!!! ♥️

[@VickitaTrivedi]

its gonna be in every video from now on! So many people loved it :)

[@arbishkhatoon]

Trust me girls with the right and divine masculine man you will naturally be in your femininity.

[@alishayoung88]

Wow! Came across this vid and new sub here! Love your structure and breakdowns. Amazing for learning and retaining all your great info!!❤

[@mia5834]

I love this video so much ❤ This video gives me so much stuff to think about and insightful Thank you so much for your helpful advice ❤

[@rebecabeltran565]

Loving how you describe the video in geographical way 👏🏼

[@VickitaTrivedi]

Glad you liked it!

[@Officialadrianatorres]

The advice with Bri 🖤✨ everything was super detailed one of my favorite parts of the video with the to do list music that you added 😂♥️

[@missmouth84]

I think this goes both ways. This is how to communicate effectively for both gender.

[@notmynaam5489]

So grateful for the subtitles , inclusive to the deaf community ❤

[@silindokuhlemahlangu997]

Gal, same!

[@SashaStories]

epic! thank you so much, i feel very inspired, its such a difficult subject to break down, and you really nail it down to the basics so well. definitely something i am interested in understanding more, as a straight to the point person, social navigation with significant others is difficult. just discovered your channel.

[@salmasoso2055]

Everything is great until i react about something and stop texting. He becomes someone else. He acts so angry, careless, and so blaming.

[@Userinterfaceexperience]

That’s a him problem and a red flag.

[@canesugar911]

The key word here is "act". 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@lizzevamonice97]

Time to say goodbye!

[@insa2242]

That’s called a red flag. Leave

[@GloriaZi]

@insa2242 yeah it's called red flag

[@Nare1313]

I’m not here to teach a man how to treat me if I see he’s not treating me the way I deserve and even after I verbalise it once. Then he’s done. Thank you next 😘

[@VickitaTrivedi]

I understand

[@sargamsharma22]

I 100% agree. That’s exactly what I was thinking too. I wasted so much time, energy, and mental health in trying to communicate openly and honestly with my ex. Only led to extreme burnout, bad stress-genie acne, and mild depression.

[@Peridot07]

Sorry to break it to you babe there’s no perfect man out there or woman. These are things that we all go thru however the extent or severity of it hugely depends on ur relationship

[@aembusiness]

@Nare1313 Every woman requires different things from their man. Because of this, you really do need to verbalize (with specifics) what you want/need from your man. And yes, in a sense teach them how you personally want to help treated. The thing is- it’s only worth communicating this with someone who in turn is open to hearing what you want/ need from them. Communicate needs to be had, no man (or woman) is psychic especially when it comes to what their new partner truly wants and needs from you at this particular time in their life. We are not in a movie, your thoughts aren’t in the script for him to go read about- it’s up to you to communicate them in a loving friendly way.

[@auroraxxfacekilla49]

​@aembusiness yes absolutely what you said! We do need to teach them about us and our wants and needs. We don't need to teach them how to be a man though.

[@RealMyraLynn]

Girl you are brilliant thank you so much for you and the content you share!

[@luizacanella9877]

omg i totally needed this video

[@MLazikRealEstate]

This video is gold. Thank you ❤

[@beeb5390]

I’m like this in my relationship but I can’t remember where I learned all this, perhaps all the self-help books or online reading but it was refreshing to see in a new perspective. Thanks for video ⭐️

[@sakshhtf]

Ohhh wowww!!! I mean how perfectly u put every detail ❤️❤️ so helpful

[@VickitaTrivedi]

im so glad!

[@OrangeMusk-zo3ju]

Such a comprehensive and clear video i love it

[@nadeen2560]

i never hit subscribe so fast!!! amazing advice gorgeous girl

[@shinya703]

Wow Vickita 🎉 This is an amazing video. Thank you for sharing these insights. 😊

[@VickitaTrivedi]

My pleasure 😊

[@missfabidia]

Love the breakdown with the little music 😊

[@Ashley212131]

Classic conditioning 👍🏼 using reinforcement to focus on what you like that he does. This video is actually great advice & goes hand in hand with emotional intelligence & as a Psychology major i agree with this video!!

[@nallelyplasencia1518]

Love your videos and how well organized everything is !

[@gantsetsegbatkhuu1869]

You are truly professional 🔥🔥🔥 I appreciate your work.

[@joannemonique9039]

Wow! Such great advice and. Tools. Thank you.

[@2822em]

SHES BACK ❤

[@changingwoman1494]

This was helpful. Thank you

[@katierosealexander8132]

Perfect timing thank you

[@AkachoOmulepu]

Okay, I LOVE THIS!!! I struggle with coming across as combative and I will def be incorporating your notes on I vs you. Imma do better for my man, he's so patient with me😂❤

[@naomihouse911]

This is great I really needed to learn these skills. Thanks!

[@joy_villa]

phenomenal, absolutely phenomenal advice!!!

[@VickitaTrivedi]

thank you!

[@annamayssa8614]

Amazing ! Girl you know what you’re talking about 👍🏼

[@VickitaTrivedi]

thank you!!

[@graceli4910]

Any tips on how to address this in long-term relationships? Sometimes it’s hard to keep trying to be in your feminine when you feel like the relationship pushes you into your masculine more often than not.

[@RoseaCreates]

Yes

[@africanprincessmaya]

You an only be feminine with a masculine provider..try shera seven or Anna bey

[@carolallison9685]

He might need to see someone about it. If you have the money, go find a good counselor who is well versed in both childhood trauma and relationship trauma. The fact is, most people in general are nice decent people who want to be nice to others. Trauma causes us to become untrusting, and this lack of trust in others causes us to stop trying (its not real so why try). So if there is a problem and he can't be the man he should be, there is a psychological problem. He needs help, and you could probably benefit from some education. I would suggest reading jung and gottman. They are literally the experts in understanding close relationships. Even if he refuses to be saved, and you have to eventually walk away, the things you learn will be very helpful for you in the future.

[@klomsonrd]

Thank you girl, this is so helpful 💗💗💘💘

[@christenawilliamz3252]

Watched for 30 seconds and I love it