How to Reinvent your Wardrobe & Style / After DeCluttering / Minimalist Wardrobe / Emily Wheatley

[@ivanajukicgloban6627]

I agree 100%...love yourself is a base!

[@blahblah1438]

OK so I found my style and it’s the way you dress LOL I want to borrow your clothes. Love your channel

[@EmilyWheatley]

Yay! Love that! Thank you Diane :-)

[@kimberlyperrotis8962]

As I got into my late 50s, I gradually realized that I no longer liked the California boho style that I had been wearing for 20 years. I was a bit lost 20 years ago when I was forced to prematurely end my beloved career because of an injury, and I was floundering for a new, less corporate style, and swung too far from that, into a very popular style that really wasn’t me. Then, two years ago, I lost more than two sizes, when I took up walking, and my clothes no longer fit. So, I took the opportunity, because I needed a whole new wardrobe, to revert to my earlier, much-loved classic style (but, of course, not nearly as formal as in my corporate days). The real me wears a simple dress, or skirt/trousers, blouse/shirt; sweater and a blazer or other jacket. I kept everything that was classic enough that I could still wear, mostly footwear and accessories, altered what I could, and will sell the rest (I’ve tried to donate, but I live in a really wealthy area, and the thrift stores are glutted and won’t take donations, and H&M recycling is shut down). I kept and altered everything that fit into my new-old style, but reducing garments by two or more sizes is very difficult, and not always possible. I am still wearing all those embroidered leggings and t-shirts as my house loungewear, rather than buying new, because I hate fashion waste). I did go into a lot of debt, but I feel like me again and look forward to leaving the house, when I can, in my classic outfits.

[@EmilyWheatley]

Love that Kimberly!! Thank you so much for sharing your style journey. I love what you've ended up with and hope you continue having fun with your wardrobe. :-)

[@jenmccann5446]

I totally relate. 57, at home doing art instead of corporate, hip injury, feel overwhelmed by old style( I’m an artist so my style is everything..right)....paired down to basics...now if feel even more creative with my clothes that are much simpler than that cluttery, heavy, confusing eclectic style.

[@martinacalcagno2126]

My problem is that I like and need clothes but I'm so scared to spend money because I don't have a lot of money to spend (but still enough to live), so I get a lot of anxiety because there aren't ethical stores nearby and buying online is risky, I would have 80 euro for a jumper that I really need for example, but not 80 euro to waste on something that doesn't fit me or isn't comfortable. When it comes to personal style, I think I have one, which is comfy, natural fibers, dark colors... but I try not to focus on it because most of the time I don't really care about what I'm wearing unless it is uncomfortable or inappropriate. Still, having good clothes does make a difference on how people are gonna perceive you, and I've been judged a lot for my old clothes - both in positive and negative ways, but mostly negative, like people being suspicious when I walk around my neighbourhood which has had a problem with thieves. I've been approached by people using harsh words, or observed like I was gonna do something bad, and it really broke my heart because I'm a really sweet and caring person, but maybe don't appear as such. - Sorry for the long comment, it doesn't make a lot of sense, but today I've been really sad and felt like sharing my perspective

[@EmilyWheatley]

I'm sorry to hear all that Martina!! If it's not something that is super important to you, then just focus on the clothes that make you happy. If that's comfy clothes, then wear those. Try not to let others make you feel bad about what you're wearing, they have no idea. But of you are wanting get more pieces with style, a lot of the secondhand online stores have return policies. Ebay you have to look at the individually sellers return policies, I've purchased from some that have 30 day return but double check because some have no return policy. Thredup.com has a 14 day return policy but a $1.99 restocking fee. No worries on a long comment, I'm glad you shared your perspective and hope this week is a better one for you. Thanks Martina!

[@edj7234]

Brilliant video - very timely - so so informative. Looking forward to the stylistic and functional focused videos you spoke about...

[@EmilyWheatley]

So glad it was informative. And yes stay tuned :-) Thanks EDJ

[@kathyesargent9088]

I thrifted to find my style, then you can invest in something that you really like. ❤️❤️❤️

[@EmilyWheatley]

Love it, yes great option!

[@valerier6824]

I just came across your channel this weekend and I've been binge watching your videos. Keep up the great work!

[@EmilyWheatley]

Yay, love hearing that! Welcome to the channel Valerie! Thanks so much for your comment!

[@laurendodson6779]

I have a very hard time finding clothes that look good on me. I have narrow shoulders but large bust, short waist and unfortunately need to drop a good twenty pounds. Menopause belly and such. Also I work in the salon industry and can dress edgier than the average gal which I like. I need help!

[@EmilyWheatley]

Sorry to hear that Lauren! I have videos on finding personal style that you might like kzbin.info/aero/PLw-zsvjzFwryASSIc23g3CtV2R9cVMrrJ Other wise maybe start focusing on black pieces, especially as you work in a salon. It is flattering, slimming, elongated. So start there.

[@laurendodson6779]

@@EmilyWheatley thank you for replying. I watched the find your style video and know what I like, but locating the clothes is the hard part. Shopping on line is hard since I prefer to try things on.

[@dianejones4276]

I share all of your body 'issues " . If you find any solutions, would you please pass them on to me? I have been struggling with my style for years. I need all the help I can get!

[@lena1122]

Great tips Emily!! Thank you for this video! I’m kind of wanting to do some changes in my style and this is super helpful. You look great with your hair and makeup style and that nail polish is so pretty on you!!

[@EmilyWheatley]

Glad the video is helpful Lena! And thanks so much for the lovely compliment!

[@ShatteredRippleBooks]

My biggest problem is that I'm mostly at home. So I'm always in joggers or pj bottoms in the autumn/winter. I wear dresses and skirts in summer at home so that's not so bad. But in winter I feel so frumpy and I feel that needs to change. But I have a cat also so that means cat fur and I particularly like black. I'm beginning to consider choosing a couple of pairs of leggings from what I have and wearing those instead. Then it won't matter if they get furry as they are not my going out leggings. If I'm not war m enough in those I can always wear a skirt over the top of them. Then I won't feel so drab. Thanks for the inspiration 😁.

[@EmilyWheatley]

Yea, I'm at home a mostly too. It is hard to resist the pajama wear. One of the things that saves me is that I love jeans. So I always wear those and it makes me feel much better. If leggings will do that for you than that is perfect.

[@andreacoyte7856]

I've done the decluttering but find it hard to get rid of the clothes. I've put them in storage until I'm absolutely sure. It's good to have a more orderly wardrobe now without too much of the same thing.

[@EmilyWheatley]

Yes definitely!

[@ItsJustFashion]

I love this! Sometimes we declutter so much that we feel lost when it comes to identifying our style afterwards. It is important to declutter intentionally, but also to shop intentionally so that we can declutter less in the future!

[@EmilyWheatley]

Yes, totally agree. We should be intentional every step of the way. Thank you for your comment!!

[@jiji_arra]

I adore your personality. So light and authentic.

[@margotpoll9405]

Hi Emily, I am enjoying your channel but please tell us what you are wearing before starting, thank you Regards M

[@judithroers9655]

Thanks for another great and informative video. Great ideas to keep in mind when shopping around anchor pieces.

[@EmilyWheatley]

Thank you for the lovely comment :-)

[@sharonstanley259]

You are on fire with these super helpful tips and thoughts! So many things to consider now with the new year. Thanks so much!

[@EmilyWheatley]

Thank you Sharon! :-)

[@darlamanship4171]

In regards to the question “How to know if you love something or the idea?” another KZbinr had the idea to rate your outfits. At the end of the day, rate your outfit from 1-10 for both comfort and style and see how you feel after that.

[@ainsliefreeman5461]

Wonderful clear information in order to build a new wardrobe and to feel confident enough to do this. Thankyou so much Emily.

[@BlackAndWhiteInteriors]

Really useful and informative but can you clarify if anchor pieces are just tops or could it be bottoms as well? Thanks 👍

[@EmilyWheatley]

Yes, anchor tops can be bottoms, tops, sweaters, etc. It's the pieces that speak to your style aesthetic the most that you want to revolve your whole wardrobe around. I'm going to do a video very soon that breaks this all down much more specifically.

[@jackiebaker1678]

The background Music is very annoying imho!

[@kimberlyperrotis8962]

Just one thought, I don’t think starting with black leggings or skinnies is out of most women’s comfort zone, we have been wearing those for years. I’d suggest a pair of looser, straight-leg jeans or trousers in dark indigo or black.

[@EmilyWheatley]

Yes, anything that is out of the comfort zone to get you comfortable with more is a good choice.

[@jackiehamilton2738]

They are definitely OUT of my comfort zone and to date, I have never worn either leggings or skinny jeans. Since comfort is literally the issue here, I never will. I have already been wearing loose fit dark jeans and proper trousers for years.

[@amandalh60]

Thank you so much. Basic but never heard this before.

[@EmilyWheatley]

Yes, pretty straight forward. Thanks Ella!

[@sheilakosoff5806]

I love the idea of jeans. But will always grab a dress with a blazer and black combat boots. I keep buying jeans but never reach for them. If I do wear them,I am uncomfortable the whole time. I think that if I could live in a climate where I could just wear midi dresses and blazers I would be happy. I am still buying jeans and hoping for a spark. I like mid denim skits, but will still grab a dress if I want to feel comfortable. What can I do? I need to stop buying jeans which I don’t wear.🥺

[@EmilyWheatley]

Yes girl, stop buying jeans. I was the opposite to you a few years ago, kept buying dresses but never wore them, only wore jeans. So finally I stopped. Just wear dresses all day everyday if that is what you love and feel best in. Is it pretty cold where you are in winter? Have you tried leggings or thigh high boots or over the knee boots?

[@sheilakosoff5806]

@@EmilyWheatley thanks for your response and yes I do. I have an amazing doc martens boot collection that I always wear with my dresses. I am going to lean in. I will keep you posted. But why do we fight who we are? I really love that jean, T-shirt, and blazer look!

[@EmilyWheatley]

@@sheilakosoff5806 I don't know why, I think because we're always influenced by society and feel like we should like certain things. Yes, keep me posted. Yes Dr. martens are such a perfect pairing with dresses. I feel like that is a look I could do if I went back to dresses.

[@girllittlemorbid]

Even after I stopped buying jeans I held on to the ones I had for YEARS after I stopped wearing any. Idk why either.

[@cavewitch]

Perfect timing. Thank you!

[@EmilyWheatley]

So glad Paulette!

[@ayeshanasir3640]

Great tips, my struggle is that my personal style does not fit the work I do or my lifestyle..so I have style personalities as you mention but work one is a bit foreign to me as looks stylish but doesn’t really feel me..this clash has lead to a long struggle of what category to buy and how to prioritize..I have build two streams of wardrobes as a result ...any tips on how to balance this would be appreciated..

[@EmilyWheatley]

What is your style for work and for lifestyle?

[@ayeshanasir3640]

@@EmilyWheatley Work is dressy ,semi formal or business casual , lifestyle I have kids to run after etc .. and personal style I really enjoy being edgy .. I have to watch more of ur videos to be able to blend these ..❤️

[@melinam7216]

This was really helpful.. I’m in the process of purging and trying to cultivate a wardrobe that I love. I’m in the new mom phase of “I have no clothes” and all I wear is black leggings and a tank 😩

[@EmilyWheatley]

I'm so glad it was helpful! And soooo remember that phase. Let me know if there is anything I can speak to specifically to help. Thank you Melina!

[@melinam7216]

@@EmilyWheatley So Mott & Bow tees or Everlane or other ?

[@jilliansmith4509]

I always go a T-shirt and jeans, very basic outfit always the same, now I'm gonna check my wardrobe if there's anything else besides t-shirt and jeans lol

[@EmilyWheatley]

Yes, Jeans and T-shirt club! Have fun looking further into your wardrobe, always a good time. Thanks Jillian!!

[@jilliansmith4509]

@@EmilyWheatley omg , thank your for replying, I'm a fan!

[@HakazeAyase]

I agree it makes sense to plan a wardrobe/outfits. You tend to see what’s missing or superfluous from your style. No self-imposed deadline gives you the leeway to decide on an item, say shoes, and dedicatedly search for a good bargain. Plus, by investing time aiming for ‘perfection’ (of which your perspective changes anyway!) you have created an emotional attachment to your eventual purchases. My fashion timeline reads something like dresses -> jeans -> khaki -> lost & found (now!). On a side note I’ve decluttered one item. Couple of maybes. Issue is typically the silhouette but I figure colours I can always dye different...

[@EmilyWheatley]

Yes, all great points. Good luck on your de cluttering process and the continued journey with Fashion Hakaze!

[@badsoldier1942]

Oh Emily, thank you so much for your help, I just start to follow you, and you are the best!

[@EmilyWheatley]

Yay!! Thank you so much!!

[@goddessmel8518]

'Wear what you love not what you think you should wear' is my new mantra for dressing. Thanks for more great and sensible tips.

[@margaretlewis2289]

Great video. I’m struggling to establish my style. I wear scrubs for work so no need for a bunch of work clothes. I am definitely casual,classic with some feminine thrown in . I love the idea of blazers, can those be casual? Anyway ill keep working on it.

[@elzasmit1879]

Excellent!!! Now I can start.💕🥰

[@EmilyWheatley]

Yay! Have fun!

[@dakotapeters5654]

I'm lost as to what a fashion statement is... can anyone explain?

[@dakotapeters5654]

also I've never owned anymore clothes than what fits in 2 maybe 3 drawers

[@dakotapeters5654]

I don't know why I mentioned this.. maybe it's a curiosity of is that normal?

[@OdrySoutherland]

Love the intro 🥰

[@EmilyWheatley]

Thank you Odry!!

[@tinajoneswilliams4253]

I enjoyed the video and learn a lot. Thanks!

[@EmilyWheatley]

That's great, so glad to hear Tina. Thank you!

[@kathyesargent9088]

First ❤️❤️❤️❤️👄

[@EmilyWheatley]

:-)

[@KendraLock]

Too much talking. More outfits please. Thank you.

[@barbarahaynes7036]

Love your sessions but very distracting background music

[@karlamaria9219]

Why I found you only now? I have been binge-watching your videos for few days. You are amazing

[@EmilyWheatley]

Thank you so much Karia! Such lovely things to say :-)