How to Reject a Man You're Not Attracted to without Crushing Him | Relationship Advice by Mat Boggs

[@matboggs]

Join the *Manifest Your Man* program and get *coached by Mat Boggs TODAY* : www.bravethinkinginstitute.com/love-relationships/resources/mym/offer/strategy-session

[@mauimedows]

Excellent advice . I had a guy tell me “you’re attracted to me but you just don’t realize it 😂. Some people don’t quit . So the no chemistry argument it’s really good because you can’t change chemistry. And being loving in the rejection is a great point

[@moonchildmanifest]

You’re not rejected, you’re protected 🏆

[@embraceyourgraceee]

Amen!

[@loreleicarterrealestateage5783]

I say I think there are people out there who are a better match for both of us. Thanks Matt!

[@iamgoddessoflove]

If you often have a hard time saying “no” to people who you care about or you find yourself saying “yes” to people just to make them happy, it won’t help you to know where to draw the line so that you won’t get walked all over by others. 💙KZbinr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships

[@m00nwalker32]

That’s me I’ve always been that way

[@CoffeewithCarey]

I always coach people to follow the golden rule. I would want someone to just be honest with me. Ghosting not required. The phrase I recommend most often is, “It was great/ wonderful/lovely to meet you, I don’t think this is going to be the romantic connection we were hoping for, but I wish you…“ This could be ‘a great summer’ or ‘a happy holiday season’ or whatever would be pertinent and reasonable based on when this lack of a future is being shared with the other person. Honesty is powerful, And when shared with kindness and respect… the best policy!

[@Priestagege]

Just when I was about to loose my lover to another man, this great MAN came through to help with his spells and I'm forever grateful #dragege

[@alysarushtonenergy135]

Omgeeee! I love this!!!! Using it!!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@_xBrokenxDreamsx_]

the golden rule is stupid - i don't want people doing to me what they want done to them.. i've seen the internet.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@_xBrokenxDreamsx_ Hahhaha. The golden rule is fantastic. It’s people that are stupid.

[@ellebee9864]

Tried this, his response was "I love you"--only knew me 2 weeks, never even kissed. I ghosted him b/c that scared me.

[@gwortman3515]

Two words...Be Honest Let him know what you want or don't want..period.

[@dashiajames1882]

That's kinda like listening Pro & Cons...?? Leading guy on is dumb.

[@libbywenzel6391]

I just DID THIS yesterday (Friday ) !!! After 4 months of dating and calls and long talks (no sex), it dawned on me, that while this guy was very compatible & we enjoyed each others company, he was definitely prioritizing ME, there was no "WOW" ..... so I used the "no chemistry" that I learned in Manifest your Man from Mat. We are on good terms, and he has invited me to call him, if I change my mind.....BUT, as I suspected, he still tried to turn the no chemistry into 1) me lacking experience with strong men (incorrect), 2) me not having sexually experienced a virile man such as himself (LOL wrong again) 3) differences in raising, I am from the South & he is West coast (wrong) and FINALLY he says "I am not used to women not being into me !! Through all of these objections, I just kept saying, "it's simply a matter of chemistry" and he finally acknowledged.

[@blueyzblue6391]

Congratulations,...I think you dodged a real bullet there. He sounds like a jerk.

[@DouglasNollPeacemaker]

Hey Libby, Appreciate you! since you really enjoyed this video I want to share something with you, Learn how to give your date the one thing desired most here👉🏻 kzbin.info/www/bejne/r2qkmmiBprKamsk

[@HannahSquats]

I had a guy use all these same lines on me!!!

[@Patricias22]

The best is yet to come.🙏🏼🙌🏼

[@AritheCreator_]

Wish I saw this video YEARS ago it would have prevented me breaking a lot of hearts. Not that I intentionally meant to break them but I just didn’t know the right way to go about it

[@MsGlamourcat]

Hi Mat, could you please make sure you report and block the scammers that post in the comments? They make it really annoying going through the comments actually trying to interact with other commenters... 🙄

[@julieberg5951]

Hi Matt, I always found your advice to be good, I was on a dating site recently and I received a message from a guy I was not attracted to and I said that I appreciate his interest in me but I don’t see this going anywhere ( see we wanted different things too) I wished him well on his journey and hope he find the women of his dream. And his response he thanked me for let him know and wish me well too I always afraid of hurting people so I do it this way I am always being rejected by guys that I am attracted to, and seem to attract men that I not attracted too bit frustrating but that is another story

[@clanaer]

Julie, that has always happened to me too! It is frustrating.

[@xbubbles10x]

Julie me too!!! And in the same token the ones I’m not attracted to go above and beyond but the ones I am put in minimal effort. Matt please make it make sense lol 😂

[@dianneciresi6324]

@@xbubbles10x I watch Dr. John Gray's videos & he says to go with those guys who invest or like u more that ur not attracted to at 1st, not to the ones u find attractive to u cause he says they won't appreciate & invest in u as much. He says the attraction will grow over time from the ones ur not attracted to at 1st. I say "how does that work"? How do u get turned on by someone where no attraction & chemistry exist at 1st? Don't we need that to have in a potential partner? I do..Go figure...

[@xbubbles10x]

@@dianneciresi6324 thanks! I haven’t heard of John gray but I’m certainly gonna check him out

[@jenniferlynch3726]

@@dianneciresi6324 😁

[@hummingbirdchen]

I just came out of a horrible 15 month relationship and this is SO relevant. Even though the guy was pretty unkind to me for the final 6 months, I see now my part in it: I *knew* right from the start that we weren't a good match, but he was so keen and so certain that we were a perfect match, that I just went along with it -- because it "wasn't so bad." Over time he couldn't help but sense my feelings, and it made him bitter and resentful. And then, of course, it *was* "so bad." He chose to react the way he did, his behaviour is on him and it was pretty bad. I'm not taking responsibility for his actions. But the lesson I've learned is to cut your losses early if there's no chemistry or if your gut is saying "this isn't the one."

[@codehorror6743]

so sorry you went through that, but I just learned something from your perspective. Thank you and hope you find someone better

[@Olga8888]

To leave a man for a right woman for him is a great approach. To look for chemistry on early stages of dating might be a recipe for disaster. To talk about the lack of chemistry might evoke the trauma of rejection/abandonment, like I'm not lovable. I would say that you are a good man, just we are different. You need to find a right woman for you, and I'm not that woman.

[@jeannetondryk4395]

Right on, Mat! I may go on 2 dates but when he asks/calls for the 3rd, I tell him, "I don't have the passion for you that I am looking for. Let's continue to be friends." I usually find something that would make a partner a better fit like, likes cycling more than I do, likes to hike, can play golf, etc.

[@Priestagege]

Just when I was about to loose my lover to another man, this great MAN came through to help with his spells and I'm forever grateful #dragege

[@honestmom1958]

I say pretty much what you suggested and I add that I'm going to step aside so the perfect woman for him will find him. And that's sincere.

[@mscroc104]

This is so true! Its takes two to tango, so to speak. I also belive its either mutual attraction, or it isnt any attraction. Only one person being interested (often the guy) is just not aware of what he actually wants and what he actually feels. I have met many of those guys myself. They belive they met the women of their life (me) but they havnt because I dont feel the same for them. The attraction is always mutual, or the attraction doesnt exist.

[@camuyana]

I removed myself from social media because there are guys who have been interested in me and no matter how gently I've told them that I am not they insist. So I am letting time go by so they can move on. I am very interested in one who is on that particular platform (however I'm not putting my life on hold for him) but cannot move forward because I am not yet divorced but more so because I think he is still not available. I don't know if we would be compatible but I would like to see if we were. Never break the heart of a person who is interested in you because you're not interested. Always treat people with love, dignity and compassion. It is always an honor to have somebody be interested in you and love you.

[@colettewagner1084]

Thanks for helping understand the best way to release the person I have no chemistry with…

[@wggio]

Usually those I’m not interested in/attracted to are into me and vice versa. Guess I’m too picky or sth. Would be a miracle to find a guy I’m attracted to and who’s just as attracted to me and wants to commit to me.

[@kayhillman8628]

Great analogy with all the apples on the apple tree❣️

[@lynnmazzeo7914]

THANK YOU - this advice is precious and absolutely is difficult for people to identify this being the missing ingredient, let alone addressing it. I am so glad you shared this. God Bless you Mat Boggs.

I recently let a guy down after I paid close attention to his chats, he said he'll never have kids, he doesn't want to, and I do want to have kids, so I told him 'you're a great guy but you don't want to be a dad and I still have hopes of being a mom, so I guess this just won't work'

[@Onceinalifetimelady]

I still think it sucks to possibly hurt someone. I HATE it, but I also know that if the chemistry is not there, then there is absolutely NOTHING I can do. I want him to find the love of his life! The woman who will love him hard. I really do care.

[@aubreys1675]

why not market this toward men and have them learn how to receive rejection rather than putting the responsibility for their feelings on women

[@brookewilson9379]

As a woman, I googled this topic, and I don’t feel like this video was anti-feminist. I seem to give off the vibe that I’m interested when I’m not, then I feel awkward about giving rejection when deep down I know it needs to happen. I found this video helpful. I would also appreciate a separate video for guys on how to handle rejection, but I’m still glad this one exists

[@KerriRusnak]

Why not find a video that pleases what you want to believe and see? 🙄

[@linapinkvrs5451]

What I said was this" I can't love you the way you deserve to be loved, you deserve someone you'll be in love with and them in love with you, which unfortunately is something I can not offer you. it would be a lie to stay in a relationship with you and do no good for either of us, I would eventually grow resentful, you deserve better then what I can offer you."

[@castrojohn1016]

Aʀᴇ ʏᴏᴜ ʜᴀᴠɪɴɢ ᴛʀᴏᴜʙʟᴇs ɪɴ ʏᴏᴜʀ ʀᴇʟᴀᴛɪᴏɴsʜɪᴘ ᴏʀ ᴍᴀʀʀɪᴀɢᴇ ᴏʀ ᴘᴀʀᴛɴᴇʀ ᴊᴜsᴛ ʙʀᴏᴋᴇ ᴜᴘ ᴡɪᴛʜ ʏᴏᴜ! ʜᴇʀᴇ ɪs ᴛʜᴇ sᴏʟᴜᴛɪᴏɴ ғᴏʀ ʏᴏᴜ. 💫💫👇

[@castrojohn1016]

_*Send him a message to ask for help._≧💫💫

[@castrojohn1016]

Add + In front of numbers to numbers before adding👆👆👆丽的

[@castrojohn1016]

@✛2349052399677❤≧﹏≦适合香港，香港...

[@kawaljeetkaur1136]

Thank u so much.. Really very well explained.

[@esterherschkovich6499]

Am going through this...and of course not wanting to hurt him...

[@Whey2lovely]

Woooooow I'm so going to use this... Thank you 🎉🎉🎉

[@shiku2121]

Following you from Kenya 🇰🇪. Good advices

[@Patricias22]

I do appreciate you Matt for all you have taught us! For that man, I wish him well and happiness!

[@Immpatient]

Also i need a video on how to crush a man in 60 seconds. They don’t care what damage they leave behind, so why should I be handling them with extra care 😊

[@MsGlamourcat]

@Gbose Mautin go away with your spam you idiot! This person was not seeking advice for getting back with anyone ---- you piece of garbage scammer! 😡

[@MsGlamourcat]

@Sion I agree with you! Men don't care what damage they do, so don't even think about rejecting them without crushing them! CRUSH THE HELL OUT OF THEM! 😂

[@gandalf9460]

I'd love to know why people are attracted to me. I'm not doing anything to make them attracted to me, I'd actually prefer it to live alone only with some cats to love. I don't want any relationships, I feel like I need more time to be able to have one with someone.

[@havingfunisnthard]

This is how I feel! Cats, hobbies, and friends. Unfortunately I’m no longer entertaining platonic relationships with men because they inevitably approach you with ‘the talk’ 😖 It’s so awkward.

[@gandalf9460]

@@havingfunisnthard Exactly! I agree so much with you. And omg, you also have a Moominvalley profile picture!!

[@havingfunisnthard]

@@gandalf9460 I just realized you do too 👀🤣 hi twin!!

[@dashiajames1882]

Rejection is a alert, it's kinda telling you this person not right for you. Or he deserves, someone he actually has connects with. So it's kinda like a lesson. Leading a person on is crazy. You're making it seem, as if you wanna be with that person. And you're playing with his feelings. It's kinda sad. My best words are: " I just don't feel any chemistry between us, but I hope all goes great for you in life. " or " We don't seem to connect with each other but we can still be friends if you want to " so about the same as you said..!!

[@giulias.5104]

I don't like the expression we here, best if one talks about his/her own emotions/thoughts and leave the other person free to have his/her own experience of the relationship.

[@Patricias22]

I appreciate you and the effort you have put forth. I am cheering for you to find someone amazing.

[@donnaflood5397]

I am widowed now for 7 months after 32 yr marriage so this is all new to me. Dont even know where to begin

[@cristina-irinatudor5922]

Tha k you ...I needed this!

[@FreePalestine123-b1x]

Appreciate your honesty Mat and what a lovely message.

[@TheJoaneD]

Your video is really helpful but I must say the background music is distracting to me at least. I must prefer without it, so I can concentrate on the message. Thank you.

[@aniab4306]

Great helpful video! Thanks♡

[@sarahelizabethbassett4013]

What words do I find are best when letting a man know I do not find chemistry with him. It is not the words. It is both body language and eye contact. Honesty begins with how we present ourselves to others. A genuine love in my heart conveys acceptance of the other person. Followed by sincere language. Jesus used this approach constantly. He is a master of loving and encouraging others. Come from a place of acceptance and love. Let people know where you stand immediately as you deal with them.

[@nemrak4385]

I had a guy tell me that we just don’t click and we don’t have chemistry 🧪! Which was very true! Of course it hurt getting rejected but I felt it too! I knew it and I was deep down so relieved! It was the right decision for both of us! It actually strengthen my inner voice and self-confidence because I knew he wasn’t my type and I also felt that we had no chemistry but I was in a way forcing it on my own self because I felt desperate I was in my late 20’s, family pressure and he was a family set up so I felt pressured to give him a chance🤨! Now I know better, no more family or friend set ups period! Yeah, it’s important to always listen to your heart ❤️!

[@castrojohn1016]

Aʀᴇ ʏᴏᴜ ʜᴀᴠɪɴɢ ᴛʀᴏᴜʙʟᴇs ɪɴ ʏᴏᴜʀ ʀᴇʟᴀᴛɪᴏɴsʜɪᴘ ᴏʀ ᴍᴀʀʀɪᴀɢᴇ ᴏʀ ᴘᴀʀᴛɴᴇʀ ᴊᴜsᴛ ʙʀᴏᴋᴇ ᴜᴘ ᴡɪᴛʜ ʏᴏᴜ! ʜᴇʀᴇ ɪs ᴛʜᴇ sᴏʟᴜᴛɪᴏɴ ғᴏʀ ʏᴏᴜ. 💫💫👇

[@castrojohn1016]

_*Send him a message to ask for help._≧💫💫

[@castrojohn1016]

@✛2349052399677❤≧﹏≦适合香港，香港

[@castrojohn1016]

Add + In front of numbers to numbers before adding👆👆👆丽的

[@MsGlamourcat]

@@thepowerofemotionalcompete4032 I've reported all of you scammers and pests on this video! You're all waste of space predators. Find a new hobby!

[@tianiemitchell5692]

I don't think that was egotistical of you to think about what if you reject her. Granted, we do have those thoughts on how we're going to react, it's actually assuming to make the assumption that other people are going to reject us because if we want to make that assumption we should make the assumption that they won't reject us, a person needs to be open to the fact that it's going to be whatever it is. Just let it happen, enjoy yourself and their company and see where it goes.

[@jillg7321]

Mat, this couldn’t have come at a better time! Note that I usually just state early ‘We are not a good match and I wish you luck in your search’. This is very fitting and works for me if done immediately or shortly after meet 1. But today I’m confused as I just had date 2 with this fellow I met online. Although there are a ton of things that we have in common and there are some fun and great conversation so far…I just don’t know when the right time is to tell him that I’m not attracted and don’t feel the chemistry that I need to carry on a romantic relationship? I’m trying very hard here to make sure and not judge too soon as I don’t want to miss out on a great opportunity with a great guy. So my question might be how long do you wait before telling somebody that you are not attracted to them and you don’t feel the chemistry needed for a long term relationship? Other videos you have posted state that we should give it some time and not jump to conclusions and it can take some time for attraction to grow. I am looking for my forever person and because I’ve been looking for this for a couple years I tend to hold on longer lately than I think I should to see if something pops up that I missed and this truly is the man for me 🤷‍♀️. As always….good solid advice Mat for this scenario. I always want to be polite and I’ve truly never thought about how I could be doing us both a great favour. ❤️ love this

[@DouglasNollPeacemaker]

Hey Jill, Appreciate you! since you really enjoyed this video I want to share something with you, Learn how to give your date the one thing desired most here👉🏻 kzbin.info/www/bejne/r2qkmmiBprKamsk

[@Priestagege]

Just when I was about to loose my lover to another man, this great MAN came through to help with his spells and I'm forever grateful #dragege

[@Thisisparmida]

Well I always say stuff like : I’m super busy at this point of my life and I don’t think it’s fair to you …. And afterwards I hear they kinda got offended and they Waited for me to not be busy 😑 it’s always hard for me to point out lack to attraction

[@janvardeman6345]

oooh.. I've done this and don't want to do that again!

[@RebekkaHay]

Do you make videos for men too, how to accept rejection without busting into flames and vanishing into a black hole?

[@st9153]

What about this guy? 17 (!) years ago we had a couple of dates. I thought I had feelings for him and told him that, he recipricated. Then we kissed once - and in this moment I knew he wasn't for me, no chemistry. I told him my feelings for him weren't strong enough. He wanted to stay friends, so he drunk called me angry a couple of times and we exchanged emails, that's it. I over and over rejected him, then the emails and texts were only on birthdays, that's it. He never forgot mine. Then it faded out, I didn't reply anymore and I thought he finally got the message and moved on. Last year he emailed me saying this can't be it and that he is still wondering what could have been. I ignored his message, as I didn't know what else to say anymore. Nothing could have been! He never had a girlfriend in his life and is now in his forties ... I know he is super shy and has no confidence ... but for years I hoped he would finally find someone who's right for him. And let me go.

[@mgascogne3705]

@S T, I have one of those too, not exactly the same situation. I refuse to allow someone to manipulate me into feeling guilty because they do not want to take responsibility for their own life. Happiness is an inside job. You are not now nor have you ever been responsible for his happiness. I have not blocked the person form contacting me but I did make it clear that our lives worked out as they should have. I told him that I had a beautiful marriage to a wonderful man and I can’t imagine that anyone would have been a better fit for me. I was sorry he had not found the same thing in his life but hopefully he would. I have decided that if he attempts the same thing again, I will have to block him from contacting me. All the best to you.

[@K.C699]

It feels absolutely horrendous to turn down a guy .. who you care so much about...I haven't slept the whole night trying to put myself in his shoe...I am still terrified of doing it.

[@flower_7890]

Great video

[@pyro_the_guinea_pig]

Chemistry and compatibility isn't our problem. He just has issues with us being distant relatives, so when we are physically near each other there's magic, but when we are apart, OUR COMMUNICATION IS AWFUL!!! I don't even dream about the guy in any other way than in a boring setting. I didn't want to reject him because he was very caring and I wanted to honor that, but now that I had a long rest, I don't feel like having him in my life. That's today, I'm sure than when anxiety comes back in general, I'm going to want to be in contact with him. Then, it was all like a drug, even the very story-like dreamy special moments. That love made me ignore a bunch of things that I would not stand if I had pre-mediated the situation. I haven't seen him in two months. The last time he wrote to me was a week ago and he was a bit funny, but sarcastically not loving or romantic. He can be jerk. My relationship is like 90 percent attraction and compatibility, but only 10 percent intimacy and communication. Plus, by not dating other men, the ghostly lover issue was hurting the relationship.

[@weilikang5610]

What if I have chemistry feelings with him but I don't feel an emotional connection with him? Meaning I like him and feel the chemistry there, , but in the past dating experiences with him I realized he isn't mature enough? What should I say to reject him?

[@adriannebacci8643]

That still hurts their feelings. The only thing they accept is if you have another boyfriend

[@DouglasNollPeacemaker]

Some tips for you: Learn how to give your date the one thing desired most here👉🏻 kzbin.info/www/bejne/r2qkmmiBprKamsk

[@MsGlamourcat]

Honestly, that is the only thing that gets rid of them... usually! It still doesn't stop all of them though.

[@dawnrogers1707]

I love this. This is so timely. Making a long story short, I've never had a problem making myself clear when I'm not interested. I've had to master it. But now I've met my challenge. I got a Preacher Man trying to holla at me. OMG. It's so cute. He is so different from anyone I've dated, ever. I love it, but it will never work. And I find myself falling into the trap you just mentioned, feeling more able to take the hurt, than him. I sure don't want the Lord angry with me. But we have little more than the love of the Lord in common. I do feel stuck. He is trying really hard. I need to run. Now all of a sudden, he is looking at buying the church half a mile from my house. OMG. I'm in trouble. Matt, what you got?

[@jenniferwallace7213]

Hi Matt, I've had guys ask me for specifics. They want to know exactly what it is. This makes me worry that I'm going to hurt their feelings but they insist they would rather know. How should I handle this?

[@castrojohn1016]

Aʀᴇ ʏᴏᴜ ʜᴀᴠɪɴɢ ᴛʀᴏᴜʙʟᴇs ɪɴ ʏᴏᴜʀ ʀᴇʟᴀᴛɪᴏɴsʜɪᴘ ᴏʀ ᴍᴀʀʀɪᴀɢᴇ ᴏʀ ᴘᴀʀᴛɴᴇʀ ᴊᴜsᴛ ʙʀᴏᴋᴇ ᴜᴘ ᴡɪᴛʜ ʏᴏᴜ! ʜᴇʀᴇ ɪs ᴛʜᴇ sᴏʟᴜᴛɪᴏɴ ғᴏʀ ʏᴏᴜ. 💫💫👇

[@castrojohn1016]

_*Send him a message to ask for help._≧💫💫

[@castrojohn1016]

@✛2349052399677❤≧﹏≦适合香港，香港

[@cynthiahoz3948]

Best to never even agree to meet in person😆

[@petrovalorita8599]

I told everything, but he is still waiting for chance and told me that he will stay, but I don’t feel anything for him. What can I do? I started to find anything annoying, I don’t know what to do without hurting him.

[@kimberlyclearwater6474]

The 7 min mark is the business.

[@maryfoster9636]

Med how do you tell somebody that they need to put a relationship on hold without hurting somebody because they have too much baggage

[@cosmicwolffe9757]

what goes around, comes around positive karma, baby ☯🐞

[@cosmicwolffe9757]

@@thepowerofemotionalcompete4032 tempting, but no thanks

[@NN-rn1oz]

Women know that rejection is the only time they can crush a man, so many of them take advantage of the situation to do just that. Call it feminist retaliation.

[@maepascual6918]

Thank you matt boggs ❤️

[@melindadavis920]

Could you give advice for women who are married?????

[@castrojohn1016]

Aʀᴇ ʏᴏᴜ ʜᴀᴠɪɴɢ ᴛʀᴏᴜʙʟᴇs ɪɴ ʏᴏᴜʀ ʀᴇʟᴀᴛɪᴏɴsʜɪᴘ ᴏʀ ᴍᴀʀʀɪᴀɢᴇ ᴏʀ ᴘᴀʀᴛɴᴇʀ ᴊᴜsᴛ ʙʀᴏᴋᴇ ᴜᴘ ᴡɪᴛʜ ʏᴏᴜ! ʜᴇʀᴇ ɪs ᴛʜᴇ sᴏʟᴜᴛɪᴏɴ ғᴏʀ ʏᴏᴜ. 💫💫👇

[@castrojohn1016]

_*Send him a message on whatapp:-):-) to ask for help._≧💫💫

[@castrojohn1016]

@✛2349052399677❤≧﹏≦适合香港，香港

[@stefanieingersoll]

Okay, i hear this and i appreciate it, but what about when you say this and they say i just want to be friends... :?

[@aishatine1]

Why can't we be attracted to men who are attracted to us or why can we be attracted to men who are not attracted to us?

[@rubi6643]

Example nr one is what I’m doing.

[@geetadubey1762]

hi nice video

[@kevinmorris4517]

5:15 So aftter you break-up can you ask, "was that a good for you as it was for me." 😂 Just kidding, had to find some humor here.

[@soniasmelodiousland]

Like always love ur videos

[@castrojohn1016]

Aʀᴇ ʏᴏᴜ ʜᴀᴠɪɴɢ ᴛʀᴏᴜʙʟᴇs ɪɴ ʏᴏᴜʀ ʀᴇʟᴀᴛɪᴏɴsʜɪᴘ ᴏʀ ᴍᴀʀʀɪᴀɢᴇ ᴏʀ ᴘᴀʀᴛɴᴇʀ ᴊᴜsᴛ ʙʀᴏᴋᴇ ᴜᴘ ᴡɪᴛʜ ʏᴏᴜ! ʜᴇʀᴇ ɪs ᴛʜᴇ sᴏʟᴜᴛɪᴏɴ ғᴏʀ ʏᴏᴜ. 💫💫👇

[@castrojohn1016]

_*Send him a message to ask for help._≧💫💫

[@castrojohn1016]

@✛2349052399677❤≧﹏≦适合香港，香港

[@castrojohn1016]

@✛2349052399677❤≧﹏≦适合香港，香港

[@castrojohn1016]

Add + In front of numbers to numbers before adding👆👆👆丽的

[@farilevan884]

Some men can't handle rejection I think if u get rejected then u can find the person for you I have never had a problem with dating B4

[@paulinanakabugo1271]

Amen 🙏 recieved with thanks 🙏 matt

[@Tech_Virtuoso]

My question is, how do you gently reject a guy that you *are* attracted to but you know for many reasons he has proved that romantically, we both have different goals. He is a handsome Adonis who is absolutely amazing! But he isn’t the “committed” type. I suspect that he “collects” women for his own pleasure. That “notch in the belt” or “feather in the hat” perspective is what I suspect of him. I could take a “roll in the hay” with him but that’s not how I approach a relationship. I truly love the idea of a loving and committed relationship and if he cannot give more than a “roll in the hay,” as attracted as I am to him, I just can’t bring myself to sleep with him just because he’s so amazing and gorgeous! Ruminate on that!

[@Tech_Virtuoso]

@Plangkat Danjuma -That’s amazing!

[@zaneego]

Tell him you don't share similar values. Which you believe is a basic foundation for a good and lasting relationship. If he really is someone who collects women, he won't bat an eye. His pride might get hurt and feel challenge to win you over but in the end, you're just game to win. You don't seem to be the type to want that. So don't worry about trying to soften the blow for him coz he couldn't care less for real

[@Tech_Virtuoso]

@Zandra Go--Thank you so much! Makes lots of sense! 🌹

[@molotochi]

Does people actually have the luxury to reject other people?

[@ellebee9864]

What if you have chemistry but his life is a mess that you want no parts of?

[@maryosman3348]

l started talking to this guy and every time he texts me or call me or l think about him I feel like a pain in my chest and I don't know what that means is it warning sign ? and I feel like it doesn't feel right and most important when he mentions about meeting or going on a date the pain gets worse and that doesn't feel right at all and I have been thinking should I reject him or give him a chance

[@mgascogne3705]

Go with your instincts Mary. Always go with your instinct. If you feel pain just thinking about it, it’s probably something you shouldn’t do.

[@Nimue333]

I already know I am not into him in that way and he keeps on asking me out. The thing is I kind of like him but just as a friend. Should I go out with him? I wish I wasn't such a people's pleaser 😭😭😭

[@hp2546]

If you don't want to date him, you should not give him false hope. If you must end that friendship, then do it. What you don't want to do is enable him. At the end of the day, he is not going to act like a friend. The more you let him stay in your life, he will just keep showing entitlement. If he sense you cannot detach, this is exactly how you will enable him to put peer pressure in you. You got to be brave enough to break up. You will only get stuck staying yes the more you keep being a pleaser. Got to understand that you don't even see him as your fiance so that means you have to have to guts to end the friendship. Don't let his sad puppy face control you.

[@debbielightmillercurtisaut9631]

Thanks for sharing this video. I am not in a relationship but I enjoy feeling sexy and being sexy. I am truly comfortable with my body and have learned to connect with my femininity and exudes the sexy energy inside. Again I enjoyed listening to this video because it confirms what I am doing by getting out of my head, feeling and touching my body and truly feel and see the beauty I carry then embrace it all. It’s a beautiful space I have learnt to share with self. By doing this it makes it easier to to touch, see, smell and taste the individual I am involved with without reservations. ❤️🌹♥️

[@debbielightmillercurtisaut9631]

@Mary thanks for reaching out Mary. I am extremely happy to know you are restored to your partner. This is definitely a good story to continue sharing ❤️❤️♥️

[@debbielightmillercurtisaut9631]

@Mary awesome. Amazing ❤️❤️🌹

[@debbielightmillercurtisaut9631]

@Mary when there is a need and a burning question I will. ❤️🌹♥️

[@debbielightmillercurtisaut9631]

@Mary I appreciate you sharing the number. Thanks for all your help and encouragement ❤️🌹♥️

[@monab.3387]

I could share the story. Recently I went to a date. For the begining knew that guy is not my type, no chemistry, but becouse of being polite and not willing hurt him went to take a cofee. And in the end he says there was no chemistry, we wont meet again. And i felt that my ego hurted. I couls have been rejected him in the firat minutes of meeting and feel way more better. But i gave him a pover to say it first. How to deal with hurted ego? Seem not fair...

[@cynthiajohansen7401]

What if you thought: Maybe he felt my/your rejection & that turned him off, & then he unknowingly said what was in my/your mind. . . Thus you graciously allowed him to do the dirty deed. Remember, thankfully, you still dodged a nasty relationship!

[@Olga8888]

I would also ho for a coffee like you did, because he is human being, not just an object like a dress, which I try, for me. I would enjoy communication with him just learning who he is not looking for chemistry. After he said that there was no chemistry, I would have said that I felt the same and smile, it is good that we were on the same page :)

[@monab.3387]

Thank you for comments. Just that rejection was very unexpected. He got back from wc and said it, expecting me to be willing continue conversation and to go from restourant together. So I got confused and just said that he could better say it to me when saying goodbye, in the end. It was just not smooth. So even i didnt liked the guy, it hurted me somehow.

[@cynthiajohansen7401]

@@monab.3387 I would tell myself, that those who do not see my worth are undeserving of it. And that his suspected of being a wrong type, & actual rudeness, is proof enough of him being a bad match. Be proud of your intuition being right. Yes it stung a little, but in the end it's his loss. & really/truely your escape is more important than a bruised ego. Now you are more seasoned, & maybe next time you won't waste your time with a no-go-Joe...

[@Olga8888]

@@monab.3387 Guys often reject first when they feel they are not liked by a woman. That is a sign of emotional immaturity. If you shift your perspective from "looking for somebody, who will give me love" to "I can give my love to myself through the acceptance of my feelings and understanding my traumas, watching them, being compassionate to myself", you will not be hurt so easily anymore. The only person, who will be with you your whole life is you. Be your gentle loving friend. Spoil yourself, be caring for yourself. I would not call it ego, I would call it a hurting inner child, and would act from that perspective.

[@israelaiesha2531]

Why is it forced upon us...to give humans closure? Can we change this conversation Mat?

[@castrojohn1016]

Aʀᴇ ʏᴏᴜ ʜᴀᴠɪɴɢ ᴛʀᴏᴜʙʟᴇs ɪɴ ʏᴏᴜʀ ʀᴇʟᴀᴛɪᴏɴsʜɪᴘ ᴏʀ ᴍᴀʀʀɪᴀɢᴇ ᴏʀ ᴘᴀʀᴛɴᴇʀ ᴊᴜsᴛ ʙʀᴏᴋᴇ ᴜᴘ ᴡɪᴛʜ ʏᴏᴜ! ʜᴇʀᴇ ɪs ᴛʜᴇ sᴏʟᴜᴛɪᴏɴ ғᴏʀ ʏᴏᴜ. 💫💫👇

[@castrojohn1016]

_*Send him a message to ask for help._≧💫💫

[@castrojohn1016]

@✛2349052399677❤≧﹏≦适合香港，香港

[@castrojohn1016]

Add + In front of numbers to numbers before adding👆👆👆丽的

[@reneelosie2644]

Damn and I thought you could just shoot them and get it over with. Lol.

[@sweetdee907]

I avoid the man and ingore his calls for I'm not into him but he's into me

[@persianicon]

Worst advise ever. Tell someone after seeing them for a while that there is no chemistry... that destroys their confidence and character for years to come. Thanks but no thanks

[@ambersky6110]

👍

[@mhizmercyyusuf1864]

I'm enjoying a passionate, loving and committed relationship with my lover again after many years of separation, I got help from a psychic who brought us back within 48 hours

[@mhizmercyyusuf1864]

You can connect with hlm on what'aspp

[@mhizmercyyusuf1864]

@➕2347048640536❤⏯⏯눈‸눈.

[@mhizmercyyusuf1864]

@➕2347048640536❤⏯⏯눈‸눈.

[@esmeraldaramirez2104]

Lol i just egnore them guys i act like they joking and change the subject

[@-Queen-24-]

Hey,I am an Arab, I watch u every day, it is wonderful and very useful, and I love ur advice, but can u put an Arabic translation and thank u for everything😁

[@Goldenheart2911]

By rejecting the wrong person we keep our heart open and available for the right one. Although we may not be compatible with everyone for someone out there we are each other's perfect match. 💛🫶☯️❤️