How To Reject Someone Nicely and STILL Be Friends

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The Josh Speaks

The Josh Speaks

Күн бұрын

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@Nyxx0010
@Nyxx0010 Жыл бұрын
people always says it sucks to be rejected, but rejecting someone when you're a people pleaser is so hard.
@hp2546
@hp2546 Жыл бұрын
This situation also gets that people pleaser in a trapped situation to cheat as well. Imagine if the next person were to ask you out while you were having a current fiance. You will end up getting stuck cheating on your fiance. What if you were currently married and someone else comes to you and ask you out? You will be stuck cheating on your spouse only to please someone else. So by not knowing how to reject, people can take advantage of you and put peer pressure on you to cheat on your current fiance. If you have a hard time saying no to 1 person, you may not be trained to say no to multiple people.
@Nyxx0010
@Nyxx0010 Жыл бұрын
@@hp2546 I agree, but in a situation where youre single but not interested it sucks when you don't want to hurt their feelings
@hp2546
@hp2546 Жыл бұрын
​@@Nyxx0010 Once you say yes, you are classified as taken. So what happens if a next person asked you out. That example is more like you will be stuck with 2 difficult choices. Either reject that person to stay faithful to your current fiance or cheat on your current fiance to please a next person. That is why in order not to be stuck is to never commit to anything you are not ready for. Even people who is single can still use a white lie claiming to be married or taken. If a stranger were to ask you out, you can still claim to be taken. Makes no difference if you are married or single. You still don't want to lead them on giving them false hope of relationship. If you fall for a sad puppy face, this is exactly how they control you regardless if you are married or single. There is a reason why there is no need to have sex with that person if you aren't even attracted to that person. They will feel used.
@RandomMantaRay
@RandomMantaRay Жыл бұрын
IKR
@nila9167
@nila9167 Жыл бұрын
​@@Nyxx0010 Fr. I just rejected someone and it's a friend. Tried to say it in a nicest way as possible, no.. I don't even know if it's nice bc I hurt that person the moment I rejected 😭
@swift_cheese24_
@swift_cheese24_ 5 жыл бұрын
I thought that I'd never have to look this up
@elle-fk8jr
@elle-fk8jr 4 жыл бұрын
same..
@itsazzuri6803
@itsazzuri6803 4 жыл бұрын
me too
@juliajiang4167
@juliajiang4167 4 жыл бұрын
Lol same
@DeadPointDelusions
@DeadPointDelusions 4 жыл бұрын
Lol same
@kisvke
@kisvke 4 жыл бұрын
same
@thesquarerootof8350
@thesquarerootof8350 5 жыл бұрын
I never thought this would ever be something I would have to consider but I guess life can be unexpected
@kk-ul6fe
@kk-ul6fe 4 жыл бұрын
TeddyGod ikr. i feel like a jerk 😭😭😭😭
@pouh2291
@pouh2291 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@hayley723
@hayley723 4 жыл бұрын
Fr tho. I feel terrible
@hayleyc.7592
@hayleyc.7592 4 жыл бұрын
My best friend of about three years just told me she likes me.. She’s trying to get me to come out.. I’m not ready to come out.. and I don’t like her in that way..
@mangamez-2821
@mangamez-2821 4 жыл бұрын
IKR like who tf am I😭 I’m always the one falling for people but here we are
@alissakaye9197
@alissakaye9197 4 жыл бұрын
It really sucks when they're your best friend
@snowflakemeier3319
@snowflakemeier3319 4 жыл бұрын
•Alissa Kaye• I cant bring myself to do it 😔
@alissakaye9197
@alissakaye9197 4 жыл бұрын
Csauhk sigcoscsa if u don’t have feelings for them you should tell them and whether they still wanna be your friend or not is their problem. you can’t lie about how you feel. that’s like lying about the truth❤️
@kiraweaver6658
@kiraweaver6658 4 жыл бұрын
bruh this is legit what I’m dealing with rn and it’s so hard
@alissakaye9197
@alissakaye9197 4 жыл бұрын
Kira Weaver yea i get that. i was there too, but it gets better i promise
@isaaccarter9007
@isaaccarter9007 4 жыл бұрын
I'm dealing with a girl that acts like she hates me but actually has a big crush on me and I really wanna tell her that I dont like her
@g0ld.spl1t
@g0ld.spl1t 2 жыл бұрын
Everyone here never thought they would have to search this up. Undeniable proof that love is just chasing what you can’t have and being chased by what you don’t want.
@sugamama305
@sugamama305 2 жыл бұрын
i do like him i just don’t think it’s a good time for a relationship with him 😭 idk what to do cuz i don’t want him to stop talking to me
@ghardy2922
@ghardy2922 2 жыл бұрын
Damn you got it right. That's my story for so many years now
@hp2546
@hp2546 6 ай бұрын
@@sugamama305 You just have to agree to stay in a friendzone and expect nothing in return. At least like this, he should treat you like a decent person. Even if you don't win a date with him, it won't matter because what matters at the end of the day is he respects you.
@happyxhaley7267
@happyxhaley7267 3 жыл бұрын
I feel like everybody here never thought they would be here...
@ryannaroditsky6201
@ryannaroditsky6201 3 жыл бұрын
Indeed
@barbarasadventures9906
@barbarasadventures9906 3 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@TitaniumTronic
@TitaniumTronic 3 жыл бұрын
True... cuz we are all probably socially awkward people that never thought that anyone would like them and now we have no idea to reject anyone but remain friends
@emma7478
@emma7478 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah a friend of mine asked me out and I was so flustered I was just like No and I tried to be nice but it was awkward, well he called me a bi*ch and was just being a jerk. I rejected him because he says really weird things about me to his friends. One of my friends who is also his friend told me all the things he said which made me uncomfortable. He got over it and we are still friends.
@Mighter343
@Mighter343 8 ай бұрын
Yeah
@unleashingpotential-psycho9433
@unleashingpotential-psycho9433 5 жыл бұрын
Being able to reject people nicely is a critical skill in dating 🔥
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 5 жыл бұрын
Absolutely, no one deserves to be hurt during a rejection even though it may happen. The important thing is to know how to talk to them about it.
@mre7152
@mre7152 5 жыл бұрын
There is no nice way to reject someone.
@elijahwinchester6690
@elijahwinchester6690 4 жыл бұрын
@Yann cedric Totsingan who's ryan gosling? is he hot
@franciscomelendez5424
@franciscomelendez5424 4 жыл бұрын
Yes
@lemonxx181
@lemonxx181 4 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@stayhydrated1773
@stayhydrated1773 4 жыл бұрын
I never thought I would end up here 😭-
@bonney7757
@bonney7757 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@dummyaccount9629
@dummyaccount9629 4 жыл бұрын
samee
@akagrimreaper6702
@akagrimreaper6702 4 жыл бұрын
Dude I’m screwed
@stayhydrated1773
@stayhydrated1773 4 жыл бұрын
@@akagrimreaper6702 you got this 😤!!
@akagrimreaper6702
@akagrimreaper6702 4 жыл бұрын
stay hydrated thx I have another friend and hes gonna help me lmao
@robertwilliams3902
@robertwilliams3902 4 жыл бұрын
POV: ur watching this because u know someone who has a crush on you (they haven't confessed yet)
@wheresdarice3988
@wheresdarice3988 4 жыл бұрын
Well my ex crush now likes me but I don't think I feel the same way anymore. He could've done that 2 years ago when I still liked him but nope. NOPE.
@ghostgoji4184
@ghostgoji4184 4 жыл бұрын
Whoa really
@dummyaccount9629
@dummyaccount9629 4 жыл бұрын
lol
@onlyhuman5669
@onlyhuman5669 4 жыл бұрын
@@wheresdarice3988 same omg except that she's a girl
@ooomii9785
@ooomii9785 4 жыл бұрын
My crush sent me this link- I literally asked her to be my gf sO mAnY tImEs
@noollepggy-5884
@noollepggy-5884 5 жыл бұрын
I've had to reject 6 boys and 2 girls. I am aromantic, and asexual. I prefer to live and be by myself. I have tried so hard to not be rude, but some people get mad :'(
@therealrhino3242
@therealrhino3242 5 жыл бұрын
noт ѕo lιттle pιggy - dating ain’t for everyone.. u good
@cowkiller0076
@cowkiller0076 4 жыл бұрын
this but i still have sexual urges... you get the problem
@harliegrham3384
@harliegrham3384 4 жыл бұрын
Same sexuality’s but no rejections yet. But I do think a girl likes me (I’m a girl btw).
@DuckBwos95437
@DuckBwos95437 4 жыл бұрын
Calamity It’s a sexuality. At least sound a bit nice about it or sound okay about it. Some people just don’t really feel sexual enough to do sexual things normal people would do with their significant other.
@aspectacle5589
@aspectacle5589 4 жыл бұрын
Oh my God, me too. One of my male friends got a bit...rapey.
@Anthony-iv1wj
@Anthony-iv1wj 5 жыл бұрын
Ahhh. This one. This is a tough situation to be in
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 5 жыл бұрын
It really is but it's important to know how to reject someone as well as how to deal with rejection.
@nadeezn
@nadeezn 4 жыл бұрын
I told myself I would never be in this situation but guess what? I'm in this goddam situation
@blueskilla6
@blueskilla6 4 жыл бұрын
i’m in a tough situation :(
@nadeezn
@nadeezn 4 жыл бұрын
@???Q ...if I'm married then my friends would know... so they wouldn't ask me out...
@ivy1781
@ivy1781 4 жыл бұрын
Nadia :3 same here! Here I was like “PFT no one’s gonna like me..” and now here I am...
@excusemeliam
@excusemeliam 2 жыл бұрын
I just love how we are all just a community of people who just don’t know what to do after someone confessed their feelings to u
@hannah_xoxbeauts1743
@hannah_xoxbeauts1743 3 жыл бұрын
I never thought I would be rejecting a guy ,I thought they would always be rejecting me 😂🤭💀
@anime_luhverrr
@anime_luhverrr 3 жыл бұрын
A MOOD
@heyitslexiii1
@heyitslexiii1 2 жыл бұрын
same
@hell_cat
@hell_cat Жыл бұрын
same 😅
@doraemoniscute5547
@doraemoniscute5547 Жыл бұрын
SAMEEEE
@by_pao
@by_pao Жыл бұрын
Haha,same
@usernameusername5402
@usernameusername5402 4 жыл бұрын
Imagine saying this and then the person who likes you just says "Ok."
@youknowwho781
@youknowwho781 4 жыл бұрын
😂
@soh8ib
@soh8ib 3 жыл бұрын
Ok
@idiot6893
@idiot6893 3 жыл бұрын
this happened to me LMAO
@soh8ib
@soh8ib 3 жыл бұрын
@@idiot6893 llamao*
@soh8ib
@soh8ib 3 жыл бұрын
Get it?
@hynjniee9507
@hynjniee9507 4 жыл бұрын
Wow. Can't believe i searched this.
@yura9286
@yura9286 3 жыл бұрын
Hey stayyy
@rixalla5598
@rixalla5598 3 жыл бұрын
Same, it sucks
@hynjniee9507
@hynjniee9507 3 жыл бұрын
Update: I don't remember who I rejected lol
@slyviolet3850
@slyviolet3850 4 жыл бұрын
Nice text rejection: "Hey, I really enjoy talking you, I enjoy the conversations we have but I want you to know that I only see this as a friendship I really value the friendship and I don't want to lose you as a friend but I want you to know that I don't really see this going to anything more."
@sharklord4918
@sharklord4918 3 жыл бұрын
To me tho, text rejecting is being an asshole cus ur not brave enough to do it face to face, if ur gonna. Real up online or something then at least on a call, texting is kinda a douche way to do it
@Gnexz.
@Gnexz. 3 жыл бұрын
@@sharklord4918 ye but wut if someone online likes u and u don’t like them
@sharklord4918
@sharklord4918 3 жыл бұрын
@@Gnexz. i meant if you had a REAL relationship, texting to break up is a shit way to break things up, but if it was an online relationship its understandable cus well, its online
@eva-nx5ys
@eva-nx5ys 3 жыл бұрын
lol the person who confessed to me i barely talk with and he just told me and i have to sit next to him first lesson 💀 im also gay so it wouldnt work out haha
@dxmz_xex
@dxmz_xex Жыл бұрын
Nice text rejection : I'm gay
@thomasturner6980
@thomasturner6980 5 жыл бұрын
So basically being the opposite end of being rejected
@ishqeIAS
@ishqeIAS 3 жыл бұрын
Change profile PlZ it's so dangoures 😂😂😂
@DaneleChannel322
@DaneleChannel322 4 жыл бұрын
I never thought that I would actually search for this, I usually just click on these kinds of videos for fun but now I actually need it
@Anazec1
@Anazec1 3 жыл бұрын
Never once in my life have I ever thought that I'd look this up because i need it. I thought that I'd be the one getting rejected but also not because I'm way too shy to confess my feelings for someone.
@Anazec1
@Anazec1 3 жыл бұрын
@qqq??? No, an online friend said he liked me and i didn't like him back so i rejected him. My comment was just what I thought would happen to me.
@Anazec1
@Anazec1 3 жыл бұрын
@qqq??? the part where it said "I thought that I'd be the one getting rejected but also not because I'm way too shy to confess my feelings for someone." meant that I thought that i would be the person getting rejected (not just now but pretty much since i was a kid). I said "also not because I'm way too shy to confess my feelings for someone" because I'm really shy so i wouldn't even go and confess my feelings for the person in the first place so i wouldn't get rejected.
@by_pao
@by_pao Жыл бұрын
The same thing, It's too hard for me express my feelings and sometimes,It's also difficult to handle them😢.
@larisasbornova3882
@larisasbornova3882 4 жыл бұрын
Mabye I should just send this to him. 🙃
@dummyaccount9629
@dummyaccount9629 4 жыл бұрын
nice idea
@v.thakurfootball24k21
@v.thakurfootball24k21 4 жыл бұрын
Thats a good idea 👍✌
@omg....5240
@omg....5240 3 жыл бұрын
I dont think thats how its supposed to work 😶
@wiljonguarin5866
@wiljonguarin5866 3 жыл бұрын
Please don't. If I were the guy, I would feel so bad. I'd say just talk with them. I believe it's more respectful and kind.
@jonathansheppard3745
@jonathansheppard3745 3 жыл бұрын
@@omg....5240 lol 😂😂😂
@supersayainredgod3508
@supersayainredgod3508 5 жыл бұрын
I’m only 15 years old, and I just learned that this lady friend of mine had a crush on me deep enough that she considered it love, but I didn’t feel the same way at all. I saw her as a friend, so I watched multiple videos about how to nicely let somebody down, but when I texted her (I can’t see her irl rn) my rejection letter, which I made as nicely as possible, she got hella pissed and just yelled and told me she was leaving and not coming back, and I’ve tried to talk and calm her down saying that she can talk to me, or maybe she should talk to her friends but she won’t reply, and idk wut the heck to do. I feel hella guilty and terrible rn and idk if wut I’m doing is right or wrong anymore.
@pfizhe
@pfizhe 4 жыл бұрын
Leave? She's 15 where the hell she wanna go?
@arbin_fits5996
@arbin_fits5996 4 жыл бұрын
Tay Theng Zhe back to her room 😂
@intpthelogician2533
@intpthelogician2533 4 жыл бұрын
You are amazing man really and you didn't do anything wrong you actually do it perfectly she's just a little girl she not grown up enough to deal with things right.... And OMG lady??? You are really amazing gentleman don't feel guilty at all
@intpthelogician2533
@intpthelogician2533 4 жыл бұрын
@@pfizhe 😂😂😂
@michaelhipol3438
@michaelhipol3438 4 жыл бұрын
@@pfizhe holy shit hahahahahhah right
@snowpawwildcraft6276
@snowpawwildcraft6276 3 жыл бұрын
And here I thought none would ever be able to have a crush on me-
@XXXX-ch6sb
@XXXX-ch6sb 3 жыл бұрын
Samee
@Izakokomarixyz
@Izakokomarixyz 3 жыл бұрын
Happens to almost everyone at least a few times in their lives. i’ve seen some relatively unattractive dudes have a girl crushing over them.
@lanasvoid
@lanasvoid 2 жыл бұрын
@@Izakokomarixyz sometimes its about personality. i’ve liked some people who’s appearance isnt the most attractive but their personality is and it makes them 1000000x more hot lol
@Izakokomarixyz
@Izakokomarixyz 2 жыл бұрын
@@lanasvoid - Not even, because I’m ugly and boring with zero personality (social anxiety doesn’t help) and even then, a few girls have had crushes on me before…
@lanasvoid
@lanasvoid 2 жыл бұрын
@@Izakokomarixyz maybe they dont think you’re ugly and boring :)
@youngaamez3550
@youngaamez3550 5 жыл бұрын
Josh! Remember my crush i was talking to you about that said she liked me back? Well last night we pretty much just poured our hearts to each other and now we're officially dating! 😊
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 5 жыл бұрын
That's so awesome! I'm super happy for you man!
@youngaamez3550
@youngaamez3550 5 жыл бұрын
The Josh Speaks thanks man!
@decoy1312
@decoy1312 4 жыл бұрын
U ever heard of dm ?
@DuckBwos95437
@DuckBwos95437 4 жыл бұрын
No u **this was 11 months ago**
@nadeezn
@nadeezn 4 жыл бұрын
@@DuckBwos95437 F
@sofiereads
@sofiereads 3 жыл бұрын
Him: "Put yourself in their shoes...how would you like them to respond" Me: I would want them to have a mutual feeling....duh
@shruti4715
@shruti4715 3 жыл бұрын
Same 😥😭 He is pissed though :(
@isamarysanguinety312
@isamarysanguinety312 3 жыл бұрын
I hate rejecting people. It makes me feel super uncomfortable. If all I’ve done has been helping you with homework and whatnot, I‘ve never shown interest, please don’t ask me out. I hate seeing people crushed but I can’t be dishonest
@hp2546
@hp2546 Ай бұрын
People feeling crushed is beyond your control. All you can do is reject politely. If they don't take no for an answer, then you know it is not our job to please them. So a way for you to be honest is to tell them sorry not my type. At least that isn't lying. That person is not your type. Giving too many reasons will only sound like sugarcoating. So if these people looks for an excuse to be entitled, it means they were hoping you will give in to a sad puppy face. You can stick to what is your job which is help them with hw but all these personal issues, not your job. You can say sorry not your responsibility. If it is not your job, don't do that job.
@mxox515
@mxox515 5 жыл бұрын
MY BOY BEST FRIEND SED HE LIKED ME AND I DONT KNOW WHA TO DO😭
@halalgirl9621
@halalgirl9621 5 жыл бұрын
What happened??
@socialtrash6742
@socialtrash6742 5 жыл бұрын
ME TOO SOMEONE ACC HELP US 😭😭😭
@cpflqqezy9427
@cpflqqezy9427 4 жыл бұрын
Me to help me 😿😿😿😿
@Donewitit
@Donewitit 4 жыл бұрын
Mxox SAME! My friend asked me on text..
@JeremysRants
@JeremysRants 4 жыл бұрын
Um give him a shot? Lol. You act like opportunity always comes. Why not be with someone who really cares about you and won't hurt you?
@fluffy6299AJ
@fluffy6299AJ 4 жыл бұрын
I'm so confused with everything and I can see so many ppl giving hints, it's so overwhelming, and I've never had to reject so many people before. Thanks for the vid.
@biabelle4408
@biabelle4408 3 жыл бұрын
One of my closest friends just confessed. Being honest I was shaking out of shock for a bit after lol. I never noticed or had an suspicions that they liked me that way either, it was really out of the blue. Right now it feels like I’m stuck in a tight situation. We’re really close, and I wouldn’t want to lose her as a good friend, but I don’t feel the same way :( I’m overall just nervous for how this is going to affect our future dynamic and relationship.
@TitaniumTronic
@TitaniumTronic 3 жыл бұрын
Same thing happened to me once, after that the friendship went downhill, old friend feels less than a stranger now and almost in the mortal enemy spectrum
@ultimateships
@ultimateships 2 жыл бұрын
as a quiet, introverted person, I never thought I would be here again. I used to have quite a few friends a few years ago, and someone ended up saying they liked me, and I had to reject him, because from what I knew, I only liked girls; he went from a friend that day to straight up ignoring me when I’d try to talk to him. From then, I ended up back to my introverted ways, and I hardly ever talk, besides to some people I’d might consider friends, but even then, I’m still awkward and just in general don’t like talking very much, and just don’t know how to continue a conversation. Nearing the end of the school year, I’m still very introverted, but have been slowly opening up to a possible friend group, with 2 girls and a guy. We have only talked for a few months, and even then, only talked when we would play games in class, but have recently went out to a party where me and the guy spent the most amount of time together, since the 2 girls in the friend group were much more extroverted, and had other friends; where as I only had just the friend group. The guy in our kind of friend group, has just sent me a text saying he likes me, and that was the one thing that made me feel absolutely horrible. I have like a a feeling of emptiness in my stomach, and just don’t know how to tell him that I don’t feel the same at all. He’s funny and a good friend, yet this was the one thing I thought I would never have to come across again. Not only do I not know how to reject him, but from what I think I know, I don’t even like men in general, and am only attracted to women. I can’t even begin to explain the self-hatred I feel towards myself. I’ve been crying, and want to just undo all the progress I thought I made. I hate myself. TL;DR (too long; didn’t read): A guy friend as taken a likening to me, even though I only see him as a friend, and I’m only attracted to women. I don’t know how to reject him, as a very introverted person, who as long as I’ve known him had only began to be more open. Turns out, being the quiet person would’ve been better, as everyone ignored me and I didn’t have to worry about things like this ever happening. Update: I forgot about this comment, so thanks to the person who liked it, a few days after I posted this, I gained the courage to send a simple text saying I didn’t feel the same and just wanted to stay friends. Shortly after he said it was just a joke and laughed about it. I intentionally hurt myself and cried for hours after that. I’m convinced that no one I ever meet in life will understand my pain, struggles, and thoughts.
@IHEARTCOQUETTECLOTHES.777
@IHEARTCOQUETTECLOTHES.777 4 жыл бұрын
Today was rough, i have a rrally sweet friend he is so kind, but i only see him as a friend, i just lied, to not hurt his feelings, i really hope he finds a amazing girl...
@alemoo4182
@alemoo4182 4 жыл бұрын
I never thought I'd be here after the situation I'm in
@itri-u8j
@itri-u8j 3 жыл бұрын
OMG THANK YOU, MY IRL BEST FRIEND WAS CONFESSING TO ME THROUGH TEXT AND I WAS SO NERVOUS BECAUSE I LOVE HER SO MUCH BUT ONLY AS A FRIEND Update- she got mad at me 😅
@itri-u8j
@itri-u8j 3 жыл бұрын
@qqq??? haha, she got over it, thanks for the advice though (we’re still friends) 😊
@Rep0st3r
@Rep0st3r 2 жыл бұрын
Feel ya 😞
@Maxboun3204
@Maxboun3204 Ай бұрын
​@@itri-u8jhow are you now? did she try again, it's impossible to get over these kind of feelings you know
@Waldosia60
@Waldosia60 3 жыл бұрын
Is it bad that I like the feeling of people thinking that I am "good enough to date" , but also rejects actually going for it because you're not ready ?
@catchurtrainb4its2l82
@catchurtrainb4its2l82 Жыл бұрын
Me too or maybe it's just we haven't found the right one?
@lexihussey1465
@lexihussey1465 4 жыл бұрын
You might not be the most viewed or subbed KZbinr, but you're actually really helpful and that's what matters You just saved me
@Ray-gr9ef
@Ray-gr9ef 5 жыл бұрын
I'm just watching this in case if something happened
@Hemestal
@Hemestal 3 жыл бұрын
Well, I've found that it really doesn't matter if I say it straight up, or I try to sugar coat it with a rehearsed dialogue, in the end rejection is always hurtful to an extent and people will react to it with different intensity but 99% of the times, the chick will simply stop talking to me, because people don't want to be "just friends" with someone they really like, and it sucks being around them when you know that person is off limits. Unless I have something to lose along with that friendship, I'm always ready for the bridge to burn and to be honest, cutting contact cold turkey is sometimes the best for both parties when such feelings get in the mix.
@cindyxolucy848
@cindyxolucy848 3 жыл бұрын
This is super helpful information. Thank you so much! I want to do my best to maintain the friendships I have with those who, although I don't have romantic feelings for, still care greatly about. The part about it not being "normal" anymore is also very true and good to keep in the back of my head when expressing these thought. Thanks, again!
@karaathenadeleon5330
@karaathenadeleon5330 3 жыл бұрын
Life is really unexpected huh, i never thought ill search this up
@alexdai3893
@alexdai3893 5 жыл бұрын
This is happening to me now and idk what to do this vid helped a lot
@yayag.8990
@yayag.8990 2 жыл бұрын
This was actually so helpful, and the guy took the rejection nicely which is good
@cyborgpunkmonk
@cyborgpunkmonk 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video. This recent situation is new to me, as it happened in person instead of online. Where they've been flirting with me physically, but nothing was being spoken, and where I hoped they'd catch on to me not flirting back would be enough, but she seems to just be getting more and more flirty. And being the first to speak up and say no is not my strong point atm. So the example you gave of what to say really helps. Now I just need to run it through my head and gather some courage.
@loststar7825
@loststar7825 2 жыл бұрын
Never thought I'd be the one rejecting people
@ivy1781
@ivy1781 4 жыл бұрын
Here’s the thing, I did these, friend-zoned him as nice as possible saying “I’m sorry but I’m a lesbian and I’m not interested but I hope we can still be friends” Which I thought we were. One of my close guy friends told me that he said to him that he loved me and I don’t know what to do now.
@fabi8657
@fabi8657 3 жыл бұрын
i remember when i was looking up on youtube , how to tell a girl you like her without being rejected and now i'm searching the full opposite , i feel so bad for doing this but it's the best for both of us instead me playing her
@Lumiere20
@Lumiere20 3 жыл бұрын
My bestfriend just confessed to me and I don't know how to respond to her, she said she loves me but the thing is I have a crush on her little sister and I never mentioned that to her and so I don't have any romantic feelings for her. I don't know what to say and I don't wanna ruin our friendship.
@user-yv1cz3sz3m
@user-yv1cz3sz3m 3 жыл бұрын
Say it to her and look what face she would look like. Cry? Angry? Jealous? I'm interested, i mean aren't you interested on that?/ well me yes
@Lumiere20
@Lumiere20 3 жыл бұрын
@@user-yv1cz3sz3m what do you mean by “arent you interested in that”? She told me that I shouldnt rush on giving her an answer so i haven’t told her about my feelings for her sister as im very worried
@RedYoshiGamer2
@RedYoshiGamer2 2 жыл бұрын
@@Lumiere20 so do you have an update?
@Maxboun3204
@Maxboun3204 Ай бұрын
​@@Lumiere20you probably have kids by now but come on 😂 we deserve to know what happened
@TheTime67
@TheTime67 5 жыл бұрын
Still would love to see a video about having a strong crush on someone while you are currently in a relationship sometime :)
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 5 жыл бұрын
That's a really good topic to cover, I'll definitely add it to my list
@drdonday5505
@drdonday5505 5 жыл бұрын
bruh.. wouldn't that be close to cheating-
@prodallistyre
@prodallistyre 4 жыл бұрын
@@drdonday5505 was boutta say that shit too
@TitaniumTronic
@TitaniumTronic 3 жыл бұрын
Ok wtf man... Don't cheat on partners peoplleeeeee
@timothyjamesraichle6407
@timothyjamesraichle6407 4 жыл бұрын
This girl is literally obsessed with me and this video really helped thank you
@pineappleshouldntbeonpizza7640
@pineappleshouldntbeonpizza7640 Жыл бұрын
Thank you. This is exactly what I’ve been looking for and your words really comforted me.
@EggShake
@EggShake Жыл бұрын
Theres this girl in my bus who has a crush on me, but I honestly dont wanna be in a relationship with anyone not just her. So this is great thaks!!
@tinbantilan5136
@tinbantilan5136 3 жыл бұрын
okay I needed this. thank you so much 😭😭😭
@Kinomhyss
@Kinomhyss 4 жыл бұрын
just got asked out and im not ready to be in one yet still healing 🤧
@Kinomhyss
@Kinomhyss 4 жыл бұрын
was really hard to say no so i had to say no because im not ready yet
@Thierry14Henry
@Thierry14Henry 4 жыл бұрын
Good job mate
@crunchycakegaming1507
@crunchycakegaming1507 Жыл бұрын
I never thought I would have to search this up
@zielle.
@zielle. Жыл бұрын
Me to
@rosabellanekoBean
@rosabellanekoBean 7 ай бұрын
Pov: your watching this because your already in a relationship and you don't know how to let someone down slowly about said partner you are with
@honeydragon4324
@honeydragon4324 3 жыл бұрын
I always thought I was going to be to one who got rejected but oh boy... life sure is unexpected
@thecluest
@thecluest 2 жыл бұрын
dude i’m friends w this kid right? and when we were just friends it was a good friendship and the same was felt around the group. but when he started liking me i noticed a difference in his behavior and i started to speak to him less. my friends also picked up on him acting different after he started to like me and we have all kind of been trying to distance from him. the problem is we don’t think he’s getting any hint that we’d rather drift away. he’s a nice kid but i liked our friendship better when he didn’t like me. it was less awkward for me bc i didn’t suspect anything off bc there wasn’t anything off, but now it’s just weird and idk how to get him off my back. he asked me out and that’s why i went to this video. helped a bunch, thanks
@Mei-jr9xp
@Mei-jr9xp 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for making this video. I needed help to get out of an awkward situation with this dude that I met YESTERDAY. The same day he said that he loved me. I don’t know how to say that I don’t really feel the same.
@pierogiman0934
@pierogiman0934 3 жыл бұрын
bro. it’s still hard. i’m posing myself because i told her that i did like her. worst thing to do? yes, yes it is.
@Princessgo2
@Princessgo2 4 жыл бұрын
I never thought I would loom this up. It really is easier said than doe
@leilani-x3k
@leilani-x3k 3 жыл бұрын
hey, i really enjoyed talking to you and the conversations we have and i would like that to keep going but i only see this as a friendship and value it so i don’t want to lose you as a friend but i wanted to be honest and i don’t really see it going into anything more. i hope we can move on from this, and still be friends🥺
@TheMilouna
@TheMilouna Жыл бұрын
hope you see this, just so you know i’m going to use your comment to help me 😭 you chose the best way to describe it thank you
@mazda_rt24-p
@mazda_rt24-p Жыл бұрын
​@@TheMilounadid it work...im in the same situation now
@shynekopiss3080
@shynekopiss3080 3 жыл бұрын
i got into a relationship, i was the one to ask if we could be dating. i feel like absolute garbage now because ive just realized im not ready for a relationship 😀
@jacsylynnedwards
@jacsylynnedwards 4 ай бұрын
Ugh this happend to me today. So I ment this kid down the road and he liked me. he kissed me without my consent and I hated it. So that means I’ll do this. Thanks, Josh.
@tiktoktrendy5657
@tiktoktrendy5657 4 жыл бұрын
I never thought that this would happen to me life's strange I feel mean 😭
@devilishgabi
@devilishgabi 4 жыл бұрын
I never thought i would be in this situation, i've known this girl liked me for years, since i was like 5, and now i'm 12, and just like 10 minutes ago, her "bff" slid into my DMs and asked me if i like her, but i don't. I honestly don't know how to do it. :C
@coolerthanyou6040
@coolerthanyou6040 5 жыл бұрын
I’m 12, I had the BIGGEST crush on this dude, last year. I was in fifth grade and head over heels for him, more than I ever did for any other dudes I kinda liked. I did everything for him, but he eventually dated my best friend about the end of the year… (Yikes) They dated until sixth grade. I was heart broken for the longest time. But, like most people, I slowly got over him. But of course, like most elementary relationships, they broke up. Well, my bestie dumped him after months of ignoring him. She said something along the lines of, “He’s kinda weird and always guilt tripping me.” I was kinda mad at her because me and my ex-crush became great friends during the time when she ignored him. I couldn’t understand why she was being such a bad girlfriend, because I saw that he was trying to make her happy. So yeah, they broke up. We became even closer and texted everyday. I remember still liking him when they were still dating. But after getting closer with him, I literally couldn’t see him anything more than just a friend. I matured and learned about myself more. (And I grew some mental problems and wouldn’t be able to handle dating anyway.) He grew feelings for me. He gave me hints, such as pickup lines, but always ends up with, “JK.” I would laugh at them and even call him “bro” or “dude” so he knows I only see him as those. I’ve always been insecure about myself so I didn’t actually think he liked me. I just wanted to make sure, though. WELP, he confessed to be through text a few days ago. I said, “I’ll think about it.” Even though I a,ready knew my answer… Like there’s layers to it, he’s my friends ex, he’s like a bro to me, and I wasn’t looking for a relationship. I was planning on telling him in person, but got frustrated because HE’D SEND ME 20 HEART EMOJIS EVERY 5 MINUTES AND SEND ME LOVE POEMS EVEN WHEN I KEPT SAYING, “Bro, Im thinking ‘bout it.” They were sweet but he was moving on way too fast. I felt uncomfortable and decided to just reject him right then and there. I wish I rejected him in person but I couldn’t handle anymore poems. But the thing is, he was guilt trip me. Every time I try to say, “I’m thinking ‘bout it,” he’d say stuff like, “I’m depressed again,” or, “Ima go kill myself now.” And I was scared, I truly cared for him HONESTLY! So I couldn’t handle having panic attacks and end up saying, “Don’t be! I’m thinking about it but we definitely have a chance.” I know I kept getting his hopes up but I was scared. And I finally understood why my friend dumped him and said that he was try to make her feel guilty. I finally rejected him along the lines of, “I’m sorry, but I’m not looking for a relationship and I truly hope we could stay amazing friends.” Afterwards I threw my phone and couldn’t help feeling AWFUL! I wanted to cry because I was scared, insecure, anxious, and overall felt like I was a bad person. I wondered if I made the right choice, and if I was the one is the wrong. I was terrified that he might actually harm himself because of me and I was just a mess. Sorry for this stupid long essay but I just needed to go on a rant. T^T
@kk-ul6fe
@kk-ul6fe 4 жыл бұрын
Fantasy Animates! i was literally in the EXACT SAME SITUATION omg!!! im 12, and i liked this guy a lot lot and then my bff started dating him and then me and him became friends after they broke up and i lost feelings but started to like him as a good friend and then he started to like me. i had to reject him when he asked me out and now it’s really awkward between us. glad to know someone else is going thru what i am lol
@kk-ul6fe
@kk-ul6fe 4 жыл бұрын
and he literally harmed himself after i rejected him! wow. small world
@Hello123Bye
@Hello123Bye 5 ай бұрын
Gosh, i never thought i have ever needed this video 😭 one of my friends confessed, and im so scared bc its been so akward
@kaiekai5995
@kaiekai5995 3 жыл бұрын
It’s the worst is when their friends come up to ask you and you really don’t know what to say.
@Coralzate
@Coralzate 5 ай бұрын
Never thought I'd ever look this up
@gabzwithazed
@gabzwithazed 4 жыл бұрын
So my friend told me on Discord that someone in our friend group (it’s a guy friend) likes me. There are two boys and three girls in our group and I’ve never really had a relationship before so I have no idea what to do. Luckily he is completely fine if I say no as he understands and said ‘It’s fine as long as she’s happy’ so hopefully I’ll think about it and tell him if I like him or not.
@owlsdreamscapes596
@owlsdreamscapes596 3 жыл бұрын
I found out that my guy best friend likes me and I love him as a bsf but I don’t have feelings for him so thank you for this :)
@bl1247
@bl1247 5 жыл бұрын
this has so helpful! im autistic so i really struggle in the area and this video was so clear i think i can do it now.
@binky_stinky
@binky_stinky 4 жыл бұрын
b l :D
@Maxboun3204
@Maxboun3204 Ай бұрын
The hardest part is when you know they love you sincerely with all their heart more than anything and you know they are so kind and deserve your love back, but yet there is nothing inside you, only an empty cruel desert for them.
@r0llc4ll66
@r0llc4ll66 4 жыл бұрын
I think she’s by far the most beautiful girl in my class, I always look at her, but not really interested in! And she told that she loved me, perhaps I should whether or not reject her! 😑🤭
@paperbag9235
@paperbag9235 5 ай бұрын
whoaaa this video was so nice your talk was just what i needed to hear thank you so much
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 5 ай бұрын
You're so welcome!
@Harrison_dell
@Harrison_dell 5 жыл бұрын
thanks josh I been wanting to know this.
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 5 жыл бұрын
Awesome I hope its helpful
@Harrison_dell
@Harrison_dell 5 жыл бұрын
@@TheJoshSpeaks you made my day!
@nicolealvaro7797
@nicolealvaro7797 4 жыл бұрын
I never thought I'd search this up
@salvadorlucero1034
@salvadorlucero1034 4 жыл бұрын
I never thought I'd be looking this video up at an age 16
@binky_stinky
@binky_stinky 4 жыл бұрын
Salvador Lucero hah, I’m 11...
@asteridfk
@asteridfk 4 жыл бұрын
Ha....try that but a few years younger....
@HumanDisaster-Dirt
@HumanDisaster-Dirt 2 жыл бұрын
This is helpful and I'm definitely going to use this advise. I think a friend of mine has had a crush on me for a while now and they keep getting really close to me and putting their hands on me and it makes me extremely uncomfortable. I've been trying to subtly show him I'm not interested, but I don't think he noticed, so I'll try texting him about it. Thanks for the advise!
@roderickuzumaki6002
@roderickuzumaki6002 3 жыл бұрын
Okay okay I don’t know if this is just me, but I don’t like it when someone has a crush on me. Now that I think of it all of my ex-girlfriends didn’t have a crush on me first, I guess I like the chase. 😅😅😅
@EmilyGloeggler7984
@EmilyGloeggler7984 3 ай бұрын
Just as explained in another video - one can genuinely and platonically remain friends with someone who either romantically rejected them or whom they romantically rejected but it takes a choice to be mature to do so. Unfortunately, nowadays, many do not.
@oblivious108
@oblivious108 4 ай бұрын
This video is 4 minutes too long, so I'll answer it in two words: You don't. You just say no and move on. We especially hate it when you have a word salad and say, "You're good friend or a nice guy." That really just insults us even if we don't show it.
@afrdzul9811
@afrdzul9811 2 жыл бұрын
i never thought i have to search this up , but here i am
@lexi_nator
@lexi_nator 4 жыл бұрын
One of my friends was on google hangouts on a giant chat group and they were telling everybody that they liked me. I wasn't there when all of that was happening but I got really scared because they are a good friend to me. I guess they forgot that they were saying all those things on a chat group I was apart of and could easily read the messages. Soo yeah. That's kinda why I'm here. XD
@cindyvillanueva2108
@cindyvillanueva2108 Жыл бұрын
A girl I know really really really likes me and I don’t know what to do about it so this video is kind of helping me because she is one of my best friends and I don’t want to hurt her feelings.
@theultimatecheeser3680
@theultimatecheeser3680 4 жыл бұрын
Thx man I needed this
@itzzwaffle
@itzzwaffle 2 жыл бұрын
cheers for the help, me and my sister now have a healthy friendship!
@swordgamezolan
@swordgamezolan 3 жыл бұрын
Ok, a girl told me she liked me but said it in a way where I thought she just wanted to be friends, I said I like you too. Now she thinks 100% thatI like her and idk how to get out of it
@BobtheboyPiano
@BobtheboyPiano 4 жыл бұрын
FEELING PROUD I HAVE TO SEARCH THIS UP!!!
@pb0907.
@pb0907. 4 жыл бұрын
Seriously, life is unexpected.
@kkkateltn
@kkkateltn 3 жыл бұрын
this was so fricking helpful . THANK U!!!
@adam-bc6tl
@adam-bc6tl 5 жыл бұрын
Copyable version Hey, I really enjoy talking to you, I enjoy the conversations we have, but I want you to know that I only see this as a friendship, I really value the friendship and I don't want to lose you as a friend, but I want you to know that I don't really see it going into anything more.
@mtbprod9083
@mtbprod9083 4 жыл бұрын
Dank 🅱️oii ahhh I saw this right after I typed it out😂
@allysum4749
@allysum4749 3 жыл бұрын
I would never thought that i would search this kinds of videos but here we go.
@andreahmota3277
@andreahmota3277 5 жыл бұрын
1:56
@crimson9746
@crimson9746 3 жыл бұрын
Bless you
@nimblee626
@nimblee626 Жыл бұрын
bro this is a life saver, i have friend that keeps coming onto me but dont wanna reject her rudely
@elianafernandez4910
@elianafernandez4910 4 жыл бұрын
Okay, so um- Three boys confessed to my friend in the same day in messenger. And I'm helpin' her out, so thanks you! ^^ *its a tight situation i know-*
@oish6684
@oish6684 3 жыл бұрын
i honestly never once thought that i would need a video like this...
@Dani-so8mx
@Dani-so8mx 3 жыл бұрын
Same..
@maglacona3317
@maglacona3317 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@bellampierce
@bellampierce 4 жыл бұрын
ok i texted him and now im not gonna touch my phone for a couple hours. it's so awkward.... i think he just likes me because i joke around with him but i never flirt, at least i dont think i do. i juts treat him as a friend. than god were in quarantine and i dont have to see him in person for 3 weeks
@lambofthelord
@lambofthelord 3 жыл бұрын
Never thought I'd be in a situation where I needed to look this up so badly-
@mahtavagimli6454
@mahtavagimli6454 4 жыл бұрын
Perfect! Now let's translate this to Finnish-
@RandomMantaRay
@RandomMantaRay Жыл бұрын
Someone barely texted me saying that they really liked me and wanted to be together and this will really help to speak with him tomorrow thank you so much!
@sophiearriola_
@sophiearriola_ 4 жыл бұрын
Weird thing. My friend, who is a girl, confessed her feelings to me. I already knew for some time. But, I rejected her because I am straight. I still didn’t want that confession to ruin our friendship. So I told her nicely, “I value our friendship and didn’t want a relationship like that. I’d still like to be friends! :)”
@sophiearriola_
@sophiearriola_ 4 жыл бұрын
Profile We’re still friends today. She has gotten over her feelings and sees me as a friend and not a love interest so I’m glad it worked out.
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