How To Respond To "I'll Let You Know" & The Power Of Not Overpursuing

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This video covers how to respond to "I'll let you know" & the power of not overpursing.
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[@aldenjacob3335]

This is a big help! She told me she'll update me so it's a good thing I reacted positively. Of course I'm completely fine if she's really busy.

[@lollybagmike2502]

Went on a good first date, it actually went great, I said I had a great time and to let me know when her schedules free to hang out again, she said I'm glad you did, I had a good time, I'll let you know, obviously not the best response to get, but I just said sounds good enjoy your night, and I'm not gonna text back again until/if she replies back, it's hard as hell cause she seems cool but it is what it is, don't get hung up on one lady fellas, play the field and take your time, I know it's tough

[@unplugged301]

did she ever let you know?

[@philadams9254]

13:17 - THIS is a really good point. I love it when women give me this response because it's the holy grail of s*** tests and actually quite easy to pass if you can just chill out and essentially do nothing.

[@valeriaswanne]

I disagree. Depending on context, "I'll let you know" is code for "No". If you're asking if they're free this week and they say it, fine, they gotta check their schedule, no problem. But if you already have plans and are just waiting on a time frame to pick them up, especially the day of, it means "You aren't a priority and I'd rather be doing something/someone else." We are too old to be sitting around waiting for the phone to ring. If that person can't be bothered enough to be able to set a time for you on the same day you're supposed to meet, they don't respect you or your time. Save yourself heartbreak and disappointment, look somewhere else. -- someone who's been burned before

[@aaronandrews4475]

I totally understand! I think he is talking about the context of you don't already have plans for the week and you send a text "are u free" and they say "I'll check my schedule" than yeah that's fine. But I agree with you in the context that if you already have a plan and they are kinda not really getting back to you on a specific time than yeah move on.

[@pitabread9119]

I agree. If you ask her out on a date and she responds with “I’ll let you know”, “maybe”, or “we’ll see” simply save yourself the time and move onto the next one. That is simply her way of gently saying no or a tactic to keep garnering your attention for her own satisfaction.

[@valeriaswanne]

@@pitabread9119 saying "no" outright can cause problems... r/niceguy is a thing

[@alkalijuly1790]

@@valeriaswanne Saying no outright makes you an adult. If a man gets upset then you have every right to block him because he has no right to get upset.

[@alkalijuly1790]

@@valeriaswanne Just think that being upfront and giving a definitive answer is better than giving false hope.

[@aaronandrews4475]

Good video! Very authentic

[@Dahmer_Jeff]

Time stamp of when he gets to the fucking point please

[@iamdoubleed]

I hate the idea of giving these women the satisfaction of turning down a man :/

[@paymonrafizadeh2761]

Good job brother Well done

[@litladuc]

Thanks man, it worked the response

[@situationsshow1537]

Best advice ever!!

[@jaycee1062]

Or if thats the case leave the message on read nd move on wit ur life

[@KeyMarrFit]

True tho

[@matthewturnbull9547]

If someone dosnt have the time or respect to reposed to you then they aren’t worth your time or energy it’s that simple, it’s a two second task to respond to someone if you don’t even cross their mind for them to take a second out their day to text you, you mean nothing to them.

[@ralph4370]

I respectfully disagree. If I may share. I follow the business sales tactic of anything other than a resounding YES is a NO. In real estate you want to work with motivated buyers who want to buy. Put those who are unsure into the "let them figure it out" box. When they are ready they know where to find you. They may find another realtor or not. Same with women. When I ask out women and they tell me "I will let you know" I always smile, say "I understand, no worries. Its cool." and move along. After a while those women will expect you to beg and grovel. When you don't they actually get mad. They think "How dare you" or "Who do you think you are" type of mentality. Now the best way to gauge interest in sales is "Oh hey, I am free today at X or tomorrow X!" If women are interested she will work with you and tell you whats is the delay. If not she will drag her feet and say "I don't know I will let you know" you just knew she is not interested. Also women will later tell you they did not wanted to appear easy. I reassure them by telling them "I don't care if you are a 304, as long as your my 304" It works wonders. I have this woman who I asked out. She tells me her situation of no car, and bought a home and she is closing on the home and once that is done she will let me know" I tell her "Look, tell me no its cool. I will treat you the same. Be honest." The more I pushed her to say no the more she doubled down and kept on saying "Please I have to take care of this and I will let you know" I followed up after month. Same situation. But had other 304 trying to holla. I am gonna move on unless she comes in with a better counteroffer. I have another bro throwing interest at her but seems she is leaning towards me more than thirsty fabio competitor. When you come from a place of confidence not of thirst women respect it more. If you come from a begging, thirsty type she will friendzone you quick.

[@lawrences2541]

I agree everyone else is like do the takeaway or give an ultimatum. But u never know she might wanna give u sum but you asked her out on her cycle days. Or she might be still dating someone else and u not the main priority. You cant just get butthurt cuz u randomly ask a girl out n she has other stuff goin on. If you continue to date other women she might ask u out and youll have to say Im busy that night but we can try again some other time that is powerful

[@NoName-zb1gm]

If it's someone you've been talking to and you should have a little comfort level with each other and she says maybe just walk away. It's probably best in every situation to walk away.

[@algrande2841]

Nah. Take it away or on read. You seem busy, let me know when your available. Because my time is valuable

[@temaye7327]

Exactly bro

[@davenchi799]

Facts

[@KeyMarrFit]

I texted this girl yesterday and asked her out. She said she was going out to skating then she said I’ll text you after. Then later on she said I might be playing with my friends tonight but illyk that’s what exactly what she said. She also said she was gonna text me or call me in a couple hours but she didn’t cooperate at all. Tbh tho I ain’t say nothing to her. What I should had done is that I should’ve said lmk when you free cause that easier for woman to put you in your place. But in reality I feel like this woman has no respect for me number 1 she lied to me said she was gonna call me in a couple hours and then what.

[@oscargonza2748]

If this chick liked you she would have cancelled any plans she had that day to be with you, never trust a chick that makes you jump through hoops just to hangout with her, bruh

[@SiriusLeeMusic]

True! 💯

[@lostandfounddatingchannel9578]

#SiriusLee Absolutely!

[@leonardogajdasic]

Dude comeback with videos

[@supersonic118boi8]

Dont wait for her to text you back because it wont happen. Girls get a million notifications a day especially if your texting on tinder. Make sure your following up with them ASAP so you can get the date.

[@ucfj]

No great relationship ever came out of "I'll let you know"

[@DONMADDENDOESITALL]

I just asked the girl next door on a date and she hit me with the old I'll let you know and I said ok cool and we both went in our own apartment and I was going to go to the club but I decided to stay home last night

[@markdepaor4956]

V useful

[@djj6547]

What if it's an ex bf n.weve been talking for a bit n I mention I'm gonna be in his area wen week before says he has no plans I mentioned catching up goin for a walk he says "cool I'll let u know, not sure I'll be home" what is that?? Should take it at his word or is he blowing me off???

[@valeriaswanne]

Because he followed it with "not sure if I'll be home" I'm more inclined to take him at his word... but only once.

[@freakinccdevilleiv380]

9:16 Exactly. Every kind of action can be interpreted as "alpha" or "beta".

[@TheodorusRex]

Sage advice - I agree.

[@berrybestlifestyle9188]

Great advice…is it ever okay to reach back out and ask for a date once more a couple weeks later if she doesn’t get back to you!?

[@oscargonza2748]

NO!!!!!! You'll look thirsty, let her get back to you no matter if you haven't her from her, bruh

[@gccbas]

That's what makes a man sexier....having an abundance mentality...separates men from boys.

[@freakinccdevilleiv380]

The only thing that matters is abundance. If that kind of disrespectful bullshit occupies ypur mind for more than a couple seconds, it means you just don't have options. Seek abundabce and high interest women guys.

[@malikid1000]

What do I do if the girl keeps texting me after she says I’ll let you know

[@somerealnews6312]

wondering the same thing

[@malikid1000]

@@somerealnews6312 corey wayne says to text her back and forth for a little bit and then tell her you've got to go as you're busy. I just text her at night and say Ive got to go sleep as its a nice way to end the convo without it being awkward. You don't want to ignore her texts cuz that shows your butthurt.

[@malcolmeatman-goode8201]

Stop testing her. Phones are for setting dates. Nothing else. Build mystery. Remember you are a very busy alpha male that doesn’t have time to chit chat throughout the day. The other bonus is that she will automatically perceive you as more attractive simply because she doesn’t know what your doing. Good luck.