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[@LaChocolatScorpio]

You’re turning me into a proper lady over here! Done taught me how to wash my pits, walk in heels, sit, and bend over properly! Whew! 😂 My KZbin auntie! 💛

[@rochellenurse2366]

Yes!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯

[@maryannhenderson662]

We love you too!

[@faith6575]

I have never laughed so hard at the “what-not-to-do examples.” 😂😂 This was really a gem Fumi, I absolutely loved it. Single ladies out there, a quality man will recognize your manners, and other people as well. Always stay and be ready.

[@hanmulungi9823]

i thought ts me🤣🤣🤣

[@dorneltutorials]

She’s effortlessly gorgeous and funny 😂

[@simonemorgan1070]

I laughed so hard it's not funny, tears came to my eyes. Aunt Fumi gives it to them good and proper as Caribbean would say. I've seen some bad manners by people who claimed to be of a certain class.

[@saudatumuhammad7153]

You so great ful

[@saudatumuhammad7153]

Thanks

[@Brikapri]

Mama, I’m 29 years old and have NEVER been taught how to be lady - like. Unfortunately, my mother rested in masculinity, as she was a single hardworking Mother and while I will always honor her, I extremely appreciate these lessons from you. Thanks immensely & I love you Mama Fumi!❤️💕💐

[@teacherturnedhomesteader7368]

That's sweet

[@reirei7851]

She may not have taught you some lady like things, but she taught you how to be a strong independent lady 😉 cheers 🥂 to your momma.

[@Brikapri]

@@reirei7851 Yes ma’am❤️

[@ruthhillary9507]

being an hardworking single mother doesnt limit u of being a lady my mum was one for 25yrs but u need to see her? shes such a lady

[@josephinesybers9981]

I feel you on this. I am 29 years old. Growing up my mom taught me how to sit straight no slumped shoulders. Other than that I learned by watching princess diaries when they were teaching Mia how to sit correctly.

[@lavieestbelle6068]

I am 41 now and I am learning to be a lady. Thank you Fumi, you are amazing.

[@marjorjorietillman856]

This is EXTREMELY important, because I observe so many young women, who look like they’ve never been taught how to be ladylike. You teach great common sense classes. The dress is flawless! I can’t stress enough how needed this class is. Thank you, FUMI!😀

[@moinmemphis1072]

This woman is the epitome of style and class!

[@AvaLynn85]

If we look around us, we see a lot of masculinity in the world. Which can then become our only perspective of how to behave and what to do, how and when. That's why these channels teaching us how to be feminine women are so important. We are taught to get it like a man everywhere we look. We need these videos. Thanks Fumi. ❤️

[@mzlo2057]

Have you noticed that the vloggers say "hi GUYS"...we are ladies gentlemen sons and daughters! I am a lady

[@wendyquick5694]

@@mzlo2057 You are so right. I correct people that say that to me or the women I am with. We are not guys and do Not care to be addressed as such. It is more than a figure of speech now and is misused too often.

[@zainababdulmajeed9931]

As a girl child who grew up amongst six brothers, I completely agree with you...

[@AvaLynn85]

@@mzlo2057 So true.

[@agbor89]

@@mzlo2057was q😊

[@hiawathia81]

Pt 2 Getting in and out of a car with a dress Selecting the right utensils at fine dining I loved it, some great reminders especially the bending down.

[@florakabby367]

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[@florakabby367]

KK

[@mydestiny84]

Oh good idea

[@KeyrahAyana]

Fumi, I am an older woman in my fifties and I find it so refreshing that there are ladies out there who treasure being ladylike. I remember my mother telling me you are not dressed without your hand bag or a little lipstick. Keep educating us on the proper etiquette in this society.

[@estellag1464]

May I comment that - you are not old.

[@truezladye1893]

Not forgetting to have enough taxi fare on you to get home, just incase.

[@TVal-ob2eh]

Thank you for the addition Had no idea I had to put on atleast a little lipstick

[@sadie4289]

You not old someone in thers 50s are not considered old

[@vuyelwagxoko1266]

I am 60 but I don't believe I am old I still believe I am young. No wonder why I still looks 30ty at my age. Age it's just a number.

[@dzifahbethel1745]

I love how this Woman laughs 😂😂😂😂it's infectious 😂😂😂God bless her am really learning at lot😌

[@MrSincerity88]

You have a few extra sons around here, too :-) I just appreciate your energy. Your videos keep me company as I work. I also live alone and my mom is very sick. So I like having your energy radiate through my phone. So thank you, Mrs. Fumi.

[@FumiDesaluVold]

Awwwwwwwwww, I’m so sorry your mother is sick my darling son. 💔 Please send her my love and I’m so Proud of you taking care of her. 💛 And you’re absolutely right, I’m going to do a fabulous episode for all of my cyber sons. And or let let me know what you would like me to do. Sending you a BIG sunshine ⛅️ Love u. 💙💙💙👋🏽🥹☺️

[@registeredtrademark...3852]

@MrSincerity88: praying for you and your mother...

[@islandgirl9479]

@@FumiDesaluVold The Cabo 6 all have been Extradited to Mexico as of today yeahhhh.

[@xenakaii]

Blessings and healing to your Mom!

[@angelaboateng5287]

I was watching with my son n I thought this comment was cute. Speedy recovery to ya mum.

[@MsScoobysnak]

Love you for teaching these lessons. As a young woman (I'm now 61) I was taught all of this in school! Yes, school. As the years have rolled on, comportment/etiquette lessons were taken out of the classroom. I see the lack of social training all around me and I find it irritating. Especially with my young African American women. One of my pet peeves, is seeing a woman (young or old) entering a room LOUDLY, drawing attention to herself. Thank you Fumi for todays lesson. Keep it up!!! You are loved here in Indiana.

[@ookies]

Young woman

[@natasha2598]

Absolutely LOVE that dress and the color. It also looks “ fuller figure “ flattering. Thank you.

[@TheSandrafabian]

I have to say I was very fortunate I was taught to be a feminine and classy lady from a very young age. I love feeling feminine and being a lady. I’ve taught some friends and some of my kids’ friends. And Fumi, you’re right and hilarious! I’ve seen all the “what not to do’s. You’re making laugh so hard!!

[@wendyquick5694]

Greetings from Philadelphia PA, USA. Wow, Fumi! You left no stone unturned! These etiquette lessons are so needed nowadays. Thank you for sharing your well rounded knowledge. It was a great refresher course for me too from the lessons my mother taught me and my sister. Job well done, Sis!

[@buttercup24616]

Fellow Philadelphian, hey @Wendy Quick, hey Fumi

[@quiantebrown5195]

Hey my fellow Philly sisters 👋🏾 glad to find you here. 💗☺️

[@rochellenurse2366]

Yes Sis! I'm in Jersey and was in the Debutante Cotilion, all the etiquette classes are on point! I'm in my 50's and this generation doesn't know a thing about being a lady, or even simple etiquette. Thank you! 🌺❤️🙏🏾💯

[@alvinabrown7886]

#PHILLY

[@alvinabrown7886]

Maybe the ladies of Philly can get together and put our lessons to good use?

[@5x7m]

Thank you Femi for these wonderful tips and reminders of manners, etiquette, posture and femininity! ❤ I think women and girls should get in the habit of wearing more simple dresses and skirts to school, work, store and in every aspect of life which will help retain the lessons of physical femininity when bending, sitting, stepping or entering out of a car and with walking. Whenever I wear a dress especially non bodycon dresses men respond more positively.

[@evelynkumako5718]

Aunty Fumi, so far one of best videos from you, thank you so and the examples werw hilarious 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤭❤️

[@nomsankosi51]

​@@evelynkumako5718 no

[@cusegurl66]

YEEEEEES SIS! As a graduate of Ophelia Devore, I commend you, you did everything I was taught. One thing I wanted to add, I am banquet server, and one thing that drives me crazy is open seating dinner parties. Ladies, I understand that people want to pick and reserve their seat. Please don't tip the chair forward over the table. 1 that is so dangerous for servers, we look up the majority of the time, and we can miss those chair legs sticking out, and we can be badly injured. 2 it makes the room look horrible. If you and your party want to claim a seat, just take the napkin from the table, and drape the napkin on the back of the chair. Thank you sister for teaching this. Oh I wanted to add about the sucked in tummy. IT TAKES PRACTICE! But once mastered it helps so much with posture. Ladies all those poses she taught you, and a sucked in stomach you'll always look elegant, and you will never take a bad unexpected picture again. ❤️😘❤️😘❤️

[@aissathompson8804]

Wow I remember has a teenager I attended one of the fashion event that the school gave. It was amazing.

[@omonzejiepatience4113]

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[@tolulopequadri]

I'm new here but I can say that I love this woman 🥰. Her demonstrations and laughter are everything that has made me join the train 😂🥰. And now I’m saying, yes, it's time to pick up being a fabulous queen again. Thank you, mama Funmi❤. Love from Nigeria.

[@beatsdontstop305]

This was hilariously explained 😊😂🤣🤣

[@EbonyRivers1]

Just beautifully demonstrated, Fumi, as only you can!❤

[@ahtley2]

I love you , and I’m so glad you are here to educate these young ladies on proper etiquette and manners , I’m a 69 year out that was taught these things as a young girl, but when I tell the young ladies these things they think I’m being old fashion.! Now can you teach them how to address each other properly and not as bit****chs and Who***ars, thank you in advance

[@marjorjorietillman856]

I agree also! Women use to rebel against those names, especially when the rappers first started calling women those names. However, women adopted the attitude, that if you can’t beat them, join them. Now BW started accepting all those terrible names for themselves. But I’m a firm believer that you become who you keep saying you are. I believe if you repeat that you’re a Ho and a Bitch enough, you will began to demonstrate some of those traits! Because we become who we say, we are! Words carry the power to create and manifest things. Anyway, Fumi’s teachings are so needed nowadays!!☺️👍🏽

[@TheSandrafabian]

That happens to me too- some young girls think I’m too old fashioned and some older ones I think I’m all too “delicate” and need to relax and “live.”

[@tashnahtv6098]

I see you doing this and am reminded of my home economics teacher, who taught me to be a lady. I never forgot any of it. The left hand over is new to me though. I learnt something new today and can't wait to see the dinner table etiquette. Thank you.

[@gladysnjeri7098]

😂😂😂 Excuse me! Am here am here! Oh my goodness it's chaos! Fumi you are a great actress!

[@sherekaregina9196]

Love this so much. I'm home alone sick with COVID was kind of down because of it and then Fumi twerks😂😂😂😂😂 exactly what my aunties would have done if they were still with us! Thank you Fumi for being the family we miss and need❣️

[@rosedarkoa6310]

Aunt Fumi you're a whole mood! And a good actress. I laughed throughout the whole video.

[@mariemontana2678]

Can I just say that I am loving Auntie Fumi’s Charm school?!?!🌹

[@Bloominglotus19]

Thank you for addressing the needs of Fumi-nation. You are indeed the embodiment of style and character. At 53 - soon to be 54 - I enjoyed the lesson, even though you were addressing your daughters.

[@violetmatabaro8656]

Thanks Fumi..i have liked and enjoyed your demonstration so true and very hilarious.

[@MsKyraification]

Oh Sis, I love it here!🥰🤩I just discovered your channel, and love how you teach with such style and grace and it's greatly needed. I have so many videos to catch up on. Thank you!

[@rejubi-minkaokose6836]

I haven't laughed this hard in a while! The "what not to do" had me rolling! Thank you so much, Fumi!

[@laquicehall6415]

🤣🤣 Me too, I'm goofy so it was easy for me to laugh.

[@abigailomotayo5710]

Make my day

[@efemaselino2573]

Same here, couldn't cease laughter.😂

[@selectiveoutrage6617]

I've seen all of this information before BUT I have never seen advice to 'advertise' if you are single or married. I wish more men would show their wedding rings -- so I could ignore them!

[@ADayWithDeeDee]

This is valuable information! My mom taught me the importance of etiquette when I was a little girl and when I went to University my peers thought I was from a wealthy family because of the way I carried myself. I grew up in one of the poorest city within one of the poorest states in the U.S. Having good etiquette has not only gotten me noticed but also gotten me great business opportunities. Looking forward to your next video. ❤

[@TaushaTW]

I had to do physical therapy. That’s not the proper way to squat/bend down. No matter what you do, don’t let your knees go past your toes.

[@eunicelefty9835]

It's your laughter for me it's contagious...♥️♥️♥️ from Kenya You fun and informative at the same time

[@ArtsyLadyCrafter]

Charm Class is what you're teaching. Much needed! Your laughter and your hilarious commentary on what NOT to do will help me to remember your lesson. Thanks for sharing! 👍🏽

[@jennifere9031]

Love you Auntie Fumi! This is a beautiful service to offer the world with these kind of videos dropping much needed knowledge to so many girls and women. I have a wonderful mom and I already knew this but I know so many do not have the opportunity to learn from a mom or mother figure. I support you 1 MILLION PERCENT! Stay Blessed :)

[@jaddah52]

Thanks for these reminders aunty Fumi.

[@Nollugs5111]

Totally agree!☺️

[@rosiean9064]

I'm currently living in a country where women are very masculine. It's refreshing to see content like this on KZbin. I always try to be as ladylike as possible ♡ I love being feminine and will not let anyone shame me for being that.

[@roki5337]

you went all out to show us not only how to appear correctly but to show us what we look like when we are not correct. Eye opening for some I am sure.

[@morimotosan1]

Fumi, you have arrived right on time to show this new generation how to behave like a lady. I absolutely live and love for you. Thank you 🙏

[@aramideugbomeh]

😀 I love this, it was done with so much +ve vibes. Bending down the right way doesn't only help you look chic, it prevent unnecessary spillage 😀 at the front.

[@beckybrer5278]

Guys who thinks this lady's tone of laughter is funny, it makes mi laugh too 😆 😄 😂 🤣

[@adowasheila1747]

Love it. I learned a lot from you ❤. I bet your husband laughed a lot while holding ur camera 😂😂😂

[@hellenchepy772]

I thought the same😅😅

[@Tfolife528]

Fumi I can’t wait to order the colored slips! I love taking total care of myself!

[@ellachima]

Thank you mommy 😊 for this u are so amazing I love you 😘❤️

[@shataditswai2673]

I was waiting for this long time finally is here ,I love I live it 🤩❣️💖❤️from South Africa 🇿🇦🇿🇦

[@noziphoshongwe9523]

I'm here too sis.🇿🇦🇿🇦

[@yvetteowens6467]

love the dress

[@virginianaomiofficial]

I REALLY LOVE YOU MY BEAUTIFUL AUNTY FUMI.MAY GOD BLESS YOU WITH LONG LIFE❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️FROM KENYA!!!

[@patriciajohnson9299]

I’ll be so much more aware of my behavior while at Lunch with my Girlfriends or my Husband after this refresher course on being a “Lady”. Thank You!❤️

[@marionedwards7234]

I love it how Fumi explains things

[@I_am_agirlfromtheislands]

Loving your life lessons over here in Montreal! Keep these nuggets coming Fumi. I learned and laughed with your demonstration you are such a positive, engaging person. Love you 🧡🧡🧡

[@sandradavis6356]

Fuming:. You may not realize it, but you are showing some young women how to be ladies. When I saw the horrible video about the attack to poor Shanquella Robinson, I said to myself: "who is this beast!?". The girl clearly had no home training. What you are doing by teaching the many women who were never tought manners, is invaluable. Thank you so much. 😍

[@shopece8807]

Just came here to make sure I was already doing it right lol. Especially because I stay dropping my phone in the office. Phew!

[@natiesown]

Thank youuu mama Fumi! This is the etiquette lesson I didn't know I needed! Absolutely love this!x💕

[@rejoizree6293]

Hahaha... Auntie Funmi this is one of the most fantastic episodes ever! You got me laughing hard! Thank you for teaching us 🙂🤣

[@jenipherdiaries]

Ohhhh my goodness ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️. I needed this Mum Fumi. You're a humorous teacher,I must say. Fabulous 💥. Here to stay. Thank you so much❤️❤️❤️. I would like to see an episode on how to manage and rock in 4 C ( African natural)hair in a Black minority country. I don't like wigs . Thank you 🙏🏾

[@ChatsWithChris]

Funds are really tight I’m sorry I can’t give more at the moment. Thank you Fumi for being such a wonderful person. The world is a better place because of you. God bless you and your loved ones.

[@kay3-q8d]

Like I grew up with money and a classy mom but still don’t know everything I should. Either way, these videos ARE SO GOOD AND FUNNY I love this women😭 she makes my day with her energy!!!!

[@mrs.keturah9274]

Auntie Fumi looks stunning! Thank you so much for sharing this wonderful information.

[@theactualizationagent]

Thank you Big Sis Fumi for adressing "THE KNEES". I was getting a little worried prior to the demonstration. 😜

[@ChatsWithChris]

Can I just tell you as someone who has two dead beat parents you teaching the basics is the most generous gift I’ve ever received. The kindness grace positivity and love that you put into these videos is truly a gift. I always leave your videos feeling healed. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

[@sherei9530]

So sorry for your past. Blessings to you for finding a behavior mentor

[@GodlovesU307]

She'll really appreciate your comment 😊 So sweet!

[@Bethany5957-k8t]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 oh my, fumi.. I just love you, thank you for making me laugh and learn at the same time.... And aaaaw,☺️😍 at 18:26 that was smoooth 💜💙💜

[@venichhuntley4945]

Luv you fumi ....thanks for you educating us jamaica 🇯🇲 😘

[@deborahevans5146]

My goodness Fumi Thank you for bringing half slips back as a senior I like a slip on with my dresses.❤️

[@terrells8848]

Madame Fumi, I am going to step out and say this. We (men) watch you also, so we know what to look for when we out and about.

[@ruvimbopasi6214]

7:25 had me😂😂🔥. As a girl with a little junk I'm the trunk. Yes I'm definitely not tryna twerk whilst picking things up

[@abosedeg4806]

you just got me laughing over here when you were greeting Mama Ikebe! 🤣

[@desireesmeets683]

Your vlog just popped up. I never comment but I have to say I like your way of presenting your thoughts and ideas very much. Just like Stephanie Jarvis from chateau diaries.

[@roki5337]

You went all out.... almost lost your phone over the edge too. Thank you for the full display. Love this color on you as well!

[@dianaterry7854]

I've just laugh the whole episode 🤣 😂 thanks dear mumy ❤❤🥰

[@roki5337]

This was lovely thank you! My mother taught me this at a young age but she passed when I was 23.

[@mitzysweeting4845]

I am just watching this. Thanks Mama Fumi. Yaweh Bles you!

[@jearleanjohn9737]

Fumi you have found success because your videos are not packed with nonsense and content which is not in sync with practical living. You speak to women’s issues, concerns and insecurities… You are a Sister…

[@spiritkeen3521]

Oh wow😂, Great job, I must say. Thank you so much for this video.

[@Mekdi_]

You’re gorgeous.

[@lirahdickson2686]

I am learning a lot from you Fumi, I can now walk in heels because of that video you made…now um gonna practice what you just taught us…thank you and I love you 😘😘

[@littlbbygl29]

Hello beautiful sister fumi I just came to show you love and appreciation. Thank you for sharing and educating us on how to be our best self. 💛💋

[@dorisrashna8273]

Christina was just chilling 😂😂😂 Anyways love you mommy ❤❤❤

[@rethablair6902]

Thank u Fumi💚 I didn't have anyone to teach me these things when I was younger🤗

[@shakilaakinyi1629]

You are a definition of a sophisticated classy woman.Thank you.

[@derikanolen8201]

I have no family and I’m a girl but in my masc side never taught feminine grace will u teach love u Fumi

[@Tfolife528]

Not to let the singletons? ! Advertising I’m single and ready to mingle! Yes!

[@anw1437]

Yessss! I have been working with my 6 year old twins (boy/girl) since they were 4 with etiquette lessons. These lessons are PRICELESS. Thank you, Fumi!!

[@mamencaable]

My goodness, it’s a pity that I can only give ONE LIKE in videos like this.

[@beatsdontstop305]

Thanks for sharing. You look so beautiful. I had a purple dress structured like yours over 10 years ago. I wore it a lot 😂 until I forced myself to get rid of it after I took pics in it

[@dylanromney6144]

MANNERS ! DISCIPLINE ! & ETIQUETTE FOREIGN TO AMERICA THESE CHILDREN ARE DRAGGED UP NOT BROUGHT UP ????

[@ToyaG86]

There was a show on the BBC a good few years ago, titled "Ladette to Lady".Etiquette class is in session! Thank you Fumi, we need more of these videos. Good table manners, would be a good one.

[@ToyaG86]

Thanks for the ❤️ @Fumi,do you know the show I'm talking about? Rosemary Shrager the chef,was one of the host. Completely transformed those girls.

[@britjj5126]

That's show was entertaining! Seeing the "ladette" behaviour was eye opening😭

[@Tfolife528]

The smoothing the dress is so important. I’ve been caught exposed a few times. It’s so embarrassing. However, I know now. ❤

[@Stephanieiyaye]

I love love love this color of your Dress😍 it’s beautiful ma’am 😘😘😘 I absolutely love your sit down videos

[@milliemi4759]

I absolutely love you!!! This is great info! Thank you so much for teaching/reinforcing etiquette 🥰. I definitely took notes AND practiced. It truly makes a difference in how you are viewed 😊

[@waleskagracia4891]

Sis Fumi I’m a 63 years young woman who enjoys taking care of myself. Self- care gives me confidence wherever I am, under any situation, and makes me feel good. That said, I’ve noticed that the ladies of younger generations amongst my family and friends are somewhat lackadaisical about their presentation. These same ladies all have Mamas that have never taken the time to teach their daughters how to practice self-care. Could you do an episode about the benefits of self-care, and presenting yourself in the best way. Especially for younger ladies starting out in their chosen careers, and starting to date more established, professional people?

[@85amil]

Fumi!!!! The examples of what people do and what we see (all real and true!) had me laughing 😂😂😂 It’s so true! It’s a lot of bad habits and we think it “whatever” or “who cares” because it’s so quick and no one saw… um we all see and have the thoughts in our head and end up discussing said person be it at a next table or a phone call later. The phone one I hate when ppl have their phone on so loud and act so startled when it rings and have to run out to the side like it’s an emergency it never is. Coulda be said in a text. Please continue to do these videos and if you haven’t already make a collection on your page.

[@lilianphillp1406]

My Africa ladys all you all should come over here and listen

[@lokieec.r.p.swarrior8740]

EEK‼ You are giving me memories of "Etiquette class" my mom made me go every other Saturday for a year. The class and her made me memorize the list of basic but now I just do it like muscle memory. This is my list : Act and Look Your Best Do Not Embarrass Others Be Punctual Do Not Criticize or Complain Speak with Kindness and Caution Listen Before Speaking Don’t be Boastful, Arrogant or Loud Give Genuine Compliments Say “Thank You” Be yourself - and allow others to treat you with respect 😁

[@maryflorenceangiro6276]

The African me related with most of the jokes. 😂

[@Peacerojacob]

Thank you momma for this. I've been doing the posture things so wrong 🤦 I'm always like nobody is looking at me , oh goodness me 🤦 I love you so much mama ♥️♥️♥️🥰

[@dragon_empress_1]

As a child growing up in the Caribbean my mother would teach me these rules and she would say " You have to have some brought-up-sy or people would think you fell from a breadfruit tree." It was silly but it worked. Now I teach my son good manners so he will recognise a real lady and know how to treat her.

[@ruthabigaild.nehemie6748]

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[@missadventure3397]

Fumi, you had me cracking up at some of the faux pas at the restaurant! 😂🤣 Thank you so much for this video. I always have always room for growth.

[@janepherkakama4618]

Very common mistakes we make and never notice🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@SWGA.SickleCellAwareness]

I love the knee technique to pick up something because sometimes my knees gives out. Thank you Sis 😊💓

[@julielarson3107]

That dress is beautiful on you! Thank you for the fabulous tips!

[@victorygideon6711]

hello am new here ma and I love your charisma and skin well done aunty.

[@moniquepope5925]

My Auntie Fumi. Thank you for being an inspiration ✨ 💕

[@tekanomatsoso66]

I love your videos Fumi, your energy and the way you explain everything Keep the good work 😊