How to Soften New Growth when Stretching Relaxers | Relax hair

Hello everyone; welcome back!!! Today I’ll be sharing with you guys how I soften my new growth when stretching relaxers.
I typically go about 12 weeks between relaxers but have gone even more that once upon a time & it was a disaster; I didn’t know what to do to soften my new growth, until I discovered this routine I’m sharing with you guys today.
Here are some other things you can do to soften your new growth
1. Do Deep conditioning
2. Use your daily leave in conditioner ( never leave the hair dry & focus it more on the demarcation line between new growth & straight hair.
3. Put the hair in a protective style. Less manipulation = less tangle = less breakage.
Hang in there girl, I hope this helps 🤞
Let me know what tips are helping you at this time. Xoxo 😘
#healthyrelaxedhair #howtosoftennewgrowth #hairtutorial #hairjourney
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[@iamdanie_.]

That's kinda the reason why I rather learn to do things to my hair myself.. most salons just want to get the job done and collect the money. Nothing to do with the well being of the person or their hair.

[@NaomiEsegine]

Totally 💯💯 so right. Thanks for watching ❤️

[@tsebomahao4229]

Absolutely. They are also haters of note

[@NaomiEsegine]

😂😂 you’re so right

[@temiladeization]

I feel you sis. Last year, I waited 6 months to relax my hair and never again... Now, I just relax every 4 months

[@NaomiEsegine]

Oh thank you so much for watching dropping a comment, I really appreciate you. Happy Sunday ❤️

[@charlotteclark2207]

I stretch my relaxers as well. I get one every 3 to 4 months that way I give my hair time to strengthen between relaxers.

[@NaomiEsegine]

Yesss that’s so important 💯 I wish more people with relaxed hair know this. I’ve been stretching my hair four months now.

[@alegbesogieimose8293]

I love your hair and all the information you’re sharing are quite helpful. Keep up the good work

[@NaomiEsegine]

Thank you so much

[@thandolwethushandu5732]

This was so informative thank you🌹

[@NaomiEsegine]

Thanks for watching ❤️

[@abalokeharbor3769]

I really love this video! Thank you for showing how to manage née growth! For someone that stretches her relaxers for 5-6 months, I really didn’t know how to do this. Really helpful.

[@NaomiEsegine]

I’m glad you found it helpful. I Wish you lots of success in your hair journey. ❤️❤️

[@user-cx2jo9yw9c]

Love your videos..well detailed and thank you for sharing

[@NaomiEsegine]

Thank you too for watching. I really appreciate you!

[@ThePatriciaPatrick]

So informative. Thank you for sharing. When I used to be relaxed, I will relax every 6 weeks. Been natural for almost 9 years and want to go back to relaxers. I have been learning that all I did back then was soooo wrong.

[@NaomiEsegine]

I’m happy you found it helpful. Thank you for watching ❤️ I wish you a successful transition & an amazing relaxed hair journey.

[@ingoditrust1543]

Thank you so so much. This worked perfectly for my hair. Now I will be able to stretch my hair longer and it will solve a problem I have had for years. God bless you for taking the time to do this.

[@NaomiEsegine]

You’re so welcome ❤️ thank you for watching.

[@wendy7915]

I. Can't wait for my relaxed hair to get to this length 😭

[@NaomiEsegine]

Oh it will hun 😊 just keep doing what you’re doing, taking good care of your hair & length will follow eventually 💯💯

[@NaomiEsegine]

Hello everybody 👋🏽 thank you so much for watching today’s video. I hope you enjoyed it. Please like this video & let me know other things you are doing to help soften your new growth at this time 👇🏽👇🏽xo 💋💋💋

[@oliviachukwu]

I got me a kantu moisturiser. It really helps 😘

[@NaomiEsegine]

Oh wow; that’s great. I’ve heard a lot of good things about that product. Thanks for watching & dropping a comment 🙏

[@kehindeesegine1093]

Ì already have new growth and it's frustrating. I'll try this your routine

[@NaomiEsegine]

That’s good. You should. Thanks for watching

[@chery0071]

Brilliant

[@NaomiEsegine]

Thank you 🙌🏾

[@sayitloudblcknproud]

You have a gorgeous head of hair!!!

[@NaomiEsegine]

Thank you so much ❤️

[@YouCanStartLateAndFinish]

Thank you

[@NaomiEsegine]

You’re welcome ❤️ thank you for watching 🙌🏾

[@shalynhollie7367]

Your volume on video is low, however the step by step process is informative. Your information was relevant, this stretching processing is a job and so worth.

[@NaomiEsegine]

Oh I’m so sorry about the volume, but thanks alot for watching & commenting. I really appreciate you 😊

[@melissasilva194]

I stretch relaxers for the most up to 3 months not passed that and NOONE NOT NOONE touches my head! I been doing my own hair for now over 36 years and don't let noone touch it!! I will be ready to kick someone's face in if they dare start pulling and ripping my hair out! A stylist burned my scalp by putting in an relaxer then she left to talk on the damn phone and didn't return for over 30 mins. I was left with bloody bald spots, hair fall wasn't the word for it!! When it started healing, I would scream to put water on it. The scabbing wasn't no joke couldn't wash hair! Since then never ever again!! I do my own and have waist length which I started in 2015 with back of shoulder length and then in 2019 hit waist length.

[@NaomiEsegine]

Wow wow omg; this is simply amazing. I’m so happy for you. You’re such an inspiration to me already. Do you mind if I share this with the community on KZbin?

[@melissasilva194]

@@NaomiEsegine It's no problem at all! I'm glad this helped you. I have pics of my growth that I took each time.

[@NaomiEsegine]

Would you like to share them with me, I’m sure it’ll inspire a lot more people. Here’s my WhatsApp number [phone]

[@sierrab7555]

I don't go to salons, but my mom will straight up YANK my hair to detangle it. She's not even gentle with it, just goes in DRY!!! I swear she does it out of spite because she's jealous that my hair is thick, but also saying she's happy she had thick-haired babies 😂

[@NaomiEsegine]

😂😂😂😂 omg so hilarious. Well now you know how best to care for your hair,even without mom’s help.

[@naomiecavitt]

I relax my hair every 6 months because I have fine hair it’s not a struggle during relaxer time.

[@NaomiEsegine]

Oh that’s really cool. I only wish my hair is was like that. 😊

[@goldenangel6015]

Same here. Notice great results

[@NaomiEsegine]

Amazing

[@reginahardin6377]

Use products protection cream on relaxer hair and new growth just relaxer touch up only.

[@NaomiEsegine]

Thank you so much 🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@yvonnewayman409]

Are you combing the roots, how do you detangle the roots?

[@NaomiEsegine]

I spray water to the roots & apply leave in conditioner: I detangle first with my fingers and wide tooth comb.

[@coolgirls1603]

How do you cope with hair shedding during wash days?

[@NaomiEsegine]

My hair doesn’t shed much at least. I just try my best to be gentle on my hair while washing & detangling.

[@karfeishaolyia9567]

How often do you comb your hair

[@NaomiEsegine]

Anywhere between two to 3days interval

[@tiffanycoty]

Can you list the products you used, I cant see on the video? Thank you

[@NaomiEsegine]

Hello Tiffany thanks for watching. I sprayed some water on my hair, applied megagrowth daily leave-in conditioner & soulmate hair cream.

[@tiffanycoty]

@@NaomiEsegine thanks so much. I ordered the products. I appreciate this video because I get so much new growth & perming too often weakens my hair. I also workout 5 days a week so with the sweat combined ,my hair gets coarse and will break before wash day. Hoping this will help extend!🙏

[@NaomiEsegine]

@@tiffanycoty yes yes I hope it would & you’re welcome ❤️

[@karfeishaolyia9567]

How long did you stretch your hair

[@NaomiEsegine]

For as long as I can until I fee l can no longer manage my undergrowth. This is usually between 3-5 months. Protective styles also help with the stretch.

[@avisouth1640]

Followed this advice and most of my relaxed hair broke off. Horrible! Thanks for the help

[@NaomiEsegine]

Oh my god I’m so sorry that happened to you. But my hair didn’t break off.

[@NaomiEsegine]

This is was one the ways I knew how to care for my new growth as at that time. Now I have also discovered new ways to care for both textures of y hair before I get a touch up. So again I sincerely apologize that you had to loose so much hair.

[@helenaandrey8497]

Suggestion: talk about fast hair growth shampoo to double hair growth.

[@NaomiEsegine]

Thanks alot 🙏

[@mirracleigwebuike8636]

Did u mix the water with anything

[@NaomiEsegine]

You can mix your leave-in conditioner with water 💦

[@Bribrandyn489]

My issue with my new growth is that the front and very back of my head are quite manageable... but the middle?? Oh boy.. it's a jungle there . 11 months post relaxer with straight ends. I deep condition but that middle of my head just refuses to be moisturized. Help!

[@NaomiEsegine]

I’m so sorry I’m just seeing this comment now. I think you see a professional hairstylist, they should be able to look at your hair tell you how best to manage it.

[@mzrose174]

Do you do this everyday when stretching? If not, how often? Do you wash every week?

[@NaomiEsegine]

Hello rose. I do it every time I feel the hair is dry & it needs moisture. How often? Whenever I decided to change the style, I mostly just rock the my hair in center parts so it’s easy for me. I part the hair in sections just to make things easy for me to detangle. I don’t wash weekly. Two weeks I’d say.

[@mirracleigwebuike8636]

Hi , I'm miracle Iruoma and I had a very long hair which was almost to my knee but now it started falling and cutting and now it's not that long and I don't know what to do.

[@NaomiEsegine]

Hello dear; there are so many reasons why your hair might be falling down. Some can be genetics, split ends, tight braids etc. most importantly what is your hair routine like?

[@mirracleigwebuike8636]

How , my mom's hair is very long and she's not in the country now and she won't be happy

[@mirracleigwebuike8636]

How , my mom's hair is very long and she's not in the country now and she won't be happy

[@mirracleigwebuike8636]

I'm in secondary school and I don't usually have time

[@mirracleigwebuike8636]

Now I'm on holidays and I need to do something

[@alenabisam]

I came here because I was searching for solutions about my new growth.. the back of my hair is growing and I'm on natural hair journey.. after stretching my hair and want to part it I saw new growth and I was afraid of losing the long one

[@NaomiEsegine]

Hey girl. I’m not sure what exactly happened? Did you flat iron the hair yourself? It’s possible you didn’t get all the hair. Are you scared of heat Damage?

[@alenabisam]

@@NaomiEsegine I'm not using heat sis I don't visit salons too just using the yarn to stretch it .. and protective styles and wash routine after 1 to 2 months.. I don't use heat at all

[@alenabisam]

@@NaomiEsegine and again my back hair isn't long like the rest could it be it growing because of that reason?

[@NaomiEsegine]

I’m not sure why the back is not growing, most times I think it’s because we don’t exactly see the back of our hair , we tend to neglect it a lil bit, when applying products to hair, make conscious effort to treat the back of your hair with extra care. I usually work in sections when doing anything to my hair, so that no part of my is lacking, moisture, hydration, oils etc.

[@alenabisam]

@@NaomiEsegine ok Sis thanks so much 😍😘

[@Shon9tilR]

I only comb my hair once a week when I put the deep conditioner on.

[@NaomiEsegine]

That’s really nice. I’ll try it

[@cjones4047]

It's easy for me to stretch my hair relaxers because I don't style my hair to be shown outside 🙃

[@NaomiEsegine]

Oh wow that’s really cool. Thank you so much for watching 😊

[@squidanimegirl2k1]

I'm on the fence about this topic. We now know that relaxing 4 or more times a year is linked to cancer. I don't know what to do anymore. 😢

[@NaomiEsegine]

Wow I feel you sis, but how long is your undergrowth, if you don’t want to have your hai relaxed, try doing a lot of protective hairstyles.

[@squidanimegirl2k1]

@@NaomiEsegine My new growth grows really fast. Stretching my relaxer breaks my fine hair off though. I am wearing wigs more which helps with low manipulation. Your hair is so long and healthy. I will be using these tips.

[@NaomiEsegine]

@squidanimegirl2k1 yes it really does. All I do now, is cornrow my hair and wash twice a month and wear my wigs. Thanks a lot for watching ❤️ I wish you all the best with your hair.

[@simplynasa5101]

You need a trim dear. Do asap do that it will not damage your hair

[@NaomiEsegine]

Thank you so much for watching ❤️ I already got a trim.

[@karfeishaolyia9567]

I realize that you dont do tight pony tail

[@NaomiEsegine]

Hi babe; No not very often.

[@MSCURVYSILHOUETTE]

Girl I know what you are talking about. Pure agony. Thatbis why I have been doing my hair myself since I was 14.

[@NaomiEsegine]

Wow! You’re such a inspiration. Thank you so much for watching & commenting ❤️

[@MSCURVYSILHOUETTE]

@@NaomiEsegine aww. Thank you 😊

[@Nottodaygoddamnit]

Hell nah. If I comb my hair wet I’ll be bald

[@NaomiEsegine]

Yh I know that now. But it helps my new growth.

[@irmannelotin7180]

I can feel u. Especially with 4C new growth

[@NaomiEsegine]

I guess that’s why everyone is different & techniques we use is not a size fit all. My undergrowth are definitely more manageable when I spray it with some water, follow up with my leave-in conditioner and seal with oil.