How to Speak Femininely

[@rzanrmg]

2:38 Watch your tone 4:39 Choose tender gentleness 6:18 Say no to vulgarity 8:06 Learn to say no 10:55 Expand your vocabulary 12:31 Be quick to listen & slow to speak Thank you 🥰

[@sabrinab3337]

رزان محمد Thank you!

[@urtoeishot2264]

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[@dreamyanon5151]

رزان محمد thank you

[@nicki8026]

Thanks

[@nisav4124]

Thank u for the summary !

[@rebelrose4934]

She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness. Proverbs 31:26

[@yannahvale99]

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[@Lynn-ip9sh]

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[@sashenkadumerve3017]

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[@zeniawelch5013]

Rebel Rose this scripture is why I came here❤️

[@BobSmith-vq6ni]

Any one click on the time stamp like a retard

[@numberone22459]

I’m not Christian but I really admire how you value your religion and it’s teaching all while respecting everyone’s beliefs. I think that is so elegant and beautiful.

[@JennyOSunshine]

I agree. I love that about her and want to be that way also.

[@yelyc]

I’m so glad you touched on the topic of being tender and gentle when you are SAFE. you’re 110% right this isn’t a utopia there will always be someone with cruel intentions...and safety is always a top priority.💕

[@clararodrigues4852]

I loved her talking about it! there is always someone who sees how polite and kind you are and want to take advantage of it somehow

[@sexytechreviews_]

Yes, very important. An ex tricked me out of my money and I can't help but speak in a very low growl around this person. With new men I sound like bluebirds are circling me.

[@juansmith4408]

This is my customer service voice lmao

[@angellmcintyre9058]

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[@hibaaldubaish9697]

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[@hiyathere599]

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[@ZiggyLu-og3zp]

Rude

[@zfox4743]

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[@saramohammad7713]

In this occasion, we request "feminine body language" video 😊😊😊

[@blessedwifeandmama]

Yes pls!

[@chrizzelle2577]

Yessss!!!

[@tayashley3539]

How to walk. What to do with our hands when listening to someone speak, when both of you are standing. How feet should be positioned while standing. I'm fine while sitting as my body is at rest. An easy knee together hand ontop of the other is natural. However when I stand, I'm fidgeting with my hands and feet and thinking and worrying about if I'm looking ok. Is this hand position ok or does it make me look uncomfortable? Toes out ? Toes straight?

[@kylietaylor396]

Taylor hi Taylor :) Id love to make a few suggestions to help! First, when someone’s speaking to you, a smile and eye contact will radiate femininity and sweetness ☺️ as for hands then, they could be clasped in front of you (in front of your hips for example), or even clasped behind you will give off a very feminine and girly vibe when a man is speaking to you. When you are the one speaking, allow your body to be relaxed and use your hands to gesticulate along with your words, as you see Caitlyn doing in her videos. Just remember, if you feel uncomfortable, people will be too focused on your eye contact and smile/expressions for them to be focused on your hands if you are fidgety ☺️ and in case you are nervous, don’t worry if you do fidget, especially if a guy likes you then seeing you being a bit nervous will be very endearing to him.

[@lisamedla]

@@tayashley3539 I think Cynthia L has made a video on this on her channel. However let me try and help. First when standing avoid standing on both your feet. Now don't keep on shuffling your weight. Learn what feet angles work for you. Express yourself with them, yes there is something like that. As for your hands ideally they should be in front of you. Imagine yourself holding an imaginary clutch infront of you at full arm length. If standing when talking to someone keep in mind that how much of yourself you show it indicates attention (I hope that is understood the way I meant it). In listening eye contact and less movement...or to be honest just pay attention body language will come.

[@osse1n]

*Also, when a woman admires a man, she automatically heightens her voice pitch.* Femininity lies within every woman, it just needs some nurture and cultivating to explore it even more.

[@eliTUNE]

Mine goes lower though. It's the opposite for me. LOLOL

[@nofybn7794]

Wrong. I don't heighten mine. It stays the same.

[@ravioliravioli6168]

True. I notice it too, but my voice also becomes quiter.. which is is annoying because I already speak quietly to begin with.

[@nazs.7303]

What do you mean by high pitch voice?

[@carris3ringcircus390]

When when are Ovulating most voices become a little higher 😄💖

[@oliveb6318]

I was raised and grew up very feminine, classy and friendly. I did notice that some times people men/ women would take my tenderness and femininity as a sign of being "easy" or "dumb". I learned how to be firm and correct them on the spot right away. I am firm when I need to. Could you please do books review and share with us your favorite books?

[@Ruth-AnneKlassen]

Agreed! Would appreciate that as well :)

[@itsmidtrib1569]

Am working on being firm, it’s a hard one for me

[@Shay_TheUnpopularOpinion_]

Can you please shine light on how you get people to take you seriously? Sometimes I have to deepen my voice so people can take me seriously 😒

[@itsmidtrib1569]

You don’t wanna “push” femininity and firmness. It comes out as “b**chy” One big factor in being firm and feminine is not talking too much garbage and nonsense. Talk when you need to and say important things...that way people actually pay more attention when you speak. You also don’t want *attention* you want respect. So do what it takes to be respected...wear proper clothing, respect others, and most of all be a godly woman.

[@MegaLadylove2012]

Bee B I love it, Bee. I feel a lot of us ladies can relate to what you said. Part of tht, which you ans is about using your words to convey tenderness, however, let the gentleness also demonstrate a confidence. I feel ppl can tell the difference between being kind or timid. I also had to learn how to speak gently without coming across this way. One, is to find your voice like clearly pronounce words. Speak with conviction every time while still maintaining a calm tone

[@guesswho5790]

I love how you indirectly address the toxic femininity when we have a hard time setting boundaries and saying no. I've noticed myself dumbing myself down to make people feel better about themselves, and that's not fair to me or to anybody. Once I understood what selfesteem and self care was all about, I've gotten better at not being afraid to show my intelligence and savoir faire. I love channels like this where we can learn how to be strong feminine women.

[@AURIELLA333]

Its about time someone included the being taking advantage part. This has always been my drawback from communicating femininely

[@MrsMidwest]

8D forever, yes we must stay wise and safe! 🌸

[@strawberrycupcake6491]

Same here. I've been told numerous times I need to be more aggressive and not as soft and gentle. Otherwise people dont take me seriously esp in the work place.

[@libertyjo6238]

Nothing is so strong as gentleness, nothing so gentle as real strength. A famous and lovely quote.

[@coffeeismyjam2705]

My grandmother always told me to save cursing for when you really meant it. She almost never cursed unless she was VERY angry (which I only saw once) , and because of that, it had a much more cutting effect when she did. I do this as well 😂

[@kurozukii]

coffeeismyjam People tell me they never hear me cursing but when I do it’s because I am extremely mad and they take me more seriously 😂

[@Lynn-ip9sh]

But even when angry we should take the time to think before a quick reaction. Yelling and cursing never solves any problems if anything its just causes more conflict. Being in the heat of a moment can make us not think properly. Always ask yourself is what I'm about to say, going to help me or the other person in any form.❤️

[@learningwithmisst]

I have never seen my grandmother argue with anyone, not even once in my whole life. May she forever rest in peace. I always thought she made people walk over her, but I only realized how smart she really was when she died.

[@soapy2587]

coffeeismyjam this works on youtubers as well. my favourite youtubers don't curse usually and when they do I'm like 😳😳😳😳😳 and lowkey it's kinda hot

[@Lynn-ip9sh]

@@soapy2587 It lets me down a little bit when a youtuber who usually doesn't use profanity all of a sudden does. I admire people who dont swear because it shows their maturity and wisdom.

[@laurenhill3758]

Slowing down and speaking slower and listening has helped me so much!

[@Its_mso]

Lauren Hill omg same with me :)

[@fabulouss7389]

I am learning that

[@libertyjo6238]

SHE SPEAKS SOOOOOO!!!!BEAUTIFULLY!!!!🌸❤🌸 Isn't it something that our mothers grandmothers great grandmothers etc knew all this deeply and inherently within....but sadly... it's very needed that women hear this now, especially younger generations of women.

[@the7thseven873]

Real Talk. I appreciate and respect any girl who speaks with that type of tenderness, calmness and care. I wouldn't even be able to get angry in a heated discussion, where I know I was obviously wrong. I'll just take the "L" and correct my mistake... It's definitely a trait that many men secretly look for in a woman but don't often find. Nowadays many woman have lost these qualities, it's a shame. I went on a blind date once. I met a girl who acted too much like a guy. Really didn't vibe for me. She was kind and pretty. But... Nahh (For Me.) The behaviour, It doesn't connect. After some time in a ok conversation, dinner and laughing. I just nervously smiled at her and said, "Aight, man. I gotta go." Yes. I actually used the term "Man." 😖 Real Talk it wasn't intentional. I guess My mind just couldn't find any feminine nurturing qualities in her.

[@afearfuljeffrey9478]

The 7th Seven that’s pretty messed up of you

[@the7thseven873]

@@afearfuljeffrey9478 And where did I go wrong there?... Because I said "Aight, Man I'm out." At the end of the date?... She likes to act like a guy so I treated her like a guy. I'm not going to judge her. she can act however she wants to and I will treat her according to her behaviour. Yh, I don't vibe with woman that act like guys, but doesn't mean I don't talk to them and befriend them. But to date, no not my thing. I leave that for for guys that vibe w that. I'm not one of em. Am I therefore wrong for having my own preference regarding woman's behaviour?... People like what they like, and don't what they don't like. She acted like a "Bro" throughout the whole date, so I treat her like a Bro, throughout the whole date. What's the problem? Maybe, by the way how I explained It you thought I left in the middle of the conversation and said: "Aight' Man I'm Out." No, I did not leave her hanging. We finished the blind date and I went my way. So how is that, as you put it: "Messed up of me." please, explain.

[@sistersalima6829]

As a muslim woman, I really appreciate your channel. Thank you for being you ❤

[@Youtubeuser156]

Tiffany Serina exactly ❤️

[@sincerelydrfaten3777]

Yes ❤❤

[@sistersalima6829]

@@Anson-x no I have always been a muslim alhamdoulilah and you?

[@autumnspring6624]

Tiffany Serina As a muslim woman, you would appreciate this video on youtube titled: Three Quran Verses Every Woman Should Know

[@lawangeen4440]

@@autumnspring6624 No one in their right mind is to listen to a person who is so intolerant of other religons and bashes them just to prove that my faith is the absolute correct one . Thankyou ,but no .

[@ambuyalozen9332]

"Tone of voice isn't very life-giving". Wow, that really summed up the power of communication femininely. That's so well put. Great video.

[@lovemamahouse]

Hey, I’m a muslim and you have done really great work mrs midwest. I love it! Keep going.

[@querenm3303]

I'm sooo reactive and sometimes even aggressive...God knows how I'm trying to change. Thanks for the tips

[@vkdeen7570]

trying to change is an admirable quality

[@xoxogemvenus]

Queren M you got this. It will just click one day. 🥰

[@yunosogasii6200]

Me too girl

[@oneilanelson9231]

Same here. I always bark first then ask question wks later or months because I keep things for very long but I want to start work on it

[@Jennifahh]

Same!!

[@laylac]

Can you do a video on how to cultivate patience? ❤️

[@blessedwifeandmama]

Pretty Pls !!

[@danieneit6830]

That's a good topic!!

[@dbnd2240]

@laylac - going through infertility for 6.5 years cultivated so much patience in me.

[@Lolamola333]

DBND try dr sebi suplements .. i think they will help

[@Candellina]

I cannot thank God enough for such an encouragement like you. I don't hear women talk about this topic, and it is a very important subject that I, myself, need. I grew up with very sweet brothers, but I still didn't have many feminine role models in my life. As I grew up, I felt insecure and afraid of being called girly and that masculine behavior was the only rational way to act. I believed that enjoying feminine projects and hobbies were impractical and not important. Thankfully, I now have learned how femininity has such importance and power in this world; feminity has so much influence in culture, society, and relationship connections. I am honored to be a female created by God and am passionate to explore even more of the feminity with which God has gifted me.

[@et5895]

I 100% agree with all of this. I wish it had more views. I'm tired of being the only woman that embraces her own femininity. When did it become a bad thing to be a woman? I've felt very alone but it's nice to find videos like this and know that I'm not the only woman that feels as if femininity is important. One of the keys to life. It's what balances the world. So do men. We have our own roles and we should embrace them! Great video!

[@mluna1898]

So true!

[@mr.worldwide4758]

@@homosexualitymydearwatson4109 You do you, OP does OP. Thats the great thing about our modern times, we can do what we want, and have our own values. Personally I love being feminine.

[@lovely2056]

I’ve become an aggressive communicator and need to be softer. Thank you for the tips!!! I never realized the difference tone plays

[@chozen2sang]

I needed this video. Being in a competitive career and in pursuit of entrepreneurship can cause you to navigate communication in all arenas of life with an overtly assertive tone and defensive ear. Om truly feminine in appearance, but I can definitely be softer in communicating my needs and desires within a relationship. Thank you for this video.

[@diouranke]

That must be tough! but I'm glad you strike a balance unfortunately, in this society some people view femininity as weakness. I struggle with dealing w the world as an independent woman and not being' ran over' but still being feminine in my tone.

[@emilysha418]

This is a mood. My tone works great in a meeting, a presentation, or a pitch but it messes up my personal life! Wishing you well 💕

[@dis_appointed8626]

Femininity is the naturalization of female subordination

[@rabbitholerMe]

I appreciate what you are saying and I find myself behaving similarly. But I just wanted to say, you are gorgeous!

[@Paola-jf2qf]

I love that you highlighted, a moment to pause. That is very important especially today. Sadly, I have seen too many adults become over emotional when speaking in public to other adults or during a conversation.

[@moonlightj0y]

I'm also trying to embrace my femininity more. Your channel has been helpful to me in that aspect. Personally one thing I've stopped doing is cursing, it's hard and sometimes if I'm upset I slipp up. I am just an honest and direct person so it can be a challenge from time to time. My father would always tell me that women shouldn't curse and I think he is right. A clean gentle language is more feminine.

[@cakesinthecity]

morasinlove kudos to you love im just starting my journey now im sure it wont be easy

[@dis_appointed8626]

Femininity is the naturalization of female subordination

[@UdoADHD]

2022 Update: I decided to completely delete what I said because I just don’t even want that rhetoric out there anymore. Just be yourself! Authenticity is beautiful! BIPOC women are beautiful! And this youtuber’s beliefs that she expresses on other social media platforms are not okay with me.

[@ShinySilverBunny]

Amen me too but Im white lol. I was a tomboy as a kid and never got lady lessons although I try to be.. The voice pitching is so important and I get it now.. I think im gonna practice this. Having inner joy and happiness of the Lord is key to keep us from worldly behavior.

[@json9368]

Same here! I find that us black women (not all!) tend to have this issue.

[@kayyoung9242]

@@json9368 majority of us do 😉

[@adev9764]

@@kayyoung9242 lol I'm always told I'm too quiet but I'm quite blunt

[@kutie216]

Ade V Look up being "frank" instead of being "blunt" (sorry I had some difficulties in wording this well lol). It has helped me immensely in approaching situations where I feel the need to be blunt!

[@joanjettluvr7]

ugh i LOVE how careful, fair and inclusive you are. and it's in a way that doesn't seem passive or patronizing, like it comes to you with grace and genuine care!! this video was pleasantly really wonderful, even to someone like me who is very new to this stuff. :')

[@CarolaTesla]

I just came home after a test in the university, I'm very glad to find a new video !! I really enjoy your content and it has been very helpful, thank you very much for everything.

[@rndmkt]

I like that youre talking about boundaries "Do not let ppl use your feminity againsts you!"

[@andreeaalexandra5806]

Sometimes I wonder if you were this elegant and graceful even in your teenage years.Any woman would have something to learn from you,because your soul is old,honey.

[@kiera6326]

When she was born from her mother's womb, she cried with elegance.

[@po_215]

@@kiera6326 *sobs in elegance*

[@ibniloveitmushtaq6925]

Having boundaries and learning to say no when needed is very very important.

[@andreeaalexandra5806]

I can't describe how happy I am when you upload a new video!I'm sending you so much love!

[@tess694]

I love the way you expressed our non- Christian sisters! How beautiful. I will use that. I am a Christian as well and I have many non-Christian friends and family. They are just as wonderful and precious as my Christian family and friends. Loving and valuing others is paramount.😊 this entire video is great. You are an amazing person!

[@Milkymommy09]

Thank you for covering this topic. I appreciate you going more in depth than just 'pitch your voice higher' etc. I was so happy to see that you uploaded this today, I got to watch it on my meal break.

[@MrsMidwest]

Elizabeth S thank you for watching so soon! 😌

[@nigarifrit]

Am new at your channel , as a Muslim woman I appreciate you from my heart, thanku

[@anishakeyz3511]

it is my firm belief that if everyone talked like this... (Men n women both) We would solve 99% of the worlds problem regarding ego, war, prejudice and hostility.... What a wonderful world that'll be. Kudos for making this!

[@oliwia2546]

I myself do not speak very femininely at all but still found this video quite interesting to watch and get to know a different perspective😊, thanks for sharing🤗❤️

[@rachellelamothe4786]

God bless you sister. These are good points; thank you for sharing! One place that you may want to reconsider, is the part you mentioned about hook-ups. The word of God commands us to expose the works of darkness, we should not condone them. (Ephesians 5:11). Although some of your followers may not be believers, it’s important to be a light to them and not let them think that lifestyles such as hook ups are good or okay. Or else why would they want to become a Christian if we talk about sins as if they’re alright? God wants to be a light! Being a light involves scattering darkness. Christ loved sinners, yes, but He never spoke of any sin as if it were okay to do in the first place. God bless you. I felt to share this. I appreciate your channel, but when we say we’re Christians, we must be true to the whole Word of God. Be blessed.

[@polarbearanne]

I found a KZbin video of a deaf woman talking about her deafness and I was so mesmerized by how she spoke. Very articulate and soft. I wanted to replicate that but I think it would be too great of a change for me; the people around me would think I was being fake. And I quickly forgot to speak that way later in the day. I love your video and will be rewatching it to remind myself of these tips. They seem less extreme so people won't think I'm being fake! I also love the point about how our speech reflects what we've been watching and reading.

[@kaja1687]

Love your character and your videos! Can you do a video about feminine way of walking and moving, as well as body language and gesticualtion? I would love to hear your opinion on this topic. Kisses ❤️

[@keshakellogg5995]

Yes, please! I am learning so much from watching her hands move as she speaks!

[@shwetakhade6531]

I belong to hinduism. I am from India. Thank you so much for your videos. Lots of love to you💕

[@theweirdgirl9493]

I'm have been going through so many videos, at last i found what i actually wanted. There are so many videos for men to train their voice to sound attractive, polite, gentle and confident. Finally, found for women. ❤❤

[@EdwardCBella]

How do you do your hair? It looks so pretty! I've really wanted to speak more nurturing-ly in so long but idk how to adjust! So thanks for the video!

[@lottiewallin]

What if you don’t want to sound tender? What if you don’t want to sound like you’re small talking all the time? Sometimes you need to sound assertive and clear, direct and to the point.

[@Whit_Bee]

Please make a book recommendation list!! 🖤

[@thomasb.2506]

Or, as we just learned: "Please would you be so kind to make a book recommendation list?" Just joking 😇😉 But YES that's an awesome idea! I would like that so much as well 😍

[@MeccaShields]

She has one on her blog 😊

[@princess-ec4ke]

Read fascinating womanhood by Helen Andelin

[@tempjones3155]

Go to her blog! It's one of her most recent posts!!! 😊

[@angylouv]

@@MeccaShields but it's about fiction books, or is there one of nonfiction books? 🙉

[@elizabethpiazza7355]

I would love to see a video discussing advice on how the young girly girls can work towards transitioning to women. Something I feel like I struggle with as I do tend to think of myself as mature in many ways, however in many others I still feel as though I still project myself as a young girl instead of a woman. In many ways I still feel like a young girl and I'm not sure where to start in growing towards that 'feminine woman' goal..... Love your channel and all your helpful advice!!

[@guinevererodriguez3807]

elizabeth piazza same!!!

[@SumairaAslam93]

You can follow Lisa Hart. She also does nice videos on this topic

[@jungkooksbrokenphones3168]

I LITERALLY LOVE YOU! 😭😍 HOW DO YOU ALWAYS KNOW HOW AND WHEN THE RIGHT TIME TO TEACH ME THINGS??!!?! 😭😍❤️

[@MrsMidwest]

So happy you’re enjoying!!! 😍😍

[@yoginishaktitantra7751]

I am so glad you are talking about eliminating vulgar language. It is the biggest turn off and is very low class. The more we can raise our vibrations with our speech the better off we are and those close to us.

[@smyrnasstory]

“A mild answer turns away rage, But a harsh word stirs up anger”

[@davidark9054]

Your advice is also great for men. Slowing down, listening, and being "soft" yet not weak can simmer down a heated argument. Great video!

[@racheld.8364]

"Out of the overflow of the heart the mouth speaks." Good tips and thoughts.

[@ayaaaat]

I am muslim, and Mohammad pbuh said that every person who acts and speaks soft, kind and good, the hellfire will not touch him. I searched for how to be that way and i opened your video, and i loved it💖💖 thank you so much sis

[@maxime9006]

❤️

[@kellyroy7248]

So sweet! I’m sure you are a lovely girl.

[@humairaahmed5198]

I'm also muslim ,I love this video too! 💖

[@Marrrrrrr1]

May peace be upon you my dear muslim sisters 🌹 Hold to your chastity and virtue which represent the real (nowadays forgotten) beauty of femininity. 🌹 hold upon your religion very well and learn the wise teachings of the prophet (عليه الصلاة والسلام ) and his wives(رضي الله عنهن ) and that is the way to success in this life and in the afterlife.

[@corishim629]

Believe in Jesus' sacrifice for your soul ❤

[@MsUtube4ever]

An exceptionally powerful learning tool is watching your videos. Thank you! Beautiful video as always. I would love if you would do another video catered to a younger audience, very nice to see that! You are a gentle inspiration, love.

[@kellyryan7046]

I’m really happy you made this video. I have a really bad sailor mouth and listening to you has really inspired me to try to change that. However I find is so difficult when I’m talking to my friends to not fall into using the same vernacular as them!! Or to control my language when I’m upset

[@sonyas3098]

I love all your points! I think that refraining from being the center of attention all the time, interrupting, and overusing words like "um" and "like" can be included in feminine speaking as well. Thanks for another great video :)

[@anuradhafonseka9113]

Your channel has everything I have been searching for months in other keywords. It’s only last night I found the right word and found your channel. I’ve been binge watching your Videos since then. I’m getting married in 5 days and your advises are all i needed from a matured friend ❤️🎀

[@maggietone5781]

hi caitlyn! i'm a senior in high school and honestly finding your channel has been so helpful to me as i try to become more mature in my everyday life! :) i'm a feminist and i think your message is SO amazing and anyone who tries to bring you down doesn't have the interests of all women in mind. lots of love from the east coast xx

[@ReliefbyRachel]

In the last few years I've started making an effort to be more feminine, after a lifetime of being a tomboy. I'll never give up long hikes and weightlifting, but now I wear dresses and makeup and try to act more feminine. Just found your channel and love the way you present this topic! I'm going to he watching a lot more of your vids!

[@aisyahnadhirah5080]

I was in a camp where I acted so sweet towards everyone in the camp including the facies, an at the end of the camp on of the facies asked for my number, I should’ve sense it the moment where he started to used cheesy words at me too often. I was so afraid because I was all alone with him at that time and couldn’t built my strengths to say NO. At that moment I knew that I need to learn how to be famines and but yet strong. You have help me lot during the process of me being STRONGER. Thanks a lot dear.💖💖

[@practical.emotions]

I really love the focus on nurturing someone with your words and showing that you care. Such good advice all the way around.

[@PHONIBRAXTON]

2021 I’m scaling back my masculine energy and becoming more soft spoken as Feminine and confident.

[@mluna1898]

THANK YOU! I used to be a girly-girl until I decided to become cold and perhaps masculine to endure what I went through. And I kept telling myself that I will so easily switch to being feminine when I went through all that I did, but I realized recently that life is a journey. So I am trying to exude my femininity even to people who do not deserve that from me, and behaving modestly as I transition into my womanhood. Thank you again so much because I will be implementing everything that I took away from this video. :)

[@Buzzoit]

I get it, I've been trying really hard to be more mature. I have been trying to be more aware of the way I communicate and intercept information without letting an emotion over ride the communication. However, being able to calmly express my feelings appropriatly and when it is an appropriate time to talk about certain things aswell. My goal is to also to be able to keep certain information to myself and feel like I must not talk about every detail in my life to someone, it's okay to handle things on your own. And CONFIDENCE!

[@bimelbundle9899]

This was the first video of yours that I saw. It hurt me at the time because I knew how far off I was. I have watched so many of your others now that my heart was primed for this one 😂 I have a lot to go...but I’m so grateful for your willingness to share and guide us on this journey.

[@TrevorAugustine]

This expanded my respect and appreciation for that gentle femininity. I won't take it for granted.

[@faithemmavaz6311]

Disney Princess irl 😻

[@ellac.1258]

You speak so well in your videos. You are also very aware of what you’re saying and considerate of who you’re speaking to. Thank you very much!!

[@sofiaamaro2715]

I'm not quite sure how I came across your channel but I loved it! I love being feminine, I love everything about the topic and I loved all the videos I watched from you so far. I'm looking forward to the next one already!

[@CiataJolie]

This video is still evergreen! I watched it 2 years ago and I came to remind myself of feminine traits. Amazing advice👏

[@motherofcrows5911]

Oh my goodness I am a Speech Language Pathologist. I hope one day my daughter will be as eloquent as you are. At 10 she is inspired by Anne of Green Gables and loves the descriptive multi syllabic words. I got some great tips in your video ❤️

[@cujo4397]

i was raised in a single father household, so i’m very grateful this video was posted. thank you!

[@oliviaholtby358]

You should make a video all on the topic of waiting till marriage I would really appreciate that😊💛

[@hollie3897]

Olivia holtby yess!!

[@firstandlastname5235]

So happy I found your channel. I'm currently preparing myself for a 13 week deployment and will be housed with three women, colleages and roommates in EMS. It's hard to still be feminine in boots but you have helped guide me to still be myself.

[@Ahlambabes]

As a Muslim girl I thank you and I admire every advice you highlight in this channel 🥰🥰

[@hurraynature7449]

I cannot like this video enough. You promote such a balance in your ideas which is so refreshing. Also, while overall heard many of these tips in the past, I enjoyed having the reminder since it can be so difficult to change the way one talks.

[@clarezigner6028]

As I am a preop transgender female, I appreciate videos which help me imorove my feminine behaviour. Thank you for this video.

[@alleycat616]

I hope you don’t operate. Please do your research. You don’t want hair growing inside your fake vagina causing infections which could end up killing you. What you truly need is therapy. It’s what lies inside of you that needs to change and accept who you are which is just a feminine man. We are all on a spectrum of masculinity and femininity. This obsession with identity, labels, and unnecessary strict adherence to male/female roles has led us here. It is a mental health disorder that needs mental help therapy.

[@bellla333]

yikes

[@topezrosser2759]

I love this series! Femininity i noticed is often overlooked. It takes time to cultivate the women we are designed to be. And listening to your videos are truly helpful to this growing process that i am in.

[@dorothylune5594]

your voice is so sweet, and makes me feel relaxed 💓

[@Peaceonearth2024]

Your videos have already inspired me to change for the better. You are full of love and kindness...to me that is what truly makes a woman feminine.

[@brittanysmith3716]

Can you do a video on how to stay feminine while being in a relationship/marriage?

[@eringittins6032]

That is a easy one; remain pregnant, barefoot and in the kitchen. Oh yeah, keep opinions to yourself.

[@brittanysmith3716]

Erin Gittins would you mind explaining the remain pregnant part?

[@eringittins6032]

@@brittanysmith3716 Yes, a true feminine woman will allow her husband to freely squirt his seed inside her. A real woman will be fruitful and birth his children. It's the only way to be truly feminine in a marriage.

[@brittanysmith3716]

Erin Gittins well hubby and I have a 1 year old and I’m pregnant with twins. So I guess I’m as feminine as you can get then lol

[@eringittins6032]

@@brittanysmith3716 Yes, you are the picture of femininity. Just keep opinions to your self and keep accepting the seed and you will be ok.

[@s.i.c.2947]

I cannot get enough of your videos. growing up with parents that demanded we say good morning, afternoon etc. A house hold where you used words to Express your feelings and you have manners and were polite. Grandparents were loved and respected and girls behave like well girls. We were tough to speak softly no swearing. I didnt own a pair of pants until I was 12 years old.

[@sarahjaddah4105]

Love how refreshing your channel is besides all the fashion youtubers, you're really unique and I find that extremely wonderful! ❤️

[@Knownforherhair]

✨You should seriously consider writing self-help books in this area. I've been taking notes on a lot of your "lady like" videos and seriously feel like I can't learn enough, lol. Keep up the good work!✨

[@jadorejas]

Omg I’ve been waiting on this video! I was thinking about my speech yesterday and I was like how do you carry a feminine way of speech? Mine is definitely super masculine so I’m trying to refine it. Thanks for this video!

[@ArtSoulMade69]

So filled with joy & gratitude over finding this 🕊️ I’m seeking to increase the creativity in my communication (verbal, written, & body language) w/o being crass, vulgar or unladylike. Be more subtle & less blunt. I was a total loner so I didn’t pick up on social nuances of relationships & conversation. At middle age I get to begin again! Both a blessing & and a challenge. Your channel is the most helpful in that process. Thank you. With all of my heart, may God bless you & yours 🙏 🕊️

[@cotteneyejuliette366]

Can you make a video on how to be able to embrace your femininity in the workplace without being disrespected? I work in a male-dominated field, and I love fashion/makeup, but I also have a very happy-go-lucky personality, and when the women are too sweet, the men sexualize us or tell us we are too sweet/weak to be taken seriously. Do you have any advice?

[@beecute5]

When you said the way we speak has definitely changed all I could think about was women addressing everybody as bro 😂

[@ladylocs2xcel]

Jer Ca ugh I’m guilty I call everybody bruh 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@Xx.bygracethrufaith]

ahhh lol i'm convicteddd 😂

[@DiamondsRexpensive]

1.25x speed, thank me later And thank you for the thought provoking video 👾🌸

[@gizemnurerylmaz8164]

Thank you omg

[@ninaainsi9799]

YES LOL TY

[@Marina-xd7gp]

I watch all my videos at 1.5x speed. oops.

[@DiamondsRexpensive]

@@Marina-xd7gp That is a shame. It means you also ruin the music you listen to 😓 (if you listen to any that is)

[@aphro123star]

@@Marina-xd7gp LOL I listen to all my videos in 2x

[@dolly3611]

YES! I’ve been waiting for you to make a video about this and almost made a comment suggesting that you should. I absolutely love how polite and refined you sound when you speak! Thank you so much xx. 💗

[@bilqis1317]

Love you Kaitlyn, keep spreading light!

[@uqjoon]

The way you talk are really enchanting... I feel enchanted, in a good way... It's sweet and very calming. Thank you so much for sharing these with us, I don't usually watch this type of video, but honestly, I watched this till the end and it feels good ❤️

[@zoedockery3862]

I love the topics you address in this video ❤️ My articulation is definitely something I need to be more aware of, and you give some great tips to help me improve! So happy this video popped into my recommend this morning. I subscribed! 🙏

[@flowerfox7494]

OMG I love you Ms. Midwest you are the female role model I’ve been searching for! Thank you for taking the time to make this video! Also you look like Princess Aurora. So happy to have found your beautiful channel cuz you speak about boundaries. S Awesome 🌸

[@deed1801]

You use the word 'nurture' alot, I think it would be helpful to explain what that means to you.

[@haleyhamer7128]

Dee D I think she may have covered that in one of her first videos ☺️

[@Evergreenforest33]

And “thrive” lol

[@CHOOSE_TO_BE_U]

Thank you for this video... I'm with you on HOW we communicates is very important! Boundaries are essential and we must know how to enforce them with people, especially unsafe people. You did a beautiful job with this topic ~

[@jessicakay3695]

We are all waiting for the makeup tutorial :)

[@LVioletta1]

Hair tutorial too please!!!

[@Ashwin-oq1xt]

Simple.Do only half her makeup.I like her videos but not the makeup. haha

[@cosmiccrush22]

@Whatever Whatever way too much blush

[@CherryBlossom-kn3sd]

This is what i've been waiting for. Thank you Caitlin.. Having found your channel is the best thing that ever happened to me.. I look forward to your every uploads..You are my virtual sister/ bestfriend/ mentor.. Keep it coming! God bless you

[@RomeoWhiskey692]

Came on to your channel by accident , It was a bit of a shock . I had no idea these things were still being taught . It has been so many years since I have heard a woman speak in such a manner . Or hear the word “ nurture “ used that many times . I chuckled when you combined enunciate and pronounce ... a great word , pronunciate ... I’m going to use it a lot . I also found you prioritizing softness , femininity , maturity and intelligence rather surprising . Not what I’m used to in female ( or male for that matter ) speech . Women try to emulate what they think is male speech patterns so hard nowadays , just like they try and emulate their body language and actions . I know it’s an affectation adopted for fear of appearing weak or ineffectual . I also find it irritating that many males affect a faux feminine way of speaking . A lilt or lisp that is off-putting to me . As a person who uses speech in a professional manner ... as a tool ... I pay close attention to how others speak . Usually as an indicator of compliance , stress or an escalation of hostility . Im sure your husband , as a police officer , understands . I pay close attention to how females mimic how they perceive men to behave , as an indicator of their underlying belief of men’s natures . It’s usually not very flattering . As you may have gathered , I sometimes write a bit of fiction from time to time as well , and I plan to mine your posts for speech patterns for fictional female characters , with your permission , of course ... since I encounter the real thing so seldom . Quite exceptional . If I were aquatinted with a young lady that needed to be instructed in manners , speech and behavior , I would recommend she subscribe to you ... as I am doing so , myself . Ladylike behavior is such a rarity in today’s world . Thank you , and please continue your good work .

[@jgujral]

I love listening to you! You're extremely well brought up, I appreciate how your mom stood by every new experience you were having as a child. I feel that the only strong thing a women can do is appreciate her feminity and you are a great example. I have been strong at hard times but somewhere I lost that side which I note and correct myself from time to time. I'm grateful to you for lending a hand and lifting my spirit to embrace my feminine side and look at the world with more gentleness coz that's what we as women are the best at - forgiveness and letting go. Love you a lot. Big hug! Xoxo

[@jhoanatrujillo5677]

“The only thing that I can control is myself”❤️❤️❤️