How to Speak Like A Gentleman | 9 Talking Tips to Earn Respect

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@thecowboy9698
@thecowboy9698 7 жыл бұрын
"You don't need to curse to be funny, or to get your point across." That is 100% true.
@TravisAndrews-lb1kk
@TravisAndrews-lb1kk Жыл бұрын
Yes i do lmao 🤣 😂
@MichaelSkinner-e9j
@MichaelSkinner-e9j Жыл бұрын
Precisely. Anyone, Even women can behave badly. Then they just look like rabble
@blakeklenner2832
@blakeklenner2832 8 жыл бұрын
This should be a high school class for young men
@leahanderson1576
@leahanderson1576 4 жыл бұрын
Yes! Lessons for people in general.
@shirleycarreon9693
@shirleycarreon9693 4 жыл бұрын
I agree
@diegoc1925
@diegoc1925 4 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@jeffreyhooper4307
@jeffreyhooper4307 3 жыл бұрын
Yes I agree
@sinofprideescanor6619
@sinofprideescanor6619 3 жыл бұрын
Completely agree so many problems would just go away.
@victorcavazos5012
@victorcavazos5012 7 жыл бұрын
"Manners maketh Man" Wish more men would remember this. Thanks Alpha
@g-man6677
@g-man6677 5 жыл бұрын
Victor Cavazos i agree, and nice Kingsman reference, but I do not believe he portrayed the entire idea perfectly. His comments on please and thank you were correct and useful, but the rest was a bit sloppy. Especially when he says that profanity is the beat way to sound dumb, but stumbles over his own words for 5 seconds, which is the easiest way to sound dumb. He made points that did not need to be made and also showed a lack of understanding of the topic by not including many key rules.
@g-man6677
@g-man6677 5 жыл бұрын
And to be clear, I do agree with what he said, but there are other points he should have made, so points he did not need to make like the thank you point, which could have gone with please. He also should have been more careful to not break his own rules in my opinion
@g-man6677
@g-man6677 5 жыл бұрын
Oh, and I am sorry but one more thing to add on him breaking his own rules. He makes subtle sexist remarks all the time. In the past he has said both, “ the way I see it, women drink wine, guys drink beer, and gentlemen drink whiskey” and also “A gentleman must drink one of 3 masculine drinks” to quote a few. These are both very subjective and borderline sexist.
@Shun101010
@Shun101010 9 жыл бұрын
A man has many faces and a gentleman has many dates.
@maximusdecimusmeridius_1
@maximusdecimusmeridius_1 9 жыл бұрын
+Jaqen H'ghar Oufffff well said mate!
@kaycyrus4251
@kaycyrus4251 9 жыл бұрын
awesome
@toteknowledge
@toteknowledge 9 жыл бұрын
+Jaqen H'ghar may I implement that in my mental mantras ?
@vroomie
@vroomie 7 жыл бұрын
Jaqen H'ghar heha nice one
@Apwolsopcjrhei
@Apwolsopcjrhei 7 жыл бұрын
I was also a foo'in legend from Gin Alley.
@ffff7865
@ffff7865 8 жыл бұрын
I am a British offer cadet who has just finished training. We learn how to be gentlemen in all aspects from negotiations on the battlefield, or parley. To hosting a banquet and in general life. I think all men should learn the quality's of being a gentleman as there would be far less violence, racism and all the other evils in the world.
@thethirdman2135
@thethirdman2135 6 жыл бұрын
John steed, the avengers the ultimate gentleman
@Isosceles1
@Isosceles1 6 жыл бұрын
Apparently, spelling and grammar were not so important in your training.
@Freespiritedqueen
@Freespiritedqueen 6 жыл бұрын
@ff ff, you all are some dapper dressers. I've got to give it to you British!
@ngurahauhnar1181
@ngurahauhnar1181 6 жыл бұрын
Which Regiment..? Regt. No. Rank????? If you are an Officer...
@nealdew71
@nealdew71 6 жыл бұрын
Someone's looking for likes.
@johnwongtw1
@johnwongtw1 5 жыл бұрын
You were robbed and then stabbed in the gut. You: Thank you!
@harinandr450
@harinandr450 5 жыл бұрын
I appreciate it gentleman 😂
@OnyxBloodStone
@OnyxBloodStone 5 жыл бұрын
A true gentleman has respect for himself, and as such does not let other people take advantage of him
@thisgamez9491
@thisgamez9491 4 жыл бұрын
You really got me LOL
@beena2730
@beena2730 4 жыл бұрын
@@OnyxBloodStone i want to say woosh.. but i wont ! Because there are many people as u have said exploits gentlemen s patience I cannot withstand that But he should be knowing how to behave in such situations
@viplavvikas2141
@viplavvikas2141 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you! You made my night !! ( Why should days have all the fun ? Huh? )😄😄
@bradleyspinks7922
@bradleyspinks7922 8 жыл бұрын
If anyone see's this message, I hope you are having a great day
@jamessimmons3186
@jamessimmons3186 8 жыл бұрын
have a great day , unfortunately it's a bit late but at least i'm the first heheh , Thank you , gentleman
@bradleyspinks7922
@bradleyspinks7922 8 жыл бұрын
Not a problem always nice to see someone commenting back so thank you
@jamessimmons3186
@jamessimmons3186 8 жыл бұрын
you're always welcome brother , take care
@alex-sv8ru
@alex-sv8ru 8 жыл бұрын
ty!
@skyscout3
@skyscout3 8 жыл бұрын
lol gentlemaning much
@drz616
@drz616 8 жыл бұрын
Take a shot every time he says "gentlemen".
@CidGuerreiro1234
@CidGuerreiro1234 8 жыл бұрын
Have an ambulance on stand by.
@noelt8895
@noelt8895 5 жыл бұрын
He never says 'Gentleman". He says "gennelmen". He needs to remember there is a 't' in the middle of the word.
@pineapplecoke7627
@pineapplecoke7627 5 жыл бұрын
David ok gentleman
@noelt8895
@noelt8895 5 жыл бұрын
@@anmolak1783 Not 'arf!
@mercentperrault
@mercentperrault 5 жыл бұрын
If I do so, then how many shots will I end up drinking?
@Ask_LyRc
@Ask_LyRc 7 жыл бұрын
"don't use profanities" "crap!" "shut up!"
@masterc1172
@masterc1172 5 жыл бұрын
Thats not profanity
@jewbearidk
@jewbearidk 5 жыл бұрын
@@masterc1172 yeah it is
@kappa-np4qr
@kappa-np4qr 5 жыл бұрын
ty!
@shadygaming6523
@shadygaming6523 4 жыл бұрын
@@jewbearidk no it fucking not .
@glendamontoya9645
@glendamontoya9645 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@Linkous12
@Linkous12 8 жыл бұрын
As a person who grew up in the South I wish these tips were more commonly used. You're never too old to say "sir" or "ma'am". How a person treats a stranger tells you who they truly are.
@rezaipe
@rezaipe 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this amazing advice ! Implemented it for about 6 months and people around me start to respect me more and start to doing what i did. Keep up the amazing work Sir !
@leahanderson1576
@leahanderson1576 4 жыл бұрын
Good, I am so glad it worked out. I will try it too.
@mercentperrault
@mercentperrault 5 жыл бұрын
0:20 He uses the word “Unbefitting”. Seriously, we need to bring back those classy, elegant words. I mean, their usage takes the speaker to a whole new level.
@masterc1172
@masterc1172 5 жыл бұрын
Fuck you are right. Sir you are right.
@f.b.i9512
@f.b.i9512 4 жыл бұрын
MasterC117 or that is true, you are correct
@01DaBoss
@01DaBoss 4 жыл бұрын
SIMPS!!!
@Zveki
@Zveki 9 жыл бұрын
Also, a gentleman speaks quietly. He does not shout irritatingly.
@ivangartenhaus4276
@ivangartenhaus4276 9 жыл бұрын
+ZvekiSU There is a fine line between gentlemanly ways and being just .... well.... gay.
@jonaswomack4493
@jonaswomack4493 9 жыл бұрын
+Ivan Gartenhaus Where exactly does his comment mention attraction to other males? Or was that totally random?
@ivangartenhaus4276
@ivangartenhaus4276 9 жыл бұрын
Rocket Otaku No it was a general comment, not just about this particular video.
@rayva1
@rayva1 7 жыл бұрын
I do believe the same must go for the ladies.
@resyncs6357
@resyncs6357 7 жыл бұрын
No, he does not speak quietly, he articulates himself so that what he is saying may be heard.
@a.enrique2407
@a.enrique2407 10 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the plethora of undeniably, beneficial advice. You simply stand out in a tarnished world as a true paragon. Keep up the great work.
@alpham
@alpham 10 жыл бұрын
thanks brother!
@kool-aidman5828
@kool-aidman5828 10 жыл бұрын
alpha m. I love that ending
@Lireoec
@Lireoec 10 жыл бұрын
Kudos for using the word 'paragon'.
@Armyofone98GTC
@Armyofone98GTC 9 жыл бұрын
"Tarnished world"? Really?
@TheSteelEcho666
@TheSteelEcho666 9 жыл бұрын
+Lireoec At a glance I misread paragon as pigeon.
@maplekandayo
@maplekandayo 7 жыл бұрын
hello Alpha, I have been in love with your page since years. you have helped me get over my depression, lost all my extra weight, and just changed my life. I love and appreciate you so much. thank you for being the original you. thank you for regular uploads. thank you for your candor and your humor. keep up the great work :D
@Rannbo
@Rannbo 10 жыл бұрын
Is it respectful if I say wassup my nigga to my professor in college?
@alpham
@alpham 10 жыл бұрын
i'm going to go out on a limb and say no...
@Rannbo
@Rannbo 10 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the video sir. Greatly appreciated. Now I will stop greeting my professor with a "wassup nigga" and instead greet him with a "good morning professor"
@emadrid7895
@emadrid7895 10 жыл бұрын
Rada ignorant
@Antash_
@Antash_ 10 жыл бұрын
alpha m. So no black humor even if it is just a joke, that doesn't reflect what I really think about certain things and it is said to closest friends? ;(
@Antash_
@Antash_ 10 жыл бұрын
I'm asking about black humor in general, not only jokes about black ppl, and certainly not about calling my friends "nigga", it actually wouldn't work in my country - different language ;)
@antoniopaquette4757
@antoniopaquette4757 8 жыл бұрын
Every thing that you said in this video my dad taught me as a little kid
@viveus_
@viveus_ 6 жыл бұрын
You have a fine father.
@zarcero21
@zarcero21 6 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately, the dads aren't around these days, because the bitches have run them off.
@Andre-gn4sj
@Andre-gn4sj 5 жыл бұрын
@@zarcero21 Excuse me sir. but i think its supposed to be unsavory induviduals of the opposite gender.
@Rdot19
@Rdot19 5 жыл бұрын
I wish I had a dad like that.
@harinandr450
@harinandr450 5 жыл бұрын
My dad too
@losmentos5078
@losmentos5078 7 жыл бұрын
Magnificent video! You truly show you care and want to influence people for the better. Watching your videos fills the empty spot for the big brother I never had. Thank you.
@adalet127
@adalet127 8 жыл бұрын
AGHH THAT TIE IS NOT SYMETRICAL .. I mean .. That Tie of your is not correctly positioned on that beatiful suit of yours.
@rileybagnall2250
@rileybagnall2250 6 жыл бұрын
Yours*
@rileybagnall2250
@rileybagnall2250 6 жыл бұрын
Beautiful *
@rileybagnall2250
@rileybagnall2250 6 жыл бұрын
Yours'*
@alanv3185
@alanv3185 6 жыл бұрын
lol
@cvrucodex9542
@cvrucodex9542 6 жыл бұрын
Beautiful" sorry I couldn't help myself.
@SABRE-ls5fu
@SABRE-ls5fu 7 жыл бұрын
Watching this video in particular has made the soul in me realize I have been ungrateful towards a certain someone and thanks to you Alpha I can change that not only for them but for myself. Thank you~
@TravisAndrews-lb1kk
@TravisAndrews-lb1kk Жыл бұрын
So can i
@RoniloJrLawas
@RoniloJrLawas Жыл бұрын
@@TravisAndrews-lb1kk (i may not the OP) certainly yes stranger the very thought of wanting to change speaks volume of the hope enstore for you
@vxhub2430
@vxhub2430 5 жыл бұрын
"Thank You" for guiding us to be a perfecto
@michelletulumello661
@michelletulumello661 8 жыл бұрын
Great advice. I'd say the same is true for a lady.
@TheFirewolfx
@TheFirewolfx 8 жыл бұрын
Gentlemen need ladies, and ladies need gentlemen.
@popnbunny8704
@popnbunny8704 6 жыл бұрын
Absolutely. Be the example to make a change.
@username6135
@username6135 6 жыл бұрын
If she's hot I couldnt care less. But if she's really dumb I'd be bored.
@mecikarabderraouf3866
@mecikarabderraouf3866 5 жыл бұрын
Good for you 👏
@mecikarabderraouf3866
@mecikarabderraouf3866 5 жыл бұрын
@@TheFirewolfx but not the fate ladies 😂😂😂😂......
@crackedoutmayor1942
@crackedoutmayor1942 8 жыл бұрын
rule number 1: -saying please is not a necessity. showed weakness and gives them a chance to pull the upper hand (im a corporate account executive so i know a few things about persuasion ) -saying thank you is a must! never say please, you could say, "i would appreciate it if you could"
@BoHorn
@BoHorn 8 жыл бұрын
eden m Ending on please definitely sounds weak. "Could you get me that pen please?" as opposed to "Could you please hand me that pen?".
@richardkeijzer636
@richardkeijzer636 8 жыл бұрын
This is why I consider most account executive assholes. They think money is life and have very little empathy for others. I know this, because I used to work as one. Thank god I quit that job, which I consider to be one of the most useless, shitty jobs on earth.
@richardkeijzer636
@richardkeijzer636 8 жыл бұрын
Sir Bastion why would you ever want to move to the US? This is the fakest 'country' in the world haha
@yniegolattao543
@yniegolattao543 6 жыл бұрын
crackedout mayor Saying "please" is said when someone wants to request a favor. I don't see any weakness in being polite towards other people.
@partsroz1962
@partsroz1962 6 жыл бұрын
@@richardkeijzer636 yee boi !!!
@DavidSphere-eu4mi
@DavidSphere-eu4mi 9 ай бұрын
A gentleman is GENTLE. With others, animals, mother, and the cosmos
@Foretelling
@Foretelling 10 жыл бұрын
I apologise for saying this in advance, but it blows my mind how so many American's don't say Thank You. I mean, I was in the states for my Summer Holidays, and I honestly felt a bit insulted when it came to people completely ignoring me doing things to help them out, such as holding a door open etc. I'm a 16 year old brit, and I was brought up that way, so I guess I just expect it to happen. But in the UK, people are so much more polite. I am sorry if I offended anyone with this. Just my observation.
@wildone106
@wildone106 10 жыл бұрын
Happens to me too man, I hold the door and they either look like Im trying to rape them, or dont say anything like I had nothing better to do than hold it.
@thescientistsalarian2441
@thescientistsalarian2441 10 жыл бұрын
Here in America we have this idiotic cultural dilemma where one having basic manners is considered "nice," and if someone is nice, they are seen as "weak." A lot of people here would rather be rude morons than "nice and weak." It's not everyone of course, but it's too prevalent to not be noticed.
@wildone106
@wildone106 10 жыл бұрын
ok re-quantify by saying 'Humans in America' then? idiot
@jaysun9138
@jaysun9138 10 жыл бұрын
***** He said "so many Americans" not all. He isn't generalizing all of them. I'm American and I completely agree, I live in America and most people don't have manners.
@Foretelling
@Foretelling 10 жыл бұрын
***** Dude, you're a bad keyboard warrior. I don't recall generalizing anyone in the slightest. Saying 'So many Americans' is not Stereotyping or Generalizing. So many can be a number from 10-The whole population. Get your facts right.
@LBrownoffical
@LBrownoffical 8 жыл бұрын
Anybody else realise they do all of these things anyway and didnt know it was so Gentlemen like. Boss. He forgot the power of saying "Excuse me" in getting someones attention, getting past someone or even sneezing.
@BarackBananabama
@BarackBananabama 7 жыл бұрын
When the referee says, "Gentleman, I want a good, clean fight. Listen to my commands at all times. Touch gloves and go back to your corner." I learned everything I need to know about being a gentlement which is use jabs frequently and don't forget to give the other guy a big one on the nose.
@mohamedkuyateh9596
@mohamedkuyateh9596 5 жыл бұрын
😃just stop!
@mercentperrault
@mercentperrault 5 жыл бұрын
Cuz that's how gentlemen settle disputes.
@masterc1172
@masterc1172 5 жыл бұрын
You sir I applaud from one fighter to another!
@dtbwolfie9090
@dtbwolfie9090 9 жыл бұрын
"Do you curse a lot?" "Fuck yeah I do."
@christophernathanael728
@christophernathanael728 7 жыл бұрын
DTBWolfie Me too.
@later8123
@later8123 7 жыл бұрын
DTBWolfie damn I read that out loud..
@yzuniga13sa
@yzuniga13sa 7 жыл бұрын
Fuckkkkkkk......!
@lostcloud6615
@lostcloud6615 7 жыл бұрын
fuck if i know
@jakacky
@jakacky 7 жыл бұрын
I do as well.
@KeshavKhanna
@KeshavKhanna 9 жыл бұрын
Your suit is impeccable.
@alex_the_confused_2773
@alex_the_confused_2773 2 жыл бұрын
I saw the intro with alpha and went "oh no, it's one of those alpha male videos" and I was pleasantly surprised especially with the no bigoted things. That caught me off guard even though it should be common sense. This was an amazing watch
@nisheet10
@nisheet10 10 жыл бұрын
You, Sir, are a true inspiration. So much positive energy in the videos. Love it! Gonna download the app as well. Kudos! P.s. You should write a book. Keep up the great work. :D
@ferretprince4054
@ferretprince4054 8 жыл бұрын
remember folks: profuse profanity paints people in poor perspectives.
@sarahsafdar1781
@sarahsafdar1781 8 жыл бұрын
got it
@TheBCSledder
@TheBCSledder 8 жыл бұрын
But I love cussing :(
@ferretprince4054
@ferretprince4054 8 жыл бұрын
TheBCSledder ah, but i said PROFUSE profanity.
@patriot9487
@patriot9487 8 жыл бұрын
Ew. Do you know that people who cuss and swear have larger vocabularies and are more intelligent? There have been many tests to prove this. Though, cussing and swearing in general is uncouth.
@charlesderosas5577
@charlesderosas5577 8 жыл бұрын
Tronald Drump South Park creator's lol.
@bilalrashid7096
@bilalrashid7096 3 жыл бұрын
Aaron We Need More Videos Like this.
@hideosaeki4984
@hideosaeki4984 8 жыл бұрын
I love his energy :')
@nadiyakaralash7878
@nadiyakaralash7878 9 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@RennanJorge
@RennanJorge 9 жыл бұрын
+Nadiya Karalash You're welcome! :)
@nadiyakaralash7878
@nadiyakaralash7878 9 жыл бұрын
+Rennan Jorge I was saying thank you to alpha m. :P
@vixaa
@vixaa 9 жыл бұрын
+Nadiya Karalash No problem
@nadiyakaralash7878
@nadiyakaralash7878 9 жыл бұрын
Vixalify no problem with what lol
@Vimublue
@Vimublue 9 жыл бұрын
+Nadiya Karalash thank you too
@saurabhnaik9984
@saurabhnaik9984 7 жыл бұрын
Makes me feel like I was never a gentleman before... This video is certainly going to change my life !
@prad44973
@prad44973 5 жыл бұрын
you are devaluating your current life
@masterc1172
@masterc1172 5 жыл бұрын
@@prad44973 you are stopping it
@samirgtb8916
@samirgtb8916 7 жыл бұрын
"you just received a F on your 100 point essay" me: Thank You! 😭
@johnwongtw1
@johnwongtw1 5 жыл бұрын
Gentleman!
@sistercoffee3158
@sistercoffee3158 8 жыл бұрын
Earned my respect with this one Alpha, well done :) I'll add that strong apology skills are highly desirable. Everyone has their shortcomings; being able to apologize for them quickly and without digging yourself in deeper is a must if you want to make up for them and move on with your life. Anecdotally, the first time I met a guy who could apologize well, I thought "holy crap, I'm gonna marry that man," and that's exactly what I did :)
@Raiyan0070
@Raiyan0070 2 жыл бұрын
Could you please some show me some videos regarding strong apology skills?
@TravisAndrews-lb1kk
@TravisAndrews-lb1kk Жыл бұрын
I used to be this guy
@Cpt_Wyatt
@Cpt_Wyatt 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you good sir, for gifting this information.🤠
@GringoBack
@GringoBack 9 жыл бұрын
A delightful ending sir.
@alanlake9762
@alanlake9762 7 жыл бұрын
"A gentleman he also know when to shut up" lol
@pranav4928
@pranav4928 4 жыл бұрын
Please! Upload more vedios. Thank you so much for uploading
@nguyenlong9853
@nguyenlong9853 5 жыл бұрын
1:41 say thank you Me: f you 1:44 i did not know that was gonna come out like that Me: how did he know, LOL
@solazos
@solazos 8 жыл бұрын
I believe that using profanity in little certain situation emphasizes your point in a special manner. Just in certain situations.
@masterc1172
@masterc1172 5 жыл бұрын
@@noelt8895 I was told they are words of expression and smart people use them because when smart people get angry at stupid people for saying stupid things then stupid people understand.
@parrisestatessouthernhomec3246
@parrisestatessouthernhomec3246 5 жыл бұрын
using profane every once in a while doesn't hurt. but women don't want gentlemen anymore they chase dope heads
@venividivace1574
@venividivace1574 Жыл бұрын
i agree with everything except the last point.
@DRJGD666
@DRJGD666 8 жыл бұрын
I love that suit.
@oldtimerock6088
@oldtimerock6088 6 жыл бұрын
😂Dawmn he told me...i have all those bad habits. But he's my idle, ill take his advice...Thanks Alpham
@spectre5x5
@spectre5x5 5 жыл бұрын
Smooth delivery Aaron! Very good advice from a retired Army Officer responsible for morale and discipline of Soldiers.
@Karan-pe8hd
@Karan-pe8hd 7 жыл бұрын
Love the end of the video 😂 *”A Gentleman knows when to shut up”*
@bobsettoi1144
@bobsettoi1144 7 жыл бұрын
Excellent speech Alpha!! as a woman I tell you guys.. a man who is a gentleman is even sexier 😉 and opens doors of success too.
@unkwn1157
@unkwn1157 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you! For teaching me how to not be unfitting when guests are visiting me and my family.
@dashcostello6667
@dashcostello6667 9 жыл бұрын
You didnt say, "Please say it again"
@deus_ex_machina_
@deus_ex_machina_ 9 жыл бұрын
Dash Costello "Pardon me" is a better way to convey that message.
@dashcostello6667
@dashcostello6667 9 жыл бұрын
Arjun Shenoy And a more Ideal way to convey yours would be replacing "A better way" with "More Ideal"
@deus_ex_machina_
@deus_ex_machina_ 9 жыл бұрын
Dash Costello A rather erudite suggestion, kind sir. I shall change my orientation on tumblr to sapiosexual shortly.
@dashcostello6667
@dashcostello6667 9 жыл бұрын
I highly agree with your repose sir. May I please know your tumblr my kind gentleman?
@bloodcards3084
@bloodcards3084 8 жыл бұрын
I like the way you ended the video, it made me laugh. keep it up.
@aremonngullie279
@aremonngullie279 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Wow! I'm a gentleman
@DamionFJS
@DamionFJS 7 жыл бұрын
I feel like cursing applies to both men & women
@leahanderson1576
@leahanderson1576 4 жыл бұрын
All these points are gender neutral.
@varun878
@varun878 7 жыл бұрын
Awesome! Keep it up Alpha... love your videos!
@reikomyles1495
@reikomyles1495 5 жыл бұрын
Sir you spoke truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth. These words of wisdom us ladies can apply to our lives as well. Thank you.
@averagejoe6884
@averagejoe6884 8 жыл бұрын
I say thank you whenever I buy something from a store or when I go shopping lol
@sanjay3018
@sanjay3018 7 жыл бұрын
I am write down these thing and put this as a poster and read it everyday morning. Thank you
@DerbyMods
@DerbyMods 7 жыл бұрын
The please and thank you are something people should always say, I was raised that way and most gentleman probably are.
@stenvikteam
@stenvikteam 10 жыл бұрын
I am just wondering, can you really change how you speak? Can you do that over a long period of time? Is it possible. I am thinking of my way to speak as a part of my own personality. No offence or anything, i just find it hard to change how i speak to other people, and if my speaking is a part of my personality. And it says that you cannot change your personality i am going to have some trouble with changing the way i speak to make myself more respescted. PS Aron, love your videoes man, you are a great guy!
@stenvikteam
@stenvikteam 10 жыл бұрын
The thing with syaing "thank you" and "please" is deffinitely ok tho! :D
@JJJJJJ15255
@JJJJJJ15255 10 жыл бұрын
Commenting so i see answers
@Antash_
@Antash_ 10 жыл бұрын
You CAN change your personality, it is complete BS that u can't. And I am the perfect example ;) Ppl are not born with "one personality", it's what you do, read, listen, who you meet with (and so on) that makes you who you are. And you can change all of these factors, but it ain't easy.
@Johnny_Blue
@Johnny_Blue 10 жыл бұрын
You don't have to change the way you speak but you must know how to speak with different people. I have two modes. Business mode and friends mode. I drop F word in front of my friends but on work I'm like James Bond. But on work I use different words and speak in different way. He talks about manners and bonton that everybody MUST have regardless where are you from. if you from the "hood" or top society its not hard to say thank you and please, keep door for someone or help someone to put begs in the bus. That is just me but people are different.
@MAZZZZI1234inHD
@MAZZZZI1234inHD 10 жыл бұрын
There are no ifs or hows mate :) , If you want change , your not gonna get very far with that mindset ! Change is gradually , and you get there with small goals or steps so to speak. Try it man! Set a few simple goals that are easy to complete and then gradually work your way up until you find no more need to curse or whatever troubles you :)
@ozziebrown
@ozziebrown 6 жыл бұрын
I'm 39 seconds in and if he says gentleman one more time I'm going to burn this computer.
@generalerica4123
@generalerica4123 5 жыл бұрын
Austin Rogers He said the word 9 times...
@smokeyjoe6059
@smokeyjoe6059 5 жыл бұрын
#RIPCPU
@merchantgold6327
@merchantgold6327 5 жыл бұрын
I feel sorry for the poor computer 😢😢
@mercentperrault
@mercentperrault 5 жыл бұрын
I assume your computer has been reduced to cinders by now.
@NeverTouchedGrass69
@NeverTouchedGrass69 2 жыл бұрын
I’m thanking you for teaching us!!!
@BaseballCards35
@BaseballCards35 10 жыл бұрын
Here's the best tip you'll ever receive. Be yourself, life is much easier than trying to be a "gentleman" and appease others. If you're true to yourself and act the way that pleases you life is much, much, MUCH easier.
@Thaulin
@Thaulin 10 жыл бұрын
the worst tip ever
@fengkorberfer
@fengkorberfer 10 жыл бұрын
that sucked fucking shit.
@BaseballCards35
@BaseballCards35 10 жыл бұрын
Thaulin haha ok, go through life trying to please others you brainless sheeple. Let me know how you make out!
@BaseballCards35
@BaseballCards35 10 жыл бұрын
fengkorberfer You're obviously young and haven't experienced life yet. It's cool, you'll learn once you grow up....
@TheNoobSensei
@TheNoobSensei 10 жыл бұрын
Yes, life *is* easier when you aren't worrying about "appeasing others" (i.e. being a decent human being). That doesn't make it a good idea, nor does it make it the course of action that will lead to your own long-term happiness. If you're always doing whatever is easiest rather than expending a little more effort to be a good person, you aren't going to get very far in life.
@sammiller6852
@sammiller6852 9 жыл бұрын
This sounds more like the rules of common sense.
@noelt8895
@noelt8895 5 жыл бұрын
I agree, but obviously not so "common" anymore.
@robertphelps9773
@robertphelps9773 7 жыл бұрын
How refreshing to hear. As a middle aged Englishman, I would absolutely agree with AlphaM. 'Good manners maketh the man'. They cost you nothing, but place you head and shoulders above the crowd.
@TheSilverMeridian
@TheSilverMeridian 5 жыл бұрын
"Prejudice is an emotional commitment to ignorance" - Jane Elliot.
@leahanderson1576
@leahanderson1576 4 жыл бұрын
You are absolutely right!!!
@MrRooky13
@MrRooky13 10 жыл бұрын
what is this tie knot called?
@alpham
@alpham 10 жыл бұрын
Windsor www.iamalpham.com/index.php/topics/three-ways-to-tie-a-necktie/
@MrRooky13
@MrRooky13 10 жыл бұрын
thanks Alpha :D
@ppayne95
@ppayne95 10 жыл бұрын
alpha m. Thanks for that link, that's my favorite tie knot but it's a work in progress. my instructor when I was in Army JROTC gave us a class on it but school never left much time to practice. Definitely will be able to practice now.
@Lireoec
@Lireoec 10 жыл бұрын
With a dimple. ^_^
@ivangartenhaus4276
@ivangartenhaus4276 9 жыл бұрын
+alpha m. or full windsor? very symmetrical.
@taesankim9267
@taesankim9267 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for teaching me how to be a gentleman and better human being
@Amansalwan
@Amansalwan 7 жыл бұрын
Hey alpha m. You forgot SORRY! Whenever a gentleman makes a mistake he always apologises regardless of the magnitude of the mistake.
@mrrobinet5551
@mrrobinet5551 4 жыл бұрын
Never say sorry! that should be the first rule!
@shafaet1194
@shafaet1194 3 жыл бұрын
@@mrrobinet5551 How is that gentle though?
@safenders
@safenders 10 жыл бұрын
Do what ever the fuck you wanna do!!
@supersugoi4587
@supersugoi4587 10 жыл бұрын
Hodge twins ??
@safenders
@safenders 10 жыл бұрын
Yeah man
@theredscourge
@theredscourge 10 жыл бұрын
As long as you are ready to accept the consequences, of course.
@RendHeaven
@RendHeaven 10 жыл бұрын
Cool, guess I should go on that murder spree then. Right? I wanted to do it. Do I do it? According to you. Of course! Why not? I'm just doing what I want to!
@safenders
@safenders 10 жыл бұрын
HighCalibur It's a Hodge twins reference. But if that's what your into....
@umerk2305
@umerk2305 6 жыл бұрын
I am shaking my head at the negative comments of people onf here. What kinds are you - keyboard warriors and have nothing better to say in your empty heads? Get life people and stay positive. Say "Thank you" to this great man for teaching you manners you manbabies. Happy New Year World. Peace.
@johnroy5169
@johnroy5169 8 жыл бұрын
The only time I use racism is in a joking manor to one of my friends whom I know doesn't get offended by it and we have a good laugh going back and forth. But at school a couple days ago one kid came over to my little group of friends (majority of them girls) and made a sexist comment and nearly got the shit beaten out of him
@allhailkingryan3598
@allhailkingryan3598 8 жыл бұрын
cool story
@johnroy5169
@johnroy5169 8 жыл бұрын
AllHailKingRyan One of the girls nearly beat the shit out of him I forgot to add
@zavhart
@zavhart 7 жыл бұрын
*manner
@z.c.m9908
@z.c.m9908 8 жыл бұрын
And the #1reason my ex is my ex....he should have at least watched this episode.
@7860092
@7860092 8 жыл бұрын
Zoraida Magana what did he say
@freedomfighter2463
@freedomfighter2463 8 жыл бұрын
7860092 He didnt say thank you after sex
@CidGuerreiro1234
@CidGuerreiro1234 8 жыл бұрын
He said: "pull my finger".
@hsanc72598
@hsanc72598 7 жыл бұрын
Zoraida Magana Good morning. I watched this video. Am I qualified to be your next boyfriend ? I would be rather thankful.
@xLegendaryPictures
@xLegendaryPictures 7 жыл бұрын
Zoraida Magana Wait, how did he get to be your bf if hes such a bad person.
@leahanderson1576
@leahanderson1576 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you, sir. If ladies and gentlemen were more like you, the world would be a better place.
@ghiathameer692
@ghiathameer692 10 жыл бұрын
A gentleman he also knows when to shut up.. END of the video Hahaha u r a really funny gentleman
@RaneWalker
@RaneWalker 10 жыл бұрын
I actually liked that video....
@soulevans2559
@soulevans2559 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for showing how to be a gentlemen
@martin6742
@martin6742 3 жыл бұрын
This is basicaly the ten comandments but explained in a non religious way. Marvelous! Keep up the amazing work.
@kratos8368
@kratos8368 7 жыл бұрын
we always say ladies and gentlemen cause ladies only like gentlemen and whether anyone is gentlemen or a psycho any kind lady is good for him
@andrew_owens7680
@andrew_owens7680 9 жыл бұрын
WOW! Kudos on your tolerant approach. I am a white American Muslim and you cannot imagine the things people say about my religion without knowing who I am. If EVERYONE would keep their opinions to themselves, the world would be a better place. That is, being a gentleman is the oil to make society work. Being a gentleman is my inner jihad. Best wishes.
@althoffb
@althoffb 6 жыл бұрын
Love this video. Every man on the planet should watch it. Even guys that have good manners, such as myself. Very good refresher.
@AR-il7gn
@AR-il7gn 10 жыл бұрын
I am black and proud.
@DuskyNoodles
@DuskyNoodles 10 жыл бұрын
I am white and proud.
@nyg6863
@nyg6863 10 жыл бұрын
DerCartwright lmao...
@DGRWPF
@DGRWPF 10 жыл бұрын
DuskyNoodles haha nice. i am white and proud too! :))
@MrPikkabo
@MrPikkabo 10 жыл бұрын
DuskyNoodles fucking racist idiot nazi
@nyg6863
@nyg6863 10 жыл бұрын
MrPikkabo Wait, what about the other guy..? Oh, I get it...because only white people can be racist right...? The only fucking idiot here, is you.
@eatbroccoli4543
@eatbroccoli4543 7 жыл бұрын
I want to be a gentlemen.
@Shay-pj5pw
@Shay-pj5pw 6 жыл бұрын
:| first of all... Are you a MAN??? After this... You can be a gentleman :)
@vijayaravindind3082
@vijayaravindind3082 5 жыл бұрын
Just aware your breath.daily meditatiom.physical workout
@aaroncharlie-silver4938
@aaroncharlie-silver4938 7 жыл бұрын
we rise by lifting others and you are a good sir
@mercentperrault
@mercentperrault 5 жыл бұрын
By the way, how many of you guys drop the “F-Bomb” like a period?
@masterc1172
@masterc1172 5 жыл бұрын
🙌
@shreyassingh3333
@shreyassingh3333 4 жыл бұрын
Haha
@skkumawat1870
@skkumawat1870 5 жыл бұрын
Who is Here after Newspaper 📰
@mariamossai5166
@mariamossai5166 6 жыл бұрын
Something I've noticed about your videos asides from your amazing sense of humor is that you know excactly the right time to end a video and make it look so funny
@jamesart9
@jamesart9 9 жыл бұрын
Why do I have such trouble correlating a Gentleman with a fast talking American.
@scootcha
@scootcha 9 жыл бұрын
+James Arte Because that's bigotry. Just like what he mentioned you SHOULDN'T do in the video.
@jamesart9
@jamesart9 9 жыл бұрын
stumpz Bigotry? Yeah, but, let's face it, A suit and tie does not a gentleman make.
@scootcha
@scootcha 9 жыл бұрын
James Arte "A suit and tie does not a gentleman make." That sentence makes no grammatical sense. You are illiterate and illegible. You don't have the privilege of speaking on behalf of what makes a gentleman.
@jamesart9
@jamesart9 9 жыл бұрын
stumpz Ooh, poor precious.
@scootcha
@scootcha 9 жыл бұрын
James Arte Sadly, I expected a response like that from you. Subhumans who aren't capable of critical thinking can be predicted like clockwork.
@fathiadnan8174
@fathiadnan8174 9 жыл бұрын
oh my allah.. that is islam teach us, but more detail... thank you for sharing wonderful information. have a nice day.
@34bully
@34bully 7 жыл бұрын
lol
@varunsharma2068
@varunsharma2068 7 жыл бұрын
Joke of the year
@amarizrezario7036
@amarizrezario7036 7 жыл бұрын
varun sharma fuck u man
@masterc1172
@masterc1172 5 жыл бұрын
Islam is confused
@aroshmtv1121
@aroshmtv1121 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you apha for teaching us how to say thank you
@lvolanteml
@lvolanteml 8 жыл бұрын
man comments got racist faster than alpha's end to this video.
@NicholasSpartan
@NicholasSpartan 7 жыл бұрын
Good God man, this video would have more than double views if you were not shouting. In any other terms, correct words, to all. Cheers.
@docecompota7385
@docecompota7385 6 жыл бұрын
Soooo great you are educating men!!!
@lukac.2977
@lukac.2977 9 жыл бұрын
3:58 Holy...I was just punching a pencil in to the table. #creepy
@samarlabana3794
@samarlabana3794 8 жыл бұрын
L 😝realy
@meshal1986
@meshal1986 9 жыл бұрын
A gentleman never say "shut up" :O (3:44)
@ivangartenhaus4276
@ivangartenhaus4276 9 жыл бұрын
+Meshal Khaldi a gentle-arab-man does.
@Kashido12
@Kashido12 5 жыл бұрын
You're personally my favorite,funny,smart,cool,perfect guy 🤣
@eligray-roedel144
@eligray-roedel144 8 жыл бұрын
Hi. I'm 16 years old, and am not opposed to the LGBTQ community, other cultures/religions, races, sexes, etc. I am constantly surrounded by statements that are sexist, racist, homophobic(discriminatory comments, jokes, etc.). It Is baffling to me that people my age, younger, and older than me alike say things like that. Now I'm not that a person that gets offended by everything, but I know when enough is enough, and when offensive is offensive. My request to people out there is please be respectful with your humor, if you're joking, and if you just don't agree with that group of people, (LGBT, a specific gender, a specific race, etc.) Keep the following in mind? It's 100% to disagree with people. But don't force other individuals with their own opinions and morals to follow/live by YOUR opinions and morals if they don't want to. For example: if you don't approve of gay marriage, don't marry a person your same gender. If you think abortion is evil, don't have an abortion. But DO NOT force other people to live by your opinions or morals. Thank you everyone. (P.S. Great video, I am a sub and love your videos, thank you for making them)
@tomkrausz2166
@tomkrausz2166 8 жыл бұрын
A few typos but couldn't agree more with the statement. Glad that someone shares my opinion.
@Patara.
@Patara. 8 жыл бұрын
if they are infact joking,i suggest you should ignore them they probably don't have that kind of thought but they did it for a sake of a joke.
@Offshoreorganbuilder
@Offshoreorganbuilder 8 жыл бұрын
!00% agree.
@VerbaleMondo
@VerbaleMondo 5 жыл бұрын
An American teaching you how to be a gentleman. [Laughs in European]
@koalabear1984
@koalabear1984 5 жыл бұрын
Even if the american talking IS a proper gentleman, it just doesn't suit him for whatever cultural reason
@rishabhkumar861
@rishabhkumar861 5 жыл бұрын
You are being racist Mr. European gentleman...and its befitting of a gentleman:)
@yesterdaystomorrow3751
@yesterdaystomorrow3751 7 жыл бұрын
OK I just want to let you know that a study has proven that a person who curses more has a better chance of telling you or anyone the truth
@yesterdaystomorrow3751
@yesterdaystomorrow3751 7 жыл бұрын
But with everything else I personally thank you for reassuring me on the way I act
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