How to STOP Attracting Narcissists

[@tomjenz]

You two women have demonstrated courage by sharing the misjudgments you made in the past. You have learned a lot.

[@leeanandleena]

Yes, we definitely have grown so much through this journey and only hope to share our own mistakes to protect/prevent others from going through the same things. Always appreciate your comments and support Tom!

[@CalkeDee]

I dated a guy that I did not know was a narcissist until after we broke up and he started tracking me, following me, telling people and friends that I am crazy. I'm crazy yet you are following me from state to state! make that make since!

[@leeanandleena]

Wow, so sorry you experienced that...I (Leean) also was in a relationship similar where the individual would show up to my residence after we broke up....Praying that God will restore you with a loving relationship!

[@CalkeDee]

@leeanandleena thank you for your kind words. To date the stalking is still going on. He is now using third parties so he won't get caught. They call it stalking by proxy and it can cause a person to self destruct. They try to stop your progression in life by doing smear campaigns or character defamation, destroying your personal property, paying others to break into your home, turning people against you with lies, its brutal. I am asking that you would pray for God to restore my life. You should have a episode on your channel about stalking by proxy because many people suffer in silence. I did not know this type of thing existed until it started happening to me.

[@CalkeDee]

@@leeanandleena thanks you for the kind words.

[@leeanandleena]

@@CalkeDee We are certainly praying for you and your protection!

[@jamesgrimwood8658]

I think we have been on same journey I’ve attracted narcissists my whole life from wives, gfs, pastors leaders etc…non stop. Love to learn how to not do it again. I’ve never heard anybody else ever speak about this thanks so much. Hard to forgive myself.

[@ElixirOfLife-mm7kn]

Beautiful! Well said. Esp if you're good looking+lively soul chances are the narcs are gona come after you. Cos who else can put up with their BS apart from us. But, it's high time that we respect and love ourselves more than these pity souls. We deserve to be in healthy relationships even if it takes time Until then it's better to be alone in our own beautiful company! 💕

[@leeanandleena]

Agreed! We need to use wisdom in our relationships!

[@prestonpollard]

Thank you!

[@leeanandleena]

No problem! Hope you found what we shared helpful!

[@Tarsarian]

Just found this channel and you ladies are on fire! I just subbed and am eager to see more videos. Thank you so much for telling your testimony and edifying the Body of Christ!

[@NateGibson-v2v]

I found this video raised some good points, but had a lot of buzzwords. Though there are narcissists (from pride, arrogance, selfwill, etc.), that word does get overused. Some of it is more so immaturity on a person's part then being nefarious or being clinical. There is a reason children can't get diagnosed with such a condition is because children and more so human nature have "narcissistic tendencies". Children can be self centered and very selfish. This same thing applies to immature people who don't stop to think of their impact on others. Christ teaches us to be selfless and to consider the Father's Will above our own. Also to love our neighbors as ourselves. I have experienced my own immaturity and coming into conflict with God's will throughout my life. Like Paul said there is a conflict between the flesh and the spirit. I thank God that he delivered me from my stubbornness and immaturity. Truly it wasn't until I repented of seeking a woman based on the external, when God told me no as she did not share a spiritual foundation, that a year later God introduced me to my wife. All that being said, all I can really emphasize is inquire what a prospective spouse believes. If you do not share a foundation you will tear each other's down. In a relationship you want constructive arguments, that is where you argue based on shared beliefs and come to mutual conclusions (as Iron sharpens iron). The opposite is destructive arguments where your goal is to tear down your opponent and attack their foundation. God bless!

[@sonyaphiri8502]

Thank you for the message,,,🙏🏾❤️

[@leeanandleena]

Of course! However we can support others in navigating relationships, we are here for that!

[@leeanandleena]

Of course! However we can support others in navigating relationships, we are here for that!

[@Redeemed1983]

Good message and the music is a little distracting.

[@leeanandleena]

Thank you and we’ll definitely keep that in mind for future videos to make sure the background music isn’t distracting! Appreciate this feedback!

[@DT175Enduro]

music is too loud. distracting.😊

[@leeanandleena]

@@DT175Enduro noted and definitely will keep music from being less distracting going forward, thank you for the feedback!