HOW TO STOP BEING DESPERATE || AVOID DESPERATION WHEN DATING

[@phylisngungu805]

Wapi likes z watu Wa gulf ,I learn more from this channel I owe you msoo 🥰🥰🥰

[@muthonismission]

Yaaaay!! Thanks 😊

[@hellenmwangi7408]

Nko apa

[@joanfundi325]

Am 28 and just giong through a break up and i actually felt like am going to die if he wont be next to me because am growing old. Then you bring this video to me. Are you not God sent...much much love Muthoni

[@berylachieng111]

me too,im desperate and its ok

[@joanfundi325]

Slowly am focusing on myself and running my own race. I have suspended men in the air. And i know how i wanted to be treated, if i dont get that one who treats me the way i want am better off alone.

[@nancywambui3082]

Ah 28 you're not old b patient no need to settle with the wrong person if he does not want to settle things then he is not worthy

[@emilywanjiru6157]

My mantra too Joan

[@edwardrodney254]

you probably dont give a shit but if you guys are stoned like me atm then you can watch pretty much all the new movies on instaflixxer. I've been watching with my girlfriend recently :)

[@sallymwasi]

I am 42 and single, I still believe there are good men out there.

[@estherwangui8449]

Yesss

[@wanjirunduta8588]

I love the statement'Being single is not a disease'. Embrace it, focus on yourself & stop giving credit where it's not due. The point here is 'Jipende' .Thanks gal for this. #Weeklytherapy

[@graciakinyanjui6937]

if someone wants you in their life, they will make room for you,you shouldn't have to fight for a spot, never ever insist yourself to someone who continuously overlooks your worthy

[@muthonismission]

Yesss 💯

[@st.schogg6772]

True

[@SKamau-nw7fk]

Exactly

[@michaelak5382]

I needed this so much as a women in my 20s . I might have to listen to this video everyday. Thank you❤️🙏🏾

[@muthonismission]

You got this. Thanks for watching

[@pandorastelevision9442]

Msoo name, it comes with every strong quality. We love you girl,you are reviving broken souls.💞💞💞💞

[@monicareborn2296]

I can't wait for this muthoni I'm almost desperate 😭

[@carolinemacharia4377]

😅😅😅😅😅

[@jesintahwanjiku2412]

Anytime am close to tripping muthonis videos reminds me to carry myself with value... I feel that part of someone to treat you with respect if you have a date they wake up & communicate well si mtu anakughost or you the one asking whether the date is still there

[@shizma7917]

Thanks!!! Focus on yourself, and yes you can date yourself for as long as it takes. Spoil yourself!!! Use that time for that.❤

[@rosemwangi7612]

Wow this is what I needed at the moment....I got so desperate after I met a guy and he told me that I should b married by now. Imagine and am only 24yrs😿

[@jacksonkariuki9965]

Ooh you are still young my friend

[@magnomint-254]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@graciakinyanjui6937]

Good topic... tis i can contribute i was so desperate i moved in with a man after knowing him for 3 months sema in kama drama ni kama findio... he was toxic,,, i learned my lesson good thing are never hurried

[@maureenwanjiru2255]

If desperation was a person then that’s me. Am just in my early 20’s bt I was just craving for a man. It’s that fear of being single. Each example you gave feels like you were talking about me. Met someone on a dating site, 2weeks into knowing each other I was already complaining that his not giving me his ‘girlfriend’ attention. Each time I meet a guy, give him my number and in my head I declare that’s my man. Later on I look back and realize I settled for less. Some guys ain’t really what I would settle for. Bt this topic just hit me on the head that I should accept am desperate and work towards being single and happy and understand myself.Thanks muthoni

[@aliceomarphiri9635]

Girl a little bit of advice...work on yourself don't compromise about what you look for in a man. Love yourself,feel complete first without a man if a man comes he will not complete you but complement you. Go on several dates and I don't mean have sex with everyone....if one man is interested in you dont lock door on other potentials.

[@maureenwanjiru2255]

@@aliceomarphiri9635 wow thank you so much for this. Once am on one date i always declaire myself taken and thats it. Yeah thanks for emphasising on not having sex with everyone.

[@esyy_kariuki]

I learn more on this channel been single for two years it feels good

[@gloriawabera264]

Thanks Muthoni for your advice especially to the young generation we're really learning alot....I have found a big sister in you...I am always inspired when I listen to your episodes....Keep it up and may this channel grow to greater heights 🌺🌺🌺

[@muthonismission]

Awwwwwwwww....bless you mama

[@jennydoureen5642]

Whatever you saying is totally right.However its now easy to say all these because you are now in a serious relationship.Lets all be honest,when in 30s and single and no relationships,NOT many ladies will say ‘its ok to be single’ ‘i am happy’ ‘i will concentrate on other things.Many will surely not be happy honestly.

[@DorisWanjohiGifttv]

The foolish ones. Listen to Benjamin Zulu dear ones.

[@naomiwangare3977]

Aaaaw Muthoni, u help me so much with this forum here.

[@estherpiuz6512]

i usually feel muthoni is talking to me ,because whatever i have gone through in life she has talk abt it.so if i had planned to do something silly i usually take a u-turn.Thens so much msoo you have really helped me change my mentality.

[@Helloo_oo]

Ghhaaaiiii Muthoni, this advice is sooo sober!! No attitude, no hype! And it's so true, when you give yourself the best you don't even stress people with standards!

[@janenjeri7797]

This is from the heart I can see it from muthoni.

[@muthonismission]

🤗

[@emmymuriithi8805]

Am learning to date myself at 28 it's never too late♥️ thanks so much muthoni.

[@phyllisjulius1053]

Woooow I like this yes am at that age n I believe bin myself that the right man is there for me, God's time always the best 🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@fxqueen1729]

Aaw😭this all I wanted to here like right now 🥺🔥 muthoni you doing amazing work 🎊🎊

[@joypeace1632]

Muthoni, since i started listening to your content, i cant deny that you have changed me. YOU INSPIRE ME GIRL!!

[@thegreatman1781]

I always feel you use this channel to communicate indirectly to your man.

[@whitefang5208]

Powerful nuggets. Self care and personal growth will attract the right guy to you.

[@morinenyawira946]

whenever she says if are huku saying/huku doing this,i always find myself smiling,thats like your favourite slogan,keep going on girl

[@jacintamuthoni9192]

Ni kaaa slogan....na 'you know what I mean '

[@reggyann133]

Muthoni kwani umetumwa aki😂😂😂you are talking to me😭😭

[@alukwejoy808]

So helpful I was really struggling to make a decision now I know

[@ShikoShie]

Aki this girl is something else I love love love love you Muthoni

[@joycekimuhu8426]

At my early thirties n just a week ago this son of Pharoah broke my heart n now am taking an off dating myself

[@eunicemacharia4692]

Waow nice and powerful topic .....thankyou Muthoni

[@muthonismission]

You are welcome.

[@brendachepkorir607]

I am glad I found this channel I have learned a lot❤️❤️❤️😚

[@esthermutua1287]

Ooh am eagerly waiting can't Mic mambo msoo

[@sstangtu2309]

Been single now for over 1 year 6months and it's the best times ever

[@sheilawanjira29]

Waoh speaking to me directly ...thanks for such enlightening remarks. God bless

[@carolshish292]

I love this,bitter truth....am truly learning alot,,,thanks gal😘👌👌👌👌👌

[@neliuswairimu4124]

Thanks Muthoni for this♥️🥰

[@perpsperps5652]

Do a video of your selfcare routine kindly.

[@agnesjaynathan1108]

Nice talk,keep on talking to ladies mama,it helps

[@anatrizahkambui1447]

Wow... I Love this... Have learnt alot. #Be available but don't be too available... #focusingonmyself

[@Shekow_Ariana_Kuria]

I'm learning from each of your videos 😊thanks boo....i can't wait to implement 😁😁

[@lilianndichu3457]

I must watch this one.... 😢Coz I know how I'm feeling... Can't wait

[@itsWANGARI]

I'm glad I stopped by 🤗​🤗​ so much wisdom

[@evalynmuchemi3711]

Am in my late 20's and i ave nothing more to wait rather than start dating my self...

[@jacksonkariuki9965]

Haiya apana wewe

[@olivemugo7973]

I really learn alot from this channel muthoni you're amazing please keep sharing more and more looking forward to the next episode....❤️🔥💯

[@mercyl9591]

I wonder why people get desperate🤔🤔🤔seriously its fun loving yourself, pampering yourself and knowing whether you have some1 or not you will be happy!!

[@janetonsomu3309]

Thank you so much Muthoni for your wisdom,God bless

[@malekihanan9508]

Thank you Msoo,the best channel for relationship.kudos👍❤

[@GirlofNyakach]

Polite correction.. singlehood not "singleness" mama... good channel

[@mellisakariuki7643]

Thank you that was very nice, have learned something which i will help me get the best in me

[@nusulanakato]

This channel is a blessing!

[@Murungavall]

Waiting to Learn more as usual 😍😍

[@vivianadhiambo9037]

Not all men are trash,siz just stop looking into the dumpsite 😂😂 Periodt!!!

[@muthonismission]

Yup 🤣

[@anniemutua315]

Na vile nimekwama hapo siku hizi tuka niachwe

[@dinahwaturi2214]

Thankyou so much Muthoni.

[@muthonismission]

You are most welcome

[@juliustyson8394]

I know You have helped somebody somewhere 👏

[@agnesladasha5641]

Waiting here to learn some things ❤️

[@judynjoroge5045]

Right on time..taking care of myself.

[@africanrecipes7355]

Your story aligns with mine✨

[@pamlove001]

Hy dear please help me get rid of brakeups .....I'm really stressed 😥 ..... imagine I have pimples allover my face at some point I even hate my self 😭😭😭😭😭 it's now 2yrs with pimples

[@muthonismission]

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[@susanmahihu8096]

Well stated thank you for sharing this talk

[@traceeytracie6811]

Mercy jepkemboi this is for you 🥰

[@elizabethmuthoni3013]

Thank you dear..I was waiting for this

[@rosendichu3379]

Omg 😢,, thank-you so much am going through alot right now,, Am doing long distance relationship 😔 ,,, and I can see it will end in tears .. And am not ready thank you so much 😘

[@peacefaith8483]

Check it's red flags

[@rosendichu3379]

@@peacefaith8483 yeah

[@peacefaith8483]

It's your high time you learn to love your and leave that relationship slowly, since you have started seeing the red flags in it, thanks me later,you can watch Muthoni's mission on Red flags

[@rosendichu3379]

@@peacefaith8483 I watched and am at peace now.. Coz I know what I didn't know.. Thank you so much..

[@rosendichu3379]

❤️

[@valdryannita1223]

Hello... Am new here and I love your almost all your videos... Thank you ❤️

[@raykim1739]

Eagerly waiting for this Msoo..feeling so down😥

[@jessicamaina7466]

God bless you muthoni

[@muthonismission]

Thank you

[@lizpeterson280]

Thanks for this and I have truly learnt a lot from this🤗😍😍

[@estherchibutia3283]

Am Worthy

[@marymwangi5436]

This is for mere,,,,waiting patiently

[@bettymwaura3899]

Thanks ☺️ for your help Muthoni

[@joynjau1776]

Thank you so much Msoo always learning 😘😘

[@lizmomishkalizmwikali2854]

Wow ... Great content

[@muthonismission]

Karibu. Thank you for watching.

[@Agnes_Mwangi]

How can working on myself work with a tight budget. How do I convince myself that I'm enough after years of negative talk?

[@ladyafrica3553]

hehe.. fighting on a date whether there's God or not

[@muthonismission]

Thanks for watching.

[@ochiengmary]

I wish I found your channel early enough,my life would have been different,I regret making some decisions and am afraid I can't undo them....feeling depressed 😞

[@sharonnjeri3581]

Don't beat yourself up for past mistakes; we are all human. I have adopted a new mantra recently, that is keeping me going, "I am an imperfect girl, living an imperfect life, but trying to do my best."

[@kirabohadijjah6840]

forgive yourself and dont try those mistakes again

[@blessed_rose190]

I learn more from you in relationship ❤️❤️🙏🙏

[@gracemwenga3616]

Muthoni you just amazing😘thank you

[@njerindungu643]

Mm all i can say is thank you mso 🙏😘

[@olivemugo7973]

Waiting patiently ❤️

[@njerimwangi8546]

Thanks muthoni for this

[@doricas2049]

Am here listening 👂

[@menensusan1908]

Have learnt alot....thankyou😩💖💖

[@steveirungu3132]

im not interested in realationships period by Steve Irungu Jermaine

[@estherchibutia3283]

Thanks dear good content there

[@janemwaura3319]

After my lunch, tuned for more relationship wisdom 🗒

[@muthonismission]

Thanks girl

[@annwanyoike8165]

Kumbe unajua huku 🤗

[@janemwaura3319]

@@annwanyoike8165 why not live squad

[@emmywanjohi6957]

Waiting eagerly

[@KBLLP]

Muthoni you have very good articles but why'd you speak to women only? Men also should benefit

[@muthonismission]

Thanks for watching. I will try include information for everyone

[@cirumacharia8017]

Love you msoo

[@margaretmaina7670]

You impact me so much

[@lucymwangi221]

Waiting to learn

[@BEHAPPY-wr1fe]

I've enjoyed the lesson

[@carolinemugo4830]

Profound 💯

[@hildaalividza3461]

Always waiting for her videos ♥️

[@peacefaith8483]

Am happy after watching Muthoni's mission I didn't know how I healed,I come to love myself,and am happy to be single ♥️ continue with the good work,

[@Ann_wanjiru]

that so mee😢

[@muthonismission]

Thanks for watching

[@periskihara6987]

This message is mine

[@jesintahwanjiku2412]

Hey big sister... Waaiting

[@jullietwanjiku2683]

Mukiri you are a life saver💃💃...

[@nyabonyiruth254]

Let's stop this

[@muthonismission]

Thanks for watching

[@WanjiruMuya]

Looking foward 👌

[@lucymwangi221]

Kukuonanga everywhere kunafanya nifeel like nakujua😂

[@jacintamuthoni9192]

Same here inakaa ni kaa namjua lol!

[@puritymuthama2243]

@@lucymwangi221 same here🤣🤣🤣🤣 but I love her positive comments

[@itsirene0086]

@@lucymwangi221 lol same way here