HOW TO STOP BEING SHY AND INTROVERTED (BE MORE SOCIAL) | Alex Costa

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Alex Costa

Alex Costa

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@alexcosta
@alexcosta 4 жыл бұрын
Don't forget to follow me on instagram.com/alexcosta Thank you for watching, Have a great week! -AC
@mrmeistedonerlol6705
@mrmeistedonerlol6705 4 жыл бұрын
👍👍
@dalepalacios6396
@dalepalacios6396 4 жыл бұрын
Like your hair
@FUNTIME_THEE
@FUNTIME_THEE 4 жыл бұрын
Notification squad
@boseusavlogs
@boseusavlogs 4 жыл бұрын
Can you please make a video of spring outfit Alex
@currentsituations1
@currentsituations1 4 жыл бұрын
Already followed♥️♥️
@TwiliVaati
@TwiliVaati 4 жыл бұрын
My main problem in conversation is not knowing what the hell to say next or how to follow up and then it ends up in awkward silence. Its so bad I really wanna chat with that person but the silence is unavoidable.
@moved.3845
@moved.3845 3 жыл бұрын
YES AND WHEN I WAS WAS A KID(I’m still a kid)I USED TO BE SO SOCIAL BUT KIDS NOWADAYS ARE SO JUDGMENTAL THAT I LOST MOST OF MY CONFIDENCE
@addie9708
@addie9708 3 жыл бұрын
@@moved.3845 that’s what happened to me too, it also sucks bc my family comments on how i changed
@gooberkody6046
@gooberkody6046 3 жыл бұрын
Me too
@ThunderClanFan22
@ThunderClanFan22 3 жыл бұрын
I’m the most talkative person, I can make friends with anyone even when they are really shy
@Bongbongo
@Bongbongo 3 жыл бұрын
Same I try to practice by talking to people online
@donnell8402
@donnell8402 4 жыл бұрын
If you are a introvert, that doesn’t mean your shy. Every since I was young I never cared about being popular. I found out early that I would rather be treated right than be liked and respected than being popular. Just because your popular, it’s doesn’t mean your respected. I like going out and socializing but when I’m done I’m done. I need my own space and time alone . I no longer want to be bothered. I much rather enjoy peace and quiet. Figure out yourself and do what works for you.
@caseaddison982
@caseaddison982 4 жыл бұрын
That’s exactly how I am
@blueberrydiw8340
@blueberrydiw8340 4 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU!! this bunch of socially anxious people calling themselves introvert don’t know anything about introversion. And these KZbinr spreading wrong information is even worse.
@onIythepinks
@onIythepinks 4 жыл бұрын
similiar situation for me too but honestly the thing for me is I have it hard to get comfortable with new people, I need months and months to do so, but with my friends I'm litteraly an extrovert I joined high school this year and everyone is new to me and by far I don't talk at all the whole school time only when someone asks me sth and idk I feel bad because I used to be very diff in middle school because I knew everyone for years and cuz of this I'm starting to hate high school :(
@cdn6917
@cdn6917 4 жыл бұрын
The thing is I really want to talk to more girls lol but I’m just mad introverted/depressed haha
@donnell8402
@donnell8402 4 жыл бұрын
3 Doritos Después you just got to put your self out there. Learn to be in the moment and don’t worry about what to say. Don’t be in your head and you good. I learned I was better at talking to females in a one on one setting. So when you see a female by herself, go for yours and don’t let that inner voice talk you out of it.
@vishnusabari2005
@vishnusabari2005 4 жыл бұрын
1.Confidence is key - 1:08 2.Fight back - 2:09 3.Make your voice heard - 5:05 4.Learn more - 5:49 5.Fake it till you make it - 6:24 . . Thanks me later ❤👍🏻
@INANSTORM
@INANSTORM 4 жыл бұрын
finally find the summary guy
@ramshorey3342
@ramshorey3342 4 жыл бұрын
Aaye tnx bhai
@vishnusabari2005
@vishnusabari2005 4 жыл бұрын
@@INANSTORM 😅🙌🏻
@kacchan8272
@kacchan8272 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks. You're the best.
@MUSICWORLD-qp9jw
@MUSICWORLD-qp9jw 4 жыл бұрын
Just finding this
@roopamnanda5483
@roopamnanda5483 4 жыл бұрын
Jose Zuniga " I'm gonna teach you to be stylish" Alex " I'm gonna show you how to be Social and less awkward" Random guy on youtube " I'm gonna sit back and watch you do it"
@junaidjavidan6992
@junaidjavidan6992 4 жыл бұрын
Where is my boi alpha and bluman
@junaidjavidan6992
@junaidjavidan6992 4 жыл бұрын
@KIM JONG UN oh praise the nukes
@tanishaqkumar5708
@tanishaqkumar5708 4 жыл бұрын
Alpha m is best
@nabil9772
@nabil9772 4 жыл бұрын
@@tanishaqkumar5708 Nah.
@kacchan8272
@kacchan8272 4 жыл бұрын
@KIM JONG UN how about launching a nukes to you're country?
@dopemango4653
@dopemango4653 4 жыл бұрын
There is nothing wrong with being an introvert, it shows a sense of maturity. Being an introvert doesn’t mean your awkward and shy it just means you like to be alone which is is better than being an attention seeker
@melonade1798
@melonade1798 3 жыл бұрын
I agree friend
@nomadsland8322
@nomadsland8322 3 жыл бұрын
I’m gonna over-intellectualize this but I’m saying it anyway. It’s no different than 5000 years ago people being expected to sacrifice their newborn for the rain gods. The “social majority” believes it to be so and necessary, so the pressure gets put on, like that introverts are inferior to extraverts and thus need to become them. Enough people with enough influence believe it so the belief will be propagated almost like it’s a cultural value. It just so happens we exist at a time we haven’t came to realize how stupid it is, but that’s just like the savages who would forcefully make others sacrifice their kids to the gods. It’s almost literally the same principle in action.
@swaythekid
@swaythekid 3 жыл бұрын
True
@BM8C7
@BM8C7 3 жыл бұрын
Disagree tbh
@TheRealJshawn12th2005
@TheRealJshawn12th2005 3 жыл бұрын
The attention seeker gets all da love tho :/ which u don't wanna sell out to be a attention seeker because that's not the way but that's what people like in this world
@askredditgameplay
@askredditgameplay 3 жыл бұрын
The thing is, I’m social if I wanna be social. If u come up to me I’ll open up, I’m friendly, you know. But when I try to start conversations, people just walk away. They look disgusted or they look unamused and sometimes they look like they just wanna leave. It hurts man. Lol . Like "Heyyyy I thought your book report was really cool!" "um ya.... *ZOOMS AWAY*"
@kate-jr5vd
@kate-jr5vd 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@erik6630
@erik6630 3 жыл бұрын
You might wanna stay away from those peopel
@hellomynameisdav
@hellomynameisdav 3 жыл бұрын
give them the middle finger or just say something sarcastic like "DO you have something in your pants or are you happy to see me?"
@urfavleo07
@urfavleo07 3 жыл бұрын
Mhm, i start to make a conversation, I’m the only one talking or they seem annoyed
@harlan7777
@harlan7777 3 жыл бұрын
People say "you don't need those type of people" but they don't realize that everyone walks away.
@ninchalla_creates
@ninchalla_creates 2 жыл бұрын
Faking til you make it has carried me very far. I come to find that while you're "faking" the confidence more of your authentic self starts coming out and you start getting comfortable with showing you're true self. Before you know it you fall inline with your authentic self more often in social situations
@fadialbert1287
@fadialbert1287 4 жыл бұрын
Bro this man is literally my guardian angel that just upload what i need... i just moved to a new school and needed to make friends, this will help a lot thx
@shreyasmehta3679
@shreyasmehta3679 4 жыл бұрын
I am an introvert ... And this video is helping me a lot!! Love from India Just expecting love from Alex ❤
@outcast2942
@outcast2942 4 жыл бұрын
Haat lawde
@a_19_kartik63
@a_19_kartik63 4 жыл бұрын
@@outcast2942 😎🤣🤣🤣🔥
@sarim8469
@sarim8469 4 жыл бұрын
@@outcast2942 🤣🤣🤣
@human2443
@human2443 4 жыл бұрын
@MR DOPE ye nhi sochega bhai inhe kitna hi smjha lo bss apne aap ko cool dikhana aacha lgta h inhe 🤦
@imperia6368
@imperia6368 4 жыл бұрын
My online classes began 4 months ago and now the government order has come to open colleges which is a blow to me I didnt expect them to open any soon and I have to go to college tommrow ,I actually don't know anyone in my class of 60 , while most of them have already met eachother couple of time but I stayed at home and avoided all meetups, Tommrow it would be hard for me to survive everybody will be busy with talks with eachother and with girls while I hardly know their names and will have no topic to talk about they won't be able to recognize me ,I chatted with like 3 of my classmates online including a girl ,I don't know what they will think of me tommrow like I use to chat with them online and when I see them tomorrow I will lose my ability to talk ,I just don't want to be left alone Do you have any tip? Love from India
@royerthedestroyer7
@royerthedestroyer7 3 жыл бұрын
I'm an introvert so usually whenever I'm quiet in a group convo and they want me to talk, I make sure they pay attention to what I say and they get interested 👌🏽
@adamsworld1904
@adamsworld1904 4 жыл бұрын
I almost watched every video on this channel but this one is just so good, the way u talk, the voice, the words ure using, just everything. & i can see the development that u've made lately, very impressive broh, keep it going, it's been a long journey since three years now & i'm happy to see u improving really, that's how i see things, if u dont wish good things to ppl, u won't get good things in life, so smach it dude!
@goxent
@goxent 4 жыл бұрын
"The Biggest mistake an introvert can do is trying to be an extrovert And the biggest mistake an extrovert can do is trying to be an introvert." -Jay Shetty
@zizu1236
@zizu1236 4 жыл бұрын
jay shetty is not the right guy for advice,
@unofficialsarcasm4110
@unofficialsarcasm4110 4 жыл бұрын
@@zizu1236 mmm... Why..?
@zizu1236
@zizu1236 4 жыл бұрын
@@unofficialsarcasm4110 He just offers inspirational quotes rather than offering real solutions that adress the core of peoples issues. He is a good speaker no doubt but he panders to what people wanna hear and he just strokes their ego. Much better to watch people who say it like it is and offer real advice.
@imperia6368
@imperia6368 4 жыл бұрын
My online classes began 4 months ago and now the government order has come to open colleges which is a blow to me I didnt expect them to open any soon and I have to go to college tommrow ,I actually don't know anyone in my class of 60 , while most of them have already met eachother couple of time but I stayed at home and avoided all meetups, Tommrow it would be hard for me to survive everybody will be busy with talks with eachother and with girls while I hardly know their names and will have no topic to talk about they won't be able to recognize me ,I chatted with like 3 of my classmates online including a girl ,I don't know what they will think of me tommrow like I use to chat with them online and when I see them tomorrow I will lose my ability to talk ,I just don't want to be left alone Do you have any tip? Love from India
@paulpablo8341
@paulpablo8341 3 жыл бұрын
@@imperia6368 The way you are thinking, probably half the class is thinking the same. We tend to dramatize the situation in our head and most of the times, it isn't actually the case. I bet you had a pretty good day in your college or at least better than what you have expected the night before.
@ItsTheJohnDoe
@ItsTheJohnDoe 4 жыл бұрын
I got this notification as I was sitting silently with my camera off on my zoom class. I feel very attacked
@brandonsanchez4976
@brandonsanchez4976 4 жыл бұрын
i haven’t even joined any of my class’s zooms
@kacchan8272
@kacchan8272 4 жыл бұрын
Try turning off the notification.
@Siu15
@Siu15 4 жыл бұрын
I do the same lol
@jacquelinehughes4247
@jacquelinehughes4247 4 жыл бұрын
When ur notification come I click so fast my phone blast
@FridgeMonsterFilms
@FridgeMonsterFilms 4 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate that you and Jose both made a point to say there's nothing wrong with being an introvert, lots of people say the opposite!
@rohanchoudhary4100
@rohanchoudhary4100 4 жыл бұрын
I noticed how you were in your videos initially and how you're now, you're made a huge progress. You're a true inspiration.
@1Theinvinciblegamer
@1Theinvinciblegamer 4 жыл бұрын
"START BEING COMFORTABLE WITH BEING UNCOMFORTABLE " By an absolute LEGEND ALEX COSTA
@flocky5491
@flocky5491 4 жыл бұрын
He defently not the first person who said that
@aneeshsharma9384
@aneeshsharma9384 4 жыл бұрын
I already read this somewhere.
@kacchan8272
@kacchan8272 4 жыл бұрын
Moron. He just plagiarized that.
@geraltnroach
@geraltnroach 4 жыл бұрын
@@kacchan8272 plagiarized? He didnt even claim that sentences 😂
@audreyhermoso7394
@audreyhermoso7394 4 жыл бұрын
-David Goggins
@tomkind6973
@tomkind6973 4 жыл бұрын
When Alex said I WORKED HARD, THE WAY HE EMPHASIZED ON THAT SENTENCE, IT FELT LIKE HE WAS MY MORNING COFFEE Alex Costa is probably one the reasons why I'm still alive 😀😀😀😃😃😃😀😀😃😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎❤️❤️❤️🖤🖤
@tahasayyed7924
@tahasayyed7924 4 жыл бұрын
Imagine Jose,Alex,Alpha M and blumaan as your school teachers. I would never miss a day
@kacchan8272
@kacchan8272 4 жыл бұрын
I'll definitely have a cutting class for ads and sponsorships.
@irsathking4346
@irsathking4346 4 жыл бұрын
I want jose is my class teacher
@amarson2322
@amarson2322 3 жыл бұрын
@@kacchan8272 oof
@akhandsikarwar1282
@akhandsikarwar1282 4 жыл бұрын
How much hardwork he has done is incredible
@NickBurke
@NickBurke 4 жыл бұрын
Another trick for introverts is to ask more questions when you're in a conversation, especially if the question relates to getting someone to talk about themselves and their life. People LOVE to talk about themselves and feel appreciated when they're heard. 🤘🏽
@sarhonsingnar7206
@sarhonsingnar7206 4 жыл бұрын
Bro even I was very shy before, but now I am better because you always said to be confident so I have trained myself, thanks to you for helping me
@amarkc6518
@amarkc6518 4 жыл бұрын
Alex looking dapper. Still remember the early days of this Channel, it helped me to grow better version of my self!!! Great job bro👍
@erickdelacruz3788
@erickdelacruz3788 3 жыл бұрын
So what I got from this was to join his “inner circle” to find out more
@kohlerwilcox9011
@kohlerwilcox9011 4 жыл бұрын
As an introvert who is very comfortable talking to people and is a fairly confident person, the best piece of advice I can give you is to accept that you’re an introverted person. Don’t try to BE an extravert, just take so cues from how they act around others. Don’t be afraid to share your viewpoints, explain your insights, or just simply be yourself. It’s a myth that quiet people don’t succeed. Unconfident people don’t succeed. And confidence has nothing to do with introversion/extroversion.
@vpr_dalton
@vpr_dalton 4 жыл бұрын
Alex your videos always show up at the best times. Bless you and Thank you.
@Kush_Batra_
@Kush_Batra_ 4 жыл бұрын
Alex, you're always awesome in every way. You're inspiration for me. Lots of love and support from here.
@anonyash949
@anonyash949 4 жыл бұрын
I was an introvert and i started watching your videos i have seen a much difference between me now and old me
@abyssal_phoenix
@abyssal_phoenix 4 жыл бұрын
This video makes me feel like introverts are not allowed to be introverts. Now that that is out of the way: My body found its own way of doing it. After reaching my life goal at my 16th last week, (that is something I expected to happen like never) I discovered something in myself. Helping me fight the depression was: confidence and extrovertism. They helped but wanted to play a bigger part of my life
@anuj6808
@anuj6808 4 жыл бұрын
I made it for the first time in a minute, let's go.
@sangayrapden9482
@sangayrapden9482 4 жыл бұрын
Lol when this video was uploaded it was 42 seconds so I think I came first
@imperia6368
@imperia6368 4 жыл бұрын
My online classes began 4 months ago and now the government order has come to open colleges which is a blow to me I didnt expect them to open any soon and I have to go to college tommrow ,I actually don't know anyone in my class of 60 , while most of them have already met eachother couple of time but I stayed at home and avoided all meetups, Tommrow it would be hard for me to survive everybody will be busy with talks with eachother and with girls while I hardly know their names and will have no topic to talk about they won't be able to recognize me ,I chatted with like 3 of my classmates online including a girl ,I don't know what they will think of me tommrow like I use to chat with them online and when I see them tomorrow I will lose my ability to talk ,I just don't want to be left alone Do you have any tip? Love from India
@imperia6368
@imperia6368 3 жыл бұрын
@Aakash Nagre that day things went totally different I made Friends it was a good day ,now it's vacation ,it's fine
@joshuagarza3747
@joshuagarza3747 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this video, Alex! I've been an interovert my whole life and enjoy being alone...it's peaceful! I'm about to be a software engineer and these tips are very useful as I enter the professional world from being a college student.
@Killer-oh5gu
@Killer-oh5gu 3 жыл бұрын
Some things take time 2 understand I watched this video last year But now i m watching and able to understand deeply everything U dont know how much u help us Love u bro God bless you
@VajrinShah02
@VajrinShah02 4 жыл бұрын
Alex calling himself introvert Me laughing 😂
@imnotsharingmyrealnameonth5601
@imnotsharingmyrealnameonth5601 4 жыл бұрын
its not funny
@notfiizz
@notfiizz 4 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@basil7476
@basil7476 4 жыл бұрын
U can be an introvert and actually socialize, even sometimes a lot, it just depends on the person and to who they talk to
@tributedK
@tributedK 3 жыл бұрын
You provided so much value in this very short video. You are awesome, man. Thank You so much, Alex.
@vikramkaura
@vikramkaura 4 жыл бұрын
ALEX YOU HAVE LIFTED MY LEVEL FROM GROUND TO THE TOP....... THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR BEING THE BEST BRO.......✌️😉
@arijeetnath8498
@arijeetnath8498 4 жыл бұрын
Am actually an introvert as u mentioned, so it really kinda helped me a lot . Thanks man!
@Leooo10
@Leooo10 4 жыл бұрын
Alex you’ve given me confidence to move forward, after my fiancée left me. Now I look forward to your videos to help improve myself not only for me but maybe to get her back or for the next girl that comes around. Much love!
@Eatos_17
@Eatos_17 4 жыл бұрын
Wow that sucks, take care brother!
@editingdada7149
@editingdada7149 4 жыл бұрын
The big fan of Alex Costa. Love you bro you changed my life I’m a teenager. You are the only one who always tell right.
@aysheri7724
@aysheri7724 4 жыл бұрын
0:21 Bill gates Jhonny deep Albert Einstein Elon musk Emma watson Mark zuckerberg J.k rowling Abraham Lincoln Christins Aguilera Laura Bush Barack Obama Michael Jordan Meryl streep Warren buffett All these inspiring people are introverted...
@jonysingh6272
@jonysingh6272 4 жыл бұрын
But they are extremely intelligent and smart
@aightbet8954
@aightbet8954 4 жыл бұрын
most of these were an intp which is the personality that is mostly associated with introverts, it gives me some hope ngl
@unknownplayer7190
@unknownplayer7190 4 жыл бұрын
How can be Emma Watson is an inspirational person
@jonysingh6272
@jonysingh6272 4 жыл бұрын
Aight Bet it has nothing to do with personalities only intelligence
@aightbet8954
@aightbet8954 4 жыл бұрын
@@jonysingh6272 being a shy introvert effects intelligence drastically
@angelxnevermind2098
@angelxnevermind2098 3 жыл бұрын
I saw other people my age talking amongst each other while I stood there shy asf, so here I am (":
@kayleegonzalez9401
@kayleegonzalez9401 3 жыл бұрын
no because fr, I started school like 2 weeks ago and I never talk while everyone’s having full blown conversations
@angelxnevermind2098
@angelxnevermind2098 3 жыл бұрын
@@kayleegonzalez9401 good luck bestie! I believe in you.
@kayleegonzalez9401
@kayleegonzalez9401 3 жыл бұрын
thank you very much, i also believe in you!
@mohamedhichemmouzali6505
@mohamedhichemmouzali6505 4 жыл бұрын
1-be confident 2-fight back (push your self to talk) 3-make your voice heard(don't overthink a lot ) 4-learn more!!!(more infos=more talking) 5-fake it til you make it (get out your confert zone)
@maximoaguilar4255
@maximoaguilar4255 4 жыл бұрын
Alex always fresh🔥
@groos3449
@groos3449 4 жыл бұрын
Cara eu assistia teus videos e JAMAIS poderia imaginar que tu é brasileiro, teu inglês é incrivel. Se ainda souber falar português saiba que pelo menos 1 pessoa da tua terra natal te assiste hahaha
@Antweezy
@Antweezy 4 жыл бұрын
Im introverted and a dj. So giving announcements at weddings is one of the hardest obstacles I've learned to overcome.
@mnadamishak9299
@mnadamishak9299 4 жыл бұрын
Welp I'm an introvert and now I've become a teacher, life's really good now.
@crowszer8566
@crowszer8566 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks to Alex my confidence has skyrocketed
@ashmitpathania
@ashmitpathania 4 жыл бұрын
You have really motivated and boosted me a lot!! Thanks man🙏
@muminrafiu9966
@muminrafiu9966 4 жыл бұрын
For me, I take it as a choice being an introvert or extrovert... like, I am on a spectrum of the two personalities. Thank you Alex for either ways.
@rakeshchopra3550
@rakeshchopra3550 4 жыл бұрын
Teacher- what is impossible in the world ME -Getting a heart from Alex
@neerajrathore8538
@neerajrathore8538 4 жыл бұрын
You didn't get it
@vishagh7352
@vishagh7352 4 жыл бұрын
Lol
@3stars359
@3stars359 4 жыл бұрын
You made it I hope
@kapilbelamkar282
@kapilbelamkar282 4 жыл бұрын
Bsdk 😂
@ankitraj5011
@ankitraj5011 4 жыл бұрын
Hey Alex,I saw the notification of your video but when I saw this it feels like now I'm gonna crack my introvert nature ,dude u r absolutely amazing 🤩
@Manojkumar-gs2rf
@Manojkumar-gs2rf 4 жыл бұрын
I feel that I improved myself by watching your videos,keep going 👍👍🔥
@abuuafnan5818
@abuuafnan5818 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Alex keep shinning bro
@kikru5542
@kikru5542 4 жыл бұрын
So basically Alex's advice for introverts is to become an "Extrovert".
@Sidguru101
@Sidguru101 4 жыл бұрын
Betosky.... You are my inspiration
@theficho5104
@theficho5104 4 жыл бұрын
@@Sidguru101 what?!
@Sidguru101
@Sidguru101 4 жыл бұрын
@@theficho5104 you can Search betosky on KZbin
@basil7476
@basil7476 4 жыл бұрын
That's not the right way, becoming more social or less shy, ok, but one can't change somebody's personality like that, if they actually have that personality and it's a part of them
@ramshorey3342
@ramshorey3342 4 жыл бұрын
Try becoming an ambivert though
@NutsFrame
@NutsFrame 4 жыл бұрын
started at domino's and making gaming videos then got serious and worked hard on this, it's like he's me but good looking and not depressed
@Azharkhan-pr2gj
@Azharkhan-pr2gj 4 жыл бұрын
27 seconds 🔥 I’m sure alex will give me a ❤️
@bhaveshsupekar3810
@bhaveshsupekar3810 4 жыл бұрын
There is so much to learn from each of your subjects. And I look forward to new topics. Very much love sir.❤️
@funtime7754
@funtime7754 4 жыл бұрын
'Confortable being unconfortable'😍
@yameena.z2276
@yameena.z2276 2 жыл бұрын
as always I am feeling so confident to see you videos
@joshmclee9777
@joshmclee9777 4 жыл бұрын
I send a Big THANKS to this man ✊ You really help me Alex I really like what you do, I love all your videos Hope to meet you one day ✊
@Eighteen18703
@Eighteen18703 4 жыл бұрын
Alex bro your video change my mind & always give me new way or perfect way to express myself around people
@kizurain167
@kizurain167 4 жыл бұрын
I honestly cried when my teacher asked me to give her papers on another teacher. Because i got into the wrong teacher and embarrassment gave me tear roll lol.
@aryanguleria4429
@aryanguleria4429 4 жыл бұрын
Bro your all points suggested are so realistic bro hell yeah 🙌 ...once or may be two ponts all happen to me once in my life bro really bro ....
@boeinga370
@boeinga370 4 жыл бұрын
1:46 Alex: “I myself am and introvert” Also Alex: Proceeds to shoot an almost 10 minute KZbin video that he knows hundreds and thousands of people from all over the world will see
@dragonyer8025
@dragonyer8025 4 жыл бұрын
Introverts it's not shy or social anxious people. Introverts just like be alone with yourself. When they around people, introverts loose their energy. But that's it. What you're talking about, it's shyness, sociophoby, people without confidence
@basil7476
@basil7476 4 жыл бұрын
There are many introverted KZbinrs, u ans many others have a wrong stigma and /or misconceptions abt introvertism and introverts, u can still be an introvert and talk to people and actually like it, but they would have a smaller circle, and if it's too much, their energy could be drained, but they could still really like the company of others and not have a problem talking with people(whether in general, or with certain or some people), it just depends on the person(the introvert). A few or some introverts could be considered as an ambivert too
@bjwkusgxjdks
@bjwkusgxjdks 4 жыл бұрын
Boeing A370 introverts ain’t shy. Shyness is bad, being introverted is a personality. So, we can conclude that some introverts may be shy, and have to fix this issue. The only difference between introverts and extroverts is that introverts get their energy drained talking to ppl. But extro-recharge their battery by talking to ppl. I’m 45% introvert, I feel like it’s 60% cuz I can do whatever I want, but I LOVE TO BE ALONE. Have been a motivational speaker for a year, I used to be shy. But now, my confidence overpowered my shyness.
@imperia6368
@imperia6368 4 жыл бұрын
My online classes began 4 months ago and now the government order has come to open colleges which is a blow to me I didnt expect them to open any soon and I have to go to college tommrow ,I actually don't know anyone in my class of 60 , while most of them have already met eachother couple of time but I stayed at home and avoided all meetups, Tommrow it would be hard for me to survive everybody will be busy with talks with eachother and with girls while I hardly know their names and will have no topic to talk about they won't be able to recognize me ,I chatted with like 3 of my classmates online including a girl ,I don't know what they will think of me tommrow like I use to chat with them online and when I see them tomorrow I will lose my ability to talk ,I just don't want to be left alone Do you have any tip? Love from India
@lasorico8762
@lasorico8762 3 жыл бұрын
Me: *tries to be social* Social anxiety: 173 +1 embarrassed:173 +1 Actually succeeding in being social: -173
@vanlalsiamazlatan2300
@vanlalsiamazlatan2300 4 жыл бұрын
I needed this so much.. Starting college soon after lockdown, here in India.
@Maxb151
@Maxb151 4 жыл бұрын
You changed my life thank you for the all ideas that you give us
@programming6532
@programming6532 4 жыл бұрын
imagine alex costa give me a heart!
@suyashthakur9178
@suyashthakur9178 4 жыл бұрын
My god thankyou so muchhhh alex. I literally thinking about this and you made the video. You’re the best 🙌🏻✨
@The_Unexpected_Inquisitor
@The_Unexpected_Inquisitor 4 жыл бұрын
You cannot change from being introvert to extrovert and you do not have to. Today's world have to understand that people like us exist and stop viewing us as weirdos.
@ImZagito
@ImZagito 4 жыл бұрын
I am introvert and you and your video help me. Your my inspiration.
@uncookedfragrances
@uncookedfragrances 4 жыл бұрын
Okay so our king Alex is here 🔥🔥❤
@dev504
@dev504 3 жыл бұрын
I am fat, ugly, my tongue slips when i talk, don't know what to talk about, or how to fit/enter into an conversation, thinks too much before talking that I skip talking, can't take risks so I don't learn and mainly knowing all my flaws I can't seem to fix them it is just so frustrating sometimes.
@melonade1798
@melonade1798 3 жыл бұрын
There's no such thing as being ugly, you may think you are but truly you're beautiful in your own ways. Nobody is perfect, and that's what makes each and everyone of us unique. You say you can't take chances, but that's what your mind is telling you. The mind is powerful and can tell us lies, but the important part is to not pay attention to them and move on. I myself think too much and can't seem to fit in aswell, it's very hard to deal with, but that dosen't stop me from being me. Hopefully, this made your day brighter, friend
@Lucifer-qb3nb
@Lucifer-qb3nb 4 жыл бұрын
Who gets so excited when Alexcosta notification show's up on your screen )
@mihirkhare9201
@mihirkhare9201 4 жыл бұрын
Dude your outfits keep getting better with every video😍👍🏻
@Razielbb1
@Razielbb1 4 жыл бұрын
Tbh I just don’t like people tho. Everyone I trust always turns their back on me. That’s why I’m introverted.
@ideecay2190
@ideecay2190 4 жыл бұрын
I don't think thats what being an introvert means. People don't have a reason for being an introvert, they just are.
@kacchan8272
@kacchan8272 4 жыл бұрын
Why not go on the front of them.
@Razielbb1
@Razielbb1 4 жыл бұрын
@Zane Db thank you bro i agree. hopefully one day im able to hang out with some good people and be friends with them.
@Razielbb1
@Razielbb1 4 жыл бұрын
@@kacchan8272 what?
@dontayedetails
@dontayedetails 4 жыл бұрын
Why are people questioning Alex calling himself an introvert? Being an introvert doesn't equate to being shy. Shyness is a symptom of social anxiety. Nice video by the way. As an introvert I can definitely agree with your points.
@1Theinvinciblegamer
@1Theinvinciblegamer 4 жыл бұрын
Kaboom!!! That’s what I need You are a magician
@diptayansikderslhs8339
@diptayansikderslhs8339 4 жыл бұрын
My life's biggest problem today solved by Alex. Thank you brother!!!
@shahidhakhil2636
@shahidhakhil2636 4 жыл бұрын
A heart for an Introvert please!
@imperia6368
@imperia6368 4 жыл бұрын
My online classes began 4 months ago and now the government order has come to open colleges which is a blow to me I didnt expect them to open any soon and I have to go to college tommrow ,I actually don't know anyone in my class of 60 , while most of them have already met eachother couple of time but I stayed at home and avoided all meetups, Tommrow it would be hard for me to survive everybody will be busy with talks with eachother and with girls while I hardly know their names and will have no topic to talk about they won't be able to recognize me ,I chatted with like 3 of my classmates online including a girl ,I don't know what they will think of me tommrow like I use to chat with them online and when I see them tomorrow I will lose my ability to talk ,I just don't want to be left alone Do you have any tip? Love from India
@borrisdillan9783
@borrisdillan9783 3 жыл бұрын
HI,, theres nothing wrong being introvert.. i am introvert but i dont disclose everything about myself.. I talk in front of a crowd and still being introvert.. Let us not put a negative thoughts about introvert.. in fact i have high respect for these people.. they are very challenging people on earth.. winning a heart of an introvert is a huge achievement! extroverts are easy to get people... moreover, i trust introvert people more than extroverts...
@Travelerabrar
@Travelerabrar 4 жыл бұрын
Who else been watching " Alex costa " for more than a year? 💕💕💕 👇👇
@kshitijgupta6515
@kshitijgupta6515 4 жыл бұрын
I am also spectating alex more than a year neha
@thefiendbraywyatt8449
@thefiendbraywyatt8449 4 жыл бұрын
I saw the same comment on tmf video
@parasmalshrimal708
@parasmalshrimal708 4 жыл бұрын
Behen tu kuu dekhti hai!!!
@danishahmed1029
@danishahmed1029 4 жыл бұрын
@@thefiendbraywyatt8449 same ..............
@armaandeepsingh6380
@armaandeepsingh6380 4 жыл бұрын
You commented same on TMF 😊 Fun fact I also commented a same comment on both channels😅
@infinitylifexx9945
@infinitylifexx9945 4 жыл бұрын
46 seconds!!! New PR!! In this video Alex is looking near PERFECT!!
@oscarthegrouch1929
@oscarthegrouch1929 4 жыл бұрын
Notification Squad 🙌🏼
@Vżm̐qħð
@Vżm̐qħð 4 жыл бұрын
Perfect time to have breakfast while watching alex vedio 😇😇🙃🙃
@ronytomy5098
@ronytomy5098 4 жыл бұрын
I'll go out , vibe and meet new people but it has an expiration
@jack_kirby_2664
@jack_kirby_2664 4 жыл бұрын
I feel like he’s wearing a long coat. It just looks like a long coat. Were you wearing a long coat, Alex?
@tomkind6973
@tomkind6973 4 жыл бұрын
Yes my son i was
@grymmreaper
@grymmreaper 4 жыл бұрын
@L1ON DRUMM3R 26 I think it's a high quality bathrobe.
@imchillzzz7370
@imchillzzz7370 4 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing
@philipsmylie8641
@philipsmylie8641 4 жыл бұрын
alex costa.. the big brother we all need
@navdeepdanner0088
@navdeepdanner0088 4 жыл бұрын
Even my channel description says that I'm an "INTROVERT" 😂😅 ! I'm damm sure that this video is gonna help me ! Thx alex !
@anujbajaj89
@anujbajaj89 4 жыл бұрын
i feel i improved myself by watching your videos ❤️❤️ great job 👍
@surfingcipher1059
@surfingcipher1059 4 жыл бұрын
Just look at that jaw line damn boi
@tgfgaming8399
@tgfgaming8399 4 жыл бұрын
I CANT JUST SAY IT WHENEVER I THINK OF SOMETHING ALEX MAKES A VIDEO ON IT MAY BE HE KNOWS US MORE THAN US AND WANTS US TO IMPROVE
@derekdeconti3059
@derekdeconti3059 4 жыл бұрын
Man I’m early, what should I comment 🤔
@kacchan8272
@kacchan8272 4 жыл бұрын
Stop being a rat lip.
@Dave-xn8sy
@Dave-xn8sy 4 жыл бұрын
Summary
@derekdeconti3059
@derekdeconti3059 4 жыл бұрын
That’s what I should have done
@aniketgupta7052
@aniketgupta7052 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for all these development videos Alex. They are really good and helpful :)
@s.mohamedjuber
@s.mohamedjuber 4 жыл бұрын
Notification squad💥💥
@tianelder
@tianelder 4 жыл бұрын
It’s okay to be introverted. I’m sure some of the most successful people in this world whether it be intellectually or financially are introverts are well. You can be Introverted and still get a long better with people than even extroverts.
@anshulanand02
@anshulanand02 4 жыл бұрын
When ur notification come I click so fast my phone blast
@greenteae8726
@greenteae8726 3 жыл бұрын
Well, it’s comforting to know that over 200,000 other people have an issue with being social and extroverted
@devinmoyo5334
@devinmoyo5334 4 жыл бұрын
Yo, I'm here!!
@imperia6368
@imperia6368 4 жыл бұрын
My online classes began 4 months ago and now the government order has come to open colleges which is a blow to me I didnt expect them to open any soon and I have to go to college tommrow ,I actually don't know anyone in my class of 60 , while most of them have already met eachother couple of time but I stayed at home and avoided all meetups, Tommrow it would be hard for me to survive everybody will be busy with talks with eachother and with girls while I hardly know their names and will have no topic to talk about they won't be able to recognize me ,I chatted with like 3 of my classmates online including a girl ,I don't know what they will think of me tommrow like I use to chat with them online and when I see them tomorrow I will lose my ability to talk ,I just don't want to be left alone Do you have any tip? Love from India
@alex_georgescu
@alex_georgescu 4 жыл бұрын
❤️From Romania 🇷🇴 You are amazing, helping us a lot!
@rodolfososa8856
@rodolfososa8856 4 жыл бұрын
Is that a 100 thieves sweater in thumbnail? :O
@Alex-kd7oe
@Alex-kd7oe 3 жыл бұрын
Yes
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