How to Get Women to Notice YOU (attract, don't chase)

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Lots of guys waste time chasing after girls instead of working on themselves to make girls interested in them. It's a common mistake, and today we're talking about how to fix it and get them to notice you instead. Watch the video, and let me know if you learned something new!"
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Focus on goals rather than holes😊

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Some people's goals are the holes

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If there is a hole there is a Goal

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Every hole attracts a pole

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[@nilimahossan3960]

You transformed me from zero to a 7... Trying to improve everyday but the acne is my main curse😕😕.. I get noticed but not approached

[@alexcosta]

Thanks a lot man, fight the acne- it will go away eventually!

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Used WhatsApp !! 😎 what happened to WhatsApp !!

[@neerajbharali619]

Alex jst wanted to tell u i have been watching ur videos since about a year nd i can say my looks have improved a lot nd i have dated plenty of girls bcuz of this glow up thnx to u

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Lots of love Alex, Congratulations on the success of 4 Million Subscribers❤️🎉 I haven’t gone to the gym because I couldn’t afford the monthly payment however luckily my new insurance plan has a benefit of a free Gym Membership so I’m definitely going to start going to the Gym quite often starting New Year’s 2024. I’ve been watching your videos I think for 4 years now. Keep up the great work man.

[@AlexPenn.DatingCoach]

Great insights! Your personal experiences resonate, especially the transformation through unique hairstyles and the impact of physical fitness. It's refreshing to hear practical advice on standing out and making a memorable first impression. Your tips on style and footwear are spot-on. Also, the emphasis on confidence, eye contact, and being vocal is gold. As a fellow dating coach, I appreciate the practical wisdom you're sharing. Keep up the excellent work!

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wayback 2020 it's only around 1M now 4M what a milestone! congratulations alex you deserve it!

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Congratulations on 4 million

[@alexcosta]

Thanks a lot man!

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@@alexcosta welcome

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You put 4M subscribers thing at 4:00. Nice little detail. Love your channel btw. Really good content.🍻❤

[@sunitachari8888]

thanks Alex! this video was really helpfull much love bro❤❤

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Make a video of skincare routine and products to use for combination skin pls

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Thank you alex ❤

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alex you are an influence. i have the best hair of any guy i know know because of you.

[@alexcosta]

Thanks a lot man!

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I see you with the OM-JM 28 in the background👀

[@theclasher427]

Perfectly explained

[@order9216]

Does anyone have this problem like you make eye contact with a girl then then they smile at you then you don't know what to do

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Loving that JM guitar 😮‍💨

[@kowshikkush9998]

0:07 They always look 😂🎉

[@azharmunief491]

Alex I have an oval shape face and was wondering does facial age matter when choosing a hairstyle?

[@henrysabie09]

Im a teen and there's a girl I really like and I think she likes me. But I don't how to tell her. How do I do this?. I really want to tell her.

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Alex Costa 🔥

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Im overweight please help me Make a video on this please

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Theres a lot of weight loss videos and channels

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video thumbnail, WTF Lol

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Love from India 🇮🇳🇮🇳

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How to talk to my girl I feel difficult

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Hi alex

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Hey!

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[@divinealex2]

Tbh i disagree on this one because if tou try to get girls who dontblike you you are going to dive yourself crazy and even if you do get her it will be alot of headaches.

[@israelj.7677]

Yeah, still not noticed...

[@tommywilson1906]

The skinny ugly guy with money gets noticed first …..make that cheese kings 😊

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I can't get enough of this content - it's like a drug!

[@ZHwilderness]

Your confidence depends on how you feel from inside. No body's life is perfect. No one can be confident all the time. It's okay to be anxious sometimes. That's real and raw. Btw your videos are spreading positive vibes❤

[@mess-f]

Agreed! I use these videos with the young men I coach, Alex inspires rather than makes guys feel like they are “less than”. As a woman it’s harder to impart this particular wisdom; Alex makes it easy to see how to be approachable and attractive using your own natural look and style.

[@benthomson632]

Junior year of high school, the summer before, I went to the gym, learned how to style my hair, found my style, figured out how to be confident and started to talk more. 5/6 of these I have used and all of them worked! Time and time again my friends come to me and tell me there is another girl that likes me that just builds my confidence. I’d have to say thank you to Alex for this progress.

[@alexcosta]

That is awesome! Thanks a lot, have a great school year

[@ssesangamelvin823]

I started listening to you in the lockdown and damn has my life changed for the better. I appreciate you Alex

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“Yaa… this is the new me” 😂 Isso foi muito engraçado! Abraço de Portugal! 🇵🇹

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ALLAHUAKBAR

[@Gyatttmunch]

Man I don’t even really care about women anymore, I just wanna be happy again. No hate though, keep doing what you do.

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Thanks a lot man!

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Hello from Chicago Illinois Pilsen !!!! 🇺🇸

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A day without hearing Alex feels like 24 hours!!

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wonder what other days feel like 🤣

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@@thedarkknight0710 I really miss Joker (Heath Ledger), dude!!

[@mohamedwazeer4071]

What is the best hairstyle for an oval face shape I am 19 plz

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Try side part it’s awesome

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00:01 Stand out to make women notice you 01:16 To be noticed, you need to be unique. 02:28 Physical transformation and garnering attention 03:43 Unique style is crucial for making a great first impression. 04:51 Dress to represent the man you want to be seen as 05:59 Facial hair can enhance your attractiveness and create a more masculine look. 07:14 Walk with confidence and make eye contact. 08:33 Engage in interesting and funny conversation to catch her attention.

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Yo Alex I see the new Martin 20th Anniversary John Mayer guitar in the background there! Do you still play?

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Congratulations Alex on your 4M.

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Bro I love your comtent , Again good video . Congratulations for 4m

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Hey Hi Big Fan Brohhhh

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Hi bro, Make video on "How to fix bad posture" Love from Pakistan 🇵🇰❤

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Love from india Alex

[@eugenendungu4062]

Dude after I started working out, the amount of looks I never once got is just SHOCKING 😮 especially women no matter what age 😢

[@KATSEYEILLIT3]

Stop generalizing women. Frankly, I'm not attracted to overly masculine macho guys with abs and a beard. I like cutesy guys, like those in the K-dramas.

[@giladmintz3877]

Alex before I watch your videos I was also a little confused and didn't even know my style my hair but then I started watching your videos and it was like a game-changer you really helped me learn about my personal style my hair and everything even to my skincare thank you so much for helping me you are like the big brother I never really had thanks bro❤❤❤❤

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After messing up my first interaction with my “crush” this week I’m going see her again,thanks Alex!

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before US , where u live? where r u from ???

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Hes from brazil

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Still. Not working

[@mohamedwazeer4071]

Thank you soo much

[@alexcosta]

You're very welcome!

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Thanks for the advises all these years man, you've no idea how much I changed because of you! And I'm soooo proud of you that you hit 4M, literally discovered your channel at 600K!!!

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Alex I'm here with you my brother , congrats 🎉 so happy for you , i can't imagine my life without you much love my reason of keeping things going ❤

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iam 6foot weighting 121 pounds iam struglling to gain weight

[@defining_moments]

Alex question, now what about if every time there is a hot woman passing by and obviously with all your videos I always dress good they always look at me. Always! I mean I just pause at times and I don’t say anything but in general they always look at me at times a small smile. They always make eye contact!

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When the night has come...

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And the land is dark....

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U need these Methods : 1st Chase money .... 2nd Chase money .... last Chase Money ..... They will come to u

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Did Alex brake up with his girlfriend? I haven’t seen them together in a while

[@twmax6525]

You mean pump the brakes on his relationship? That kind of brake up? Much better than an actual break up. Lol.

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How about a collab video with Teachingmensfashion Alex it's about time

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lol alex didnt you recently shave

[@kingdark5899]

Bro can you help me transform myself

[@gauravbhan]

I have spent years and years and years on self-improvement. Every time I reach a certain level, I realize that there is so much more. I am 40, and if I now look back to when I was 20 or 25, there is so much change. One thing I must work on is eye contact, which at the moment isn't consistent. I have also started acknowledging that not every day will be the same. It is ok to sometimes feel miserable, low, or underconfident temporarily. I mustn't beat myself up for feeling that way. Acknowledge and move on.

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fat to fit guidelines video plz

[@Kira2991]

What happen to the fashion content ?

[@youssefelsayad2080]

What do you mean exactly by a girl noticing me, do you mean like looking at me for a second or two or longer than that or do you mean another thing

[@waldalf8930]

great video. btw What is your beard length?

[@Edwin582]

Hey Alex, where are those carpenter pants from in the video at around 6:00

[@Don-da-ke]

She wants to fish guys. She wants to go fishing 😂

[@AdityaSingh-ot8vu]

In my gym there is cute girl buti didn't start talk to her .I want her to notice me at least give me a glance so that I can talk to her . I want to talk to her but I am scared to talk her please can anybody help me . Please tell me how I can talk to her at least how can I make me notice to her so that I can start conversation with her

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I just clicked on the video to say that the thumbnail is very relatable

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Man you skin is looking better, what's up?

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0:07 They always look 😂🎉

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Example of Matrix

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You are always besttt😭💗

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How to make a girl chase you. First you grab her wallet and run.

[@BobRoss-wm3lc]

Hey Alex what length is your hair in this video?

[@cwrichardson3]

Your hair grew long in 6 months from those pictures you showed. The ones when you talked about your license and planet fitness membership. I think those pictures are longer than 6 months apart.

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Do you have that winter look book coming soon?

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You are like big brother ❤

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Glow ups are real young fellas.....but only if you work at it

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Sir my forehead has very low hair density, and hair fall increase day by day as my father is also bald ,so please suggest a way so that my hair fall will reduce, please help I'm in depression.... From - new Delhi India

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Every videos on youtube I switch 1॰5x but your videos I love to watch at normal speed because ur way of talking and editing I love so much Love from india tq for this type of help

[@Geogian_]

Hello Alex, I hope you are doing well, I don’t get many compliments from women.

[@Geogian_]

Is there a way you can help me out please?

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Focus on your goals you will get many holes😀

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Totally unique video it's helping. Appreciate you brother

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Im am from india alex love your videos big brother ❤

[@kingdark5899]

Congratulations on hitting 4M Alex

[@TreAloisio]

Teach this hack please 🙏🏽 How do you hide your shoelaces like you did with the dress shoes? Sometimes I can tuck my lsces under the tongue of my sneakers, but for boots and all shoes, how to get the "no bow tie laces" look?

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This video is great thanks Alex. :) Jon

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Love alex ❤❤❤