How to STOP CARING what others think, letting go of their judgement & becoming confident.

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(I wrote this because I have free will)
(you have free will, too)
(maybe use it to hug a tree or smth)
(This was not written by a tree)
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[@bartholetbayana9198]

Excellent video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

[@bartholetbayana9198]

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her/him?

[@bartholetbayana9198]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

[@dianaoh1940]

“If you don’t know who you are inside, the world will tell you who you are and you will believe it.” This!!

[@Xoxo.1604]

That’s real!!!!!!

[@fangirlinneverland6335]

I AUDIBLY SCREAMED OUT OF HAPPINESS LIFE IS SO GOOD WHEN YOU POST AND YOU LOOK GORGEOUS

[@Persephonesmind]

Thank you my heart ♥️♥️♥️

[@rustam900]

@@Persephonesmindyou said your confidence is not because of others complement to you but it’s from your own but let’s add this too. You are awesome

[@shermantay1254]

@@Persephonesmind thank you, from the bottom of my heart, for being the lifesaver in my life.

[@aseel7605]

1_ Accept the fact that you will be judged. ‏‪0:42‬ 2_ your self worth is not attached to someones opinion or judgment about you . ‏‪1:22‬‏ 3_ Don't let your confidence depend on other peoples opinion about you. ‏‪2:00‬‏ 4_ you know who you are . No one needs to confirm it, and no one is able to destroy that. ‏‪3:26‬‏ 5_ people only have the power over you that you allow them to have. ‏‪3:50‬‏ 6_ stop ignoring your potential. You are here to embrace yourself. ‏‪‏‪5:47‬‏ 7_ Transform their negative by imagining how every energy they lose by judging you is going to fill your cup positivity. ‏‪7:00‬‏ 8_If you don't identify or agree with a judgment, if won't affect nor hurt you. ‏‪8:30‬‏ 9_ We are all the villain in someones story. ‏‪9:59‬‏ 10_ Some people project what they dislike about themselves onto others. ‏‪‪10:32‬‏ 11_ whose thought is that? ‏‪11:26‬‏ 12_You are not your thoughts .You are your soul experiencing your thoughts. ‏‪12:23‬‏ 13_There's a thin line between hate and obsession. ‏‪13:15‬‏

[@editsdharma108]

Tysm! ❤

[@aseel7605]

@@editsdharma108 welcome ❤

[@zazaaaaaaaaa1]

@@nxbxxha_1764(I’m a girl) and you’re not ugly baby you are so beautiful and gorgeous. (Judging by your profile picture 🩷) Don’t ever say stuff like that Towards yourself. Even if you think you are ugly, if you keep saying that to yourself you would believe it. This actually worked for me and it’s to say your pretty/beautiful/gorgeous/worth it/cute etc in the mirror even if you don’t believe it at the time and you start to believe it after some time, it’s like your brain alters the way you think and stuff ifykwim. even when I think I look my worst I look in the mirror and still think I look beautiful like wow. On the other hand your gorgeous and it’s not an opinion it’s a fact 💗

[@samara.dadonnn]

@@nxbxxha_1764 you’re actually beautiful so idk what you’re talking about ….

[@kittyyy777]

I bought an outfit a week ago. It's a cute black skirt that exposes my belly. I wanted to wear it to my boyfriend's birthday, but his family dislikes me. I put on this outfit and started to cry in my boyfriend's arms. He told me how beautiful I am, but I only cared about my fear of looking unattractive and that everyone could see my belly. Then I watched this video that reminded me that I actually like my belly. I had only cried because I thought they wouldn't like it. After watching this video, I told my boyfriend that I would wear my cute black skirt and that I no longer cared about their opinion. I'm sending a little piece of my positive energy with this comment to thank you so much for opening my eyes.❤

[@u1tr43]

You did it right! Everything would be okay, love your belly😊❤❤

[@aleenawaqar909]

Earlier today I prayed to God to somehow teach me how to let go of people's judgements about me. I feel like He's answering me through this video ❤️

[@R4V3N_777]

same !

[@magicalsheep777]

Same !!

[@tripleb1960]

Very same for me.

[@Persephonesmind]

I deeply hope that you understand that no one and nothing outside of you defines YOU. Embrace yourself fully and let go of any judgement that is sent to keep you down. I love you and I believe in you. 🤍 www.youtube.com/@Alinaviol is the KZbin Channel of Alina that I mentioned in my video ♥️

[@Dolce-Vita1111]

Needed this. I'm working on self validation. For example I would stop wearing a perfume I really like just because my mother said it's not a nice scent. I hate being like this! I mean, we are different. She only likes flower perfumes so everything not flowers disgusts her. By the way, she never wanted me to be feminine, care free and happy so everytime something feels good to me, she said it's wrong! And she's not the only one to do that so it's huge red flag when people around you just want you to never shine.🌅 Thank you for this powerful message 🌟

[@free_mind_writes]

please recommend a book to deal with social situations like this...social intelligence

[@dables.a.2767]

​@@free_mind_writes I recommend: How to win friends and influence people by Dale Carnegie. This will help you a lot, it is a good book for you.❤

[@bozhanatoneva1973]

The problem is that I've been trying my whole life to be more yk friendly looking so with different people I behave a different way and it's gotten so bad I can't choose for my self I dont have a personal opinion most of the times( one because as i already said i cant think for myself or two because I would understand both sides) and I define my self worth by others and I know I should stop and defy my self worth from within but how can i even do that when i dont know myself

[@dables.a.2767]

@@bozhanatoneva1973 It's the million dollar question

[@jal1ilaa]

This reminded me of something. In my religion, if someone talks bad about you they actually lose good deeds and those good deeds are given to you. Just shows you why you SHOULDNT care what they say. Theres a story about this ancient Arabian prince. Someone came to him and told him: This dude talks really bad about you. Then, he literally sent a plate full with delecious fruits and gave it to the guy. His people were shocked and they asked him why he did that. He replied: "Well, he gave me his good deeds that he worked hard for".

[@woroodbuhmeida5177]

are you muslim?

[@alienpunkymee7001]

EVERYONE WAKE UPP. THE QUEEN HAS POSTED😭🫶🏻

[@irlprettiestdoll]

girl im crying, your passion makes my heart melt

[@siiwiekxjjzjs]

The best piece of advice I have been given on public perception is "You may hide your potential, but people SEE who you truly are. And if they don't see, you can bend over backwards, but they won't notice, because they're not ABLE to see."

[@iluwmei]

EVERYTHING YOU SAY IS FACTS, PERIODT.

[@zainabmelendez]

Last week i started posting my poems on my socials. At first i was scared but the most important thing is that i'm doing what i love. I know i will attract the people that like my content soon or late✨️

[@bhartichawlaaa]

Your self worth is defined just by yourself and not other's opinions. ❤

[@Pinocchio992.]

You have changed my life. I know you would probably read a lot of these comments but fr you helped more then my psychologist who I’ve been with for years for this exact reason you should be so proud of yourself luv you always! I’m really happy I can present n calls and talk in class now!

[@Persephonesmind]

My heart I am so proud of YOU 🥹♥️

[@enhaa0920]

this is what enlightenment feels like, thank you alessia♥

[@Raven_05]

Thank you for everything. I dont have a sister and whenever i need advice or feel lost or alone i find your videos really comforting and helpful. Thank you and i love u

[@user-jp5nu6qz2o]

My literal angel! You uploaded this when i needed it the most. You have no idea how much love i have for you, thank you 🤍

[@superdani152003]

You have no idea how much I needed to watch this video today, thank you ❤❤

[@s7ells]

Alessia sharing her knowledge with us is something i will never be not grateful for💗

[@zyaesthetix]

JUST AT THE RIGHT TIME I NEEDED THIS SO BADLY, THANK YOUUU🌷💞

[@kennyb8795]

Thank you for uploading this topic. I really needed this to know I’m struggling from low self esteem when it comes to living my life without the fear of judgement from others.

[@JyotiSingh007]

You’re an enlightened being and your words make life worth living. So grateful💐

[@Daniela99721]

The point of views of this video is so beautiful and so true!!!Good job Ale!!

[@0MLML0]

Omg i swear u have no idea how ur advices are effecting on me i love u sis ur words always show me the truth and make me feel sacrificed 🌹✨💗💗

[@kittyparfait]

THANK YOU SO MUCH!! I really needed this and I’m so grateful for your advice, you taught me so much from all of your content! I’m so proud of you

[@jufreitws]

thanks for the advice. as a teenager who lives in the modern world, i suffer a lot with online gossip, ppl post a lot of things abt me (the most r not true) EVEN VIDEOS!! im tired of being insecure bc of this, im tired of being uncomfortable in my clothes bc what ppl say im gonna stop caring abt these ppl bc their life is sooo empty that they need to talk about me to have smth !!! i loved the video!!! thanks a lot 💘

[@LoveManifestTruth]

Thank you for this. You are so on point. Keep doing what your doing. Your videos are a blessing to enrich people

[@sz4930]

6:40 wow, i've never thought about it like this! this is a fascinating and very helpful concept, people who talk about you actually lose their energy so it's their problem really. they are wasting their life and even sending you their life energy.

[@ellieabreu7388]

i LOVE your videos and seeing you get more and more comfortable in each one. the passion in this video invigorates me so much! now i want to go and get stuff donee

[@temporarilyher]

loving you is easy cause your beautiful 🤍 loving you is all i wanna do ✨

[@Persephonesmind]

You sweet soul, I love you too 🤍

[@Shiaa.24]

Why is it always that, whatever you post is always exactly what i need, THANK YOU MOTHER❤❤❤

[@roseck3253]

I can’t describe how much I needed to hear this video… I’ve been looking for someone to say this for months! I’ve been suffering from extreme social anxiety at work and this has opened my eyes

[@natalie1560]

you are my mentor for real, I'm so thankful

[@Sara-wm8in]

Thank you for your words and energy, so eye-opening

[@vanessaprincesssa]

MY FAVOURITE VIDEO SO FAR, THANK YOU, BEAUTIFUL QUEEN!

[@naiashakhila4705]

Thank you so much, pretty lady. I've been down ever since my family didnt support me for my dreams and you boosting my confidence. Ily mother i hope nothing but well for you❤❤ may Allah protect you aamiin❤❤

[@bambidollie]

honestly thank you, i'm a more gentle & calm reserved person and i've always felt i needed to be more "outgoing" and extroverted. don't get me wrong, i love talking to people but i am just more calm and can appear uninterested. and for years i thought i needed to be more loud or funny. i cared so much for years and it made me hate who i was & create this fake personality. now though, i've learned to just embrace who i am.

[@vanessaprincesssa]

I absolutely agree with everything you said! Thank you, Queen Alessia! ❤ And the best thing is - I have already started implementing this into my life ❤❤❤

[@ribbonsinmyhair]

alessia. this is actually getting scary. this is EXACTLY relevant to what is happening in my life rn. thank you alessia ily🌟🌟💌💌

[@givetheravioli3364]

Girl you are glowingggg you look amazing. This video is so well timed because I was thinking about this yesterday 😭

[@melancholicpoet]

I love you so much. Thank you for this reminder. I'm a teenager who can't do public speaking because of my fear of being perceived and seen, and it has affected me and my school performance quite a lot negatively. I have so much potential but I'm not using it because of my fear. Thank you so much Alessia for being like a big sister to me ❤️ You have no idea how much this video has helped me and your words. I'm getting better now thanks to you 💌 (these words of mine aren't even enough to express my gratitude to you)

[@tripleb1960]

Try your hardest to lay that fear to the side even temporarily when you are performing publicly. I know you are great at what you do because of how self-aware you are. ❤

[@melancholicpoet]

@@tripleb1960 Thank you for this reply. ❤️ One thing that I also learned recently is that I need to live for myself, not for anything or anyone but myself, and this really helped me with my fear of being seen and perceived

[@diorshivi]

Thanks for one more lesson mother, just when we needed it. Love your intuition and our divine connection 🙏🏻💞

[@sahdaaa]

ALESSIA OMG THANK YOU SO MUCH ❤ i really needed to hear this right now

[@_kora_7]

love love love you alessia, you're an angel i needed to hear this right now 💗

[@theitgirlofmysmalltown]

Thank you so much for posting this I really needed this kind of video💗💗💗

[@yvonne6045]

You always post what I need in the moment Thanks

[@dollydollah]

I love you so so much and everything you have ! I'm having fun watching your videos please always take videos for us queen

[@DexterMag-aso]

Your guide to shedding external judgments and finding confidence resonates with Lisa Haisha's teachings. In her recent retreat, she emphasized the power of self-validation. Your message is truly empowering.

[@maureenm7341]

yesss just what i needed! i love you so much Alessia 💝🎀

[@Alisalisada]

Thank you so much for this video,I commented about this topic on the other video and I am so happy that you posted about it,thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️

[@mgr1go]

Your videos are helping me so much. Thank you ❤️

[@HeleneOl-os3uq]

Girl thank you so much. This is very helpful ❤❤

[@user-un9fs1mb9h]

Queen, you're kinda wonderful tho. It's such a weird experience - to live nowdays. You help me to stay calm and undamaged. I mean, the whole world broke apart and you helped me to overcome through it.. so thanks, stay as healthy, beautiful, mindful and brave as you are now! Love y'all, have a nice day♥︎

[@ash-kk3ib]

THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I NEEDED I LOVE UUU💕

[@CrystalM-bf3wz]

Amen, sister! 👏🏻💃🏻 Thank you 🙏🏽 ❤️

[@Rara-zm2ps]

Perfect timing, God Bless You ❤

[@albinataalaibekovna9722]

You know you always motivate me, thank you for all, when you post I'm like WOW 🎉, finally I'm so happy, please keep it❤

[@Melodiousarcia]

Thank you so much I really needed to hear this

[@lavenderscentedletters]

THANK YOU FOR THISSS AAAAAA I LOVE U !! 💗🎀

[@Nina-fj9ko]

I needed this thank you 💕

[@mishalkhan9678]

Omg i really needed this!! I have been thinking about so much things nowadays as my boyfriend says i am a gold digger i am delusional this and you think you are better than others blah blah and i cant get it out of my head!! Thanks for this alessia❤

[@sayka3750]

"You are not your thoughts" that hit hard

[@Indie_corazones380]

Sadly I used to care about what other people thought of me until I found this video I found my self worth and love. And I honestly don't care if people don't like me I not always their type and that's fine. I really love myself and my happiness can't be find by anyone else but myself. So for my girlies who went through this similarity I'm so sorry and I'm proud of you don't give up and be unbothered cause you are a beautiful queen. God bless you😊❤🫂

[@Rose_The_Artist201]

I NEEDED THIS SO BADLY THXXXXX I LOVE UUUU 💕💕💕💕

[@aaronlyons555]

This video helped me so much thank you💞

[@Nusaiba06]

Omg I was waiting for my my BIG SISTER 😭. I love you with my whole heart and God bless you ❣️

[@veryswaggylol4326]

AHHH ALESSIA AND ALINA'S CONTENT IS KEEPING ME GOING RNN

[@ulzh07]

you are such a good and generous friend!🥰

[@Yappingtwentyfourseven]

Mother how? Please how? I NEEDED THIS TYPE OF VIDEO I NEEDED THIS OMG you really r a divine being.😭😭😭

[@Persephonesmind]

🤍🤍🤍

[@nana-oi7vl]

i love u sm 🩷you’re so inspirational

[@Persephonesmind]

I love you too 🤍🤍🤍

[@gay_mellon3341]

Thank you I will try to use this tmr ❤

[@BushraAkbarQuadri]

This video was really I was meant for to watch. Thanku soo muchh

[@rustam900]

This girl is awesome. God bless you

[@user-td1ek3ww6u]

i really need this. tysmm❤

[@mii8879]

Thank you smm Alessia for this video. i wuv watching your videos, I have learn so much from u thank you

[@kiaa_81]

I love your videos And we need more of it 😩❤

[@jiyadilipbhalodia]

How can u have such a perfect timing gurll❤❤❤❤

[@user-rt9zh8tx9y]

i was today very anxious because of the fear of judgement because I failed an exam and I thought everybody thinks that I am stupid😢 Thank you for this video ❤ It helps me a lot ❤

[@ananyaantil4695]

Your ideas help, thankyou❤

[@Wonyoungs_truly]

Hi queen!it seems that everytime I see you,you get even prettier!!

[@lavexcoms]

I smiled when i clikced on the video just in a few seconds of you saying positive words made my day!

[@CoralineAya]

I needed this thank u❤

[@kanji8671]

Yes. When people say woah you did a good job. I feel happy. But started that work , the whole progress by myself. I encouraged myself. I had fire within myself. That kept my passion alive. Others complement didn't boost my confidence. I know some people will judge me . And I know how to react

[@amala.1]

Thank u so much for this❤️❤️

[@a.vieira1]

love you, queen!! 🤍

[@samzytf]

omggggg i’ve been waiting for ur video and i literally am in love with ur channel. ur way too cool , i love ur advice you’re such an inspiration literally an icon. ur videos always makes my dayyy ahaaa

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omg needed this so bad rn. Ly bro

[@thecherryhere7]

I OPENED MY PHONE AFTER A STUDY SESSION AND I SCREAMED "MOTHER POSTED!" AND JUST JUMPED IN HERE. YOU LOOK GORGEOUS I CAN'T STOP ADMIRING YOU MOTHER 🛐

[@smujohnson]

Amazing. Exactly what I needed to hear.

[@daliyaa8]

How mother post everytime when I'm in my luteal phase and I needed it most😭😭

[@vuxwin]

this made me realize that im socially anxious and withdrawn because im afraid of others opinions. thank you for this.

[@cvndlemoon]

oh my gosh i needed this sm

[@PiousMoon_]

I was just watching one of your videos. Missed buuuh♡😭

[@pala123ify]

OMHG I WAS WAITING FOR U TO POST IM SOO HAPPY!!!!

[@abwrld0596]

Keeep posting queen we love ur videos!!!!

[@marforsure]

Thank you for sharing your voice darling, love you so much ♥️

[@minhsbloodiness]

omgggg thank you so much for your insights 🥹🫶🏻 i love you !!!

[@divaraj7628]

you're like my beautiful doll who came to life to heal me ❤

[@ohmygod4410]

I needed thissss