Stop comparing yourself to others.

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[@bartholetbay412]

Excellent video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

[@SamuelLee-kc3rh]

its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back.

[@bartholetbay412]

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her/him?

[@bartholetbay412]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

[@rjmb0ra]

💌 1: Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. 💌 2: Internal problems need internal solutions- not external ones. 💌 3: Find out where and how the comparison started. 💌 4: Stop comparing others all the time. 💌 5: Don't just focus on external beauty. 💌 6: Jealousy is a disease. Admire without feeling envious. 💌 7: No matter how many people admire you, it won't change anything until you feel beautiful internally. 💌 8: You are the creator of your reality. 💌 9: If someone puts you into a competition, never prove their narrative right by actually competing. 💌 10: There's no such thing as "ugly". 💌 11: Do mirror work. 💌 12: Focus on YOU.

[@1hrteli]

THE DIVINE TIMING , I LOVE YOU ALESSIA

[@kookiemons9315]

YES EXACTLY

[@Asteras-kw3ob]

YESSSSSSSS

[@arousromaissa5887]

Do you compare yourself?girl you’re amazing ❤

[@dmvmeu7140]

Frr 🥺🤞

[@xheartx.]

THE TIMING WAS LITERALLY CRAZY, (I was just comparing myself recently)

[@Yappingtwentyfourseven]

Her intuition ain't a joke!!! like PLEASE YOU ALWAYS POST AT THE RIGHT TIME OMG PLEASE I LOVE YOU 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 I love your new editing style 😭😭😭

[@ElviaTheStar]

It’s actually beyond crazy how accurate the timing is

[@Yeonjunseyebrows]

Fr tho

[@ellieveitte_subliminals]

"YOU are part of the universe" is the best parttt

[@Martin-nc3me]

Thanks to you I have finally left 2 toxic friends who were always laughing at me and crossing my boundaries. Best wishes, Alessia ‼️‼️‼️

[@akira6389]

I'm very glad to hear that! You did the most right thing 💕 I know soon you will find new good friends that you actually deserve

[@akshitababoria]

Sameeee i left a toxic one then my nice bff also started acting like her and she chose her over me so i had to cut ties wd her

[@Martin-nc3me]

@@akira6389 Thank you so much for your support‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️

[@Martin-nc3me]

@@akshitababoria Glad yo hear that, it's way better to be alone and be whoever you want. And the positive thing is that you have managed to clean the surroundings of people who really didn't appreciate your worth. Blessings to y'all

[@mansipal22]

Bro truee mere sath bhi thi scene tha

[@soukabangtan3545]

Happy Ramadan yall ( watching Alessia's video on TV while breaking my fast feels like heaven )

[@judymustafa460]

Same but suhoor instead 😭

[@sillycrazyminion]

I love the new editing, the little pop up pictures with "magical princess" music - 10/10, I don't know why but it makes the whole video and its' message feel like a talk with an older sister/older best friend.

[@Waresa08]

i was feeling insecure about my looks..SHE ALWAYS KNOWS EVEYTHING😭💗💗

[@ritika4u50]

Gurl you are literally SOOOO PRETTY 🥹🥹✨✨✨💗💗💗💗

[@kuzipan..7753]

"External beauty is the least interesting thing about you!" So real

[@tayslayyyyyy]

Socrates would say beauty is objective, the sophists would say that beauty is subjective, Plato would say that beauty is just an ideal form, beauty can be something else for everyone.

[@yeahim-yw9dz]

She is here when we need her. Thank you, Alessia❤

[@ahens_3804]

i had a friend in high school when I wasn't that well off financially, she was financially well off and used to brag about it to me asking me if i was jealous AND I WAS SO HAPPY FOR HER ALL THE TIME. it's insane how people feel good about themselves by comparing then to someone they're not on the same stage with 😭

[@ameii09]

At first I wasn't convinced about your videos, but I was wrong, you create very valuable videos and the way you give advice on something sounds very intelligent, don't stop creating it, keep it up

[@yayitsad]

This is literally the most perfect timing 🥹 I was feeling so under the weather recently😭

[@DreamfulBarbie]

ALESSIA we need this as a Podcast on Spotify!

[@NostalgiaStarfish]

I never use to compare myself, but started in my 20s, when you ask the Q why (bullying, or parents, etc) you basically hit the nail on the head. For me it was always being the last pick girl in class, but being a kid, and pre-adult thinking innocence I didn’t think much of it. Never been asked out buy guys, ever, and treated either like a ghost, or trash. Had girls tell me I’m ugly in High School, 🤷‍♀️ Sometimes I wonder if it’s my nose, because it’s aquiline nose (bump), it’s not flattering. It suuuuucks, and it’s sad because I never use to compare myself and when I do it’s always not good enough. So glad for this vid.

[@arusha._.]

The timing of this video is divine. I've been feeling so insecure and constantly kept comparing myself to my bestfriend who is just so beautiful. I felt awful looking at myself and I felt like I wasn't good enough. I'm only 15 and I know it's common to have these thoughts at my age but it's just so tiring crying myself to sleep everyday wishing I was prettier.

[@mansipal22]

Bro you are genuinely so pretty .

[@arusha._.]

​@@mansipal22 aww thank you 😭💗

[@mansipal22]

@@arusha._. ❤️

[@bhumikasharma205]

You're beautiful girl ❤

[@Radhajaiswal_]

That 10years was hilarious 😂

[@meri9483]

the fact that I have been comparing myself to others so much lately and talking about it to other people and now this video shows up, it's amazing.

[@fayerosty]

this video was just what I needed, just now I've realized I had a trigger. The moment I started my healing journey, once in a blue moon I'd compare my happiness and progress to others, recently it being my cousin.

[@twicepinkvelvet6256]

last night, i had a conversation with one of the members of the ALESSIA CULT, and we were discussing how fortunate we are to exist in the same generation as you. you help us in ways that you can't even imagine. can't thank you enough for that, mother.

[@Persephonesmind]

You are too cute 🥹 I love you guys so much and I am so grateful for you. 🙏🏼♥️

[@saarraaa4]

let's be friends girlll

[@twicepinkvelvet6256]

@@saarraaa4 girl, what's your un

[@vaishnavisoni186]

I started playing guitar for the first time 2 days ago & it was very frustrating for me I can't even play a happy birthday song & was feeling demotivated but now after watching this video I'm feeling good & now I believe I can do it. Thank you so much.

[@user-of6nf4qe2j]

the way this actually changed me ily you're amazing ♥️

[@mii8879]

mumma putting so much efforts in editing and I'm loving it how cute

[@munizegomesgomes6365]

"you are a part of this universe" made me realise so many things. I love your videos fr

[@honeybum55555]

your new editing style made me laugh so much, I ABSOLUTELY love it 💓 I follow your for quite a while now and it is so amazing to see how you embrace yourself more and more, I always loved your content and you but I have the feeling that now you show more of your personality and it inspires me so much and it is just so lovely to watch - you are not only beautiful and smart but so authentic and cute, I literally adore you and your progress. Thank you for letting us be part of it! PS: I think you get prettier every single time I watch you 👑

[@meerasuresh3722]

Thank you so much for being yourself. It felt like I was watching a part or reflection of me in you. It finally felt so good. And I've always wanted someone to talk about this subject. Thankyou.

[@aroojkiran7619]

Really needed to hear these words. Thankyou☺️💖

[@creativecorner5730]

I NEEDED THIS, PERFECT TIMING QUEEN OMGG

[@saarraaa4]

thank you so much for this. all i needed to hear and put it together into one goal, myself.

[@amethyst975]

I find great value in your content and would very much appreciate a video about your experience with disordered eating and how you've managed to overcome it. ♥️

[@SaMira-gb6vg]

13:04 tbh I never saw an ugly person in my whole life. Ever since I can remember I always found it awkward, out of place and weird when someone said „this person is ugly“

[@simplygalaxy9463]

Thank you so much for this, I feel like I’m going crazy by comparing myself to other people, I love you Alessia ❤

[@alice15090]

It was exactly what I needed to hear, thank you so much 😊😊🥰

[@Starswan22]

This came at an incredibly accurate time. Last night I cried comparing myself to someone I'm close to.

[@ariaalzeer]

I love you with my entire heart,I’m literally going through the worst time of my entire entire life of living. I am so close to ending my life and you’re the only person helping me. I have no family. I don’t have any support and I can’t even put into words and say what I’m going through but girl nothing is keeping me hopeful other than you. Your mindset is everything that I used to be before people destroyed me and left me with trauma. I’m fighting every single day to gain my self esteem again.

[@Jennifershaircare]

I needed to hear this today ! I compare myself sooo often or even feel worthless because I’m 22 and still had no braces yet so I always think and compare why is everyone so perfect and I am not , but your video really helped me ! I really think about it know a different way! And I feel that part with the eating disorder I have one too since i was only 8 years old it’s an endless cycle of comparing and thinking oh I will happy when I have that number or I will be happy if I look like that or that person it’s the worst doing this and comparing to others 🥲 I love your videos ! They always come up to the right time when it’s needed the most ! You always save us 🫶🏻❤️🌹 Also I know this has nothing to do with this but can you maybe show is someday your hair Routine and how you got your hair so long and healthy?🥰 Love you and Salem 🖤🫶🏻🌙🥀

[@Lluunnnaaa]

I needed this video. Thank you so much. 💗

[@nubalatunajjina9289]

Thank you SO much Queen. Right when I needed it❤ I love youuu

[@sheenapajonar2713]

love! her points are clear and instructions

[@hannnahhh6609]

Queen is always there when we need her the most ❤️

[@user-jq8xo5xj6i]

I love how she edited her videos to make it not look boring and so serious😩❤️

[@DahliaTuong]

Love this conversation ❤❤❤ thank you

[@Jules_Ambrose]

I swear,I just needed these videos. You're the best Alessia ❤ilysm

[@jaeminok8544]

I looove the way you talk it's so calming

[@emkanoemka5530]

Really needed it thx Alessia

[@MarianaBorgesOfc]

ALESSIA JUST RIGHT TIMING! Omg I swear I was ABOUT to ask you to make a video like this! Thank you for existence💞👏👏

[@fenixfire2292]

Thank you queen. I really needed this video. Love your content so muchhhhhhhh

[@Aqua_04167]

You and your contents are really helpful.They give me the crucial things about life and also improvement of learning English since you put the subtitles clearly.

[@mii8879]

thankkkkk youuu smm for your efforts, i really appreciate it. I have learnt a lot from you . Thankk youu

[@Panimucha]

thank you Alessia, because u made me feel better with myself

[@DenizDadashzada]

thank you Alessia, I needed this video so much.

[@bbydoll999]

u look like a doll. I'm obsessed with ur nails, rings, fit, makeup, and the HAIR!! such a beauty beauty.

[@mii8879]

thankkk youuu for this video

[@ajtriovideos]

thank you for this! I was just thinking about if someone else's beauty from my judgment makes them more attractive than me.

[@melikeakay4815]

thanks for sharing this with us💗 have a blessed day

[@MandyLopey]

I live in Brazil and here we had so many gorgs influencers with amazing bodies and i was like on Instagram comparing me with others, your video came up to me me in the right time

[@AbdurRahim-gt6xe]

I DIDN'T EVEN KNOW I NEEDED THIS , QUEEEN

[@missdior999]

omg alessia i love ur sassy side aaaaa

[@mamooshka9503]

Thank you for your powerful words of wisdom ❤❤❤

[@mythicalswiftie6567]

After I just compared myself to someone in my journal entry? And breakdown this weekday? I'm starting to believe in Alessia supremacy now

[@Taetae-se3vb]

timing is insanee😭😭😭 thank you Alessia❤️❤️❤️

[@liveeverydaylikeitsyourlas984]

Thank you,I am so inspired.

[@sh.hussain08]

i love this channel so much, please never stop posting. Your videos have actually helped me a lot 💚

[@tif131]

Girll my whole arm is cramping up from writing this down but I'm so grateful for this

[@gaurikanair1221]

found this right when i was stalking others and watching their stories all while overthinking

[@haerinniecat]

And like always the divine timing, I don't even know how. I will listen to this for at least 3 times tomorrow... now I have a lot to study for. When I'm done a little and relieved, I'll watch this with a pure mind. ✨️💓💓 (I am treasuring your every video, ain't none going to waste 💅🏻)

[@Lily-ci9we]

Divine timing, love uu 🫶🏻🤍

[@veautae]

Such a needed video

[@iekilol]

i was at my tuition comparing myself to the other intelligent girl and when i came back at home, i saw this video. perfect timing really

[@piylowwii6903]

"every soul has the right to express itself" I LOVE THIS QUOTE

[@amelian4897]

Perfect timing tho. Today wasn't MY day actually. I felt bad with myself but then i saw you new video❤ keep going girl you are amazing✨️🫶

[@anisasubekti_]

Thank you, queen ❤

[@Analolllll]

No way I needed this bro

[@Gulserennurdogan]

Alessia you are my favorite content creator, it’s so obvious that you put so much effort into your videos and you are so well-read and well-spoken, you clearly have a lot of knowledge and know what you are talking about. Also you have an undeniable lovely and captivating aura and energy, watching your videos is my safe space in social media 💓💓

[@Yeonjunseyebrows]

Thank you so much I really love your videos it really helps so much❤

[@mkuotsu123]

I i love how its not too long not in the negative way but my attention span is just 🤯😭❤️

[@Unbe30]

I want to give this Video 1000 likes or even more, thank you Alessia I really aprechiate you and your intuition is always right, that is the thing that i needed to hear today, i really much needed it. Also your cat Salem ist really really cute 🩷🫶🏼

[@kiyoaegyu]

I LOVE UR EDITING MORE AND MOREE! AHAHAHHA! IT'S SO FUNN TO WATCHHH!!

[@izzieevans9479]

Girl the timing is immaculate

[@pajamarotation6949]

but sometimes looking into other people things that we dont have can make me really motivated,but sometimes it became stress because i want to achieve anything,but at other point i want to grow up by looking into other people as a motivation😫

[@Waresa08]

MOTHER ALWAYS KNOWS THE TIMIMG, I LOVE YOU SO MUCH 😭💗

[@Persephonesmind]

I love you too ♥️

[@anamegoeshere]

@@Persephonesmind just like women like you thinking that if they meet a "rich man" they will be happy.

[@iluwmei]

OML PERFECT TIMING

[@user-fu2ru1hl8p]

SO GRATEFUL TO HAVE FOUND YOU

[@olajezewska1311]

Thank you queen ❤

[@NabilaBinteBaset]

"Thx girl" was really funny 😂

[@saturnbye]

you always know when to serve

[@user-ur8wq7gp9u]

Right when I needed it

[@jia7969]

IADORE U SM ALLESSIA! >< the humour and editing is everything

[@Sophie77772]

This video literally change my life completely ❤️

[@clairenesubs]

I NEEDED THISS❤

[@surechandrabaishya-fp3wi]

Thank you so much ma'am ❤

[@user-hs1os2ze1r]

THE TIMING IS CRAZY

[@wisteriaaafolk]

Mom you look fabulous🥹🌙🤍

[@Kura22201]

I used to follow pretty girls who like the same things as me but now I see them as a threat and I compare myself to them. I had to unfollow every single one of them. But social media as a whole is depressing

[@iSoufflo]

mother, i needed this

[@Nemesis-sc4rg]

I felt so insecure I asked a girl how I looked and she told me I was honestly hideous. I've been called ugly my whole life and no one ever told me otherwise so I started to believe it like I get that you must find confidence in yourself and stop caring about what others think but it just feels like you're deluding and lying to yourself.

[@cherryflavorr]

you may not have the kind of beauty that a lot of people like but the thing is,Alessia said it too,everything has its own beauty. even the smallest things. not everyone will find you pretty and that is totaly okay. even if 1% of the population finds you beautiful,that is still a lot. don't strive for external validation,find it within yourself. love yourself enough,so you can attract people that respect you and find you beautiful.

[@Trice_88]

Incredible! I believe the same about galaxies and the Universe and the way they are so gorgeous as well as us. Amazing!