How To Stop Depending On Your Partner - Abraham Hicks

[@gloriamariadc7757]

“Alignment w/ Ur inner Being is what matters most”. (Gotta tattoo that. )

[@grahamthomas9319]

Beautifully said! Thank you! Let’s set each other free. I am eternally committed to all, but I do not need anyone to behave. I have eternity to wait and I can wait right here, in me, where I feel so good. So I will always love you and I don’t have to prove it. I will leave when I want to, stay when I want to and allow you to do the same.

[@rick.8589]

this is so beautiful ❤

[@positivevibe7684]

This is one if the best messages I received from Abraham. Priceless!! I have been working on my inner self aligning with my higher being for a few years. Therefore, this message resonates with me.💯 I have been married 40 years and can honestly say my husb has been my best teacher unbeknown to him, in helping me align with my higher being. We have been through ups, downs, twists, and turns that many marriages would not have survived. We were very dependent on each other for happiness, contentment, etc.. I am at a place now where I appreciate him. It took years for me to get to where I am aligning with my higher source. I thought about leaving him numerous times. However, I now understand why I stayed with him. Thank you God/Universe. We've had good times as well. And more are on the way.❤❤ For all that is reading this, it starts with you, not your significant other. Sending much love and kindness. ❤❤

[@NicuCastravet]

Yay

[@Just_my_opinion_23]

Thank you. It’s very hard to do when I’m being treated like a slave. All the house work is on me and I still have to work and give him all my money. Im finding it very hard to see the good. We have no communication. I know it’s my fault too. How do I get this to change I’d like help from my husband I’m drowning. I don’t see how that all would change if I don’t say anything.

[@Just_my_opinion_23]

Thank you. It’s very hard to do when I’m being treated like a slave. All the house work is on me and I still have to work and give him all my money. Im finding it very hard to see the good. We have no communication. I know it’s my fault too. How do I get this to change I’d like help from my husband I’m drowning. I don’t see how that all would change if I don’t say anything.

[@positivevibe7684]

@@Just_my_opinion_23 The change starts with you. You are no able to change him, but you can make changes for your well being.❤️❤️

[@ItsShowtime23764]

Love this thanks so much for sharing and caring 💜

[@NicuCastravet]

You are so welcome

[@belindaventer8474]

Our 40 year +relationship has been one massive, painful struggle resulting from differences in libido - from day one. Both of us are suffering and have developed ways of coping with the inequality of desires - blaming, stonewalling, ignoring, stabbing remarks. But to be honest neither of us are happy, we both have unmet needs and it has become a stale mate. Just keeping up the fascade... Because of those vows, and of course pride towards those out there in having to admit that we are not in alignment. My question is how does one cope with sexual differences that one has no control over and that no one chose? The atmosphere is so strained, that I would rather be on my own than to live with the constant reminder that expectations have not been met that one is a disappointment & has failed to please?

[@Consciouslyshop]

You will continue to see more of what you believe. Change your belief about your relationship in regards to this.

[@positivevibe7684]

I've been married 40 yrs as well. Unbeknown to my spouse, he has been my best guide in aligning me with my higher source. It starts with you working on your inner self. Not depending on your spouse to do it for you. Listen to the video a few more times with an open mind. If you do the work, your life will change for your higher good. It's not a quick fix or picnic in the park. Took Me several years, and I'm still a work in progress. But soooo much further than I once was. I'm now able to recognize when I'm out of alignment. Pricesless!!❤❤

[@nutrikids-ayummyadventure2140]

Amazing… so much to learn from it ❤❤❤ love you guys !! Thank you for sooo much

[@jackiepaval5759]

Real good! Love it! 🐛👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨🦋

[@NicuCastravet]

🦋

[@yooesther]

This was an amazing upload. Thank you

[@asiyawhaa1169]

Got it!!!!!💥

[@NicuCastravet]

❤️

[@genaparry1513]

What happens when you find yourself dependent on the person who is abusive and you have to be able to make decisions with no resources to rely upon. Dependent on them by design.

[@grahamthomas9319]

Well if your in a physically dangerous situation you can leave if you like. I won’t say should because some people might want that. You will have to work out your energy regardless. You attracted the situation to your self, and will again until you do the work. Align align align. You’ve got this. I hope you use this to align yourself. I do not know your situation but Sometimes we use the word “abuse” to dramatize our victim story, this allows us to ignore the beam in our own eye. Your describing a monster. be careful that the story you learn to tell is about two humans trying to figure things out and not good guys and bad guys. You will find compassion where there was fear. But you also don’t have to stay with someone that’s silly. There are people who can help always!

[@darlabentley1461]

If you are in danger, please find a safe space. Meditation will help you to stop thought so that you can hear your truth, your inner voice. Reach for the comfort of your inner you. Be compassionate to yourself and look for a better feeling. You are where you are and that’s ok ❤ You are going yo be ok

[@yajayra.vargas]

I was there, and it got so bad that I had to choose myself regardless if I apparently dependent on him, and sure enough I got being take care of by my inner being once I chose me and said no to what I did not want and had to face my worst fears.

[@positivevibe7684]

​@grahamthomas9319 Wow!! This was an eye-opener for me. I couldn't have said it better if I tried. A hard pill to swallow is looking at the role we played. What happened to get us in the situation we are currently in. Its not taking responsibility for others behavior, but looking at ourselves and what role we played. This can help us to not put ourself in that situation again and align with our higher source. ❤❤

[@sarahsunshine6886]

Thank you for this meditation music i feel like iam floating in the clouds and all energy and alignment kicks in❤❤❤❤❤ please Abraham make a 2 to 3 hours of the same version for sleep. Thank you Esther!!!!!❤❤❤

[@Just_my_opinion_23]

If my marriage doesn’t work I would never NEVER get married again

[@weare1energy]

❤❤❤

[@NicuCastravet]

❤️🌱

[@evaalpaugh2366]

Wow what kind of relationship is that don't rely on each other might as well be strangers this fucked prison world wants to kill off the other half or any humanity we have left to have a relationship where someone cares or loves you or even is really your friend or partner perfect world for some psycopath at the top

[@positivevibe7684]

@evaal I used to feel the same way. Once you get in a relationship and rely on someone else for your happiness, joy, peace, etc... you will be highly disappointed. Being happy, joyful, peaceful, and content is an inside job. Already having these things to share in a relationship is Pricesless!!❤❤

[@jessicathejedi35]

Nowhere does it say not to care, we don’t abandon each other. But we also don’t rely on others to give us happiness. If there is abuse - leave. If it is not, then stay focused on yourself and the people around you will change with us or they will leave on their own.

[@NicuCastravet]

Perspective.