how to stop envying other girls (jealousy) (toxic friendships) (self improvement)

[@ashbackal8168]

Something that changed my perspective SO much was realizing that jealousy is often what we admire! We like someone’s style because that is our style too! We think someone is a funny person because that is our sense of humour! Everything is a reflection. If you think someone is such a great person, it means you are as-well. ❤ It takes one to know one! Let everything inspire you.

[@jasmin1773]

It really makes me feel good to recognize how every woman is beautiful, I just talked to an older woman yesterday, who rellay had an contagious smile and another woman, who was really young and adventurous at heart and told me about travelling. It really opened my heart, because I want to be like that too, when I´m older 🥰.

[@alessiasutherberry]

Aw, you have such a lovely mindset! 🩵🩵🩵 It sounds like you had a great day yesterday! Those ladies were lucky to meet you too! 💗🥰✨ xxx

[@womanofvalor7]

When the feelings of jelousy come, I pause and tell myself the women is awesome! and it doesnt take away from my awesomeness too! Love this video

[@maddyG7414]

Another point that I found with this: when I was prone to being envious and wasn’t addressing it, I attracted in friendships that were not healthy and had layers of competitiveness to them. I didn’t want that dynamic, but because I hadn’t dealt with my own envy, I was drawing in people who also experienced envy, and who would take it out on others. It was a big slap in the face for me when I started to change and leave behind that comparison, because I realized I had surrounded myself with mirrors of the very traits that were hurting me. Now I have people who like seeing others succeed and I feel the same about them. ❤

[@AeCherry99]

Thank you so much for this video.I have struggled with this jealousy throughout my teens and early 20s.Now that I’m 25, I’m slowly learning to love and accept myself for who I am.Learning to really appreciate other women instead of seeing them as competition.Your videos help a lot ❤.

[@maririnboo]

thank you :( i never let my jealousy out on other people, never say anything nasty or gossip, etc., but the constant comparison to all those influencers and feelings of not being enough no matter what i do and how i look are eating me alive sometimes..i feel like a monster sometimes bc of it.. i just want to be myself and be happy..

[@ambre4566]

Everytime, I'm watching your videos, I really feel understand because it's like you're talking about my life and all I have experienced so thank you, it reminds me to not be hard on myself for things I did in the past. 💖

[@alessiasutherberry]

Aw this makes me so happy. Lots of love 🩵🩵🩵🩵

[@LunaMorgan1111]

Thank you so much for creating these videos for us❤️❤️ You’re my favourite KZbinr and I genuinely wish all women could come across your channel! ❤️

[@alessiasutherberry]

Hey lovely! Thank you for being so kind and lovely. I really appreciate you reaching out! Sending the biggest hug your way🥰🥰🥰🥰❤❤❤❤

[@LucianaDelaTorreUgarte]

thank you so much for this video 💖 I've been thinking about this for a while and i am so happy to hear your thoughts about it, you have such a beautiful and healing energy!

[@alessiasutherberry]

Aw thank you so much🥰🩵💗💖😘 x

[@cecehectori9579]

Your videos are so comforting and safe ♥️ thank you very much

[@alessiasutherberry]

😘🥰🩵 aw that makes me so so happy!

[@lisa-mariebengel4539]

This video made me feel very secure and empowered, so thank you so much. I´ve been noticing that since Uni I have made some friends that talk very negative in general, and sometimes about other women by whom they felt mistreated. This was a new environment for me because my close friends and I have deep connections and never talked negatively about each other. The only relationships I experienced hate for women was with classmates in middle school and I never liked that dynamic. This video really helped me realize that I have to take a step back from some my friends and really feel into what serves me in that relationship. 💙

[@StardustShannon]

Thank you again Alessia! 💖

[@alessiasutherberry]

you are MORE than welcome 💞

[@sophquien]

hi alessia, thank you so much for this video. i’ve been on a journey of self improvement especially in terms of envy and self-deprecation, and the tips you have provided are very constructive and healthy, which i appreciate very much! i’m learning to treat myself with kindness rather than tearing down every bit of myself.

[@alessiasutherberry]

go you girly! sending you the biggest hug 🥰🩵😘

[@annabelwigs]

OMG LESSIE ANOTHER AMAZING VIDEO!!!! 👏🏼 Absolutely loved everything you said on this subject, and go you for talking so WISELY about thoughtfully, I resonated with every word!!!! I love how you’re reframing the way we can relate to our jealousy and using it to help ourselves and get to know ourselves deeper instead of furthering our lack! You’re sooo insightful! Go girly! Love you ❤

[@alessiasutherberry]

Aw thank you bestie 🥰😘💖

[@LittleCuteFlower]

Amazing message as always, thank you for sharing your wisdom, never stop! ❤

[@alessiasutherberry]

aw thank you my lovely 🥰💗🩵😘

[@Loupoonug23]

So wise and inspiring, thank you ❤❤

[@alessiasutherberry]

🥰💗🩵💖😘 aw, thank you!

[@moonlight9333]

Ty feel this so much 🙏💜

[@alessiasutherberry]

😘😘😘💖💖💖✨✨

[@blissdise]

Thank you beautiful big sister 🙏🏻❤️

[@alessiasutherberry]

aw thank you lovely 🥰🩵

[@ruebennomura9143]

Morning from Hawaii good video in stop be jealous and destroying your life

[@womanofvalor7]

Hey Alessia, Jesus loves you so much. He's going to use you in a mighty way🤗

[@reviewwithmisbah.m]

It is very good video ❤.

[@alessiasutherberry]

thank you my love😘😘😘😘

[@UNAMIAMUSIC]

❤❤❤

[@alessiasutherberry]

💗💗💗💗

[@TiffanyKuo-ps5fc]

You look a little like the model Bella Hadid :-)

[@alessiasutherberry]

aww thank you lovely 🥰

[@bibi6620]

I just realized that my friendships are full of jugment and I don't like it. But I know about this thing for a long time, but you have true, that I'm scared to go out with my true self. I want friends with I can go hug trees, sing loud and do silly things. I'm learing how to be confident and do these even when I'm alone. But it's sad, that they know just about 5 percents about me and my opinions.