Great video! <3 How do you not give 100% to unkind people? I struggle a bit with that, because I've given my all, all my life...

I think it's important to trim it a bit, so it doesn't become too bushy, but it's your personal choice. Everyone has their preferences. In fact, I find it even hot, if women have some body hair, because I am into natural women. Yes, even under the arms, legs and arms. So, dear women, if you have some hair on your arms, under your arms, on your legs, and in your genital area, and you feel comfortable with it, leave it. What's really important is that you feel comfortable in your body. And the same is for the contrary. Some women might prefer shaving themselves, because they personaly love it, instead of doing it because society tells one so. Remember that it's a personal choice. There will always be people who dislike you. There is nothing disgusting or non-feminine about pubic hair, as long as you keep it clean.

i am infinitely

when i was 13 i got burned by hot oil (3rd degree )on my face and arm. My parents made me go to school a couple days later. And i did not look great. I had puss and a cream of some.sort that made my burn look purplish. Kids are mean and called me the elephant lady. I never let this go. I am 57 now. I am trying to not wear makeup because that helped me feel better. But its so embedded. I am working on this after i saw Pamela Anderson without makeup. But i think the hurt inside i cant get rid of. I dont really have scars on my skin. But the scars are within. I am always a work in progress. But i feel once i get through this i will be free!! Thnx for this video. ❤😊

Thank you for being the voice that I need to see on the screen, I am in love with your KZbin channel, the topics you talk about and how you come from a place of personal experience and self love always. You’re a real guiding light ✨

hello!! i really enjoy your videos , it feels so comforting and loving to hear you give advice. thank you so much for sharing your perspective. i absolutely love your channel 💗💗

Thank you so much🥹🥹

Thank you for this lovely video and reminder❤

Thank you for sharing your light 🤍

PLEASE READ THIS THROUGHLY I agree with you BUTTT this world is very materialistic and if you don’t look a certain way you’ll get threaten differently! Beauty is such a strong power we use it to deceive and get things we want. Now don’t get me wrong if I had money enough to do what ever I want I would have not gave A flying F about men and appearance . But since I’m not privilege enough to be in that state I have to get it by using men.and fair enough from my experience it’s much easier than having a 9-5. As for getting a burnout from constantly having to look perfect that’s understandable hence why beauty enhancement are there to make it easier 💕

For thousands of years it wasn't a problem.

Think like a baby … I love this! It clicked for me ❤

Such beautiful advice ❤ Thank you so much, Alessia! Sending you love and blessings for 2025 ❤️

List of 3 things - I'm aware, I'm smart and I have an amazing, funny and freaky personality

2024 was so lonely, I learned to love myself more, no one saw my silent battles and cries. I achieved a lot though and I’m so so proud. I hope 2025 brings me happiness, I haven’t felt it in a while. ❤

I think it also really depends a lot on where you're from too. My wife and I are both proud possessors of extremely thick and dark armpit and pubic bushes...both of our armpit and pubic bush growth areas are massive, probably due to both of us having strong German ancestry... and also pretty noticeable leg hair too which we both have had since we started dating in our teens in our junior year in high school. Nothing special about that since we grew up in the pacific northwest, USA where plenty of our classmates had full grown facial hair if they were guys and there were also plenty of other girl classmates who also kept their full armpit, leg and pubic hair. When we go to the beach in our local area, nobody gives us a second look or says anything negative and indeed when we go to one of the several nudist beaches around here where we can both display our full body bushes for all to see, we've gotten some pretty thoughtful, amazing and supportive comments. However, when we've gone several hundred miles down south to the beaches in California which we've done several times, and people there see our armpit bushes, leg hair and the more than obvious pubic hair growth protruding out around the edges of our bathing suit bottoms and going down the sides of our inner thighs, it's like we've both got some awful, contagious disease or something! Some of the looks and comments we've been given have been positively rude which of course is pretty annoying but the flip side of that coin is that they've also been so stupid that it also cracks us both up as much as it annoys us, lol! I think it just illustrates just how much the thinking and opinions can change in such a relatively short distance when it comes to guy and gal body hair. Thank you also for posting this video. It's very informative and inspiring without being preachy or dictating. The world needs more women like yourself who can express themselves so eloquently but also so down to earth when it comes to adult body hair.

Neede to hear thiss.. Wishing you all the best for the year ahead. Lots of love xoxo

Love this video and I am thankful for all you have created so far. Happy new year! ❤🎉

You’re a gem 💎 I’m glad that I found your KZbin channel

This was the most beautiful way for me to start this year. Thank you. You are amazing. Happy New Year Alessia❤️

Your eyebrows look beautiful

I needed to hear this! You are the best 🤍

happy new year alessia <3 i love you and your work and i genuinely hope that 2025 will be amazing for you :D

I'm grateful that I'm starting this year knowing that I found you on KZbin. You opened my eyes so many times last year and gave me a whole new perspective on topics that I can say that I was able to develop because of you. Especially in the area of ​​decentering men you were able to show me my worth. I am grateful and proud to be your subscriber. Thank you Alessia:)

Happy new year alessia ❤

i have a friend at school whos insanely obsessed with males. shes already texting with a guy but she has a crush on 3 other guys, its even affecting her grades at this point (im talking regularly scoring 60% on tests) and its just so sad to see :( i know its not her fault but it can be so frustrating sometimes

Thank you for this.

Always sending love and support for you and your journey ❤️

Alessia- you’re one of my favourite KZbinrs and I think this is one of your best videos. Your thoughts about ‘friend dates’ really resonated with me. I had connections with various people in my life that weren’t serving me, so I prayed for a new supportive friend. A month later an attractive lady walked into my LGBTQ inclusive church, sat down next to me, asked me if she had mascara running down her face and we soon became friends! When we recently met up for a coffee, I resolved to really listen to her and that has deepened our connection. In 2025 I plan to take your advice, by making the effort to ‘put myself out there’ in places or activities that I'm passionate about. Thank you Alessia, for all the hard work, genuine commitment and loving care you are putting into your content. What an achievement! I do hope you’ve had an enjoyable Christmas and I pray your 2025 will be absolutely amazing! Sasha Miché x

I don’t like to label myself because I still don’t know for sure, but I think i’m bi. I’m 18 almost 19 and have contemplated this since I was about 12 or 13. I go back and forth between thinking i’m straight, lesbian and bi. But at this point I know I am definitely attracted to men but also women. However, I have a homophobic family (at least my immediate family) and I never want to have to tell them that. I’ve kind of accepted that if I was with a woman i’d have to keep it hidden (which is so inconvenient and I wouldn’t be able to have a real, long term relationship…) or i’d end up with a man and never have to confess anything. I cried the other day in front of my parents because my friend tried to set me up with a man who she knew liked me and I had no good excuse to tell her- this guy wanted something REAL but i’ve never gotten to experiment with a woman and I got scared. I didn’t go on the date and my family was confused on why I was upset over a friend wanting to set me up with a guy. Idk. It’s just complicated. I’m also religious and have a religious family which complicates things further because I feel so guilty…

I'm watching this for my girlfriend

Wow love the connection to music and the self and spotlight effect. Love your mind! ❤

Cher is way ahead of her time. So inspired by her. 😊

Thanks you for your video ❤❤

my best friend told me today she's tired of me because i am "too intense about boys" and it was a big slap because it already is my biggest insecurity. i am aware of it, i've been single and working on it for a year, and still it rots every good side of myself and my life. it's sad how it feels bigger than me at this point.

See also; this does not apply to young, attractive women.

Always when i take pic with friends and i dont like my face but they always saying i look good and i do get compliments but never felts it idk if i will ever fell pretty

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Create a video for 2025 that focuses on overcoming the need for male validation, building self-validation, addressing insecurities, and achieving goals. The video should also include tips on how to grow mentally, physically, and spiritually.

Whenever I go out, I only think about boys looking at me, obsessing over me, and noticing just me. Because of this, I start competing with other girls, and now it feels like I can't escape this trap🙃

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You are such a sweetheart. Thank you for creating this content <3 You make a difference!

"Think like a baby." That's so helpful, thank you! I got a lot from this video

Lovely video

I came across your videos coz I suffer from this problem, and lately I’ve been realising that all I’ve ever lived for is male validation to get into a relationship because I want to be loved so all my problems can go away so I can feel whole, but wow was I wrong I never lived for myself except for a few things I’ve always lived for external validation especially for men and it’s soooo depressing to realise it, every little thing I wanna do in order to hype myself up for jt I think of how all of these guys will think I’m cool or pretty and having woken up got this reality it’s , I can’t even find words to describe it, I’m up now and I want to live for me now I want to break the cycle I want it to end and you’ve helped so much you validate the experience but also don’t shame anyone you just share your experiences which is so relatable makes me feel seen and from there I’m like okay we know this is a problem what is the way forward because this road I’ve been on brings nothing but pain, the thing is idk where to even start because what I’ve live for this whole time has been male validation so nothing else in my mind as I am is “exciting” like genuinely it’s all that has been in my mind and it’s soo weird, all your tips are really great but I’m like still in the beginning stages where Im still in the mentality, I don’t have hobbies and I’m trying to break the pattern

I am a woman who has been scarred by her female friendships because one fine day they find a man and within seconds , your worth diminishes to dust

Ik its a year later but Im dealing with this now and this helped tysm❤