The advice *young people* need | why you're always on your phone, stuck at home, feeling lonely 📱

[@shahnazparvin5055]

Sometimes I think why am i so glued to my phone? Then I realized it's all because I want to avoid feeling lonely. Ik it might sound cringe but it's loneliness that I want to avoid by feeding my brain with imaginary connections through phone. That's the irony of this generation. We don't have that family bonds anymore.

[@yaschanotter9615]

I can relate

[@constanzaoliveros7931]

I think that was the real purpose of all these inventions and media😢

[@alessiasutherberry]

I see you. And what you said is not cringey at all. Sending you the biggest, warmest hug. 🤗💗

[@alessiasutherberry]

@@yaschanotter9615 💗💗💗💗

[@weaversong7021]

i'm on my phone, at home, and feeling lonely. this video came to me at just the right time

[@alessiasutherberry]

My love 🥹. I see you. You have me and this KZbin community. Lots of love lovely 💘

[@dina_kazakova]

You’re such a loving and beautiful person! Your words resonated with me and I want keep going on watching your content and following your advice

[@kristy.tlm.]

alessia, totally relate to being overwhelmed with things i wanna do. this list really stopps from actually doing anything. also want to notice that your voice is sooooo relaxing, cozy and comfy. like a warm cardigan or blanket thank you for this video ❤

[@alessiasutherberry]

aw thank you my lovely! you are so so sweet 💕💕💕💕

[@Mikalla-vl2tq]

You and your channel are very dear to me, and thank you for providing us with wholesome content and connecting with us more than any other youtuber could. 💗

[@Maryam-cy6cv]

The timing!! Thank you sooo much for this it’s been a huge struggle for me. I feel so seen and not alone in this💕💕

[@alessiasutherberry]

Aw that makes me so happy. You are not alone. 💗🥰💛 Thank you for taking the time to comment, it really means the world to me. 💛🥰

[@parrottroosterjuniour]

@@alessiasutherberry well all of my hobbies the things I like doing enjoy doing prefer to do though or at least most of em my hobbies generally speaking are on a device more specifically my phone computer

[@gayacomotti7208]

i loved how you dealt with this topic! sending you a big hug!

[@alessiasutherberry]

sending a big hug back lovely 💘

[@sln0uha293]

You re really helping me a lot your videos has a magical effect on me, Love u Alessia💗

[@alessiasutherberry]

@@sln0uha293 you’ve made my day✨🥹💕 love you! 💞💞

[@StardustShannon]

Thank you Alessia! 💖

[@alessiasutherberry]

🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@annabelwigs]

Love this beautiful, so so true and inspiring as always!!!!!!!!

[@alessiasutherberry]

aw thank my beautiful girly 🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@sarahmcdonald6980]

I'm going through a friend breakup that has brought up so much vulnerability, feelings of rejection and insecurity and I'm spiraling seeking validation from sources that aren't sustainable- men and feeling hot. I'm lucky to have the time and resources to take the day for a self date- I live in the Bay Area and I'm planning to go CD shopping in San Francisco and then drive down Highway 1 to Santa Cruz, take myself to dinner and then go see one of my favorite singers Angel Olsen. Feeling proud of myself for this decision and thank you for your wisdom, I relate so much to the things you say, the struggles you're naming and what helps you move through it.

[@alessiasutherberry]

@@sarahmcdonald6980 hey my lovely, I’m so sorry you’re going through a friendship breakup. They are so so painful and scary. But wow, it sounds like you’ve really showed up for yourself and given yourself some much needed ‘you time.’ You should be so so proud of yourself! ❤️🥰🥹 Thank you for sharing your story with me my love. Also, I’ve gone through friendship breakups and found that time really is a healer. Sending a big hug your way 💕

[@sexccnoir]

This video couldn’t have come at a better time 🙌🏾

[@alessiasutherberry]

Aw bless you 💗💗 sending a lot of love your way 💗💗💗

[@222polya]

amazing as always! thank you, Alessia💌❤

[@alessiasutherberry]

aw thank you angel 💕💕💕

[@molly203]

this was gold! thank you

[@alessiasutherberry]

You are more than welcome my lovely! 🥰 Thank you!🥰 xxxxxxx

[@marciafab7]

Another responsibly produced video! I love you !💜

[@alessiasutherberry]

Aw bless you, love you!!! 💛💛💛💛

[@bubblegum3882]

Thanks you for your video ❤❤

[@ranamaydina3241]

Thank you for making this ❤

[@alessiasutherberry]

thank you for commenting my love 💕

[@leoa4755]

Thanks Alessia! This video came at such a great time. I’ve just finished uni and struggling to get a job is really getting me down, and I’ve basically been cooped up in the house. I really appreciate the way you articulate your thoughts so well in all your videos. It’s almost like you say the things I’m feeling/thinking, but don’t know how to put them into words. Hope your well xx

[@alessiasutherberry]

Thank you so much for your kind words! I'm really glad the video came at the right time for you. I can totally understand how tough it is after finishing uni. Everything is uncertain and scary. It's normal to feel down when you're in that in-between phase, but please remember you're not alone in this, and brighter days are ahead. Sending you the biggest hug 💛

[@leoa4755]

@@alessiasutherberry Awhh Alessia you are so sweet, thank you so much!!! I hope your doing well 💕💕xx

[@Perspectives_beyond]

Ist comment big sistaaa ❤️😭😭I adore you and your words a lottttt

[@alessiasutherberry]

I SEE YOU 🥹💕💘 And I adore you !!!!! 😘😘

[@TriệuTrúcLoan]

this video format suits me a lot

[@alessiasutherberry]

that's music to my ears! 💗💗💗

[@kryak926]

I am 8 min in the video and all I can focus on is how beautiful you are! Gosh, you are so gorgeous! stunning! so real and unreal at the same time!

[@Zhr-hj3dn]

no matter what you say i totally agree cus you love women ❤

[@natatattful]

This was so nice, thank you

[@alessiasutherberry]

you are more than welcome my love 🥹💕

[@vgnsofia]

Such an important topic!

[@alessiasutherberry]

@@vgnsofia it really is 😘❤️

[@anlielee6959]

Yey new vlog is out! 🤍

[@alessiasutherberry]

@@anlielee6959 🥰😘

[@nathanhardman7143]

All I feel is pain. All else is just an attempt to hide the pain. I desire so much connection but It’s impossible for me to get. Pray for me I don’t know how much longer I can go on for

[@lindysglimps]

Thank you!

[@alessiasutherberry]

😘

[@PhùngQuỳnhGiao]

awesome!!

[@alessiasutherberry]

💗💗💗💗

[@Dobermanmomma]

Get a dog. It's almost unbearable to go more than 6 waking hours without going outside unless you have a private fenced in yard. You'll never feel lonely if you build a deep bond with your dog. When your out and about, you will meet many people who wouldn't otherwise walk up to you being friendly and kind. You'll get exercise when you otherwise wouldn't even if you work out. Those impromptu late night walks without having to watch your back to closely are gold. Also, having a dog allows you to work on parenting skills.🐕‍🦺🐶

[@lindysglimps]

or a cat, I walk with my cat, he’s my best friend and we do everything together

[@yr.8249]

100%!!!! My dogs are the best thing that has ever happened to me.

[@lindysglimps]

@@yr.8249 same with my cat. Having a pet is a blessing ❤️

[@NB-lx6gz]

It's not as simple. Then she'd have to replan her whole life around that dog

[@lindysglimps]

⁠@@NB-lx6gztrue, it’s a huge responsibility and a luxury cause you need a lot of money for vet etc.

[@Reed5016]

For me, being on my phone is my only way to connect with the outside world. I’m an autistic trans person living with very conservative parents (I don’t have the resources to move). I don’t go to university for multiple reasons, and work is becoming increasingly difficult to find (after affirmative action was overturned in the US, the already low employment rate for disabled people has become even lower). It’s difficult for me to see my friends or to engage in socializing, because I don’t have a car as well. Social media is really the only way for me. Though I do wish I was less obsessed with it, so I could write more short stories, poetry, and play guitar.

[@evamaudoux3337]

Your comment really moved me, and I hope you're going to be able to move out soon! Keeping contact is what matters, no matter the medium ;) And if you're into writing and if your friends are on board with it, you could try writing letters to each others (+ you can include cute things in it like drawings or dried flowers) ? Best wishes from France xx

[@Reed5016]

@@evamaudoux3337 That’s a really cool idea. Thanks for the advice. I’m also glad my comment had an impact on you.

[@alessiasutherberry]

Thank you for sharing with such openness my love. Your comment has really made me think - and I really appreciate that. It sounds like you're navigating soooo much right now. 💛 Social media can be such a lifeline. It’s completely understandable that it’s become such an important part of your life. 💘 It’s also really beautiful that you have creative passions like writing and playing guitar. Those are such powerful ways of expressing yourself. Thank you for sharing - be sure to comment whenever! I would be glad to hear from you again! Sending you so much warmth and support. 💛

[@alessiasutherberry]

@@evamaudoux3337 💞💞💞

[@Reed5016]

@@alessiasutherberry I hope this wasn’t too personal. I felt a little compelled to share, as I know there are probably other people in similar situations.

[@tranthoLG]

full support

[@alessiasutherberry]

💛💛💛💛

[@densedecisions4568]

5:33 Fuck I was zoned out ruminating😢😅

[@alessiasutherberry]

bless you 😅💖

[@HaMinhTy]

finally

[@vgnsofia]

🤍🤍🤍

[@alessiasutherberry]

@@vgnsofia ❤️❤️❤️