How To Stop Hating Someone | Nirvair | Mool Mantar Mini Series

How can we stop hating someone? Hatred is a strong emotion that can cause more upset to us than anyone else, but how do we overcome this emotion? Bhai Baljit Singh Ji delves into the Mool Mantar, looking at the word Nirvair (without hate), and explains how this is a quality we can also adopt.
This video has some real-life examples of how we can live a life without having hatred for anyone or anything.
#NoHate #Spirituality #Mantra
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[@gsingh7262]

Guru Amar Das ji rubbed the feet of the one who kicked him in rage, we should follow our guru’s example and never hate anyone even those who wish for our downfall

[@col.waltervonschonkopf69]

... and the one who has actively worked for it?

[@jagdishbahia9162]

Satnam Shri waheguru ji 🙏🙏🙏🙏🌹🌹🌹🌹❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@unknownunknown6726]

Waheguru Ji! 💙💙💙💙💙

[@MsAudience]

Waheguru ❤️

[@MsAudience]

Thank you ❤️ sadh sangat man sovat jaagai

[@sirikorngulati455]

Vaheguru Ji 🙏

[@jasmitsc]

Lovely lovely video 🌹

[@cthegud7132]

Such a helpful and kind content really appreciate it.

[@gurcharanbrar4133]

Thank you 🙏wahegure ji 🙏

[@harijotkhalsa5546]

Sat Bachan ji

[@satwantshoker2834]

Brilliant need more like this pls

[@earthkindsanctuary]

Challenge of the week = become more nirvair

[@JasbianteKaur]

How to deal with someone who is toxic . The more humble you become the more the person takes advantage and makes use of you. The person steals from you , lies, and back stabs you to other ppl but in front acts innocent . And this person is your own sibling in law. How to trust such a person anymore? Mother instinct kicks in and you wonder How to protect your children from being hurt by this person? When the children are involved how do you not feel protective threatened worried ?

[@premsingh-yi4dg]

do you live with the person if not it is possible to not associate with the sibling in law.

[@JasbianteKaur]

@@premsingh-yi4dg the person used to live together but has moved since . Im also in the process of moving back to my home town with kids n husband ( hes supportive ) bcos the negative energy is too much to handle . But its hard in the spiritual sense to find forgiveness and not see negative to this person when you want to move forward spiritually. Perhaps time will heal? But . Its hard to not draw the line with the person

[@chinkyminky4868]

I think u should make boundaries but not hate them like try to stay away as much as you can but dont hate them i guess thats the option for us🤷‍♀️

[@premsingh-yi4dg]

@@JasbianteKaur by all means you can draw a line. Maybe try to reason with them or else you don't have to hate them just don't associate with. Baaki just keep doing paath. Raam Naam Ur Mai Gahio Ja Kai Sam Nahi Koi Jeh Simrat SankaT MiTai daras tuharo hoi

[@JasbianteKaur]

@@premsingh-yi4dg thank you so much for the replies and advice . Will definitely take it in . Guru Kirpa , may we all move forward spiritually and learn to forgive ppl who hv hurt us. Thank you for the video made too ♥️🙏🏻Waheguruji bless

[@TheTurbanatore]

Vaheguru

[@PaulSinghSelhi-VFX-TUTORIALS]

And each day I learn just a little bit more I don't know why but I do know what for If we're all going somewhere let's get there soon Oh this song's got no title just words and a tune

[@PaulSinghSelhi-VFX-TUTORIALS]

Tune me in to the wild side of life I'm an innocent young child sharp as a knife Take me to the garretts where the artists have died Show me the courtrooms where the judges have lied Let me drink deeply from the water and the wine Light colored candles in dark dreary mines Look in the mirror and stare at myself And wonder if that's really me on the shelf And each day I learn just a little bit more I don't know why but I do know what for If we're all going somewhere let's get there soon Oh this song's got no title just words and a tune Take me down alleys where the murders are done In a vast high powered rocket to the core of the sun Want to read books in the studies of men Born on the breeze and die on the wind If I was an artist who paints with his eyes I'd study my subject and silently cry Cry for the darkness to come down on me For confusion to carry on turning the wheel And each day I learn just a little bit more I don't know why but I do know what for If we're all going somewhere let's get there soon Oh this song's got no title just words and a tune

[@BalSingh6546]

🙏🏾

[@Lokesh8765]

❤️❤️🙏❤️❤️

[@priyabhopal7606]

Please can someone advise me.. i have a calendar poster i kept on the wall of sikhi dates it was in punjabi there was no gurbani on it but i still feel that all Gurmukhi letters are the eyes of mahraj… somebody in my family ripped it up and i just feel mahrajs eyes have been torn i was wondering if i was able to tape the poster back together or is there a better option? I cant bin it as even though its not gurbani all Gurmukhi letters are still mahraj ..

[@ishakaur434]

Waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh How we know guru ji is saying have sabar or to accept his hukam ?

[@Absilon13]

It is said in the gurbani “ਸਬਰ ਮੰਝ ਕਮਾਣ ਏ ਸਬਰੁ ਕਾ ਨੀਹਣੋ ॥ ਸਬਰ ਸੰਦਾ ਬਾਣੁ ਖਾਲਕੁ ਖਤਾ ਨ ਕਰੀ” Translates to : Make within yourself the patience the bow and the patience the bowstring and the creator will not let you miss the target on which you focus.

[@jagatjogi6398]

गुरु नानक देव जी ने दुनिया के लोगों को अपने साथ जोडा लेकिन सिख धर्म के लोग सिर्फ वाहे गुरु जी ही करते रहे

[@user-rx8tg6yz4t]

???

[@jagatjogi6398]

@@user-rx8tg6yz4t ना खुद जुड़ें ना दुनिया के लोगों तक गुरुनानक देव जी के उपदेश ही पहुंचा पाए 😁?????

[@user-rx8tg6yz4t]

@@jagatjogi6398 kehna kya chahte ho???

[@tajbrar8545]

Veer ji please also explain how to live nirvair if your are a lawyer , policeman, in army or someone who intentionally tries to hurt you or other physically and emotionally . Example of bhai ghaniya ji is beautiful but i feel the singhs who faught for guru sahib were not wrong aswell . To tell someone that they are wrong or to protect yourself , you certainly have to oppose them . Please explain how can someone justify that . According to my thinking its not the action which is in question but the motivation . Correct me if i am wrong

[@AP-sd3ej]

There is only One ☝️, only One means 1 the only ONE MEANS one .. Understand little from in whole shri guru Granth sahib written it again and again .. the one who trying to insult u is the Same ONE if u get hurt it had happen (hukam) but getting angry on that body is hurting urself again in or out cz body is just used BY ONE , the same One in u .. Well, if can’t understand me read and Understand explaining of every ANG(page) of shri guru Granth sahib ji, then u wont need any suggestion from outside..

[@Bik998]

Yes its the intention not the action in these cases. Guru Gobind singh ji never started a fight but he created warriors. Bhai Ghanaya ji and the Sikhs who fought for the guru they all served the truth through whatever job they were given.

[@paulstall9188]

Vaheguruji Ka Khalsa Vaheguruji Ke Feteh

[@dalbeerkaur755]

U are right but if the person l hates not able to away from her bound to see her wicked face and has tortured me badly..how to forgive her..l do regularly paath but not in mental peace what to do

[@baronesselsavonfreytag-lor1134]

Try to set healthy boundaries so other people know what you are not willing to tolerate. It's easier said than done. Pray for them to find peace. I wish I had the complete answer but I'm still searching too. Remember to treat yourself with love and care because you are also touched by Waheguru and worthy of respect. Love you, bhen ji ::hugs::

[@tajbrar8545]

From my personal experience . After i encountered such people in my life and after hating them for long time i finally realised people are who they are . The person who hurt you see if he/she hurt other people as well . If yes then its nothing personal here its just their karma but if it was only you who they hurt then see if it was your wrong doing that caused it but it was a misunderstanding on their part . Try to explain and if they do not agree leave it to them .

[@Bik998]

It’s not easy but if it’s stealing your emotional peace then lessen the contact with them and every time you do path tell guru maharaj how you feel. And send beautiful energy towards them it will make you feel good inside. And try to stop to not bring this topic up to discuss with other loved ones. Because on one hand it’s gonna make you feel good but also agitate your peace too. Every time it comes say Waheguru. With time you will find peace. But definitely lessen the contact with those people.❤

[@manindersingh-qs1vf]

ਮੈਂ ਇਸ ਤਰ੍ਹਾਂ ਦਾ ਦੁਮਾਲਾ ਬਣਨਾ ਚਾਹੁੰਦਾ Any body help??

[@NoName-jq7tj]

We should not hate anyone. I agree hate is a very strong emotion, but that does not mean according to my understanding we suddenly start to spend time with everyone. There is negative characteristics in certain people which can effect our own stability. This doesn’t mean you hate this person because a human being is multifaceted creation. For me it just means there are certain circles depending on the path you tread that need to be avoided or not encouraged. I read once that hatred is dislike put into practice. So maybe you dislike such a person for whatever reason you then intentionally cause pain & suffering to this one individual. This is not right. I feel this video is. Very generalised because you have to take each situation at a time.

[@Dbluess.]

Is ignoring people considered like opposing to the creation?

[@anon21qwerty17]

hating someone means having ill feelings. ignoring someone is the best because you are not indulging in any form of thought and relying on GOD to guide the person or let his karm be written as he is, if the other person does not comes to the right path.

[@basicsofsikhi]

Opposing someone means having bitter or ill thoughts toward someone. If you are ignoring someone it's important to be real to yourself about the reason why.

[@Dbluess.]

Thanks for answering 🙏

[@baronesselsavonfreytag-lor1134]

@@basicsofsikhi With the number of empathic people being targeted by narcissistic people, you could do a whole series on the subject of healthy non-attachment and forgiveness. The importance of forgiveness is emphasized in the Bible and Quran but it's something we all struggle with and need to overcome, how to let go of the strife in our own heads.

[@quitaddiction4589]

Vaheguruji Ka Khalsa Vaheguruji Ke Fete

[@basicsofsikhi]

ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕਾ ਖ਼ਾਲਸਾ, ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕੀ ਫ਼ਤਹਿ 🙏🏽

[@AmitKumar-yl6bz]

Do you talk about casteism in Sikhism like Hinduism?

[@baronesselsavonfreytag-lor1134]

Guru Nanak also said there's no caste. People still talk about being Jatt or whatever, but they are not supposed to consider caste at all, that is why we are Singh and Kaur, so no person may be judged by family status. Muslims are not supposed to follow casteism but in Pakistan people still call each other Rana. Sikhs and Muslims were once Hindu in old Hindustan, so there are cultural holdovers such as caste and honor killings.

[@rickidosanjh5218]

Bruv get in contact with me bruva

[@dilbagsingh3359]

How if We meet A muderer.. How about Aurangzeb did Guruji Hate Him or Not...

[@anon21qwerty17]

no, never hated. but recognised that kaal, maya ruled him. and he is misguided. know the difference,stand for righteousness but never hate.

[@basicsofsikhi]

The Guru never had hatred toward anyone at any point.

[@dilbagsingh3359]

Thank u For explain.. 🙏🙏🙏😇😇😇😇

[@dilbagsingh3359]

@@anon21qwerty17 thank u🙏😇 its diffrent about stand for righteous and hate.. Firts i am confused about it .🙏🙏

[@dilbagsingh3359]

@@basicsofsikhi Waheguru.. Thank u veerji🙏🙏

[@dilbagsingh3359]

How about if people Hurt our Heart with rude words,

[@anon21qwerty17]

know that their rude words will affect their karm, their rude words are from maya. nothing to do with you.

[@basicsofsikhi]

It still doesn't mean we have to hate them.

[@dilbagsingh3359]

@@anon21qwerty17 Waheguru Thank u for the Asnwer.. Now i can be more open minded and relieved

[@dilbagsingh3359]

@@basicsofsikhi its true Wirji.. Thank u..

[@anon21qwerty17]

@@dilbagsingh3359 waheguru meher karn...

[@Nicholas.Tsagkos]

Can i be khalsa without having long hair or without wrapping my hair in clothe?

[@harnek704]

No Nicholas. The Khalsa has an identity which we must uphold. The Guru gave us a uniform. You can be a Sikh in the form you describe, but that is not Khalsa. To become a Khalsa should always be the next step for a Sikh.

[@AntiRedditSikh]

No

[@gillharshgill8315]

@@UnpluggedSingh the idea of khalsa is given to us by gurus the same gurus who gave us the rules like keeping long hair and turban , following every command of guru is also the duty of khalsa how are you going to be pure while being outside gurus guidance or command

[@DingDong-tj9ce]

@@UnpluggedSingh this is a very confused and inaccurate comment. Please do not comment if you do not possess the true answer.

[@PaulSinghSelhi-VFX-TUTORIALS]

1. You have to undertake Amrit Sanskar to join the Khalsa. 2. You must be wearing the 5k's when you do and then wear them constantly. ' Guru Ji proclaimed: “Whosoever will become my Sikh will not present themselves before me without long hair and weapons.”' You can be a Sikh who has not joined the Khalsa but who follows ALL of the Gurus..you would be a Sahajdhari Sikh or you can be a Nanakpanthi..though the Khalsa would not have much time for you..they would protect you but The Khalsa is told not to associate with such 'Sikhs'. In truth all you need is to follow the Jap Ji Sahib. To take Amrit is a massive commitment and many claim to be Singhs and Kaurs but are not really Khalsa..dressing up, growing your hair and carrying a weapon does not make you Khalsa. In fact there are many who wear the 5 k's but have NOT taken Amrit. I was arrested the other day for carrying a kirpan on open display in the street. The interviewing detective ,who knew me from years ago said, ' Forgive my officers..you don't look like a Sikh Paul' ' What does a Sikh look like ? I wear the 5 k's..that is enough for me as Khalsa..A Sikh has no dress requirement..a Khalsa Singh is in an army..we have a uniform' Guru Gobind NEVER commanded us to wear a turban, that is something the Khalsa Panth has been told is a requisite by the Sikh Rehat Maryada created by later members. We only have to cover our heads and keep our hair tidy and in place, the modern neat sharp looking turbans were developed for uniformity when the Sikh joined the British army.

[@aakashgill]

Bhai Saab i didn't watch your videos but what are these khalistanis doing to our sikhi

[@Icchpunani]

What if Guru Nanak ji cancel your citizenship ?

[@AntiRedditSikh]

I hate gays because they are child groomers

[@MrSam-mg5ut]

Why don’t you teach this to Taksalis who always use bad words and try to physically hurt their opponents. Also, teach Khalistani supporters. It’s been 35+ years and same bs. For no reason, these supporters shout outside Indian embassies and protest on roads. They are full with venom while no one knows actual history, how own Sikh leadership used them

[@journeyofcompassion9001]

Everyone is free to watch this video.

[@premsingh-yi4dg]

What Taksalis keep using bad words. What 35+ years. Fake encounters were rampant in 1990s and beadbi of Maharaj'S Saroop Still occurs today, and you think that is "bs"?

[@AntiRedditSikh]

Hate is a human emotion. We are not waheguru. The khalsa has enemies and it is necessary for us to kill them for our own survival. There is no love without hate and vice versa. This is just some bondu ass wirtue signalling. No kap, frfr. On foenum.

[@Lokesh8765]

What anti hindu sikh mean ?

[@AntiRedditSikh]

@@Lokesh8765 a real sikh

[@Lokesh8765]

@@AntiRedditSikh Than change it to "A real sikh" why creating confusion 😊

[@basicsofsikhi]

This video is based on Gurbani which means it’s inline with Gurmat.

[@AntiRedditSikh]

@@basicsofsikhi sounds like manmat interpretations ignoring context in order to come off as hippies. If gurus did not hate, what was the need for badla against sullay and hindews. Why did guru Gobind Singh ii burn the masands alive?