How To Take Control of Your Emotional & Psychological Growth - 137 Masc Psychology Pod w/ David Tian

[@noonevincecarterfan]

My IFS therapist told me something valuable the other day: "you don't have to travel anywhere because you are already there" That made me smile over my entire face. Great video once again David!

[@gurshaansingh5525]

2 years ago i was diagnosed with OCD and since then i had started to take my therapy seriously. And after 2 years im off my medication and learning to love my inner child and empowering myself. Although I am not actively dating but I get really excited about how it would feel to have a girlfriend who loves me for me. Though every therapist may not be a coach, the therapeutic process brings out ones higher self which becomes their very own coach. David i just want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for helping me and mentoring other people through your videos and podcast. You are really doing god's own work by helping us out. Thank you so much ! And I had one doubt. In the episode on presence, you said that by being present with our authentic self and being understanding to her along with being vulnerable and being understood in return creates strong emotional connection and attraction. Can you please explain how does presence create attraction as in an earlier episode you said that connection and passion are two seperate pathways. And can emotional intimacy potentially enhance sexual chemistry or attraction? I watched a video of John Gottman in which he said that the greatest female aphrodisiac is *listening* Thank you

[@DavidTian]

So wonderful to hear that you’ve going through a therapeutic process and have been helped tremendously by it! To answer your questions, yes, Presence done right generates sexual attraction in women, as well as emotional connection. Presence activates both pathways of passion and connection! I explain how Presence works, and even include a video demonstration, in my course Rock Solid Relationships.

[@gurshaansingh5525]

@@DavidTian Understood!! Thank you for answering. Can I take rock solid relationships on my own or is it only for couples?

[@DavidTian]

The 'Rock Solid Relationships' course is well suited to single people who are looking to get into a long-term relationships.

[@kla4dj]

Hey David, once again you brought a major puzzle piece to "my table of life". Thank you, David! Would love to learn more about how to start the process of value-based goal setting. Do you have any recommendations on how to begin and process step-by-step?

[@DavidTian]

Happy to hear I helped! Can you say more about what you mean by “value-based goal setting” as opposed to other types of goal setting?

[@kla4dj]

You mentioned in this episode that it is best to start with being clear on the values. And based on the values goals should be set. Does this answer your question about what I mean?

[@DavidTian]

Thanks for clarifying. I just addressed moral values in episode 138 on morality. In my Invincible course Module 3, I also cover the process I recommend for clarifying emotional values.

[@getuliofreitas809]

Hi, David. I suffer from severy anxiety and I'm thinking about buying the Emotional mastery program. Will it work for me?

[@DavidTian]

Yes, if you stick with the program, it will definitely help.

[@Samuel-vw2wy]

Healthygamergg did two interviews with pick up artist / dating advice students who said it didn’t work for them, you could do your own analysis of their answers and explain the psychological issues that cause it and how to get better.

[@DavidTian]

Thanks! I’ll look out for it.

[@DavidTian]

Just following up here. I was unable to locate the interviews you're speaking of. If you could send me the links, I'd be interested to see it.