How to Tell if a Guy is SHY or JUST NOT INTERESTED!!

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@hannahcook6444
@hannahcook6444 6 жыл бұрын
He acts like he likes me one day and the next he doesn't
@gayfrogs4206
@gayfrogs4206 5 жыл бұрын
He knows what he’s doing ;) Trust me
@erakuralightning-bolt1492
@erakuralightning-bolt1492 5 жыл бұрын
Player omg
@tatianat.9959
@tatianat.9959 5 жыл бұрын
I'm still confused with the other responses no it's horrible if he dose that
@irenerufus1090
@irenerufus1090 5 жыл бұрын
Well so my old crush messaged me one day we would talk for a really long time on the phone then the next month I get ignored until i go over when i go to where they live we have a great time then i get ignored I'm being ignoring right now so I'm over it
@karlenechelsea7858
@karlenechelsea7858 5 жыл бұрын
Same :(((
@Linda-vq8oq
@Linda-vq8oq 7 жыл бұрын
What if you're awkward and they're awkward?
@emmagarciiaa1953
@emmagarciiaa1953 7 жыл бұрын
Linda THEN YOU CAN BE IN A PERFECT AWKWARD RELATIONSHIP!
@scenerybyv5902
@scenerybyv5902 6 жыл бұрын
@@emmagarciiaa1953 so awkward that they can't even celebrate their monthsarries or anniversaries lmao
@niko-oy1cq
@niko-oy1cq 6 жыл бұрын
What if I'm awkward and they aren't :(
@itzrinonline1359
@itzrinonline1359 6 жыл бұрын
So akward that ur not talking to him and he's not talking at u att all BC he's shy? Yea... Idk..
@grubbiechirp5695
@grubbiechirp5695 6 жыл бұрын
What if the entire world is awkward, I think there wouldn’t be overpopulation
@karlavelazquez6167
@karlavelazquez6167 6 жыл бұрын
What if we’re *both* shy and don’t know how to start the conversation
@ioannak.4690
@ioannak.4690 5 жыл бұрын
1. Have a common friend and Give the common friend to start the conversation. 2. Talk to him via Text 3. Smile at him often & hold a little bit the eye contact (hold the eye contact as long as possible) 4. You're Amazing, in somebody's other Eyes. Never forget that, even if sb rejected you in the Future.
@annmariedean9270
@annmariedean9270 5 жыл бұрын
I am on the same boat
@dilarafataliyeva2904
@dilarafataliyeva2904 5 жыл бұрын
Karla Velazquez same
@reilynnpo
@reilynnpo 5 жыл бұрын
OMG SAME
@Yasmeii
@Yasmeii 4 жыл бұрын
Sis im struggling
@komaltoor5517
@komaltoor5517 7 жыл бұрын
I don't have a crush....this is just interesting to me
@deanjean4489
@deanjean4489 7 жыл бұрын
Komal Toor se
@deanjean4489
@deanjean4489 7 жыл бұрын
*same
@mavisrahwa
@mavisrahwa 7 жыл бұрын
Komal Toor i wanna be prepared for my crush to come lmao
@jeanelrw5731
@jeanelrw5731 7 жыл бұрын
Glad for you! Life is better without this things 😂
@suhayla5431
@suhayla5431 6 жыл бұрын
Your so lucky 😂
@amberwalsh7450
@amberwalsh7450 7 жыл бұрын
I was in a texting relationship with my crush for 4 months straight every day, and then we confessed we liked each other. Best day ever! ♡
@louisewinstanley1462
@louisewinstanley1462 6 жыл бұрын
Amber Walsh you are so lucky!!!!
@chloedooley4871
@chloedooley4871 6 жыл бұрын
You may have confessed But did you guys end up dating? 💝💝 If so YAYAYAYYAYAYAYAYA
@jasminecolvin5840
@jasminecolvin5840 5 жыл бұрын
Did y'all text everyday or...
@julia8055
@julia8055 5 жыл бұрын
Amber Walsh Hopefully happens to me😭
@scintillazx
@scintillazx 5 жыл бұрын
Give some tips plz
@amalia4842
@amalia4842 7 жыл бұрын
Can u do this but with outgoing guys? *How do you tell if someone is just being nice or if they actually like you?*
@amalia4842
@amalia4842 7 жыл бұрын
My crush is a 100% extrovert 😂😭😭😭
@mylescardenas5341
@mylescardenas5341 7 жыл бұрын
how??😂😂 im wondering too😂😂
@ayla4908
@ayla4908 7 жыл бұрын
CreativeAmalia in a texting situation Being nice: they will probably just say hi, hello or something, when you ask how they're doing they will give an answer but not as long they would if they like you, like this "not bad" If they actually like you: they will probably text you something like hey, hiya stuff like that. And if you ask how they're doing they will give you a more in detail answer instead, like this: "I'm great, how about you?" This is how I found out that this guy liked me when he was texting because he was really trying to make conversation, so this is from my experience
@elinesimons5922
@elinesimons5922 7 жыл бұрын
Yes please
@shaleahcrawford5454
@shaleahcrawford5454 7 жыл бұрын
CreativeAmalia right
@alyssaong6139
@alyssaong6139 7 жыл бұрын
I'm still really confused cause sometimes he seems like he likes me and sometimes he doesn't
@deephatame1690
@deephatame1690 7 жыл бұрын
Alyssa Ong same
@owiyanna
@owiyanna 7 жыл бұрын
Gosh sameeeee
@nataliaramirez5018
@nataliaramirez5018 7 жыл бұрын
Omg samee
@madelinechia
@madelinechia 7 жыл бұрын
Same here, it sucks. What should we do?
@dellaswanson9837
@dellaswanson9837 7 жыл бұрын
Alyssa Ong So...best advice I know about that...mixed signals aren't real. He doesn't like you, sorry
@toruoikawa1153
@toruoikawa1153 5 жыл бұрын
What's funny is that every time a boy has a crush on me, I don't like them back. But every time I like a boy, they don't like me back.
@yasminstb497
@yasminstb497 3 жыл бұрын
Same 🙂
@whome6081
@whome6081 3 жыл бұрын
I know what you mean lol. Or we like each other at different times.🙈
@Kreznir
@Kreznir 3 жыл бұрын
Not me I have his friends ask him if he likes me but there also my friend case there gay
@marigold1311
@marigold1311 3 жыл бұрын
I swear your me😭
@bigballedshavedsquirellhater6
@bigballedshavedsquirellhater6 2 жыл бұрын
Literally so draining
@isabelv9408
@isabelv9408 5 жыл бұрын
I think he’s just shy and unitrested ✌️🥺
@amymellor5305
@amymellor5305 4 жыл бұрын
Yep that’s me so sad
@crybabydalia
@crybabydalia 4 жыл бұрын
Same oml 😭✌🏻
@abbyyoung8005
@abbyyoung8005 7 жыл бұрын
My crush acts shy around me but he is definitely not shy
@shelbyjoneff
@shelbyjoneff 7 жыл бұрын
This actually helped me as a shy girl to know how to show someone I'm interested!!
@leasagna2202
@leasagna2202 7 жыл бұрын
Shelby Neff I feel good for u
@1530-e9s
@1530-e9s 7 жыл бұрын
But whenever I walk through the halls and see my crush I become over confident and pretend I don't notice him and try not to make eye contact at all😂
@Emily-lt1uq
@Emily-lt1uq 7 жыл бұрын
Chocolate Forever same! 😂
@nicolechen9492
@nicolechen9492 7 жыл бұрын
dude I become the exact opposite 😂
@poundsquad6743
@poundsquad6743 7 жыл бұрын
Chocolate Forever girl stop that habbit
@kuuderequeen8499
@kuuderequeen8499 7 жыл бұрын
Same due to the fact his ex is my frnd
@elenayoung9235
@elenayoung9235 7 жыл бұрын
Chocolate Forever same here😂
@Thecallmemisterajp
@Thecallmemisterajp 5 жыл бұрын
Speaking as a shy guy, texting can be just as tough, if not tougher, than a face to face interaction, because you have more time to think and over analyze with someone you like. I’ve got a jokey personality for instance, but I’ve had instances where it’s taken me 15-20 minutes to text someone I liked because I was worried about offending her. So yeah I wouldn’t necessarily say the guy who’s not responsive on text should be ruled out as liking you.
@-mackenzie-2035
@-mackenzie-2035 7 жыл бұрын
I have a way if u like them but don't know if they like you: You: i like u Crush: what!/I DON'T LIKE YOU you: u as in the vowel Ta daaaaaa hack for being rejected
@voldypoldy2620
@voldypoldy2620 6 жыл бұрын
Omg I’m using that
@kitsunes95
@kitsunes95 6 жыл бұрын
Doesn’t work in my language I’m afraid :/
@princess_sonianevermind
@princess_sonianevermind 6 жыл бұрын
I might do this
@challengingchallenges9497
@challengingchallenges9497 6 жыл бұрын
My crush textes me all the time and is like who u like and I'm like ummm you and he is always like o really
@randomstuffwithkamidukes8967
@randomstuffwithkamidukes8967 6 жыл бұрын
IM GONNA DO THAT
@kaylar5178
@kaylar5178 5 жыл бұрын
I'm definitely the shy person to my crush but sometimes I pretend that I don't like him just to see if he really cares about me or not
@Hawaiiansky11
@Hawaiiansky11 2 жыл бұрын
Pretending, to 'test' him is a manipulation, and you're going to lose if you keep playing games like that.
@macscorner3729
@macscorner3729 7 жыл бұрын
YESSSS! He likes me!!!!!!! Most applicable... My crush was on his phone and slouched over.. When I walked up to where he was sitting he: made eye contact, smiled, put his phone away, sat up straight, and started to come alive. Thank you SO MUCH Kimberly!! I loved this and it was VERY helpful!
@tonekagrigsby-green769
@tonekagrigsby-green769 7 жыл бұрын
Mac's Corner mine too my crush actually walked with me and my friends out of class
@puregodd
@puregodd 7 жыл бұрын
I wish I knew exactly how to tell if he likes me but at least Kimberly helped me out so good luck with it crushes ppl 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
@itslit2390
@itslit2390 7 жыл бұрын
I just realized I am a shy guy lmfaoo
@Evamick
@Evamick 7 жыл бұрын
😂
@suhayla5431
@suhayla5431 6 жыл бұрын
😂lol
@1SUBPAR
@1SUBPAR 5 жыл бұрын
Hack! Crush: do u have a crush? You: yeah u Crush: sorry I don't feel the same way You: no u meant do u have a crush? Crush: u scared me and yes I have a crush!😅☺️
@Kindahalawi
@Kindahalawi 5 жыл бұрын
lindsay gomez smart
@krissnamartin
@krissnamartin 5 жыл бұрын
That’s how I respond lol. But let’s change crush with best friend lol. I wasn’t informed that that was how they interpreted my answer so the person’s very possessive best friend started distancing her best friend from me. That was annoying. Hahaha.
@HY-dh3if
@HY-dh3if 5 жыл бұрын
lindsay gomez i don’t understand
@layniecrabill7358
@layniecrabill7358 5 жыл бұрын
lindsay gomez smart bitch how do you get your crush to ask if you ahve a crush to do this
@Gurpreet-A
@Gurpreet-A 5 жыл бұрын
👏
@lovemecom3832
@lovemecom3832 7 жыл бұрын
It's really hard to differentiate between shy guys and the guys that are just not interested in you because they both not showing clear signs that they are into you. Why not tell the guy about your feelings anyways we're in the modern world where women are equally priviledged to men.
@tayen
@tayen 6 жыл бұрын
LoveMe,com cuz it’s SCARRRYYYY
@sparklyxshine4796
@sparklyxshine4796 5 жыл бұрын
@@tayen but ugh,even the girl has told you she like him... he told me he cant say anything to it^^ im sure he isnt that sure what he want,because I think he coukld had say no insead of this! & left me with this :( also he could had so,no feels^^
@swahiliranger1022
@swahiliranger1022 5 жыл бұрын
Pfffffttt hahahaha
@nofybn7794
@nofybn7794 5 жыл бұрын
Sorry women are NOT equally priviledged. Guys are "more visual" A guy moves a girl 1 point for personality, a girl moves a guy 4. Big difference. So a girl has to be very attractive from the start. Also girls can not make the first move. They are seen as masculine and they resent her for it eventually. Or "thirsty".
@daniellecruz2570
@daniellecruz2570 7 жыл бұрын
See that’s where I’m conflicted, he does the things when the shy crushes do but when we text, I’m always the one who starts the convo. :/
@GiannaChristine
@GiannaChristine 7 жыл бұрын
Your videos are so interesting!💗
@alogarcia8008
@alogarcia8008 7 жыл бұрын
Kimberly is like an older sister i've never had with love advice😂❤️
@jaylareed3059
@jaylareed3059 7 жыл бұрын
Ok so let's call him Daniel. Me and Daniel have PE together. We stand next to each other in the line up for that class. He's quiet but he's not entirely awkward or anything, more just to himself, but he's super nice and we share the same humor. So one day he played this Pe warmup with me and was teasing me, then he caught up with me and my friend while we were walking home, offered to fight someone when he thought they hurt my feelings, went up to me and asked me what happened & if I was alright after my anxiety attack, walked again with me home, made deadass eye contact for 6 seconds, said hey to me at my locker, blushed when I complimented him, said "this ones for you" and tried to make a basketball shot but adorably failed. But my issue is that he pushes and teases this other girl but idk... I feel like he likes me but like I don't know how to get him to ask me out because I like him a lot too. I only have Pe every other day so I hardly see him but idk how to get him to ask me out. We haven't been speaking too much Idk how to keep him interested, so girls could you help a sister out? :) UPDATE: 9/15/17 We walked again and had a 15 minute conversation about random things and it was sweet they were telling me stories and I was telling them stories ugh😍
@mcna220
@mcna220 7 жыл бұрын
Jayla Reed omg that's so cute!!! idk much abt guys and all that so I don't know enough to help:/
@ashleyarriaga7830
@ashleyarriaga7830 7 жыл бұрын
Jayla Reed so cute, uhh boys are so complicated
@randommm5580
@randommm5580 7 жыл бұрын
Jayla Reed boys are complicated,But in my opinion I think he likes you because he teases you
@ryla3794
@ryla3794 7 жыл бұрын
Jayla Reed Maybe you're in a situation where he likes both of you. Or maybe you're in a situation where he's trying to make you or her jealous. BOYS ARE SO FREAKING COMPLICATED
@vicg0212
@vicg0212 7 жыл бұрын
Jayla Reed I would suggest doing a bit of flirting with him. Watch a bunch of Kim's vids and you will be schooled on so much about guys. Her videos are very helpful, if you haven't watched her "bend and snap" video, you should. Its a very flirty technique that I can't wait to use on my boyfriend at the right time lol. Hope this helped you!!!
@niko-oy1cq
@niko-oy1cq 6 жыл бұрын
So my crush has said that he actually has a crush on me. Why am I here lmao
@lindasanchez6227
@lindasanchez6227 5 жыл бұрын
RynnWing • lucky girl
@lanyg.6492
@lanyg.6492 5 жыл бұрын
Girl same
@lindsayb7509
@lindsayb7509 5 жыл бұрын
You're so lucky!
@zohalfazli
@zohalfazli 7 жыл бұрын
Mt crush isn't even shy? Why am I watching this😂
@Quietjasmijn
@Quietjasmijn 6 жыл бұрын
Zohal Fazli hahaha same
@bahjamoh6196
@bahjamoh6196 6 жыл бұрын
Hhhhh this actually made my day 😂😂😂😂
@randjnation4562
@randjnation4562 6 жыл бұрын
Zohal Fazli she means shy towards you my crush is an extrovert and he acts shy around me
@brit518
@brit518 5 жыл бұрын
😂 same
@beccabee1958
@beccabee1958 7 жыл бұрын
Kimberly, I would like to thank you because u helped me gain enough courage to tell my crush that I like him, and although it's not going to lead to anything right now, the layer of awkwardness is gone and were back to normal, so thank you.
@thorn2374
@thorn2374 7 жыл бұрын
As a shy person I can confirm these action are how I act when I like someone. *tums up*
@neutralas8136
@neutralas8136 6 жыл бұрын
when i know that my crush will never like me back :'))))
@severelydisappointedlion
@severelydisappointedlion 5 жыл бұрын
grazvilea aux so relatable!!
@dapdap1835
@dapdap1835 3 жыл бұрын
(2)
@pastella28
@pastella28 6 жыл бұрын
According to all these tips he likes me yay!! However when we text, he will sometimes will be super talkative and friendly(we will talk about everything) and sometimes I am the only one saying something and he just answers really quickly... what does that mean?
@ty1480
@ty1480 4 жыл бұрын
I think that means you're on the phone too long and you need to get off much quicker. I've had the same thing and then he never calls again. Always be the first to leave the conversation, leaving him wanting more, if he wants you at all that is. If he's not calling you after you've made initial contact that's telling you something. Always keep your dignity.
@Linda-oy6em
@Linda-oy6em 6 жыл бұрын
I’m confused because his body language tells me that he is interested, but I always have to be the one to text him
@jayneisobel6655
@jayneisobel6655 4 жыл бұрын
Linda same!!!
@nataliebates6201
@nataliebates6201 7 жыл бұрын
I love you Kimberly. I watch your videos. I followed you my crush... well a dance was a few days ago. He asked me! He was my first dance! I know sounds silly but yeah. Well he moved school which is sad. My brothers gf is his cousin weird right? Well my best friends is also their cousin small world! We hang out at the lake/ pond things are going well! We are both not aloud to date buuut we may do couple things anyway. Or maybe we are dating... ok yes thanks to you I got my best friends I had a crush on for so long! Thank you sooo much!
@hellenroeser7349
@hellenroeser7349 7 жыл бұрын
Kimberly I am still confused sorry, when we see each other he shows all body signs he is interested but he rarely initiated the talk in texts and never call me😠😂
@ИлиянаРадова
@ИлиянаРадова 7 жыл бұрын
Hellen Roeser The exact same thing is happaning to me every time
@hellenroeser7349
@hellenroeser7349 7 жыл бұрын
Илияна Радова my friend I feel you😂
@keirawalkowiak5907
@keirawalkowiak5907 7 жыл бұрын
Hellen Roeser sorry but if a guy doesn't talk to u it's not a good sign bc your crush if they like you they would go out of their way to talk to u sorry girl their are plenty of fish in the sea
@keirawalkowiak5907
@keirawalkowiak5907 7 жыл бұрын
Well maybe he's shy
@alanaisagoat9884
@alanaisagoat9884 7 жыл бұрын
Hellen Roeser same
@korinasibenik3162
@korinasibenik3162 7 жыл бұрын
Do how to become friends with guy friends
@hatepixie5127
@hatepixie5127 7 жыл бұрын
Korina Cullen I want guy friends too but they seem to have the wrong idea about friendship if u feel me
@mehaksharma2210
@mehaksharma2210 7 жыл бұрын
I'm not even having my crush phone number 😢😢btw my crush is elder than me 2 yrs doesn't matter, but he is talkative n not talkative in front of me... But he is very friendly with every boy I know but not with me 😑😑he doesn't speak with me... Any one having any ideas or something?? So kindly share
@mehaksharma2210
@mehaksharma2210 7 жыл бұрын
Da gamertag ummm ur having a good idea but he is not at all intelligent . Even though I'm younger than him I'm having much knowledge than him.. And he.. Oh god he fails so many of his assignment 😩😩and I got pass in every subject.. He is in ninth but he can't even give the examination of seventh standard... 😥he will fail.. I'm sure 😂😂and if I will taught by him I will be fail too 😂
@candyluna2929
@candyluna2929 7 жыл бұрын
He's gay
@lucyrobin280
@lucyrobin280 7 жыл бұрын
La Dama del Caribe I DIED WHEN I READ THIS COMMENT
@mehaksharma2210
@mehaksharma2210 7 жыл бұрын
Lucy Robin why
@Annabel434
@Annabel434 7 жыл бұрын
Probaley not interested
@puregodd
@puregodd 7 жыл бұрын
Evidence he likes you based on what I've learned so far thx to Kimberly: 1 eye contact 2 keep conversation going 3 finds ways to touch you 4 awkwardness 5 you catch him looking at you 6 makes a big change in something example:likes the things you like all of a sudden 7 helps you if you ask Anymore I've missed?
@caracarabonitaa
@caracarabonitaa 7 жыл бұрын
Lol, everything opposite from what Kimberly said, got me the guy ahaha
@abbyyoung8005
@abbyyoung8005 7 жыл бұрын
Caroline Kim lol
@sarahbrown4507
@sarahbrown4507 6 жыл бұрын
Lol same
@tejuvijayan5838
@tejuvijayan5838 6 жыл бұрын
Haha same
@lucalives96
@lucalives96 6 жыл бұрын
Wow 0-0
@hihi-og6nm
@hihi-og6nm 6 жыл бұрын
He's probably not shy
@naomianderson1321
@naomianderson1321 7 жыл бұрын
I am the really shy one who sees the person i like but dont have confidence to do so. And when if i did i wouod probably be so nervous my hands shake.
@makennamorrow8072
@makennamorrow8072 7 жыл бұрын
Naomi Anderson same
@puregodd
@puregodd 7 жыл бұрын
Same but it's my leg when I'm nervous. the more nervous i am the shaking will literally be from my foot to the entire leg annnnnnd I think during a presentation he say that so.....
@rileyborden2909
@rileyborden2909 7 жыл бұрын
Ok, so here's my problem. So, I have a crush and I see him everyday. In class, we talk so much and we barely stop talking. He is always being really silly and funny and is always blushing and smiling. He sometimes gets nervous around me and when I first met him, he was very nervous and shy but not since we became friends. But as soon as we leave class, he barely talks to me and I will catch him looking at me every so often. But he kinda gives me an intense sorta look but I'm not sure if he likes me or he does and he is also very shy.
@kornilious
@kornilious 7 жыл бұрын
I think he does but he just doesn’t have the courage to come up to you outside of the classroom. It’s a different environment inside a class than it is outside.
@imgonnafillall50characters36
@imgonnafillall50characters36 3 жыл бұрын
Seems like he has a crush on u
@balqissumi
@balqissumi 6 жыл бұрын
now i see my crush isn't into me at all and he keeps avoiding me . imma move on
@ryleereagan1858
@ryleereagan1858 6 жыл бұрын
I’ve never spoken to my crush lmao I don’t know what to do
@jasminecolvin5840
@jasminecolvin5840 5 жыл бұрын
How about speak to him maybe....
@kraftmaccheesy
@kraftmaccheesy 5 жыл бұрын
Rylee Nicole wait how do you have a crush on someone you never talked to lol
@sadboilizz5362
@sadboilizz5362 5 жыл бұрын
compliment them
@latejuly9883
@latejuly9883 7 жыл бұрын
I love her look in this! 😍
@gianinaanne
@gianinaanne 7 жыл бұрын
this is so spot on, as a shy person. I absolutely love your videos
@sakshi5520
@sakshi5520 7 жыл бұрын
I love your flower crown! 😍
@sailorcandy6633
@sailorcandy6633 6 жыл бұрын
I want to give my crush signals that I like him without it being uncomfortable. But it's really hard. When I see him on the halls I make 1 second of eye contact and look away and not greet them. Plus when he asks for help I walk away pretending I don't hear him. And I try avoiding him. It is probably just me or do I act like I hate him or is not just interested
@jekesan4221
@jekesan4221 6 жыл бұрын
A.D.M ! You are being too conscious,you like him but you want him to initiate the contact first lol
@exmachina8475
@exmachina8475 5 жыл бұрын
You might accidentally give him the wrong signs, just be careful of what you’re doing.
@Hawaiiansky11
@Hawaiiansky11 2 жыл бұрын
I asked my college crush one day if I should go out with someone else who had asked me out. I was HOPING to get a response to the effect of "No, he's not right for you," or something like that. He basically said, "Sure, if you like him, why not?" Turns out, my crush really did like me, but was too shy to ask me himself! Then, years later, after we had established a friendship, he called me up one day to ask about a girl he wanted to date. (WHY DO GUYS DO THIS?!?) I presumed that he had put me in the 'friend / tolerable human' zone, so I offered him friendly advice. I remember saying to him, "You should date a girl who likes you for you, not for what you can buy for her," going on about not spending a lot of money on a first date, because it was setting the bar too high, and the girl would have an expectation of him spending all sorts of money on her and he would have a hard time (being a broke-ass college student like me) keeping up with that. He sounded a little disappointed when he hung up the phone. DECADES later, a mutual friend told me, "Oh yeah he had these concert ticket he bought to take you out, but then he ended up giving them to me and another guy." Damn it, if I had any idea that he wanted to date me, I'd have jumped at the chance!! Well, here we are some 30 years later. He's single, I'm single and we're talking again. If he starts that sh** of asking for dating advice from me again, I'm going to be totally blunt and say, "Why are you not asking someone else about dating ME?!?" Dang, guys, please don't "Mr. Rochester" my Jayne Eyre. Not all of us pick on on those hints.
@sabrineghali6230
@sabrineghali6230 Жыл бұрын
Giiirl why dont just give him signes a obvioud ones or tell him directly because you too have already wasting too much Time when a cute love story coule be liké Come un
@emmaevie2362
@emmaevie2362 7 жыл бұрын
You should do a "how to tell a guy you don't like them without hurting them" please
@noname-jo2fc
@noname-jo2fc 7 жыл бұрын
Emma Visser tell him he's like your older brother
@klaus_ali
@klaus_ali 7 жыл бұрын
You can never tell someone that you dont like them without hurting them. But say it as soon as possible so theu could move on fast and stop liking you, to make the pain lesser
@puregodd
@puregodd 7 жыл бұрын
If I could tell u what to say it would tell u to say: hey, look I know that you like me and it's really nice of you but I'm sorry I can't return the feelings I'm so so so so so sorry... But idk what to do
@oreo3850
@oreo3850 2 жыл бұрын
Just say "I have a crush on this guy...." he'll know for sure...
@edensophia2139
@edensophia2139 7 жыл бұрын
Hey Kimbery I Hv a quick question How do u say to a guy that ur not interested in the nicest way because our two families r very close so it would be awkward if I just shut him down xxx
@jessicamichele71
@jessicamichele71 7 жыл бұрын
I love you! You helped me through so so much!😘😘😘😍😍😍💕💕
@mochichks6075
@mochichks6075 7 жыл бұрын
so when me and my crush pass each other in the hall we would make eye contact but then when I walk into the room i don't want to look at him becuz u know ♡_♡ but when he enters the room i literally just sat straight up⬆ like???? Sometimes when I enter the room he does change his body language but sometimes he doesn't? Leik I have so many mixed signals 0_0
@avam3245
@avam3245 7 жыл бұрын
Omg same, my crush is always late, so I wonder if he watches these types of videos, and knows that when I change my posture, it means I like him.
@sparklyxshine4796
@sparklyxshine4796 5 жыл бұрын
me too :(
@shanmugapriya6303
@shanmugapriya6303 4 жыл бұрын
You're kai anime 💞😍
@nicollereyes1722
@nicollereyes1722 7 жыл бұрын
Kimberly was so right about the texting. I was so connected to everything she was saying in the texting category.
@sharanya8645
@sharanya8645 7 жыл бұрын
Omg thank you Kimberly!! This video is literally so helpful👍😘
@dhsjdjdns155
@dhsjdjdns155 6 жыл бұрын
This is way too confusing He talks to his friends but is super nervous around me, but the texting doesn’t go so well so???
@exmachina8475
@exmachina8475 5 жыл бұрын
Mines a bit similar. It definitely did feel like I was trying harder to keep a convo in text and it kinda felt like he wasn’t trying. I’ve also have never had an irl conversation or walked into a room with him already in it so I’m still unsure.
@SachaCutieGirl
@SachaCutieGirl 4 жыл бұрын
Same with the texting but everything checks out but he has two jobs he's a teacher and has a car business so he's super busy and I get nervous and shy around him but I'm hanging in there with this cuz he's just so omg
@faye-louise563
@faye-louise563 4 жыл бұрын
Dhsj Djdns Same he’s just as akward in real life as he is on text but if I walk past him he blushes and looks at the floor
@Just_Stop
@Just_Stop 5 жыл бұрын
Well this isn’t for all boys. I am shy and when I do see my crush walking down the hall I literally am tempted to make eye contact or say hi but I hold my self back because I don’t like anyone knowing who my crush is unless I tell them so I try not to give any hints. But most of what she says is relatable.
@sefadzidzobo7767
@sefadzidzobo7767 2 жыл бұрын
I do that to
@taylork329
@taylork329 7 жыл бұрын
Great video... I've liked this guy for quite a while and didn't think he'd feel the same, assumed he'd be straight, but the more I see him the more it seems mutual. I thought he was disinterested initially, but the last point of the video is exactly what brought me around.. he's kinda awkward and has a hard time starting conversations, but when we do get talking his face just lights up so brilliantly, and he gets really excited and extends conversations as long as possible, laughs quite a lot at my bad jokes, goes out of his way to help me with things, etc. It's adorable, I'm trying to be clear with my signals but it's difficult for such a delicate situation, I know he has anxiety and am just trying to not be too abrasive, but also think a nudge in the right direction would help ease some of the pressure. He has said some stuff that comes off as non-platonic as well, but it seems like he's so shy he literally can't look me in the eye and instead, always looks down or at something he's showing me while we talk. (And yes, he can maintain eye contact with everyone else just fine.)
@country.16
@country.16 Жыл бұрын
For the fifth one What if they dont keep the convo going but they stutter when they talk to you?
@jeniskaduplain5407
@jeniskaduplain5407 7 жыл бұрын
😍😍 love this you slayyy😍💕
@melodysang1419
@melodysang1419 7 жыл бұрын
Whenever my crush sees me he always turns around and takes the long way to wherever he goes.Like ones I was near the stairs talking to my friends and I saw him he was going to the library.(which was near the stairs but there is another door to go there)when he saw me he just turned around and walked away.And when I went to the library I saw him there after when he saw me again he went to a corner (where are CDs)And he was talking to his friends.He is pretty confident other girls but always like this to me.I can't approach him because my face becomes a tomato whenever I see him.so....yeah I really wanna know what's wrong with him does he hate me or something?
@safiyasadventure3538
@safiyasadventure3538 7 жыл бұрын
-KAWAII KITTEN- same here😩😩
@mchouaa
@mchouaa 7 жыл бұрын
I wish I discovered you sooner when I was having trouble figuring out if the guy I had a crush on liked me or not. It was totally confusing, but after watching this it totally related to how he acted towards me & yes he liked me back and we’re together now!
@makennamorrow8072
@makennamorrow8072 3 жыл бұрын
Aww that’s so cute
@galinaioffe2250
@galinaioffe2250 7 жыл бұрын
#5 VALID. 9 of 10 the point of conversation with your crush is to get to know them and if they are not asking you type of question you are asking, they are definitely not interested.
@toptaemin1278
@toptaemin1278 6 жыл бұрын
You will feel it guys if they are into you You will also feel it if they are not into you😀 End of conversation.
@sparklyxshine4796
@sparklyxshine4796 5 жыл бұрын
yes but what if hes to scared?!
@notava6601
@notava6601 7 жыл бұрын
The struggle when your crush “doesn’t believe in social media” (that’s just what mine said to me)
@wanderingbelle7
@wanderingbelle7 6 жыл бұрын
the struggle when you don't believe in social media:)
@thinkingofaname6233
@thinkingofaname6233 6 жыл бұрын
Ava Is Trashy social media is trash, never used it, never will. Idk why that suddenly makes you unattractive. *ong u don’t use online cancer? I hate u*
@exmachina8475
@exmachina8475 5 жыл бұрын
Thinking of A Name You’re probably baiting but just in case you’re legit, YT technically counts as a social media platform.
@xXIsopodAngel69805Xx
@xXIsopodAngel69805Xx 5 жыл бұрын
This is actually very helpful! I’m interested in a guy and I’m currently working up the confidence to speak to him! Mainly because I’ve been in this situation before and without this advice, it DID NOT go well. He was uninterested when talking to me and sucked at texting so yeah I got turned down but uh I’ll give this new one a shot
@multixgrazer929
@multixgrazer929 7 жыл бұрын
Hey girl! Love the flower crown! 😆😆🌹🌹🌸🌸🌷🌷
@Emma-wh7fg
@Emma-wh7fg 7 жыл бұрын
Why Don't We Fan my lime lights!
@multixgrazer929
@multixgrazer929 7 жыл бұрын
Sally Wynter Yes hey limelight!!!
@hallo_1251
@hallo_1251 7 жыл бұрын
Why Don't We Fan Same! It looks so good on her... I am a fan to, my favorite is Daniel and Zach, who is your favorite?😊💙
@multixgrazer929
@multixgrazer929 7 жыл бұрын
Hi People Zach!! I met him recently and i hugged him twice and got a picture with him!! Best day of my life!! 😂😂😂😍😍😍💖💖💖
@hallo_1251
@hallo_1251 7 жыл бұрын
Why Don't We Fan I want a picture with Daniel😊
@flowerglow8262
@flowerglow8262 6 жыл бұрын
This was really helpful! I had so many mixed feelings whether my crush liked me or not. But, after watching this, I figure he really is a shy guy. Whenever we pass each other, we look at each other's eyes and then give a very quick and awkward smile to each other. That happens everytime we have this chance. One time, I mean most of the time, at lunch, he tends to be with his pals and Im with my gals. He is very talkative around them; of course, I am the same with mine. After lunch, whenever we line up in the hallways with the same class, we are in the usuals lining up literally back to back from each other. This, he kind of becomes quiet and he seems like he wants me to look at him and start a conversation. The problem is, Im not a very sociable person with guys... I feel tense whenever Im around a lot of the guys he is friends with. I guess I didn't want to feel judged around them. Come to think of it, his groups is quite similar to my groups of friends... I should talk to him, but Im too nervous. Another problem is, what should I say?
@emilyrose3490
@emilyrose3490 5 жыл бұрын
8:00 why do i always have the feeling that no ones interrested in what i'm telling...? And girls/boyd it's not about your crush being shy to everyone but being shy just to you
@ilovemakeup_xoxo3913
@ilovemakeup_xoxo3913 7 жыл бұрын
heyyy kimberly❤❤❤ i am earlyy
@nialawes9606
@nialawes9606 7 жыл бұрын
Hi kimberley! Your videos are AMAZING!
@alexismartin4470
@alexismartin4470 6 жыл бұрын
Honestly this helped a lot! I was told he was shy but this really made it clear that he might actually be interested just not as confident lol Thanks Kimberly!😊
@dilarakarabulut1243
@dilarakarabulut1243 7 жыл бұрын
I love you so much, thank you for everything 💖
@godyerin2826
@godyerin2826 5 жыл бұрын
This guy I’m seeing is like really difficult to talk to over text... like I’m always gearing the conversation and I’m already really bad at conversation. He doesn’t ask questions or ask about my day... it’s just really difficult because he’s 6ft4 😂😂
@RichaKumariGMSTelipuraJagadhar
@RichaKumariGMSTelipuraJagadhar 6 жыл бұрын
Today I am damn sure that he likes me . I was really confused for so many months that he likes me or not because he is a shy guy . But you made it clear for me that he definitely likes me secretly and he's just unable to gather up some courage to talk to me openly. Anyway, thank you so much acknowledge people about love and their crush .
@teohyaosheng4213
@teohyaosheng4213 7 жыл бұрын
i am literally watching another video and then a new ask kimberly is posted so i am here lol
@alexandravar.3661
@alexandravar.3661 7 жыл бұрын
Well...I'm pretty sure I have the most difficult situation in this channel. ..A friend of mine had the idea to prank call a guy that she new and we ended up talking like...4 times a week. ( cause he lives on an Island near the one I'm living in Greece )..so one day I had a sleepover with some friends and we watched 13 reasons why ,btw I didn't really wanted to watch it....After like 3 episodes I realised that the guy we prank called was like a twin with the actor of the series..so I tested at 1 am and he responded so we were like texting till 3 am , he asked if I had a bf , he told me how amazing I am etc...now he doesn't text first but whenever I call him we have a conversation going and I looking forwards for Christmas cause he's coming to the island I'm living.... Well if u made till here...good 4 u😂😂😂😚😚😚
@AlinaK-d9z
@AlinaK-d9z 7 жыл бұрын
alexandra var how is that a difficult situation? Sounds awesome
@alexandravar.3661
@alexandravar.3661 7 жыл бұрын
alina wiseau Well yeah, at this point we text and video call daily, so okey I take it back😆😆😆
@potterfan2770
@potterfan2770 7 жыл бұрын
alexandra var girl we need an update what’s up
@abgang2259
@abgang2259 6 жыл бұрын
Update us on the situation please 😂
@zoeh.4421
@zoeh.4421 5 жыл бұрын
I just realized that my crush (everyone knows he's shy) is fine talking to other people, but around me he stays quiet and there's a lot of eye contact 😆
@rlxcrl2022
@rlxcrl2022 6 жыл бұрын
"they will be way more fun and engaged via text message than in person", this has helped me so much because when I see him in person I feel like he doesn't like me but then again he is quite shy
@kayceemee6129
@kayceemee6129 7 жыл бұрын
My favorite back to school flirting hack is the sticky notes or games! I swear, amazing
@meowmeowmeowmeow2017
@meowmeowmeowmeow2017 7 жыл бұрын
This video really cleared up a lot of stuff 😔😔😔
@victorianino3189
@victorianino3189 7 жыл бұрын
Guys, I still have feelings for my ex and he's a bit shy. I try to have small convo with him but he doesn't have the effort to make eye contact or try to be involve with the conversation whatsoever. There's this fall formal coming up in my school (Harvest) and "supposedly" he already found a date which he brags about to his friends to in the hall. The reason is that we both have classes in the same hall and I hang out with his friends, so he's bragging how 'HOT' she is and looking at me at the same time. I'm confused 🤕 Boys are difficult...
@QueenGreed
@QueenGreed 6 жыл бұрын
Victoria //Tori I think he's trying to make you jealous...
@thinkingofaname6233
@thinkingofaname6233 6 жыл бұрын
Tori .N boys are difficult? This is an attempt at jealousy plain and simple. It’s you girls who are impossible to understand always running away playing hard to get then getting bitchy if we don’t try to chase.
@christinalillbellspark8284
@christinalillbellspark8284 5 жыл бұрын
I feel like when I text him I am the one having to ask the question
@melly.m5229
@melly.m5229 5 жыл бұрын
Christina Woodhams someone who’s interested In you would wanna ask questions and know more about you! Unless he’s more talkative and asks them in person then he’s prob not a texter but yea I wish you luck girl♥️
@lizbetht317
@lizbetht317 6 жыл бұрын
When it comes to texting my crush he'll text me and then take long to respond and will text back. Other times just leave me on read but will open quickly. He's nicer when he isn't around his friends and he seems imtrested in our conversation. When we walk past each other we don't acknowledge eachother maybe a little eye contact but not a hey or anything. When he's around his friends he doesn't fully acknowledge me unless his friends walk up to me.
@lucalives96
@lucalives96 6 жыл бұрын
OMG kimberly thank you! Thanks to you I was able too notice that my crush... DOES ACTUALLY LIKE ME THANK YOU!!!
@persephonekatmanivong2271
@persephonekatmanivong2271 6 жыл бұрын
When i walk by my crush i ignore him and look down lol so....
@niko-oy1cq
@niko-oy1cq 6 жыл бұрын
ugh same he actually talks to me and says hi to me he does this everytime I walk by him 😹
@maryamtahouri8928
@maryamtahouri8928 7 жыл бұрын
Omg my crush is a boy and I'm in primary and he likes me😱 He walked across a hallway at school and he did not even say a word
@secilperkins
@secilperkins 5 жыл бұрын
Literally i’m thinkin’ bout this quesiton for about 2 years
@aWERFRGT6545BGFG
@aWERFRGT6545BGFG 5 жыл бұрын
The hi in hall: He would maybe say something like have a good day or have a good night...that or he would look at me confused or annoyed and walk away. I don't talk in group scenarios....but if im there, he will go quiet but its like as if he is forced to be nice or he just seems annoyed as hell We don't text For a while, he will be facing me and be near me..for the next while..after it gets awkward and weird he will be facing away and want nothing to do with me and when the bell goes he will run out of the room Somewhat..but he doesn't really ask questions ...its weird...sometimes he does keep up the conversation..sometimes he doesn't
@bakedorange5199
@bakedorange5199 4 жыл бұрын
Dang he confusing as heck😂it could be he's just nervous, try giving him some hints/flirting...if that doesn't work and he seems completely disintrested then he probably doesn't like you like that. Anyway, have a good day/night🙂
@katehill6228
@katehill6228 7 жыл бұрын
I have a crush on this one guy. I have liked him since I met him and he liked me too. At this one football game his friend came up to me and said “ one of my friends wants to know if you will go out with him” I said no and afterwards I went up to him and said “really”🤦🏽‍♀️ what was I thinking??😂 His friends all said that he will still like me though. Recently I learned that he is dating someone else. I keep getting this feeling he is trying to make me jealous. He is always staring at me and I can’t stop thinking about him!! Explain this to me pleasseeeee!!!
@ilovemakeup_xoxo3913
@ilovemakeup_xoxo3913 7 жыл бұрын
Does Kimberly reply when you are early? ✌
@AskKimberly
@AskKimberly 7 жыл бұрын
ilovemakeup_ xoxo sometimes I do!!!! 😘😘😘
@ilovemakeup_xoxo3913
@ilovemakeup_xoxo3913 7 жыл бұрын
Ask Kimberly omg omg omg thank you ily😘😘😘😘😘😘✌✌✌
@mahekmajithia7039
@mahekmajithia7039 7 жыл бұрын
Ask Kimberly your eyeshadow is on point
@reganmatthews1193
@reganmatthews1193 7 жыл бұрын
Ask Kimberly omg I love your videos and my favourite one of your hacks is the pen drop
@lizzlifes9356
@lizzlifes9356 7 жыл бұрын
Ask Kimberly okay so I rly need help I have 3 guys in my social studies class and 2 of them like me a lot but one is rly shy and I’m not exactly interested in him the other guys calls me the wrong name all the time on purpose and he always talks to me and sometime it’s rly annoying bec we aren’t suppose to talk. The 3rd guy came up to me 2 weeks ago and asked what my name was and I told him and then I went in early for school and he came up to me and started talking to me so I think he likes me a little but he likes another girls who I’m kind of friends with OML Kimberly Please help me what should I do
@sofisoyi
@sofisoyi 7 жыл бұрын
So is it true that if you're early Kimberly likes and comments on your post? 💜 P.S. my crush (whos shy) and me are dating now tysm Kim!!❤️😘ily!!
@ladydeborah305
@ladydeborah305 7 жыл бұрын
I need help so today at lunch I wanted to talk to my bf but he kinda ignored me. Then me and my friend tried to talk to him after lunch and he was just awkward. And thee is a school dance coming up soon. Any advice
@tulipska
@tulipska 6 жыл бұрын
kitty 5707 if you don't mind telling me.... what happened??
@leahh929
@leahh929 6 жыл бұрын
Kitty 5707 just tell him that would you like to go to the dance with me (simply)
@thinkingofaname6233
@thinkingofaname6233 6 жыл бұрын
kitty 5707 ask him to dance (too late I’m guessing) but why do u think he should do something first?
@tifftiff2768
@tifftiff2768 6 жыл бұрын
My shy crush found out that I like him... these are the things that he started doing 1) He started acting weird while texting like he was nervous to talk about his feelings 2) He told one of his friends that he has mixed feelings about it and confused 3) I got his phone number and started texting him and tried to avoid the conversation by saying things like “Wrong number” and ask me questions like “ How old are you” and he also said “ Send a pic”. It’s weird, he normally doesn’t talk to me like that... Any advice???
@miisakajaste5897
@miisakajaste5897 6 жыл бұрын
Omg i am loving that hairband you look gorgeous!!
@belpix9924
@belpix9924 7 жыл бұрын
I need to get you a shirt the says "Love Doctor"
@aliciaa7192
@aliciaa7192 5 жыл бұрын
When I'm talking with my friends my crush be playing basketball like usual 😂💀
@melodyrieger2540
@melodyrieger2540 7 жыл бұрын
How do you know if youre in ❤
@KG-kl8od
@KG-kl8od 7 жыл бұрын
Melody Rieger She already made a video about that
@melodyrieger2540
@melodyrieger2540 7 жыл бұрын
Romance Drawer oh oops forgot
@heatherstewart5134
@heatherstewart5134 7 жыл бұрын
This is so helpful because I like a boy who is kinda mean but when he is near me he turns bright red and doesn't talk! Thank you thank you!
@AlandraDale
@AlandraDale 7 жыл бұрын
You literally go so in-depth and i love it!
@keepcalmandlovejaiden2488
@keepcalmandlovejaiden2488 7 жыл бұрын
Can you make a video about shy girls? I don't know if there's a difference but if there is, I definitely want to know it
@kristinasater2183
@kristinasater2183 7 жыл бұрын
keepcalmandlovejaiden 2 What she said is honestly the same for both genders, it is after all body language.
@Mm-ig5zr
@Mm-ig5zr 7 жыл бұрын
Hey guys I heard when u are early Kimberly replies
@roromsp7499
@roromsp7499 7 жыл бұрын
LUKE BRYAN FAN OMG SHE LOVED THISS😛
@Mm-ig5zr
@Mm-ig5zr 7 жыл бұрын
Love you Kimberly
@ummhi8206
@ummhi8206 7 жыл бұрын
Omg this is the video I needed😱
@dobrusiastaszewska7054
@dobrusiastaszewska7054 7 жыл бұрын
Park that Jimin yus park dat booty Jimin! Lol remember when Jake Paul said his gang is the strongest army out there 😂 Haha nice try, BTS is EVERYWHERE
@ummhi8206
@ummhi8206 7 жыл бұрын
Dobrusia Staszewska Omg😂😂 when I saw Jake Paul's name I thought you are going to say something serious. Turns out you are an army 😂😘😘😘 saranghae💗👊
@farahayman9901
@farahayman9901 3 жыл бұрын
When he was sitting in the room and i just came he wasnt sitting straight or anything but he didnt change his position he waited like a minute and then he left the room and came back sitting straight so i am not sure what that means And once i was talking with my friend and he was near so I tried to talk to him and he kept the conversation for a little then again just went i kind of felt offended that he just went but i am dont know if its cuz he is shy or not interested but didnt want to seem rude Help me guys😂🔪
@zippyblessed839
@zippyblessed839 3 жыл бұрын
He not interested....NEXT
@alextaylor9112
@alextaylor9112 6 жыл бұрын
i joined my crush’s friendship group a few months ago in around late march but i left to join another one in late may, thing is his group and mine hang out at break very near each other so we still end up talking to each other sometimes. we have a few mutual friends and when we’re in a group setting he always seems to look at me and talk to me and seems interested in what i have to say, but when we’re alone it’s sort of awkward. he looks/stares in my direction a lot but sort of tries to hide it and when we make eye contact for a long duration of time he gives me the middle finger (as a joke). he remembers a lot of small details about me, like once he even remembered where i was born. we walk the same way home together so sometimes it’s just me and him and i’ll be telling him a story like that one last week about seeing my pe teacher in town and he won’t look at me as we’re walking (he looks straight ahead or at the ground) but he listens to me and smile/laughs at the right time. he always teases me BUT it happens a lot, and he does that to other girls. and he thinks i’m good-looking, he’s mentioned it before .i know it sounds like he likes me and i’m trying to rely on my gut instinct but i don’t know what my gut instinct is telling me! a sign he doesn’t like me is that i had him on instagram a while ago and he unfollowed me (it was a few weeks ago but still) and also these signs only seem relevant to me now, like i’ve only just started noticing them this past week as my crush on him is starting to develop if you get what i mean, so i don’t know if i’m just convincing myself that he likes me.
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